Will signing in to iMessage on another device send an email to the Apple ID notifying of this? I was told I could monitor my 13 year old daughter's messages on an old iPhone through Wi-Fi. I was told to set up message on the phone with her Apple ID and password.

My question is will Apple send her an email asking her to allow the messages to be sent to my phone? I know they send one telling her someone accessed her account. If they only send one saying someone signed into her account that's ok.
It will send an email telling her iMessage has been enabled on a device. But there's no grant/deny option, it's just an informational email.