Allowing VNC to control computer under 10.14 (Mojave) I've seen some topics asking for help (others offering it) re: apps asking for permission to use accesibility functions with regards to VNC in Mojave. RealVNC has a page describing the issue and a fix for their client. I use iTeleport, which works with macOS' own screen sharing. The connect app is not really maintained anymore but it's still a great option for iPhone owners.

The problem is, Mojave left it function as view-only and that renders virtually useless.

So, how do you fix this?
I couldn't find an answer online so I took to checking for incoming connections and also in the list of active processes so I could find how to fix it. You need to grant Accesibility privileges to AppleVNCServer which you can find under /System/Library/CoreServices/RemoteManagement/AppleVNCServer.bundle/Contents/MacOS/AppleVNCServer