translation.en: In other words, I had drunk our great cultural Kool-Aid about regret, which is that lamenting things that occurred in the past is an absolute waste of time, that we should always look forward and not backward, and that one of the noblest and best things we can do is strive to live a life free of regrets.
translation.zh: 也就是说我深知我们对后悔的文化 也就是为过去的事情悲伤 简直就是在浪费时间 我们应该常常向前看而不是向后看 我们最好应该做的事就是 争取活在没有后悔的世界了