But more importantly, for me to begin to understand who are the couples who have an erotic spark, what sustains desire, I had to go back to the original definition of eroticism, the mystical definition, and I went through it through a bifurcation by looking, actually, at trauma, which is the other side. And I looked at it, looking at the community that I had grown up in, which was a community in Belgium, all Holocaust survivors,
但更重要的是，如果说我要弄清楚 哪些夫妇有性火花， 什么东西方维系着性爱, 我必须得回顾一下 性爱的最原始的定义, 这一最神秘的定义，我经历过的 以一种分岐，通过创伤来看 这就是另一面，让我来看看 看看我成长的社区 那是一个在比利时的社区，所有人都是大屠杀的幸存者