And I called my sister whom I'm very close to — and had three children — and I asked her, "" Why didn't you tell me I was going to be feeling this way, that I was going to have these — feeling incredibly isolated? "" And she said — I'll never forget — "" It's just not something you want to say to a mother that's having a baby for the first time. "" RG: And of course, we think it's precisely what you really should be saying to mothers who have kids for the first time.