Teil eins: Denk selbstbewusst Part Three: Looking Cocky
Ein starkes Selbstbewusstsein kommt von dem Selbstverständnis (viele würden vielleicht auch "Arroganz" dazu sagen), die kompetenteste, interessanteste und bestaussehendste Person im Raum bist - auch wenn Du es nicht sein solltest! Du musst also auch umgekehrt davon überzeugt sein, dass die meisten Menschen, die Dir begegnen, stumpfsinnig, langweilig und völlig inkompetent sind. Wenn du tatsächlich glaubst, die Nummer Eins zu sein und dass beinahe niemand an Dich herankommt, wird es um ein Vieles leichter, die folgenden Tipps zu befolgen. Versuche die Dinge, die Dir liegen mental höher zu stellen und zu bewundern und schenke dabei den Dingen, in denen Du schlecht bist, kaum Beachtung. Du bist ein toller Schüler/Student, aber schlecht in sport? Dann solltest Du so über Dich denken: "Ich bin die schlaueste Person, die ich kenne. Und ich werde eines Tages einen fantastischen Job haben. Wen kümmern schon diese Blödmänner etwas an, die jedem zu gefallen scheinen? Sport ist unwichtig - in ein paar Jahren werden die mein Auto waschen müssen." Eine selbstbewusste Person ist der Mittelpunkt einer Party - jeder Party. Sie/er ist der Grund dafür, dass die anderen Spaß haben. Denke daran, wenn Du an gesellschaftlichen Ereignissen teilnimmst - wenn Dich sowieso jeder mag, kannst Du den langweiligen Smalltalk gleich hinter Dir lassen und gleich zu den interessanten Themen kommen - wie Dir selbst! Setze einfach einen bestimmten Vertrauenslevel mit jedem voraus - wenn jeder Dein Freund ist, kannst Du leicht ins Gespräch mit ihnen kommen und sie sogar leicht necken (wie Freunde es eben so machen).  Sagen wir mal, eine selbstbewusste Person kommt bei einer Party an. Er/sie sieht eine andere ihm/ihn bekannte Person, die mit jemandem in der Ecke ein Gespräch führt. Eine selbstbewusste Person würde ohne zu zögern, sich leise an sie anschleichen und plötzlich mit einem Scherz in das Gespräch hereinbrechen. Die Voraussetzung von Vertrautheit ist entscheidend - eine weniger selbstbewusste Person wäre vielleicht einfach zu Ihrer Bekanntschaft gegangenThe assumption of familiarity is crucial - a less cocky person might have simply walked up to her acquaintance, made an awkward, stilted introduction, then excused herself from the conversation. Sincerity is key here. People naturally look to others for social cues, so the more  you  sincerely believe that you're the center of attention, the more other people will too. The only time a cocky person is indecisive is when s/he is deciding which supermodel to ask out first. Cocky people have a strong opinion on almost everything and they're almost never afraid to share it. They don't worry about offending others because they  know  that they're right - if someone else doesn't want to admit it, that's not the cocky person's problem. A cocky person isn't afraid of a good debate - after all, he's sure to win because he  knows  he's right.  On the other hand, a cocky person won't ever embarrass himself by getting too emotionally invested in an argument. He feels no need to waste energy yelling or resorting to personal insults. After all, he's right, so why would he need to? A cocky person won't refrain from correcting someone out of politeness. Let's say his history teacher mistakenly says that East and West Germany reunited in 1989, not 1990. He will raise his hang and politely (but firmly) explain the teacher's mistake: "Excuse me, I think Germany was formally reunited in 1990. My Grandma was there." Knowing that someone desires you is a big confidence booster - imagine how your confidence will skyrocket if you simply assume that  everyone  thinks you're hot stuff! Take great pride in your looks and your charm. Are you wearing a new outfit for the first time? Hold your head high - be confident that everyone's admiring you. Give an alluring smile to the guy that you're interested in. If you believe that everyone already is in love with you, you've got no reason to worry. Truly cocky people exude an air of easy confidence, so even if you've put a great deal of effort into your appearance or behavior, act as if it's effortless. If complimented on a bold style choice, say "Oh this? Just something I found in the closet" rather than "It took me four hours to put together, so I sure hope it looks good!" It's sad, but true: no matter how excellent you are, you'll eventually run into people who refuse to give you the respect you deserve. You might even run into the occasional person who  doesn't like you.  