It strikes me as a better goal, and, dare I say, a more virtuous one, to focus on making productive kids and moral kids, and to simply hope that happiness will come to them by virtue of the good that they do and their accomplishments and the love that they feel from us.
我觉得更好的目标， 容我说，也是更有效的目标， 那就是注重培养富有创造力 和品德高尚的孩子， 然后只要祝福他们幸福， 通过他们的德行善举、 他们的才能成就 以及感受到我们对他们的爱。