Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I'm a decent looking guy but, as most guys I've spoken to seem to also experience, have exceptional trouble with online dating. Girls want to take things slow, mysterious, play games, idk. I love women, I really do but it gets very frustrating when my friends advice is: "Take it slow but not too slow, overt but not too much so." My depression is also pretty bad that I often don't leave the house much + I work from home and work long hours.

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It's also been 9 ish months since my ex and I of 2.5 years broke up and I still feel pretty fucked up over it. I crave the comfort I felt with her and still miss her everyday thinking about all the mistakes I made. I'm looking to move past but it's hard some days.

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Anyway, this brings me to the AITA. I downloaded Grindr and realized how quickly things work with guys. The conversation flows much easier, they're straightforward with what they want while also always respecting boundaries. I can't develop attraction for men but I have met up with them. It leaves a complete hole in me every time I do it but because I don't get chased/complimented/desired by women as easily, I keep going back. I don't enjoy the sex, I don't enjoy the conversations, nothing about men attracts me yet I still do it and I don't know why. I can hook-up with a guy who's super attractive and he'll call me attractive but attractive women don't come anywhere near me.

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So AITA for leading on some men? AITA for using men for comfort and then ghosting when I realize it's wrong or I've had enough? Idk what I'm doing and while I don't want to hurt people, I know I've definitely already hurt a few who thought they could turn me gay.

seeking comfort from gay men