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Input: Without going into the world's most convoluted family history, at Thanksgiving this past year my father (60s) got drunk and groped me (his 36 year old daughter). I have a 10 year old girl and an 11 year old step daughter as well as a son who is 14. He also acted very inappropriately with the girl children. 

My mother, my boyfriend, sister, brother in law, and stepmother all witnessed this and also heard him say "I have always wanted to do that." My family has urged me to let it go because he was drunk and had a stroke a year prior. 

Not long after he had surgery that has left him temporarily paralyzed. I did not visit him nor do I allow him to see my kids when I have them. My ex husband takes them to visit my family because I refuse. 

My mother uninvited me to Christmas dinner and instead hosted my stepmom, my children, my ex husband, and my dad. She said she did so because she assumed I hated all of them. 

I am in therapy and working through the gross thing my dad did, but my boyfriend thinks I need to reach out to everyone and make amends. I maintain i have nothing to apologize for, as I did not grope anyone nor did I show up uninvited at Christmas. Neither of my parents or stepparents or sibling has expressed regret over my dads actions, so I am wondering, am I the asshole?

TL;DR my dad groped me and I don't want contact with my family nor do I want my kids around him.

not wanting to have contact with my parents any further