re divorce in article may athos rutgers edu daveshao leland stanford edu david shao writes in article may athos rutgers edu crs carson u washington edu cliff slaughterbeck writes along the way she was married happily to a wonderful and supportive husband and gave birth to two sons still everything was not perfect for jane since she could never open up the deepest part of her soul to her husband one of the interesting things that jane said in this whole discussion was homosexuality is not about what goes on in the bedroom she found that she was much more able to have a deep committed relationship with a woman than a man sex in her mind is only a part of the whole relationship it sounds like she has a problem she has a problem opening up to her husband so she is lesbian what in a marrige a couple is supposed to open up to each other because she didn t feel comfortable opening up to her husband she gets a divorce and comes to the conclusion that she is lesbian before anyone gets maried they should make sure that they would feel comfortable open up the deepest part of her soul to her husband sex in her mind is only a part of the whole relationship did she think it was diffrent with a man that might be her problem in christ s love bryan
