This is from I Timothy, and relates the qualifications of overseers and deacons;

"Therefore an overseer (or bishop) must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,"

"He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church?"

Followed by deacons ... ;  "Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, ..... Their wives likewise must be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things. Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well."

The context and style of the above includes nothing about ceasing sexual relations with one's wife, and surely that would have been an important qualification if they were to become a bishop or a deacon. Rather, it seems as if being married was an unremarkable item for a prospective overseer or deacon.  Your thoughts, Marty?