To someone who never have been through domestic violence it is so easy to say "move on".  If you are able to just walk away by yourself then you are risking only one life.  It is not so easy when you have little children.  Abuser will say "if you leave, I will not only kill you but the children also".  All bs?  Not when the abuser changes in a marriage to become a dangerous psycho!  He was a kind non-violent person when I met him but I married him anyhow.  It was my bad decision .  For your information the children and me had to physically run and hide for over three years!  So don't say it is easy to move on!