`` And so you came to find that it was not too poor , but the one precious thing I needed , '' whispered Jo . `` I had no courage to think that at first , heavenly kind as was your welcome to me . But soon I began to hope , and then I said , ' I will haf her if I die for it , ' and so I will ! '' cried Mr. Bhaer , with a defiant nod , as if the walls of mist closing round them were barriers which he was to surmount or valiantly knock down . Jo thought that was splendid , and resolved to be worthy of her knight , though he did not come prancing on a charger in gorgeous array . `` What made you stay away so long ? '' she asked presently , finding it so pleasant to ask confidential questions and get delightful answers that she could not keep silent . `` It was not easy , but I could not find the heart to take you from that so happy home until I could haf a prospect of one to gif you , after much time , perhaps , and hard work . How could I ask you to gif up so much for a poor old fellow , who has no fortune but a little learning ? '' `` I 'm glad you are poor . I could n't bear a rich husband , '' said Jo decidedly , adding in a softer tone , `` Do n't fear poverty . I 've known it long enough to lose my dread and be happy working for those I love , and do n't call yourself old -- forty is the prime of life . I could n't help loving you if you were seventy ! '' The Professor found that so touching that he would have been glad of his handkerchief , if he could have got at it . As he could n't , Jo wiped his eyes for him , and said , laughing , as she took away a bundle or two ... `` I may be strong-minded , but no one can say I 'm out of my sphere now , for woman 's special mission is supposed to be drying tears and bearing burdens . I 'm to carry my share , Friedrich , and help to earn the home . Make up your mind to that , or I 'll never go , '' she added resolutely , as he tried to reclaim his load . `` We shall see . Haf you patience to wait a long time , Jo ? I must go away and do my work alone .
I must help my boys XXXXX , because , even for you , I may not break my word to Minna .
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