vi can you find it in your heart to forgive her can you stop and see there s part of her that s trying to obey while part of her is dying to run away can t you hear what s she s trying to say can you find it in your soul to accept her if she stumbles on your holy path do you have to reprimand or are there ways to make her understand without using the back of your hand can t you remember when we were that age pumped up with promise and wrestling with rage can t you remember when we were a family back when could we be one again does it ever cross your mind that i miss you is there any chance we ll find the joy that we shared at the start can you remember what you felt before that feeling fell apart can you find it in your heart have you lost my love somewhere far behind or can you find it in your heart 