translation.en: I'm really blessed to be a parent, and watching my children grow, I really firmly believe that you're born with a temperament and you're wired a certain way, and you don't have any say about it, and there's no changing it.
translation.zh: 我很幸运能作为一个父母 看着自己的孩子成长，我也很坚信 每个人都有某种与生俱来的气质和某些特定的行为 你也说不出为什么会这样 你也无法改变它