For them, choice was not just a way of defining and asserting their individuality, but a way to create community and harmony by deferring to the choices of people whom they trusted and respected.
对他们来说，选择不仅是一种 展现自我的 途径 更是一种建立社群使人相处融洽的过程 通过服从他们 所信任和尊敬的人作出的选择。