Believe me, you are not the only victim. And if you are "sickened" by someone wanting to show concern for all victims, and not only for you, as you so unmercifully demand, then you have an even greater problem. This has nothing to do with being a victim ... it is a conscious decision ... and I will stop there with further characterisation, because you would take what I have to say as a lack of compassion on my part, or even worse, which is certainly not the case.