Article: When you are getting a girl turned on using words it's important that she can hear your voice; don't try to get a girl hot and steamy over MSN, IM, or through texting. It can be done, but your words will have a much better effect if the girl you are talking to can hear the sexy tones in your voice. Try to use your deepest-sounding voice when you talk to your girl. Studies show that men with deep voices have more sexual partners and that females are more attracted to men with deep voices. Now, that doesn't mean you should lower your voice if it sounds unnatural, because that won't turn your girl on. But if you're always in the higher pitched level of your voice, try to go down to the lower level when you're talking with your girl. When you start talking to her, it's important to set the mood for the entire conversation by saying things like "I can't stop thinking about you," or "I've been wanting to hear your voice all day." This will help establish closeness, and let her know that you're feeling intimate. Make sure you’re alone and in a comfortable, sexy environment; you may not want to turn her on in public.  Other things to say are: "I never knew it until I spent time away from you, but I missed you today," or "You look stunning, as usual." Keep it short and sweet; a very elaborate compliment might come off wrong or be misinterpreted by her. Don't compare her to other women. Even if what you're saying is that she's smarter, or prettier, or more fun to be around, avoid the comparison. She doesn't even want you to compare her to other women, because she doesn't want you to think about other women. She wants you to think about only her. If she thinks you may be thinking about other women, it's a turn-off for her. Ask her something that will give her a chance to give a long answer, like "So tell me about what you did today," or "What exciting things do you have planned for the weekend?" This will get her talking and will show her that you care.  Asking her a good question will show her that you're interested in what she has to say. Girls want to be sexy and interesting; for her, a good conversation is a way to set the tone. If she answers with a short answer, pepper her with more questions, showing her you care and really want to know. You want to get her on a roll, talking about things she's interested about, all while you're doing a good job listening. Be funny and playful, if you can. Girls love guys with a sense of humor, along with guys who know how to have fun. If you're making her laugh and keeping her on the tips of her toes, it'll be easier to turn her on. Look up and practice some jokes you think she might like, or start developing your own inside jokes with her that you can lean on when you know you need a laugh. If she asks you how your day was, let her know that you were thinking about her. Add a slight twist by complimenting her features. Don't make it too smutty though. Something like "I couldn't stop thinking about you and your sexy smile" does the job.  Keep the conversation going by asking questions about her and showing interest in her answers. The way that you start turning her on is by dropping plenty of little compliments. Make sure you think of little things to say just about her to make her feel special. Girls like it when you notice something about them that they also like. So if you know she likes the color of her eyes, compliment the color of her eyes ("I love the way your eyes shine when you smile"). If she likes her hair, say something like "Your hair looks so smooth and comfortable, do you know how pretty it makes you look?"  Start making the compliments slightly more sexy. If she is saying things like "Stop!" or "You don't mean that" while giggling, keep giving her the sexy compliments. You're definitely on the right path. Make sure that the things you are saying are sexy and romantic, not dirty and gross. You don’t want to come on too strong when you just start talking about what you want to do; you need to build up anticipation first.  You will need to come up with your own suggestions, but an example might be: "If we were together, I'd run my fingers slowly through your hair while we kissed. I'd massage your back while I kissed your neck. I would lie next to you and trace my fingers over the soft curves of your beautiful body." etc. Be creative. Using lots of imagery and imaginative words can also help. Here are some other compliments that you can use: "I thought about you when I woke up today. Just like I thought about you when I went to sleep last night. You know what I was thinking about? I was thinking about us, together, curled up in bed. That makes me happy." Something else you might say: "You give me goosebumps. Every time you touch me I go crazy inside, because I know it's only you who can do that to me. No one else does that. Even a smile from you is like a punch in the gut, but in a good way." In your own way, make her feel like the sexiest woman alive. Get her thinking sexy thoughts about you and it's guaranteed that she won’t stop thinking about you when the conversation is over. This is the most important thing when it comes to turning your girl on; you don’t want her to feel like a piece of meat. While you try to turn her on with your words, make sure you let her see that you wouldn’t talk to just any girl this way. Let her see how lucky you feel to be with her.

What is a summary?
Make sure to use your words in person. Set the mood. Ask her a good question. Keep complimenting her, when appropriate. Start describing the not-too-scandalous things you want to do to her. Make her feel special.