When a man does it, it is unconditional love and becomes instant news. When a woman does it, it is tied to material, financial or some form of gain
Pamene bambo apanga izi, ndi chikondi chopanda malire ndipo zimawanda.  Pamene wamkazi apanga izi, zimakhudza zithu za mtengo wapatali, chuma kapena mtundu wina wa phindu.