Raising an Independent Kid Giving your kids the skills and
confidence they need to think for themselves and make sound
decisions will help them resist peer pressure, succeed in
school, and thrive as they reach adulthood. Equip your kids for
independence with these strategies. Set Clear Boundaries. This
may seem counterintuitive, but children need boundaries. It
helps them understand right and wrong and gives them a sense of
security, which in turn gives them the confidence and values
they need to take appropriate risks and make good decisions. Let
your children know what you expect, and what the consequences
are for breaking the rules. Also explain to your children why
you have made certain rules. This will allow them to start
thinking logically about and understanding their behavior and
its consequences, providing a necessary framework for sound
decision making skills. Interject, Don't Always Intervene. If
your children are fighting or your child is having a
disagreement with a friend, don't immediately inte