M(19) Sex Drive Disparity with GF (18) Given we go to different schools, I only get to see her on the weekends. Last semester when we saw each other we had sex at least 5 times a weekend. Over winter break she went off birth control so we didn’t have sad for a month. Now that she’s back on it we now only have sex maybe 1-3 times a weekend. I brought this up with her because I have a very high sex drive and want to know what happened to our sex life. She told me that she thinks all I care about is sex and it makes her want it less. She even told me that she sometimes haves sex with me just to make me less “mad” and then she feels shitty about it. I’m not sure how to process this. It feels like a big hit to the emotional connection in our relationship. Sex no longer feels intimate to me after her comments 