translation.en: And shame is really easily understood as the fear of disconnection: Is there something about me that, if other people know it or see it, that I won't be worthy of connection?
translation.zh: 耻辱感很容易理解， 即害怕被断绝关系。 有没有一些关于我的事 如果别人知道了或看到了， 会认为我不值得交往。