birth control
"I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 15. I have no kids and the pill  I started  to forget and the hormones just are out of control.
I've had this in for 3 weeks now.  The worse part for me was putting it in. I felt a lot of pressure and discomfort. I had cramping after and all the next day. I bleed for 10 days then it stopped.  I just took pain meds before and after. I would recommend it.
On another note if your man is a big he can feel it a little bit inside of you, but doesn't hurt him just a different feeling. And wait like 2 weeks to have sex"