By "irresponsible states" do you mean the states who actually act like adults, and keep up their infrastructure?  Do you mean the states who are at the forefront of putting health and safety regulations in place that actually protect their populations?  Do you mean the states that have a much higher concentration of population, and thus must pay for things like infrastructure to support them?  

Funny thing.  If you look at the states you condemn and compare them to your model state of Wyoming you will find that they all fall into the class of states that are the least dependent on the federal government, whereas Wyoming ranks near the top of states that subsist on handouts from the feds.  Real conservative, independent thinkers there in Wyoming...

You haven't "learned" anything except to parrot the Fox talking points.