"Peer review" is abused here.  What to know something true but funny?

While you were "away," my comments were not deemed uncivil...since you've been back?  Three of them.  I'm guessing they come up in your review screen...

I am sorry if in fact you were dealing with a death. That is always a difficult thing...and I do not find it in the least bit amusing.

That said - I will end my comment here.  I hope you will do the same.