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Input: I (27F) was invited to a bridal shower for a woman who is marrying my boyfriends cousin. My boyfriend (27M) is not close to this cousin and we are actually unsure we are even going to be able to attend the wedding (out of town trip already planned for that weekend).  My boyfriends Mom(50s) and sister(29) were also invited. 

The date of the bridal shower is the day I was planning some birthday festivities for my close friend. I have met this woman only once at a party. I assume she was probably inviting everyone that’s invited to the wedding as well. I just have no desire to sit there and watch someone open presents for hours, play games, and not to mention I’d have to purchase a gift and we are currently in intense savings mode for a house. I had talked to my boyfriend about skipping and he said it was no big deal, and that it would be fine to skip. But then I talked to my Mom...and as Moms do best, she planted seeds of doubt. 

My mom thinks it would be a good opportunity to get closer to my boyfriends Mom and sister and have some bonding time. (We have been dating for over 2 years so I know them pretty well I think) Whenever we see his family, we are all cordial but I just don’t see any real connections happening with his Mom and sister unfortunately. They are both deeply into Catholicism and don’t really drink or swear. I am an atheist and love me some fucking booze. We just don’t seem to have too much common ground. My boyfriend is also pretty removed from them (if given the choice he’d rather hang out with my family) So I’d say we get along with them but we don’t share a closeness. Some of you may say this may be an opportunity to open the door to closeness but I feel if closeness was going to happen it probably would have by now. If I really wanted to, I could switch around some birthday festivities to accommodate this but idk AITA for wanting to skip out on this shower?

not wanting to go to a bridal shower for a person I met once