Helping the gambler Talk to the person about the gambling. Don't
offer to give or loan money. Encourage the person to seek help.
Talk to the person about the gambling - Ask the person about his
or her gambling. If you think there might be a problem, the
direct approach is best. - Consider how you might be willing to
support or assist if the person is having a problem. Tell them
you care about them. - If you think there is a problem with
gambling, tell them what you have observed. Then ask for their
feedback on your observations. - Try to avoid arguments, and
don't blame the person. These approaches may cause defensive
behaviour in the gambler. - Use a positive approach so the
person feels your concern and understands that there are some
ways that you would consider helping. Don't offer to give or
loan money It's tough for family members and friends to watch a
problem gambler run into financial problems. But the question
is, should money be loaned or given in these circumstances? -
The experts say "no." This m