1st verse sometimes a man has to choose and do something he doesnt wanna do do i live my life with you as my wife or do i go on and pursue my lifetime dream i gotta do this for me cuz if i dont i ll probably regret it but if i do i ll probably regret it how do i cope chorus how do you cope when the one you love is with somebody else and theres nothin you can do about it how do you deal with the fact that you had a chance but you chose to turn away for your career i gotta take it though its heart breakin its somethin that i had to do but nobody said that it would hurt so bad so how do i live how do i deal without you 2nd verse its killing me to know that your heart s with me but you re with him cuz i chose to be in this industry money shows and hoes come along with luxury and pain is all you see when you think about it but this is the life that i was given so i have to live it to the fullest but how do i deal in the meantime without you solo how do you deal when you can t be with the one you love and the one that you love is with somebody else and what do you do when you know she don t love him and she loves me but she just can t stand loving you far away you just deal with it deal with it you just deal with it deal with it you just deal with it deal with it you just deal with it deal with it 