Bored while making girlfriend cum? My girlfriend finds it really difficult to have an orgasm.  While having sex, we spend most of our time spooning or something so I can touch her clit or she can use her vibe.  Sometimes it amounts to an hour or more.  I don't know how to tell her that I'm getting bored.  Is there something I should do differently?  I've asked her and she says it's been like this with every guy.  But I find myself not interested in sex, because I know it'll turn into this hour long thing every time, where I'm basically just trying to maintain an erection while I pray she's going to get off.  Help?