The first model -- let's call it the dialectical model -- is we think of arguments as war; you know what that's like -- a lot of screaming and shouting and winning and losing.
第一种模式，让我们称之为辩证模式， 这种模式的辩论更想是打仗，相信你们都经历过。 经常充满了尖叫和大喊 而且伴有胜负，