And before I worked with the kids, anything that I did with them, or anything that I did with myself, was supposed to be perfect, ideal, optimal, but after working with them for some time, I discovered the great virtues of empathy and flexibility and being able to start with some vision, and if the vision doesn't work, well nothing happened.
在我开始解决这些孩子的问题前， 所有我为他们， 或为我自己做的事儿， 都应该是做到理想的， 完美无缺的，最令人满意的， 但我与他们相处了一段时间之后， 我发现了彼此关爱，与随意淡然 所带来的美好， 并开始有了一些新愿景， 如果这些愿景不能实现，那就是什么事儿都没发生而已。