Weed and dating advice I never know when the right time to ask a girl how she feels about smoking. I smoke at least 2 or 3 times a day and crafting new pieces almost weekly is something I really like doing. I work in high stress environments so weed allows me to level my head and ground myself. My problem is that I don't know how to bring it up. I feel like my heavy use is something that could scare off some people.