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Input: **TLDR: Asked an old fling out on a date as I'm single and just thought "Doesn't hurt to ask, maybe she's also single", her roommate then messages me saying leave her alone and I'm "interrupting her growth"...?**    
 

* Here is the exchange with the Fling and I: https://imgur.com/a/3dPm0GX

 
* Here is the exchange with the fling's roommate and I (PD=high school reunion): https://imgur.com/a/4G6kOPc

Some background, I'm a male, 27, studying to be a CFP, own my own home, and own a luxury car (not bragging by any means, but this is why I am so confused at the roommate's accusation) Fling is 22/23F, never went to college and works at an antique mall (no judgement, I've been there!). Fling's roommate is 19ish(?) also never went to college, works in a small kitchen (again, no judgement). Fling and I had a thing for a few weeks, first date SHE made the move to kiss. Later in the week we go to the park and walk around holding hands, make out some more blah blah. Next week we go back to her place, cuddling in bed, one thing leads to another I go down on her only. She's never seen me without a shirt lmao. A day or two later she mentions she can't see me anymore, moving way to fast (even though she made the moves), she's not in the right head space to date or even be physical. Sure no worries, I date a fair amount so I understand. 

Flash forward like 2-3 weeks after the falling out, I ask her if she'd like to meet up for a casual date and just see how it feels. "I can't I'm seeing someone. #wut So almost two weeks ago you can't imagine dating and you freak out and bail, and here you are SEEING someone (I emphasize "seeing" as if her and this dude weren't serious she could have gone out and been honest "I'm actually talking to another guy" etc). Very strange. But again, whatever, life y'know?

Now the screenshots linked about come into play. There is about a 5mo difference between the "I'm seeing someone" and my initial invite to the homecoming event. Also note the roommate messaged me almost 3 HOURS later. So if it was that big of deal why not tell me sooner? 

Am I an asshole? I feel blindsided by the roommate's response. Especially the part about me interrupting her growth, while without being cocky, feel like being in a "better" life position, would if anything being HELPING her grow. She is literally me 5 years ago: anxiety ridden, no college, working jobs on the "lower" end, money crazy tight, etc. I get it! I find(found? lol) her attractive both physically and mentally. I would loved to have been a guiding hand to her finding more and more success. I understand Fling has real bad anxiety, but if she was so distraught could she not just block me? (I am currently unblocked by both btw) 

Any advice or insight into what I did wrong and how to better handle myself in the future would be greatly appreciated!

asking an old fling out