I agree.  Be adults and wait to buy a house until you can save up for it.  Young people today don’t want to wait for anything;  they want it all now.  Don’t eat out, take vacations, buy clothes, new cars, or any “wants”: only spend on “needs”, and you’ll have the money to buy that house in no time.  Live below your means.  That’s what young married couples used to do, they didn’t expect help from their parents.  Help always has a price tag.