The strange fate of a person falling into a black hole
So I've had a question about stellar mass black holes that I can't seem to be able to get answered (the question was deleted for /r/askscience).How does a stellar mass black hole actually form a singularity given the fact that there's gravitational time dilation?  Wouldn't the heart of a black hole slow down relative to an outside observer as mass is added to it so that you never actually reach infinite density?  It seems like you're fighting the upwards curve of a parabola to make that happen, and meanwhile you're releasing pressure from above via hawking radiation.