What does marriage look like after a betrayal Marriage was something that I would look forward to with my WP. Nothing too big or expensive but classy and save money to travel. Had the same life goals in regard to our family and pets. 

Of course with his EA that all changed and while we have moved forward with reconciliation the idea of marriage has changed for me. 

Idk I guess the naive initial excitement for it had cooled down and now I wonder if sticking with common law marriage or living without getting married would be ok given what he has done. How have other couples handled marriage following the affair?