I feel like no matter how hard I try to put myself out there and meet people it's still all up to random chance. I joined groups at my university, went to bars, made profiles online, and even went to SF pride but it seems I can never find a guy that I like who also likes me. I was beginning to feel hopeless and that perhaps the kind of guy I'm attracted to just doesn't exist in the gay community. 

But then last night through a series of random events in which I almost didn't take part I met an awesome person and had a fantastic night :)    I don't know if the moral of the story is to keep trying because things will go right eventually or to just give up because life is random anyway. The important thing is to not lost hope. I just wanted to share my story.