How can I be more feminine without changing who I am as a person? I feel like I'm not in touch with the feminine side of my personality and I don't know how to be.. I dress very girly and love wearing jewelry, makeup, and dressing feminine. But I'm also a woman in the military and I am the only female in a very dominant personality male dominated career field. The environment is very masculine and I feel like I have to have a more manly persona and personality in order to be respected and listened to by male peers. My coworkers treat me like one of the guys and there is a lot of cussing/locker room talk. I do curse a lot and talk like a dude - something I'm working on is to stop cursing so much and saying dude/bro lol my interests also include motorcycle riding, video games, weight lifting, working on cars and various other "manly" hobbies. I'm often asked if I'm a lesbian and told I'm not very lady like. Any tips on what I can do to change this or how to be more feminine?