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Input: July of this year, I finally moved out on my own. A few friends and I got a place about an hour away from family, all of us moving out of our parents house. My mom works with me for a newspaper, so she asked me today if I wanted to see her for Thanksgiving. I said no, and she had a pretty disgusted look on her face. She assumed a yes.

A little backstory, when I was ~14 years old, (21 now) my parents split up between Thanksgiving and Christmas, and it really messed with my head. I was a total shut in, I began to hate the holidays, you know, normal stuff. 

My mom knows I hate the holidays, she knows the reason for it, and I previously told her I didn't want to celebrate any this year. So when she gave me that nasty look, I felt a little horrible. She then asked if I was going go be the same way for Christmas, and I said yes. She look confused and said, "Why not just come see us. You don't have to have dinner or anything." My answer was, "If I go to see you on Thanksgiving or Christmas or anything like that, it's practically celebrating the holidays in my eyes, which I don't want to do." 

She walked away from me and didn't talk to me for the rest of the day, and I feel really horrible about it. I understand how she could feel hurt, seeing as how for 20 years we'd celebrate the holidays. I was wondering if anyone else thought my reasoning was justified, since now that I'm out on my own, I can actively avoid the holidays.

not visiting my family during the holidays