Can’t insert anything in vagina any tips? I have a high sex drive but I’m being limited by my own vagina :( fingers, toys,  tampons can’t use any of them. It feels like a searing pain like tearing no matter how much I breathe or masturbate before hand. The same toys can easily be put in my butt with a little persuasion but no pain. I’m really confused and a bit scared that my first time will be super painful. Help?

(I use a ton of lube btw)