Linux ate my RAM 
This is actually wrong. For some reason (probably because of the way it's implemented internally) Linux includes shared memory allocations in the "cached" figure. If you calculate the amount of free memory using "free -m" in the way this web page advises, you'll think that memory is free when it really isn't - unlike true cache, shared memory cannot be discarded when the space is needed for something else.I've actually had buggy desktop applications use several gigabytes of RAM as shared memory, so this can make a big difference.