We’re all horrified by Friday’s senseless school shootings. It’s
nearly impossible to make sense of the random destruction, of
the devastation of so many young lives. Children are
particularly vulnerable to these events, especially when they
identify with the ages and life stages of the victims. Parents
are the first responders in helping youngsters cope with and
recover from the news of violence. The National Association of
School Psychologists offers these suggestions: • Reassure
children that they are safe. Boys and girls naturally fear that
the violence can happen to them. Validate their feelings. Let
them know it’s normal to be sad and frightened by what they see
and hear. Tell them you and the school staff are doing their
best to protect them. Remind them that they are not in danger. •
Keep explanations developmentally appropriate. Elementary-age
children need brief, simple information that is balanced with
reassurance that they are safe. Give simple examples of safety
measures at school, such as lockin