even though he didnt achieve much success in spiritual development , even though he didnt manage to reach his final freedom of the soul , to unite with eternal love , with god , nirvana , call it as you wish , or to get to heaven or to the kingdom of god in the interpretation of religions , but he was developing his soul , he was striving for this heaven is not a place where you physically hang out with your friends , the ones who , like you , prayed in church , because its fashionable and consider themselves enlightened .