Help me break into the life I'm a 43 yr old single Male. Never thought once about the lifestyle until talking to my ex wife and she mentioned her ex she had just broke up with introduced her to the lifestyle. After thinking about it all, first I realize if we were in the lifestyle it would have saved our marriage. No neither of us cheated, but both very jealous but extremely high sexual desires. Now the more I think about the lifestyle the more amazing it seems and more secure it would oddly make a relationship. With that being said how does a single Male break into the lifestyle?