@LesterP:  It seems to me that you don't seem to like it when the tables are turned and you are now looked at as an outsider and can't seem to get along with people here.  By saying "In the real world," you seem to be dismissing Hawaii as a part of the real world.  Sorry, but the last time I checked, Hawaii is a part of the real world.  No one is forcing you to live here.  If you don't like it, maybe you should get off your high horse and try to fit in or you can go elsewhere.  Just as a FYI, I have a lot of Caucasian friends that are from the mainland that get along with everyone just fine, so maybe the problem is as simple as looking in the mirror?  LOL!