Just going back to work Hi there, I'm new to this community and I guess looking for some help. I haven't worked in 3 years. I had surgery and then back to back pregnancies and well now we can't afford for both my husband and I to be home. So I said I would go back to work, well after a week of watching him try to care for the kids I realize he can't handle our 3 month old, she's very much all about momma. Well it's a bit too late, I have the job and I start in 4 days. And it's basically a daily anxiety attack about leaving the kids with him (mostly the baby, the toddler is fairly easy). Any advice? 