Is it wrong to feel disappointed in the sex of the baby? I know ultimately only thing matters is healthy, and I get tired of hearing of that, especially since we really want a daughter.

We are only 12 weeks, but have our hopes high for a daughter... everyone says we will have a boy.. carrying low... and the whole energy aura stuff etc.

Would it be wrong to be sad and disappointed if we had a boy? We will get over it ofc.. but can't help feel like a big loss happened if its not a girl.

Any advice?