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Input: Alright so a bit of backstory. My fiance and I went through some rough patches a little while ago, and my frustration levels were high. He has this problem with not thinking about how another person could interpret his words, so sometimes he'll say something REALLY offensive and genuinely not mean it that way. I've learned to let a lot of it go, and to try and see what he really meant instead of just jumping to the "he's an asshole" conclusion, but there are a few things he's said that have stuck in my mind, and make me angry just to think about. 

The biggest one is when he said "It's just human nature to cheat!" while we were arguing about why he wouldn't take a job that kept him out of the house. He went on to tell me that he didn't trust "human nature" and thought I would sleep with our mutual roommate (also male) if we were left alone for too long. That one really burns me up. Not only is it SUPER fucking rude and insulting, it's super hypocritical! Our roommate would leave his then-girlfriend at our apartment while I also went to work, leaving my fiance and the girlfriend alone for up to 10 hours a day. He also has cheated on his previous girlfriends, but he was 15 and we're all terrible people at 15. I've never cheated on anyone, and have done nothing to warrant that level of disrespect, but he said it anyway and never really apologized for it. 

IDK am I an asshole for holding onto this for months on end? It feels like I'm doing the "don't you remember when you made me feel bad on December 19th, 2013 at 6:38pm??" thing that bitter housewives do when their marriage is failing.

holding onto things my partner has said