Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: although its labeled as today i fucked up, it wasn't today, though it was recent. my whole life i have dated women who ended up hurting, cheating, deceiving me, until i met my last girlfriend who was truly in love with me and dedicated to me.  i had very little to complain about. she was/is perfect. i finally found someone i've been seeking and i wound up destroying the relationship. we made a big life change together and bit off more than we could chew. i fucked things up financially and she left me, rightfully so. is this some form of self destructive behavior? a part of me knows it is and that horrifies me. it means i'll never be able to maintain a relationship. i'm damaged goods mentally from my past relationship nightmares and i fear that it has permanently stunted me. i hold no grudge against her whatsoever. i only feel shame. now, i'm 27 and back in my home town and feel nothing like the person i used to be. i still feel like its all a dream and that reality hasn't fully set in. i have no idea how to handle this. obviously, if i could take it all back i would. i just want her to be ok. her concern is consistently on my mind. i have zero interest in seeing anyone else.  i'm used to being the victim, but this time she's the victim. every breakup ive had ive recovered from quickly. i don't see a recovery involved with this one.  i had nothing but good intentions. im utterly ashamed of myself. please someone give me advise.  i've never been this beat down and disgusted with myself and could use some experienced intel. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

TIFU I had true love and I blew it.