Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Since before thanksgiving, I’ve been sick with asthmatic bronchitis and had to quit smoking for my health after 12 years. I got together with my SO in 2014 and he picked up the habit of smoking. Since I’ve been sick, I’ve asked I’m to take my health into consideration and see how the smell and irritant effects me and the asthma part of my sickness. 

Since I’ve asked him to stop, I’ve been called inconsiderate and unsupportive in seeing how he feels towards the situation and the effort he puts forward in quitting. But how can I see the effort if he continues to smoke a vape pen and buy cigarettes because “it’s the weekend”. He feels like I step on him every time he lights a cigarette. I’m angry because he didn’t keep a promise he made when buying cigarettes that he would not smoke when I’m home to make it easier for me. Since that false promise, I’ve been salty and disappointed at him. I feel that I can’t properly heal because the irritant is everywhere from his clothes, hair, skin, etc. 

I’m tired of having this fight with him, justifying why he gets to smoke. I’m tired of not being able to breathe and waking up at night coughing and having asthma attacks. I can’t even lay with him because the smell is so bad. He does try by taking showers and washing his hands, but i don’t see that as a strong effort. 

TL;DR Am I the asshole for making him stop smoking?



making my so quit smoking