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Input: It started back when I was 16. I was in a relationship with a girl who I truly liked, but she was much more conservative in many ways than I wanted to be at the time. During the relationship, I spent time with people from my new job, and our main cause to meet up was to smoke marijuana. None of this was a problem, but eventually my girlfriend and I broke up which led to me spending a lot more time with my coworkers.

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One of the girls at my work was almost the dream girl for an (at this point) 17 year old like me. She was 20 years old, extremely attractive, fun to be with and we got along very well. We talked everyday and she asked me about her problems and I did my best to help. There was definitely some underlying context for a long time but it was extremely platonic, we even slept together at her house without doing anything because it just didn't feel right at the time.

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After a couple months, marijuana started making me act up and made my anxiety come front and centre, whereas before it did the opposite. It was a pretty big part of my life so I was reluctant to give it up because I had really enjoyed it in the past. This is where the context ends and where my fuckup happens. There were 4 of us, with one of our friends driving around and the rest of us were drinking. Near the end of the night, me and the girl were sitting in the backseat holding hands and it was obvious for us that we wanted something more out of the night. By the time it came to drop us off, we had made a discreet plan that I would be dropped off at my house and I would go over to her's "to smoke weed", so as to not make it obvious what we were doing.

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This all happened, and you can probably tell where this is going. We smoked, went back to her room, and did the deed. I was extremely uncomfortable the whole time and I wished I could be anywhere but there. This was my also first time having sex without a condom, and I had no idea about her history so this only added to my anxious feelings. Eventually we finish and clean up and I left right away without so much as an explanation.

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After this I didn't message her at all, and gave simple replies to her. We still saw each other at work, but I could not begin to explain how extremely uncomfortable the whole situation made me. She sent me a long message eventually that I just ignored and went to work without a care and was surprised when her friend asked me why I never responded. For the next couple months we only talked when we were out and drinking and she wanted to know how I could've done what I did, but I had too much pride to really explain how awful the situation was for me.

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So, what do you think? Was I the asshole?

ghosting a close friend after uncomfortable sex