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Input: My wife and I went on a weekend ski trip with a friend of hers, whose boyfriend alone paid for an entire 5 bedroom house. He was in charge of planning the entire trip and ended up inviting way more of his friends than the house could sleep. We got our own room, as did her friend and her boyfriend, but everyone else shared rooms, slept on couches, etc.  All of the guests were in their mid 20s. 

We didn’t know any of the people that were staying in the house (except for her friend and her boyfriend). As soon as we arrived to the house, I sensed a very immature, party hard vibe. I was right. 

We would go skiing in the mornings, and come back to the house and hang out in the late evenings. The routine was always lots of drinking, lots of smoking (in the house which clearly stated not to smoke inside), and lots of loud music and pong. My wife and I would hang for a little bit, but would always retire to bed by 11 at the latest. Everyone else would always stay up til who knows when, which was not a problem to me. 

My problem is when we’d wake up the next morning and the place would be a complete disaster. Trash everywhere, half eaten pizza on the table (not on a plate), sticky floor, etc. I think the worst thing I saw was a half eaten corn dog sitting on a dirty plate in the sink soaking in the stagnant, backed up sink water. The place was gross. 

Since we weren’t paying for the place, we felt a kind of obligation to clean up, but also who can just sit around in a mess like that? So we would clean the place back to its original condition before everyone else would wake up. Wash, rinse, repeat and next the morning it would be in the same obliterated state. So once again, we’d clean up and hope for the best. 

AITA for being upset that no one else respected the shared space enough to simply through their trash away and stick some dishes in the dishwasher?

getting upset about cleaning a vacation house I stayed in for free