translation.en: Would I take my niece off my shoulders and turn to the clerk and explain to her that I was in fact her aunt, not her father, and that she should be more careful and not to jump to gender conclusions based on haircuts and shoulder rides --  -- and while doing that, miss out on what was, to this point, the greatest moment of my niece's life.
translation.zh: 我是否应该把我的侄女从肩头放下 并和店员解释 我实际上是她的姨妈，而非父亲。 而店员以后也应多小心， 不要根据发型 或肩扛孩子 就随便妄断别人性别。  但这么做， 我将错过我侄女生活中 最激动人心的一刻。