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 My husband and I have been together for 7 years. I quickly learned that he has a physically and verbally abusive father and a mother who doesn't think there is anything wrong with the dads behavior.  I have been personally called a dumb ass by him just for having a different political opinion, he is super racist and throws legit tantrums when he doesn't get his way. My husband is currently seeing a therapist to deal with trauma from his childhood.  

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About a year ago my husband's dad lost control and threw a glass at mom and busted her lip and messed up her teeth. They both made excuses, dad broke a restraining order and mom said the glass just hit her the wrong way. (wtf no one should be throwing glasses at your face). My husband's older sister behaves a lot like the father and she cursed me out twice during this whole ordeal. After this incident we started to only see them with other family and usually at a restaurant.  We have had many crisis situations in the past seven years.  

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Fast forward to today:

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Husband finds out that his older sister has gallbladder cancer. Which really sucks and I don't wish it on anyone. However, my Husband tells me that we have to drop everything for a week on the 11th of March to babysit his younger sister because everyone is going to help with the surgery.  This is the second time that we have been told, NOT ASKED to drop everything to watch his sister who is almost a senior in high school. 

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Am I the asshole for not wanting to support his family in any way because they cont. to be abusive narcissistic people? 

The trauma they have caused has barely been addressed and the toll its taken on my husband and our relationship has been hard. 

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I donno if any of this makes sense, but any feedback would be greatly appreciated.  

not wanting to help my husbands abusive family