And people began to say, "I turn myself off when I feel dead inside, when I don't like my body, when I feel old, when I haven't had time for myself, when I haven't had a chance to even check in with you, when I don't perform well at work, when I feel low self esteem, when I don't have a sense of self-worth, when I don't feel like I have a right to want, to take,
人们会回答说：当我心死时、当我不再喜欢我自己的身体时 我对性也就没有任何兴趣了。 当我感觉自己老了，当我没有自己的时间了， 当我没机会和你去开房时， 当我工作毫无业绩可言时， 当我没有了自尊、当我觉得没有了个人价值时， 当我觉得我已经没有权力去想，去获得