Staying calm about how often I'm not home I am 20 working in manufacturing. I make good money for my age especially with no college education, but I work 12 hour shifts 4 on 4 off. Those days where I work. I only get around 3 hours of time awake that I can see my son. I find myself during the days I work being stressed, sad, and all kinds of upset because I'm not home enough to help out, see my son or fiance, etc. Any advice.