to illustrate the point even further , in her 30s she was raising 3 kids completely on her own ( without any help from her now-ex-husband who split his time between getting drunk , hiding empty bottles , passing out , urinating on himself , stealing his sons ritalin , not making any money to support the family , accusing her of cheating on him , and threatening to divorce her ) , she was working full-time at a fortune 500 company as a finance manager , and she was attending the nightly executive program at a top 25 business school for her mba .