Problems in bed, Need some advice So lately sex hasn't been so great, bf is very unsatisfied because I am just not into it. I can't get into it though, because he doesn't turn me on before sex! We kiss for a few minutes but he seems impatient and forceful with me. Sex is totally unenjoyable when I'm not turned on. How do I bring this up? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I also don't want him to keep blaming me for bad sex.