It's a word that's pretty much not used for little boys, because if a little boy leads, there's no negative word for it, it's expected. But if a little girl leads, she's bossy.
这个词却很少用在男孩子身上 因为没人会反对男孩子发号施令 这是意料中事，但如果女孩子 发号施令的话，她就是专横