I see confusion between the adamant statement regarding "ideological colonization" and the mandate to accompany people in both marital and sexual identity struggles.  I'd personally rather opt for a psychologist/counselor rather than a representative of a celibate-clerical caste if I were facing either of those situations.  I don't think the institutional Church has incorporated either scientific advancements or contemporary knowledge of human experience within its doctrine sufficient to form judgments on someone's "lifestyle."  Just my opinion.