Lovers will bring out a past or bad experience to spite one another. The lashes do not end at just bad experiences. They may include one’s paternity doubt or mistakes, subjecting children to ridicule in the process
A chikondi amakumbutsa zakale kapena nyengo zoipa ponyozana.  Zimayenera kuti adzikhala malo oti munthu apeze ufulu chisangalalo, kukoma mtima, kumvetsetsa ndi mtendere.