translation.en: And before I worked with the kids, anything that I did with them, or anything that I did with myself, was supposed to be perfect, ideal, optimal, but after working with them for some time, I discovered the great virtues of empathy and flexibility and being able to start with some vision, and if the vision doesn't work, well nothing happened.
translation.zh: 在我开始解决这些孩子的问题前， 所有我为他们， 或为我自己做的事儿， 都应该是做到理想的， 完美无缺的，最令人满意的， 但我与他们相处了一段时间之后， 我发现了彼此关爱，与随意淡然 所带来的美好， 并开始有了一些新愿景， 如果这些愿景不能实现，那就是什么事儿都没发生而已。