There is a second problem that is maybe even more familiar to us as parents and teachers and spouses and novelists, which is, "Why is it so hard to know what somebody else wants or believes?"
第二个问题是 是像我们这些作为父母，老师,已婚之人还有小说家 经常碰到 “为什么去了解 别人的企图或者想法如此之难？"