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Input: For some backstory, I'm 21 always been supported by my mom. I'm not gonna lie, she pays the rent for the house that I've lived in and for that I feel like a mooch. I'm not proud of it but I'm still dependent on her because I'm still attending college. I depend on her for shelter but I do not let her pay for anything else, mainly just shelter and food. I've always been thankful to her for this but she's always been very abusive to me, verbally and physically but stopped when I hit my teens. I can tell that she loves me but she is a first generation immigrant from Asia, she thinks providing beating children and verbally attacking her kids is an okay way with raising us.

Now I've always had a step dad since I was around 5, he's lived with us but he has never treated me like a son or someone that he cares about. He would constantly start verbally harassing me after he lost his job. I'm guessing because he feels inadequate as a man? Don't know. He's the reason why my older brother left the house, he judged my brother for being homosexual. I love my brother, I never forgave him for this. He has two kids that are my half siblings and he treats them very well. He has no job and completely dependent on my mom. I'm honestly not okay with that but that is her life and I can't say anything because then I'd be a hypocrite. One day he got mad at me because I brought home pizza that was ordered by my girlfriend. It wasn't for me, but she was hungry and bought a pizza for us. My half siblings are usually fed by my step dad but recently he hasn't had ANY money so doesn't seem to be able to provide for them. He started cussing me out for not thinking about my siblings and also buying them food but I kept telling him I didn't buy this. I can't provide for them daily, I don't have the money. This made him more angry and usually I bite my tongue but I couldn't and told him to go fuck himself. He pushed me into a cabinet and busted my head, I started bleeding and my mom came home. At first she was angry at him and kicked him out the house but a week later she broke and let him lived here again. I gave her an ultimatum of choosing letting him live here or I would leave the house. I don't feel safe with him here, he's much larger than me. She chose to let him live here and I didn't handle that very well. I started to verbally attack her in the sense that I told her she was a terrible mother for ever picking a man over her child. I admit, that was wrong of me but I was just so angry. I'm now in process of moving out, but I don't have much of a savings (around $1000 USD) but I just can't live in this household anymore. Lately I've noticed she's been extremely depressed because of this but I just can't forgive her. Not at the current moment. Thank you for reading...

making my mom depressed after giving her an ultimatum of choosing me my step dad