Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Me and my girlfriend have been together over 3.5 years. We started dating right after high school and most of the time it has been long distance. I was watching porn while away at college and forgot to delete it off my phone and she found it. 

I told her that it was because she wasn’t around while I was at school, but her reaction was that she felt she wasn’t good enough for me and she felt “cheated on”. Am I the asshole for telling her that she is overreacting and it’s not a big deal?

telling my girlfriend she is overreacting