Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I have had these feelings for a while now that I don't feel happy anymore and I need some time to find myself before settling down for real. I love her but o honestly think we are better off as friends as most the time I feel annoyed or irritated when she pushes me to be more affectionate. She is very clingy which drives me insane, no matter how many times I tell her nothing changes. Her grandpa just got diagnosed and is starting treatment and with her family being about 3 and a half hours away, I am her only support. If we do breakup, I will have to move out leaving her on her own with all that stress. I love her but it's not fair to her that I am not invested in the relationship anymore. Am I the asshole? 

wanting to break up with my gf even though her grandpa has cancer and I am her only support right now