I think our tendency is to hope things will turn out the way we want them to much of the time, but we don't do the things that are necessary to make those things become reality.
我觉得我们一般倾向于希望事情会如我们所愿的发展， 非常多的时候。但是我们没有去做那些 能使这些愿望成为现实的必须的努力。