And I decided that I had compromised, just like my friends in those discussions, where we told stories in contexts we made excuses for, rather than taking responsibility for.
之后，我决定需有所妥协 就像那些争论中的我的朋友们那样 争论来争论去 讲不着边际的话不过是给自己寻找借口 而不是为了承担责任