Article: Divide the list into 3 parts. Begin your list with the most powerful swears.  Finish with the most benign. Although swearing is a spontaneous act, a "database" of swear words will better prepare you to swear.  Base your list on taboo words that registered most deeply with you--they'll be the ones for which you have the most conviction. Chances are you've heard plenty of curse words in your lifetime. About 0.7% of the words used daily by a person swears. Finish with the most benign.  The word you found most potent?  Put that on your A list. Benign? Put it on your C list.  Suggestions for your A-List are the curse words you'll seldom use.  They're more taboo than the others.  They have the potential to be more offensive, also.  So be careful how you use them. Middle-of-the-road curse words are suitable for your B List.  They're less abrasive and harsh than the “top-of-the-line” curses. Use “gentler” curses for your C List.  Include in this group words like "hell," "damn," and "crap." A word like damn is fun to say and not overly offensive. It's almost, but not quite, a non-swear. "Damn! It's raining again." Practice saying the words on your list so that they won't sound awkward or forced when the time comes. Sound conveys meaning and sometimes renders emotion clearer than a word which has a literal meaning. Think about the charge you get singing along with a chorus even if it's only a sound like, "oooooh.”  Swear words tend to sound quick and harsh. The sound departs from the sound of most words in our daily language and so it enters the realm of taboo because it's heard as offensive or abrasive.  Damn is a soft word and it hardly raises a feather. Other curse words are abrupt, harsh and guttural.  They work better in a heated moment.  Think of them as two steps more potent than damn. Swearing is anti-taboo. Why be restricted?  The swear most often uttered by women is "Oh My God."  Men are partial to swears that are more taboo, less restrained.  Men and women share an affinity for some words like hell.  Women tend to choose more benign forms of swearing (for the most part).Perhaps this is due to a double-standard for swearers.  When women swear it can be seen as uncouth.  More so than for men.

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Draw up a list of curse words. Begin your list of taboo words with the most powerful swears. Base your repertoire not only on meaning but on sound. Break gender roles.