still focusing on the box of cereal , but now from two angles , the person realized that the decision to be in this lane at this time could play a part of one or more of the people behind in the same line being or not somewhere at the right or wrong moment where a car accident could happen or not , where a close friend could first be met or not , where someone could find themselves in a situation where many experiences and perspectives come together so what never made sense suddenly does or not , where an infinite variety of possible wonderful , horrible and just okay occurrences could happen because of the influence of one simple , insignificant choice .