Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.
因为得不到自己想要的已经够糟糕了 更糟糕的是，在人生旅程的终点 发觉你所追求的 从来就不是你真正想要的。