Or it might be a choice about whether to have children, to have an ailing parent move in with you, to raise your child in a religion that your partner lives by but leaves you cold.
抑或思考是否要孩子； 是否让年老体衰的父母跟你一起住； 是否让你的孩子信奉 你配偶信仰的宗教， 即便你会因自身不信奉而被冷落；