How to reduce my want/need for sex? My husbands(34) libido dropped from sex 2-3 times a day to once every 6 months (if I'm lucky). I(29) feel like I'm harrassing him when I try to initiate every time, like he made a comment once that I'm molesting him. After that comment I haven't once tried to touch or suggest anything sexual. I've even just avoided making dumb statements or comments that invokd genitals, like saying "oh that person is a dick" or the word fuck.

But the problem is my libido is higher than ever, and I don't want to cheat on him and clearly I'm not going to get any from him.

So how can I reduce mine?