You may discover, as I did, that a lot of things that you used to think were your fault, a lot of things you used to think about yourself, really had nothing to do with you.
やってみると気づくかもしれません ずっと自分のせいだと思っていたことや 自分について考えていたことの多くが 実は自分とは何の関係もなかったのだと