How to we turn our thoughts into actions? M(31) F(30) Married in Missouri My (F) spouse and I are always making sexy comments and discussing each and every detail of a threesome or foursome when we get Hott. When out on a date night we always talk about it happening. It's as though we need the opportunity to fall right in our lap and everything to go perfectly even after that. Hahaha.  How do we get our feet wet without going to far out of the box? (I.e. parties or meetups)