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Input: Okay for a little context, I've been in a relationship with "Ren" for about 10 months now. I wouldn't say it's a loving relationship because I'm practically the only one trying at this point.

He's a gamer bi dude that's still in the closet with his family.

Now in the beginning he was really sweet, he would move his best friend of 7+ years just so I could sit next to him. He would wait for me outside of my class when they ended. He would text me asking where I was when I was late.

But that lasted about a good month and then stopped. But the thing is, over time I've come to actually love Ren despite that.

Recently though, he would have times off weeks or multiple days at a time and as an outgoing guy I like eating out and watching movies and maybe the occasional park. He doesn't tell me anywhere he'd like to go so I bring him to places I like, maybe enabling him to develop his own opinion. But nada. 

In 10 months we've gone on 4 dates alone together. 4. Every other time I would join him in his DND campaigns or get blown off. 20 times I've been blown off and by now I've gotten pissed at him. 

He would say he's busy but then I hear from his friend that they met up two days in a row. Honestly I'm glad he's spending time with them, but it feels like he'd rather spend his time with literally anyone else. 

I try to offer to spend time with him at home if he doesn't want to go out but still.. nada. I get that he's still in the closet so I'm not just gonna go up and grab his ass whenever, so like???

I threatened a break up with him he doesn't change this and I feel kind of an ass? Is my psyche just being over self critical again or does/do it/I have a point?


threatening a break up because my boyfriend won't go out with me