They didn't have to feel bad for me because I was nervous, they could experience that with me, and we were all one big happy, nervous, uncomfortable family.  By thinking about my audience, by embracing and exploiting my problem, I was able to take something that was blocking my progress, and turn it into something that was essential for my success.
不憫に思ってもらう必要はないんです 私は事実ナーバスなんですから 一緒に体験してもらえて 会場全体がハッピーでナーバスで ぎこちなくなりました  お客さんについて考え 自分の問題を受け入れて 逆手にとることで 私の進む道を遮っていた 何かを取り払うことができ それを成功に欠かせないものに 変化させたのです