I think what I'm trying to say here is that if your end goal is security, and if that's all you're focusing on, what ends up happening is that you create not only more insecurity in other people, but you make yourself far more insecure.
我想我在这里要说的就是 如果你的终极目标是安全 而你只关注安全本身，那结果就是 你不只让其他的人感到更加的不安全 也让你自己愈发没有安全感