hey, i read your post to  aaron and i say good on you. (i didn't read your post to me...)   it was nice to see someone engage...most the time it's easiest  to take a pot shot  - which is fine for most of us under most circumstances. you get targeted jade, gary, myself i try to just be a real person person to him when he does post.. i really appreciate you've done the same. i have a sister who has a major anxiety  problem and that seems to be an issue for aaron, bit off deja vu