On the other hand if you can't go, you can't have pleasure, you can't culminate, you don't have an orgasm, you don't get excited because you spend your time in the body and the head of the other and not in your own.
另一方面，如果你没有性爱，你不会享受到快感， 不会有性亢奋，不会有高潮 你不会兴奋，因为你花太多的时间在别人的身体上 或心理上，而忽略了自己的身体和想法。