Suggestions on how to reply My MIL made reservations before we left for the convention and she wants to know if we are still planning on going. She asked my wife already and she said cancel the reservation. Now she is double checking with me. Obviously we arent going and dont intend on giving the impression that we are. 

He doesnt talk to me and I definitely dont talk to her. I'm looking for a way to crack her JW armor and plant a seed. Any suggestions?