Top Posts of 2012 #3: The Cultural Nuances of Language | Voice of America - English
In the few days before 2012 ends and 2013 begins, we?ll be looking back at some of our top posts from the past year, starting with number five and counting down to number one.
Do you know how to answer when an American asks, ?How are you Zita discussed the slightly confusing protocol in another post that garnered quite a bit of attention in 2012. It?s not a real question, she explained. "I?m expected to respond, 'Good' or 'Fine,' and ask the other person how they are, to which they will also respond, 'Good.'" Read it: "" "To this day, this style of greeting strikes me as an abuse of a question with which people show care and concern to one another in my culture," Zita wrote, but it says something important about American culture: Zita decided, "[O]ne of the challenges and the beauties of living abroad is embracing the peculiarities of the host country. To me this means learning how to speak not only the language but also the culture." Learning to speak both the language and the culture takes practice, and a willingness to make mistakes, a fact Anil was kind enough to share in one of our most brutally honest and funny posts of the year. Read it: "" When he first arrived in the U.S., Anil wrote, he kept to himself, worried that his English wasn?t good enough to communicate with others. But that all changed after a trip to the grocery store when he had to ask a staff person for help finding an item: After the staff person stopped laughing, they got to talking and eventually became friends. "Just try to express yourself," Anil concluded. "It is the perfect way to improve yourself, and creating your own way brings laughter, new memories, and stories to share." "Just express yourself" was one of many pieces of advice Sava gave in his in-depth look at techniques for improving English fluency, one of our most useful posts of 2012. He also suggested listening as much as possible, including by eavesdropping on strangers? conversations ("which is great until you get caught"), and using a mirror to watch yourself as you speak. Read it: "" "Watching yourself as you speak helps you visualize the way you?re moving your mouth. One thing I personally realized is that in English you have to hold your tongue a very particular way to pronounce certain words," Sava wrote. "Watching and listening to myself as I practiced speaking also helped me notice that I project a better sound in English when I use a lower and deeper tone with my voice." Still want more tips on improving your English? Shree wrote about his approaches, adopted while studying for the TOEFL exam earlier this year. He built English study into his normal routine, using things like talking to friends or listening to the radio as opportunities to practice his language skills. Read it: "" As Zita noted, "One of the most challenging aspects of being an international student is that you not only have to master a foreign language, but also to recognize the meaning that hides behind the words." But reaching that point is "all about finding the approaches that work best for you," said Sava. "Like art, learning a language is something that different people experience in different ways." Other top posts of 2012: #5: #4: #2: #1: