Not quite sure I understand what you are asking of me.  But I'll make an attempt to answer. 
I believe that God allows circumstances that we may not like or be comfortable with. What He wants for me may not be pleasant or convenient in my opinion and I have a hard time accepting those crosses, but I know that these happenings or whatever are for the good of my soul, so it is for my benefit to humbly accept the crosses God gives or permits in my life.  So, yes, I may not outright reject a cross knowingly, but I sure as heck complain and whine about some of them.  We all reject crosses in our lives. Why do you think it is "sinful and damning" to admit it and point it out when others do? 

It was your comment emphasizing "ecstasy, letting good times roll" and other self-indulgences that tells me what is more important in your life. For me, it is , or I am trying to make it be the seeking of God's Kingdom, denial of self, and following Jesus. Just as He asks us to.