But if seeking meaning matters more than finding meaning, the question is not whether I'd be happier for having been bullied, but whether assigning meaning to those experiences has made me a better father.
但如果寻求意义 比找到意义更重要， 那问题不是我是不是因为被欺负 而更加快乐， 而是这些被赋予意义 的经历 是否让我成为更好的父亲。