first thing to ask, do they lie and check out the ride, portal, or the place allowing contact, AI should recognize emotion , the dwelling could  require so much processing, emotions are fractal, social norms in a field creating state of the art, Lex the honesty in your questions "ooh that's a good too that's a great question" is often heard, sparking the fire for a warm conversation, being present for them to converse with, knowing why even if it is that you don't, taking triumph's and lumps in media, bio company engineers nano bees to chart an ethical course  gets us to the matrix fiction