moles gain pleasures in being underground , birds of the sky , prehistoric man in the hunt , romans of gladiator games , a microcosm symbolic of the macrocosm , and those in violent ghettos today in the same manly early displays of survival ( genghis khan purportedly saying , the greatest joy for a man is to defeat his enemies , to drive them before him , to take from them all they possess , to see those they love in tears , to ride their horses , and to hold their wives and daughters in his arms76 ) .