And the last was they had connection, and -- this was the hard part -- as a result of authenticity, they were willing to let go of who they thought they should be in order to be who they were, which you have to absolutely do that for connection.
最后一点，他们都能和他人建立关系， -- 这是很难做到的-- 前提是他们必须坦诚， 他们愿意放开自己设定的那个理想的自我 以换取真正的自我， 这是赢得关系的