I'll go on to add those whom of faith say forgiveness should happen tell that to the evil that knocks on your door that it's ok I forgive you while they destroy your life your crying out to God for help and guess what evil does not care of your belief in what should be right, life is a fight just some know the battle better than others psychology of war no rules no morals it's a fight for survival. not facing the truth the belief in something doesn't make it true could vary well make it your down fall as invite evil into your life thinking it's good is pure wrong and will destroy the happiness within so be wise enough when someone says it's because of my past you need to step back knowing their not willing to take responsibility for their own actions. point blank answer to this guys problem can't face the truth he did the act out of a choice made not because of his past better learn that fast before someone falls pray, give me one day with him would he be able to handle the truth no.