Mix 1/2 shot glass of coconut nectar or agave nectar with 1 shot hot water. Stir until nectar is dissolved and it makes a simple syrup. Add Spiced Rum and Lime juice. Stir. Add ice to fill tumbler glass and garnish with a slice of lime.
There was a popular song a while back that stated a man wants: "a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed". While the statement may sound crude. It is true. I dare you to ask any man. Contrary to what most young girls believe, Men do not want their Woman to dress slutty in public. They want little subtle hints. Anklets, necklaces, a Nice dress that gives a hint of cleavage. A little lace, a slit... those are teasers that work perfectly. Not too much and not too little. Reserve the slutty stuff for when you are home alone. If you can get that mix perfect then you will drive your man crazy.