Let me ask you honestly -- and I'll give you this warning, I'm trained as a therapist, so I can out-wait you uncomfortably -- so if you could just raise your hand that would be awesome -- how many of you honestly, when you're thinking about doing or saying something vulnerable think, "God, vulnerability is weakness."
我想诚恳的请问大家 -- 先给个提醒， 作为一个受过专业训练的治疗师， 我知道你们会感觉不太自在 -- 所以你们只要举手就很好了 -- 坦诚地讲有多少人， 当你们想到做一些脆弱的事 或说一些脆弱的话的时候， 会觉得：“天啊，脆弱就是软弱，这就是软弱” ？