The rock-like Puritan work ethic of strength and vitality and self-worth through labor and personal fortitude, or the wallowing in sybaritic excesses flavored with New Age-ish wisps of self-care and mindful soul activity? And can I also point out that whenever I hear the phrase "self-care," I think of either a) the ability to cleanse one's personal regions adequately after using the toilet, or b) probably masturbation.