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Input: My girlfriend and I (male) are taking a trip abroad soon, where we plan to swim. She loves swimming, and loves to wear a bikini. We're both of the same religion, however I'm probably a bit more religious than she is, although this doesn't factor in so much when I consider what she wishes to wear. She asked me how I felt about this, knowing that people in my family are more conservative. Now I honestly have no problem at all, and have been clear on that with her, going so far as to promise here that there will literally never be a time when I ask her to cover herself up. I do have one issue though, and when prodded, I told her that I would get jealous seeing other guys notice her, which is the only thing that gets to me really. I personally also don't like swimming with just a pair of shorts on, I wear a rash top or just a shirt sometimes.  


I told her it's her body, and she can do as she wishes, and I won't shy away from being around her at all. She complained that if she did wear longer, more conservative clothing, it may be uncomfortable to swim in. I told her that it's up to her if she feels that way, and she should choose to be comfortable above all else. She still doubted that I was being fully honest, and didn't know if she should cover up more or not.  


Eventually, after some jokes and a lot of back and forth, I did eventually tell her that I think she could wear a rash top, with a bikini underneath and  some short shorts, if she really wanted me to feel totally comfortable, and she could in my opinion swim comfortably. Although again, she didn't have to make that compromise for me at all. She seemed really happy to bring this to a conclusion though. I even gave her a white rash top I had which fit her almost perfectly.  


This still left me feeling uncertain - did I force her to make this decision? I tried to be as honest as possible with her, without pushing her in any direction. AITA?

giving my girlfriend an ultimatum on what to wear