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Input: A bit of background: my girlfriend is a university student who gives private lessons to support herself and make a bit of money. For various reasons, she failed some exams and now she needs to catch up. She really wants to be done by the end of September, but she needs to take a lot of exams, and after that she wants to travel for a bit, so she has been giving more and more lessons per week to save up, and on top of that she has university lectures, so she is busy about 8 hours a day which, as you might imagine, doesn't give her all that much time to study for the exams that are coming up. Also, we live far away from each other so the whole conversation was through text. 

Yesterday I was texting my girlfriend and she was telling me for the 100th time about how tired she was and how she did not study enough, but I also knew that she had just finished a two hour lesson with one of her "students", and that she had already done at least 10-12 hours this week.

I decided to be upfront with her and tell her that she could not go on this way, and that she was turning her side gig into an actual part time job, and that now she needs to focus on her exams because that is the important thing, and because she has already put aside enough money, so she is just burning herself out. 

I knew this was a very touchy subject because she isn't really well off (but she definitely has enough to sustain herself), and she had already told me that she did not want me to tell her that she is working too much, but I hate seeing her this tired, and at the same time not studying enough. I am really worried that she might hurt herself and not pass all the exams that she has to take, and decided to tell her what I though even though it would hurt her.

As I expected, she was hurt by my comment and told me that she needed time alone, and that she would text me later. She still hasn't texted me and I'm getting nervous, so was I the asshole for telling her what I thought? 

telling my girlfriend she is working herself out