re why not concentrate on child molesters in article optilink com walsh optilink com mark walsh writes in article c og h de exnet co uk sys exnet co uk xavier gallagher writes well the obvious point to make is would straight men fuck like rabbits if the oppertunity presented itself i reckon any man would go wildly promiscuous if presented with a huge variety of willing partners if true and if gays were the same as straights except for sexual preference i would imagine that gays would have much less sex than straights because the available pool for dates is less than one tenth what it is for straights somebody correct flame me please i cannot believe i am posting in this thread but what the hell he asked for it i had sort of the same reaction myself when i was first realizing i was bi so what of everyone else is straight i d never end up with a guy anyway as several people on soc bi pointed out to me this is true only if you find partners for relationships or just for sex in primarily straight circles nowadays with gay culture quite visible in major cities and such you can easily find yourself in an overwhelmingly queer social circle if you so choose about half my friends are bi and that s just from hanging out in the science fiction club and going to ucbu once a week it s not as if i have to go out of my way and hang out in bars or something so the available pool for dates can be the same size unless of course you re trying to date a random sample of the us population as for promiscuity i ve traded email with clayton on the topic and he still doesn t seem to want to admit that yes gay males are sometimes forced to resort to anonymous sex because they re closeted and can t afford to be seen in a permanent relationship or that part of the promiscuity is because of the messed up gender roles in our society and when males are dating males and they ve all been trained to be the aggressor in sex there s going to be more sex or that what s dysfunctional what s screwed up is societal attitudes not gay sexuality and that s what encourages deviant behavior in gay males also note that just because someone s had sex partners doesn t mean they re promiscuous yes it sounds ridiculous but it s quite possible for someone to go through a heavily closeted phase in which they have lots of anonymous sex with strangers and then come out start forming real relationships and be monogamous or nearly so alan jaffray jaffray math uchicago edu email talk always welcome bi those who dance are thought mad by those who hear not the music anon b h f t w cg k s vm h ps bgz o x v j n l a f vn e dvb u
