translation.en: Our need for connection, our need for separateness, or our need for security and adventure, or our need for togetherness and for autonomy, and if you think about the little kid who sits on your lap and who is cozily nested here and very secure and comfortable, and at some point all of us need to go out into the world to discover and to explore.
translation.zh: 也就是联系的需要，分离的需要 或者安全和冒险的需要 团聚的需要、自我管理的需要 如果你想像一下，有个小孩坐在你大腿上 他舒服地坐在那里，既安全又舒适 而在某种程度上，我们每个人都需要走出去 去发现、去探索.