If alternatives are equally good, you should just flip a coin between them, and it seems a mistake to think, here's how you should decide between careers, places to live, people to marry: Flip a coin.
如果选项都一样好， 那还不如直接抛硬币算了， 这样就会产生思想误区， 让你认为自己选择事业、 住处、婚嫁时都抛硬币选择就好了。