Shulchan Aruch/Yoreh Deah/240 Seif 1 - One must be very
fastidious in the honoring of his father and mother and in being
in awe of them. HGH: In any case, a court cannot enforce the
mitzvah of honoring one’s mother and father, because it is a
mitzvat aseh (positive commandment) for which the reward is
described with it [i.e. in the verses], for which a court cannot
compel regarding it. Seif 2 - What is considered awe? He shall
not stand in the place set aside for [his father] to stand in
sage council with his colleagues, or his special place for
prayer, and he shall not sit in his special place to recline in
his house, and shall not contradict his words and not rule
reagarding his words in front of him, even to say “My father’s
words are sensible.” And he shall not call him by name, not
during his life nor his death. Rather he shall say “My father,
my master.” If his father’s name was the same as the name of
others, he should change their names, if it is an unusual name
that people are used to using HGH: But