Move iTunes library from Windows XP computer to Windows 7 computer On the old laptop, I just changed the library location from the default C: to D:
I also did a consolidate and now I have the entire music, movies, iTunes folders, etc. in my D: drive, and want to move it the new laptop. 

I know I need to open iTunes by pressing Shift, but my problem is, that I cannot find the .itl file on my old laptop (at the new location of D:). I need this to select it on the new laptop. Where do I find my .itl file ? 

Thank you for your help!
iLounge has a great piece of instructions on how to move the iTunes library from one place to the next: http://www.ilounge.com/index.php/articles/comments/moving-your-itunes-library-to-a-new-hard-drive/

The ITL file in your case, probably remains on your C:\ drive.