You show me a man who can sit with a woman who's just had it, she can't do it all anymore, and his first response is not, "I unloaded the dishwasher!"  But he really listens -- because that's all we need -- I'll show you a guy who's done a lot of work.
你如果能给我找到这样一个男人，他可以陪在一个 已经快到底线， 再也无法承受的女人旁边， 而且他的第一反应并不是： ”我把碗都洗好啦“ （意指只会机械的做家务而不懂沟通） 而是他能真切的聆听 -- 因为那就是我们所需要的 -- 那我就能给你找到真正能干的男人。