Loni Coombs, former prosecutor and author of “You’re Perfect
...” and Other Lies Parents Tell — published by Jay McGraw’s
publishing company, Bird Street Books — shares her six tips for
effective listening for parents. "If you commit to practicing
[these tips] — and it will take commitment — you will get to
know your child better, and your child will open up more in the
welcoming environment you have provided." Six Tips for Effective
Listening - Face Your Children and Maintain Eye Contact while
They Are Speaking We’re sitting here watching TV, and the kid
comes in and wants to talk, and we never even look at him or
her. We never give the courtesy of turning our body, saying, "I
am listening with my whole body. I’ve turned my whole body to
you." Think how much more they feel respected and acknowledged
when you put everything aside, and turn and actually face them
with your eyes and with your entire body. - When They Want to
Talk, Make Sure You’re Available This is very critical, because
when there is a crisis,