My boyfriend came out to me as polyamorous, and still wanted a relationship. I broke up with him. I need help understanding polyamory. As a gay man, I feel like I've been judged in my life, and that's what I'm doing to him.

It's a line I won't cross, I feel like in my soul I could only be monogamous. I won't be friends with him or try to be in a polyamorous relationship, not only e cause of this revaluation, but also I loved him too much, and the pain is too distracting.

Berating him was inexcusable, and I crave to learn more for other LGBT folk. I want to learn. Please, I know I may sound ignorant, I am on this subject.