Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Beforehand I want to apologize for my grammar mistakes and bad English for it is not my mother tongue.

 I (20)come from a weird family structure. My mother remarried and her husband already had 3 kids. Two of those kids got children in time span of me knowing them. Oldest one is now four years old. Both those family's live on the other side of the country and makes it really hard for me to come visit them in their birthday.  
I also am a student, don't live with my parents and money is tight. I buy gifts for them whenever I have extra money. But I came to realize this means I am not given all of them an equal amount of gifts. I do not want to come off as if I have a favourite. 
If this makes me come off as an asshole, what can I do to stop that?


not giving all my nephews a gift for their birthday