Opal Engagement Ring I just have a quick question: 

I really want an opal engagement ring, however i have heard that opals have a tendency to crack and require a lot of upkeep. 

The upkeep, i don't mind. But i work I run a very fast paced restaurant and I'm just worried if getting an opal ring would be ideal for me knowing that I do a lot of heavy labor and am also the most uncoordinated human and constantly smack my rings on door frames, walls, ovens, etc. 

I would really love an opal ring, but I dont want to destroy it knowing that I'm pretty clumsy and work in a very hands on field. If there is a type of opal that could withstand the terror i put onto things, please let me know!