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Input: I'm a senior in high school and graduation is coming up. In my high school we do a graduation ceremony in the day then a graduation banquet at night. I will go to my graduation ceremony but I don't want to go to my graduation banquet. The biggest reasons why I don't want to go, are because its kind of pricey (I would need to pay for the banquet ticket and buying a dress) and I honestly can't justify spending so much money on something I don't consider to be worth it to me. I recently got accepted to a very good university, that's not in my city, so I would have to move. That's going to drive up my university costs so I would much rather save my money for university or spend it on something that would better my daily life. All of my friends are now going (or got pressured in to going by other friends) but I still don't want to go. They keep arguing with me about "how it's a once in a lifetime chance", "how I'll regret it" and "how I was going to end up buying some materialistic item instead so I should my money to pay for this once in a lifetime chance." But I don't find just eating a dinner and dancing around to be something super interesting to me. All of my friends are working some type of job on the side so it is much easier for them to afford it but I don't work so its harder for me. They have said that I should ask my parents for the money (I know if I ask them they'll say yes) but I would feel so bad and that it's a waste by using their hard earned money for something I don't that I don't even want to go to.

The graduation banquet is set up so you are in tables of typically 8 people. You have to hand in a sheet of paper with whose going to be in your table (if you don't have 8 people they'll put other random people at your table). I told my friends back in September/October that I didn't want to go and back then they simply said that I should go but they didn't push it. Come April now, when you have to hand in the sheet with whose going to be at your table, they are struggling to find 8 people to fill their table. I told them back in September/October that I didn't want to go so they would have plenty of time to find someone else to join their table. I told one of my friends (who keeps really pushing me to go) that she has other friends and she can ask one of her other friends to join the table. She said that because some of my friends (the ones who got pressured in to going) said maybe, that they told their other friends that some people were still deciding and that couldn't guarantee their other friends a spot at the table. So by now, most of their other friends already found a different table. But she also replied asking why I was so mean. I'm honestly clueless as to why she thinks I was being so mean just because I didn't want to go to my graduation banquet.

So AITA for not wanting to goto my own graduation?

not wanting to go to my graduation banquet