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Input: So I’m in the middle of a long distance relationship. We’ve been together for two and a half years, and things were going pretty well. For April fool’s, I didn’t think of playing a prank only because we’re so far away, I wouldn’t even enjoy it. She had another idea. 

She got in touch with my best friend here, asked him to write a letter and get flowers sent to my place. The letter said really creepy things like “I see you everyday and I’m interested in you. Bring a condom the next time you see me. I know where you are everyday.”

I obviously freaked out, thinking I was somebody stalking me. I went to another friend and she suggested I approach the cops, and I thought I’d give it a day. Partner also made a fake account on Instagram and sent lewd texts and images asking for sex, and I politely refused, saying I’m committed. I didn’t block the account though. I entertained it because I wanted to build a conversation for if we ever met in person or if I went to the police. 

This went on for a week, and yesterday my partner said it was her the whole time. I obviously lost it, saying it wasn’t funny. The flowers and the letter would’ve been funny, but making a fake account and engaging for a week was psychotic. I said I wasn’t amused, and that it better not happen again. She flipped, saying I shouldn’t have talked to the account in the first place. Honestly, she’s right. But I wanted to know who it was. I thought if I met them in person and told them to back off on the threat of going to the police, it’d work. 

She’s accusing me of cheating, but what she did was far worse in my opinion. Are we both assholes? Am I the asshole?

Tl;dr partner made a fake identity and aggressively flirted with me while I was freaking out thinking it was a stalker after me. I lost it, she lost it. 

losing it when my partner created a fake identity to lead me on