That is sad to read but I fully respect your view. One more comment re the Boat People one someone responded with....

They were forced to become Boat People- in my opinion we did much more harm than good in Vietnam. And yes, my family served in the  military in Vietnam. But I also grew up with the so-called Boat People- it was a matter of come here or be killed, and we set that in motion. It was not a heroic rescue like from the Hitler camps. It was very sad.