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Input: My sister is 18 years old and a senior in HS. For years she’s been mentally ill. In terms of diagnoses she has anxiety, depression, and recently been told she has borderline personality disorder. I don’t doubt that. Anxiety and depression run in my dad’s side of the family. I have them too. 


However, she’s next level lazy. It’s disgusting how lazy she is. All she wants to do is smoke weed and sleep. The weed apparently helps with her mood. Alright, fair enough. She’s significantly more pleasant when she’s high. But, when she’s high she’s also tired, so she goes back to sleep. It’s a cycle, and it seems like a tradeoff. Do I want a tired and lazy sister or a raging monster?

The last time she had a job was around the end of 2016(?). She went to inpatient for 5 days or so. After that, she went to inpatient again for another few days a month or so later. That was a rough time for my family and I, and obviously, terrible for her. 


Changes were made to her medication, schooling, etc. and things seemed to be improving. But, she remains jobless, doesn’t help around the house/clean, and is extremely rude and entitled towards me and my parents. It’s frustrating, because I can tell my mom is also bothered, but she defends my sister whenever I yell at her. I don’t get it.


Obviously she feels terrible mentally. I don’t doubt that, but I can’t tell how bad it is. She goes out with friends and gets high multiple times a week. She asks for money for food and weed and juul pods. But, cleaning up after herself is apparently too much to ask. Or being nice. Or doing some simple chores. 


Am I the asshole for being resentful and doubting the extent of her illness? I love her, and want better for her. I want her to be able to move out and get a job and have a healthy social life, but currently, I’m too irritated to be super nice about things. I’ve tried that in the past. I don’t think she’s consciously taking advantage of my mom’s patience, but it sure feels that way. Yes, my mom is an adult and can look out for herself, but it pisses me off to see this happening. 

doubting my sister