mans whole essence is a composite of self-delusions : his ability to conceptualize enough of the dangers of future scenarios stifles appreciation of the present moment with most thoughts set in futuristic hopes enhanced all the more by pleasure inducements of endorphins and dopamine that cause him to live mostly in this imaginary realm ; he , like a pederast making contributions to a boys school to have greater access to human flesh , needs to think of himself as a good being , a benefactor if only of his own pocket ( the impecunious and indigent he sees around him deserving the fates that they have been allotted ) ; as a gentleman , he treats his female friends to expensive dinners , his ideas latently fixated on future intercourse the whole time ( the male bringing to the female the worm and the harmony of his song to ease her stress at being subject to predation for the purpose of securing mating rights for himself77 ) .there is pleasure in the profane of this less than optimal world , this squalid existence .