Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: There's this guy in my group of friends (let's call him john) who has been going out whit us in the last few months.
I don't really like him but everyone else seems to enjoy his company so I don't really complain about him.
The problem is that I recently found a boyfriend and I would like to introduce this new bf to my friends (at least the close ones that have known me for years) but on the day they're supposed to meet him, John said he was also coming even tough I asked on the group chat if there could be fewer people that day (and then I sent private messages to the friends I wanted to be there that day).
Now I would like to ask John if he could maybe meet us a bit later that day so I can introduce my bf to the friends I've known the longest first and then the rest of the group, but I fear I might be perceived as an a-hole and create conflict in the group.
WIBTA in this situation?


asking a guy in my friend group to meet us a bit later than the others