"<a href=""https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYwDs9LTN50&amp;t=20m35s"">20:35</a> ask “what have you been working on lately?”", “thinking about”, “has anything been particularly difficult”,(reply>), Yea that is really good question as conversation starter.,(reply>), These are indeed really good questions to get a deep understanding of others, yet sound so simple. I literally wrote them done.