37M married for 5 years divorced for 3 and I want to hurt something My wife cheated on me and recent paperwork she asked me to sign shows she’s living with the guy. My friends tell me to move on and not confront her. She never admitted to cheating. But one mutual friend was good enough to confirm their relationship and tell me he is miserable.

I’m tired or people telling me to get over it. I want to call her out. I want to tell him that she’s a cheater and will do the same to him. I want to rage like when Edward Norton beat up Jared Leto in fight club because he wanted to destroy something beautiful. 

I will not resort to actual violence, but need an outlet.