Boyfriend who is always hard loses his boner as soon as it comes to having sex My (22F) boyfriend (29M) can’t get an erection everytime when we try and have sex recently. We have been together 6 months and have a perfect relationship otherwise but the past couple of months he can’t get an erection when it comes to sex. He Is hard literally every 5 minutes but as soon as it comes to doing the deed goes flaccid. What can I do to help him? Could it be me even though he insists it isn’t.  We are both very open to trying everything sexually and sexual people so this is really causing a strain for me in our relationship 