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Input: So my friend and I have been super close for like five years now, but living together for only a year.  In that one year though I've grown to not like his behavior.

We run with a very tight knit group that all know who the type of person he is, and when you don't see him as much, is a great guy.  But he's had a history of changing how he acts based on friends we have hanging around us.  When he's around those people he begins to insult me and my other roommate, who's also a close friend of ours.

We've told him before how we don't appreciate him insulting us, especially when he doesn't do that to his other friends.  His response was just that he didn't mean it to be rude, he just thought since we were close he could.  Even though we don't "joke" back.

But there was a part where he crossed a line for me.

I work with kids, so naturally he thinks it's funny to call me a pedophile.  Not only to other friends, one who also works with me, but his online friends (he games)  that I've never met.  I tell him to not do that, and he persists.

I'm also very close to someone with a kid.  And one night I was playing with the child, in front of the friend.  The child wanted to play foot doctor and asked me to take off my shoe and sock.  I thought I was cute so I recorded the interaction and put it on a social media story.

He then puts me in a group chat with a friend of ours, and then goes on ask me why I have videos of little girls playing with my feet.  And saying that he thought it was creepy.  He knows that girl and my relation to the mother and that's where I drew the line.

I told him to go fuck himself and have yet to talk to him again.  I've let other people know that I'm currently not on good terms with him and they have essentially said "that's just how he jokes" and made me out to be the bad guy for being stuck up and sensitive about it.

I don't think it's personally funny, especially when it's the child of a very good friend of mine.

AITA?


choosing to not speak to one of my best friends/ roommates for ongoing behavior