religion and marriage i wasn t sure if this was the right newsgroup to post this to but i guess the misc is there for a reason here goes i am getting married in june to a devout wisconsin synod lutheran i would classify myself as a strong agnostic weak athiest this has been a a subject of many discussions between us and is really our only real obstacle we don t have any real difficulties with the religious differences yet but i expect they will pop up when we have children i have agreed to raise the children nominally lutheran that is lutheran traditions but trying to keep an open mind i am not sure if this is even possible though i feel that that the worst quality of being devoutly religous is the lack of an open mind anyway i guess i ll get on with my question is anyone in the same situation and can give some suggestions as to how to deal with this we ve taken the attitude so far of just talking about it a lot and not letting anything get bottled up inside sometimes i get the feeling we re making this much bigger than it actually is any comments would be greatly appreciated also please e mail responses since i don t get a chance to read this group often paul
