Title: Six months ago, I took a new job as a developer. I expected to feel like an outsider for a while. No new job is &quot;comfortable&quot;. However, I started to notice that my team is really abrasive. They&#x27;re always correcting everything, job related or not (how to write code, best way to cook something, reasons for economic changes, etc). I make some comment about the world and get a response like &quot;Well, if you&#x27;d studied [such and such] you&#x27;d know that... [why you&#x27;re wrong]&quot;. Many of these things are opinion-based anyway. Despite the fact that I bring the most external experience, the guys I work with on a daily basis act like they are trying to teach me how to program. It&#x27;s really demeaning.<p>What should I do? (What CAN I do?)<p>I&#x27;ve debated talking to my manager about these concerns, but I don&#x27;t know that there&#x27;s any way he could address the issues--he can&#x27;t change the personalities of my team members. Still, I feel he deserves a chance.<p>Should I just quit and go somewhere else? It feels like doing so would make my resume look pretty bad since it hasn&#x27;t been long. Also, it seems like I owe something to this company for giving me a job and good pay.<p>Are there other ways I can address this?
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