Edited by CupcakesXtasteXlikeXviolence, Puddy, Glutted, Teresa
and 15 others - 1Find the source of the problem. This is the
hardest part. There are many, many things that could lead to
them being disrespectful. - Is it just their age or stage? Are
they teenagers? If they are in that crazy time in their life,
it's common that teens will snap at their parents and use "shut
up" at least four times a day. Are they toddlers? They are
called the "Terrible Twos" for a reason. This is when they are
learning "NO!" and "THAT'S MINE!" It's more difficult to help a
very young child with their attitude, because they aren't as
mature and can't process things as easily. - Are you treating
them with respect? Carefully examine your own behavior. Do you
yell at them, or tell them to shut up or say that they're
stupid? While that's not good in general, it teaches your kids
that it's okay to act that way as well. If you're going to snap
at your kids, it's only karma for them to get right back at you.
- 2Communicate. If you find