These are some defensive parents.
Parents don't always get memes, but when the two mix, it's typically comedic gold. Like when moms began figuring out what "Netflix and Chill" really meant—or when 2015 became the year of the Dad Joke.
Splendidland's post did fine on Tumblr, racking up around 6,300 notes. A considerable success, but not what you would call viral.
Know Your Meme points out that the meme then laid low for a while, then made a comeback with help from Yoshi. A Tumblr post from konkeydongcountry in August 2015 featured two plush Yoshis, one larger than the other. This time the caption was "don't you EVER talk to me or my son that way again"—tweaked slightly from the Cowboy Bebop post.
Soon after, in October, the meme trickled over to Twitter, retaining its new Yoshi motif. Twitter user @yoshibot posted a picture of a life-size Yoshi costume and a Photoshopped version that makes it look shorter. The caption better matched the Spiegel post, only differing by two words. "don't you ever talk to me or my son again" adds in the "you" but omits the "ever." All three incarnation have the same basic message but are linguistically just a smidge removed from one another.
Since the Yoshi posts, a steady meme-mentum has built. As of February and March 2016, the meme has exploded in popularity all over Tumblr And Twitter, even making it to the elusive meme groups of Facebook.
The phase always seems to vary—but you get the point. The meme typically hinges on a "son" who is just a tinier copy of the parent, usually created through some sort of image editing. Many people have also simply turned themselves into the son. True mini-mes.
But, like any good meme that takes over our dashboards and feeds, the idea mutates. Either people interpret it in a new light or find another way to exhibit the ethos of the meme. For example, people have started to find miniature versions of the parent IRL instead of editing the image.
Some have also found a way to poke a little fun at the subject of the picture they're using. Case in point: identifying Justin Bieber as Ellen DeGeneres' son. He might not be physically smaller than the talk show host, but it totally looks like he's descended from her lesbian lineage.
Another popular play on the meme features none other than Bernie Sanders and a pint-sized supporter so dedicated that he might as well be the presidential candidate's son: Danny DeVito.
There are also riffs where the bite-sized sons and their parent are deliciously hilarious.
In other versions, the meme is just escalated to other levels. Like this son of a son of a son of a son… you get it.
There's no way to quite predict how the meme might evolve next. What we do know is that there's plenty of overprotective "parents" out there on the Internet right now, keeping their sons safe and sound.


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Felipe, can you look in this?
Discussed during triage, won't fixing this for 63 and ESR.
So I think the main problem is that this is a checkbox with no text content for the label. A similar problem was handled in bug 669507. Although that bug title appears to have solved the problem for all cases, in reality that bug only fixed it with a workaround.
I think we should just do the same workaround here and not display the inner .checkbox-label-box for this #pluginFlashBlockingCheckbox checkbox.
Hello. I'm happy to take this as my first contribution.
> Felipe, can you look in this?
hey! can i take this bug?
Hi Tom, are you interested in taking this bug?
> hey! can i take this bug?
> Hi Tom, are you interested in taking this bug?
Hey Felipe. Yes, I've compiled the 65.0a1 nightly and have arc and moz phab installed. I should be good to go.
> > hey! can i take this bug?
Hid the checkbox-label-box from the Shockwave plugin to correct the tab focus.
Welcome onboard! We look forward to seeing you around the project.
Did you want to nominate this for Beta uplift?
> Welcome onboard! We look forward to seeing you around the project.
I checked the issue on Nightly 66.0a1 (2019-01-03).
- On Windows 10, the checkbox can be marked with tab->space, but it is not highlighted.
- On Ubuntu 16.04, the checkbox can be marked with tab->space, it is not highlighted and the dotted line appears right next to the checkbox as seen in the printscreen attached.
Should I create a new bug and mark this as verified or reopen this one?
I'm using the same Ubuntu version but the line is not present. I don't know if this should be reopened or not, maybe @Felipe can let us know.
The screenshot you provided is not from Nightly, but it's from a release version of Firefox. Are you sure you checked the right version?
This bug was fixed during the 66 cycle, so it's only gonna make it to Beta at the end of January and to Release in the beginning of March.
Indeed the screenshot is made on release. The dotted line appears only there and not on Nightly.
The biggest concern and question is that, if the checkbox is not highlighted when it is selected with tab, even if it can be checked with space at the moment, the issue should be closed or not?


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found the size at which the thing breaks.
have are on the right track, though.
I'd already put in my 40 hours for this week by 10pm Tuesday.


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Theater Awards and Recognition
Our Recent Successes
Students in our program have won awards and recognition through the Kennedy Center/American College Theatre Festival Region 2 festivals.
2016-17 Region 2 Festival, Montclair, NJ
Arcadia Theater's production of Speech and Debate by Stephen Karam was invited to perform at the festival, in a competitive adjudication process.
Wilfredo Amill ('18) named (together with his scene partner Alyssa Pinkl '18) regional finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship competition—one of 16 finalists out of 238 competitors.
Lindsay Deal ('17) awarded Outstanding Actress in an Invited Production, for her portrayal of Diwata in Arcadia Theatre's production of Speech and Debate by Stephen Karam.
Sidney Shaulis ('17) and Christian Ortiz ('17) were cast in the National Playwriting Program (NPP) one-act play. The play was selected as this year's Region 2 winner, and will be presented at the national festival.
Professor Mark Wade was a recipient of the Kennedy Center Gold Medallion, a prize which honors "individuals or organizations that have made extraordinary contributions to the teaching and producing of theatre and who have significantly dedicated their time, artistry and enthusiasm to the development of the Kennedy Center American College Theater Festival."
2015-16 Region 2 Festival, West Chester, PA
Damien Figueras ('16) was named a National Finalist in Sound Design, allowing him to attend a weeklong master class with the Stagecraft Institute of Las Vegas for Excellence in Technology and Design.
Gabriella Santoro ('16) was awarded a United States Institute for Theater Technology (USITT) Chesapeake Regional award for her makeup work in Arcadia Theater's production of the one-act play Bite Me. The award included a scholarship to attend the full USITT conference in Salt Lake City.
Arianna Kendra ('17) received honorable mention for her work designing hats for Arcadia Theater's production of Miss Julie by August Strindberg.
2014-15 Region 2 Festival, Cleveland, OH
Jillian Schwab ('15) named regional finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship competition, and received the Voice and Speech Teachers of America award for her work during the competition.
Kris Karcher ('17) served as dramaturg for The W Trilogy by Kathleen Burke. The play was selected as the winner of the One Act Play Award for KCACTF Region 2.
2013-14 Region 2 Festival, West Chester University
Samia Merritt ('14), National Finalist in theatrical design, awarded an 8-week scholarship to attend Stagecraft Institute of Las Vegas; named regional finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship Competition.
Zach McKenna ('14), National Finalist in sound design, won second place at The Kennedy Center National Festival and received an internship to The Williamstown Theater Festival (one of the most prestigious summer theaters in the nation).
Jeff Barth ('14) named regional semi finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship Competition.
Puppet Show Comes Alive in Arcadia's Blackbox Theater
Puppet Show Comes Alive
2012-13 Region 2 Festival, Towson University
Amanda Sharp ('12) received regional award for costume design for her design of Arcadia production of The Children's Hour.
2011-12 Region 2 Festival, Indiana, PA
Arcadia Theatre's production of Molly Hogan's Swing of the Sea, directed by Mark Wade, presented at the regional festival. The play earned Hagan (an alumna of Ohio University) nominations for the national Michael Kanin Playwriting Award and the David Mark Cohen Playwriting Award. Swing of the Sea received the Harold and Mimi Steinberg Award for Best Undergraduate written show in the nation.
Amanda Sharp ('12) won the regional award for her design of Arcadia Theatre's production of the new musical Club California in April 2011.
Lauren Suchenski ('13) named regional semi-finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship Competition.
2010-11 Region 2 Festival, Towson, MD
Taysha Canales ('11) named regional finalist in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship Competition, and was awarded a scholarship to attend the New Play Summer Conservatory at the New York Theater Intensive in association with the artists of Ensemble Studio Theater.
Student Monique Gaffney won "Best Partner Award" in the Irene Ryan Acting Scholarship Competition.
2009-10 KCACTF Region 2 Festival, Indiana, PA
Arcadia Theater's production of Home by Samm-Art Williams was invited to perform at the festival, in a competitive adjudication process.
Taysha Marie Canales ('11) was awarded a Kennedy Center American College Theatre Festival for Region II Certificate of Merit for Excellence in Ensemble Acting.
Jamal Douglas ('10) was awarded a Region II Certificate of Merit for Excellence in Ensemble Acting.
Paige Hoke ('10) was a finalist for two national awards—the KCACTF Theater for Young Audiences Award and the Mark David Cohen National Playwriting Award.
Brianna Pope-McBride ('12) was awarded a Kennedy Center American College Theatre Festival for Region II Certificate of Merit for Excellence in Ensemble Acting.
Katie Schiedt ('10) was the winner of the Region II Alcone Company Make-up Design Award for her make-up design for Arcadia University's production of The Princess Rescuers.
Elizabeth Seybert ('11) was a semi-finalist in the Irene Ryan Competition.
