Would I be unreasonable to ask my girlfriend to be more enthusiastic/passionate/seductive when it comes to sex? Me and my girlfriend love sex together and we both work well together, however I definitely have the higher sex drive and sometimes wish she would be a bit more seductive and sensual with sex, as most of the time she’s just happy to get down to it without much foreplay. Even when there is foreplay, like with oral sex, she won’t really play around or build up to a blowjob, she’ll just take it out and it goes straight in her mouth, same speed and stuff from the get go. Almost clinical, but I feel bad wanting to mention something! Would it be a bit harsh to? I’m looking for opinions I suppose form both guys and girls!