translation.en: So reconciling our need for security and our need for adventure into one relationship, or what we today like to call a passionate marriage, used to be a contradiction in terms.
translation.zh: 这就意味着在一段关系中，要协调我们对安稳感的需求 和对猎奇的需要， 我们今天称之为 “有激情的婚姻” 过去曾是相互矛盾的的两个方面