Ummm....I called you no names at all.   Not like you usually call me.  I merely said an argument could be made for several characteristics you exhibit.

And I never said I don't care for you - not like you have said to me.

But all that aside - I HAVE been calling for healing and working together.  In that vein, I wish you a gentle Thanksgiving.  I know the "firsts" after losing a mom can be very painful, and I wish you peace and comfort.