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:mod:`synaptiks.x11.input` – X11 input device management
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.. automodule:: synaptiks.x11.input
   :synopsis: Input device access
   :platform: Xorg

The :class:`InputDevice` class
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.. autoclass:: InputDevice()

   .. automethod:: all_devices

   .. automethod:: find_devices_by_type

   .. automethod:: find_devices_by_name

   .. automethod:: find_devices_with_property

   .. attribute:: display

      The :class:`~synaptiks.x11.Display` on which this device is defined

   .. attribute:: id

      The device id as integer

   .. autoattribute:: name

   .. autoattribute:: is_master

   .. autoattribute:: type

   .. autoattribute:: attachment_device

   .. automethod:: __len__

   .. automethod:: __iter__

   .. automethod:: __contains__

   .. automethod:: __getitem__

   .. automethod:: set_int

   .. automethod:: set_byte

   .. method:: set_bool(property, values)

      Alias for :meth:`set_byte`

   .. automethod:: set_float

.. autoexception:: InputDeviceNotFoundError
   :members:

.. autoexception:: PropertyTypeError
   :show-inheritance:
   :members:

.. autoexception:: UndefinedPropertyError
   :show-inheritance:
   :members:

Miscellaneous stuff
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.. autofunction:: assert_xinput_version

.. autoexception:: XInputVersionError
   :members:

