Any married guys on this sub that can lend some advice? I just started SR again and it’s been 7 day’s now. I’m 30 my wife is 27 and we work from home plus with this quarantine shit we are inside together all damn day.

Usually I have a high sex drive and am initiating sex but when I do SR I try to avoid sex because I know it will lead to relapse. Once I’m about 3 weeks in then I can fuck her without ejaculating. The thing is she can’t wait and it’s causing stress in our marriage. I offer to get her off without intercourse and she just gets all pissy and says I’m selfish.

Any advice? Also would be nice to hear there are older guys on here I feel like it’s mostly teens and college kids.