How do I change the email address used by Calendar to send invitations? On macOS Catalina 10.15.4

How do I change the email address used by Calendar to send invitations?

Secondarily, I'd further like to receive acceptances, which don't appear to come.

Context:


I have several email adresses.
Currently Calendar sends invitations from "My Name &lt;noreply@email.apple.com&gt;". 
I'd like Calendar to send invitations from my work address.


I've done the following so far:


In Mail &gt;&gt; Preferences &gt;&gt; Composing, I changed the Send new messages from: field to my work email.
In Contacts &gt;&gt; Preferences &gt;&gt; Template, I have a single email field
identified as "work".
In Contacts I have moved my "work" email to the top of my emails.
In Mail &gt;&gt; Preferences &gt;&gt; Accounts, I attempted to drag my "work"
email account to the top of the list of accounts.  This does not work
in Catalina.  You can't change the order of accounts.  I understand
that one could previously do this.


Nothing works.

Short of deleting the accounts above "work" and recreating them, does any other way exist to do what I need to do?

Why does Calendar send invitations from "My Name &lt;noreply@email.apple.com&gt;"?

This seems weird, but I may have missed something.

Any help appreciated.
Standard way:

Go into Mail preference with

Mail > Preferences > Composing

and then change the following option: “Send new messages from”

If this did not work:

Go into Contacts and create a new card or pick the one with the mail address you want to use (i.e. your work e-mail).

Afterwards, go to the Card menu and select “Make this My Card”.
This mail address should now be your default for Calendar.