Is it normal for men to prefer masturbation over sex? So had been with my bf for 2.5 years. And in the last 6 months or so, the frequency of sex went significantly down. He would put rules like no sex after 12, cuz need to sleep and all. And even when we did have sex, which could’ve have very well been once or twice a month sometimes, he would not cum. We’d start fine but then his erection would go away. He’d finish me off and all, but it just felt extremely incomplete that he would not come. Told me not to take it personally, but it sure as hell felt personal. I did try to talk to him about it multiple times but he’d shut me down. Or say things like he masturbated in the morning and he doesn’t really cum multiple times in a day. Once blamed the condoms for for having too much numbing agents and all. I m just not sure what’s the reason here. He’s 32 btw, not really fit but not fat either.