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Input: AITA?  I was head hunted by a recruiter three weeks ago about an opportunity high up in the sales team at  a small but reputable company in my industry.  It would be the next step up for me in job level and a bump in pay but come with a lot of travel.  I went through many calls with the recruiter who was excellent and covered the travel portion of the job extremely thoroughly.  The VP who would be my boss flew out to meet me and took my wife and I out to dinner to make sure we were ok with the travel as a family.  They flew me out to their HQ the next week (this week) and went through another round of interviews before they made me an offer yesterday.  

They had a great idea as to what I make now and made a offer about 10-12% above that.  Not exactly what I was hoping for but I was prepared to negotiate a low ball.  I spoke to the recruiter (who was negotiating the offer with me) thanked him for the consideration, informed him I wanted a little time to consider the offer against all options and it would be helpful to know if there was any flexibility in the offer and when they needed an answer back by as the offer letter did not have a expiration date.  No date was given but he said there was flexibility and we agreed to talk again in the morning.  

We spoke this morning around 10.  I told him given the amount of travel and home life impacts my wife and I agree we were both looking for more money to make the time away worth it.  I was prepared to accept a good offer but the +10% offer was at the extreme low end of my expectations.  I felt there was an extra 5-10% on the table.  Keep in mind this is for a high level sales position, speaking with the VP of sales through the recruiter.  We end the call with the recruiter going back to the VP.  At 12:30 I get an email from the HR rep who emailed the offer letter the day before closing the offer because it appears the travel is too much for me.  

Am I the Asshole?

taking two days to consider a employment offer