trail of multicolored dress socks in his wake , out of this cream colored room of this urban living at its best enclave , the restaurant next door , the girls with their lawyer boyfriends by the pool , this was mediated living at its finest , pre-approved and sanctioned by the grandest corporations of the nicest websites , attractive people but not beautiful people made us think we are like them , which we were though we didnt want to acknowledge , all of us had too much in common to be comfortable .