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Own your pain. Hit or destroy something. See your ex for what he is. Overcome rumination. Stay off social media. Resist the urge to get revenge.

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Being in denial about what you’re feeling will only draw out the healing process. Betrayal is painful, so give yourself permission to mourn however you need to. Curl up in bed for a day or so. Cry your eyes out until you can’t cry anymore. Play darts on a photograph of your ex. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Releasing the emotion you feel in a physical way can actually make you feel better. It’s unacceptable, however, to act out aggressively or hurt someone. Try throwing, breaking, punching, or burning something instead.  There are places that give you a stack of plates to throw against walls, or allow you to build a fire in a barrel for burning the gifts your ex gave you. Try signing up for a boxing or kickboxing class. Physical activity can serve as a release of negative emotions and help you get physically and emotionally stronger. Victims of cheating often have a tendency to see the cheater as the “good guy” while placing the blame on themselves. Don’t do that. Sure, you may have played some role in the downfall of the relationship, but the cheater is responsible for his actions. If you catch yourself blaming yourself, divert the blame where it belongs. You might silently repeat, “He’s the cheater. This is his fault, not mine.” The end of a relationship can result in you reviewing everything that happened in your head over and over again. While some reflection can be fruitful, nonstop thinking about what went wrong can have negative effects on your mood.  Keep yourself busy after the breakup. Hang out with friends, join a club, rearrange the furniture in your home, or start volunteering. Let your friends and family know that you are trying to limit the number of times you refer to your ex. Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter may seem like tempting sanctuaries after you break things off with your cheating boyfriend, but logging on and venting isn’t a good idea. Commit to a short detox from your favorite platforms until you’re feeling more levelheaded. When you do log back on, unfollow your ex immediately to prevent yourself from lurking on his page or getting upset over his new date. Some people try to “get over” their cheating exes by spreading rumors or sleeping with one of their close friends. This may seem like the perfect way to get even, but it’ll only make you feel worse. Plus, you’ll actually end up looking like the bad guy. Instead of trying to get even, work to get better. Don't let your ex steal away any more of your time and energy. Make moving on your revenge.