Ah, we've now reached the name-calling stage, always an indicator of a clear, rational mind. Someone has revealed herself to be much too invested in her child's interactions with his peers to the point of resorting to the pejorative code words. Also, school staff and law enforcement's hands are not tied; in fact, just the opposite is true.

Read up on The Oregon Safe Schools Act of 2009 (ORS 339.351 to 339.364) and 4J's own anti-bullying policies. You seem woefully ill-informed on this subject.