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Input: So for a little context I have a bearded dragon called Smaug (she's a girl btw) and I've only had her for a year, she's around about 4 years old now and I'm deathly protective of her. 

I live with my mum and my brother who is around the same age as me, I have another brother who is younger though (he's 8) and he doesn't live with us but stays on the weekends. When he first saw Smaug he was kind of captivated, I told him he could look through the glass but her couldn't get her out unless I was there (I didn't want him accidentally drop her or something) I also made this fact very clear to my mum as she also likes to look at her, they both agreed and understood. Recently though I've been spending a lot of the weekends at my boyfriend's as that's the only time we get to see each other, and after coming back from my boyfriend's I find Smaug terrarium a mess. There is dried up vegetables everywhere and a whole box of crickets in the terrarium, obviously I was very mad so I confronted my mum about this, she said that she thought Smaug might be hungry so she threw a box of crickets. literally. now I get it touching the crickets isn't my favourite thing in the world either but you don't just throw a whole box of them in the terrarium with her. I told my mother this and I showed have the proper way to put the crickets in and that I'll tell her before I leave if she can or can't feed Smaug. If you don't know older bearded dragons don't need to eat bugs as much as younger ones do, you can give your beardie a lot of health problems if you do over feed them. A couple weeks go by and I come home to the same thing, messy terrarium filled with crickets. So now I'm even more pissed, my mum has a very bad habit of not listening to me at all. So I did the logical thing and I bought a lock for the terrarium. When I got home after the first week of using the lock my mum wasn't happy, she asked me why I had to go and buy a lock and that my brother was really upset that he couldn't feed Smaug anymore. I told her that if she wasn't going to listen to me I couldn't let her keep going into my room and trashing smaugs terrarium. She didn't seem happy with this but didn't say much else just that she thought I was being selfish. so am I the asshole for not letting my mum and younger brother trash my lizards terrarium?

not letting my mum and brother feed my dragon