Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: it started out with good intentions, my idea was to sort of just go with the flow.  my goal though, was to end the evening with dinner and a night out at a dance club with my beautiful wife.

we had other things going on, but the kids were staying with her ex, and we just had to attend a marching band competition at 12:30 and the rest of the day would be ours.

so i'm thinking we'll see the kid march, then head back home to get our groove on before heading out for the evening.  i now realize that was stupid.  if i had made concrete plans, with maybe a dinner reservation at least, or some friends planning to join us, i'd be having a good buzz right now and dancing with my wife.

instead, we wound up staying at the entire band competition, getting a late lunch nearby, and now we're at the fucking mall shopping for kids clothes.  i don't even have the slightest buzz and my wife isn't shaking her fine ass in the least.  fail.

TIFU by not having a plan