Are there spells to become more Important? I know I worded that terribly oof, I'm a baby witch (Well I was unknowingly already doing a lot of this when I was a teenager, but then stopped? I don't know lol)

I have this problem where any time I try to do something that helps myself but relies on other people (like appointments or generally everything since I'm disabled and don't drive) I always am the last priority.

It's so bad that doctors forget to call me back for weeks even if I bug them. I haven't seen my therapist in weeks because my insurance is just letting my stuff slip through the cracks. It's crazy how much this stuff happens to me and my mom.

So are there any spells I can do to be prioritized?