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Input: Background: Me - 34f; SO- 44m, my son- 5m; stepson- 15m. 

My SO annoys me because he’s a lot harder on my kid, who is only 5, than his own. They both do similar things because my son looks up to him, yet the 15 yr old doesn’t get in trouble for being loud, leaving his garbage everywhere, and being rude. My son gets in trouble for the smallest things, like talking to much. Everyone has seen and noticed this and I’ve brought it up to the SO, but he just shrugs it off.  He’s also really negative and acts pissy all the time but denies it. Example - he’ll open the fridge to get the milk but it’s pushed to the back of the shelf. He’ll heave a huge sigh and mutter under his breath and slam things around. But if anyone says anything, he denies it or ignores them. He does little things like this constantly. 

This afternoon, we’d all just taken naps because we got up early to see a movie - it’s cheaper that way. We were sitting in the living room and my son came out of his room to show me something he built with his legos. Stepson was sprawled all over the living room floor so my son had to step over him to get to me. In doing so, he accidentally stepped on the dog’s paw. The dog squeaked a bit. Stepson starts yelling at my kid about stepping on the dog. So I looked at stepson and said in a slightly raised voice “Stop yelling and calm the frick down.” After which my SO turns to me and growls, “You shouldn’t be talking! You’ve been in a pissy mood all weekend!” I haven’t, I’ve been in a fine mood and I’m thinking he just said that as a rebuttal for me chastising his golden child. I’m basically not allowed to chastise his son, but he’s allowed to yell at mine even though I’ve told him not to. His son broke my hand once out of irritation but I wasn’t allowed to say or do anything and I never received an apology. Try talking to him about it and he usually gets mad and turns it around on me. Every time we have an argument, he plays the victim because when I tell him the things he does that are upsetting, he says I’m calling him “evil and abusive” and it “totally changes” his view of himself. If that’s true and you see how what you’re doing is bad, then why are you still doing it? Just so irritated with all of this. When I’m told I’m doing something upsetting, I make an effort to stop doing that thing. I feel like I am putting in tons of work into this relationship and he isn’t. 

Edit: He might have thought I was crabby because he tends to make snide comments about things like dishes not being done, floor needing vacuumed, etc. So I mentioned the fact that he can do those things too. I work 60 hours a week as a nurse and he works maybe 30. 

telling my stepson to calm down