Many people with cancer want to take an active part in making
decisions about their medical care. It is natural to want to
learn all you can about your disease and treatment choices.
However, shock and stress after the diagnosis can make it hard
to think of everything you want to ask the doctor. It often
helps to make a list of questions before an appointment. To help
remember what the doctor says, you may take notes or ask whether
you may use a tape recorder. Some people also want to have a
family member or friend with them when they talk to the doctor -
to take part in the discussion, to take notes, or just to
listen. You do not need to ask all your questions at once. You
will have other chances to ask the doctor or nurse to explain
things that are not clear and to ask for more information.
Getting a Second Opinion Before starting treatment, you may want
a second opinion about your diagnosis and treatment plan. Many
insurance companies will cover a second opinion if your doctor
requests it. It may take some