And that sounds really heavy, but in the last five or 10 years, have there been some decisions that if you'd made a different decision, your life would be completely different?
那听起来很沉重，但过去的5或10年， 或15年里，有哪些事情是 如果当初你做了一个不同的决定， 你的生命将完全的不同？你能想到多少个这样的决定？