And there is no sin on you if you propose marriage to women while they are hidden from your view , or hide it in your hearts ; Allah knows that you will now remember them , but do not make secret pacts with women except by decent words recognised by Islamic law ; and do not consummate the marriage until the written command reaches its completion ; know well that Allah knows what is in your hearts , therefore fear Him ; and know well that Allah is Oft Forgiving , Most Forbearing .