Where are the defenders of the health care system that leads to these situations. Some conservatives will support public sourcing of donations to fill in the gaps when government won't. Their claim: this gives them control over where their money goes. Is this not a success for them?
You see people doing fundraisers at work for pay for their child's special treatment. Richest nation in the world - one that can afford 8 aircraft carriers at $13 billion each - yet does not fund a national healthcare system because "the Constitution calls for military spending but not healthcare spending" (actual quote). 
The only way to convert some of these people who don't want to pay for someone's care with a socialist system is for them to lose their insurance or get sick when their insurance won't cover it. 
Fortunately a few Republicans have joined Democrats to seek a better system that does exactly what Trump called for:  "insurance for everybody" that is "less expensive and much better." He lied.