I m 38, high stress, in a bad relationship, work hard, make decent money, but have 3 kids by 3 different relationships! 23 yr old son on 7/24, 19 on 4/11, and 15 on 8/16. been with the same guy for 18 years, we are not married, but have our 14 yr old together, and would have had a 16 year old. Bbut he died from SIDS at 5 weeks...I lost weight in 2004, (when I was 29), now its creeping... and even though I haven t had time to work out in a month... I know what I need to do. You are not a psychiatrist... but I m concerned for my health! I refuse hbp meds because I am situational, but I need something...anything FAST!!