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Input: A couple of days ago, I asked my brother to take me to the grocery store because I was out of all of the kitchen essentials. I don’t have a car and the store I needed to go to is about 2 miles away. Normally, two miles isn’t much for me and I usually just choose to walk it, but there were so many things that I needed to buy, there would be no way for me to carry it all back. 

My mom arranged for my brother to come pick me up, and he honked at me to come down when he arrived and waved at me to come down quickly, so I did. At this point, I should probably mention that my brother has ZERO sense of time and it’s one of the things that frustrates the people around him to no end. No matter who is in the car, no matter what their schedule is, he will spend at the very least 15 minutes on Facebook on his phone, and it can sometimes be up to two hours. He can’t put his phone down for more than a few minutes at a time and it’s a terrible habit of his. Even after spending time on FB with the car parked, he can’t help but check it while he’s driving, too. I’ve prevented multiple accidents by being his eyes when he wasn’t paying attention.

So, I gave him some time. But after about 15 minutes, I realize that this might take longer than expected, and I really did need to get the shopping done and out of the way. I know, and everyone who knows him \*knows\* that there’s a possibility that he can keep you with him in the car for hours, so I finally said, “Dude, I really gotta \*go\*.”

I’ll admit, I could have been more polite, but he interpreted me saying this as being aggressive and he got pissed. Retorted back with, “I’m the one doing YOU a favor, I’ll take as long as I want, you’re not a goddamn queen!” I replied back with the fact that if I agreed to take someone somewhere at a specified time, I would finish up whatever I had to do at home (in this case, perusing Facebook) and then leave, because keeping them that long is just as rude and inconsiderate of their time. And that if it isn’t a pressing matter, then the most efficient option time-wise would be to drop me off, stay in the car, and do whatever he wants while I’m shopping. That way, both parties are satisfied. But no, I had to be considerate of his time and get in the car promptly while he just. . . sits there. For who knows how long. 

So, Reddit, in your opinion, who was the asshole in this situation? I don’t feel great about the way I phrased things, and I know he was trying to do me a favor, but I was also on a schedule.

asking my brother to take me to the store, but getting frustrated when he stalled