Coworker asks me out over text on company provided cell. Why are men so dumb? I am frustrated that a guy I work with would use my work cell to contact me to ask me out. I never gave him that number, he had to look it up.

I am frustrated that after ignoring his text, he asked again.

I am frustrated that I am not allowed to block him because I still need to work with him.

I am frustrated that I need to figure out the perfect way to tell him Knock it Off without him getting butt hurt while making it crystal clear I would have swiped left so hard even his mama would think she felt the holy spirit. 

I am frustrated that I have to be professional when I just want yell at him Outlook is not Tinder. 

I am frustrated that I was only on his radar suddenly because I said Happy Holidays as we left for the holiday. If I went out a different door, he'd wouldn't remember I existed. 

We are both in our 40s, I thought we were over this shit.