About to meet a girl next month So yeah, I can't get hard to fantasies and porn and I'm meeting my (soon to be) girlfriend in a month. I told her about my current situation and she was really understandable and the biggest sweetheart about it, she said that "we are much more than sex and it is just a bonus". A friend of mine who also had PIED told me that he had a difficult time getting an erection before sex but could succesfully do it. I don't know what will happen, there's so much in my mind right now...