After my limbs were gone, that loss, for example, became fact, fixed -- necessarily part of my life, and I learned that I could no more reject this fact than reject myself.
在我失去肢体之后， 这个损失变成了一个事实，无法改变—— 这变成了我生活中的一部分， 我认识到抵触这个事实就是在抵触自己。