Article: As your child grows and changes, so should the rules. Most teens will expect that they deserve a greater degree of independence, and parents should accommodate that (within reason). Negotiating issues like "room rights" might be difficult, but it's worth it.  Don't leave your teen guessing. Your teen will be wondering whether he or she still has a curfew, still has to do chores, and the like. Make the new rules clear. Failing to discuss how the rules have changed will inevitably lead to conflict. Explain to your teen why the rules are what they are. Even if your teen doesn't agree, it's important that that he or she understands that the rules aren't arbitrary. It can be frustrating when your teen ignores you, but don't get angry. Calmly repeat your requests until your teen complies. Don't confuse your teen's laziness or forgetfulness with an act of rebellion. You probably won't get immediate results. But if you remain persistent and consistent, you're more likely to get the outcome you want. Try exercises like yoga or meditation, to help you relax. If you're patient and calm, your teen will be more likely to respond in the same way When your child becomes a teen, it's time to discuss difficult issues likes drugs and sex. Don't put off these conversations because they're awkward.  If you haven't already had "the talk" with your teen, it's time.Talk about sex as a natural part of life. Be honest and nonjudgmental. Studies show that teens who've discussed sex with their parents are more likely to be responsible in their activities. Be sure to include discussion of STIs, contraception, consent, and the emotional elements of sex, among others.  Drugs and alcohol should be discussed with the same sensitivity as sex. Ask your teen his or her thoughts about drug and alcohol use. Let your teen know where you stand on the issue, and decide how you will answer questions about your own past or present use. Finally, be sure to address issues like peer pressure, health effects, and impaired driving.

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Clarify the rules. Wait and repeat. Practice patience. Don't skip the tough stuff.