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Input: I started dating my (18F) girlfriend just before the new year. Things have been excellent. Before I met her I had a tough mental health patch but I have gotten better with her help. Basically, things have been going quite well. We see eachother often, we laugh, we love eachother, and things are good. However, she’s not very affectionate. I’m over the top with affection. I say “I love you” at the end of every phone call, I buy her gifts when I can, I treat her like a queen every day. On the other hand, it took her a couple of months to tell me she loved me, and even though she told me she wouldn’t be as OTT with it as I am, she still hasn’t said it again. I can live with this, as the look on her face when I do something nice for her or when we’re together says more than that. Last weekend I picked her up from a night out, and I expected her to be all drunk and inlove and excited to see me, but she only seemed drunk.

Sometimes she’s not receptive to me being mushy and lovey. She refuses to be “in a relationship” with me on Facebook, or to post any pictures of me and her on either Facebook or Instagram, despite having pictures with her exes on both. She made new social media accounts to get away from people she didn’t speak to and to make new memories with me, but still frequently uses her old accounts. Until recently she mentioned her ex in conversation often. She normally followed them up with “but I’m with you now and I wouldn’t change it”. She’s apprehensive when I talk about our future as well. I AM moving country in summer, But i want things to continue. She says things are still early and we never know how things may end up, even though she wants the same, but the apprehension is something which you don’t expect, especially in the “honeymoon” phase of a relationship. 

In the past couple of days we had a few fallouts and arguments over things like her being incredibly dismissive of me being romantic after being receptive when we were together, or her not replying to me late on a night when she’s been active and talking to her friends. I know these things are stupid but I feel like I’m putting my heart on the line and not getting anything in return. 

It doesn’t help that she’s SUCH a stress free person, and often won’t entertain my worries about this stuff, and dismisses it as stupid. Deep down I believe she loves me and is happy with me, But sometimes I get paranoid and go moody.

AITA? 

TL;DR: My (18F) girlfriend is incredibly not romantic with me (22M), despite me being overly romantic and optimistic about our relationship. It’s causing me to have moods and little arguments with her which isn’t what I want. 

being wary of my girlfriend's lack of romance