1st verse i know a lot of women gonna hate it but somebody s gotta say it and so i nominated myself to deliver the news that its hard for a man to choose a lady that already got a baby although his feelings may be strong having kids that don t belong to him holding on to him somehow seems wrong to him exposing them to a man who may one day decide he s tired of the family life and now he s gotta tell that little girl a goodbye lie when he s the only dad she s ever had in her life i don t wanna take that chance please don t take offense it s just the thought of hurting somebody that was innocent chorus she got kids and i don t know if i m ready to give them the things that they need to live cause if we become more than just friends what i do for her i gotta do for them kids she got kids and i just wanna make sure this is more than just some sexual trip see all i wanna do is prevent those kids from getting hurt again 2nd verse most men think it but they ll never say it but what if ya ll had another baby and he s accused of choosing favorites and they re right would he be wrong for loving his own flesh and blood a little more is he being human or only being immature who s to say that s why it s better just to wait take love day to day and let love spread its own wings and if it wants to fly away or if it decides to stay it won t be because of any unrealistic expectations ya ll done made and he won t have to pray that little girl ain t awake when he tiptoe out the door so he won t have to explain i don t wanna take that chance please don t take offense i just don t need that kinda drama on my conscience ohhh ooooo chorus 