birth control
"I decided to try out the Paragard after giving birth to my 2nd child.  I'd already tried the pill & depo , neither worked for me so paragard was recommended for me due to the no hormones & longevity. The initial  procedure was so painful for me I thought I Was dying considering that I've never given birth vaginally. My obgyn had to attempt 3times before successful getting it done (my uterus is tighter than most so the utensil kept being pushed out). But the ultimate deal breaker for me is the irregular periods & discomfort during sex. My cycles come twice a month sometimes & they're so heavy that I have to use a tampon & pad at the same time & lasting longer. Sex is uncomfortable @times & I often have no sex drive at all."