Am I moving to fast? I brought up these feelings to my therapist the last couple sessions, and she says I may be moving to fast.

Now, I do understand her reservations,  as when I started therapy around 4 months ago I was in deep denial about everything.  I still claimed to be a straight,  Christian  male. So from her perspective,  this all is new. But I feel like I have been dealing with all this for years. 

Is she right? Should I  pump the breaks? Am I coming to a conclusion to quickly on who I am?