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Input: Text: tifu by becoming emotionally attached to two of my coworkers and in the process denying my wife and kids the love they deserve.  this situation began almost a year ago and just blew up.  i have a job that can periodically be quite stressful being the manager of about 50 people in a field relayed to ensuring people's safety around some complex, unforgiving technology.  last year we began a project in response to an event that required long nights, weekends, canceling vacations, etc.  the situation was serious.   i formed a small team to respond and we worked for weeks,  hard, to resolve the issue.   this is when i began chatting outside work with two of the women on the team; one is a direct report to me and 2 years older, the other a level below that in the report structure and 10 years my junior.  the gal that is older than me has a husband that i used to work with and kids that i know.  she has gotten herself into great shape in the last 3-4 years,  is very sexy and disarming to me.  the younger gal has been like a little sister to me, never attracted sexually, but always felt for her.

they were both new to this type of stress so i felt compelled to"check on them" outside work.   that was my first mistake. 
 
in august things shifted at work from immediate response to a longer term project (plan for approximately 6 months) and my communication with them outside work turned from "checking in" to friendly exchanges.   funny or crazy things that happened that day, in or out of work.   i tend to have a very irreverent and sarcastic sense of humor, so do they.  the three of us would chat as a group for hours.  i would do this with my wife and kids around, or where ever i was outside work.  i was delving back into a deep depression from the stress at work.  my wife sensed something bad was happening to me.  i shared little odd my work stress with her, fearing it would burden her: this made things worse between us.   in september we had a huge fight about my need to change and be more loving to her and the kids.   i tried to change, for a while it lasted, but i kept up contact with these other two throughout because i felt they understood or work stress without explanation.   (mistake)

things intensified ay work in december to deliver for our projects.   i wadsworking with counterparts at my level and above on a daily basis,  including the highest ranking manager in the company.   this was abig deal, huge.  i don't do well with new people due to some significant introversion and very negative personal self view.  my wife and i had a huge blowup in december.  she said she was only with me because of the kids.   i was/am devastated by that.  i took 2 weeks off from work...but kept in contact with my two "friends."  things got better at home as i decompressed, much better.   i decided to tell my boss i need a job change the first week in january and he's been extremely helpful making arrangements with me.   but i'm not the yet.  

from january to april work stress continued.   end of april wad the deadline, but wad not met.   this wad bad, very bad for me.   the last 2 weeks in april i began preparing for my birthday.  when i was a young child a family member died on my birthday from a massive and unexpected heart attack; it devestated my mothrr.  it's never been a good day for me.  this year instead of making plans with my wife that day (a work day) i accepted a lunch invitation from my two work gal friends - not a birthday lunch, since i had shared with them my issue the prior week (more mistakes, telling them something that personal and going to lunch).  after lunch i sat on swings at a local park with my married friend,  the whole time in angst overt weekday my wife would do if she found out.  we never did anything sexual, not even a hug.  never.  but i knew my wife would be hurt i wad with someone else and shared my personal thoughts and energy. 

that weekend my wife hacked into my phone and read portions of my conversations with these two women.   things really blew up.  the next day i started therapy.  she made me defriend them, delete all contact with them. i still deal with then at work becauae our project still isn't complete and my wife hates it.  she thinks they were trying to take me from her.   i think they were trying to help me find peace and hsppiness.  i've been getting better perspective on my marriage difficulties through therapy, but it's slow. 

the wife told me yestetday she had neen seeing a counselor separately to prepare herself for divorce.   she says she's not willing to wait for me to get better and decide if i can give her all she needs.   i really effed up my life.  my wife is ready to leave me and my friends are gone.  i don't want to abandon my wife or kids.

TIFU by becoming emotionally attached to two coworkers