Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My boyfriend is in the Army and we decided we’re going to go about the non-traditional way of life and we’re going to get married since we both know that’s what we want and we can be together without worry if we were already married. There’s a lot of detail and such, this post would be too long if I got into it, so to the point. My parents have already freaked out about me moving states away, and my mom has even made a comment to my older sister and I about keeping important things like marriage not necessary a secret from her but really keeping her out of the loop about it and she would be really hurt if we planned it without her knowing. Anyway, my boyfriend and I have been thinking about eloping and then later in a few years after we’ve saved up money to have the actual ceremony. I’ve told him we can just call the in between the “engagement” but honestly if anyone asks I’ll say I’m married because I love him and in no way am I going to keep this a secret. I honestly have no idea how to go about this with my family though. I know he’s the one for me, and he feels the same way 100% about me, there’s no doubt or fear for either of us about our relationship, we’ve talked about this for several months and this is what we both want. 

not telling my parents I'm eloping in about 6 months