Summarize the following:
. Be honest about why you’ve contacted them. Explain your feelings calmly and maturely. Don’t yell or insult them. If this is your first conversation since the breakup, keep it short, and don’t expect instant friendship. You could say:  “Don’t freak out. I’m not trying to win you back. I just think we’re both entitled to some closure.” “I’m just trying to get some perspective on our split. Tell me honestly why you broke up with me.” (Be aware that this question may bring up some unresolved feelings, so you may encounter some criticism if you go this route.) “We might not be a couple anymore, but I hope we can be friends eventually.” Don’t spend too much time alone together. Instead, hang out with mutual friends. Avoid physical contact, which could stir old feelings. If you’re trying to rekindle the flame with your ex, you shouldn’t try to be their friend. You don’t have to become best friends. However, you’ll at least show your ex that you’ve accepted their new significant other. When you feel comfortable, just smile or say, “Hi” as you pass each other in the hall. If they’re with your ex when you hang out, include them in conversations.

Summary:
Talk to your ex Accept your new status as friends. Reach out to your ex’s new love interest.