I think I was 14 when I first saw this film. I was expecting something salacious, but thinking about it now, what I got was the movie that spurred my now-obsession with great movie-making. It knocked me out. Great character development, great acting, great writing. Very personal. And the title is very well-chosen. It's also a wonderful love story--and nothing like what most people characterize. Its world is very real, with all of the complications that mark the real world. Would I make a tape with Graham? Definitely, I'd love to. I think that most women would. Just a thought....