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Input: Let me give some context to this first.   


My friend who I know in real life who's in her late teens, about the same age as me, has anxiety problems she's been dealing with for a couple of years now. Each time that she has a problem she comes on our group chats and basically vents and says all the problems and self deprecating thoughts she's been having even when people are talking or something else is going on or no one has anything to say that hasn't already been said, and this usually happens every three days or sometimes days in a row. Most of these problems she's talking about can't be solved by **only** coming to us, such as being highly shaky or having migraines. She also has problems with her dad at home as far as I know, but I don't really know how often it is since I'm not her.  
Before this situation that I'm about to explain happened, we were basically best friends.  


One day she started to basically break down to me over the internet, and this is where I stopped talking to her mainly.  
She comes on asking me if she's being annoying, I ask her if there was a specific instance that made her feel that way and she said no. Seconds later completely out of the blue, she says she hates herself, wants to pretend she doesn't exist, and would be cutting herself if I didn't make her promise not to. (I made her promise not to when I first her about it because it gave me peace of mind to know she's okay.)  


At this point, I feel kind of annoyed since she comes to us every day with her problems and isn't taking her own steps to fix them. I say that I'd expect her own sense of integrity to do the right thing, not just my solemn promise. She says she just wants to be able to vent, that her anxiety is a hellish feeling, and that her giving her word to someone is important because her integrity won't do the right thing. I understand these things, but the main problem I'm having with it is that she isn't taking steps to confront her problems herself (as in get professional help) and, what feels to me, like she is looking for validation.  


I took steps back from talking or inviting her to things lately because of this entire thing and because of how much stress I felt when I was dumping into this. I told her at the end to find things that would help her physically and to do more to help herself. When I see her in public I try not to talk to her because I don't want to get back into this.

It's about a month later, and she hasn't done anything to change.  


Am I the asshole, though? I feel pretty guilty about it.

not talking to my friend who has anxiety and did self-harm