And those who didn't die lived often very tethered to the ground, could not experience pleasure, could not trust, because when you're vigilant, worried, anxious, and insecure, you can't lift your head to go and take off in space and be playful and safe and imaginative.
那些没死过的人一般都很现实 无法体会快感，不信任人 因为他们过于谨慎、杞人忧天、焦虑 没有安全感，不能自信地 在性爱中解放自我，没有情趣，没安全感也缺乏想象力。