Best way to have the talk? I feel like I'm going about all of this the wrong way.
He gets so upset and shuts down.
I want to be able to sit him down face to face and tell him how I feel. 
But I feel like I come off extremely rude and more pointing the finger at him.
Is there any tactful way to have this discussion like an adult without being so hostile?
I know that's just my pent up feelings..but I just want to know the best way to do this.
Yes I already have an exit plan.
But I'm trying to be more optimistic.
Because I don't like being a sad person. 
Thoughts?