و جزء من السبب وراء ذلك هو ان الناس ياخذون الامور التي تحدث معهم بشكل شخصي للغاية. هم يملكون نجاحهم و يملكون فشلهم ايضا.
And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.