But if we allow the biology to become the whole picture, as I did for so long, as I would argue our culture has done pretty much most of my life, what we're implicitly saying to people is, and this isn't anyone's intention, but what we're implicitly saying to people is, \"Your pain doesn't mean anything.
Tapi jika kita membiarkan biologi menjadi gambaran besarnya, seperti yang kulakukan, karena budaya mempengaruhi sebagian besar hidupku, yang kita katakan secara tersirat -- mungkin bukan niat kita begitu -- tapi yang kita katakan adalah, \"Rasa sakitmu tak berarti apa pun.