They should not feel guilty about making their own decisions outside you just because you claim to be their confidante. Raise them to be independent and make their own friends while you make yours. Period
Iwo asamawone  ngati alakwitsa popanga zisankho pawokha chifukwa choti inu mumadziyerekeza kuti ndinu omasukirana nawo.  Akuzeni kuti akhale oima pawokha ndipo apeze anzawo omwe akufuna pomwe inunso mukepeza anzanu, basi.