Definition: Read the given text and if it has abusive content then indicate via "yes". Otherwise indicate via"no". 
We consider the content to be abusive if it contains any of the following instances: (1) Identity Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which contains a negative statement made against an identity. An identity is a social category that relates to a fundamental aspect of individuals community, socio-demographics, position or self-representation) (2) Affiliation Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which express negativity against an affiliation. We define affiliation as a (more or less) voluntary association with a collective. Affiliations include but are not limited to: memberships (e.g. Trade unions), party memberships (e.g. Republicans), political affiliations (e.g. Right-wing people) and occupations (e.g. Doctors).) (3) Person Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which directs negativity against an identifiable person, who is either part of the conversation thread or is named. Person-directed abuse includes serious character based attacks, such as accusing the person of lying, as well as aggression, insults and menacing language.) and (4) Counter Speech (e.g., Content which challenges, condemns or calls out the abusive language of others.). Note that URLs in the text have been replaced with [Link].
Input: I'm also a chubby guy who is socially awkward and afraid to talk to girls.     I went on my first date at 19 I liked her all through high school. It just took me all those years to build up the courage to ask her out.     Second date at 21 (different girl)     Had my first relationship at 22 (long distance)(different girl)     Second relationship at 24. (Long distance again)     First kiss at 25.    Currently engaged in my second relationship. I'm 26 now.     There are guys who go on dates every weekend and that works for them, but that doesn't mean it's the only way. You can find something else that works for you.     Don't let society place time limits where they don't exist. Be persistent, but patient. 

no