You are so right. There is this myth that all survivors of Clergy abuse live in mansions and spend their millions of settlement money. The vast majority of victims will not see one penny in their lifetime. The vast majority will never come forward. I remember seeing Jay Leno on the Ellen show one day. Jay made an offhanded comment about the money that clergy victims have received. I wanted to throw my TV out the window. But the Church wants the laity to believe that they have treated us grandly. Sadly, they seem to be winning the PR wars. Their war chest is much bigger than ours. I don't believe that the laity truly understands what it is like to be a child victim of sexual abuse. Unfortunately most adults these days have the attention span of a five year old. They no longer read newspapers. News shows on TV show a group of protestors on the steps of some State Capital demanding reform of Statute of Limitations but delve no deeper. Reading books especially about sad things is long gone