How many hours are the police expected to spend with the suspect pressed against the car, sweet-talking him until he decides to cooperate? Three hours? Four hours? Eight? Twelve? (What if there are other emergencies in the city during that time?)

Like it or not, we live in a society where there are laws, and when you break those laws, the government has the right to take you into custody. In a civil society, citizens recognize this and cooperate with -- or at least don't actively resist -- law enforcement. If there's a problem with how the police are doing their job, it can be challenged in the courts... but nobody has the right to break the law and then actively resist arrest. Police have better things to do than to play childish waiting games with people who are being taken into custody.