And I think the reality is that love is a process, and I think the problem with thinking of love as something that's binary is that it causes us to be unduly concerned that love is fraudulent, or inadequate, or what have you.
而我认为其实爱是一个过程。 我觉得把爱看成是二进制 是有问题的， 它会促使我们 过分担心 爱是虚伪的，不充分的， 或者你到底爱了什么。