The logic of the golden rule -- the more you think about and interact with other people, the more you realize that it is untenable to privilege your interests over theirs, at least not if you want them to listen to you. You can't say that my interests are special compared to yours, anymore than you can say that the particular spot that I'm standing on is a unique part of the universe
黄金法则的逻辑是：你越为他人着想，越同他人交流， 你越多地意识到将你的利益凌驾于他人之上 是站不住脚的， 至少在你希望他们会听你的时候。你不能说 我的利益比你的利益更重要， 你说你正站在的那个地方 是宇宙中独特的一个地方