Aita for not eating my birthday cake. Am I the asshole for not eating my birthday cake? So today is my birthday and my dad got me a cake. My dad and my mom sang me happy birthday and then I cut the cake it was vanilla. I can't eat vanilla because I can't taste it and I think the icing was only dye so it tasted pretty bad. (I was only able to taste the icing because of the fork I cut it with and licked it to see what it tasted like) so I turned down the cake and went into my room. My stomach started to hurt after having the little icing I did so I didn't want to have any cake at all. Apparently, that hurt my dad's feelings to where he feels needed to take away my birthday that my friends planned and my boyfriend. He only didn't do it because he had work today but he will probably do it when he gets home.