I gave when I was cornered, when it was difficult to avoid and I gave, in general, when the negative emotions built up enough that I gave to relieve my own suffering, not someone else's.
当我无路可退时，当我难以推辞时，我才给予 总体来说，负面情绪驱使我给予 我的给予是为了减轻我自己的烦恼 而不是其他人的