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Input: Our 1 year old relationship has a lot more going on that I won’t post here, but the gist of it is: my gf comes from a less financially capable family than mine, so she has to work and study. She can also be very childish, probably my fault as the result of coming to see her everyday and buying her almost everything she asks me to buy, from food to make up and so on. Recently, she has the idea to go to Spain on an academic exchange for which she needs to pay for the plane ticket.
She recently got into a job that pay really well, like she earns about 5 times as much as I do (which is not much, but still) and that is good enough to pay for her plane ticket and more. It is also very far away from her house. Furthermore, this and the next week she’s doing the night shift, so her shift begins at 10pm and ends at 6am.
Like in past jobs, she’s asking me to drive her they there, which I agree to do because it’s late and I don’t want her to go by herself on the bus. Also, her pay is so good that she has agreed to pay me back some of the gas. However, since at work in the morning, I can’t pick her up on weekdays.
These last two nights, I’ve had trouble sleeping, and I have chess club on Saturdays at 9am, so I would like to have some sleep tonight. However, a few minutes ago she asked me to pick her up tomorrow at 6am because I don’t work on Saturday and can do it. I resisted, didn’t even get to say no outright or give my reasons, and she got furious. She wouldn’t talk to me at first, then she stormed off the room, and now is back and putting her make up on, saying that I should go and that she doesn’t want me to take her tonight.
I think it’s perfectly reasonable for me to refuse to pick her up so early on a Saturday, especially since I’m low on money, low on gas, she gets paid in 10 days (which means another full week of taking her to work at night), and it will probably make me lose chessclub. She told me she was willing to sleep in the car if I picked her up and then drove to the club, but for her safety I said that it wouldn’t work. She’s acting like it’s my obligation to take her to work. I feel like a lot of times she doesn’t even consider what I want or need. This is just one of many times she’s done something like this.

I’m trying to talk to her but she still won’t talk to me back. Am I the asshole?

refusing to pick up my gf from work at 6am on Saturday