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My husband and his uncle ( who is going through a rough divorce, that’s the reason for the trip) planned a trip to a concert about 4.5 hours away. The concert happens the day after my husband is on shift (24/48 shift work) and he is notorious for falling asleep if he sits down for more than 5 minutes after a shift day, so I was concerned about him driving 4.5 hours by himself the day after a shift. He’s never fallen asleep driving before, but long trips after work aren’t the norm. I offered to drive him, get a separate room at the hotel and do my own thing, then drive home the next day. 

Initially he said he’d have to ask his uncle about it, then just changed the subject when I brought it up, so I figured he didn’t want me to go for whatever reason, or his uncle didn’t, and let it go. Then his mom found out the trip was the day after a shift and she suggested I go, which he acted the same way about. 

So the week before the trip, he starts saying that he doesn’t want to go, wishes he could cancel, doesn’t want to be away from us ( we have two kids under three, and he’s on shift for 48 hrs the day after he gets back). I again offered to drive so he could rest on the way, and also because we used to take road trips and have a blast before the kids. He said he’d check with his uncle. I dropped it. His mom called me on Wednesday and brought it up again. I told her I wasn’t going, it’s their thing, and she said that she talked to his uncle and he was fine with it. I didn’t mention this to him, but it kinda (nah, a lot) hurt my feelings. Like I didn’t want to go to the concert or hang out with them even, honestly after being with kids all day every day I would be perfectly happy to take a shower without someone yelling mom and then paint my nails. But then I also think I basically invited myself along on their trip, whether I was trying to be an interloper or not. 

So, AITA? 

kind of inviting myself on a trip with my husband and being a little hurt he said no