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My two moms can beat up your eight wives: a marriage update
Since there's a lot going on, I thought it might be time for a little update on what's going on in the big gay world.
–ILLIONOIS – Yesterday, the Illionois Senate approved marriage overwhelmingly with a vote of 34-21! Happy Valentine's Day! Support is expected to be thinner but still winnable in the House and we don't yet know when it will be taken up. Governor Pat Quinn has pledged to sign it into law should the House pass it. YAY!
–RHODE ISLAND – About 3 weeks ago, the RI House approved marriage even more overwhelmingly with a 51-19 vote. The Senate is a bit of an uphill battle but certainly not unwinnable. They are looking at a Spring vote and again the Governor is a huge supporter.
–OHIO – Currently collecting signatures for a pro-equality ballot measure in 2013
-ARIZONA, MICHIGAN & OREON – Currently collecting signatures for a pro-equality ballot measure in 2014
-MINNESOTA – Following the beatdown of an anti-gay marriage ballot measure in 2012, and a pwnership of the house, senate and the election of awesome pro-equality Governor Mark Dayton, advocates are pushing for a pro-equality bill in the next few months.
One of these states will most likely be state #10 to (not including the unstate of DC) to approve marriage equality.
SCOTUS! (Supreme Court of the United States) March 26th, SCOTUS will be hearing oral arguments on two marriage cases. The first is on CA's Prop 8. (Perry)
Possible outcomes of Prop 8 decisions:
All gay marriage bans will be struck down: This is not a likely scenario, but would make me very happy. Our lawyers are arguing to make this happen by pointing out the unconstitutionality of anti-gay marriage bans and the creation of different classes of citizens federally.
Prop 8. will be overturned: This is what most pundits are thinking will happen. It will overturn the discriminatory law and once again allow gay and lesbian Californians to marry in that state only. CA is different from other states because the courts legalized marriage in May of 2008. From May through November (prior to Prop 8 passing), more than 30,000 gay and lesbian Californians were married. This means, there are three separate classes in CA. Heterosexuals who can legally marry, Gays and Lesbians who are legally married and Gays and Lesbians who are prohibited from marrying. This is a good basis for overturning the ban and some think this is the argument the court will use to do so.
Prop 8 will be upheld: Many think this is unlikely considering the proponents of Prop 8 have no legitimate argument outside of "this is how the people voted." Every court thus far has overturned or upheld the decision of the previous ruling.
SCOTUS will punt: One of the questions presented by the court was whether or not those defending the anti-gay law had the right to defend it in court. The Brown administration and the one before him had both pulled out of defending Prop 8 because they found it to be discriminatory. After that, the anti-gay campaign began defending it in court. Some don't believe that a biased campaign has the right to defend a state law in court. If SCOTUS punts, then two things could happen, the decisions of the earlier courts could be upheld or they could essentially issue a do-over.
On March 27th (the next day), SCOTUS will be hearing oral arguments on the constitutionality of the so-called Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). As many of you know, as a side note – Obama's DoJ stopped defending DOMA a few years ago as on 8 separate occasions now, when the government was sued over DOMA, it has been found unconstitutional – so there's a bit of precedent here. It's also clearly a waste of money to defend a clearly unconstitutional law. Yet John Boehner has just increased to $2 million the amount of money they will spend towards lawyers to defend DOMA…yet they keep screaming that we spend too much on frivolous things.
But I digress…
The reason most courts have found DOMA to be unconstitutional is that it violates state's rights. Legally married gay couples in states that recognize equality are not afforded more than 1100 rights and responsibilities given to heterosexual couples granted by the federal government. This includes everything from federal tax benefits, to citizenship. If I were to marry a man from Argentina – legally, let's say in DC – they could still be deported because of DOMA. If I (a very gay man) were to marry a woman from Argentina, that marriage would give her the opportunity to apply (and win) US citizenship.
Edie Windos, lead plaintiff in the Supreme Court DOMA cases
Possible outcomes of DOMA decisions:
DOMA is struck down: The court could decide that Section 3 of DOMA (that which defines marriage as being only between a man and a woman) violates state's rights and the Constitution's guarantee of equal protection for all under the law.
DOMA is upheld: The court could uphold DOMA which would enshrine two classes of citizen where one class is treated differently under federal law than the other. Legally married gay couples would continue to not receive tax and social security survivor benefits. Another side note: 17 year – Congressman Gerry Studds, the first openly-gay member of Congress, was legally married to his partner of 16 years Dean Hara. When Studds died in 2006, Hara was not elegible to receive spousal survivor benefits and pension afforded every other Congressional spouse.
SCOTUS punts: Due to the aforementioned discrepancies with who is defending this law, the court could dismiss the case on procedural grounds. It would of course, find it's way back to the Supreme Court eventually, but this would make it so they didn't have to make a potentially unpopular opinion.
