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Input: Hello Reddit, we meet again through a throwaway. Not sure how to organise this, so please tell if you find something unnecessary/confusing and I'll edit it. I'll try my best to answer questions and be unbiased.

I'm 15F. And my friend, let's call her Laura, is 17F. Laura's always been really critical and sometimes very harsh with her words, sometimes towards me. I've dismissed it as just her personality, but there was one conversation that bothered me. 

In a group chat, the topic was "people who don't talk unless they have something valuable to say", and I started to say a lot from my perspective. I basically said that it's okay to say anything as long as you're doing no harm. 

Laura and another friend, let's call him Noah, started to make fun of me. I usually don't mind when people insult me as a joke. Laura, however, sounded pretty serious and I felt like she was just bashing me for no reason. She said things like "she thinks she has something valuable to say", and after I was done, she said "you just gave us a lecture about something we never said was wrong, and I bet it was just because you wanted to talk". I later messaged her about it, to see why exactly she did it. She said she was just making the point that I just don't stop talking. I still didn't really understand *why*, but I brushed it off as me nitpicking.

She also likes to write, so she wrote some descriptions of group members that were supposed to be nice. Mine was about 8 lines long, but there are some parts I thought were rude:

"she hasn't read half the books or seen anywhere near the required repertoire of films for the proper level of respect."

"she's one of those psychopaths who actually likes maths."

"all you need to know about her is that she's easy to make fun of."

I wasn't sure if I was being oversensitive, so I messaged another member of the group chat about it. Let's call her Sarah. Sarah called it "brutal" compared to everyone else's descriptions. Sarah said that Laura basically called me a psychopath and undeserving of respect. So I decided to confront her about it. I also asked her if she feels pressured to agree with Noah or act like him (since he does make fun of me), because I know that she has feelings for him. Her response was basically denying that, and that she gets anxious and projects on others. We went off-topic and it basically turned into me trying to suggest solutions for her problems. It was still filled with those kinda snarky or rude comments I've been mentioning. It hasn't been brought up again since.

I really can't tell who's wrong here, I'm trying to see if I was hypocritical and made fun of her before or something but can't remember anything, or if she was even disrespectful at all. Regardless of whether I end up being the asshole or not, I'm not sure what the next step is.

TL;DR: Friend acts snarky towards me and blames it on anxiety when confronted.

telling an anxious friend to be respectful