Robin Stamey ('10) was the Region II winner of a National Barbizon Award for Theatrical Design for her light design for Arcadia University's production of Home.
Theater Arts and Acting
Nov. 18-21: Arcadia University Theater Presents: Marisol
Arcadia University Theater Presents The Pit, Oct. 15-17
Arcadia University Theater Presents: Fugitive Songs, Oct. 1-3

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Awards/Honors, Commemorations, News, Sports, U.S.	 December 26, 2013
LeBron James is Named AP Male Athlete of the Year
MIAMI (AP) — The only thing that keeps LeBron James up worrying at night is basketball, which simultaneously makes perfect sense and no sense. On one hand, he's the game's best player. On the other, he's rarely impressed with himself. Even after a year like 2013 — when a spectacular wedding, a second NBA championship and a fourth MVP award were among the many highlights enjoyed by the Miami Heat star — he still is, as he puts it, striving for greatness. Or, technically, more greatness, since his enormous list of accomplishments just keeps growing.
James was announced Thursday as The Associated Press' 2013 male athlete of the year, becoming the third basketball player to capture the award that has been annually awarded since 1931. James received 31 of 96 votes cast in a poll of news organizations, beating Peyton Manning (20) and Jimmie Johnson (7).
"I'm chasing something and it's bigger than me as a basketball player," James told the AP. "I believe my calling is much higher than being a basketball player. I can inspire people. Youth is huge to me. If I can get kids to look at me as a role model, as a leader, a superhero … those things mean so much, and that's what I think I was built for. I was put here for this lovely game of basketball, but I don't think this is the biggest role that I'm going to have."
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Past winners include Joe Louis, Jesse Owens, Muhammad Ali, Carl Lewis, Joe Montana, Tiger Woods and Michael Phelps. Serena Williams was the AP Female Athlete of the Year, announced Wednesday.
James joins Michael Jordan and Larry Bird as NBA players to win the award. "I don't think I've changed much this year," James said. "I've just improved and continued to improve on being more than just as a basketball player. I've matured as a leader, as a father, as a husband, as a friend."
FRIENDSHIP: LeBron defends Kobe from haters
PHOTOBOMB: Yes, he can have some fun, too
So far in 2013, with a maximum of three games left to play, James has appeared in 98. The Heat have won 78 of them. None of those was bigger than the four Miami got in the NBA Finals against the San Antonio Spurs. In Game 7, James was at his best, scoring 37 points, including the jump shot with 27.9 seconds left that essentially was the clincher. "He always rises to the occasion when it matters the most," Heat coach Erik Spoelstra said.
Business-wise, James is booming. Some estimate his annual income around $60 million, less than one-third of that being made on the court. His wife has opened a juice bar in Miami, and David Beckham wants James to be part of the Major League Soccer team he plans on bringing to South Florida in the next couple years. Countless people want to align with James. Few make him listen. Beckham did. "You want to be a part of it, but it has to feel real to you," James said. "You don't want to do something that doesn't feel much to you, that you're just doing for the money. We all have money. For me, my time is more than money at this point in my life."
LeBron James. Four-time MVP. Two-time champion. Gold medalist. What's left to say? James has another "decision" to make in 2014. He can become a free agent again this summer, though still smarting from the circus atmosphere that followed him during his final season with the Cleveland Cavaliers four years ago, James is staying largely silent on what might happen. He insists he has no idea.
"I'm so zoned in on what my task is here this year that it's hard to think about anything else," James said. "A guy the other day asked me what I'm going to do for New Year's, and I haven't even thought about that."
When asked if there's anything he doesn't like about Miami, James offered few complaints, other than the often-clogged street — Biscayne Boulevard, or U.S. 1 — that leads to the arena the Heat call home. "What is there not to like about Miami?" James said. "It is a home. My family is very happy; I'm very comfortable. But U.S. 1? I wish that was a highway." Bear in mind, he's not always unhappy when that street is gridlocked.
The last two years, he's been largely responsible for hundreds of thousands of people lining that road for Heat championship parades. And if he gets his way, they'll be back next June.
Copyright 2013 The Associated Press via usatoday.com
Filed under: AP Male Athlete of the Year, Associated Press, King James, LeBron James, Miami Heat, NBA, NBA Champion, NBA MVP Award, pro men's basketball
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by Contributing Editor August 23, 2021 August 23, 2021
Riverside County is expected to announce updated coronavirus numbers Monday, with the most recent data showing COVID hospitalizations ticking up to 557 with the addition of 22 more patients.
According to data released Friday by the Riverside University Health System, four additional coronavirus patients were placed in intensive care, increasing the number from 102 on Thursday to 106.
The RUHS also reported four additional virus-related deaths, bringing the county's total to 4,697. Fatalities are trailing indicators because of delays processing death certificates, and can date back weeks.
In addition, 1,205 new cases were reported Friday, bringing the aggregate number of COVID cases recorded in the county to 325,944 since March of 2020, when the pandemic began. The number of known active virus cases countywide Monday was 7,122, up 348 from Thursday.
The county updates its figures Monday through Friday.
Earlier last week, federal health officials recommended that all vaccinated Americans get booster shots eight months after they become fully vaccinated. That amounts to a third dose of the Pfizer or Moderna vaccine — and "likely" an additional dose for people who received the one-dose Johnson & Johnson shot.
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In times of limited funds, we are trying to find out a way to increase pour monthly income. We want to bring the income to a satisfactory level with which we could cover our living expenses, and meet our monthly obligations. Thus we are looking at the different options available to raise enough cash. Elderly population, might be faced with such an issue. Meaning that maybe they have built in equity in their home, and have ownership, but they are faced with inadequate level of income, to live a descent live. One solution, to this problem are the reverse mortgage loans.
The reverse mortgage loan, is one of the many different mortgage loans available for various needs. The loan, is confusing, in terms of the logic behind mortgages we are acquainted. Namely, while with the other mortgages the borrower has to pay monthly payments, with reverse mortgage the borrower can receive monthly payments. Before you rush to apply for reverse mortgage, make sure you understand its advantages and drawbacks.
Reverse mortgage loans are a form of mortgage available for elderly homeowners, 62 years and older (in some countries the lower limit by be 55 years). Thus type of mortgage allows you to transform portion of the equity in your home into cash. Stated differently, the homeowner can borrow money against the value of the home in his/hers ownership. The aim of the reverse mortgage is to help senior citizens with limited income, but who have equity build up in their homes. The funds from reverse mortgage can be used for instance, increase in monthly income, paying off existing mortgage and/or debt, paying other expenses.
Repayment of the reverse mortgage loans is executed after the death of the borrower, or until the sale of the home. The borrowers pays no monthly payments as long as he/she lives in the home.
Ownership of your home – most misunderstand issue when it comes to reverse mortgage is about the ownership. People thing that the lender is taking over the ownership of your home. This is not the case, you remain the owner of your home, even if you take reverse mortgage. But keep in mind that you are owner of your home, as long as you do not violate any terms. In addition, paying taxes and insurance is you obligation.
Monthly payments – although other types of mortgages require for you to pay monthly payments, this is not the case with reverse mortgage. Not paying monthly payments is one of the biggest benefit for this type of mortgage. With reverse mortgage, the monthly payments are made to you. Yes, that's right, you will receive monthly payments. You will receive the monthly payments as long as you live in your home. This type of mortgage is repaid if you sell your home, change the primary residence, or when the remaining borrower leaves home.
Market value of your home – means that the value of your home can change over the years. If the value is increased than there is nothing to worry about, even if you have mortgage. But, the negative aspects come when the market value of your home declines. This is posing a problem when you have a mortgage, and even worse, when you want to sell your home and pay off your mortgage. Thus, in relation to market value, reverse mortgage is superior over other types of mortgage loans. The reverse mortgage loan is a loan insured by the federal government, thus followed by a higher level of protection. In case of fall in market value of your home, the value of your mortgage will be higher than property's sale price. Because reverse mortgage loan is insured, the government insurance has the obligation to cover the difference between the mortgage loan amount and the sales price of your home. Thus you will never owe more that the value of your home.
Multiple payment choices – since this mortgage is a product for the senior i.e. elderly population, it offers different payment options. Each of these options are adequate to cover different needs. Thus, the payment method is chosen by the borrower. The borrower can choose any of the following payout options: receiving full or partial amount of fund, a line of credit, monthly payments, as well as combination.
Tax benefits – because the reverse mortgage is a form of loan, the funds received are considered to be a tax-free. They are tax-free regardless of the way you will receive them, a lump sum or monthly payment.
Reverse mortgage requirements – are not the same as the requirements for traditional mortgages. Namely, For the purpose of applying for a reverse mortgage, you do not need to be worried too much about your credit score or income level. Because, you are not making any monthly payments, these are not considered.
High fees – regardless of it characteristics, reverse mortgage is still a type of mortgage loan, thus it has certain fees which should be paid. Some of the fees, such as the origination fees, can be relatively higher with reverse mortgage. Because of the fact that the approval of reverse mortgage is not based on income level, it does present higher risks for the lender. This is the reason, why reverse mortgage fees might be higher. Keep in mind that the fees can be paid out of the reverse mortgage.
