Or maybe a relationship goes up in smoke because we haven't had the time, or the patience, or the tranquility, to be with the other person, to listen to them.
也许这个警示会在一场恋爱化为泡影后出现 失败是因为我们抑或没有时间，抑或没有耐心， 或是不能安静地 陪着另一半，倾听他们的述说。