.. autoexception:: XInputVersion

   .. attribute:: major

      The ``major`` version number as integer

   .. attribute:: minor

      The ``minor`` version number as integer

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Good Friday Morning! It's a been a busy news week since I last wrote. We've had important testimony in DC over the ties between the Russians and Trump campaign, the beginning of the Gorsuch Supreme Court hearings, new dissents over Trump's immigration EO, and the fractious debate of the Obamacare replacement bill the AHCA. As one DC reporter this week put it, it feels like we've already lived through 7 years of an administration.
It certainly feels like 7 years watching Republicans try to pass health care reform. At the time I'm writing this, Trump has announced the end of negotiations. Either the House Freedom Caucus accepts the AHCA, or Trump will let Obamacare continue. The vote is set for Friday. I warned in a column this is the choice Republicans would be given. And now they have their choice: the AHCA or Obamacare. I'll save more thoughts until next week, after the vote. Today I begin with the tragic terrorist attack London, outside the Parliment.
British Police have now identified the terrorist as 52-year-old Khalid Masood. The attack happened outside the Parliment building, where he killed four people, including a police officer and an American, and injured around 40 others. ISIS has claimed Masood was one of their fighters, although at this stage it appears to be an ISIS-inspired attack and not an ISIS-directed assault.
Former FBI agent Ali Soufan (now of the Soufan Group) finds the term misleading for another reason. Since so many of the reputed "lone wolves" are "individuals with well-known patterns of violent extremist or criminal behavior and connections" Soufan believes we should instead call them "known wolves." But not everyone designated a "lone wolf" is known to law enforcement. Some fall into a category Anne Speckhard calls "clean-skin terrorists" whose lack of criminal records make them hard to detect. "The lone-wolf fallacy," according to Paul Sperry, is the failure to account for the killers' family and community contacts.
It's still very early in the investigation of the London terrorist attacks. However, police have already conducted raids that arrested eight people in connection with the London tragedy. The arrests suggest Khalid Masood had a wider circle of support, despite committing murder and assault alone. The broader circle of support and virtual coaching he may have received would not make this a lone wolf jihadist attack. All previous knowledge we have on these jihadist-style attacks suggest it was a planned, intentional, strike in the UK.
Soft-target terrorism is the new norm. The big, 9/11-like attacks, while a threat, are not the primary object of modern terrorist groups. Sowing fear with smaller attacks at soft targets is the new norm. Bombing targets in the Middle East won't stop soft target terrorism abroad. We have to strengthen our intelligence services, so we have a better chance of preventing domestic terrorism.
Supreme Court nominee Neil Gorsuch began testifying before the Senate Judiciary Committee this week as part of his nomination process to the Supreme Court. The nomination hearings have only revealed two things: 1) Gorsuch will pass the nomination process and sit on the Supreme Court, and 2) Senator Al Franken doesn't understand how the law works. That's it in a nutshell.
First, Scalia's consistent position wasn't that the equal-protection clause offered "no protection" to women or gays, but rather that it did not offer special or extraordinary protection. … And second, when discussing "originalism," for the vast majority of originalists, the key isn't "original intent" but rather a concept called "original public meaning." … In other words, when the equal-protection clause was enacted, what were the words understood to mean? Were they understood to sweep away, say, restrictions on women in combat? Were they understood to mean that legislatures couldn't enact laws that prohibit certain sexual practices? Drafters create a text, and that text has an original, understood meaning. That, in a nutshell is what "originalism" means.
Gorsuch is right. His argument brings me to the latest fight in the 9th Circuit over Trump's immigration executive order. It involves originalism. The 9th Circuit denied a request by the Government to rehear the case en banc. For the non-lawyers, that means the government asked for a rehearing by the entire 9th Circuit, all the judges, instead of a panel. The 9th Circuit denied this request. But, several judges on the 9th Circuit wrote a rare set of dissents. In the dissents, they argue how the 9th Circuit is only looking at the intent of the EO and not the text. In other words, they are using an originalist argument to show the flaws in the majority's reasoning.
This is folly. Candidates say many things on the campaign trail; they are often contradictory or inflammatory. No shortage of dark purpose can be found by sifting through the daily promises of a drowning candidate, when in truth the poor shlub's only intention is to get elected. No Supreme Court case—indeed no case anywhere that I am aware of—sweeps so widely in probing politicians for unconstitutional motives. And why stop with the campaign? Personal histories, public and private, can become a scavenger hunt for statements that a clever lawyer can characterize as proof of a -phobia or an -ism, with the prefix depending on the constitutional challenge of the day.
There is an anecdote, doubtless apocryphal, about Franklin Roosevelt during a whistlestop tour. He had two speeches that took opposite positions on a hot-button issue of the day. When the train stopped at a town that favored the issue, he would give his "pro" speech. And in towns that opposed the issue he'd give his "con" speech. One day he approached a town that his advisors told him was divided evenly between the pros and cons. FDR's advisers worried about how he'd handle the situation, but FDR was undaunted. He gave a speech and when he was done the pros in the audience believed he was in their corner and the cons were convinced he agreed with them. And that, friends, is the nature of electoral politics.
The point is this: for every single media clip you can find of Trump and his surrogates calling for a "Muslim ban," you can get another clip of them saying the opposite. Further, you can't use any of the media clips to prove Trump's EO is the so-called "Muslim ban." His comments are all over the map. Further, the order itself doesn't achieve a ban on Muslims at all. It's debatable whether the prohibition accomplishes any of the security measures it claims to deliver.