Interest rate – because of the risk involved for the lender, this type of mortgage bears much higher interest compared to some traditional mortgages. Although you put your equity as collateral for the loan, the amount you will end up taking is lower that the value of your equity. The amount of the funds taken is lower because of the different fees and higher interest rate charged by the lender.
Inheritance issue – with reverse mortgage loans you are receiving funds instead of making monthly payments. So, after your death, the mortgage would be paid off with the sale of your home. Meaning that your heirs will not get the house. Your heirs can get your home if they pay off the reverse mortgage. This might considered to be one of the main drawbacks of reverse mortgage. If you are planning to leave a legacy for your children, this type of mortgage is not adequate.
Moving out – although the pros with reverse mortgage was ownership of your home, it is correct as long as you stay in it. Meaning that you have some limitations if you decide to move elsewhere. Moving out of your home, can initiate the process of mortgage repayment (dying also initiate this process). Consequently, if you want to avoid making payments toward the lender, the home should be your primary residence. No living in your home for more than a year can be considered as if you have moved out.
Home related costs – all costs associated with your home, fall on you. Thus, you are obliged to make the necessary repairs, and keep your home in good condition. In addition, you are also liable for property taxes on your home, along with the obligation to pay insurance.
Complex loan type – one disadvantages can be the complexity of reverse mortgage. Although, this is disadvantages for some people, the fact remains that reverse mortgage loans might be difficult to understand.
You can often read that the mortgage loan would be one of your biggest decision you will make in your life. Because mortgage loan will have major impact on your financial health for many years to come. Therefore, it is highly important to make a wise and informed decision in relation to your mortgage.
While, with the other types of mortgage loans you have the obligation to make monthly payments, there is one mortgage with which you are receiving monthly payments. This mortgage is called reverse mortgage loan. Reverse mortgage loans can be pretty handy if you are faced with insufficient levels of income. You can supplement your monthly income with this form of mortgage.


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The Right Reverend James Jones KBE
Bishop of Liverpool (1998 – 2013)
Bishop of Hull (1994 – 1998)
Assistant bishop in the Diocese of York (2013)
Adviser to the Home Secretary on Hillsborough (2013-2018)
(having chaired the Hillsborough Independent Panel)
Chair of the Gosport Independent Panel (2014-2018)
Co-Chair with the Managing Director of the Corporate Social Responsibility Committee for Waitrose in the John Lewis Partnership (2013 - 2019)
The bishop speaks, writes and broadcasts on a range of issues from the environment to ethics in business, from regeneration to regionalization and from faith to its impact on the future.
He is a Fellow of the Institute of Chartered Foresters (having chaired the Independent Panel on Forestry) and a Fellow of WWF, the Society of the Environment and the Chartered Institute of Water and Environmental Management. He is a Vice-President of the Town and Country Planning Association. He is a Patron of the UK Environmental Law Assocition (UKELA) and Patron of the Densholme Care Farm in East Yorkshire.
The Right Reverend James Stuart Jones KBE was born in 1948. He was the second of five children of a Scottish Mother and Welsh Father, Major J Stuart A and Helen Jones. He was educated at the Duke of York's Royal Military School, Dover where he became Chief School Prefect (Head Boy). After reading Theology at the University of Exeter and gaining a PGCE from Keele University (Alsager) he taught at Sevenoaks School before joining Scripture Union where he became Executive Producer of the Sound and Vision Unit.
In 1981 he trained for the Church of England ministry at Wycliffe Hall, Oxford and was appointed as Curate to Christ Church Clifton, Bristol where he later became Associate Vicar. From 1990 to 1994 he was Vicar of Emmanuel Church in South Croydon.
Aged 46 he was appointed to be Bishop of Hull (1994 - 1998), becoming Bishop of Liverpool four years later (1998 - 2013).
He is married to Sarah (Nee Marrow) and they have three adult daughters Harriet, Jemima and Tabitha.
In Hull and Liverpool Bishop James was involved in the regeneration of the cities, in particular chairing the Kensington New Deal for Communities in Liverpool. Working with the people of Kensington they opened the St Francis of Assisi City Academy which took the environment as its specialism. The diocese together with the Catholic Diocese of Liverpool sponsored three City Academies.
Together with the Catholic Archbishop of Liverpool Bishop James was Co- President of Liverpool Hope University, the only joint Anglican and Catholic University in Europe.
The Liverpool Echo invited him to Chair their Stop the Rot Forum which campaigned to regenerate derelict buildings in the City in time for the City becoming European Capital of Culture in 2008. The Forum saw buildings saved from demolition, most notably the Florence Institute (the Florrie), a listed Victorian Boys Club in Liverpool 8, now a spectacular community facility.
In 1999 Bishop James was asked to Chair the North West Constitutional Convention. The Convention published a report, New Way Forward - No Way Back, outlining the case for regional government in the North West.
For the wider Church he returned to Wycliffe Hall as Chair of Council, Chaired the Board of Mission and also the Transparency and Accountability Group for the Church of England.
He was Bishop to Prisons (2006 - 2013).
He was a member of the House of Lords from 2003 - 2013 speaking on criminal and restorative justice issues, the environment and urban regeneration. He served on the House of Lords Communications Committee.
In 2009 the Bishop was appointed by the Home Secretary to chair the Hillsborough Independent Panel examining all the documentation concerning the death of 96 Liverpool football fans at the 1989 FA Cup Semifinal. The Panel reported in September 2012 and this led to the quashing of the original inquests. He continues to serve as Adviser to the Home Secretary on Hillsborough as new investigations proceed, chairing a Forum that brings together the Families of the 96 with the Independent Police Complaints Commission, the Crown Prosecution Service and Operation Resolve. This enables them to be informed of the investigations into the deaths of their loved ones.
He has a particular interest in environmental issues. He founded Faiths4Change which brings together people of all faiths working on environmental projects.
Bishop James presented the award winning Radio 4 series 'the Bishop and the Prisoner (2012) and also 'The Bishop and the Banker' (2013). He continues to contribute to Radio 4's Thought for the Day. He presented the Good Friday Meditation on BBC Radio 4 2019.
His still-in-print books include:
Why Do People Suffer? (Lion)
With my Whole Heart (SPCK)
Following Jesus (BRF)
Jesus and the Earth (SPCK)
He has received honorary degrees from 8 Universities including Liverpool, Exeter, Gloucester, Liverpool John Moores, Liverpool Hope, Hull, Humberside and York St John.
On 19th January 2017 he was made Freeman of the City of Liverpool.
In the New Year's Honours List 2017 the Prime Minister recommended to the Queen that he be appointed a Knight Commander of the Order of the British Empire 'For services to the bereaved and to justice'.
The full citation reads:
"The Right Reverend James Jones, lately Bishop of Liverpool, as Chair of the Hillsborough Independent Panel led what is widely recognised as the most successful inquiry of its type in recent times. His Report led to the quashing of the original inquests, fresh criminal investigations, and the largest ever investigation into the police. He developed a ground-breaking new forum for engaging bereaved famlies, making them part of the criminal investigations process while not prejudicing outcomes. He is also Chair of the Gosport Independent Panel investigating Gosport War Memorial Hospital, led the Expert Panel on the future of Forests in England, and served as Bishop for Prisons."
On 1st November 2017 the Bishop presented his Report on lessons to be learnt from the Families affected by the Hillsborough Disaster . It was then laid before Parliament. Titled 'The Patronising Disposition of Unaccountable Power' the Report records the Families' experiences over 28 years and presents 25 points of learning including a 'Charter for Families Bereaved through Public Tragedy', Proper Participation for Bereaved Families at Contested Inquests and A Duty of Candour to be extended beyond the National Health Service and to include the Police.
On 20th June 2018 he presented the Report on the Gosport War Memorial Hospital.
In April 2019 He was elected and apponted a Trustee of the Athenaeum Club, Pall Mall, London.
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"I hate and I love. Why do I do this, perhaps you ask? I do not know, but I feel it happening and I am agonized."
"You can't live with 'em; you can't live without 'em.
There's something irresistable-ish about 'em."
— Rowlf the Dog, "I Hope That Somethin' Better Comes Along", The Muppet Movie
A development often used in buddy films and romantic comedy. One person, often a loner type, is paired off with someone else against their will.
They can't stand the person/situation and wishes for his old routine. When they gets their old routine back, they suddenly realizes they miss that person a lot and does everything in their power to get her back. Usually, happens when a bickering pair become Vitriolic Best Buds, or generate an Aw, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other situation, whether it's a fraternal sort of love among buddies, or romantic love.
The phrase is a common magnet for [Popular Saying], But... jokes, such as changing the message to "Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em" or leaving it at just "Can't live with 'em", since depending on who the subject is about it's perfectly possible to live without 'em.
See also Odd Couple.
Compare We Want Our Jerk Back! (when the resident Deadpan Snarker's presence is sorely missed), Belligerent Sexual Tension.
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Jeremy and Ian from A Cruel God Reigns. Jeremy tells Ian that he needs to see him because Ian is the only one to know that he is a murderer and why he did it. To the point that when they do not see each other Jeremy just about loses it. Additionally, Ian, though knowing their relationship is not a healthy one, cannot focus his studies or anything else when Jeremy does not see him.
