My husband is offended when I say this -- although I have explained to him that what we do in private usually takes less than four minutes --  -- so he shouldn't take it personally.
私の夫に これを言うと怒るのですが 夫と二人きりでやることは だいたい4分未満で終わっちゃうのよね  だから個人的に取るべきではないんです