Is it really that hard to find a childfree partner? So, I've been dealing with a bunch of different issues, but the whole childfree one has been making me rather sad lately. My ex-girlfriend and I broke up a long while ago and I've moved on from her. We had our differences but a big one was that her dream was to be a mum and I didn't want to keep her from achieving her dreams. I worry that it will be very hard to find a nice girl who is childfree, since it feels like everyone wants kids at one point or another. Is it really as hopeless as I think it is?