Curious About the Frequency of Gentle FemDoms? It says no personals, so I would provide context for 'why' but I feel like that would scream personal, and I'm more interested in the answer than the attention... I think it may be a minority of submissive males in the community who don't enjoy being demeaned, and like to be able to play a pleasuring role of equality sometimes in the relationship, but I can't believe it's entirely non-existent. I wonder how many women enjoy being dominant, but aren't necessarily into demeaning, power play, punishment, rules, and control as a mandatory function. I think even for those who like the gentle, caring, compassionate approach, most of the above are fun in moderation, but not as the central tenet of the relationship.   


Is this a thing in the community? Are the numbers reasonable? Is there a way to make this into a survey?