He cares too much about my chronic lillenesses. (Advice) I have been with my husband since I was 16, he was 21. Through the years,  we've had our growing pains as any couple will. We are now 41 and 45, no children. (That's a whole other conversation!) I have suffered with Essential Tremors since age 20. He has watched me get progressively worse,  and I got diagnosed in May of last year with Parkinson's Disease also. He has supported me through some really bad days and dark moods. He has switched into caregiver mode- which is awesome, many men would not (could not) do all he does for me. In the process, everything has become about my illnesses.... we are losing our mojo. I'm the patient,  he's the caregiver. Its hard to put on lingerie to get him in a sexy time mood... but i need more than a nurse. So thankful he's stepped up in a huge way... but I miss us. I have a long way to go with this, and want a marriage,  not just a care partner. Is that being greedy?