You are dead wrong, once again and please spare me the condescending parenting advice. You are not a clairvoyant, I am sure your kids are drug users or abusers and you are predisposed to think you know everything, and you have not idea how I parent, and you are one of the last people I would seek advice from. You have a very narrow view on humanity, and are probably a Eugene native who bases every conclusion on what you have seen in this God Forsaken city. There is a big world out there, and it seems it has passed you by.