Roommate dating my ex So a while ago I contacted my ex boyfriend of a few years and hung out with him to catch up. Once I realized that was no good for my mental health, my roommate, who I am very close with started hanging out with him independently. I expressed to both of them that the thought of them together makes me feel uncomfortable. I keep asking her what’s going on with the two of them and she denies any relationship or sex. Yesterday I overheard my ex telling a neighbor of mine about “his girlfriend” referring to my roommate. He is over all the time spending nights with my roommate. I know I can’t control either of their behaviors or desires, and I’m having trouble coping with their “relationship.” Any feedback on what I can do? 