But i right but i agree it has to be at their choice and it needs to be a time when they ' re ready to do it i don ' t think you can just snatch somebody away from you know hujui hali yao ni gani ama what ' s going on their life you can ' t just snatch them away na kuwafanya waende wafanye kitu wao
Haijalishi wanataka kufanya nini , wanafaa kufuata maelekezo .