Super proud of my friend She's not childfree, but when she found out she was accidentally pregnant she looked at it logically (no place of her own, new boyfriend of only a few weeks, new amazing job, paying off various bills) and made the decision for herself to get an abortion. She still might have a family in the future, but I'm really proud of her that--especially after having mutual friends who in similar situations kept the fetus--she was able to make this decision for herself. I was also glad that, despite our differences in opinions and goals in life, that we were able to have conversations about it. Yeah I'm glad this was the choice she made out of the two options, but I'm more proud that she was able to take a step back from the situation and look at it for herself. Just really proud of them and felt the need to share it. 