I've worked my behind off to pay my way, and am up to *here* with being told I should pay for everyone else's bad decisions, bad luck, laziness, drug addictions, 8 kids and no job, you name it.  Who I give to should be my choice (and yes I do give), and nobody should be telling me who to "donate" my hard earned money to.  Period.  You want to help?  Go right ahead, but leave me out of it.