How do you enter into a commitment?
With what attitude do you go into a relationship or commitment?
"Well, if it doesn't work out, I'll try something else," or "This is gonna be great; I can hardly wait to get started!"
Today me and my husband celebrate 32 years of wedded bliss; it is a happy marriage, indeed. The day of the wedding I looked forward to spending the rest of my life with that man and having a family together. We enjoy each other's company and look to our golden years.
Conversely, we knew of a couple who were married for approximately six years. The wife said to me, "I'm glad we don't have any kids; it'll be easier if we ever divorce."
Although they seemed happily married, a few years later still with no children, they did divorce.
The attitude you have at the beginning of your relationship or project can indeed have a profound effect on its outcome.
So what is your barometric reading where your attitude is concerned? Are you laying the groundwork for success or playing with failure?
It takes two to tango. And, therein lies the true story. Both parties have to want- and to work- at maintaining the relationship.