I'm clingy and I feel like it ruins my relationships So, for a while now I've been trying to handle my clingyness because I feel like it just seems to scare people away and such. I have strong abandonment issues (where the clingy comes from) and I've been trying to not be as clingy but my brain likes to over think and make me feel like I need to be. While I'm not too terrible, I'm the type of person to always want a hug or to hold hands or to cuddle or to text back a lot and fast to my partners. It's ruined 3 of my relationships and honestly I'm starting to feel like crap because of it, I feel like it scares everyone away.. Should I try to cool my jets and not be so clingy?? I need advice. Thanks 🙏