Some people think I shouldn’t be straight forward when it comes to asking guys for numbers There was a guy I was talking to that works at the university dining hall. I talked to him a few times but I feel since he is working, I wouldn’t get to talk to him that much. She thinks it’s not good for me to ask a guy’s number too fast, but I feel it’s a waste of time if I spend weeks talking to him. He told me it’s against his job to have relationships with students/customers whether it’s romantic or sexual. I’m glad I asked him sooner than wasting my time.  and It’s not like I’ll ask when I first met him, but asking once I got to know him enough. She is also. concern that people might think I’m a hoe since he might tell people I asked for his number 