what would an INTJ 9w1 look like? i’ve assessed and taken multiple cognitive function tests and my results are always closest to the cognitive function stack of INTJ. however, I have avoided confrontation my whole life and strived to surround myself in peaceful environments. this is very similar behaviour to an INFJ and typically the enneagram 9 itself is akin to an INFJ. however, the difference is that I don’t go out of my way to create a peaceful environment but rather flee from situations that I can imagine will get tense. how can I differentiate between the two once and for all?