What kinda intimate stuff would my newlywed bride expect on first night? Also, should I perform oral sex on her on the first night? (of course only if she is comfortable with and interested in it). (India, Arranged marriage scenario). Answers especially welcome from ladies! Of course, she is my wife and we will have many, many discussions about it! I just want to start a dialogue so I get more insight specifically into an Indian girls' perspective in general in advance... Hope to get different peoples perspective so as to enrich my own!