XeF4 - why are there only 2 dihedral mirror planes? I started studying molecular symmetry and I became somehow confused about dihedral mirror planes. I found a definition, which says,  that it is a vertical mirror plane, which bisects two $C_2$ axes.

But when I look at $\ce{XeF4}$ molecule, I see, that it has 4 $C_2$ axes and 4 vertical mirror planes. All of those planes are bisecting 2 $C_2$ axes and both all of them also go through some atom.

Still, there are only 2 dihedral mirror planes $\sigma_\mathrm{d}$ and the remaining two planes are just common vertical ones $\sigma_\mathrm{v}$.

So, could you please tell me what's the real difference between vertical and dihedral mirror planes?

OK, in a link given in comments by Tyberius is said, that dihedral planes are such planes, which bisects as many bonds as possible, while "normal" vertical planes bisects as many atoms as possible. Then I don't get, why ethene (see the picture below) doesn't have one dihedral plane, as one of them clearly bisects its central bond and we can't symmetrically bisect more bonds in this molecule.



$\ce{XeF4}$





Ethene
This is a situation of coordinate systems. In the $D_\mathrm{4h}$ point group, as you've noticed, there are 4 $C_{2}$ rotation axes in the plane. The easiest way to set the coordinate system is to have one pair be coincident with the $x$ and $y$ axes and the other pair coincident with the functions $x=y$ and $x=-y$.

Herein lies the issue: which pair is which? I think most people would agree that a reasonable choice is that the primary set should be coincident with the Cartesian axes. Indeed, an example character table for this group makes this choice as well (these are the $C_{2}'$ elements). This then defines which pair of mirror planes are $\sigma_\mathrm{d}$ and which pair are $\sigma_\mathrm{v}$.

This covers $\ce{XeF4}$ only, not ethene, because ethene belongs to the $D_\mathrm{2h}$ point group.

Here's the character table for that group. There's no dihedral mirror plane because the mirror planes perpendicular to the plane of molecule are coincident with the rotation axes.