Light Yagami of Death Note seems to have this relationship with L to some degree. He spends much of their time together monologuing about how much he hates L and how many of L's strange quirks drive him crazy, until he actually manages to kill L. After that... Light doesn't hate him anywhere near so much and even seems to miss him to some degree.
Not only that, but L is the person Light sees standing by his side as he's dying.
Natsu and Gray, from Fairy Tail. They pretty much complain and fight but do admit to themselves they respect the other. Heck in the Galuna Island arc when Gray twice tries to use Ice Shell, a spell that will turn the user into ice to trap their opponents. Natsu stops him both times spelling out that he doesn't want Gray to die.
Gray also has this dynamic with Juvia. He constantly spurns her romantic advances and reminds her that he's not interested. However, as time goes by he shows that he truly cares for her, which culminates on the time Invel forces them to fight each other to death, and they choose to commit suicide rather than killing the other. When Juvia saves him, he begs her not to die, promising to take her feelings more seriously.
Hetalia: Axis Powers:
The most predominant example would be England and France. The two have known each other since the beginning of time and despite all of their bickering, they are quick to defend the other when a third party intervenes.
Another example is Spain and Romano, who actually did live together for a while. Despite Romano constantly referring to Spain as a 'tomato bastard' the two do look out for each other.
Tomoe and Nanami from Kamisama Kiss. Tomoe is a Kitsune that has been forced to serve Nanami against his will and is typically very rude and condescending towards her. Nanami thinks he's a Jerkass in return. However, should anything happen to Nanami he freaks and should another man take interest in her watch out. Meanwhile, Nanami hasn't bothered to hide the fact that she has developed feelings for Tomoe.
March Comes in Like a Lion has a downplayed variant of this. Due to his past, Rei's very persistent in living independently. He's also reluctant to get close to the Kawamoto family, despite their willingness to welcome him into their home, and will sometimes abstain from visiting when he has the choice. However, when he returns to his apartment after staying in their house and living with them for several days due to sickness, he's become much more aware of how empty and quiet his own place is.
Rei: "That house is like a kotatsu. When you go inside, it's so warm it feels like you're about to melt...But when you leave, you'll be reminded that your everyday life that felt fine before is freezing cold."
Mazinger Z: For all what argue when they are together -and claim they don't need each other-, Kouji and Sayaka tend to lose it when they are apart.
Midori Days. Midori becomes Seiji's right hand and remains this way for the majority of the series. Eventually in the manga, however, Seiji does become quite capable of living with Midori and acknowledges this, although she ends up disappearing anyway.
Eva from Monster spends a good bit of time plotting to make Tenma's life a living hell (getting him imprisoned and such), although every now and again she'll remember that she loves him and beg him to come back to her. She broke up with him, incidentally.
Monthly Girls' Nozaki-kun:
Hori's relationship with Kashima often consists of him yelling at her or complaining about her, but if she ignores him for less than a day his mood plummets enough for his peers to start worrying about him.
Wakamatsu, in a distinctly divided example, gets extremely stressed out by the way Seo treats and acts around him, and yet he's outright said he can't live without "Lorelei" (Seo's voice) to help him sleep. Even in regards to Seo herself, he's considerably less stressed when she's gone on her school trip (to the point of being overly nice to everyone at school) but starts to feel down when he thinks about how much fun she's having without him.
Seo is treated as The Dreaded by the boys' basketball club, so their initial reaction is of pure joy when she goes off on her school trip. However, the captain watches the other members train and realizes that they're way too carefree now that Seo isn't there to put them on guard, and immediately wishes for her to come back.
In Naruto, this is Sakura's friendship with the titular character.
Neon Genesis Evangelion. So very very true with Shinji and Asuka. Up to the point that Shinji ends the world when he discovers' Unit 02, and probably Asuka's half-eaten corpse as he just arrived to try and save her. The series ends with Shinji and Asuka looking out over a devastated earth, as the last two people in existence and the first two people in the new world.
Word of God said Asuka returned together with him because- in spite of how much they had hurt each other- he did not want to live in a world without Asuka.
In the Jdrama, Nobuta Wo Produce, Shuji says he hates Akira, but the two are actually very good friends. Maybe too good...?
Rozen Maiden. The protagonist just wants to be left alone, and he hates little kids. Before you can blink, he's got a small army of childlike, living dolls hanging out in his room, one of whom enjoys ordering him around like a servant, while the rest tend to merely be noisy with a penchant for wanton property damage. Of course, in the end, when they all leave, it gets rather lonely all of a sudden... Fortunately, they're only gone for 'bout half an hour.
In one episode of Samurai Pizza Cats, Francine comments, "Tomcats! You can't live with them, and you can't throw them down a well and drown them!"
In Super Dimension Fortress Macross/Robotech, Misa Hayase/Lisa Hayes despises cadet pilot Hikaru Ichijo/Rick Hunter, and he returns her contempt...yet when she thinks for a moment he was killed in a Valkyrie/Veritech hit, she panics, and later when she's threatened by a Zentraedi, Hikaru/Rick berserks. When Cadet Ichijo/Hunter becomes Lt. Ichijo/Hunter and then begins to rise up the ranks, the tension gets worse because they're always encountering each other...and discovering to their dismay that they work well together. Pretty much everybody that knew them saw what was happening before they did, though.
This is pretty much a staple of Rumiko Takahashi's works.
Urusei Yatsura: Ataru constantly chases all girls other than Lum. Yet whenever Lum disappears from his life, he'll instantly drop his perverted maneuvers and go to great lengths to get her back. That doesn't stop him from immediately resuming his lecherous ways the moment she's safely back.
Ranma ½ has Ranma and Akane. Once he had disappeared she was depressed and cried when she thought nobody was looking. When Ranma thought Akane was dead after touching one of Saffron's devices, he was completely apathetic and emotionless.
Inuyasha: Pretty much the same example as the above for InuYasha and Kagome. All they ever do is fight, mostly leading to Kagome storming off after a massive sit. However, anytime they're separated for too long, all Kagome can think about is InuYasha, while InuYasha will be unbearable to be around until Kagome's back. And in any fight, they will put themselves in any kind of danger to save the other (which more than half the fight is of InuYasha taking all those moutain busters to keep everyone else safe).
The morning after Morinaga takes advantage of a doped-up Souichi in The Tyrant Falls in Love, the extremely homophobic Souichi attempts to murder Morinaga, and yells that he doesn't want to see his face again. When Morinaga takes his declaration to heart and disappears from his home and university for weeks, Souichi predictably falls apart. Of course, with his tsunderish personality, his first action upon seeing Morinaga back is to punch him hard and scream at him for hiding himself for so long.
In The Wallflower manga, womanizer Ranmaru tries to get out of a date with a sweet, timid girl, as he prefers assertive women. Of course, after he succeeds, he realizes that he actually likes her.
In Wild Rose, Kiri and Mikhail don't get along initially and like to anger the other. Since Kiri literally can't live without Mikhail because he otherwise loses his sanity around humans, they are stuck together. Over time they both come to appreciate each other in spite of their differences and in the end Mikhail hesitantly admits "You are necessary to me" in response to Kiri's Love Confession.
In ×××HOLiC, Watanuki is normally extremely frustrated with Yuuko and keeps yelling that he can't stand the way she is. And then... she disappears, and he completely breaks down, tears and all, revealing exactly how important Yuko had become to him. This results in him getting extremely depressed, and making a pact to wait for her in the shop forever, never aging, and never being able to leave, until she comes back to him. He even takes on some of her traits like smoking from her pipe and dressing in her extravagant clothes, as if he's trying to cling onto whatever he's got left of her.
In Yugami-kun ni wa Tomodachi ga Inai, this is more or less how the baseball team feels about their pitcher Yugami. In a slight twist, Yugami is both the loner and the person that others have to put up with, instead of the other way around. Most of his teammates can't stand him due to his personality but they rely heavily on him to win because Yugami is The Ace.
In Zettai Heiwa Daisakusen: Euda is stuck in an awkward love-hate relationship with her 'fiance', Johanne, although she herself ain't fully aware of her feelings...
Subverted by Emo Philips:
Women: You can't live with them, and you can't get them to dress up in a skimpy little Nazi costume and beat you with a warm squash or something.
Cable & Deadpool: Can't stand him, can't bodyslide without him.
Cable: For two people who say they don't need each other, both of us keep doing a lot of stupid things to try and stay together.
Halo: Blood Line: The Covenant warrior Thon 'Talamee is constantly annoyed by his younger foolish brother Reff, but has protected him from harm all his life in the belief that Reff is destined for greatness. Unfortunately for him, Reff doesn't return his affection and thinks of his brother's care as condescending. When Reff decides to turn on the Covenant, Thon tries to stop him, but Reff kills him first.
In Legion of Super-Heroes The Great Darkness Saga, Phantom Girl and Shadow Lass wonder about the paradox of simultaneously loving and hating someone when their boyfriends -Ultra Boy and Mon-El, respectively- refuse to wait for them during their mission in Takron-Galtos.
Phantom Girl: Is it possible to hate someone you love, Shady?
Shadow Lass: I'm not sure, Phantom Girl— but I know what you mean.
