Help! I need new friends to teach me how to be secular! (Orem/Provo) Long story short my entire social circle consists of only TBMs. I am 27 years old and very recently lost my faith. I need new friends to teach me simple things like:

- How to pick up a girl in a bar
- How to have fun that doesn't involve a church gym and a volleyball net.
- How to deal with being stuck in Utah =(
- Why 10$ wine tastes so bad (I had alcohol for the first time today, it was not a good experience lol)

And so on. I know there are many people in this community with much more pressing needs than mine but if there are others here in Orem/Provo area (or even SLC) near my age I could use some of that exmo outreach &lt;3.