translation.en: And that's hard. There's a sort of inherent cognitive dissonance in doing that, like when you're writing your wedding vows at the same time as your prenuptial agreement.
translation.zh: 但是那很难。好像有一种 与生俱来的认知失调在作怪， 就像你同时写结婚誓言 和婚前协议一样。