LLF suddenly making an effort now I’m not interested HLM After a few years of a sexless marriage and multiple iterations of the chat, I finally made the decision to leave. 

After communicating this, my wife has suddenly started making the effort and is trying to initiate sex and is now being very affectionate toward me (frequently seeking hugs and kisses). This is what I’ve wanted for years, but I now find myself uninterested.

I am so confused. What’s going on?