Self-improvement is embracing your messy, imperfect life
I wholeheartedly disagree with this defeatist attitude, which is supposed to magically lead to change more than actually planning and actioning chance itself.Nowhere in life change happens without trauma. Get good at trauma and you'll get good at life.I suggest to learn one's own limits through suffering and systematically repeated failure. It's the only way to build not only a map of current yourself, but also a trail towards your future self.Time is ticking, memento mori, the beatings will continue until morale improves.