Why are you being so defensive?  We all know you have limited means.  I am not sure what the heck 200% below the poverty level means.  If your income is three times the poverty you would be 200% above.  But even zero income is only 100% below.
  I don't mind helping those in need who are at least trying.  But not being able to afford your kids school lunch because you over extended yourself buying toys is not my problem. Still want that fancy car, get a second job. Want to hang on to your ski boat, get a third job.  Pay for essential first.  If you can afford it, pay for your kid's school lunch.  Then and only then buy your toys.