Making the bedroom dead I just can't put up with my girlfriend's weight gain. She does not look attractive to me anymore. We still have sex, like once a week or two weeks. But I don't want it anymore. 

I often say I am tired because of work or gym just so she does not initiate. We often went two rounds before. Meaning we used two condoms, but now I feel like I can't relax because her stomach fat is distracting me. 

At this point I'd rather have a dead bedroom than sex with her. And clueless what do to about this. I already told her she should keep.better care of her health, body, etc. And that she should go to the gym. 