An originalist, looking at Trump's EO, would ignore the media clips and ask a straightforward question: Is the text of this executive order constitutional? If the answer is no, then the next question: is this rule implemented in a discriminatory manner? If the answer is no, then the inquiry is principally finished.
That is a massive overreach of judicial power. Judges do not have that kind of power. Judicial power grabs are why we need more judges like Neil Gorsuch who focus on the text. Originalism is an ideological check on judicial power. We need that check no matter who is President.
This was an unusual week on the Trump/Russia news front. On the one hand, we learned big things from the FBI and Congress on the investigations. But we also didn't learn anything new. I'll explain.
There are two statements you need to focus on: 1) FBI Director James Comey's testimony before Congress, and 2) House Intelligence Committee Chairman Devin Nunes's press conference. Comey confirmed what had already leaked: the FBI has an active investigation into the Trump team and the Russians. He reiterated that there were no "wiretaps" on Trump or Trump Tower. And he said the investigation had been ongoing since the spring of 2016.
Comey refused to give details on this point. We are aware, for instance, that Michael Flynn's communications with the Russians were swept up in routine surveillance of the Russian Ambassador. The end question is: how far did the incidental surveillance go? We don't know the answer to that definitively. And we don't know how much the data is in the FBI or NSA's hands.
Enter House Intelligence Chairman Devin Nunes. He gave an incredibly vague press conference where he seemed to allege two things: 1) The incidental collection was legal and potentially included Trump, and 2) The names of Trump transition officials were illegally "unmasked" for political reasons. When Americans are swept up in routine surveillance of foreign targets, the NSA and CIA protect the identities and information of the Americans. The reason being is that American citizens have rights and their privacy is protected by law. The NSA scrubs that intelligence to remove private and protected data. So when that information is "unmasked," it violates that American's Constitutional rights.
Where do we sit now? Nothing Nunes said contradicts Comey. We don't know if names were illegally unmasked. We don't have any evidence of collusion with the Russians. And there's no evidence anything illegal occurred on the part of the intelligence community. In short, the testimony and press conferences we have now basically leave us where we've been for weeks.
They effectively have one source, who claims a lot, but whose information can't be verified. Which means CNN really knows little more than what I've already gone through already. The entire CNN story smacks of sensationalist reporting with little evidence. I remain wary of its claims. I remain wary after several intelligence officials have stated, on the record, they have no proof of collusion.
The intelligence is said to leave no doubt the Obama administration, in its closing days, was using the cover of legitimate surveillance on foreign targets to spy on President-elect Trump, according to sources. The key to that conclusion is the unmasking of selected U.S. persons whose names appeared in the intelligence, the sources said, adding that the paper trail leaves no other plausible purpose for the unmasking other than to damage the incoming Trump administration.
The NSA document production is expected to produce more intelligence than Nunes has so far seen or described – including what one source described as a potential "smoking gun" establishing the spying. Some time will be needed to properly assess the materials, with the likely result being that congressional investigators and attorneys won't have a solid handle on the contents of the documents – and their implications – until next week.
Fox also has a single source who knows a summary of pre-vetted and non-investigated evidence. No attorneys or investigators have pulled the information together yet, nor has Nunes even seen the information. If anything this story sheds a very poor light on Nunes, who is apparently rushing to give press conferences and reports to the White House with no real knowledge of what the NSA will be turning over. And while Fox is saying this, CNN is saying the exact opposite (Schiff and Nunes seem to be trying to outduel each other for headlines).
Again, I'd remain skeptical of any reports like this until we have the evidence before a Congressional committee. But because of the sensationalist headlines, the reports are traveling at the speed of light.
A recap of this week's events would read: We learned a lot and we learned nothing. The "big" revelations that we supposedly received this week lack evidence. Which leaves us back where we started: what is smoke and what is fire? We don't know.
I will say, however, I think we will receive more information over the next few weeks. Before the big reports started dropping, one hacker/counter intelligence guy I follow, who tends to be ahead of the news, said: "#BuckleUp It's gonna be a rough few weeks America. And that's about all I'm gonna say on the matter, aside from… keep the bubbly on ice." John Schindler, a former NSA analyst, appeared to agree on that point too. And as if on cue, the major stories started dropping. The NSA is poised to turn over its evidence to Congress soon. I suspect we may be on the precipice of a major scandal.
Buckle up and get ready.
Geert Wilders, the nationalist candidate for prime minister of the Netherlands, lost that country's election last week. This has brought comfort to those who opposed him and his views on immigration and immigrants. It is odd that they should be comforted. A decade ago, it would have been difficult to imagine that someone of Wilders's views would have won any seats in parliament. The fact that his party is now the second-largest in the Netherlands, rather than an irrelevancy, should be a mark of how greatly both the Netherlands and Euro-American civilization have changed — and an indication that this change is not temporary.
Indeed, the second-place showing of the nationalists in the Netherlands is accompanied by an interesting phenomenon. The center-right has shifted a number of its positions toward the nationalists. As we approach the French and German elections, a similar process is under way. While the right may lose elections, its positions are being adopted, at least in part, by centrist parties.
