re harrassed at work could use some prayers well i ll email also but this may apply to other people so i ll post also i ve been working at this company for eight years in various engineering jobs i m female yesterday i counted and realized that on seven different occasions i ve been sexually harrassed at this company i dreaded coming back to work today what if my boss comes in to ask me some kind of question your boss should be the person bring these problems to if he she does not seem to take any action keep going up higher and higher sexual harrassment does not need to be tolerated and it can be an enormous emotional support to discuss this with someone and know that they are trying to do something about it if you feel you can not discuss this with your boss perhaps your company has a personnel department that can work for you while preserving your privacy most companies will want to deal with this problem because constant anxiety does seriously affect how effectively employees do their jobs it is unclear from your letter if you have done this or not it is not inconceivable that management remains ignorant of employee problems strife even after eight years it s a miracle if they do notice perhaps your manager did not bring to the attention of higher ups if the company indeed does seem to want to ignore the entire problem there may be a state agency willing to fight with you check with a lawyer a women s resource center etc to find out you may also want to discuss this with your paster priest husband etc that is someone you know will not be judgemental and that is supportive comforting etc this will bring a lot of healing so i returned at only to find that ever single person had already left for lunch they left at or so no one could be bothered to call me at the other building even though my number was posted this happens to a lot of people honest i believe it may seem to be due to gross insensitivity because of the feelings you are going through people in offices tend to be more insensitive while working than they normally are maybe it s the hustle or stress or i ve had this happen to me a lot often because they didn t realize my car was broken etc then they will come back and wonder why i didn t want to go this would tend to make me stop being angry at being ignored and make me laugh once we went off without our boss who was paying for the lunch for this reason i hope good mr moderator allows me this latest indulgence well if you can t turn to the computer for support what would we do signs of the computer age in closing please don t let the hateful actions of a single person harm you they are doing it because they are still the playground bully and enjoy seeing the hurt they cause and you should not accept the opinions of an imbecile that you are worthless much wiser people hold you in great esteem darin johnson djohnson ucsd edu luxury in my day we had to make do with bytes of swap
