And I need to prove to them that, yes, you can still be married, you can still be a mother, and you can still be respected within the society, but at the same time, that doesn't mean you [should] just be one of the crowd.
我要证明给他们看，你仍然可以结婚， 你仍然能成为一个母亲， 仍然可以在社会上得到尊重， 但与此同时， 这并不意味着你必须与众人一样。