So, now we come to the case of Nikolai Gorokhov, a lawyer entangled in the Prevezon case as a verification witness for the Justice Department who can expertly identify and authenticate Russian financial documents. Gorokhov had intimate knowledge of the literature connected with the Magnitsky affair because he has represented the murdered lawyer's justice-seeking wife and mother for six years.
On Wednesday, he was due to testify in the Moscow City Appeals Court to argue against another court's refusal to re-investigate the conspiracy that Magnitsky uncovered, based on new evidence. That evidence suggested a former investigative head of the Russian Interior Ministry was fabricating or revising old files related to the case, and doing so at the behest of the Klyuev Group. But on Tuesday, the 53-year-old Gorokhov plummeted from the fourth floor of his apartment building in Moscow. He was trying to move a bathtub to an apartment at the top of the building, according to the Russian press.
Self-starting killers without real ties to international terror groups, particularly ones who rely on do-it-yourself techniques with easily obtainable weapons like cars and knives, are difficult for even the most competent spies and cops to stop before they kill. Across the West, Khalid Masoods are proliferating—angry, unbalanced men who find in Salafi jihadism the salve for their resentments and a much-needed justification for the violence they glorify.
There is good news here. Only a dozen years ago, British jihadists pulled off a complex attack in the heart of London, the notorious 7/7 operation, which murdered 52 innocents—and transformed British counterterrorism. Today it would be exceptionally difficult for terrorists to mount anything of that intricacy or lethality. Instead they are reduced to DIY attacks which kill a only a handful of people. This war is far from over, yet this is progress of an important sort.
Is there an active terrorist threat against commercial flights traveling from the Middle East? A dramatic and specific ban on electronic devices affecting over a dozen Middle Eastern airports with flights to the United States and the United Kingdom would seem to suggest so. The ban, requested by the U.S. government, impacts flights from international airports in Jordan, Kuwait, Egypt, Turkey, Saudi Arabia, Morocco, Qatar and the United Arab Emirates. A confidential U.S. Transportation Security Administration email apparently gave airlines 96 hours to enforce the restrictions, which make exceptions for phones and medical devices. Larger devices such as laptops, DVD players, tablets and cameras must now be checked.
It has been called A People's Tragedy and an Imperial Apocalypse. It has been analyzed in many languages, from the philosophical level down to the material. But one thing is certain — the Russian Revolutions (yes, plural) and Civil War created the world we know today. If WWI broke the old world of the nineteenth century, the cataclysm that engulfed the former Russian Empire shaped the twentieth. So far-reaching were its consequences that a once "backward" and "anachronistic" medieval empire came to challenge and threaten the entire world, doing so not with religious fanaticism but with the most totalizing, brutal, and far-reaching utopian vision yet brought to life.
Busting terrorist charities here in the United States was a low priority for the last eight years under Barack Obama. It's time for the Trump administration to instruct the bureaucracy to get back into this important fight.
In the aftermath of the 9/11 attacks, the George W. Bush administration conducted multiple high-profile takedowns of terrorist charities. Federal authorities in 2001 targeted the Holy Land Foundation for funneling more than $12 million to the Palestinian terrorist group Hamas. The following year, Treasury took down the Benevolence International Foundation in Illinois for "providing material support to organizations, including al-Qaida." The Global Relief Foundation, also shuttered in 2002, "provided assistance to Usama Bin Ladin, the al-Qaida Network, and other known terrorist groups." Another charity that supported al Qaeda and Hamas, the Islamic Africa Relief Agency, met a similar fate in 2004, and its president was sentenced to 63 months in prison.
For the last eight years, however, the Obama administration dismantled just one terror-funding charity operating inside the United States (a Tamil Tigers front in 2009). It's unclear what kind of risks, if any, this lapse posed to the homeland or our troops overseas. But it is nevertheless disconcerting, given the sustained concerns about the threat of terrorism worldwide.
[T]he bigger problem is the risk of "normalization," to use the language of Trump's opposition. Leaking the names of individuals currently being investigated by the FBI and the intelligence community is not unprecedented, but it's always dangerous. It's unfair to the targets of the probe, whose reputations are tarnished before the government brings a case in court against them, if it ever does. Also, counter-intelligence investigations can change dramatically as new information comes in; the target today may not be the target when it's wrapped up.
In this sense, the resistance is fashioning a rod for its back. Democrats rightly howled when it was leaked that the FBI had wanted to investigate the Clinton Foundation but was stymied by the Justice Department in the run-up to the election. Trump will now have access to all kinds of damaging information on Democratic politicians. What is to stop him from selectively leaking monitored communications against the resistance?
Ideally, the rest of Washington would stop him. We don't do that kind of thing in America. This is what police states do. But these norms are only effective if they are observed with consistency. Unfortunately, the resistance is so eager to pre-empt Trump's presidency that they have just licensed the very tactics they fear Trump himself will use against them.
Two years ago, author John Scalzi signed a $3.4 million deal with leading science fiction and fantasy publisher Tor Books to publish 13 novels over the course of the decade. The novel that kicks off this new contract, The Collapsing Empire, is just now hitting bookstores. For Scalzi, there's a lot riding on this book: it's the start of a 10-year collaboration between him and his publisher, at a time when the publishing and bookselling industries have been undergoing significant changes.
Set in a brand-new universe, the novel is about an interstellar human empire that faces a major upheaval when its faster-than-light transportation routes begin to vanish. Scalzi has been a rising star in the science fiction world over the past decade, bolstered by a popular body of work and a legion of devoted fans he built through his blog, Whatever. His latest book is a thoughtful, exciting read, and it's a good indication that his career will continue to rise.


