Are you sure you are the only one feeling these? Are these good enough reasons to cheat? You really believe the woman has not experienced the downside of the relationship? Has she opted to cheat? Can we not talk about these things amicably?
Kodi ukuyesa kuti ndiwe wekha amene ukukumana ndi izi?  Kodi izi ndi zifukwa zokwanira kuchita zachisembwere?  Kodi umakhulupiriradi kuti mkazi sanakumaneko ndi zokhumudwitsa pa chibwezichi?  Nanga wasankha kodi kuchita zachisembwerenso?  Kodi sitingakambirane zinthu izi mokondera wina aliyense?