and you have a good laugh over that since only assholes get married in their first tour because most of these women they only want the paycheck and theyre off getting laid the night after you pull out for the cruise and you tell mike about your first night on base when you went over to the enlisted club for a beer and you started dancing with this chick and then she asked if you wanted to go home with her and when you didnt answer right away she said it was okay because her husband was out at sea [ 47 ] .