tmc2 
2004 BMW 3 Series Wagon 325i Rwd 4dr Sport Wagon (2.5L 6cyl 5M)
Fits the bill
 We have two kids and my wife likes to
zoom.  We got our 325iT built for us,
including PP and sport package... and a
manual transmission.  We wanted
something that can haul groceries or
just haul.  This is that wagon.  It
drives like a 325i sedan.  Damn fun on
the highway.  Fun as well on twisty
roads.  Only downside is the rear seat
can only seat two with kid car seats. 
Wish the cargo area were larger, but
honestly that might make it lumbering. 
I wouldn't want to upset the balance of
this jewel!