Why do my imessages go to all the ipads in the house Since switching to ios 7  all my imessages go to my daughters ipad and my husbands plus my name shows up as the sender from his ipad.  How do I stop this from happening.
I assume you have configured the accounts in that way. Check the iMessage configuration on all devices. Since iOS 7 asks for the account data after updating, this might have been introduced after updating.