helphlphelphelp this is somewhat long but pleas read it boy am i glad you decided to read this i ve got a problem that i need as many people s help from as possible before i go in to the details of this let me go ahead and tell you that though it may sound it this is not one of those boy meets girl problem at least not totally like that to me anyway ok i am a year old sophmore at ncsu about years ago my family and i were vacationing at the coast in a cottage we rented across the street was ths girl who would whistle at me whenever she saw me her name in erin well we became friends that week at the beach and have been writing each other for about years there was a period of about years we lost contact but that was a while ago by the way erin lives in kansas and me in nc ok last year in one of her letters she says that she is coming back to nc to see some of her family who are gonna be there so i drove about hours to see her this is where it begins i spent the whole day with erin one of the best days of my life even though we had been writing each other we still had to get used to being in person she has got to be the most incredible woman i ever met she s one year older than me btw i mean no person in the world could ask for a better person not only was she incredibly beautiful not to mention way out of my league although i m not unattractive mind you but she had a great personality and a great sence of humor her family is one of those families who goes to church but that is about the extent of their christianity you know the kind of people but she knows i am a christian well you get the idea of what i think of her if there is ever such a thing as love at first sight i found it that was last year i kid you not when i say that i have thought about her every day since then in out letters erin and i always kid each other about not finding dates which is true for me but i know it can t be for her she has had some problems at home her folks split up and she ended up leaving school now we are at the present let me give you part of the letter i got from her last week okay now i m going to try to explain my life to you i m not going to ku anymore because something just isn t right college just wasn t clicking with me here greek life is really big here and that just isn t my way i wasn t taking any classes that truly interested me i really have no idea of what i want to do with my life i was interested in something medical physical therpy i love working with kids but it just didn t work for me at this university and my parents could tell so i m working full time at the bass store bass shoes that is and now i have a part time job at a local daycare i work in the infant room m w f i ve really enjoyed it so far it spices up my week a little bit and it s great experience as of now i m not planning on going back to school in the very near future the main reason being my indecision on what i want to study but i definatley plan on going back within the next couple of years where i have no idea except for one thing it won t be to kansas right noew i m discussing a promotion with my boss and district manager it looks like i ll train at the store i work at now for about months as assistant manager and when that s done i ll basically be given a list of stores newly or soon to be built to chose where i would like to manage i ve pretty much decided on either one of the carolinas hopeully close to the beach wouldn t it be fun to actually see each other more than once every few years what do you think abou that i would like to know your opinion this job would pretty much be temporary but it is very good pay and any thye of management experience would look good on an application or resume the company is solid and treats it employees very well good benefits bonuses medical plans plus after year of full time service they will reimburse tuition i do have school money waitng for me but this will help especially since i will probably end up paying out of state tuition wherever i go chris i really would like to know what you think of my decision i respect your opinion i ve been completely lost for what to do for soooo long that when the opportunity came along it sounded really good i do like my job although i m about sure that i want to do more with my life than reatil management but it is something i don t think earning about a year for a year old female is too bad anyway onto your career decisions i ll solve your problem right now marry me you can do your pilot thing i like to be by myself sometimes seriously or not as seriously do what will make you the happiest worry about the home life later ok well i m sure you see what has got me so uptight what do you think she meant about the marraige thing i dream at night about marrying her and then she mentions it in her letter i don t know what to think since she wants to move to the carolina s should i search out a bass store near here and aske her to come to carolina i always pick on those people who graduate from high school and get married but what does she mean i ve had a lot of stress lately with exams and also the fact that i don t date beacause no time not that much that most college women are wrapped up in the social scene with the greeks whic as a christian i can t support and here she says she doesn t like the greek thing either maybe i m so stunned because there is actually a girl that i am so attracted to paying some real attention to me i mean what if she did move to nc what would i do i m only and she i m only a sophmore struggling through classes i have prayed about this over the past year from time to time saying god if she is the right one let the situation open up could this be my sign i would do anything to get her to nc here is some moree that makes it worse should i call her i m terrible over the phone i don t even like to talk to my friends here for longer than minutes i mean what would a girl as perfect as her want with a very average guy like me i m really confused i would really appreciate any help i can get thanx chris i have a feeling that it might be more appropriate to talk with chris directly via email clh
