I think your daughter was pushing back at your attempt to "adult" her. The main point of your event was to boost your ego and impress people you mostly don't know, and I am amused that she managed to turn the tables on you.

" We were out for a white-tablecloth dinner at a fine restaurant in our neighbourhood. Part of our strategy to introduce them to the niceties of life, an opportunity to educate them in the proper manners and etiquette such occasions demanded. No other children were present and I smugly complimented myself on the loving family picture we presented."