Frustration, anger, and occasional acting-out are behaviors seen
in every child. Whether you are strict or more laid-back and
easy-going, it is important to find a strategy of discipline
that works for your family. The following guidelines may help
you shape your approach. 1) Always consider your child's age
when setting limits or punishing. It is unfair to expect more
than a child can do. For example, a 2 or 3 year old cannot
control the impulse to touch things. Instead of instructing them
not to touch, remove fragile objects from reach. If you send
your toddler to the bedroom for more than 5 minutes, the child
may totally forget the reason due to a short attention span.
See: Time out 2) Be clear. A child should understand what
behavior needs to change. Rather than saying, "Your room is
messy," tell the child what needs to be picked up or cleaned.
The first time you show the behavior that needs to change,
explain what the punishment will be the next time it happens. Do
not keep defending yourself once you ha