Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My niece is visiting from out of town for a few days.  When I first saw her at the airport, I thought it was my sister.  It’s surreal how much she looks like her.

So I told her that she looks like her mom, and my niece was... horrified?  She said, “But I don’t want to look like her!”

Over the course of the visit, a couple of times I repeated my observation, and she denies any resemblance every time.

The reason I put horror in quotes is because my niece could be possibly pretending to be upset at the resemblance because she thinks it’s funny.  I have a hard time gauging whether she’s being serious or not.

In any case, the more she protests, the more I want to remark on the resemblance.  So even though she’s acted whatever way she acted, I still do it.

I wish this went without saying, (but unfortunately you have to specify nowadays), but my sister’s not abusuve or anything.  She’s actually a great mom.  So it isn’t because my niece hates her mom or anything that she’s saying she doesn’t want to look like her.

AITA?

telling my niece she looks like my sister