What about Chaput's comment on young people's vocational discernment "to marriage, ordination or consecrated life"?  This is tone deaf, as many young people spent a good decade between high school graduation and one of the above commitments, and some may be life long singles.  The single vocation is not about being stuck in a holding pattern or waiting for your real life to begin-it is a time of great opportunity for service and growth, richness and promise.  Some of the people in my parish who offer the most beautiful service are life long singles.  The church really misses out on identifying these gifts.