My obligation is mine to make and not to be shamed by badly formed Catholics.

A vocation provides priorities...a vocation helps us find serenity.  God knows that his incompetent and limited children can run around all the time with their hair on fire pretending they care for everyone in the same way. 

We are limited in time.
We are limited in energy.
God wants us focused mostly exactly where He placed us.

It;'s quite reasonable that some people are very tired of a certain class of poster who wants to control what others think and do with their time.

They really hate freedom, at least in others. 

You can recognize these people by counting up the number of "I's" in their comments.  Yours had at least 7. 

Something to fix..take to prayer.  Too easy to become self focused.