بين فكرة كون المرء -- انه من السيء النظر الى احد على انه " خاسر " وبين فكرة ان الكثير من الاشخاص حولك .. يريدون ان يتفوقوا عليك . والمجتمع يشجع على ذلك وربما يتوجب وجود بعض الخاسرين وبعض الرابحين
But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?