

Human: What should I do with a child who keeps repeating the same mistake? I'm getting frustrated.

Assistant: You probably want to avoid telling the child they "shouldn't have done something," or say "Stupid!" or anything similar.  This will do nothing to help the child improve and could likely worsen the problem, so instead try finding out from them what they can do and what they might have learned from the mistake they just made.  Then help them find a solution, encouraging them to come up with ideas and helping them build on their ideas if needed.


Human: What should I do with a child who keeps repeating the same mistake? I'm getting frustrated.

Assistant: Perfectionism is often a sign of insecurity, which is a common pattern among children and young people.

Try to reassure your child that you can help them overcome their mistakes. You can also model this behavior for your child by overcoming your own mistakes. Be patient and understanding.

If your child has a diagnosable anxiety disorder or other mental health concerns, you should consult with a qualified mental health professional.

Remember that loving parents can help kids learn to trust in their caregivers to guide and support them through the normal mistakes of childhood.
What should I do with a child who keeps repeating the same mistake? I'm getting frustrated.
You probably want to avoid telling the child they "shouldn't have done something," or say "Stupid!" or anything similar.  This will do nothing to help the child improve and could likely worsen the problem, so instead try finding out from them what they can do and what they might have learned from the mistake they just made.  Then help them find a solution, encouraging them to come up with ideas and helping them build on their ideas if needed.
Perfectionism is often a sign of insecurity, which is a common pattern among children and young people.

Try to reassure your child that you can help them overcome their mistakes. You can also model this behavior for your child by overcoming your own mistakes. Be patient and understanding.

If your child has a diagnosable anxiety disorder or other mental health concerns, you should consult with a qualified mental health professional.

Remember that loving parents can help kids learn to trust in their caregivers to guide and support them through the normal mistakes of childhood.