In Pierre Tombal, the Grim Reaper would love nothing more than to reap Life, but it's been shown that without her, the world would be lifeless and he'd be left with nothing to do, so he tries to tolerate her existence.
Transmetropolitan: Spider Jerusalem. "Editors. Can't live with 'em, and the mass grave by my compound is getting full."
Calvin and Hobbes: Hinted at with Calvin and Susie.
Garfield and Odie. Garfield even says this line after Odie saves him from being bitten by another dog.
In one arc of Peanuts, Lucy and Linus move out of town and Schroeder finds that he can't play his music without Lucy present.
Schroeder: Don't tell me I've grown accustomed to THAT face!
A Crown of Stars: This was Shinji and Asuka's relationship's state at the beginning of the story: they were so damaged and traumatized that they failed to open up and make a connection; and at the same time neither of them would think of leaving because they thought that no one else in the world would be able to understand their pain, and they could not stand to be apart.
Advice and Trust: Subverted. Gendo thinks his son and Asuka's relationship consists of Shinji being infatuated with her and dependent on her in spite of her abusing him and detesting him. He is very wrong. They used to fight and need each other simultaneously, but they got over the "Can't live with them" part when he was not paying attention.
This is how Alphard Black from The Black Sheep Dog Series regards his family. He finds himself succumbing to homesickness when Walking the Earth, only for his relatives' bickering to quickly get on his nerves and make him leave when he visits.
Alphard: I always miss this house when I'm away. And then when I'm back in it, I never remember why.
Calvin and Socrates fit this role quite well in Calvin & Hobbes: The Series.
The Child of Love: While watching the fireworks during the Obon festival, Shinji and Asuka talk and realize even if they often argue and fight and find each other's attitude and behaviour exasperating and overbearing they really like each other and would hate being apart.
Sherlock Holmes and Beth Lestrade in "Dynamics of a Point": Holmes can't handle Beth's independence, and Beth can't live with his need for control. But she also makes it tear-jerkingly clear that leaving him will be painful. He tries to say something along the same lines, and ends up telling her that she shouldn't think he'll be glad to see her go.
Evangelion 303: Since they met Shinji and Asuka had become very co-dependent on each other. However, when Asuka's started to fall apart their relationship became very abusive for several weeks. And still, even though Asuka claimed that she hated everything and Shinji got emotionally hurt constantly, neither of them ever thought of breaking up. Put simply, neither of them thinks they can possibly be happy without each other.
Ghosts of Evangelion:
Shinji and Asuka argue a lot… but they are unable to live without each other. It was repeatedly shown, stated, and ultimately and literally proved: Shinji died barely three days after his wife.
In a discarded chapter Asuka told Misato that Shinji could survive without her, but the opposite isn't true.
When Asuka has to babysit Ryuko for the first time, she is gloomy because Shinji is on a business trip. She mutters that he usually pisses her off, but when he is gone she feels very lonely.
Asuka: (shrugging) I can barely stand that idiot most days, but when he's gone…
When Asuka passes away in 2080, Shinji dies shortly after. Sixty-five years of arguments, fights, and reconciliations, and he could not live three days without her.
HERZ: Shinji and Asuka had greatly hurt each other… and yet they could not live without each other. Asuka never stopped loving Shinji, no matter what she said or did. Shinji never wanted another woman, and when he thought Asuka was leaving and she hated him he was so grief-stricken that he tried to kill himself.
Once More with Feeling: While Shinji sleeps for the first time -again- in Misato's apartment, he recalls that sometimes he begged for someone -anyone- getting Asuka out of there... and now he feels terribly alone without her, he misses her and he needs her.
Scar Tissue:
Shinji and Asuka developed a co-dependent relationship during the series, but the war against the Angels and the Third Impact scarred their minds further. Due to Shinji's actions, Asuka abused him constantly and Shinji was torn between blaming himself and resenting her. However, Shinji refused being apart of Asuka, and as soon as Asuka thought that she could lose him or never see him again, she was utterly terrified and mortified and stopped abusing him.
In one scene, Fuyutsuki modifies the sentence:
Fuyutsuki:"Can't live with them, can't successfully control the Armageddon without them."
The Second Try: Shinji and Asuka. This was apparent in the series to everybody except them, but in the fanfic, they became aware of the fact during the After the End chapters (and Asuka is particularly hit hard by it). When one of them is missing, the other gets worried and upset. When they are neither talking to each other nor sleeping together cause a fight, they miss each other. And both are terrified of the possibility of breaking up and going separate ways after a dispute.
Thousand Shinji: When they met, Shinji and Asuka fought and argued for weeks. Soon it was evident, though, that they were unable to live without each other. When one of them was hurt, the other crumbled down.
In Children of an Elder God, Shinji is this to Asuka. Sometimes he drives her mad, and sometimes he makes her happier than nobody ever. In chapter 16:
"Sometimes you drive me nuts. But then you do something that changes my mind, like dancing wonderfully. I had a lot of fun tonight, Shinji."
In Neon Genesis Evangelion: Genocide, Shinji and Asuka argued a lot... but when she was in a coma, Shinji thought that he didn't mind Asuka called him names because it meant she was fine.
A part of him thought it was ridiculous question—saying that he missed Asuka was like saying that he missed having a toothache. But another part, the part surprised at the look on her face earlier, the part that had pushed him into that tunnel when the Angel was descending into Central Dogma, knew that he did miss her, very badly.
Suddenly, even the silence reminded him she was gone.
Last Child of Krypton: At the beginning of the story Asuka complained about Shinji constantly, but whenever he was missing, she was restless and worried.
The Pirate's Soldier: At first Kiyone was trying to rejoice over the possibility of Mihoshi being dead, meaning that she'd be free to advance in her career as a police officer. Later when she finds her alive, and after talking to Heero, Kiyone admits that, for all the woes Mihoshi brought her, she's genuinely fond of her and considers her a little sister.
Films — Animated
The Land Before Time, Despite constantly complaining about them, Cera seems to genuinely value her friends.
In Shrek, the titular ogre has this happen after he rescues Princess Fiona when he believes she can't care for him because he's an ogre. He receives the deed to his swamp and returns to it, but feels very empty inside. Eventually, Donkey makes him realize he does love the princess. Cue a rush to beat her Wedding Deadline to Lord Farquaad.
Films — Live-Action
Hello, Dolly!: After Dolly Levi has spent the whole movie trying to maneuver Horace into marriage, he angrily tells her that he 'wouldn't marry (her) if she were the last woman on earth!', she promptly bids him "So Long, Dearie". Cue Horace grousing to himself the very next morning about how he doesn't need her, what a horrible woman she is, he'd never do it, etc. It's clear to the audience that he's firmly in this trope, as he proposes to her the moment she comes back.
The Miss Congeniality sequel plays with this trope in the following exchange:
Sam Fuller: Men. You can't live with 'em, you can't...
Sam Fuller: ... no, that's pretty much it.
Gracie Hart: Yeah.
The Muppet Movie has a song called "I Hope That Something Better Comes Along", sung by Kermit and Rowlf and referring to Miss Piggy (and, by extension, women in general). It opens with the lines, "You can't live with 'em / You can't live without 'em..."
My Fair Lady: Henry and Eliza seem to have this problem.
Henry: I was serenely independent and content before we met.
Surely I can always be that way again, and yet
I've grown accustomed to her looks, accustomed to her voice,
Accustomed to her face.
In Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Neal Page keeps trying in vain to lose Del Griffith. When he finally does, he finds he actually misses Del's company and ends up going back to invite Del to come home with him.
C-3PO and R2-D2 throughout the original Star Wars trilogy.
The Shining has this theme throughout, especially in Jack's actions after about halfway through the movie. Accentuated in Jack's conversation with a ghostly bartender about halfway through, in which the bartender echoes this trope.
Jokingly subverted by Tom Arnold's Gib in True Lies: "Women. Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em."
Bludgeoning Angel Dokuro-chan. This trope occurs despite the fact that the titular character spends most of her time "accidentally" killing the male lead and then reversing the process (and that's "accidentally" with a large helping of sadistic glee). When she temporarily leaves Sakura's life, he realizes he really does miss her in spite of how she treats him.
In Carry On, Simon constantly proclaims his hatred of his roommate Baz and how he makes his life a living hell but when Baz is mysteriously absent from school for two months, he grows increasingly worried and spends pretty much all of his time trying to find out what happened to him.
In the Discworld novels, Granny Weatherwax is less than thrilled with having to take part in a witch's coven, not least of all because the maiden of the coven, Magrat, keeps annoying her by being a Genre Blind Wide-Eyed Idealist. Yet, when Magrat leaves the coven after Lords and Ladies she grows despondent with the whole thing since she hasn't got anyone to boss around or quarrel with, which sets in motion the events of Maskerade.
In a meeting of all the local witches, it's noted that Granny "couldn't be having with other witches, and certainly couldn't be having with Nanny Ogg, who was her best friend."
Haplo and Alfred from Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman's Deathgate Cycle due to not only being from different fantasy races but also having completely contradictive personalities.
Tasslehoff Burrfoot and Flint Fireforge's friendship from Literature/Dragonlance seems to be one-sided at first, but flint really does show care for the kender at some key moments.
