And as a woman who didn't get married until I was a lot older -- and I'm glad I waited --  -- and has no children, I look at these young people and I say, "Your job is not to be perfect.
我就是一个很晚才嫁出去的女人 但是我很高兴我很晚才嫁  并且我现在没有小孩 我看这些年轻人 我会说，“你的工作不是需要成为完美的人