I never said I don't do such activities.
I know you'd like to wedge that one in.
In fact elsewhere I've mentioned that our whole family works about every other month in a Catholic Food bank...

and several times of years we make bag lunches for the homeless.

My point is much larger than your attempt to distort and caricaturize it.

My point is that home life is where we "hone" our ability to give charity.

Thus the family is always the most important place to love and be loved.   It is the "priority of our charity" (second only to the love of God) because it helps purify and perfect our acts of charity beyond the home.