The true self, as it were then, is not something that is just there for you to discover, you don't sort of look into your soul and find your true self, What you are partly doing, at least, is actually creating your true self.
真实的自己， 并不是等着你去发现的什么东西， 你不是在灵魂中寻找那个真实的自己。 你或多或少正在做的， 其实是在创造真实的自己。