Watching Paternity Court in recent times, I have observed that this sentence always comes back to bite the mother. A calculating man always uses this against the woman who no sooner that she utters these words, runs back to the same man for support
Kuwonera bwalo la milandu la mabanja pakali pano, ndawona kuti ganizoli nthawi zambiri limamubwerera mzimai.  Nthawi zambiri mzibambo woganiza bwino amagwiritsa ntchito chimenechi powukira mzimai amene posakhalitsa amanena mawuwa, amabwereranso kwa nzibambo yemwe uja kukapempha chithandizo