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Input: I apologize if this ended up being too many words!

This came up between my fiance and I over her wrapping presents for me but my sentiments apply to everyone generally.

My fiance had asked me about what kind of paper I wanted my presents to be wrapped in this past Christmas and I told her I've always thought it was wasteful personally to have wrapping paper that you just rip and throw out. I wouldn't mind if she or anyone else just gave a wrapped present to me or if I received one in any other way but if I was being asked about what I would like best my answer would be no wrapping paper at all. 

She got upset at this and I offered alternatives, using a gift bag with some stuffing if she wanted to conceal the gift initially (I figured I could reuse the bag later but didn't say this in the conversation). I said I can understand why other people do and will give a wrapped gift occassionally (I like to use gift bags, or high quality bags or containers that I decorate and feel can be used after taking the gift out) but for me if I'm directly asked what I would like best for a gift that is for me, not wrapping would make me happier.

She said she didn't understand and cried a little, and I honestly couldn't understand what I had said that warranted it (I didn't yell or say any of it in anger and we were not in the middle of a fight). I eventually said I'd give it a shot anyway and she could wrap them. When the time came for me to open then later, I like to open them slowly without ripping the paper if I can and save them for a while as if I do have to receive them I like holding onto them for a while fo appreciate the effort someone took in wrapping it. 

She commented on how long it was taking the whole time and offered to rip it for me which I declined. This led into another conversation about present wrapping and holidays ( she likes holidays more than I do but I make efforts to meet in the middle, like not going out valentine's day but planning a whole weekend away at a romantic cottage the next week) and I said what I already said in a calm manner and she got upset and cried again saying how she thought I was cold and mean and and an asshole about not being in the holiday spirit. I said I thought the holiday was about making others happy with your gifts and that included giving it to then in a way that was most comfortable for them.

AITA for not just accepting this and getting into this wrapped present spirit? I felt I was missing something during both conversations as I was just so surprised by her reaction, her replies only being about how wrapping presents is how she always did Christmas and she didn't like this difference with me.

TLDR: Fiance gets upset with me about not liking presents wrapped when asked, I agree to let her wrap them she doesn't like the way I unwrap them.

not wanting people to wrap my presents