and then the man asks his wife if she would be willing to take the children up ahead a little bit while we catch up , and she seems a little bit annoyed , but agrees , and she tells me that it was nice to finally meet the legendary luke kolbe and she seems sincere , so i thank her sincerely , and watch as they all walk away , and when they are out of sight , the man grins and says to me , man , what are you doing here ?