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So I [26M] love my girlfriend [24F] and she’s awesome. Things are generally good between us.


However, my girlfriend gets drunk 1-3 times per week every week, and honestly, I do NOT like drunk her. Sometimes dunk her is just annoying and unreasonable, and other times, drunk her is straight up confrontational and mean. Either way, I don’t like drunk her. At all.


She always starts drinking intending on having 1-3 drinks, but then it always spirals into getting very drunk, often to the point of blacking out. We’ve talked about it and she knows I don’t like drunk her, and she said she’d cut back. She’s even admitted she thinks it’s a problem because sometimes she feels that she needs to get drunk to be able to cope with the stress of her job. So she agreed to curtail her drinking. But lo and behold, she’s with her family at thanksgiving and completely plastered, and sending me obviously drunk, pissy sounding texts. The usual.


The thing is, both of our dad’s are functioning alcoholics. They both drink quite heavily to stay “happy” because they can’t confront their own shit, yet they still hold down decent jobs and live a mostly normal life. But the thing is, I don’t want to be with someone like that. And if my gf can’t curtail her drinking, this is not going to work.


Tl;dr: Would I be the asshole if I asked her to stop drinking altogether, or else we’re through?

asking my girlfriend to stop drinking entirely