Staying connected as kids approach the teen years and become
more independent may become a challenge for parents, but it's as
important as ever — if not more so now. While activities at
school, new interests, and a growing social life become more
important to growing kids, parents are still the anchors,
providing love, guidance, and support. And that connection
provides a sense of security and helps build the resilience kids
needs to roll with life's ups and downs. What to Expect Your
preteen may act as if your guidance isn't welcome or needed, and
even seem embarrassed by you at times. This is when kids start
to confide more in peers and request their space and privacy —
expect the bedroom door to be shut more often. As difficult as
it may be to swallow these changes, try not to take them
personally. They're all signs of growing independence. You're
going to have to loosen the ties and allow some growing room.
But you don't have to let go entirely. You're still a powerful
influence — it's just that your pret