One understands asters as a symbol of the dignity, they can promise more respect and honour. This flower is brought with pleasure to the dead people to the grave. They are afraid (unconsciously) around your health or those of friends. Maybe you have perceived sign of disturbances, without it became clear to them. Are in this respect a little more carefully in the next time. Traditionally whiteness or black asters are understood as an announcement by illnesses and deaths, one picks coloured ones for late love, because they are the flowers of the autumn, the life autumn. Wilted asters stand often for hopes which one must bury.
pick: heavy illness with likely death.
a bright Yellow: if betrayal, disappointments or even intrigues and envy registers.
wilts: your hopes are deceived.