There are actions happening all over the country for you to get involved with. Everything from vigils to lobby days to house parties. Go find out what's going on near you or plan something and let us know about it at Light to Justice or visit the March4Marriage Facebook page.
In the meantime, might I recommend the film Edie & Thea: A Very Long Engagement (also available on Netflix). It's a story about Edie Windsor and her wife, Thea. Edie is the lead plaintiff in the upcoming DOMA cases coming before the Supreme Court.
Tags: DOMA, Edie Windsor, Gay Marriage, GLAD, LGBT, Marriage, Marriage Equality, Perry vs Schwarzenegger, Prop 8, Proposition 8, SCOTUS
Categories California, DOMA, Edie Windsor, Gay adoption, gay marriage, GLAD, lawsuits, Lesbian, LGBT, Prop 8, SCOTUS, Supreme Court
Cruel Intentions Without the Lesbian Kiss???
This weekend, I caught a Facebook status update from my good, straight, awesome LGBT ally friend, Amir.
It read:
"Is Oxygen Network homophobic? Cuz they cut the Cruel Intentions kiss btwn Selma Blair and Sarah Michelle Gellar just now."
Cruel Intentions WITHOUT the kiss? For those of you who don't know the film, it's a fairly integral and important part of the story.
As the troublemaking homosexual I am, I promised Amir I'd get to the bottom of it. With my finger poised cautiously over the GLAAD speed dial on my phone, I searched for email addresses for everyone at the Oxygen Network I could find. I wrote to several individuals in the publicity and marketing office and pressed send.
Having not heard back 4 days later, I followed-up today. Within an hour, I heard back from Meredith Gold – Senior Director of Program Planning for the network.
It seems TV versions of movies are cut by the studios, approved by directors and sent to the networks. When the director has approved of the TV version, no further edits can be made. Such was the case with Sony, Director Roger Kumble and Cruel Intentions and this cut of it which was probably made more than 10 years ago (back before Katy Perry was yodeling about kissing girls regularly).
The good news though…after hearing from just a small handful of viewers, the Oxygen Network sprang into action, got in touch with Sony and Sony is re-cutting a version of the film which will include the ever-important kiss. As it goes with movies on cable networks, it will air thousands of times most likely in the next year. The new cut of the film will begin airing on the network in the coming few weeks pending director approval.
Moral of the story: When you see something, say something.
UPDATE: I received word from Oxygen that the unedited version of the film is now in-house at the network. It will air this weekend starting on Saturday night at 8:30pm! Tune in! And thank you again for listening to your viewers, Oxygen!
For your edification, the cut scene:
Tags: Buffy, Movies, NBC Universal, Oxygen, Oxygen Network, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Selma Blair, Sony, Television
Categories Cruel Intentions, Lesbian, LGBT, LGBT Allies, Movies, Oxygen, Oxygen Network, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Selma Blair, Sony, Television
PHOTOS: DC Vigil for Teen Lesbians Shot in Texas
Kristene Chapa and Mollie Olgin
Last Friday night as many Americans prepared for a weekend of Pride celebrations, 19 year old Mollie Olgin was taking her girlfriend of 5 months, 18 year old Krissy Chapa to a movie. They had some extra time on their hands, so they stopped by a local park.
What happened between then and roughly 9am on Saturday is still being pieced together by Police.
Authorities were called to the scene after a couple came upon them in the morning. Mollie had died due to a gunshot wound to her neck and Kristene remains in intensive care with a gunshot wound to her head.
The investigation continues and as of 7pm last night, no motives or suspects have been discovered. A witness has come forward and described the shooter as a white male in his 20s, 5 foot 8 inches tall, 140 pounds with dark hair. As of this time, it is unknown whether the girls' relationship was a motive for the crime. The police also indicated that the women did not know their assailant.
As of right now, there are more than 25 vigils planned across the country for the girls.
We hear from Kristene's brother that she's making progress and can now move the right side of her body. In trying to get her to communicate, she's only been able to write – most of what she's writing is Mollie's name. Her family has refrained from telling her Mollie is gone for fear it will impact her recovery. Friends and family had been very supportive of their relationship.
Tonight, we were proud to help organize a twilight vigil in Mollie and Kristene's honor in Washington D.C.. More than 100 people braved the 104 degree weather and contributed over $300 to help with Kristene's medical care (as she is uninsured).
Speakers included Maya Rupert , Federal Policy Director at the National Center for Lesbian Rights will be Chad Griffin, new Executive Director for the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), Executive Director of the Sexual Minority Youth Assistance League (SMYAL), Andrew Barnett and Chair of Gays & Lesbians Opposing Violence (GLOV), A.J. Singletary.
Thank you to those who joined us. Please feel free to make a contribution here to help out Kristene's family.
