Basically, when I get back in touch with my ability to imagine myself with my partner, when my imagination comes back in the picture, and when I can root it in absence and in longing, which is a major component of desire.
也就是，当我能用我的想象力 想像我和爱人在一起的时候， 当我的想像力能回到这方面来的时候， 当爱人不在而我又想要的时候 这就是性欲的主要组成部分