Article: If a Scorpio knows what's on your mind, they're much more likely to calm down and reach a compromise. Although Scorpios are intuitive, they are not psychic. Let your Scorpio know what's on your mind, and listen to them when they open up to you. You could say, for example, "When you said that you don't like my dog, it hurt my feelings. My dog means a lot to me, and I guess I felt kind of offended when you insulted her." When a Scorpio man is in love, he may become overprotective of his lover when he's concerned or jealous when he feels insecure.Talk to your Scorpio if you feel smothered to gain more personal space and independence.  Be kind when pointing this tendency out to your Scorpio. Usually, his heart is in the right place and he might not even know what he's doing. You may say, for example, "I know that you're worried about me taking the night bus home, but I promise you that I'm safe. This is something I've done many times before. How about I call you when I get home?" Even if they have a cool outer shell, Scorpios are sensitive at heart. Harsh criticism can hurt your Scorpio's feelings and damage any trust between you and him. Make sure you offer constructive criticism and pair each critical comment with a compliment. You could say, for example, "So today when we were talking with my friend, she said she felt like you were a little standoffish. I know that you didn't mean it because you have such a good heart, but sometimes you can seem a little aloof." Scorpio men and women both like to be dominant in their relationships, especially when arguing. If your Scorpio partner is too dominant for your liking, tell them that you value independence and focus on building a balanced relationship.  At the same time, don't try to win every disagreement with your Scorpio. Focus more on understanding his perspective and coming to a compromise than shutting down his wants. You might say, for example, "Hey, I know that you want to spend the entire weekend together, but I need some 'me time' tonight. If you could respect that and go out with some friends or family tonight instead, I would appreciate it."
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Share your feelings and perspective during an argument. Tell your Scorpio when he's being too possessive. Offer tactful criticism to your Scorpio partner. Tell your Scorpio partner when they're pushing your boundaries.