"Hannah’s suicide, we are led to believe, is a way of exacting revenge. As the tapes are passed around, and the guilty parties are confronted by their failings, they are filled with regret and remorse."

Suicide fantasy. Some recipients will respond "you should have toughened up". Some will respond "I didn't know / I didn't know it affected you so much". Some will blame a different factor in the suicide. Some may feel regret, but don't count on it.