Domestic violence is abuse that happens in a personal
relationship. It can happen between past or current partners,
spouses, or boyfriends and girlfriends. violence affects men and
women of any ethnic group, race, or religion; gay or straight;
rich or poor; teen, adult, or elderly. But most of its victims
are women. In fact, 1 out of 4 women will be a victim at some
point.1 The abuser may use fear, bullying, and threats to gain
power and control over the other person. He or she may act
jealous, controlling, or possessive. These early signs of abuse
may happen soon after the start of the relationship and might be
hard to notice at first. After the relationship becomes more
serious, the abuse may get worse. Money troubles and problems
with drugs or alcohol can make it more likely that abuse will
happen. Abuse is also common in teens who are dating. It often
happens through controlling behaviors and jealousy. It's
important to get help. Talk with someone you trust, such as a
friend, a help center, or your doctor