Dear Deserve Better, Sounds like a confusing mix going on. I think your “gf” is right, that you are better off without her, as you do deserve better. She is being cowardly to tell you that way, rather than the truth, whatever that might be. You know some pieces of the truth, that she’s slept with at least 2 people while seeing you, and she’s never said a thing about either one to you. You both are dancing around the truth you both know, pretending it doesn’t exist. What are you holding on to? A fantasy? A movie in your mind? What would happen if you told her you knew about the other two lovers she’s had, and what would you say if she told you everything? Whatever happens, you both would have the truth out, and then there might be a chance of something real happening: a break-up, a friendship, or perhaps something more. Tell the truth, and give each other up. I’m not sure you ever had each other to begin with.