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Input: My boyfriend (30M) and I (30F) recently moved in together. We've been dating just under 2 years &amp; we agreed to split rent and bills 50/50. We have similar income levels.

So, I get a food benefit in my job, where my company provides me with breakfast and lunch, coffee/drinks, snacks, etc. And for most of my weekday dinners and weekend meals, I either eat work leftovers (which I am happy to share with my bf) or very cheap groceries - canned black beans, oatmeal, etc. I spend about $25/week on groceries.

My boyfriend's job doesn't provide food, so he spends a lot more on groceries. He suggested that we should also be splitting the grocery bill 50/50. I disagree because I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick, and I am happy to just to cook and eat separately for the most part. 

I should say I think he views splitting food as having an emotional benefit primarily, with a secondary convenience factor. Groceries aren't a financial burden at our income levels. I don't think he cares about the financial part much. I care about the financial part because I have aggressive savings goals.

We had a recent conflict about this because I came in late from a flight one night, and our city is covered in exceptional amounts of snow right now so all the grocery stores and restaurants were closed down. I ate a small amount of his food that he offered me - a protein bar and some milk and cereal. The next morning he made coffee and breakfast and offered some to me while I was still in bed, I had about a cup of coffee and declined the food just because I wasn't feeling like that particular meal right then.

After that we went to the grocery store together and he wanted us to split the bill from the groceries he bought himself. I was like, we talked about this and agreed not to split and just eat our own food, and he said "oh so the food and coffee you had yesterday just fell out of the sky then?" I said that I would be happy to pay him for that given the exceptional circumstances, and he said no, he just wishes we were combining our households more.

not splitting groceries with my boyfriend