We all know how it feels when we can't seem to move ahead with
something challenging — like getting to the next level in a game
or finishing a difficult math problem. Kids are trying to master
their world, too, and they get frustrated or impatient just like
we do. But, because kids don't have the skills to understand or
control their emotions, their feelings may come out as a temper
tantrum. How should you react if the kid you're babysitting has
a tantrum? Follow the parents' rules. Ask parents in advance how
they handle tantrums. Maybe they use timeouts, for example.
Perhaps they distract the child with something else or ignore
the tantrum altogether. Keeping your response consistent with
what parents do helps kids learn and feel secure. Be patient.
Your role is to set an example and show kids that it's possible
to manage feelings. So don't yell, spank, or lose your cool.
Knowing how to control your own emotions during an outburst may
help you soothe the child sooner. Help the child calm down. The
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