but as long as were in the realm of graphic detail ( and as partial penance for the preceding coyness ) , ill venture to add that sexual congress in wartrust is so different ( and better ) than sex back in the real world as to be a totally different ( and thoroughly untamed ) animal , so different in fact that its taken as common knowledge that once youve screwed in a warzone youre ruined for lifeyoull never find that intensity or release back in the real world .