Title: As an engineer I run cycles of listening, paraphrasing and then solutionizing almost every day. This doesn&#x27;t translate well in friendships &amp; relationships where the other person just wants someone to listen. At the same time I rate lowly on empathy scoring tests on the internet. Other technical folks here who might have gone through this,<p>1. How did you develop your listening skill?<p>2. How to be more empathetic?<p>Update: Some more questions<p>1. What common failure modes do you hit in your relationships as a low empathy person?<p>2. How do you avoid them?
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