oh , he loved and loathed her , he hated her and cherished her , he needed her and needed to run from her , she was his and he was hers and ( i now pronounce you man and wife joined and sealed from this day forth for ever and ever , until death do you part ) but worst of all was the horror , the terrible numbing horror , the realization that ... that ... ( how did you hurt your back that night , arnie ?