

Human: My best friend is my roommate, but my boyfriend and I are getting more serious. How do I ask her to move out without ruining our friendship?

Assistant: How about you tell me a bit about your friend and the situation? Can you give me some examples of the type of things you two do together?


Human: My best friend is my roommate, but my boyfriend and I are getting more serious. How do I ask her to move out without ruining our friendship?

Assistant: Here’s an example:

I’ve been thinking a lot about your situation. I understand that your roommate is a good friend and you’re worried about asking her to move out. But I think you need to do it. Since you’ve started seeing your boyfriend more seriously, you two have been spending a lot of time together, and you don’t want to have to invite him over to your shared apartment each time. But if you don’t say anything, your roommate might not notice anything has changed. I know you’ve been feeling guilty about it, but it’s time to tell her.
My best friend is my roommate, but my boyfriend and I are getting more serious. How do I ask her to move out without ruining our friendship?
How about you tell me a bit about your friend and the situation? Can you give me some examples of the type of things you two do together?
Here’s an example:

I’ve been thinking a lot about your situation. I understand that your roommate is a good friend and you’re worried about asking her to move out. But I think you need to do it. Since you’ve started seeing your boyfriend more seriously, you two have been spending a lot of time together, and you don’t want to have to invite him over to your shared apartment each time. But if you don’t say anything, your roommate might not notice anything has changed. I know you’ve been feeling guilty about it, but it’s time to tell her.