Apparently you did not read my comment through.  I AM from the east coast, proudly put 2 children through public schools, was actively involved in PTO's, and  most certainly did send my child to a public school first when we moved to Hawaii because I believe in public schools.  In fact this school he attended was a Blue Ribbon school.  The kindergarten teacher used a police whistle to control the children, who all suffered hearing problems as a result.  Children had their bones broken by bullies on the playground, where my husband volunteered because teachers were too busy smoking during recess.  Children were forced to sit with their hands on their heads when their inane one page 'fill in the teacher's day' school work was complete.  It was a nightmare and a complete sham to remotely call it education.  So you make my point perfectly - the chasm is so wide that there is zero comparison for a parent who wishes to provide their child a quality education.  If that isn't pathetic what is?