Boyfriends lady friend calling at 3/4am with her issues. Trying to not make it a big deal but I don't know if I'm exactly comfortable with it. My boyfriend is military and most of his friends are too. Their schedules can range from pretty much any time. His friend, I feel like relies on him for emotional support  a lot. She'll call him with whatever her problems are since her bf is usually at work. I don't really mind that but calling at 3 and 4 in the morning kind of bugs me. I want to be understanding but I don't know if I'm making it more than what it is. When she last called him, she was having issues with her bf. He doesn't hide anything from me but I don't want to be a dick to his friend either.