Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I'm new to reddit and doing this mobile, but I would really like some advice (its kinda long)

I am in my second semester of my 1st year at a University. As a music major, I am always in a classroom, working in the music lab, crying in practice room, or at rehearsal. I am very busy, so I value all my time I spend doing nothing. I'm the kind of person that needs a day or 2 to be away from everyone and everything just to destress and be ready for another busy week. 

I do spend a lot of my free time with friends, eating dinner together and what not. However, no one gets as much of my time and energy as my best friend, lets call him John. John is a music major too (most of my friends are) and is genuinely a really good friend to me. We make each other better and he's usually very enthusiastic about everything. He's always high energy, when his depression doesn't hit, and is always tapping around (he's a percussionist). His constant drive pushes me to be a better musician and person.

However, he takes all of my free time. He's in my dorm everyday, playing my playstation (despite having his own) and leaving a mess in my room. I love him, but he's a slob. He actually has a lot of health issues. despite him being pretty skinny.  But skinny doesn't always mean healthy. I have to constantly remind him to eat, drink water instead of soda, and so on. I don't mind, I know a symptom of depression is not eating or eating really bad so I'm not mean about it, just want him to get better. My other friends and even some of my teachers see me and him as more of a mother son relationship than friends because I am always taking care of him. Again, I don't mind this, just not every waking moment of my life. 

Being around him so much has made it hard for guys I like to approach me because they think me and John are dating, even though we both know that will never happen. I tried making plans with a guy I like to come to my dorm and watch Avatar: The Last Airbender with me, but ended up cancelling because I couldn't get away from John without feeling like a dick. I want to be able to have a life outside of him, but I don't want to be a dick and abandon him either. I can't even play games that we have started together without him. We started playing Little Big Planet 3 together (it was my first time playing and he's already beat it) and gets upset if I play without him. We played COD Zombies and he gets jealous if I don't play with him. 

I no longer have time to do nothing on the weekends because we do "nothing" together, meaning I'm taking care of him all weekend, just to jump back into a busy week. Last semester he jokingly ridiculed me for not accomplishing anything on the weekends, and now he spends all his time with me. Sometimes I get it, you need a friend, but other times, it's seems unhealthy.

I want to tell him to back off and be more independent, but I don't want to hurt his feelings or our friendship. He is my best friend. I feel bad for saying no when he wants to hang out, but I know it's what I need for my own sanity. AITA?

wanting to spend less time with my depressed best friend