So this is how it works for me It starts as a good friendship.I've got limenerent, i'm constantly craving for her attention and validation. I've got what it's like anxiety crisis where I'm just waiting her messages. And there's two options a) messed with her and pressure her to get into a relationship (of course is horrible) but I just feel the need of validation and then b) what I'm currently doing breaking my heart multiple times util I find another LO.