Apparently, the bitter realization that maybe it could happen to us, but it obviously hasn't and it probably never will, makes our lives seem unbearably grim in comparison.
こんなことは私と夫の間に 起こったこともないですし　これからも大丈夫だと思いますが こういった最悪のシナリオは 人生を途方もなく陰気なものへと 変えてしまいます