Nursing Your Relationship Tips for when a partner is seriously
ill © 1999, Demian Do not let serious illness, or your fear of
it, isolate your loved one from you. These tips can help
maintain a loving bond. Adapted from a pamphlet by the San
Francisco Community Partnership on AIDS, and with assistance
from Bruce MacDonald, M.S.W. - Touch your partner. A hand
squeeze or hug can communicate that you care. Most illnesses,
including AIDS, cannot be transmitted by external body contact.
- Respond to your partnerís emotions. Weep and laugh together;
itís healthy to share these intimate experiences. However, donít
pressure your partner to emote. - Celebrate holidays and life
together. Decorate the home or hospital room. Any or every day
can be designated a holiday. - Ask to take your partner on a
walk or outing. Understand their limitations. - Tell your
partner he or she looks good, if itís true. Donít ignore changes
in appearance. - Encourage your partner to make decisions.
Illness can cause a loss of control over