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Input: I’ve been involved with my current girlfriend for about 3 months now. She has a one year old daughter whom I respect &amp; even adore, however I can’t shake the fact that I am absolutely NOT a kid person. 

I knew of her daughter before we got together, in fact she mentioned being worried it would make me no longer interested in her when she first told me, which I thought was silly despite my distaste for children because thinking back on it at the time, I kept myself open to the possibility of dating someone with a child (or children) regardless, AND I have always said, if I were to ever have a child, I would want to have a daughter.

Now we’re 3 months in, and she is very clearly super family oriented, and I am the complete opposite. Recently she brought up wanting to have another baby, and was disappointed to hear that my reaction wasn’t very supportive. (I was supportive of her decision, but I made it clear that that wasn’t something I personally was ready for). Even more recently, she complained about feeling like there was some kind of “barrier” between myself and her daughter. 

I try my hardest to be nice, and show some kind of affection towards her daughter, and sometimes it doesn’t even feel forced, but most times it does to be honest just because well...I just plainly am not a kid person. I don’t have whatever it is needed in me to interact with children, and to be completely honest I find them to be a bother most times. Knowing this, I feel sorta like an asshole because I came into this knowing she had a child, knowing I can’t stand children, and now I’m unsure of where this relationship could even go if I can’t learn to be more of a kid person or more family oriented.

So, am I the asshole for even starting this relationship? Should I try to become more of a kid person, or is that even possible? 

being with a woman who has a child, considering I'm not a very child friendly person