(rave) online dating with breeders It just reminds me how happy I am without kids. I was talking to a guy, 23 with a little kid, working to get a high school equivalency because he never finished, and working at macdonalds. Then he asks what I do... And I'm like well I have an honours degree in psychology and own a dog grooming shop, at 23. (don't ask how my degree works for grooming, it just does). It just feels nice to feel like I'm accomplishing so much because I don't have a little kid taking over my life. I'm so happy to think about where my career will be in even just 5 years with the dedication I put in. Just such a nice reminder lol