The reason you're trying to understand why they hate us, is to get them to quit hating us. The idea when you go through this moral exercise of really coming to appreciate their humanity and better understand them, is part of an effort to get them to appreciate your humanity in the long run.
何故 私たちを嫌いなのかを理解すれば 彼らの嫌悪が収まるからです 彼らの人間性を正しく認め 彼らを良く 理解するという倫理的な行動が 長い目で見れば 貴方の人間性を彼らに 正しく認めさせる努力の一部となるなのです