"Without Law there is no land to control or conquer."

What?  LOL!  That makes no sense whatsoever.  Land has existed before the existence of law.  What are you talking about?  Are you listening to yourself?

"I don't get your point "

I'm honestly not surprised at all.  Maybe I should summarize and make it crystal clear:  Hawaii is not independent because the world does not work in the way that you imagine it to work.  The real world is much different from your imaginary world of "international law" and "kingdom law."  It's like someone's robbing you at gunpoint and you're like "hey you can't do that, that's against the law!"  Of course it is, that's why he has a gun.  And you listen for the same reason, because he has a gun.

"Is that something that we are willing to face again? "

No, which is why America makes the rules.  Hello?  Anybody home?

"You used the Falklands as an example, bad example."

Great example.  Falklands is still British because the British said so.