translation.en: And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
translation.zh: 问题是，或许你能感觉到 我们很低迷，很沮丧 我们把他当作一个问题来对待 而不是一个儿子，不是从一个积极的方面