The reason you're trying to understand why they hate us, is to get them to quit hating us. The idea when you go through this moral exercise of really coming to appreciate their humanity and better understand them, is part of an effort to get them to appreciate your humanity in the long run.
只有弄明白他们为什么讨厌我们， 我们才能让他们不再讨厌我们，对吧。 当我们通过这种道德反思，去真正体谅 他们的人性，去更理解他们， 他们才能更体谅我们的想法。