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Q: Get value from gridview to formview in insert mode Is there a way to get the value from gridview and then paste it in a textbox in formview? I'm trying to get the selected datakeys like ID, firstname, lastname and insert it on a textbox in formview (i've set the defaultmode to 'insert'). I've tried it with a textbox by using the SelectedIndexMethod but how can I do it in formview textbox while in 'insert' mode?
Help would be much appreciated!
Thanks in advance!

A: The GridView1.SelectedDataKey.Value will give you what you are looking for.
In your formView, it will be like:
<asp:TextBox Text='<%#GridView1.SelectedDataKey.Value %>'></asp:TextBox>

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 <asp:TextBox Text='<%#GridView1.Rows[GridView1.SelectedIndex].Cells[0].Text %>'></asp:TextBox>
 // Cells[0] column index of your Gridview

A: To get values from different cells you can try this:
string fn = GridView1.SelectedRow.Cells[0].Text; //assuming first column is FirstName
string ln = GridView1.SelectedRow.Cells[1].Text

Note that I assume Select Command Button is clicked i.e. SelectedRow is not null.

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How to Fix TNA
By The_Kingfish on May 22, 2009
The Katz Files – Arnie Katz
How to 'Fix' TNA
The Kingfish Arnie Katz offers some suggestions for improving the impact of North America's number-two pro wrestling promotion.
Before getting to my suggestions for increasing TNA's show and its profitability, let's tackle the question of whether the promotion even needs fixes. TNA management would say, at least for public consumption, that things have never been better for the second-largest wrestling promotion.
It's all a matter of perspective. iMPACT has set records several times in recent weeks. Yet a look at the actual rating shows that TNA's flagship is doing about as well as ECW on Sci-Fi. That's not terrible, but it certain indicates that there is room for a lot more growth. And growth is going to result from improving the product.
The TNA pay per view picture is bleak. Data s in short supply, but TNA's pay per views garner less than one-tenth the number of subscribes as the WWE events. That's a poor showing and, as with broadcast ratings, leaves plenty of room for improvement.
TNA has made surprisingly little progress since the initial bounce it got by hooking up with Spike. It's time to take a hard look at the operation and conceive some ways of making things better.
Improve Continuity
TNA's writers don't seem to care about keeping characters true to themselves or maintaining motivations, alliances and friendships from week to week. There has been some improvement, but there is such a distance yet to go.
Greater consistency also means reining in the turns. Matt Morgan has spun between face and heel like a human turbine. TNA must understand that, if a character turns too often and with too little motivation, the fans are likely to turn on the performer behind the character. That's what happened with X-Pac/Six-Pac/ It could happen to Morgan, Abyss and even Samoa Joe if TNA doesn't take more care.
Another example of inconsistency is the way the writers handle the group names. They'; hammer away at the name "Mi Pi Sexi," and then refer to those Knockouts as the Beautiful People. And the writers have never quite settled on a name for the faction sometimes called "TNA Frontline and the TNA Originals.
Establish a Main Event Group
This is something different than the on-screen cliques like the Main Event Mafia. TNA has to make some hard decisions about who their stars are now, today, and push them much more than the performers outside that group.
There's a tendency on iMPACT to let important guys go for a week or two without any time on the mic. Everyone can't be a card-topping star; it's important to give the ones who can the support and the face-time they need.
Reduce Gimmick Matches
Running a dozen guys out there at the same time produces a match with a lot of sound and fury, signifying nothing. Singles matches are the center of the show. All those cluster schmazzes do is make everyone look equal and anonymous, two things you never want to have happen in the wrestling show.
Get Tough
No names mentioned here, because I'm not going to campaign for anyone to be unemployed in these perilous economic times. Yet it is obvious to everyone that there are some TNA talents give their all while others are basically collecting checks.
It's time to let the locker room know that only hard workers will be tolerated in the future, no matter how big their reputations.
Tricky gimmicks like "Feast or Fired" are built on lame gimmicks. That's why they don't get over with the fans or translate in pay per view buys. Stipulations should be a refreshing alternative, not business-as-usual. The main event at Sacrifice, with each participant offering to give up too much to be credible or too little to make fans care, looks like it could be another example.
Focus on the Pay Per Views
TNA has still not come up with effective promotion for its pay per views. The emphasis must be on the top two or three matches, not every contest on the card. The show needs down-the-line strength of course, not just a strong top, but marketing for the pay per view needs to focus on the marquee match-ups that have the power to make fans turn loose of significant cash.
And if a pay per view doesn't have those promotable matches, that's a damn good sign that the card is improperly structured and need a re-think.
The Kingfish's final comments: It must be said that TNA is starting to do some of these things in alternative way. If the promotion wants to rise to become genuine competition with WWE for fans, venues and talent, then it must commit to them wholeheartedly.
That's it for today. I'll e back tomorrow with a fresh installment of the Internet's fastest-rising pro wrestling column. I hope you'll join me then and, please, bring along your friends.
— Arnie Katz
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On Being an LGBT Female Entrepreneur
With this series, we're carving out a space to discuss the challenges and successes of women business owners across the sexual orientation and gender identity spectrums.
By Candice Helfand-Rogers
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"Be yourself." Female entrepreneurs are especially likely to hear this bit of wisdom. In fact, a key tenet of Facebook CEO Sheryl Sandberg's famous "Lean In" philosophy is "seeking and speaking your truth."
But what if expressing that truth is a scary, even dangerous, proposition?
This is a concern that many LGBT individuals face when starting and growing businesses. In many places in the world, intolerance of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people means there can be significant risk in disclosing that portion of their lives to others.
This worry exacts costs for them — and for their companies. When LGBT business owners expend energy mentally gauging the tolerance of those around them, they hold themselves back from being all they can be to an organization, says Jennifer Brown, founder and CEO of Jennifer Brown Consulting, a leadership and diversity coaching firm.
"Anyone who is different is watching to see if they need to hide aspects of who they are," based on what they hear and see around them, says Brown. As a lesbian, she reported doing the same in certain settings.
