I do not condone cheating. But man, if you have reasons to cheat on your wife or girlfriend, perhaps the communication aspect of the relationship is dead or never existed
Ine sindimabvomereza chisembwere.  Koma mzibambo, ngati uli ndi zifukwa zochita uhule kwa mkazi wako kapena wachikondi, mwina kumvetsetsana kwa mbali zonse ndi kwakufa kapena palibe.