And at the end of it, we stood across the street and we looked at what we had done, and I said, "" It is so beautiful. "" And the women said, "" It really is. "" And I said, "" And I think the color is perfect, "" and they all nodded their head, except for Gaudence, and I said, "" What? "" And she said, "" Nothing. "" And I said, "" What? "" And she said, "" Well, it is pretty, but, you know, our color, really, it is green. "" And — (Laughter) — I learned then that listening isn't just about patience, but that when you've lived on charity and dependent your whole life long,