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Input: I’m very rarely with my boyfriend and his family, but the few times I have been, they’d only communicate with one another through Spanish, which is a language I hardly know at all. 

His whole family speaks English as well, but they choose to speak Spanish to one another around me, which makes me uncomfortable because a lot of times it’s regarding plans we’ve made and then my boyfriend has to turn to me and translate what they’ve all been saying, and often he leaves things out and forgets to tell me those necessary details until later.

Now of course I don’t mind if it’s like, his siblings to his mother in a conversation that shouldn’t involve me, but when they’re talking with my boyfriend as he’s sitting right next to me, I just feel weird.

I understand it’s their “normal language” as my boyfriend calls it, and I’m not trying to be all up in the business or try to have them change their ways, it just makes me feel left out and extremely confused and even a little awkward...

I’ve mentioned it to him and he gets defensive and angry, like they’re not going to change to make me more comfortable. 

I just feel that if the roles were reversed, I would have my family speak to me in a language my boyfriend would understand so he wouldn’t feel left out or like he’s missing something important.

Before anyone tells me to simply learn Spanish, first of all, it’s not that easy and second, I am learning Spanish...trying to at least...

I feel like I AM the asshole but I don’t want to be...so someone just tell me, am I the asshole?

being uncomfortable when my boyfriend speaks Spanish to his family around me