Nancy 
2003 Toyota Highlander SUV AWD 4dr SUV (3.0L 6cyl 4A)
It's a Toyota, 161,000 no issues, just keep going
 Update, now has 187000 mi.  Purchased a 2017 RAV4, but kept the 2003 Highlander.  The 14yr old Highlander is yet a better car than the  new RAV.  More comfort, drives as well, better visibility. We should have taken a better look at the new Highlander.  Downside to the 2013 and newer Highlander is it's size.  Thought a RAV would be a bit smaller, but turns out the new RAV is a tiny bit larger than the 2003 Highlander.  Should have looked at the completion for better comfort that the RAV does not have.   This is a great car even for my short wife.  Easy to maneuver, good visibility, plenty of room, decent MPG.  Note that the 2003 had only a 4 sp transmission.  There has been two remakes of the Highlander since each one larger than the last.  We are about to upgrade and will go to a RAV 4.  The current RAV 4,  2013 > are now about the same size as this earlier 2003 Highlander.  In 161000 miles we have only had to have both rear wheel bearings replaced.  No other repair. Update, we now are at 183000 miles in Dec 2017 and still only the one issue with the wheel bearings.  This SUV just keeps going.  We have purchased a 2017 RAV4 and it is not a Highlander!  My personal take is that the 2003 Highlander still is my choice over the 2017 RAV.  The wife likes the RAV because of the safety features which is a plus.  But the seats in the older SUV are better than the newer car.  Mind you nether are great, just adequate.  The power of the RAV  4cyl is better than the V6 of the Highlander.  I am sure this is due to the improved transmission.  The visibility over the  hood of the RAV is impaired by the ridge over the fenders.  the Highlander had a nice smooth taper to the hood which gave better visibility.  If your are short this is an issue.  And since the driver seat only goes up about 2" plus it tilts forward ejecting you out of the seat.  I would look at the other competitors in the RAV4 class next time.   But it was the wife's car and in the correct color.