When do I tell him??? Hi all, I'm looking for some advice. I've been talking to this guy for a while and we haven't met in person yet because of corona. I haven't told him about my massive weight loss because he didn't know me previously and in a way I want to cut off the "old me" from people I've met as "current me"..... anyways he'll find out eventually that I lost 100+ lbs due to my loose skin HOWEVER I'm wondering at what point should I tell him I had RNY??? Do I need to tell him? Please tell me y'all's opinions on this.