Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?
When my then-gf/now-wife and I first moved in together, I got really mad at her because she kept "hiding" my stuff when I left it out for more than a day. I couldn't find anything!At some point, I yelled, "It's like you don't even want to see any of my things when I'm not using them!" Then I stopped for a second. For the first time in my life, it made sense.The whole point of putting things away is to hide them! No one wants to look at your crap when you're not using it.