I'm a gay parent and struggle to accept that my son is fucking girls at 16 I'm a gay single dad and found out that my 16yo is having sex with his girlfriend. He was so blase about it too. I immediately felt sicken because I wasn't fucking at 16yo. I was working and focused on school. But I was in the closet and had it been more acceptable and there been cute guys, then I might have been sexually active. I'm in my 40s and only been with five men. I know the stereotype of a teen boy wanting to fuck everything, but I didn't think that would be my kid. And his girlfriend's parents are totally cool with it and even put her on birth control and gave her Plan B. I just find myself saying that this is the same kid who still wanted me to spend some time with him before he went to sleep (sort of like a "mature" version of a tug in). Fuck, I hate being gay.