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Input: Bit of background. My family has been extremely abusive and neglecting of me and my siblings which I was blind to until recently.  Our family is in bad relationship with all of our relatives so I had no point of reference.

We were flat out denied to learn simple human skills like cooking because “you don’t need that with us” and “you are too useless to be independent anyway”.

Now on the story. I started going to university but wasn’t allowed to move to campus so I spend four and half hours every day simply to get back and forth to uni. 

I made friends who all opened my eyes that this is abnormal and I as an adult (20f) should be able to make my own decisions and my sleep deprivation caused by travel is affecting my performance.

I found that one of my friends is in search of a roommate and I immediately agreed because I will have off rent and groceries if I agree to practice cooking (I can make food to live off despite everything) because she is busy with her job.

Now on one hand I would like to inform my parents in advance but on the other hand I know they will do everything to keep me from leaving and I am not immune to it especially if they include my siblings. But I will also feel bad putting them on the spot.

So WIBTA if I proceeded with telling them only a week prior that I am moving out and then got all my stuff out within a day?

telling my parents that I am moving out only a week prior to put them on spot