translation.en: One problem that psychology has had is instead of looking at this intersubjectivity -- or the importance of the social brain to humans who come into the world helpless and need each other tremendously -- is that they focus instead on the self and self-esteem, and not self-other.
translation.zh: 心理学的一个问题在于 没有关注这一主体间性 或社会性头脑 对于初生于世 孤立无援 需要彼此的人类的重要性 而关注的是自身 自尊心 而不是人与人之间的关系