" Iyi ndi thekhiniki ya u bvisela khagala nḓila ine muthu muṅwe kha vhukwamani ha musi vhathu vho livhana zwifhaṱuwo a tshilisa yone. Izwi zwi vha zwo ḓisendeka kha ku humbulele kwa uri nangwe ri sa zwi dzhieli nzhele vhathu ri digeḓesa ri na vhathu vha fanaho na riṋe. U vha tshivhoni tsha muṅwe zwi nga ḓisa tshifanyiso tsha pfelanyita (empathy). Ni nga vha tshivhoni tsha muṅwe kha zwi tevhelaho : Zwiambaro  Kudzulele/kuimele (Posture)  Ipfi  Kushumisele kwa ngafhadzo dza zwanḓa kana luṅwe luambo lwa muvhili  Muḓi tsumbo midai Sedzani nḓila dzine vhafunani vha tshilisa yone. Ni nga takalela u vhona vhushaka ha tsinisa kha vhathu kana kha thelevishini. Ni ḓo vhona uri kuitele/kudzulele/kuimele (posture) ku a yelana, zwi tshi tou nga samusi mufunwa muṅwe u tou vha tshivhoni tshi sumbedzaho uyo muṅwe. Tsumbo: Arali muṅwe o kapea zwanḓa kha tshidulo zwi mbo ḓi ralo na kha uyu muṅwe. Arali muṅwe a sinyalala, izwo zwi ḓo mbo ḓi sumbedza kha tshifhaṱuwo tsha uyo muṅwe. Uhu hu vha tshivhoni tsha muṅwe hu u sumbedza u takalela na u tendelana vhukati ha vhavhili zwa thusa na u khwaṱhisedza u takalela ha vhaṅwe khavho na kha zwine vha amba. 9.4. U amba nga tshifhaṱuwo/Luambo lwa muvhili (Facial Expressions) 78 GAIDI YA U ḒIGUDISA YAKUSHUMISELE KWO KHETHEAHO KWA LUAMBO (KKL) | TSHIVENḒA"