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Input: I am about to have a baby and have let my family and close friends know that I won't be having any visitors while at the hospital.
I hope, if all goes well, to be there for as short of a visit as possible.  I have a midwife and am going to try to have the baby naturally, which means a release home hours after delivery.
My parents when I told them were not totally on board, but I tried to explain to them that I wanted to be back home as soon as possible, and the time after would be a period of recovery and bonding and breastfeeding so I wouldn't really want visitors at that point.
Today my brother came over and told me my dad had phoned him and told him how heartbroken he was that they weren't allowed to be at the hospital for the birth.  And that my parents had said how this would affect our relationship moving forward.  I responsed that I thought it was pretty selfish of them to feel that way. 

I am a health care provider and have a really hard time turning off my caregiver switch.  It's hard for me to focus on my self and not worry about about how others are handling things.  My mother is also more on the high strung side of things and I can find myself exhausted by her at times.  This is about me safely delivering my child and I should focus solely on that from my point of view.
Am I the asshole here for preventing my parents from being at the birth of their grandchild? 

not wanting visitors at the hospital