Perpetrators often minimise, blame others, justify or deny their use of violence or the impact of their violence. Perpetrators undergoing counselling for their violent behaviour need to recognise that regaining the trust of their family will take time, and that their partner has the right to end the relationship if they choose to
Opangira nkhanza anzawo achepetsa ena, kupeza mladu anzawo, kuziyakhulira mbali yawo komanso kukana kugwiritsa ntchito nkhanza kapena kuipa kwa nkhanza zawozo. Anthu amene amapingira nkhaza anzawo ndipo akulandila uphungu akuyenera kudziwa kuti zimatenga nthawi kuti anthu achibale ayambe kuwakhulupiliranso komanso kuti bwenzi lawo lili ndi ufulu othetsa ubwezi wawo ngati akufuna kutero