translation.en: My view is that if you want to involve yourself in the life of people who have been given up on, you have to look like the solution and not the problem.
translation.zh: 我认为，如果想介入那些 已经被认为没有希望的人的生活， 你自己就更应该看上去象是解决问题的办法，而不是问题本身。