And I graduated high school without ever going to the cafeteria, where I would have sat with the girls and been laughed at for doing so, or sat with the boys and been laughed at for being a boy who should be sitting with the girls.
我直到高中毕业， 我都从没去过学校的食堂， 在那儿我如果和女生坐在一起， 那么我会被笑话， 或者如果我和男生坐在一起 那么我会被笑话为一个 本应该跟女生坐在一起的男生。