But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
与自己和解 把一个人称为失败者是糟糕的 但许多人都想掌握自己的生活 一个追求这些的社会 难免要有赢家和输家。