Title: Since I was a little girl, I’ve dreamed of falling in love and having a family of my own.<p>By most cultural standards, according to my male friends, I’m smart, beautiful, fit, kind, emotionally mature and doing meaningful work in the world. Not too needy and not a workaholic.<p>Over the last two years  I’ve been on over 120 dates with men I’ve met online  - a few I met in person - in 3 different cities .<p>I’ve deeply invested myself in therapy, support groups, meditation, dating coaching, yoga and hypnotism.
I’ve tried bumble, tinder , Eharmony, hinge, coffee meets bagel, Thursday, Match, speed dating as well as a few other random apps.<p>I’ve asked my friends to set me up .
I tried to crowdsource a husband on Facebook.<p>I’ve read and done the exercises in Calling In the One, Love Addiction, Datonomics, Make Your Move and If the Buddha dated. I’ve listened to every episode of Girls Gotta Eat.<p>I’ve gone to CrossFit and hung out at steakhouses. I’ve dated every profession you can think of from doctors to electricians and unemployed guys.<p>I even moved to Austin because I read that’s where there was the highest ratio of educated men to women, thereby improving my odds of meeting a marriageable man.<p>My time for having children is running out.<p>This has always been my dream and I’m willing to try almost anything. I was raised by a single mom and I really want to have kids with a man I love, not do it on my own.<p>So, are there any love hacks I could try?<p>Please encouragement only, no discouragement. I’m discouraged enough already.
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