text: mujhe samajh nahi aa raha,kya mere partner ko har cheez ke liye samjhana zaroori hai ya unhe khud seekhne ka mauka dena chahiye?thoda balance hona chahiye, kabhi kabhi samjhana bhi zaroori hai, lekin unhe khud seekhne ka mauka dena bhi relationship ki maturity ke liye acha hota hai.