if it ain t one thing i tell you it s always another i wonder why i started treating you like a step brother love is hard to explain i know my loss is someone else s gain sometime s love is like a bitter pill but we just have to take it like it is sometimes life is the sweetest thing and sometimes it s just naked pain oh it s so hard to explain i know my loss is someone else s gain my troubles started when i found you but that s when i my world around you and now my living ain t so easy i thought that s what a woman was supposed to do you see it s so hard to explain i know my loss is someone else s gain i went to see my doctor cause i thought i had a hole in my heart but he said girl you re just wasting my time because some man messed up went and messed up your mind it s so hard to explain i know my loss is someone else s gain oh love it s so hard to explain it ll make you forget your name it ll turn you upside down it ll make you wish that you d never been found