From field studies to laboratory studies, we see that winning or losing an election, gaining or losing a romantic partner, getting or not getting a promotion, passing or not passing a college test, on and on, have far less impact, less intensity and much less duration than people expect them to have.
现场研究和实验室研究都显示 选举的输赢，伴侣的得失， 提升与否，考试成败等等， 对我们的影响及影响的时间长短 都比人们想象的少。