AITA for using my daughters college fund to pay for face tattoos? So my parents died a few years ago and left a college fund for my daughter with about $200k in it. I have this dream of being a mumble rapper and because of Covid I've been stuck working at the local deli I've been working at for the past 10 years. I decided to use the college fund money to buy a bunch of face tattoos and get in with a local MS13 gang so I could get my street cred up. I only took out like $190k of it, so there's still quite a bit left and she's only 17 so by the time she goes to school I should have replenished it. My ex-wife said that I shouldn't have done that but she's a woman so how much can she really know about finances? Anyway, AITA?