Ex wife is moving 2 hours away in secret and refuses to send 3 year old daughter to preschool. I've told her if she moves she can have every other weekend. So her solution is to move and just not tell me. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. My lawyer is great but she's said we can't act until my ex actually does it and we have proof, at which point we can throw the book at her. How do I get proof? Ex won't tell me. Ex's mom lies for her, and I don't have any other contacts that know ex. By the time I get proof and get a court order how many months will my 3 year old daughter have been living half the time in a strange city with no other family or support around? All of my daughter's support and family and routine and daycare are in current city. Ex doesn't care, she just wants to live with her new bf 2 hours away. Everything is fucked and I feel like I have no control over my life because ex is a dishonest narcissist.