I recently realized that the only nursing home care available for me, is one that I will pay for, not a government funded one, so I'm looking at seniors complexes. First I'll live in my own apartment, but can buy meals, etc if need be. As I need increasing care, like loss of mobility,  I move to a different level in the complex. The last stop is the locked unit, for people with serious dementia, but I will choose death before that point. Everyone expects government programs to take care of them. It's not going to happen.