Full Metal Panic!: Kaname Chidori spends every waking moment berating Sousuke for whatever screw-up he made. The second he is redeployed and out of her life for good, she suffers bouts of depression, paranoia, and a horrible sense of insecurity. Of course, she was being marked for death at the time, which makes this a literal case of "Can't live without him." She spends a similar amount of time trying to prevent and/or renumerate his mess-ups, and the remaining time is spent dreading what will happen next. She's also pretty moody when Sousuke is called away for a long mission to Helmajistan ("The Wind Blows at Home, Part 1-3"), even sitting outside his apartment until he returns.
Cruelly played with in Gone Girl. Nick wants to leave his controlling, emotionally empty wife, Amy. However, Amy sets things up to where Nick practically begs her to come back, because he would go to prison and possibly face the death penalty for her murder, which Amy fakes to set Nick up. In the end, Amy comes back and makes this trope clear to Nick, much to his and his twin sister's horror.
Sasha and Daichi end up like this in Greek Ninja.
Hank the Cowdog: Hank and Pete the barn cat may not like each other, but when Pete doesn't show up for dinner scraps that they'd usually fight over, Hank feels like eating scraps is no good without having a rival to fight over them.
Karal uses this trope to get out of what could have been a very uncomfortable conversation in Storm Breaking. After Altra tells him about Firesong's near-fall into insanity (specifically, that Firesong was close to injuring/killing Karal), Karal deflects any questions from Firesong about what made him look odd with the line:
Cats. You can't live with them, and the fur's too thin for a rug.
Fisk seems to have this relationship with Michael in the Knight and Rogue Series (Michael is too sweet to not stand Fisk). He spends his time alternating between griping about Michaels naive, cheerful, chivalrous attitude, and fretting about Michael's wellbeing. According to Michael, Fisk will try to protect him from anything from the noose to chills, all while being insultingly sarcastic.
Kyon from the Haruhi Suzumiya series constantly, constantly complains, rants and grumps about Haruhi and the SOS Brigade. In the 4th novel of the series, he is finally freed from Haruhi and the SOS Brigade, only to realize that he actually misses her. After a Red Pill, Blue Pill decision, he returns.
Yuuri and Wolfram in Kyo Kara Maoh!. Yuuri spends the first two seasons trying to back out in an engagement that he accidentally caused in the second episode when Yuuri first enters the other word. Both of them hate the idea at first but Wolfram accepts his role as he constantly tries to get Yuuri to accept his as his husband. Yuuri constantly plots breaking the marriage on multiple occasions but always fails because Yuuri simply doesn't understand the demon world. However, the small things that piss Yuuri off at the beginning of the series, which range from Wolfram calling him "Wimp" (this was originally his Berserk Button at the beginning when the two argued each other) and Wolfram going everywhere declaring himself the spouse of Yuuri and accusing him of Yuuri cheating on him with every girl he meets. However, as the series goes on, the small things that annoyed Yuuri at the beginning is met with indifference as he slowly gives up on trying to break up the engagement. However, once Season 3 hits and Wolfram calls the engagement off, this actually shocks Yuuri to the point where he works to get Wolfram back and then finally declares that he's not allowed to break it off. This is a sign that Yuuri is still confused with his feelings for Wolfram but won't let him design things on his own. Shortly after though, they fall right back into the roll.
Mahiro from Nyaruko: Crawling with Love! gets easily annoyed by how clingy and off-the-wall his alien Pretty Freeloaders Nyarko, Cuuko, and Hasta are, but in the finales of both TV series he gets a harsh reminder of what life would be without them. In the first season finale, he's put in a "Last Man on Earth" situation and realizes how lonely he is; in the second, the trio is about to be reassigned away from Earth, and hearing a heartbroken Nyarko say "Does this mean I have to leave Mahiro forever?" makes him realize that he's about to lose them for good. After the latter situation is resolved, Mahiro remarks "I get the feeling you three will always find a way to stick around me," but it's obvious he views that as a good thing.
Sisterhood Series by Fern Michaels: This seems to happen between the Vigilantes and their boyfriends. In one book, Jack Emery makes a comment about women and how you can't live with them and you can't live without them. A short time later, Nikki Quinn makes a comment about men and how you can't live with them and you can't live without them. At least the feeling is mutual!
Somewhere in Star Wars Legends, Mara Jade tells her husband Luke: "Sometimes I can't stand you, and I love you for it." Awwwwww.
Sunny Randall has this relationship with her ex-husband Richie, and though they've divorced they still see each other and have hooked up a few times since the divorce, to the detriment of both of their other relationships.
A darker twist on this appears in Thérèse Raquin where Thérèse and Laurent find Thérèse's husband Camille to be more of a roadblock than anything, but once he's dead they find that being constantly haunted by his memory is far, far worse.
Interview with the Vampire sees this trope reflected in the relationship between Lestat and Louis. They live together and share a quasi-romantic relationship for like seventy years— during which Louis constantly complains about how much he despises Lestat, and Lestat insults and denigrates Louis. Expanded upon in The Vampire Lestat.
Live-Action TV
The actual line was parodied twice on 3rd Rock from the Sun. In the pilot, Harry declares "Women, you can't live with 'em... and yet they're everywhere." In a later episode, Dick declares "Women, you can't live with 'em and you can't have heterosexual sex without 'em."
To which Harry responds, "That's probably true."
Also in one episode Judith says to Mary, "Men, can't live with 'em" [beat while Mary waits for the rest] "Goodbye, Mary."
George Bluth's relationship with his family in Arrested Development. It's particularly apparent in the Netflix revival, where we find that after finally wrenching himself away from them at the end of Season 3, he didn't have the great time you would have expected; if anything he seems to be worse off without them.
In The Big Bang Theory, when Sheldon and Amy end their friendship over an argument as to whether Neurobiology or Theoretical Physics is the more important science, Howard offers the opinion: "Women, can't live with 'em, can't successfully refute their hypotheses".
Bridgerton: Anthony Bridgerton initially found Kate Sharma elusive and a nuisance as she constantly blocks his ways in courting her younger sister, Edwina. But, when she tells him about her plan to return to India once Edwina is married, he is visibly shocked. After a constant denial of his feelings all along, he eventually acknowledges that he can't imagine his life without Kate.
Cordelia and Xander are oh so very much like this in Seasons 2 and 3.
Buffy and Spike regularly cycle through this in Season 6. Lampshaded in the Musical Episode.
"First I'll kill her, then I'll save her / No, I'll save her, then I'll kill her!"
Norm, of course, subverts the line in Cheers: "Women. Can't live with them, pass the beer nuts."
Sam and Diane, however, play it horrifically straight. Together, they're miserable, with even the slightest disagreement turning into a feud that lasts for days, and Sam figures if they'd ever got married he'd have eventually killed Diana. Apart, they're miserable. One of the (many, many) problems they have is Diane's refusal to admit this.
In Dexter, the title character says of his adopted sister who crashed at his place for a while after some troubles: "Can't live with her, can't kill her." As Dexter happens to be a serial killer, the second half of the phrase takes on a different meaning. He was joking though because he is "rather fond" of her.
Carlos towards Sister Bertrille in The Flying Nun. As much as he complains about her getting him into trouble, he feels worse without her around.
Carlos: When she's around I tell her to get lost, but when she does I go looking for her!
Ross and Rachel from Friends. If they're with other people, they want each other: If they're together they argue constantly and break up. Rachel is especially bad as at one point she manipulated Ross into breaking up with his current girlfriend and then refused to get back together with him unless he took all the blame for a past break up. (He didn't). Ross takes his turn later on, however, when he refuses to divorce her (going so far as to lie to her and hide the fact that they're still married) after a drunken Las Vegas wedding, but also refuses to admit any romantic feelings for her.
Invoked almost word for word in Hannibal by Bedelia when talking to Will about his plan to escape with Hannibal. Will starts the show by being hostile to Hannibal who becomes his therapist, his friend, and his enemy successively and eventually his intellectual soulmate. They are constantly drawn to each other throughout the seasons even though Hannibal is a murderer and Will tries to neutralize him in various manners. They take the trope next level in Season 3 after Will finally admits that he finds killing "beautiful", pulls Hannibal into an embrace and pushes both of them off the nearby cliff, possibly to drown the both of them, although Word of God says they did indeed survive.
Referenced in an episode of I Love Lucy. When Lucy is getting up to yet another Zany Scheme, her husband Ricky remarks, "Women. Can't live with 'em, but it sure would be hard to live without 'em." Fred — who has a No Accounting for Taste marriage with Ethel — adds, "You could still try." This show is parodied in a sketch on Nickelodeon's All That, in which Fred (played by Kenan Thompson) declares, "Women; can't live with 'em...can't stand 'em".
Interview with the Vampire (2022):
In episode 2, Lestat de Lioncourt tells Louis de Pointe du Lac that he's very difficult to live with and it drives him nuts, but he wouldn't change a single thing about his lover.
Lestat: No one as angry, as stubborn, as unaccommodating, as maddening—
Louis: Sound like trash to me.
Lestat: As loving, as dedicated, as thoughtful, as imperfectly perfect as you've become. You're a challenge every sunset, Saint Louis, and I'd have it no other way.
