My husband is offended when I say this -- although I have explained to him that what we do in private usually takes less than four minutes --  -- so he shouldn't take it personally.
我的爱人听我这么描述，觉得没有受到尊重 即使我私下跟他解释到我们的事 往往还不到四分钟  所以他不应该觉得我是在针对他