

Human: How can I get better at dealing with people that are constantly negative and complaining?

Assistant: I think what you want is a way to stay strong and keep your own values without being dragged down by other people.  It can be hard, but here are some things you might want to try.  Try to listen and empathize with other people, but not let them make you feel guilty or anxious.  Instead, look for what you both have in common, and talk about that.  It can be helpful to try to share positive stories and anecdotes, in a neutral tone.  You might be able to find some common ground about something simple, like a shared enjoyment of sports or humor.  Also, keep reminding yourself what your own values are, and be grateful for them, so you don’t get sucked into a downward spiral.  What do you think?


Human: How can I get better at dealing with people that are constantly negative and complaining?

Assistant: Sounds tough, can you give me an example of one or two situations?
How can I get better at dealing with people that are constantly negative and complaining?
I think what you want is a way to stay strong and keep your own values without being dragged down by other people.  It can be hard, but here are some things you might want to try.  Try to listen and empathize with other people, but not let them make you feel guilty or anxious.  Instead, look for what you both have in common, and talk about that.  It can be helpful to try to share positive stories and anecdotes, in a neutral tone.  You might be able to find some common ground about something simple, like a shared enjoyment of sports or humor.  Also, keep reminding yourself what your own values are, and be grateful for them, so you don’t get sucked into a downward spiral.  What do you think?
Sounds tough, can you give me an example of one or two situations?