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Input: I’ve recently been in a new relationship of about a month and a half. I live in a different state than her due to her being in school, and me not being in school. I text her all the time, we FaceTime every so often, we are trying to make it work.

Anyways last night I had work. I had not texted her during work because, well, frankly I’m busy doing work lol. My managers don’t like seeing my phone out, and she doesn’t expect me to text her while at work. After work 2 friends I had not seen in a month and 2 friends I see regularly invited me over to their place. We were going to smoke. I told my gf that this was happening and after that I didn’t text her until I left the house which was about 2.5 hours after. Note she had also not texted me. She had fallen asleep by the time I had reached out to her.

This morning she was livid, telling me that she is not my #1 priority, and that the evidence shows from one night of me not texting her while at a friends house.

I explained to her that while she is my #1 priority, my friends also deserve my full attention when I am with them. I am not going to be texting her 24/7, it is simply not possible, and I am not capable of having a text conversation and a real one with friends while maintaining my focus. I would be all over the place and it would cause me stress.

AITA for ignoring her for one night?

Reading this back it seems silly but fr am AITA?

not texting my girlfriend while with my friends