Our society shows a certain difficulty in accepting the idea that a boy can be sexually abused, although in recent years have seen a heightening of interest for this issue. The taboo surrounding this type of abuse continues, however, thus hindering men from revealing their past. The goal of this study is to understand what brings male survivors of child sexual abuse to seek help and join a support group. Fourteen qualitative interviews were conducted with male survivors and the results underline how important support groups are in helping deal with the aftermath of trauma. At same time, the data show the existence of a major difficulty for men to talk about the abuse and ask for help. This difficulty can be linked to the problem of refusal to accept passivity, sexual identity questions and doubts on their own “normality” that are brought on by the trauma.