It may help to ask them questions about their point of view your values, goals or needs may conflict with those of someone else, you may not understand what other people are trying to say or do
Zikhoza kukhala zothandiza kufunsa m’mene iwo zinthu akuziwonela, m’mene umaonela zinthu, masophenya kapena zokhumba zako zikhoza kukhala zosagwirizana ndi munthu wina, sumangamvetse zomwe anthu ena akunena kapena kupanga