i can tell that you don t ever want to trust again cause every time you trusted it just left ya hurt and i can tell that you don t ever wanna love again cause when they leave all you do is second guess ya worth now you re choking on your tears and you can t breathe cause all the pain is coming at you like a stampede and even after all of that you feel you can t leave but don t go changing who you are to fit a man s needs it s not fair i know it isn t right but you were meant to shine bright don t you dim ya light live ya life because you re perfect how you are don t you change a thing and baby you were made a queen but he ain t a king so why you trippin when it ain t a thing one day you ll find someone who will make it seem like every day s a dream just be honest with yourself that you re truly done and make your ex man jealous of who you ve become tell me who it is you are you say you got a big ole heart but that it s filled with scars and that you wanna die cause you re tired of the pain i ll tell you who it is you are i know you re a shining star and that you been fighting hard and that you re gonna rise from the fire and the flames see i know who you won t be at least not anymore with all that confidence girl i can see the beauty that you don t see and you deserve someone who doesn t call it quits not someone who puts you down like you re incompetent see that s why you feel uncomfortable with compliments cause you put up a wall cause you don t know who s fake now you don t know who s gonna build you up or make you break down and you don t want to risk it you will not relive it and that s why you built a barrier to make sure that nobody visits and i realize it hurts and that this time is worse but i know you were meant for more so just realize your worth it s not determined by a man or even by the church it s determined in yourself so look inside and search you got more power than you think don t let a man define you and i promise i will stand behind you see he was busy tryna burn you down with a couple matches but you are like a phoenix rising from the ashes and becoming a better you someone that you never knew girl it was something you were meant to do all the pain and the flames made you stronger now whenever it gets in your way you will conquer all i speak is truth really hope that you believe this so when you re in the fire just remember you re a phoenix  i ll tell you who it is you are i know you re a shining star and that you been fighting hard and that you re gonna rise from the fire and the flames