Don't bother with such small-minded people. If they don't love you, there's something wrong with them, not you. Haters often are aiming to get a reaction out of you. Don't give haters what they want by letting them get you angry or flustered. Casually dismiss them with a line like, "You're just jealous because you share my impeccable taste in everything." Cockiness is an exaggerated form of personal confidence. To be truly cocky, you've got to have a good, self-confident foundation to work with. Cockiness without real confidence comes across as pathetic posturing, which is  the opposite  of what you want. Rather than seeming like you're not worried about what people think, you'll seem to be worried about what everyone thinks. If you're not confident, there's no magic way to become so overnight, However, to start down the path towards confidence, begin by working towards achievements that make you proud. The good feeling you get from making these achievements will fuel  you make bigger achievements, and, ultimately, become more skilled, experienced, and confident. One great way of telegraphing to everyone in the room that you're cocky is to display this trait with confident body language. You'll want to have a broad, erect stance as your default way of standing. Keep your shoulders back and your head up while holding your chest up. It sounds crazy, but it works - changing from a slouched or slumped default posture to a more dignified one can make a marked difference on how people think of you (and how you think of yourself.) Cocky people know that they're the coolest person to walk the face of the earth - their faces should reflect this. A cocky person is perpetually amused with himself. Keep a proud smile on your face whenever you can. When you're interacting with someone, especially if it's someone you're interested in romantically, you might want to add a little mischievousness to your expression, as if you consider the conversation to be an amusing game. These relatively small changes to your expression can cause significant changes in your behavior. Pretending to feel a certain way can actually make you feel that way, which will make your cockiness seem all the more natural. Cocky people always know what they're doing and where they're going. Your movements should reflect this. Walk with confidence - keep your head up and your shoulders back as you take fairly quick strides toward where you want to go. Whenever possible, walk in a straight line to your desired location. Don't slow down or dawdle unless you come across something or someone who interests you. Ideally, you want to create the impression that everything you do is important, so walk as if you need to make an important appointment. Most people will naturally assume that you  are  important. Cocky people know they're hot! Dress to show off the hottest aspects of your body. If you've got great, muscly arms, wear short sleeves to have the ladies swooning. Have you got long, sexy legs? Show them off with some tight jeans! Don't be shy - you're the best-looking person you know, so it'd be a disservice  not  to flaunt what you've got. Cocky people have confidence in their opinions - the way they gesture and position their body should reflect this. Always face and make eye contact with whomever you're talking to. Generally, you should position yourself so that the front of your body is facing whoever you're engaged with - a good rule is to keep your belly button pointed at whomever's most interesting to you at a given moment. This way, even if you have to momentarily avert your gaze for some reason, the full weight of your body language is still brought to bear on who you're talking to.  Don't appear defensive during confrontations. For instance, if you're engaged in an argument or debate, don't cross your arms and look away. Instead, point your body directly at your opponent and look him or her in the eye. Make gestures with confidence. If someone asks you which way is North, instead of feebly pointing with a finger held close to your body, extend your entire arm.
Glaube daran, der Beste zu sein. Nimm es als Selbstverständlichkeit, dass jeder Dich liebt. Let your opinions be known. Assume that everyone thinks you're hot. Don't let haters get you down. Get confident. Keep a strong, secure posture. Show your cockiness on your face. Display your cockiness in the way you move. Show off your best features. Appear bold, not defensive.
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