a social , and especially a noble act , defy instinct , emotions , pleasures , and reflexes as well as norm and inclination , and concentrates on fulfillment rather than happiness.113 and a youth who witnesses that survival instincts govern every organism is all the more reliant on his family for any model of the good that might , to some degree , attest otherwise ; but most often in this institution the good is merely the defining of the bad , and the bad , more times than not , is violating the sensitivities of parents in the venal quest for procurement .