But in "intimate" relations it's much more difficult because, with your wife or your boyfriend or someone that you hope might turn into one of those things, we have this illusion of romance and trust and intimacy, as the, "My condom or yours, darling?" question.
但是在“亲密”关系中， 就困难的多了 因为也许你的妻子或男友， 或你想进一步发展成为恋人或配偶的那个人， 因为某种浪漫的幻想 信任和亲密， 没有什么比“亲爱的，用你的安全套还是我的” 这样的问题，更让人扫兴的了。