These aren't just people being jerks. These are people that are saying, look, I don't want to talk to you now, or I didn't want to talk to you then, but I still care about you.
这些人并不是在做混蛋，这些人 说，听着，我现在不想和你说话， 或我那时不想和你说话，但我还是会关心你。