This article explores an encounter between sexuality on the one hand and grieving and death on the other through different manifestations of sexual functioning: impotence (erectile dysfunction, precocious or rapid ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and anejacualtion), frigidity (absence of desire, decrease of desire, anorgasmia) and vaginism. These manifestations are characterized by loss, fear, and simulacra of death in one or more of its dimensions.