"Lighten up"
I'm a bit late to the party here but isn't she being sexist too?For example, with the notes issue - how does she know that she is being chosen because she's female. She probably doesn't. She's probably assuming that's the reason, because men are misogynist pigs, right?It's one of those situations where we can't tell at all. The mens rea, if there is one, is hidden.Why doesn't she assume that she takes the best notes or that the boss thinks that because of her CV [made up example:] having documentation experience or the best English pass scores of the group that she'll be the best note taker.