translation.en: All of us with stigmatized identities face this question daily: how much to accommodate society by constraining ourselves, and how much to break the limits of what constitutes a valid life?
translation.zh: 所有像我这样身份沾有污点的人 每天都必须面对这个问题： 我该多大限度地通过禁锢自己 来迁就社会 我该多大限度地打破所谓 正确生活的底线？