Is society the follower of Mara? In day to day interaction, people treat me as if I exist. They say "'Dheeraj' would you like to see a movie?" They say "'Dheeraj' you are
    married." They say, "Would you like to eat spicy food or non spicy food?"
    Socially I am acceptable as an individual called 'Dheeraj'. If society is
    not collectively wrong in their view, then I exist. If society is
    collectively wrong about me, then myself is an error, illusion or
    dream, not just for me but for the entire society... Therefore if there is an escape for 'Dheeraj' from Self then it necessarily means that 'Dheeraj' has to escape from the society which believes that 'Dheeraj' exists. From Buddha's point of view if Self is Mara then Society is the follower of Mara as it encourages the growth of self. 
So my question is: is society the follower of Mara , the evil one?
If society is collectively wrong about me then ,myself is an error , illusion or dream, not just for me but for the entire society...

Yes. Correct. The Buddha said:

174. Blind is the world; here only a few possess insight. Only a few, like birds escaping from the net, go to realms of bliss.
Lokavagga




From Buddha's point of view if Self is Mara then Society is the follower of Mara as it encourages the growth of self.

Yes. Correct. This is the Buddhist view.

44. Who shall overcome this earth, this realm of Yama and this sphere of men and gods? Who shall bring to perfection the well-taught path of
wisdom as an expert garland-maker would his floral design?
45. A striver-on-the path shall overcome this earth, this realm of Yama and this sphere of men and gods. The striver-on-the-path shall
bring to perfection the well-taught path of wisdom, as an expert
garland-maker would his floral design.
46. Realizing that this body is like froth, penetrating its mirage-like nature, and plucking out Mara's flower-tipped arrows of
sensuality, go beyond sight of the King of Death!
47. As a mighty flood sweeps away the sleeping village, so death carries away the person of distracted mind who only plucks the flowers
(of pleasure).
48. The Destroyer brings under his sway the person of distracted mind who, insatiate in sense desires, only plucks the flowers (of
pleasure).
Pupphavagga

The Buddha taught individual people have different dispositions &amp; inclinations (MN 12). This means people should find a religion that suits their disposition and to not harass other religions. For example, the Buddha did not harass other religions.



So my question is : Is society the follower of Mara , the evil one?

Of course society is the follower of Mara. In India, for 100s of years, there has been the evil caste system, with millions of people living in condemned institutionalized poverty. For thousands of years, there is war after war. Only 70 years ago, 50 million people were slaughtered in a world war, including fire &amp; nuclear bombings of civilian cities. The current world has technology to be able to feed &amp; house every person, but there remains war, poverty, greed, abuse. Nations &amp; peoples lives are destroyed in unprovoked wars, such as in Iraq, Libya &amp; Syria. The public internet has evil pornography on it, which governments allow &amp; the people do not object to. The word is full of broken families. Slavery and slave labour has returned. A mafia of billionaires has just become the USA govt; which replaced a murderous war mongering government. Yet most of the American people agree with one of those governments. Of course society is the follower of Mara.

Note: Christianity appears to have the same view:

Question: &quot;How is Satan god of this world (2 Corinthians 4:4)?&quot;
Answer: The phrase “god of this world” (or “god of this age”) indicates that Satan is the major influence on the ideals, opinions,
goals, hopes and views of the majority of people. His influence also
encompasses the world’s philosophies, education, and commerce. The
thoughts, ideas, speculations and false religions of the world are
under his control and have sprung from his lies and deceptions.
Satan is also called the &quot;prince of the power of the air&quot; in Ephesians 2:2. He is the &quot;ruler of this world&quot; in John 12:31. These
titles and many more signify Satan’s capabilities. To say, for
example, that Satan is the &quot;prince of the power of the air&quot; is to
signify that in some way he rules over the world and the people in
it.
https://www.gotquestions.org/Satan-god-world.html