she claimed to have `` made it '' with the dokken bassist , and said it had been `` the most bitchin-groovy experience of my life '' ; she had just `` cried and cried '' after the deaths of her mother and father within twenty-four hours of each other , even though her mother was a `` bitchy prude '' and her father `` had a stick up his ass '' about ronnie , her boyfriend who had left town to join the marines ; she had plans to become either a beautician in wichita when she graduated high school , or to `` truck on out to hollywood and get a job with one of those companies that do the homes of the stars , i 'm bitchin-groovy at interior decoration , and mary beth said she 'd come with me . ''