That's what it means to be an ally, and if you're going to be an ally, you have to be an active ally: Ask questions, act when you hear something inappropriate, actually engage.
这就是成为盟友的意义。 而如果你想要成为盟友， 你必须是一个积极的盟友。 提出问题， 听到不恰当的观点时积极回应， 切实参与进去。