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Input: I have three children. A twelve year old daughter, a ten year old son, and a nine year old son.

I also have a family business. This was passed down to me by my father. I am the oldest of three boys, and my father gave said business to me and trained me to succeed him. My younger brothers assist me, but the business is mine and they respect my fathers wishes.

I am also old fashioned like my father. I believe the oldest son inherits the family business, and in many ways becomes the new "head" of the main family. The younger brothers are meant to help the older brother. As such, when my oldest starts reaching his teens, I will start showing him how things work.

And eventually when I retire (the day cant come soon enough) he will take my place and pass it on to his son. His younger brother would help him. I told my youngest son this, and my wife is very upset that I told him.

In her mind I am playing favorites and I am making my youngest feel excluded. I love all my kids very much, i would die for each of them right now. However, you can love people equally while acknowledging their separate roles. I love my daughter and wife equally but in different ways, and they each have their own roles and responsibilities.

Same way with my boys. Am I the asshole for telling them this?

telling my younger son that his older brother will take over my business one day, not him