I have no issues with bathrooms but I do when it comes to locker rooms and showers.  There are some things that need to remain "Family Friendly" that young children should not be exposed to. If a father showered with his teen or preteen daughter, there would be people calling for his arrest. Why should a stranger be allowed to shower in a communal shower with them? Who cares what sex they believe they are. Until you get those parts adjusted to match your mind, stay out of public showers.