The thoughts that we think soon turn into the words we say and the actions we take. Having good thoughts about yourself gives you self-confidence  and self-respect: hallmarks of any good personality. Once you become aware of your own thoughts, the process of guiding them in the right direction through positive thoughts will become effortless. We often come across opportunities in our day-to-day life to express our personality. Do it! Don’t try to fall in line with the crowd. Having a good personality doesn’t mean that you are like everyone else. For example, if you are in a conversation with a group or an individual, try not to just constantly agree with everything that they say. Insert your own opinions and stories in a respectful and engaging way.  Always act like yourself. People are drawn to others who act real. If you are putting on a front, it will be easy to tell. In order to be your true self around others, you’ll have to allow yourself to be vulnerable. This means being willing to open up to others about your fears, desires, strengths, and weaknesses. It’s easy to get down on the parts of your personality that you need to work on. Try to avoid that. Pay attention to the parts of your personality that you think appeal to other people and try to showcase those.

Summary:
Think positive thoughts, both about yourself and others. Show your true self. Focus on the good parts of your personality.