We spend so much time talking past each other and not enough time talking through our disagreements, and if we can start to find compassion for one another, then we have a shot at building common ground.
我跟他的辩论时间非常的多, 花在讨论我们的不同的观点上的时间却不多. 一旦我们开始觉得有点同情对方, 我们便开始寻找我们的共同点.