Watching him reshape his identity during his illness, learning to witness and accept his pain, talking together through his choices -- those experiences taught me that resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before, or pretending that the hard stuff isn't hard.
Melihat dia membentuk kembali identitasnya selama dia sakit, belajar menyaksikan dan menerima sakitnya, berdiskusi bersama melalui keputusannya -- pengalaman itu mengajarkan saya bahwa ketahanan bukan berarti lompat kembali ke tempat Anda sebelumnya, atau menganggap sesuatu yang sulit tidaklah sulit.