Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Screwed me over might be harsh, but I can't think of a better phrasing. 

Basically: I had a good friend in high school. I'll spare you the details, but it was the typical best friend stuff of spending 24/7 together. 

After we both moved away for college, I made a LOT of effort to stay in touch. I even drove to their city multiple times to see them. 

And multiple times, while I was already there, they cancelled their plans on me. 

I'd be in their city, ready to spend a day with them, and they'd either forget we planned something, or cancel last-minute. 

They started ignoring my messages as well. Then stopped greeting me during holiday seasons and even my birthday. 

At that point I realized they couldn't be bothered making time and effort for me, so I returned the favor and cut them out of my life. 

Now all of a sudden they're interested in me again and want to reconnect. 

And I'm not really feeling the same way. I certainly don't want to experience what i described all over again. 

So I'm kinda just ignoring them. 

I dunno. Am I the asshole here?

ignoring a friend's wish to getting reconnect with me