Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This didn't happen today, it happen 3-4 years ago, but I've thought about it pretty often since it did.

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I came home from college for the summer, and got invited to a party with some friends from high school. Nothing crazy, just sitting around at this guys house, drinks some beers, all good. There were some people there that I don't know, including a Hispanic guy who, after he arrived, came to sit next to me and started flirting with me (I'm a girl). He was cute, so I flirted back, and we talked for a while until he asked if it would be okay if he went inside to put his bag somewhere. I said yes and joked that it would be fine, as long as he didn't steal anything.

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When he went inside, an acquaintance from high school immediately got on my case. He told me what I said was ridiculously racist and offensive, and that he was surprised by me. He said that I needed to apologize the second the guy came back out. I was young and drunk and immediately felt terrible, so when the guy came back, I did apologize profusely. He seemed almost a little confused and accepted it, and we kept talking. 

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Was I the asshole here? I genuinely didn't intend to make a racist comment- I was drunk and flirting, and my sense of humor and flirting tends to be pretty "taking the piss out" of people, so it wasn't something that was out of the ordinary for me to say to someone. But I have felt bad about it ever since and it's one of those things that will keep me up at night, along with other awkward things I've done in the past.

making a joke about stealing