translation.ar: والمشكلة، كما قد تشعرون، أننا كنا مُحبطين، و متشائمين، وكنا ننظر إليه كمشكلة، وليس كإبن، ليس من وجهة نظر إيجابية.
translation.en: And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.