I have concluded that it is impossible for  you to stay on topic and address a message.  If you would pay similar heed to religious myths and superstitions and see the folly of faith, you might grow in wisdom.  Your fixation with psychology and its limitations is of no help to you in realizing the mistakes generated by a fixed religious belief system presenting beliefs as truths, firmly convinced that its doctrines and dogmas are unchangeable despite evidence to the contrary.
You might know or 'should know' that social sciences, mental health systems incorporate the methods of science.  As such, readily admit to past errors in thinking, adapt to an influx of knowledge, correct itself and move ahead.  Repeatedly, it is mentioned here, religion 'never' does.  It insists through apologetics and catechesis that it is absolutely correct and disagreements are wrong.  No incontrovertible evidence of its  falsehoods is acceptable...that is anti intellectual supporting ignorance over knowledge.