Erik, it is silly to believe "good people don't judge others."  Murders, pedophiles, robbers, embezzlers, liars, illegal immigrates, drunk drivers, drivers high on pot, inattentive drivers, speeders, etc.  I have no problems judging others and sometimes I can look through the fog of my personal prejudice/ego to even judge myself. I am not a religious gent but I always thought that the religious bit about judging others had to do with judging others as to where they reside in God's domain. In other words, a person is not God and as such, they have no right/understanding to make the final determination, heaven or hell, for one leaving our world.