Unfortunately, we either all win or all lose.   

We should give up the old political divisions of liberal/conservative and see voters as 
A. those who want what is best for everyone in America  and 
B.  Those who want to win, and see "the other folks" "get what they deserve."

This would allow us to see that the heart of our problems as a nation is that we seem to be locked in a constant electoral civil war.   The idea that the people who voted for Trump are going to suffer should bring no one joy, nor be called a "good thing."  It is sad, and one should hope that a lesson is learned without too much pain.

A young friend of mine once said, to a European who was disdainful of our gun culture, that guns can do good things.  Like, if someone is robbing you or assaulting you and you shoot them, that would be a good thing...
It seems to me that, while avoiding an assault is indeed a good thing, having to shoot a human being, even if completely justified, is still a very bad thing.