I assume you are being sarcastic and facetious but it doesn't come across. It sounds like you're really wanting to 'blame the victim' which has become such a popular theme since the Presidential election. If he did this, AND THEN HAD THE GALL to SUE HER for some paranoid reason, I think the guy is 'lower than a snake down in a wagon track' and should pay a lot more than just court costs. "It is assault, stupid" to borrow another phrase.