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Input: My buddy (let's call him Joe) wanted to go away for a weekend for his 20th birthday last week. Him, I, and four other friends had agreed on this trip way in advance. However I had some stuff to deal with (school related and family related) so 7 days before we would have left, I told him I had to cancel. I was informed of that family related incidents a few hours before I told him I couldn't go. Now me cancelling made one of the other guys cancel, which made everyone else cancel.


I explain to Joe my situation and that we should reschedule for after final exams or in the summer. My birthday is in November, and I've celebrated it after Christmas some years (I really don't care that much about it). Seriously though, he's turning 20, not 10. He gets really fucking salty about it and claims that his birthday is "ruined" and tells any mutual friends of ours that 
I'm a loser and that I "contribute nothing to society". We haven't spoken since. He claims that he will never talk to me again and he is happy with this "life choice".


To give some more detail, we hadn't even decided where we going to stay, or what we were going to do over that weekend. We planned on going to Montreal. We live in Niagara Falls (Ontario).


So am I the asshole?


cancelling at the "last minute"