But more importantly, for me to begin to understand who are the couples who have an erotic spark, what sustains desire, I had to go back to the original definition of eroticism, the mystical definition, and I went through it through a bifurcation by looking, actually, at trauma, which is the other side. And I looked at it, looking at the community that I had grown up in, which was a community in Belgium, all Holocaust survivors,
Dar şi mai important, ca să înţeleg care sunt cuplurile care au o scânteie erotică, ce sprijină dorinţa, a trebuit să mă întorc la definiţia iniţială a erotismului, definiţia mistică, şi am trecut prin ea printr-o bifurcaţie, privind de fapt trauma, extrema opusă, şi am privit-o uitându-mă la comunitatea în care am crescut, o comunitate din Belgia, toţi supravieţuitori ai Holocaustului,