I confronted my mother about her being abusive and she denied it all I am 22 years old and due to move out soon to start a new job. I’m pretty sure my mother and my toxic home environment is responsible for my bpd. My mum used to hit me when I was a child, she used to scream and me and say horrible things. She only stopped hitting me when i started university aged 18 and she still shouts at me a lot. I confronted her for the way that she had raised me and she said she has ‘no regrets’ and that she thinks she is a very good mother.