And outworn usages like "smack" for "kiss" or "hit" can help us see how our unacknowledged assumptions can make us believe we are bad, either because sex is sinful or because we tolerate so much sexism.
陈旧的用法，如「拍打」指「亲吻」 或「击打」，让我们认识到 不足的认知会让我们做出 「自己很坏」的假设， 或因为性是罪恶的， 或因为我们忍受了太多的性别歧视。