Called my mum out on what I think is racism and now she’s upset My mum and I were talking about a location I wanted to visit and she said that I should watch out for black people who will stab me. I said that was racist and she got really upset and wanted me to apologise, I told her no as I had called her statement racist not her but she wouldn’t have it. She got really upset and removed herself from the situation. Should I have just apologised even if I felt I was in the right? Even though it wasn’t that much of a serious situation I think she has taken it on a more personal level. Should I go back and apologise?