And you have no perspective beyond your personal bias.   

I do think people have very different definitions of 'hate'.    I've never like the laws that use 'hate' as an added adjective to assault or murder.   Most acts of discrimination/violence, both civil law and criminal law, are acts of hatred, anger, resentment, jealousy, etc.      To tack on 'extra' punishment for hate seems superfluous.  

We can barely define hate, let alone assume it has either verbal or legal power.   What we can do is evaluate the level of harm done by the perpetrator and convict them appropriately.     Would I be more angry with say, religious hatred that killed a family member, or a drunken driver that killed a family member?    
  
President Trump( and you apparently) , are tone deaf to the anger/hate he creates with his crass, thoughtless personal insults.