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Input: Sorry for any formatting mistakes, I’m mobile.

For context, I live with my brother and we’ve gotten in multiple arguments about boundaries of being roommates vs siblings. My brother has admitted that he’s oblivious to the point of being inconsiderate, and I tend to get annoyed easily. I also get chronic headaches that last for days (which he knows about), but I’ll get more to that later.

We’ve gotten into an argument about him bringing someone over before (it was 3:30am on a weekday and I work a 9-5) and they were so loud that they woke me up when they were outside the apartment complex.

He told me that he can’t read my mind about noise, so we decided on a compromise of me texting him if his friends were being too loud. That’s doable, right?

Last night he brought his friends over after they went to a bar. It was only midnight, but I told him earlier in the day that I had a headache and wasn’t feeling well, so I was trying to sleep. They went to hang out in his room with the door closed, and I closed my door as well and turned on my tv for a little bit of background noise to drown them out, but I could hear them over my TV and through two doors so I texted him letting him know.

They responded by getting louder, and the next morning my brother told me that one of them upon learning I texted him asking him to quiet down said “fuck that” and wanted to play the guitar outside of my door.

I told him that if his friends were going to be that rude when I was trying to compromise like we had discussed before, I didn’t want them coming over because they made me uncomfortable and he responded by telling me he would bring his friends over “whenever the fuck he wants.” 

I’ve told him before that his friends make me uncomfortable for other reasons, but their comment last night made me feel like I’m not even welcome in my own home.

All of his friends live alone and he’s the only one with a roommate but they always choose to hang out at our place. I’ve asked him if they could hang out at their houses a little more often, especially on weekdays, but he told me that he doesn’t have to do anything and that he’ll bring his friends over whenever he wants and that I don’t control him.

AITA for not wanting them to come over? 

not wanting my roommates friends to come over