"LGBT people are shifting based on safety all the time," she explains. "The downside is that those people are spending energy on that internal dialogue, which is distracting, exhausting and demoralizing. You're not bringing all of your ideas with that mindset. And if people are holding out on you, it will impact your bottom line."
The Next Equal Rights Fight
Economic concerns like these are poised to become a major focus of advocates for LGBT equality in the United States following the historic victory of the Supreme Court's recent landmark decision in favor of marriage equality.
Indeed, the LGBT community faces a unique set of finance-related struggles, including higher rates of poverty and a pervasive lack of job security. In 29 states, a now-legally married lesbian can still be legally fired upon returning to work from her honeymoon. Meanwhile, trans individuals have no protection from job discrimination in 32 states.
Workplace bias runs deep. Some 42 percent of homosexuals and 90 percent of trans people say they have experienced employment discrimination based on their sexual orientation and gender identity, respectively, a report from the Center for American Progress shows.
LGBT customers also grapple with prejudice. In Indiana, the controversial Religious Freedom Restoration Act allows business owners to turn away gay clientele due to religious beliefs. And with or without legal sanction, 57 percent of Americans think wedding-related businesses, such as florists and cake bakers, should be entitled to refuse service to LGBT couples, an Associated Press poll revealed.
Legal and legislative battles are looming, including over the recently introduced, bipartisan Equality Act (which would ensure certain protections for LGBT workers). But some experts are looking in quite a different direction for a real and lasting solution to the community's economic woes: encouraging and promoting entrepreneurship. After all, owning a business can enable them to design more inclusive workplace cultures and create their own livelihoods.
Today, only 3.7 percent of all small business owners identify as LGBT, a Gallup study finds, accounting for approximately 1.4 million businesses in all. (Some experts have noted that many LGBT people do not publicly identify as such, making it difficult to trust such figures.) To increase LGBT representation, advocates say a more supportive, open-minded ecosystem in which to start up and thrive is needed.
Safe Spaces in the Business World
The Story Exchange believes business ownership offers more than just opportunity for an individual — it can lift up entire populations. (See our series on race and entrepreneurship for more.)
Indeed, supporting LGBT entrepreneurs offers economic benefits for the larger economy, if you take it from the U.S. Small Business Administration, which has ramped up support for this group, arguing, "America benefits when we draw from the entire spectrum of American diversity."
Business ownership could also become a force for increased inclusion of LGBT people, says Jonathan Lovitz, director of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce New York. "Business will very much be a leader in [making progress on gay rights], because money talks."
Lovitz is, in part, giving a nod to the "trickle up" theory, which considers how customer brand loyalty to gay-friendly operations can influence supplier and service-provider decisions made by LGBT and ally business owners. It suggests the financial clout of an LGBT-friendly economy has tangible, dollars-and-cents impact. A 2013 report from the Pew Research Center backs that claim, showing that about half of all LGBT consumers will make purchasing decisions based on a given company's stance on gay rights.
With such systems of support in place, LGBT people can bring more value to the table as business owners. "Being out in the workplace, and being allowed to be out in your own business, is great for your bottom line, because it allows you to bring your whole self to work," Lovitz says. "Your productivity goes up. Your wealth goes up. Your ability to personally network with people goes up."
Their employees also appear to be happier. As of 2006, engagement levels for workers with gay bosses were 25 percent higher than average, according to "The G Quotient: Why Gay Executives are Excelling as Leaders."
Brown agrees with this proposition, attributing it to skills often developed while living as an LGBT individual. Empathy, perseverance, self-actualization and educated risk-taking make members of this community especially well suited for entrepreneurship, she says.
As social attitudes slowly shift, lesbians, gays and trans folks are becoming an increasingly powerful and outspoken part of the business world. Still, their leadership achievements aren't covered frequently in mainstream media (aside from high-profile coming-out stories like that of Apple CEO Tim Cook). With this special project, we aim to help fill that void.
Telling LGBT Women's Stories
The female LGBT entrepreneurs we have spoken with for this series are doing amazing, innovative things — and using their drive, skills and networks to take creative ideas to the next level. They are finding new solutions to longstanding problems by leveraging their smarts and unique life perspectives in profitable and interesting ways.
For the next few weeks, we will be highlighting women who have started, grown and maintained successful businesses — women who just so happen to be members of the LGBT community.
Come explore their joys, struggles and accomplishments with us.
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Of Teddy Bears and Ignorance
December 5, 2007 david (b) hayesignorance, international relations, islam, religion, sudan, the economist 2 Comments
By now you've probably heard something about a teddy bear in the news. But it seems to me that the way people understood the story had a lot to do with where they heard about it. So in the tradition of this piece, I've created two very different interpretations pared down from different news sources.
First we have, edited from Andrew Heavens's story of last Friday, what I like to call "Crazy Muslims At it Again":
KHARTOUM (Reuters) – Hundreds of Sudanese Muslims, waving green Islamic flags, took to the streets of Khartoum on Friday demanding death for the British teacher convicted of insulting Islam after her class named a teddy bear Mohammad.
"No one lives who insults the Prophet," the protesters chanted, a day after school teacher Gillian Gibbons, 54, was sentenced to 15 days in jail and deportation from Sudan.
At least 1,000 protesters shook their fists or waved banners or ceremonial swords and chanted religious and nationalist slogans after leaving Muslim Friday prayers. Banners called for "punishment" for Gibbons, and some protesters burned newspapers that contained pictures of the teacher.
Several hundred protesters made a brief stop at the closed but heavily guarded Unity High School, where Gibbons worked, but did not attempt to go inside. The school was guarded by five truckloads of police in riot gear.
The protesters marched from there to the British embassy where several hundred surrounded the ambassador's residence, chanting religious slogans. There were no reports of violence.
Gibbons was charged on Wednesday with insulting Islam, inciting hatred and showing contempt for religious beliefs because the class toy had been given the same name as the Muslim Prophet Mohammad.
