Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My family (my husband and my two kids, age 3 and 5) live in the same city as my husband's sister and her family (her, her husband, their 2 kids, age 6 and 9).   My older son (5), and my nephew (6) are really good friends. However my nephew and my little guy (3) don't get along at all and when the three boys are together it's constant fighting, and it's really annoying/a lot of work. 

My in-laws live about a 5 hour drive away.  All the grand kids absolutely love going to visit their grandparents.  When either family goes to visit the grandparents, we sometimes offer to take the other family's kids with us (but not always).  I'm taking my kids to visit my in-laws for a weekend.  I wouldn't normally go without my husband, but he has a huge reno project he's working on at our house, and he needs us out of the house for the weekend.  I get along super well with the in-laws, so no worries there.

My niece (the 9 year old) is busy in activities all weekend, but I know that my nephew doesn't have anything planned and usually ends up just driving his sister around all weekend.   We fairly often take my nephew for the day, when we're at home.  

It seems obvious that I would offer to take my nephew with me the weekend I go to the grandparents.  I just really don't want to!  I know it's selfish.  It's one more kid to look after, there will be constant fighting between him and my youngest, and I just want the time alone with my kids.  On the other hand, my oldest son would love it, and so would my nephew. .

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WIBTA if I don't offer to bring him?

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not bringing my nephew with me to his grandparents house