I was born and raised here in India, and I learned from an early age to be deeply suspicious of the aunties and uncles who would bend down, pat us on the head and then say to my parents with no problem at all, "Poor things. You only have three daughters.
我生于长于印度， 并且我从小就懂得 对那些阿姨叔叔有所怀疑， 他们会弯腰，拍拍我们的头 然后他们会对我的父母 毫不犹豫的说， "可怜的东西。 你们只有三个女儿。