well ... i just finished watching this movie. and i cant really think of how much i enjoyed this film.

a story of a few messed up people each one in a different way.and the video tapes makes the story really cool.

to mention James spader did a really good job acting graham.a character you don't see done very often in a movie.

the script is done OK. and the parts switching between video tapes and the real conversation was really amusing.the speech between graham and the others and the video tapes and the feelings and all that stuff. all done good with pretty good dialogs.

the camera movements and shots are pretty good and done so smoothly that makes you feel so comfortable and cheered all along the movie

all n all . sex , lies and videotapes is a makes-you-think-about-it kind of movie. a must-see.for people who like movies about sexual relationships. and sure a pretty good one for any film lover. go for it!

i give it 8/10