Coping with a lack of sex. I now see that the last year of fapping was mostly due to the fact that me and my girlfriend don't have a lot of sex. When we do have sex it is great, it's just the amount of it that keeps me coming back to masturbation. The thing is, I don't see the frequency change the near future, she suffers from a lot of trauma revolving this subject so she also asks for a lot of time to heal (which is of course totally okay). But I know even without the trauma our libido barely match, and I don't know how I can lose this sexual energy without fapping. Please don't say a cold shower or working out, I just crave intimicy.