(NC USA) I'm 18 about to go in the airforce and my mother is threatening to hurt herself if i enlist and say i did it to the police Not sure what to do. I'm an 18 year old male. my mom is 65 with early dementia/depression and she's been saying that if i don't stay home and get a job to help her with bills she'll give herself a black eye and get the cops to arrest me. I know i could try and record her saying this but i haven't had the chance. I just recently turned 18 have no car or job. and just a high school diploma what should i do?