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Input: First ever post on Reddit so sorry if I get anything wrong. Throwaway so it hopefully can't be linked back to me.  


Important backstory: A long time ago (several years) I got sick. It was miserable for a long time and my life never really recovered. After some time and investigation they concluded that I had Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. If any of you have any experience of this condition, you may know that it's not a fun diagnosis. For several years I've been stuck in a wheelchair, unable to walk distances, I've struggled to hold down a job, and I've endured comments including "I'd kill myself if that happened to me", "You can cure that with cannabis/yoga/trying harder". I've also been living in constant pain, which was written off as fibromyalgia. 

  
Last week I chased up with my doctor and got a new diagnosis, Hypermobility Syndrome. It's impossible to know if I have both, or if my CFS symptoms are all explained by it. It's a massive deal because my pain is from a physical cause and I'm looking at physiotherapy that may help me it. Knowing this diagnosis I'm now able to made small changes that slightly relieve the pain, and I'm still reeling from the years I lost. Knowing it's not "all in my head" is a massive deal.

  
I was talking to a group of friends about this, and as soon as I said "I have Hypermobility Syndrome", one of them instantly declared "I have that too", and even worse "We have the same thing", talking about how "it sometimes hurts". I have social anxiety, so had no idea how to respond to that. In later conversation it was determined that she does not have this diagnosed, she just feels like she has it. She may do, but she lives a normal life, walking, intensive exercise. To me it doesn't feel the same at all (and it instantly shut down the conversation where I was excitedly talking about what it meant to me) , and now all our friends are left thinking that I have a minor condition, rather than the extreme disabilities I have.  


AITA for getting upset about this? I know it was probably said with good intentions, but it felt a little like making it "all about her" I guess. 

feeling like a friend dismissed my medical condition