Help: Should I do a rehearsal dinner (no rehearsing will actually happen, just for families to be together) OR a celebratory brunch the day after the wedding? Unfortunately, I only have budget for one of these events and can't decide which is the better option. The wedding is on a Sunday night, but over Labor Day weekend, so guests won't have to work Monday. However many will need to fly 2-3 hours back home sometime on Monday.