My younger sister, who's not in the picture, when we had family meetings -- and it's not a huge family, but I have, like, a couple of cousins -- she would prep me beforehand.
我还有个妹妹，她不在照片里， 当我们全家聚在一起的时候—— 我家人不算多，但我有好几个侄子侄女—— 她会事先给我打预防针。