Growing up as a boy, we were taught that men had to be tough, had to be strong, had to be courageous, dominating -- no pain, no emotions, with the exception of anger -- and definitely no fear; that men are in charge, which means women are not; that men lead, and you should just follow and do what we say; that men are superior; women are inferior; that men are strong; women are weak;
从小男孩起，我们学到 男人应该意志坚强，身体强壮， 有勇气，有支配权-- 没有痛苦，没有感情， 除了愤怒之外-- 男人什么都不怕-- 男人全权负责，主管一切， 而女人不是； 男人是领导， 女人应该只是跟随和做男性吩咐的事； 男人带有优越性，女人是低人一等； 男人是强大的，女人弱小；