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Input: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. I'm 26 and work full-time from home, and she is finishing her final semester of university. We live less than a mile away at the moment, and we go to each others places typically 5 or 6 nights per week. I really need the 1-2 nights per week to myself to recharge, but usually whenever I suggest we spend a night apart I'll get a text from her at 7pm saying the neighbors are being loud or something. I usually give in.

Recently we've been getting into arguments about living together. I feel like it is too soon in the relationship. The fact that she pushes me to spend every night together makes me feel like she won't respect the fact that I need some alone time when we live together. This would also impact my career: because I work from home, it's important that I'm alone during the day, but I just don't see how this would work logistically, because she works nights. I'm looking into getting an office, but I don't have that worked out yet.

I told her that I thought it was too soon to move in together and she got upset. She said I'm not supporting her, and that she would do the same for me. She doesn't make good money right now because she is a student, so she can't afford a great place on her own. I live in a rather luxury studio that costs around $1400 / month total. I explained that she would be expected to pay half of the rent (700) if she moved in, which she was fine with. But when I asked her if she would consider getting her own apartment for 6 months, she refused saying that she could not get anything close to 700/mo. Currently she is paying 600, so this is pure BS. She wants to move out of her current place because she apparently has allergies to mold in the building (yet refuses to take allergy pills). She's been pinning this whole thing on me like I'm not supporting her, which is not true — I'm willing to help her move, find a new place, roommates, etc., but she doesn't see it that way. And on the topic of roommates: she absolutely refuses to have them. She doesn't have friends that need roommates, but she won't consider finding a student or young professional to live with. I think this is absurd, and seems very privileged to me. **The icing on the cake was when she suggested she could move in with her ex as a last resort.** They are still friends, which I am fine with, but they don't ever meet up in person. The fact that she even threw this out there as a realistic option blew my mind. She acted offended when I told her I felt she was manipulating me. IMO if she did even talk to her ex about this, it would be the end of our relationship. I don't know in what world she would consider this over living with random roommates. It's like she's giving me an ultimatum, either move in together, or our relationship is done.

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AITA for being skeptical about her pressuring me, and for telling her that it's too soon to move in together?

not letting my girlfriend move in