Maureen,
I didn't take what he said as trying to cause pain. Not defending him because he stands fine alone. Normally, I get offended by some of what he posts but I have or I am starting to see that he isn't trying to be hurtful,  just seems to care a lot and he gets frustrated when he thinks something can be prevented. I just don't agree with the way he says it but at least he cares, which is a start.