Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My(27F) girlfriend's(F35) mother is extremely opinionated and I can only take so much of it. When they get together they bully others and me a little and tag team her mother's opinion so she's right. My girlfriend changes and becomes the mini-me of her mother. 

She wants me to take 5 days off to be with her but won't take the days off to spend time with my family in another state. 

Would I be the asshole for wanting to drop her off and not be around her or her mother for the holiday as its mentally exhausting? 

not staying at my girlfrienda mothers house over the new year