LesterP said: "As for assimilate and accept, I'll pass. Don't think that I could bring myself to hate 'outsiders'."
Distrust and hate are not the same, and it is illogical of you to create such a false equivalency. 
Not accepting Hawaii is entirely up to you, but that sensibility is clearly reflected in this discourse.
I'm certain Nantucket and its locals appreciate your presence entirely.