translation.en: I wrote this after a friend's funeral, but not so much about the friend as something the eulogist kept saying, as all eulogists tend to do, which is how happy the deceased would be to look down and see all of us assembled.
translation.zh: 是我在参加完一场朋友的葬礼后所作， 但这与我朋友的赞颂者所言不同。 因为他们会说， 已故之人看到我们大家都聚集在这里时，