You realize this stuff is the hallmark of an abusive person; yes?  Denying that you said things that you clearly said...engaging in ad-hominem attacks that reduce others to frustration at which point you take a "high road" and claim the other is "projecting" - these are examples of the "gaslighting" technique that is common in abusers.  Of course, there's also the more obvious stuff - the raging hatred and support of predators.