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Input: I'm on moblie sorry for bad formatting.

So heres some backstory, I met a guy in my first year of high school. Over the course of that year I realized I loved them, maybe too much to the point of obsession I can admit. But at the same time, they were my best friend. Probably the closest person to me. Now let's go back 5 years ago, I started dating a girl who would eventually become my girlfriend. She's amazing, pretty, funny, and she loves me. Not too long ago I realized it's pretty fucking stupid to keep hanging out with someone that potentially destroy your relationship, so after a 2 hour phone call of crying, silence, and just pitiful behavior. My friend and I both agreed if I really cared about my girlfriend I had to stop talking to them and get over him. So we're here now, and a last week I was talking to a old friend who goes, "Oh yeah (ex best friend's name) asked me what your new number is and is trying to talk to you." I immediately freeze up and hit with a rush emotions I was really not prepared for. And I'm honestly thinking of calling him. But I don't want to hurt my girlfriend. Am I the asshole?

missing my friend who I was in love with