text: yaar,mujhe samajh nahi aa raha, kab tak mujhe apne bache ke liye sab kuch plan karte rehna chahiye, kya unhe khud decide karne ka mauka nahi dena chahiye?bilkul, balance zaroori hai, unhe independence dena bhi important hai, par kabhi kabhi thoda guidance dena bhi unke liye beneficial hota hai!