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Input: Right now I'm bawling my eyes out so I'm sorry if this is all over the place.  It's been a weird day.

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My family is Jewish.  My parents and I live close to each other.  Occasionally we will have dinner at their place.  It's never at my place because I'm "too messy" and I don't want to hear it, and also my place is hella tiny.  Dinner isn't bad, but there are other issues.

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First of all, my sister and my parents kind of ended up in a weird war based on my sister attempting independence and my parents making fun of her every step of the way.  This includes sniping at her during dinner when I'm around and I feel like I have to defend her.  I mean she's married for god's sake, let her be a goddamn adult!

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Secondly, I have mental health issues and sometimes I need to just go home and just...not do shit.  It's not a problem for most people because they understand the concept of running out of spoons mentally (I don't make a habit out of this and I try to only do this when I am really REALLY drained and I think the activity would make things worse), but for my parents it's a mortal sin.  I did this for the first time ever last week and they are calling me "selfish" over it.  But my body just couldn't handle it.  Hearing them bitch about my sister, about me, about their "friends", being ~~forced~~ asked to clean up their place while hearing about how bad my place is...I couldn't deal.

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Since they can't understand that I can't just decide when I run out of energy, I've decided I'm not eating dinner with them anymore because that way I won't be selfish.  They can't be mad about me walking out on things I never agreed to right?  This also includes a large Passover dinner coming up.  The issue is that my sister, partly due to the issues above, also said she couldn't go to this dinner and my parents just assumed I was going.  I literally have no other plans that day, but I don't want to deal with all the other bullshit on a Friday night when the food sucks balls anyway because god forbid corn syrup be the 54th ingredient on a Hershey's chocolate bar that has 54 ingredients on the label.

My dad said that Passover was a "family tradition" but it's kind of dead now and my sister and I are grown ups who need to make our own traditions now.

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My parents have given me the silent treatment after I told them that I wasn't coming over for dinner anymore, including for Passover but I want to know if I'm the asshole for not attending.

deciding not to have dinner with my parents anymore