It's not having experiences that make us wise, it's reflecting on the experiences that we've had that makes us wise -- and that helps us become whole, brings wisdom and authenticity.
这并不是去获得 使人智慧的体验， 但是这反映出我们已经有了 使自己变得智慧的体验－ 从而使我们达到完整， 得到智慧和真实。