"Principles of Adult Behavior" by JP Barlow
OK, I see why people like this list.  But I would definitely argue with several of the principles presented.Here are some examples.Be patient. No matter what.
There are times when presenting impatience is the right way to get results.  They are usually overused, but deadlines do have a proper place in your motivational toolbox.Never assume the motives of others are, to them, less noble than yours are to you.
Never?  And what if the other is lying, cheating and stealing?  I fully agree with "do not lightly assume", but "never" is the wrong standard.Never lie to anyone for any reason. (Lies of omission are sometimes exempt.)
If a person is using force to attempt to steal from me, or harm those I care about, it is fine for me to lie to them in self-defense.  Again, "never" is the wrong standard.Reduce your use of the first personal pronoun.
I find that people are much more likely to accept and act on criticism if I tell a story about myself which parallels the problem that I see.  (Sadly "much more" does not mean "very".)  This is a concrete example of how my increasing my use of "the first personal pronoun" was a good thing, not a bad one.Remember that love forgives everything.
Only if you define forgiveness in the right way.  If someone steals from me, and I have a loving understanding of them, then I can forgive them their past action.  But I still probably shouldn't put myself in a position where they can steal from me in the future.Endure.
I did that with my ex for a quarter century.  I learned that some things SHOULD NOT be endured.  My life is much better now.