And what crutch's do the non religious use to get through a difficult life or circumstances?  Please don't tell me they don't face the same trauma or that all non religious people are the paragon on emtional health.

*I have wondered in the past what hurts religious people most, the actually act that they might question(greed, lust, money, gluttony ect...), OR is it the guilt they burder themselves with for doing such a thing?    Of course I happen to think guilt in some measure is a good thing for society as it help regulate some really nasty behaviors