Special needs, old people needing help are totally a different situation and most people with any common sense sees this and realizes the situation. There came a time I couldn't take my sons into the ladies room anymore......believe me I didn't want them to see what I saw in there!  As far a person being born as an intersex person, that is a whole different situation. I don't claim to have all the answers here but I know that changing the way we use the bathroom and the use of coed locker rooms is not the answer.  I do not hate anyone so for you to claim such when you have never met me is interesting.....Thanks for your time