Putting Too Much Expectations on T Hello. I'm an Asian FTM and just started my HRT. 

During Pre-T I would say I do not have severe dysphoria with my body, except the part of my hips where I would be emotional when seeing how the curves sit with my jeans. Other than that, I would be fine with exercising by only wearing a female sports bra on top in a public gym.

Mentally however, I often felt inferior to other men because of how I see myself not as strong, in control and focused.

Therefore, being on T has definitely set some expectations on how it will affect/better my insecurities above. Although, deep down I know that T is just a chemical substance that won't be able to flip my life unless I myself deal with it.

I wonder how during my transition I can manage these expectations and learn more rather than focusing on what the chemical might/or may not do?

Thanks! 