Thus you smack of the fellow who doesn't vote yet has all the criticisms in the world for whomever's voted in; the backseat driver who knows exactly how fast we should be driving; the flea on the elephant's butt with oodles of advice regarding the host's diet; the player with the best moves but who's somehow always on the bench. Why don't you try leading something sometime instead of simply reacting to everything else that other people lead with? You might like it.Being a leader. Heck, even your responses are borrowed text from what you're responding to! Live a little for heaven's sake.