Kids hurting kids has become all too common and familiar. Big,
dramatic stories draw the news media. Schools and communities
often put a lot of effort into preparing for and trying to
prevent these awful scenarios. But there are also many little
things you can do to help your children learn how to solve
conflicts peacefully, without hurtful words or actions. Tips for
. . . - parents with children ages birth to 5 - Calmly and
firmly separate yourself from a baby who bites or hits. It’s
never a good idea to bite or hit back to “teach the baby a
lesson.” - If your child is aggressive with other children,
closely supervise playtime. If you see your child becoming
agitated, gently step in and either calm the situation with
simple language or move your child somewhere else. - parents
with children 6 to 9 - Read and discuss books about peaceful
conflict resolution together. Ask your librarian for
suggestions. - Make sure children hear adults solving problems
in peaceful ways — not with shouting, angry words, or hitt