How to fix things with my roommate? My roomate is a very outgoing girl and she leaves for hours. But she often forgets her keycard. So i try not to spend too much time in the bathroom, or take a nap, and always be fully dressed because if she knocks and i don't get the door fast enough, she'll get annoyed with me. But today, when i got back from class i took a nap. She just got a new keycard so i thought she'd have it. But i wake up to banging and kicking on the door. I told her i was sleeping and didn't hear her, she's still annoyed with me. She even thinks i don't answer the door fast enough on purpose. I just want us to be friends, but don't know what to do about this?