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Input: So there's this friend of mine that I met at a party back in April 2017. We've known each other a while now and grew really close in around 6 months. We'd be there for each other when needed in the early months of our relationship and towards October, we'd grown really close. I'd seen her every weekend from October 12th to November 8th and we'd talk almost daily. 

She's been a great friend to me and has done a lot that means very much to me (my dad, brother, her and two close friends of mine threw me a surprise birthday party on the 25th of October and she'd not only baked me a cake, handled most of the decorations, painted me a picture of the album cover for Ten by Pearl Jam; a favorite of mine, all during mid-terms) but as of November, she's become awfully distant.

We barely talk and when we do, it's normally me who initiates the conversation. We hang out like once a month and she normally postpones frequently, making it difficult to, well, hang out. This in contrast to the fact that she used to message "I miss you guys" to our group when we'd hung out like 3 days ago makes me wonder what happened.

For more context, after the whole birthday thing, I'd developed feelings for her and eventually told her 2 weeks later, I didn't do anything extra like "I wanna spend the rest of my life with you", just "I like you as more than just a friend" to which she told me she didn't feel the same way. After that, I began to fear that I'd driven a wedge into our relationship and was on edge when things started to deteriorate. I asked if our distance had anything to do with my feelings and whether it made her uncomfortable, but she said it had nothing to do with me. 

Now though, she's in a relationship with someone and over the course of 2 months, I've seen her twice. Like I said above, she barely texts and frequently postpones. Sometimes her excuses don't add up because she says one thing like "I'm broke and can't go out" and then she goes out the next day (I know because my friends and I follow the group of friends she spends time with now). I feel wrong for doubting her but she's been giving me nothing but excuses and I don't know whether I should just believe her because she's a good person or doubt her because the facts don't add up. As of a few hours ago, she got  back from a day out with her friends. She'd told me 2 days ago that she was completely out of money for all of January since she'd asked for her January allowance in advance and wouldn't be able to hang out at all. When I'd suggested asking her younger sister to pay for her since she's against friends paying for her, she'd said "that's a nono" and I'd just conceded, but that's exactly what happened today. I asked her why she changed her mind but she told me I didn't have to question everything she did, to which I agreed. 

She told me a while back that she didn't want things to change between us after the whole confession thing but it feels like she's just avoiding me at this point. I feel like I'm wrong for doubting her and questioning the things she says but at the same time, I feel like if I don't know what's wrong, neither of us can make an effort to fix it.

Tl;dr - friend who I grew really close to suddenly started being distant, and giving me excuses for why she can't hang out with me and my friends. I wanna know why we grew so distant and why her stories don't add up, but feel guilty for doing so because she's a good person. Help.

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