translation.en: Human beings have a natural and innate need to bond, and when we're happy and healthy, we'll bond and connect with each other, but if you can't do that, because you're traumatized or isolated or beaten down by life, you will bond with something that will give you some sense of relief.
translation.zh: 人类对于依赖有一种先天与自然的需要 当我们开心并健康的时候，我们会与其他人建立一种依赖关系 但是如果你做不到这一点 由于生活的创伤和隔离 你会依赖其他给你安慰的东西