coming out: a parents guide to supporting your gay teen
Therapist John Sovec appeared on the "Coming Out" episode of The
Ricki Lake Show. The following are his tips for bridging the gap
between parents and kids who may be struggling with their sexual
identity. “Mom, Dad, I’m gay!” Your brave, wonderful, beautiful
child has spoken the words out loud that somewhere in the back
of your mind you may have already suspected. This moment of
honesty is the beginning of a journey that can be challenging
for both you and your child. But with a little awareness,
openness, practical tools and support, you can both grow through
this experience, creating an even closer and more supportive
family connection. The coming out process for LGBT (lesbian,
gay, bisexual, transgender) adolescents can be a terrifying
moment, not only for the teenager, but also their family and
friends. It is a time of high emotions that can run the gamut
from confusion, shock, disbelief, rejection, and anger... to
acceptance, peace, understanding, a