And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
だとすると お察しの通り 私たちが落ち込んでいては まずいのです 息子を息子としてではなく 「問題」と捉え 前向きになれないようではいけない