In episode 6, Louis ultimately takes Lestat back six years after Lestat savagely attacked him, acknowledging that despite the pain his boyfriend had caused him, their "vampire bond" is difficult to break. In episode 7, Louis lampshades his love-hate relationship with Lestat:
Louis: I wanted him dead. I wanted him all to myself.
The IT Crowd parodies this, with Moss, resident nerd among nerds, trying to deliver the line to Roy. He begins nobly, 'Women — can't live with them...' before trailing off and realising he has absolutely no idea how to talk about romantic matters or advice to give thereof. Later on, he delivers the gender-flipped version:
Moss: Men, can't live with 'em...
Killing Eve: This is ultimately Eve's feeling towards Villanelle, who is openly in love with her. Over the course of the series, it becomes obvious that Eve does love her back, but is deeply afraid of her own darker qualities that come out when she's around, and struggles with the fact that Villanelle is an unrepentant murderer. (Specifically, the fact that, while Eve is bothered by it, she's well aware she's not nearly as bothered as she should be.) However, at the end of Season 3, when Villanelle truly attempts to let her go and walk out of her life forever, like Eve claims she wants, Eve finds that she can't give her up.
Pretty much the reason why Al in Married... with Children hasn't just up and left his ungrateful life parasite of a wife and kids. Among Al's immortal quotes:
"Women. You can't live with them, you can't shoot them".
"Women, can't live with 'em, can't herd 'em all into Canada"
"Women. Can't live with 'em... The End."
Oz. A black inmate on Death Row is subject to constant racist taunts by a redneck in the next cell. After first breaking his hand when he punched the wall in frustration, he then gets smart and carefully digs a hole into the wall, then after one comment too many punches his fist through what's left and throttles the redneck to death single-handed. Unfortunately, that means he's the only inmate left on Death Row, and the episode ends with him looking sadly into a hand mirror, with only himself for company.
Scrubs:
Dr. Kelso initially couldn't stand his wife's snoring. She got the operation, but (this being Scrubs) only exacerbated the problem. Cue this trope:
'Kelso: Here's the twist. Now, whenever she goes out of town, I can't fall asleep without the sound of that gasping, wheezing woman lying right next to me. Trust me. If I ever met a Japan air stewardess who snores like Enid, I'd marry her tomorrow.
Dr. Cox and his ex-wife Jordan have this sort of relationship. Both are snarky, jerkass misanthropes who can't stand each other...and it's made abundantly clear that they'd never be happy with anyone else.
Jerry and Elaine in Seinfeld, in that they are no longer interested in each other sexually but still hang out with each other because they don't have many other friends.
Smallville: Both Tom Welling and Erica Durance have said of Lois and Clark: "They can't stand being around each other, but they can't stand NOT being around each other."
In Taxi, Louie explains to Zena, who won't take him back, that "love is the end of happiness": he used to be happy staying home and watching the Mets; now, even though everything about watching the Mets is the same, he can't enjoy it without Zena. She very reluctantly, like, to the point of self-disgustedly, takes him back. For a season or two.
The Twilight Zone (1959): In "The Mind and the Matter", Archibald Beechcroft initially revels in his solitude after he makes everyone else disappear. However, after several hours, he becomes incredibly bored. Archibald decides to solve the problem by creating a world full of people he likes and respects—namely, clones of himself. Unfortunately, the clones turn out to be just as rude, misanthropic, and unpleasant as he is, sparking a Jerkass Realization and making him realize that he can't even live with himself unless he changes his attitude. So humbled, Archibald resolves to become a nicer person.
The Vampire Diaries: Damon and Elena, until the last four or so episodes of the first season. After that, they drop the "can't stand them" part.
P!nk's song "Leave Me Alone (I'm Lonely)" is all about the bi-polar affections of a girl wanting some space, promising cuddling later.
The song "That's a Woman" is sung by Ryan Kelly and Paul Byrom of the group Celtic Thunder and is about a misogynist who finally falls for one of the women he so greatly disdains.
Celine Dion's "I Hate You Then I Love You." The title should be self-explanatory.
Senator John Dean's seminal dubstep/dubhop song, "Can't Live Without Em," a staple of the new genre. "Can't Live Without Em"
The Three Days Grace song "I Hate Everything About You".
Queen's "I Can't Live With You."
Stacie Orrico's song "Stuck" - "I hate you, but I love you. I can't stop thinking of you"
The U2 song "With or Without You"
French Canadian singer Jean Leloup song "I lost my baby" has the lines (translated) "I can't live with you / I can't live without you / But you can very well live without me /" ending up with "I'm screwed either way".
Rihanna and Neyo's duet "Hate That I Love You."
The Coral's "Dreaming of You" has lyrics of "I still need you, but I don't want you now."
The Voltaire song "Stuck With You" is narrated by a married couple venting about all the things each partner has done to piss the other one off and how much they drive each other crazy. At the end of the song, after this long litany of complaints, they mutually agree that "I'm not sad I said 'I do'/I'm just glad I was stuck with you."
Reel Big Fish's song "I Know You Too Well To Like You Anymore" is a couple trading insults with each other and basically listing all the reasons why they should break up, but then we get this part:
I don't like you
But I love you
Please stay
Nobody makes me more miserable
So please don't go away
Saliva's "Always" centers around a narrator and his love/hate relationship with a lover.
Amanda and Elyot in Private Lives. They fight both physically and verbally, to the point of having divorced, but as they find when they actually meet again after remarrying different people, they are perfect for each other.
In RENT, during "Take Me Or Leave Me", Maureen and Joanne share a moment of this: "Women/What is it about them?/Can't live/With them or without them."
Final Fantasy:
In Final Fantasy VII, Cloud and Barret constantly fight about their politics and their generally opposite outlooks, but soon begin to respect one another as allies. During the portion of the game where Barret attempts to go off to deal with his old friend Dyne alone, Cloud insists on coming with him because he can't stand the thought of Barret dying on him; during Cloud's significantly longer and sadder absence, Barret goes into a deep, fuming depression.
In Final Fantasy VIII, Squall spends the first two discs of the game grimly resisting Rinoa's efforts to get him to open up to her. When she falls into a coma at the end of disc two, however, he realizes how much he doesn't want to lose her, and abruptly she becomes his main priority.
Multi Versus: Just like in their source cartoon Tom and Jerry are more focused on fighting each other and the damage they deal to the oponent is merely Collateral Damage. However, if Jerry is thrown out of the arena, Tom's attacks will be a lot weaker until Jerry returns.
Nageki of Hatoful Boyfriend seems taken aback and annoyed when the player character makes an effort to befriend and spend time with him. In his diary he calls you "the nosy girl", he says you won't leave him alone... but he's glad, in the end. In the second game, some of your friends also make an effort to spend time with him, and later he complains to someone threatening them that they exhaust him and are unpredictable, but he's happy to have them.
Played for Drama and justified in Super Robot Wars: Original Generation regarding Arado Balanga and Seolla Schweizer: Bronzo-class students of The School program function in pairs and are more combat effective when both partners are with one another. When Arado is erroneously believed to be Killed Off for Real, Seolla immediately undergoes Heroic BSoD, forcing The School "instructors" to sedate and reprogram her for single combat.
Also a long-running plotline in Bittersweet Candy Bowl. Mike and Lucy spend most of their time agonizing over this fact.
Pretty much the longest-running plotline in College Roomies from Hell!!!: Margaret's attraction to and inability to let go of Dave.
Looking for Group looked like it was going for a joke like this after Cale'Anon had gotten into an argument with his girlfriend, but the trope is ultimately (and naturally) subverted because the man who almost invoked the trope is a wee little bit worse than the common chauvinist...
Richard: Women.
Cale: Yeah.
Richard: Why are any of them still alive?
Cale: That's a little bit extreme.
Richard: You may be right... What are your thoughts on penning them up to use for mating and the creation of snacks?
Sinfest:
Monique and Slick are very self-centered, can't even hold their eyes on each other , don't really know what they want for more than a few minutes... yet neither will allow anyone else to approach the other.
Monique looks at a guy she considers attractive, then he reminds of Slick, and finds this a turn-off . It's such a huge turn-off that she starts hitting on him right on the next page.
In Sluggy Freelance Gwynn tends to flirt with this trope a lot in regards to the rest of the main characters.
So did Zoe to some extent. The boys drove her nuts, but when she moved back home, she found she missed them and ended up getting a job consisting entirely of recounting their crazy antics over the radio.
Web Original
At least one AstroLOLogy short demonstrates that the Gemini twins can't agree on what activities they think are fun to the point where they split up based on their disagreements, but they legitimately can't stand not being in the other's company and ultimately care about each other as siblings.
Parodied, to great effect, in The Guild.
Vork: Women. Can't live with them — they will not go out with me.
Western Animation
The The Adventures of Super Mario Bros. 3 episode "Oh Brother" centers on this trope, with Mario and Luigi getting on each other's nerves and "disbrothering" each other. After Mario gets kidnapped and brainwashed by Koopa, however, Luigi takes it upon himself to save his brother, and the two reconcile, for the most part. Mario even says the trope word-for-word.
Mario: Brothers. Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em.
