text: at mom’s for thxgiv & she wakes me up calling my chosen name in a sing songy way like “inessaaaaaaa, wake uuuuup”
  
  & my god y’all that activated some deep childhood part of my brain 🥹 
  
  how it would’ve felt waking up as a girl instead of hearing my deadname all those years
  
  def not crying…😭