My LL husband makes me miss my shitty ex My vanilla, LL husband never wants sex and I have to beg him for it. Even when I do get sex, it isn't that great. He doesn't do foreplay and doesn't want to explore sexually, even thought I've communicated many times that it is what I want. I'm sick of feeling like I'm undesirable. 

Additionally, he doesn't fulfill me emotionally. Sure, I can talk to him about problems outside of our marriage, but as soon as I tell him that I feel that our relationship needs work, he shuts down. He doesn't particularly make me feel special or loved, and he doesn't open himself up emotionally. I feel like I'm talking to a wall, and it's affecting our marriage. 

This brings me to my ex. My ex knew how to fulfill all of my emotional and sexual needs, but he was also an irresponsible, selfish piece of shit. It just sucks that I suddenly miss my shitty ex because my husband doesn't seem to care about what I want and need. 