Article: Some people tend to nod their head as a sign that they are listening. However, he may interpret this as a sign of agreement, even if you do not agree with what he is saying. Be aware of your body language. If you find yourself nodding, even if you disagree, correct your body language. For example, instead of nodding your head, you can say, "I see what you are saying," or "Ok, that makes sense, but I have a different opinion." Don't misinterpret neutral body language for boredom or inattentiveness. He is most likely processing the information that you are telling him. Once you are finished talking, ask for his input instead. For example, instead of asking him, "Are you even listening?" or "Did you hear me?" say, "Does that make sense? Let me know if I need to clarify anything." While you are talking, you may remember something else that you want to talk about. However, for the sake of the current conversation, save that conversation for a later date. If you bring up another subject, he may lose focus and become distracted. Remember that you must come to some kind of solution or conclusion at the end of the current conversation in order to move forward. Some men may be very talkative and outgoing. Others may be more introverted and quiet. Make sure that you're adapting to the man's unique communication style. If the man is very quiet or terse, try asking more open-ended questions to get him to open up. If the man is very talkative, make sure to listen without interrupting. Offer interesting comments on his stories. Some men may communicate best in a quiet, private space while others will feel very comfortable out in busy, public spaces.
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Nod your head only if you are in agreement with him. Avoid assuming he hasn't heard what you said. Stick to the subject. Adjust your tactics based on the man's communication style.