The ideal is for abstinence except for procreating.  Not everybody can live up to the ideal.  We however, want people to realize there are other people being involved when they have sexual relations, including a person they may create.  Sex, itself is not a bad thing.  What can be bad, is when it is performed in selfish manner, purely for one's own gratification.  As far as P.P.'s non abortion activities, there is no problem.  The only reason there is talk of defunding Planned Parenthood is their abortion activities.  Republicans last year offered to transfer the money from Planned Parenthood to other clinics in the areas, so the other activities could continue.  The Democrats would not go for it because they wanted the abortion activities to continue.