It appears, in this country, since people cannot willingly treat each other civilly without governmental protections, what we need is a priority list of rights.  Then your issue would be decided beforehand.  Are my rights more important than yours?  Are your rights more important than mine?  If we could all consider what our actions do to other people, and how they make them feel, we wouldn't need to have this discussion.  I was taught that "My rights end where yours begin."  Believe it or not, sometimes we DO have to keep our opinions personal.