Who are you in competition with? Yourself? Your neighbours? The mums at the school gate? Christmas isn't a showcase and there is no need to go bigger and better than everyone around you. Do the necessary; don't try to be a hero.
Christmas is a time for helping others, so make sure you have people around to help you! If you're inviting people for lunch, suggest that they each bring something to contribute to the meal. If you have a partner, share the Christmas shopping duties with them. If you have friends close by, organise a gift wrapping party. Don't be afraid to ask for a lending hand – people like to help, especially at this time of year.
Let's be honest, there comes a time when you just have to let go of those Christmas traditions! If you find yourself dragging your partner to The Nutcracker for the 15th year in the row, or your kids are whining at the thought of yet another Christmas Carol concert, do something else! Christmas is a time to enjoy, not just to stick by the "rules"!
Here's to your most stress-free Christmas ever!