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Input: So a bit of background. We are both long-haul truck drivers and we share a truck. We are both male. I’m 31 and he’s 33.

When we started dating about 6 years ago, he was 185 lbs. A year ago he hit 300 and he is well on his way to 350. He eats nothing but chips and fast food and refuses to go with me to the gym. He now has trouble getting in and out of the truck. Besides the health issues, I’m not attracted to him anymore. I’ve been telling him for a while that this needs to change and he keeps saying he will start a diet tomorrow or next week or when we pick up the next load, but it never happens and there is another bag of chips and a 2 liter in his hand. I’m worried that he will get disqualified medically from driving for his high blood pressure.

I always have fresh fruit and vegetables in the truck and thing like lean cold cuts but he just keeps getting junk food. On top of this, he spends almost $100 per week on fast food when we are supposed to be saving to buy a house.

Am I the asshole?

telling my bf he needs to lose weight or I'll break up with him