And what they're very prepared to do is recognize that yes, this is going to be an argument, and yes I'm going to have a lot of rows with my neighbors and my colleagues and my friends, but I'm going to become very good at this conflict.
而且，他们非常愿意承认， 是的，这将会是一场旷日持久的争论， 是的，我的邻居，我的同事，我的朋友们 都会反对我， 但是，在这场冲突中我会变得非常好。