But what Gottman and his team found was that one of the most important predictors for whether or not a couple is going to get divorced was how positive or negative each partner was being in the conversation.
但是，Gottman 和他的团队发现 最能够准确预测 这对夫妻是否未来会离婚的 是双方在对话过程中 积极还是消极。