translation.en: And what I want to suggest is that, having talked to girls, because I just finished a new book called "I Am an Emotional Creature: The Secret Life of Girls Around the World," I've been talking to girls for five years, and one of the things that I've seen is true everywhere is that the verb that's been enforced on girl is the verb "to please."
translation.zh: 我想提出的一个想法是 我们 都来跟女孩开展对话。 我最近写 了一本书，叫《我是一个情感动物：全球女孩秘密故事》 过去五年，我一直在跟女孩对话 不管去到那里，一样事情是肯定的 即人们谈论到女孩的时候，所用的动词 这就是“取悦”