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Input: This happened yesterday and I'm kind of conflicted over it. For some context, I am currently in the process of transferring to a different college. I've been in the process since the beginning of the semester but only just left my roomates know this past Thursday. We're pretty friendly but we aren't that close so I didnt really want to discuss it until I was sure I was leaving, hence why I waited so long. 

Separately I had been annoyed with this particular roomate, we'll call her M, since she has a habit of leaving piles of unwashed dishes in the sink for days at a time and expected me to wash them for her, so I had been avoiding her a bit to begin with. 

This past weekend I went out of state and on my way back yesterday afternoon I received a series panicked texts/messages from a family member, N, saying she was "worried about me and wanted to know if I was okay" emotionally. I was confused by this since it seemed to come pretty out of nowhere, I have struggled with depression in the past but I've been pretty open about that as well as about the fact that I'd been doing very well recently. 

Apparently N received a series of messages from M on facebook, that I have screenshots of, telling her that I was a suicide risk and was isolating myself and not talking to anyone and asking her to keep watch over me since switching schools seemed like "another way" for me to isolate myself. She also said that I had been "displaying a lot of red flags" and "got angry whenever she tried to bring it up" (which in my memory she never has?), as well as not talking to B, our other roomate. N has a panic disorder and so when she received these messages and then couldn't immediately get ahold of me (as I was out of town), she had a panic attack.

When I got home I had all of the roomates, theres only 4 of us including myself and B and we were all already aware of the situation, come to the common room and sit down to talk about it. I asked her why she said those things about me, and her reasoning came down to "you weren't talking to me". I told her that she crossed a major line by going to my family first and telling lies about me, and that she had no right to assume things about my personal life and act like they were true. She started to say that she would do differently in the future but I cut her off and asked her to please in the future keep it to herself because she clearly doesn't have a very good grasp on my state of mind. I thanked her for her concern but told her that, I feel like I'm unable to trust her with details about my personal life and apologized in advance if I was more distant going forward. When I said this she started crying, and I left the room.

I understand that M likely had good intentions with this but I was furious that she didn't talk to me, or even to B, who I actually am friends with, about it first. The fact that she "tattled" on me to a family member who she doesnt know crossed a major personal boundary in my eyes. Especially since I had a really bad experiance with this type of thing when an ex-friend of mine in high school tried to get me committed by making false reports about me. M knew about this, and so I feel like she should have known the degree of paranoia that it would give me for this to have been handled like this. 

I feel like I handled things as politely as I could have but I feel really bad about making her cry, AITA?

making my roomate cry