But I always hated it because they were dictating the terms of the interaction, in the same way that engaging in a serious argument determines the content, to some degree, of what you're talking about.
但我一直都不喜欢它， 因为它控制了交流的时间。 同样地，参与一个严肃的讨论， 某种程度上，也决定了讨论的内容， 决定了你要说什么。