And putting yourself in the position of the person, and I think that's one of the threads that I've heard again from this conference is how do we put ourselves in other peoples' shoes and really feel what they feel?
把自己换个角度来思考， 在TED集会上，我反复听到的一个思路就是 如何把自己放到别人的角度上去思考问题， 站在他们立场上去体会他们的感受