The catch is that when this is happening to a new family, it is consuming, and a family with a new baby is more financially vulnerable than they've ever been before, so that new mother cannot afford to speak up on her own behalf.
问题在于当这一切发生在 一个新家庭时，会很让人伤脑筋， 有新生儿的家庭的财政状况 比以往任何时候都脆弱， 因此新妈妈没办法站出来 为自己的利益发声。