you brotha s ya ll forget you got a mama got a lady that stick with you through thick and thin but you dog her and you ain t been through half the shit she been you step in the church every morning six a m up from work daddy always kept it real taught you how a man s pose to feel not afraid to cook and clean ain t even into the party scene but no matter what you do every man that you meet want his cake and eat it too 1 she been lied to cheated on the victim of every sad song her mother and her father definition of the perfect daughter but she can t find a man who done been half the things she done been if you out there raise your hand raise your hand check it out you like the thought of makin love occassional kisses and a few hugs want a family raise some kids just like your mamma and your daddy did yeah but every guy you start to dig comes with baggage and no gig yeah got a baby mama and alot of bills you foot the bill but he come and go at will repeat 1 said give your baby a standing ovation got her own college education raise her babies all alone always in a house but never at a home repeat 1 24 hours in labor she been abused by her man out there on the welfare ya ll don t seem to understand pms ing once a month scrapping up dollars to get the baby lunch left at the alter by her sucker man ya ll don t seem to understand you don t seem to understand called bitches and hoes for no reason getting reeked on by the man she was pleasing it was her best friend can you find a man who done been through what she done been yeah repeat 1