Under Sudan's penal code, she could have faced 40 lashes, a fine or up to a year in jail. But Gibbons was convicted only of insulting religion.
This is how most people I've heard talking about the story see it. This is terribly unfortunate because even Heavens's piece contains some insight into the role the Darfur crisis may have had in the actions of the government in Khartoum and the loyalist protesters.
The second version of the story is stolen from The Economist's coverage, and I'll (verbosely) call it "West Misunderstands Khartoum's Feeble Attempt to Exploit Religious Row":
FOR anyone who is labouring to improve Christian-Muslim relations, or stop civilisations clashing, it is a painful setback: a well-intentioned Western woman who has volunteered her services as a teacher in a land stricken by conflict and poverty, only to find herself denounced by a local colleague and incarcerated in horrible conditions.
Gillian Gibbons, a 54-year-old teacher from Liverpool, was sentenced on Thursday November 29th to 15 days in prison for "insulting religion", after allowing her pupils at a school in Khartoum, Sudan's capital, to name a teddy bear Muhammad.
When the story broke in the British press this week, it was widely reported that she might face up to 40 lashes, or six months in jail, if she were found guilty on all three of the charges laid against her. The incident happened in September and caused no protest among parents at the time. At one point the affair seemed to be spinning out of control as groups of angry men gathered outside the police station where she was held.
For Muslims in Britain and other democracies, the story was a deeply depressing one: so many of its features, including the fact that it happened in the run-up to Christmas, seemed almost calculated to resonate with British tabloid readers, who may not know much about Sudan or Islam (or any other faith) but have strong feelings about teddies, tiny tots and motherly teachers.
In more elevated western circles, it is becoming commoner to hear the view that Islam itself (rather than any extremist interpretations of the faith) is posing a challenge to western values that must be resisted. And if that view becomes more respectable, so too does a defensive Muslim reaction, which is often tinged with geopolitical grievance.
To observers who know Sudan, the whole affair seems to have become entangled with the broader stand-off between the government in Khartoum and the Western countries, including Britain, that have pushed for the United Nations to intervene in the appalling humanitarian crisis in Darfur. All diplomatic exchanges between the Sudanese government and Western ones, whether they concern refugees or teddy bears, take place against that background.
The Economist's admirable piece goes on to discuss the role of capital punishment in Islam–worth reading if you're interested. I should also point to another responsible (if almost as tardy as my own) perspective on this event form Anne Applebaum's "The absurd Sudanese teddy bear controversy" at Slate.
What the difference between the two stories above makes clear is the painfully high cost the world pays for ignorance. The gap between seeing the "teddy bear row" as another example of Muslims doing crazy anti-Western things and seeing it as a desperate attempt by Khartoum to get as much leverage as it can to prevent outside intervention in Darfur is a big one.
Those who read the story the first way go away more convinced than ever about the massive threat posed to Britain or America by what many like to call "Islamofacism." Those who read it the second way are essentially aware that the event, though ugly, is a product of the wishes of a fearful government and a few loyal supporters–nothing more.
I do think reporter for the major news agencies–Reuters, AFP, the AP–could do a much better job moderating the coverage of events like this, since their articles are read by the vast majority of laypeople. But I think it would be both unfair and short-sighted to castigate them for their occasional failings.
Mostly, I just wish that everyone–myself included–were more willing to withhold judgments on the things we don't understand. And the complex geopolitics of Sudan and the diversity of Muslims are two things I certainly don't understand. Perhaps hoping we can accept before judging is a lost cause, but I'm pretty sure lost causes are the only ones worth hoping for.
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#AMonthofFaves: A Year in Books Timeline!
Today is all about a reading timeline. You can mark the big events however you'd like, but I'm going to be taking a look back month-by-month to see what was shaking. Link up at Girlxoxo.com today!
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And in case you don't feel like messing with the image...
January - 7 books - Off to a good start in the new year!
February - 6 - Still going!
March - 4 - Wedding month started to slowww.
April - 6 - Rally!
May - 9 - Watch out! Summer reading usually rocks!
June - 3 - Wait, what?
July - 11 - Yes! Hitting my stride!
August - 11- Still striding with lots of comics and novels mixed up in August!
September - 5 - Teaching classes now. Getting a little harder to keep up.
October - 9 - Thank God for comics or I wouldn't be reading at all.
November - 12 - Same thing. The most comics read all year in November!
December - How will the year end? This month is off to a slow start.
How does your year look so far?
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CaroG 12/10/2014 5:53 AM
I think in all you had a great year, with ups and downs like all of us, but good in general. I love the graphic timeline, I should've done mine like that, but oh well.
Akilah 12/10/2014 6:11 AM
See, I knew there was a way to create a real timeline! I read that post on Read Write Think ages ago. So now I'm going to add one to my blog, so yeah. Thanks for that.
Shannon @ River City Reading 12/10/2014 6:36 AM
Ha, I love your timeline (Read, Write ,Think is the bessstt)! I think it's pretty normal to have ups and downs like that, especially in a year with a wedding and a ton of new experiences. Shake it off, girl.
MG 12/10/2014 6:56 AM
A perfectly cromulent timeline.
Nice choice of words: https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/7494403-destination-springfield-celebrating-some-perfectly-cromulent-team-names
Valeria @ A Touch of Book Madness 12/10/2014 7:31 AM
I think overall you had a good year. We all have our ups and downs, because life is completely unexpected. You can safely call it a successful year.
Sarah (Sarah's Book Shelves) 12/10/2014 7:35 AM
You had a ton going on this year...and congratulations on getting married! Ups and downs in reading are to be expected I think! I couldn't get my timeline together by today, so I'll put it up tomorrow. Better late than never :)
Wow that is great! I wish I had more than I did this month. Congrats on the wedding and your new marriage.
this is neat, I like the way you did it. Mine is super bland but did not have tim to be creative. it's here:http://wordsandpeace.com/2014/12/10/a-month-of-favorites-a-year-in-books-timeline/. Girlxoxo does not have today linky thing up yet
Megan 12/10/2014 9:08 AM
Ooo, I like how yours is actually like a graphical timeline. Mine's just your average text based ramble. ;-) My month is definitely off to a slow reading start, too. Hopefully, it'll rally at the end!
