The problem is your using the judgment presumptive term "shouldn't be allowed" in your inquiry without fairly including the context of the presentation, i.e.  "If anyone wants to be culturally correct in Hawaii when citing Hawaiian values."  Clearly, if not caring about bonafide native cultural values or accuracy, then there is no "shouldn't" in making a judgment.  If presuming cultural purity, then your stated inquisition would be correct.  If instead discounting such native culture, your stated inquisition would be wrong.  Additionally, a "yes" or "no" as simple response to your inquisition as framed wouldn't make sense.  "Yes" would only mean I should correct you if you're wrong.  "No" would mean I shouldn't correct you if you're wrong.  It's clear you're ingracious and impulsive over my sharing.  I'm not sure why you're so rude after having penned such a loaded inquisition, but I'll be careful not to bother with you in the future.