Francine and Stan to their sponsored African child, Tungee, in American Dad!. He shows up on their doorstep and quickly aggravates them with his overly sunny disposition. They ditch him at Costgo, only to realize how much they miss him. They go back to get him but he annoys them again on the car ride home so they jump out of the car to get away from him... only to immediately complain that they miss Tungee again.
This is also the general relationship between Stan and Roger, as is especially shown the episode "You Debt Your Life" where Stan saves Roger's life repaying him for when Roger did the same years prior and kicks him out, it soon becomes clear Stan misses him and, reaching to a point where he rents the attic out to Andy Dick who acts just the same as Roger and eventually (after losing and regrowing both of his legs) Stan finally admits that despite Roger bugging him he likes having him around just didn't want to admit it, and until Hayley pointed it out he didn't even remember the debt.
Parodied in the episode "Turkey Jerky" when Yakko, Wakko and Dot tell their latest victim, who is begging them to leave, that he'll "be lonely when they're gone". Predictably, after they leave, the man bawls "I'm lonely!"
This was also done to the Warners in the episode "Chairman Of The Bored": they are followed around all day by an extremely dull man who continually tells a long, rambling story in a monotone voice. No matter where they run, they can't get away from him. Finally, at the end of the episode, he suddenly finishes his story and leaves. The three of them just sit in stunned silence for a few minutes, then declare "It's too quiet!" and go running after the man begging him to come back.
A similar twist occurs in "Dot's Quiet Time." Dot wants some peace and quiet to read a book and searches all over the world to find a spot where she won't be bothered. However, when she finally discovers one, she realizes that she actually liked having some distractions and begins blasting loud music on her stereo.
Batman: The Animated Series: Mark Hamill describes the relationship between The Joker and Harley Quinn this way.
"Expressing emotion in any way that's real and meaningful is alien to the Joker, but he's learning those parts of himself, however unconsciously, through Harley. On a physical level, they're dynamite together. A lot of relationships are defined by that. Two people may be really horrible for each other, but physically they push each other's buttons so clearly they can't get enough of that person."
Dexter's Laboratory:
In "Spacecase", Dexter volunteers Dee Dee to go with the aliens in space. Along with realizing she may get harmed by the aliens, he begins to miss her and admits he can't even work at his lab without her presence. This prompts him to go and rescue her from the aliens.
In the episode "Dee Dee and the Man", Dexter 'fires' Dee Dee and joyously works in his lab without her interference. After a montage of repeatedly doing the same thing, his energetic joy fades until he's depressed and starts looking for a new annoying sister. Eventually, Dee Dee is rehired at the end of the episode.
Scrooge (DuckTales (1987)) and Darkwing (Darkwing Duck) both have this relationship with Launchpad McQuack. Both initially start working with him just because they need a pilotnote "Launchpad's First Crash" and "Darkly Dawns the Duck", respectively and are exasperated by his Cloud Cuckoolander side. But whenever Launchpad leaves (even if they told him to leave) or some kind of danger threatens to take him away from them, they don't like it at all. Launchpad is not an example as he rarely gets annoyed with either of his bosses/friends.
A major theme in the relationship between cargo pilot Baloo and his boss Rebecca Cunningham or "Becky" as he likes to call her on TaleSpin. They argue over various things during the series at least half of it stemming from the old Snobs Vs Slobs theme but Rebecca is so physically and emotionally dependent on Baloo to help her run the company Higher For Hire that whenever he isn't there to do the long term heavy lifting the operation tends to fall apart or at least come to a halt.
Family Guy: Stewie sings "I've Grown Accustomed to Her Face" in a Shout-Out to My Fair Lady when Lois leaves him home alone to campaign for the school board.
The Grim Adventures of Billy & Mandy: Though she'd never admit it, Mandy feels this way about Billy and, to a lesser extent, Grim. They frequently infuriate her with their antics and schemes, but whenever they're gone for too long, it's clear that she misses them. She also goes out of her way to save them from trouble, often using a flimsy excuse to justify why she's helping. It's most apparent in Billy and Mandy's Big Boogey Adventure, when it looks like Billy might actually be in danger of drowning; Mandy pretends not to care, but nervously mutters "Billy's always fine..." while staring at the water, waiting for him to surface. When he finally does, she lets out a quick but noticeable sigh of relief.
Helga and Arnold technically have a one-sided version of this. At least Once an Episode, we see Helga slip off into private to deliver a flowery, romantic, poetic rant about her yearning for her one true love, usually following a statement to the tune of "What a twerp, what a loser, what a football-headed dweeb. How I hate him. And yet..."
And then we have the episode where Helga drinks an 'anti-love potion' to erase her feelings for Arnold, and stops bullying him. Cue an extremely disturbed Arnold.
In another episode, Helga performs stand-up comedy at a school coffee house and does unflattering imitations of her classmates. At first, they're all angry with her and deliberately play up the things she mocked them for as revenge. But when she instead recites an incredibly boring poem about how much her friends mean to her, they all get more upset and decide that they liked it better when she was at least trying to be funny. The episode ends with everyone learning to laugh at the imitations and thus be in on the joke.
One of the unfinished episodes of Invader Zim, called "Mopiness of Doom", has something like this. Dib decides to drop paranormal investigation and pursue "real science." Zim, finally being free of the one person that constantly ruins his plans, enjoys his newfound freedom for a while, but soon becomes unmotivated to continue coming up with new evil plans without someone trying to stop him. Meanwhile, Dib has a hard time concentrating on "real science" since he still loves para-science and eventually gives that up and goes back to hunting Zim. Zim is confronted by Dib again and is overjoyed that he's back. The episode concludes with the two happily slinging insults at each other.
In KaBlam!, despite being his friend, June seems to get a kick out of hurting or watching Henry get hurt. However, in an episode where he leaves the show, June finds herself crying over missing him.
Kaeloo: Mr. Cat claims to find Kaeloo too annoying and talkative, but in the episode "Let's Play Courtroom Drama", when Kaeloo decides to leave Smileyland, he tries to stop her, even if doing so meant confessing to a crime he had previously claimed to be innocent of.
Subverted in one episode of My Gym Partner's a Monkey. Principal Pixiefrog starts saying "Women! You can't live with 'em..." He pauses, and we expect him to say "You can't live without 'em," but then he says "That's all. You can't live with 'em."
The Owl House: Principal Bump has never said it aloud, but it is apparent he does like the chaos that some of his current and former students, like Eda and Luz, cause at Hexside. When he has to expel Luz for an episdoe, he's very much unhappy about it, and is more than happy to have her return at the end of said episode.
Pinky and the Brain. Brain insults Pinky frequently and takes every opportunity possible to bop him with whatever solid object is convenient, but should Pinky wind up missing or genuinely hurt, Brain truly feels bad for his companion. In the Halloween episode, Pinky gives himself up to a malicious supernatural entity so that Brain can take over the world, and Brain gives it all up in order to get Pinky back.
Recess: Spinelli says this about boys in one episode:
Spinelli: Boys! Can't live with them, can't grind 'em into chalk dust!
In the Rugrats episode, "Together At Last", Betty separates Phil and Lil when they fight over their Reptar doll, following advice from Dr. Lipschitz about separating twins every now and then to help them maintain independence, courtesy of Didi. At first, the twins are glad to be away from each other, but it isn't long before they begin to miss each other, and they spend the rest of the episode trying to get back together. When they finally reunite at the end of the episode, they hope they never separate again, but soon argue over which one of them started the fight that got them separated in the first place.
One of the later Sideshow Bob episodes shows Bob realizing that he can't kill Bart. He's grown accustomed to his faaaaace...
The titular family is also a great example. They love each other, but they drive each other crazy.
In the South Park episode "Smug Alert", it turns out that this is how Cartman feels about Kyle. Of course, typical Cartman being Cartman, this isn't because he secretly cares for him but rather misses the amusement their rivalry brings (generally due to how Kyle reacts).
In the SpongeBob SquarePants episode "Squidville", Squidward is tired of SpongeBob and Patrick bothering him and ruining his day, the last straw for him being when they accidentally destroy his house. He sees an ad on TV for Tentacle Acres, which is full of octopuses like him, and moves there. At first, he finds it relaxing and comfortable but after a while, he gets bored of it. Later, he pines for SpongeBob and Patrick to come back and cause a little chaos. When they don't, he starts causing the chaos and eventually decides to leave.
Steven Universe: On one hand, the members of the Great Diamond Authority fit the definition of being Royally Screwed Up and are always at odds with each other. One the other hand, because of the Gem hierarchy, the only close bonds that they have left are with each other.
Tom and Jerry: The titular duo are pretty much like this by default. One example is the short "The Lonesome Mouse" has Tom getting evicted from the house. Jerry is initially delighted but comes to realize that he's bored stiff without his adversary, and schemes to get him back in Mammy Two Shoes' good graces.
This is what defines Larry and Tuddrussell's relationship in Time Squad.
Transformers: Animated:
Ratchet: Young Bots... Can't live with them, can't melt them down for spare parts.
Alternative Title(s): Cannot Stand Them Cannot Live Without Them, Cannot Live With Them Cannot Live Without Them, Cant Stand Them Cant Live Without Them
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