your kindness just radiates in your comment Scienceduck.  Sometimes though, little girls are hurt so bad that they never know who they are.........ever.  The image they might have of themelves or of life around them is like a circus mirror.  You can look at yourself in a normal mirror and you see you.  A person w/mental illness just has that circus mirror that distorts everything.  I bet they are just confused, hurt, scared and I hope they get a hug now and then.  L2G