`` Because , dear , I do n't think you suited to one another . As friends you are very happy , and your frequent quarrels soon blow over , but I fear you would both rebel if you were mated for life . You are too much alike and too fond of freedom , not to mention hot tempers and strong wills , to get on happily together , in a relation which needs infinite patience and forbearance , as well as love . '' `` That 's just the feeling I had , though I could n't express it . I 'm glad you think he is only beginning to care for me . It would trouble me sadly to make him unhappy , for I could n't fall in love with the dear old fellow merely out of gratitude , could I ? '' `` You are sure of his feeling for you ? '' The color deepened in Jo 's cheeks as she answered , with the look of mingled pleasure , pride , and pain which young girls wear when speaking of first lovers , `` I 'm afraid it is so , Mother . He has n't said anything , but he looks a great deal . I think I had better go away before it comes to anything . '' `` I agree with you , and if it can be managed you shall go . '' Jo looked relieved , and after a pause , said , smiling , `` How Mrs. Moffat would wonder at your want of management , if she knew , and how she will rejoice that Annie may still hope . '' `` Ah , Jo , mothers may differ in their management , but the hope is the same in all -- the desire to see their children happy . Meg is so , and I am content with her success . You I leave to enjoy your liberty till you tire of it , for only then will you find that there is something sweeter . Amy is my chief care now , but her good sense will help her . For Beth , I indulge no hopes except that she may be well . By the way , she seems brighter this last day or two . Have you spoken to her ? ' `` Yes , she owned she had a trouble , and promised to tell me by-and-by .
I said no more , for I think I know it , '' and XXXXX told her little story .
Amy Annie Beth Jo Meg Moffat Mother fall first forbearance