Rate how you like doing it (1-10) 

kissing: 10
nipple play: 100
sucking: 8
being sucked: 6
rimming: 10
being rimmed: 8
fingering: 5
being fingered: 3
toys: 8
bdsm: 8
piss play: 10
dirty talk: 10
fisting: 6
being fisted: 0
topping: 8
bottoming: 10
cuddling: 10
stroking: 10
pit play: 10
foot play: 10