WIBTA for not changing a diaper for six hours? I have a friend who is a single mother with a six year old son. Three days ago, my friend left him with me unannounced due to an emergency. I had to call off work with not enough notice so I plan to be reprimanded tomorrow for my next shift. I tried to refuse him, even threatened that I would not change any diapers but she didn't listen. She came to my doorstep, left him there, and I only caught her as she was getting back into her car.

She didn't return for six hours and I held true to my word: I didn't change a single diaper. The kid should not be in diapers anyways. I supervised him insofar I turned the TV on and went to do my own thing. He's nonverbal and on the spectrum so he was absorbed into watching TV so there were no issues.

I've been chewed out to an ungodly level for this, specifically not changing his diaper but I didn't agree to this at all. Was I the asshole?