Should I (33M) be upset that she (25F) hasn’t offered to pay or even thanked me for dinner or drinks So we have only been on 2 dates, but there have be 3 opportunities to pay (I was the one who asked the server for the bills). Am I wrong to feel upset she hasn’t at least offered on any occasion? And also hasn’t thanked me after. She makes good money, but does have a lot of expenses. It’s not about the money, but I’m kind of into her and would have loved for her to at least have offered.