And nowadays, at least some of us can choose our sense of home, create our sense of community, fashion our sense of self, and in so doing maybe step a little beyond some of the black and white divisions of our grandparents' age.
而现今，至少一部分人可以选择 自己对家庭的归属感， 创建对社区的归属感， 塑造自我形象， 这样做了之后 我们不再像祖辈们那样 有鲜明的黑白对立了。