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Input: I haven't had any traumatic experiences with alcohol or anything, and this idea wasn't brainwashed into me by anyone. But I've just come to accept it as part of my personal philosophy and I don't want to give it up. 

Essentially, I'm almost 21 and have never had alcohol, ever (never even been to a party, that's the kind of person I am). I never want to. I don't care if times get tough, I would prefer to resort to healthier coping mechanisms, thanks. I also certainly don't need it to have fun. And it smells bad. I have no need nor want to drink.

Since my 21st is coming up in a few months, my boyfriend who is a couple years older than me keeps saying that he will get me some nice champagne for my birthday and he keeps talking about it like he will expect me to have some. I don't want to, and I keep telling him that, but since my birthday isn't super soon neither of us sound very serious about it either way. 

He drinks a normal amount, which I'm fine with, I just don't want to drink, even on my birthday. I am worried that my boyfriend and any other people who may remember my birthday will keep pressuring me to drink, and if I don't, they will think I am lame/annoying/straightedge/an asshole. 

WIBTA if I don't drink, even a little, on my 21st birthday, or drink really ever? Part of me feels like with our current culture I will be seen as the asshole because I may be seen as holier-than-thou person who won't just chill and have a good time, or possibly fit in with others (I don't know anyone who doesn't drink AT ALL). That part of me says I should just suck it up and drink for one day. But the other part of me doesn't want to budge.

not wanting to drink any alcohol, ever? even on my 21st birthday