Article: If your friend doesn't know that you have a romantic interest in them, tell them in a straightforward but non-threatening way. Explain that you are attracted to them and want to pursue a romantic relationship with them. Make it clear that you will understand if they don't feel the same way but that you wanted to be honest about your feelings either way.  For instance, say, "I have strong feelings for you and I want to be more than just a friend, but I will totally understand if you aren't interested in taking things to the next level." An unrequited crush can put tension on a friendship over time, so it is good to be honest regardless of the outcome. Moving from friendship to romance is a risk that may be challenging to take. Share any worries you have about losing your close relationship to see if they feel the same way. Ask if there are any other concerns about the situation that they have to get a clear understanding of what obstacles may be facing you both. For example, say something like, "You're my best friend and I'm not sure if my romantic feelings for you are worth losing you entirely." Communicate your romantic wants and needs clearly to your partner from the start. Avoid the assumption that they will intuitively know how what will be okay with you and make you happy. Be sure to outline any behaviour that you consider unacceptable from a romantic partner so they know how you want to be treated. For instance, say something like, "I believe in monogamy and I can't tolerate cheating in a romantic relationship." After transitioning from friendship to a relationship, you may think that you already know what your partner wants romantically. Always check with your partner to see what goals and desires they have as these may change over time, and in different situations. If you catch yourself guessing what they might like, stop and ask them about it to double check. They will appreciate your effort and concern about their feelings. For instance, if your partner noted in the past that they didn't want a co-dependent relationship, do not assume that they want you to keep your distance.

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State your interest simply if you are still just friends. Share your concerns with your best friend to maintain honesty. Establish the boundaries of your new relationship to avoid misunderstandings. Avoid making assumptions about what your partner wants.