Strangeness is that calibration of closeness and distance that enables me to find the people that I need right now, that enables me to find the sources of intimacy, of discovery, and of inspiration that I need right now.
"陌生感"就是评估亲疏关系 的一个标准， 它帮助我找到那些我现在就需要的人， 帮助我找到那些我现在需要的亲密感、 探索感和灵感的源泉。