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    So for about a month or two, me and 3 other people (best friend, close friend and her boyfriend) were planning on taking a few days off of work and stay in a hotel in a little town not too far from here. We were planning on going to a casino, going out and seeing the town, some drinks, maybe the zoo or something too. 

   But in the last 24 hours I've learned:

-That my grandpa, who I live with to help pay rent, has a serious gambling addiction. So serious that me and my best friend have only a few months to find a new place.

-My father and his super young girlfriend are having a second baby.(his wife is 21 and they already have a 1 year old baby and take care of my 15 year old FAS brother.

-My grandpa in another state is in the ICU and may not make it another month. My mom is hysterical and I haven't had time off from work to visit her.

The trip was set for this morning, I bailed last night and all 3 of my friends kept saying things along the lines of " I understand, but you really have to come with" and a bunch of super sarcastic remarks like "ok that's fine I guess". My close friend then texts my best friend that she wont talk to me and she will be mad at me for months after this.

I spent about 300$ on planning this trip, hell I even lent them the money to book it, but that honestly doesn't matter to me. I told them to keep it and go without me. I know I cant directly help with my dad and other grandpa, but I'm trying the best I can.

TL;DR I bailed on my friends after setting up a trip because I'm sad and anxious and they hate me for it. Am I the asshole?


bailing on my friends while going through a rough time