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Input: AITA. 
Some back story

Last December my family found out that my brother has been acting inappropriately at his university. He had been videotaping his dorm mates  in the shower and messaging some of our mutual male friends some inappropriate messages. He was kicked out of school but still living in Minnesota (6 hours away from us). When my parents confronted him and tried to figure out why he was so disturbed he claimed he was raped in high school. 

I (21F) knew he was lying because he was disturbed well before high school. He actually molested me several times when we were kids (he is four years older). I did not want him to manipulate my parents any longer so I went downstairs and finally told my parents what he had done to me. They were obviously upset and furious. 

I’ve never told them about the assault before partly because I was ashamed but mostly because if I didn’t talk or think about it then I could pretend it never happened. But now that my family knows I can no longer pretend nothing happened. 

Anyways... My dad wanted to kick him out I convinced him not to. Instead we decided he would stay home from Minnesota and we would figure this out together. It was the plan until my brother abandoned us and in the middle of the night he went back to Minnesota. 

Obviously we are all angry and upset at him. At this point I am completely done with my brother. I do not give two shits about him. That was a year ago but now I’m angry with my parents because after everything he’s done to me they still support my brother. I’ve told them that this bothers me but my mom claims, “He’s still our son” 

They even let him come home for thanksgiving (he stayed with my uncle) which ruined my holiday weekend because I spent most of it crying. I love Christmas and I really don’t want that holiday ruined too. I don’t want him home for Christmas. Am I the asshole? 




TL;Dr Am I the asshole for not wanting the brother who molested me home for Christmas? 

not wanting the brother who molested me home for Christmas