Orbital overlap and size "mismatch" Why is atomic size mismatch a sign of poor bond strength? Wouldn't orbital overlap be proportional whether the two atoms are small or the two atoms are big? 

For example I heard someone comment that an argument that the C-I bond is weaker than the C-F bond based on orbital overlap made no sense to them, because why would the size of the individual orbitals matter in overlap? Small atom, big atom and small atom, small atom - shouldn't their overlaps be proportional? Or something along the lines of that. I'll have to pull up the post again ...
Small atom, big atom and small atom, small atom - shouldn't their
  overlaps be proportional


No.  Look at the figure below and let's consider s-orbital overlap, just to keep it simple.  Remember that these are spheres with the electron density distributed throughout the entire volume.  In the "small-small" case there is effective overlap of the electron density in both 1s orbitals; we would expect the resultant bond to be strong.  In the "small-big" case, the small 1s orbital involves a significant fraction of its electron density in overlap, but not much of the electron density in the large s orbital is involved in overlap.  In the "small-big" case the overlap of electron clouds is ineffective and any resultant bond would be weak.