I confess I am so jealous that no one has bonded with me that I could just cry..  If I could only give up being successful, having a nice place to live and enjoying all that Waikiki has to offer to those with money to spend I would be assimilated. Then I could reject progress, science and basic hygiene.  Only then would I not be a racist as defined by local standards. 
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It don't matter what someone else thinks if you stop thinking.  I think that's the motto of the local high schools.