Many Christians are conservative in their personal lives yet also compassionate to people of other faiths and belief systems.  Some are narrow minded and judgmental.   There's no stereotype of Christians that fits all.   The same can be said of secularist.

There’s a wide range of compassion, tolerance, bigotry, and prejudice to be found in the full spectrum of belief systems.  The ego need to 'rank' our belief systems blinds us to the many emotions and experiences that we have in common with all people.