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Input: So I haven't spoken to him about my feelings regarding this, but we have spoken about her. 

(If this doesnt fit here please tell me, I'm mainly looking for advice and to see if my feelings are well founded)

For context, we're in a long distance relationship. His friends girlfriend (whom we'll call V) is the oldest out of his group of friends (shes around 27 while the rest are 23). Me and her are the only girlfriends of the group which consists of 4 guys including my boyfriend. 

Now V is well known cheater. I'm just going to go right on out and say it. She's sent pictures of her tits to one of the guys in the group (who is not her boyfriend) and is frequently hanging out with another guy of the group (who is also not her boyfriend and that guy LIKES her). I hate cheaters and I hate V. I honestly believe she loves Male attention and would do alot to get it even if means pulling a group of friends apart.

So my boyfriend knows my feelings about her, we both don't like cheaters, and we both know that she's shady as fuck. We've had lengthy discussions regarding her behaviour.

And V has recently gone back to school again and is taking a course on public speaking or whatever and my boyfriend tells me that hes going to go later to be part of the audience for a project she has to do. 

I know this is generally innocent and that I might be irrational but I fucking hate this girl and I dont trust her at all. I dont give a shit if his friends see this or even if she sees this (cause I know they browse reddit but idk if she does).

I think I just hate the fact that he can hang out with another girl willy nilly but not with me.

I dont know what to do. I can't ban him hanging out with her (cause that goes against my moral code even if I do want to lol) and when she hangs out with him, it's always with other people (I.e. his friends), so I can't ban him from being with his friends when she's there because that's a really shitty thing to do.

I know if this situation was turned around, my boyfriend wouldn't like it if I hung out with a serial cheater regardless of who they're dating. But I have no clue what he would say to me regarding that and I have no clue if I should even say anything to him because he already knows I don't like her. 

I hate that I'm in a long distance relationship because then I can be there (cause I do often feel sad that I can't even hang out with my boyfriend without flying there first) and would feel better knowing that she wont try anything while I'm there. That's not even saying if she believes my boyfriend to be attractive, for all I know she could think he's ugly but she loves male attention so idk.

So, AITA for feeling this way? And what should I do about it because I have no fucking clue.


hating my boyfriends friends girlfriend and want him to stay away from her