Taking that problem aside, I asked myself if a daughter can rely upon her father on such compliments anyway After all, it's his casual paternal tripping to see me forever as a youngster (which helps at times when one nears 30) and beautiful. I have concerns about my outlook as much as every female and being the perfectionist I am, unless one day I manage to stop the traffic as I gracefully pass the street, I will never be totally convinced that I am a good looking human being unless after those rare moments when I am pampered by a facial or straight out of the hairdresser or all waxed up and ready to show off those legs with a micro skirt.