Article: When you start hanging out with new people, it’s normal to change a little bit. But don’t try to change everything about yourself just so they will like you. If you try and mimic them, then you’re not offering anything unique to the group. Also, you could feel lost. In any friend group, different individuals contribute different things. Some friends crack hilarious jokes, others offer fashion advice or dream up amazing weekend adventures.  If you have a skill, like skateboarding, offer to teach your friends or invite them to go with you. If you’re a good listener, find ways to lend a sympathetic ear when friends get upset. Once you’re included in a tight-knit group, it can be tempting to hang out exclusively with your new friends. But don’t overlook opportunities to form new friendships. Remember how it felt to be on the outside and look for ways to include others!

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Avoid dramatically changing yourself just to fit in. Share your unique skills and qualities with the group. Remain open to new experiences and new friendships.