carol 12/10/2014 10:10 AM
I totally stole your timline idea, I hope that's okay. Apparently my slowest months are in the summer.
KaKiJoKoJa 12/10/2014 1:31 PM
My verbal timeline got a little extensive, since I read so much for the year. :) I look forward to what others posted on their timeline, such a fun post!!
bermudaonion 12/10/2014 4:34 PM
With such a busy year it's a wonder you've read at all. December is always slow for me.
Katherine P 12/10/2014 7:42 PM
It's been a busy year for you! I think we all have those occasional 3 book months. Sometimes it's a win just to read anything!
Monika @ Lovely Bookshelf 12/11/2014 12:26 AM
I love the way you formatted this post, too cool!
Such a fun timeline. We all read at our own pace...embrace your unique passions!!
Flo 12/11/2014 4:36 AM
I like your timeline! Much more original than mine.
In general, I read rather the same number of books from one month to another but this year has been full of ups and downs like yours and I not always have explanations. I supposed it's called life.
Jen G. 12/11/2014 10:33 PM
Lol, these made me laugh. Good old NCTE - was that a blank graph on read write grow.org? Pretty cool.
Lisa 12/21/2014 9:12 PM
Who cares if it's comics you're reading - you're reading! Plus you're reading some stuff you're really enjoying so it's all good.
Thanks for taking the time to comment! Blogger has been a beast lately, so I hope you do not have any troubles leaving your thoughts.
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The Basics of BDSM Negotiation
Stella Harris | Published: May 13, 2015
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Takeaway: For better, safer play, negotiate play time before it starts.
Negotiation is the backbone of consensual BDSM practices. In fact, negotiation and consent are the primary way BDSM is distinguished from abuse. They are essential elements of kink play. Even so, negotiation is often glossed over, or sped through, even by experienced players. It's a shame. Not only is negotiation one of the most valuable ways to keep yourself and your partner safe, when done correctly, it's also part of the fun.
When you begin negotiation, you and your partner are building a fantasy together. You're talking about what each of you desire and how to build an optimal experience. This sort of communication is the best way for the parties to get their needs met. It can be very sexy, too. Whether you start the conversation in person, by email, or text, it can be akin to flirting and dirty talk. You're sorting through a whole world of possibilities and deciding what you'd like to do together. That's exciting stuff!
Negotiate in Advance When Possible
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Focus on the Connection
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What Tone Do You Want to Set?
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While you're thinking about what you want to do, make sure that you also think about what you don't want to do. Your boundaries (sometimes called 'hard limits') are as essential to negotiate as the things you do want.
Many people have limits their partner might not expect (such as not touching feet or not using certain words) and nothing derails play faster than someone having a negative emotional response. Be sure to not only get these limits expressly stated, but discuss what to do if an unexpected emotional land-mine is hit. BDSM can tap into extreme vulnerability and sometimes people have a strong response. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but be sure you know if your partner wants to be comforted or left alone if something does come up.
Limits aren't only about things you don't want to happen. They might also revolve around how intense the play becomes. Not everyone wants pain with their kink. There are plenty of ways to engage in BDSM that don't involve physical pain. If you are playing hard, make sure that you discuss marks and bruises, especially in areas that will be visible to others. Some people have a personal or professional life that isn't compatible with visible bruises.
Establish a Safeword
Because some people engage in role play that might involve saying no or stop, it's a good idea to establish a safeword. The traffic signal system is very common: green for yes, more please; yellow for slow down or check in; red for stop right away. You can think up something clever if you want. Just make sure it's something you'll both remember if/when the time comes.
Are You Going All the Way?
When engaging in BDSM, sexual touch or activity is not a given. Make sure that you explicitly negotiate whether this will be an aspect of the scene. If the answer is yes, then you need to define just how far it will go. Don't forget to negotiate safer sex agreements while you're at it. It's never safe to assume that other people are on the same page as you when it comes to barrier use or any other aspect of safety.
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Speaking of safety, there are some special considerations when engaging in BDSM. You need to know if the person you're playing with has any medical issues that could crop up during play. Asthma and diabetes are two common examples, but they're far from the only ones. Find out what you need to do if the person you're playing with has an issue during the scene. If they need something like an inhaler, make sure it's within arm's reach when you play. Also take into consideration any injuries or stamina issues that may impact forms or duration of play. For example, if someone has a bad back, you might not want to put them in a strenuous hogtie.
Discuss Aftercare
Don't forget to negotiate aftercare. For some people this is as simple as a glass of water, a piece of chocolate, and a warm blanket with a five minute snuggle. For others, they may take a couple hours or even all night to come down from an intense scene. Aftercare can continue for several days or more in some situations. Make sure to articulate if one or both people want check-ins by phone, email, or text in the coming days or even if they want to get together for a cup of coffee. Mismatched aftercare needs can be a deal-breaker if one person wants a lot of contact and the other isn't willing to make that commitment.
This might seem like a lot to consider at first, but once you get the hang of it you'll see that it becomes second nature. Not only that, but when you get in the habit of negotiating BDSM play, those communication skills will carry over into other sexual and non-sexual situations. Which means that everyone is more likely to ask for, and even get, what they want.
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Written by Stella Harris
Stella Harris is such a nerd about communication that she wrote a book about it - "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships". As a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, she uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the country (and Canada!) most recently appearing at ConvergeCon in Vancouver, B.C., Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Francisco, Kinky Kollege in Chicago, and Reed College in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. In addition to her upcoming book, Stella has been busy writing her sex column for the Willamette Week, Humptown!
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