Sorry for the loss of the children. Understand the parents lost their possessions in the fire. Willing to help with funds to get them back on their feet but not if the money is going to be thrown to the wind. They died in Alaska, let that be their final resting place. Being realistic, when people have time to plan ahead for a furneral a fancy casket does nothing that a more modest one wouldn't do. Cremation further lowers cost without disrespecting the children. More and more people are choosing it when they take the time to think and use reason. Hope the parents will in this sad time.