Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: i love my wife more than anything and we have been together for 6 years. we've had our tough times, but they have been very few. 

i've had 4-5 female friends for almost 10-11 years and one since high school. with two, there were romantic feelings when we started talking, but that fizzled out and now it's just casual friendship (ie, how's your mom, the kids, etc). off and on throughout the years we'd keep in contact via text just to see what's happening in each other's lives. marriages, kids, buying houses, etc., when something big or a birthday came around a text would be sent off, catch up for a bit, and then back to no word for a year or more. 

when my mom died earlier this year there were two of these friends who were very supportive and i've kept up with them more and more, culminating in exchanging about 700 texts last month during the worst of my so far grief based depression. at this point i haven't been able to seek therapy because of my schedule, but once the semester is over that will happen. nothing sexual is desired from either one of these friends; both are happily married with kids. in fact the last conversations were about classes, banana bread, and thanksgiving plans. 

the part where i fucked up is that i never knew how my wife would take me having these female friends (who i haven't seen in over 10 years), so i never told her about them. all the conversations have been unknown to her until yesterday when she noticed a high number of texts on the bill and found the history. 

she is absolutely distraught and told me that she has lost trust in me. i know it looks horrible from the outside looking in. i also know that i should have talked with my wife more about what was bothering me and my depression instead of discussing it with two friends that she never knew about. i didn't sleep last night and the pain that i have caused is eating me alive. 

i don't want an affair with anyone and i don't want to lose my wife.

throwaway b/c if she knew i was airing my problems, she would be hurt even more.

TIFU massively by hurting my wife and I'm scared that it may cause a divorce