Tags: AJ Singletary, Andrew Barnett, Anti-Gay, Chad Griffin, Corpus Christi, GLOV, Hate Crime, HRC, Jamie McGonnigal, Jay Carmona, Kristene Chapa, Maya Rupert, Mollie Olgin, Murder, NCLR, SMYAL, Texas
Categories AJ Singletary, Andrew Barnett, Chad Griffin, GLOV, Hate Crime, Human Rights Campaign, kristene chapa, Lesbian, LGBT, Maya Rupert, mollie olgin, Murder, NCLR, SMYAL, Texas
Rachel Maddow, Come To Our Wedding!
Laura Hatalsky & Lanae Erickson (photo courtesy Lanae Erickson)
My friend Lanae, who plays violin with the Capital City Symphony and is one of the coolest LGBT activists I know, is getting married on April 28th.
Little did she know when she and her fiancée Laura were planning her wedding, that the one and only Rachel Maddow would be visiting DC at the time. Their friends are now angry with them because like any good lesbian, they are fans of Ms. Maddow…and will now have to miss her DC appearance.
Rachel is currently on a book tour, promoting Drift: The Unmooring of American Military Power. As a huge non-lesbian fan of Rachel Maddow myself, this book explores much of what she frequently reports on and is clearly fascinated by – America's use of military might. If you've watched her show on MSNBC, you've probably caught one of her many fascinating stories about F-22 fighter jets, weapons of mass destruction or highly enriched uranium. And while never advocating the use of these things, her near-obsession with weapons and the history behind them is always evident.
While I'm personally still waiting and hoping for a personalized, autographed copy of her book, and her DC book-signing is sold-out, I'm thinking there's another way to meet her.
Lanae and Laura have put together a special little invitation for Rachel. And while I'm not technically "invited" to the wedding, I will more than likely be crashing if Rachel Maddow decides to go.
I asked Lanae, what they would do if Rachel actually showed up. At first they thought of having her sign their ketubah (which is kind of a Jewish pre-nup that gets signed by friends and family at the wedding), but they decided that would be a bridge too far. So they'd be really happy with a signed program and a Maddow signature cocktail.
So, how about it Rachel?
Tags: cocktails, DC, Drift, Gay Marriage, ketubah, Lanae Erickson, Laura Hatalsky, Rachel Maddow, washington, Washington DC, Weddings
Categories gay marriage, Lanae Erickson, Laura Hatalsky, Lesbian, LGBT, MSNBC, Rachel Maddow, Uncategorized, Washington, Washington D.C.
If a Married Lesbian Couple Saves 40 Teens from the Norway Massacre and No One Writes About it, Did it Really Happen?
Hege Dalen and Toril Hansen. Photo: Maija Tammi
By this point, most of you have heard about the tragedy in Norway a few weeks ago when a Christian Fundamentalist* murdered 77** people and injured another 96. The story has been well-covered by International media and the mainstream press here in the US.
What you probably have not heard about is the married lesbian couple who rescued 40 teenagers during and after the bloody event. Several blogs and gay and lesbian publications are now picking up the story, but the heavy hitters who usually kill for hero stories like this, have remained silent.
The Finnish capital city's largest daily newspaper, Helsingin Sanomat, published this account (translated from Finnish):
Hege Dalen and her spouse, Toril Hansen were near Utöyan having dinner on the opposite shore across from the ill-fated campsite, when they began to hear gunfire and screaming on the island.
"We were eating. Then shooting and then the awful screaming. We saw how the young people ran in panic into the lake," says Dale to HS in an interview.
The couple immediately took action and pushed the boat into Lake Tyrifjorden.
Dalen and Hansen drove the boat to the island, picked up from the water victims in shock in, the young and wounded, and transported them to the opposite shore to the mainland. Between runs they saw that the bullets had hit the right side of the boat.
Since there were so many and not all fit at once aboard, they returned to the island four times.
They were able to rescue 40 young people from the clutches of the killer.
"We did not sleep last night at all. Today, we have been together and talked about the events," Dalen said.
Please share this story and make sure people know the heroism of Hege and Toril.
Check out our follow-up to this post here: Hege & Toril: Why We Write, which addresses many of your comments and questions about this article.
*The term "Christian Fundamentalist" has been disputed greatly in both the press and the comments section below this post. According to Norwegian police investigating the massacre, Anders Behrin Breivik was a "Christian Fundamentalist" as described by the New York Times and several Norwegian sources. There is a great post from CNN, which discusses at length, the use of the term being used for Breivik.
**Thank you to readers who have provided credible sources as to the actual number of deaths from this tragedy. We originally reported that 92 had been killed, but according to Norwegian sources, the total number is at 77, with many still in the hospital.
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Tags: Gay Marriage, Hege Dalen, Heroism, Lesbian, LGBT, Marriage Equality, Massacre, Media, Norway, Press, Rescue, Toril Hansen
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Categories Heroism, Lesbian, LGBT, LGBT History, Marriage Equality, Norway, Uncategorized


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