please stop reading all of those young adult novels like looking for alaska or the perks of being a wallflower theres more to life than romance and butterflies but you ll never learn if you keep on taking advice from 15 year old guys dont make it seem poetic that you met a boy back in high school and he was so sweet and cool that you wish you were not 22 youre living in the past that boy is working at a grocery store while you work on your phd in sociology and everything youd thought youd learned was a misreading of terms and now were anchored to illogical thoughts well always be 13 at heart well always be 13 at heart well always be 13 at heart at least until we start reading hemingway