It is good enough that either party allows raising the child together. This must not be likened to foolishness. Also, children must not be tools to torment baby daddies
Ndi bwinonso kwambiri kuti aliyense alole kulera mwana limodzi.  Ichi chisafanane ndi kupusa ai.  Ndiponso ana asakhale chida chozunzira abambo amene anawabereka.