I am sure there will be ex-partners willing to rekindle old flames anytime, anyplace and anyhow. But respect must be accorded to those that diminish that flame which they may have rekindled with someone else or decide to remain flameless. But this business of dangling the support like a carrot to a horse must stop!
Ndili ndi chitsimikizo kuti anthu omwe ubwezi unatha akhonza kuyambiranso kukondana, pena paliponse ndi mwina mulimonse.  Koma ulemu uperekedwe kwa amene chikondi chinatha ndipo anapeza chikondi kwa munthu wina ndipo anasankha kusakhala opanda chikondi.  Koma mchitidwe wachibwanawu usapitilire.