text: Toh kya mujhe unse khud baat karni chahiye ya pehle unse kisi common friend ke through milna chahiye, yeh soch raha hoon.Common friend ke through milna ek achha option hai, par agar tumhe lagta hai ki tumhe baat karni chahiye, toh khud se hi start karo, kyunki asli baatein face-to-face hoti hain.