As I say to my children I have not bought a NA car since 1980 so buy a Honda or Toyota, you will be very happy. Now, I am 65 and like the active cruise, lane departure etc stuff, but my friends tell me before I even declare myself how they hate it and turn it off.  The good news this software based active information makes a new car mandatory, so buy a Civic or Corolla hatch or sedan, or a CRV, Rav4, no turbo charge just an modern 4 cylinder, if you can get a six go for it. Diesel is the way to go but in NA it is impossible.