one cannot pull up old posts from different commenters in the Civil system - too bad as i would just bring forth quote, after quote, after quote from you, sir, over time and different stories. they would show a  consistent attitude and bias on your part blaming the victim .   it is a shame in that either you have a very poor memory, or truly believe you have not consistently taken the alleged perps side.  every time.  why do you get so many negative posts when this comes up and you automatically go to demonize the victim(s) and excuse the accused.
  this time i am being demonized...not the other 10 people who tell you how lame your beliefs are and what name did i call you? would be a noun ...yes?  and where exactly is the "uncivil" comment?  i have been uncivil to you in the past and i owned it , but have worked hard to stay civil, to all, since.