Dad bods in the lifestyle. So here is my worry (that sounds super dumb when I say it out loud).  I used to go to a club in my 20's with my Ex GF.  I was pretty fit.  We used to kind of make fun of those couples that were "dumpy looking" (God I feel like a piece of shit even typing that.) Now in my late 30's I'm a better person and my wife has shown interest in getting in the lifestyle. Funny thing is I thought I was done with all that. So it's kind of a nice surprise.    


So we did a little research and found we have a Colette here in New Orleans. It looks a bit nicer than the club I used to go to in my 20's in the mid-west.  With all that said. Am I about to get my karma payback if we go now that I'm rocking the dad bod?  For some context. I get a fair amount of female attention in the vanilla world. So I guess I'm vanilla attractive. But what about the club?  Thanks and sorry to all those middle aged swingers I used to look down on.  