translation.en: And if you want to change other people, a much better way to do it is to first understand who we are -- understand our moral psychology, understand that we all think we're right -- and then step out, even if it's just for a moment, step out -- check in with Seng-ts'an.
translation.zh: 如果你想要改变他人﹐一个比较好的方法是 先了解我们是谁 -- 了解我们自己的道德心理 了解我们都认为自己是对的﹐然后跨出去 就算只是一下子﹐跨出去 想想僧璨