But you're making very broad generalizations. Yes some people dislike the holidays because they "need" to be nice. And some do bash each other on the head to get merchandise on Black Friday. You implication is that everyone or even most people are doing these things. This is not my observation at all.

Secondly, it's not about "hurting my feeling" (sheesh). I'm sick of seeing crappy behavior too. But the broad generalization that implies it is all or most people isn't really helping.