And so it is not just what's happening to these people -- whether they're losing weight or gaining weight, or becoming rich or becoming poor, or becoming happy or not becoming happy -- that affects us; it's also the actual architecture of the ties around us.
所以不仅仅是这些人所经历的事情── 他们在减肥还是在增肥，在变富还是在变穷， 在快乐还是在不快乐──影响着我们； 同时影响我们的 还有我们彼此关系所组成的实质结构。