Don't be stupid....DONT get married.  The courts will always steal your money and give it to the other half.  This entitlement society has simply destroyed marriage and it serves no purpose whatsoever any more.  In fact, just ask a mate if they think marriage is for life....and see what kind of excuses you get.  Marriages-aka divorces are like abortions....it s a preconceived notion that you can have one anytime it suits them and with no regard to commitment.