LW2: If there are issues that you and your husband cannot resolve on your own, go to marriage counseling. Whining and complaining to others about a spouse's faults only amplifies those perceived faults in the mind of the whiner and creates a barrier to a healthy relationship.

Your husband's insistence on whining about your marriage to his momma is taking the two of you on a path to dissolution. If that is not what you want, then get into marriage counseling asap.