Your reference to the institution of mandatory celibacy as part of  priestly service in the RC during apostolic times is not correct. See 1 Timothy 3:2 and 1 Corinthians 9:5. It came after approximately a thousand years of its existence. In order to serve others sacramentally a priest had no choice in the Roman church after that time. 
We were the benefit of the kindness of Pope Paul who granted my husband's release from celibacy, and my writing made NO attack on the RC. The Pope who showed mercy did the correct thing, some others did not. If you read again my post, I made that very clear. We married in the church with many of my husband's parishioners in attendance and made our marriage VOWS 39 years ago. I consider that we do keep our promises and vows far better than you seem to appreciate.
We both have followed all the rules of our Faith exactly as permitted, served it with honor all our lives from our Baptism to the present.