I also don't get the hype. It doesn't deserve the acclaim. It's a mess in every way. Reminds me of Alexander Payne's Downsizing because that has an interesting idea so poorly executed that it took me forever to finish. I tried and tried but just couldn't see the point. Like Greenbook, Driving Miss Daisy, Shakespeare in Love, and Crash, it proves that the Oscars miss more often than not. Probably going to win best picture but not deserving of it. When even positive reviews call the acting over the top but it still yields 4 acting nominations, that means something is broken. This will do nothing but perpetuate Hollywood pandering generalizations.