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Input: My (M29) girlfriend (30) gets back from the pub last night, very happy, and we start chatting. She says that her friends were laughing because one of them had a sex dream about a foursome with us and also what underwear her friend's boyfriend likes her to wear. The conversation tanks when she says that she wouldn't discuss our sex life, to which I responded "What sex life?".

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SO: Do you think it's because we don't know what each other is in to?

ME: I'm not really into anything in particular, I like what we do.

SO: But I don't think you're into it.

ME: I am, what do you say that?

SO: You never make any noise?

ME: I'm still enjoying it, I'm naturally not noisy. It's normal.

SO: It's not normal.

ME: It's normal whether a guy makes noise or not, I'm not going to fake it.

SO: It just feels one sided.

ME: What do you mean, your side or my side?

SO: Your side, like you're just interested in yourself.

ME: I always make sure you come first, then I finish myself off. How is that one sided?

SO: That's what I mean, it's like your not really into it.

ME: I am, I enjoy doing what you like first, I just can't finish that way. I've always found it difficult to come, I can't change that.

SO: It just feels like you are not interested in having sex.

ME: What do you mean? The other day I joked around and said that we should buy some toys, try something new. Besides, it works both ways, you don't particularly act interested either.

SO: I just can't articulate it.

ME: I'm always horny nowadays, how is it not clear when I'll have a boner and try kissing you?

SO: Just because your horny now doesn't change all those years where you wouldn't have sex with me...... I know you were mentally ill, but....

ME: How is that relevant? I can't go back and change that. If you want to improve things it's best to be positive rather focus on the past.

SO: I can't just be "positive" after all those years getting used to you not wanting to have sex!

ME: What the hell are you talking about, you're being incoherent. Your saying that you resent me for denying you sex for years, when we had plenty of good sex just until a couple of months ago!

SO: I had to switch off my sex drive for you, and you just want me to switch it back on now on your terms.

ME: How is blaming me at all conducive to improving the situation? It's basic psychology, you don't double down on someone if you want to improve your relationship. Your acting like a fucking child. I'm going to bed, please turn off the light.

SO: Silence...

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She's been telling me how happy she is recently, so a dry spell in the bedroom wasn't worrying me, although I had put out a tentative 'let's try something new' just the other day. Low and behold, drunken sex talk and now she resents me for not giving her enough sex in years gone by, a resentment apparently absent when we went boning around Europe last year.

I know I fucked up with the 'What sex life' comment. But AITA?

shutting down conversation about sex life