What underpinned this shame, this "I'm not good enough," -- which, we all know that feeling: "I'm not blank enough. I'm not thin enough, rich enough, beautiful enough, smart enough, promoted enough." The thing that underpinned this was excruciating vulnerability. This idea of, in order for connection to happen, we have to allow ourselves to be seen, really seen.
La baza acestei ruşini, a ideii „nu-s suficient de bun” – toţi ştim sentimentul: nu-s destul de imaculat, de slab, de bogat, de frumos, de deştept, de promovat –, la bază e o chinuitoare vulnerabilitate, ideea că, pentru ca relaţia să se creeze, trebuie să permitem să fim văzuţi cu adevărat.