Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So tonight I had a heated argument with my gf of one year about my decision to adopt a dog. She was very angry about the fact that I hid this from her until tonight, and that I was "changing the plans of our relationship".
     Apparently she had it set in her mind that we would move in together very shortly, and having a dog prevented us from doing that. She has a lease on an apartment that runs through next year, and dogs aren't allowed in them.
      I explain to her that I can raise the puppy at my parents place and we can move in to a dog friendly place next year. This isn't good enough for her and she gets really upset about the fact that I have to spend more time at home, rather than living with her at her apartment.
       I already spend about half the time at her place anyway, so it's not like we never see each other. I would expect a 4:3 split
 of staying at home and raising dobby versus staying with her to be fair. She says I'm valuing a dog more than her. I try to explain that its just another year than we can live together, but she's set in stone on her plans. I think she's being stubborn and unflexible. AITA?

getting a dog without telling my gf