Sad to see your best friend continue to take advantage of you!  Is it possible for the University to purchase land where the stadium (new) is being built so they can call that their own?  West O'ahu is the best idea but I think we'll lose many of those fans who live in town, east O'ahu, and further.  There is no win-win situation here.  Just think like Costco Wholesale.  They don't sell rolls, and they have their own brand of liqueur, alcohol, toilet paper, rolls, their own bakery, food court, etc.  Why pay someone else when you can do it/build it yourself.  See you in September in Halawa if the stadium is still standing!