Double standards for men and women, sex as a source of shame, family control limiting individual choices, and a vast gulf between appearance and reality: what people are doing and what they're willing to admit to, and a general reluctance to move beyond private whispers to a serious and sustained public discussion.
对男人女人有双重标准， 性事被当作羞耻之源， 家族限制了个人的选择， 表象与事实天差地别： 人们做的事， 和他们愿意承认的所作所为， 还有宁愿窃窃私语 也不愿长期、严肃的公开讨论。