"To exalt a minister as perfection because he has not displeased any one
by reproving errors, not only brings a snare upon the minister, but
brings disaster upon the people. He who does not hurt the spiritual
self-complacency of the people is almost deified by them, while a
devoted, faithful servant of God, who lays bare the errors of the
church-members, is supposed to be defective, because he does not see
what they suppose are their personal merits. He reproves wrongs which
really exist, and this is counted an indignity, and his authority and
instruction are cast aside and trodden under foot of men. These extremes
in the way the people look upon ministers are found among the professed
children of God; and who will now examine their hearts, and tenderly,
earnestly and faithfully set these things in order?" The Review and Herald, July 25, 1893.

This is the hard, but missing part of Love.  They will definitely hate you, we seem to have made absolutely sure of that lately.