translation.en: These are the kind of questions that we need to be asking and the kind of work that we need to be doing, but if we're endlessly focused on what women are doing and thinking in relationships or elsewhere, we're not going to get to that piece.
translation.zh: 这些都是我们必须问的问题 和我们必须做的工作， 但是如果我们不断的关注女人在做什么，在想什么 然后再去考虑这些事件， 我们无法解决问题。