Article: The more you’re around him, the more he’ll think of you, even if it’s subconsciously at first. Go to events you know he’ll be at, like the Friday night football game, or hang out at some of his favorite places, like the local coffee shop.  Do not stalk or smother him. If you suddenly show up everywhere, he will either get suspicious or feel uncomfortable. Make sure he sees you in situations where you’re at your best. For example, if you know you’ll see him at the gym, wear a cute outfit. Or if you’re going to the same party, challenge him to a game of table tennis (or other secret talent!). Adrenaline or fear produces the same reactions in your brain as physical attraction to someone does, so plan a date that gets your blood-pumping, like rock climbing or riding roller coasters at the nearby amusement park. He’ll start to associate those feelings of arousal and excitement with you, instead of the event itself.  Try an activity as small as watching a scary movie or as big as going indoor skydiving. While it’s best to do this one-on-one so he thinks of you when he remembers the feeling, you can also go as a group. Just make sure you get some quality time with him. People naturally trust their friends and value their opinions. If he sees you all getting along, he’ll feel more comfortable with you. Find out what his friends like to do and plan a group outing, like mini golf or brunch, where you can get to know them.  You can also invite along your friends so he can meet them as well. Do some background research on his friends before you meet them, by looking at their social media accounts, for example. It’s important to know that Joe just broke up with his girlfriend before you accidentally ask him how she’s doing! If he doesn’t offer to introduce you to his friends and it’s been a couple of weeks, bring it up casually yourself. Say something like, “I was thinking it would be fun to get our friends together to watch the big game this weekend. Want to?” Never badmouth or make fun of his friends. Even if he does it first, don’t take it as an invitation to join in. If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all. If you want him to think of you as someone he could fall in love with, train his brain to think of certain words, ideas, or feelings when he thinks about you by bringing up those topics in conversation. For example, use the word "love" a lot when you're talking to him, tell him a cute story about your friend's new boyfriend, or gush about how adorable the royal couple is.  Do this subtly so it's not forced or obvious. For instance, you could talk about how today is your parents' wedding anniversary or ask if he saw the new romantic comedy that just came out, too. Say something like, "I love that new movie with Jennifer Lawrence. Rom coms are just so cute!" You can also use images or sounds, like by turning on a love song playlist when he's around or wearing a cute heart T-shirt.

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Spend a lot of time near him so you’re always on his mind. Do something adventurous together to make him feel attracted to you. Win over his friends so he knows he can trust you. Talk about romance or love so he associates you with those things.