Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: i really really fucked up. here's some background info, and i'll try to be concise a-la bullet-point style. please read it.

* i have been in a relationship with this guy for about 1.5 years. 
* 1 year of that has been long distance for various reasons (basically military/college).
* we're both 19.
* most of our relationship has been alright, a few ups and downs, but nothing we couldn't handle. 
* but the last few months he has not been so kind to me.. he insults me more, and doesn't have time to call. he takes me for granted and he knows that he's been neglecting me, but nothing has changed. i've unsuccessfully attempted to break up with him a couple times, but i always backed down and came to my senses.
* a couple months ago i was raped at my university. 
* he doesn't know. and i was afraid to tell him because i felt he would think i was trying to flirt around, or that it wasn't really rape, but that's a different story. the point is it happened and i didn't tell him.   

now that you're up to speed, my tifu: 
     
he had leave for a couple weeks in may, so i got to see him after 2 months. i was excited and nervous, because i knew we've been on the rocks and i saw this as an opportunity to reconnect and stoke some of those dying embers and breathe the love back in to our relationship.
    
unfortunately, things did not go as well as i hoped.. i'm a very independent person, but i have been so stressed lately and so traumatized and so alone that every little insult or dismissive remark from him put me in tears. then other days we would be fine and it would be like old times. repeat for the next month of his stay.
     
we have a large circle of friends that we're very close with, and over the last couple weeks a few of his friends have personally told me that my boyfriend, their friend, treats me terribly, and that it's not okay. i sheepishly just nodded it off and things continued as is between me and him. 

he left again two weeks ago, but this time i won't hear from him again til july. usually he at least has cell-phone service, but with the training he is doing, he won't have any reception.

we parted on a good note, and i was starting to be hopeful for our future again. but one of our friends started to hang out with me more and it turns out we had a lot in common. i was able to not only open up to him about the rape, but... he didn't judge me for it, and he was kind, and he's always been very respectful towards me. 

these last two weeks he and i have been hanging out a lot, just as friends, and it's been refreshing to not be put down, and if i start crying about anything he just holds my hand and wipes my tears and doesn't call me a crybaby or stupid. he told me i deserve much better than what i have with my boyfriend, but other than that he's kept his opinions to himself.

well, today he told me that he likes me a lot. and i fucked up and i told him that i liked him too, and then we kissed. and now i'm home typing this up, and i have no idea what to do, or how to feel, and i just don't want to be alone. i've fucked up and complicated things. i kissed one of his friends for fucks sakes! this is ridiculous, and i feel so lost on this.

i won't get to talk to my boyfriend again til july, and he doesn't come home until thanksgiving in november. i'm so scared reddit. i'm so stupid. 

thanks for reading.

TIFU by naively kissing my boyfriend's friend and complicating everything for no good freaking reason