I have feelings for a friend and it's culminated in us falling out, I can't go back to normal until I tell her how I feel but I don't know how to approach the subject This girl and I have known eachother around 1.5 years and been talking every day for about 5 months. I'm pretty sure she reciprocates the feelings but is shy and wouldn't ever say first. I think I've been holding it in for too long and we fell out about 2 weeks ago. A few days ago I messaged and explained to her the reasons why I was upset, as did she. But it just feels weird still and I can't stop feeling upset with her. I think the only way forward is telling her how I feel. I don't think I will feel ok until then because I personally think that's what the problem is. 

We have been messaging talking about this falling out, I just don't know what to say, and I don't want to ask her on a date just yet.