when in certain situations with another person , if you act helpless and ignorant , as if the person isnt afflicted with the same condition , doing this without pride , often , then , the other person will be something close to the self the person is when in privateor a self the person wants to beor sometimes a self the is the sad truth of circumstance , or other honest selves , opening up to the non-threat of yourevealingmaking claims and expressions with confidence because they wont be pushed against .