translation.en: I got a female instructor first, to teach me the female role, the follow, because I wanted to understand the sensitivities and abilities that the follow needed to develop, so I wouldn't have a repeat of college.
translation.zh: 我先请了一名女教练， 教我女方跟舞， 因为我想弄明白跟舞所需要培养的 感觉和技能，这样之后我就不用重学一遍。