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Input: TL;DR at the bottom. My apologies for the book that I'm about to write, but there were a lot of events that happened leading up to the situation. 

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So I've been trying to plan a trip to Europe in May with a couple friends for the past month. I invited my boyfriend because we've been wanting to travel together more too. However, this last Saturday my friend, who's also been tracking flights to Japan, found flights for nearly half the price of what they usually go for AND it would also be during prime cherry blossom season in March. She ran it past me as something to think about, but ended the call with a heavy implication that her and my other friend (a couple) would most likely be opting out of the Europe trip and doing Japan instead. I wasn't against the idea since both Europe and Japan were desireable destinations, and I mainly just wanted to be able to travel with my friends. I wake up the next morning to a text saying that they bought the tickets to Japan for March because they wanted to jump on the deal before prices went back up.

During this time I've been filling my boyfriend in on everything that's happened. Both my boyfriend and I are pretty hesitant on getting the Japan tickets because moving the trip up 2 months felt pretty rushed. However, I had pressed the fact that we need to make a decision soon because this deal wasn't going to last much longer. Because they're my friends and I was a little more willing to take the leap and buy the flight, my boyfriend suggested that I just work something out with my friends first, and if he can make it, he'll join too.

I explain the situation to my friends who had already bought the tickets and ask if they can move their flight to Japan to May so that it could better align with my bf's and my schedule a little better. After some back and forth, we agreed on mid April. I buy the flight with them and it turns out that we were all able to get the same flights so it was pretty ideal.

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I tell my boyfriend that my friends and I all booked the same flights to Japan, and he should really try to get his flights asap as well so that he can get the same flight back with us (he's joining for the second half, and will be arriving separately) because we don't know how long they're going to be available and for this cheap. He says that he's going to do it tomorrow (Monday) because it was pretty late and he had just gotten home from a flight.

Monday morning comes around, and I check the flight prices. I let the bf know of a few options where the flights are still cheap and hopefully last, but naturally bc it's work hours, he's busy with work. He suggests that we figure it out after work bc he's got his hands pretty full. After work, we look at flights, but unfortunately the ones that would have had the same flight back as us are no longer available (other options still have decent deals). 

My initial reaction was to blame him for not getting the tickets earlier like I was suggesting when I had said to get them asap. And so I was quick to point my finger at him. He got pretty hurt by it because from his perspective it was out of his control - he was really tired getting back home from his flight at around midnight, there was a lot of work stress during the day, and neither of us could have anticipated the flights selling out that fast.

However, I just couldn't get the idea out of my head that it was his own fault for taking so long even though there were external factors at play. We got into an argument, and he suggested that he should just opt not to go anymore because it felt like I didn't want him to go with how I was blaming him. To him, it felt like he was just an add-on to the trip, one, because they're primarily my friends, and two, he'd be flying in and out by himself, rather than being with the group for at least the return flight. I felt bad because this hasn't been the first time where I made him feel second to my friends and that he wasn't as important. 

Eventually I decided to cancel my flights with my friends so that I could fly back with my boyfriend. I chose a flight where I would still arrive around the same time as my friends, but I would have to fly by myself there in order to get the same flight with the bf back. After cancelling and making the change, he felt bad that now, for my trip with my friends, I won't be able to fly with them. And he felt as though he has negatively impacted the trip I was planning with my friends because I won't be able to fly with them. However what's done is done and I'm just glad that I get to travel with some of my favorite people. 

AITA for blaming him initially? Because after taking a step back knowing that he gets pretty sensitive with this kind of stuff, and that there's a lot of stress going on in his life currently, I felt like it was pretty asshole-ish of me. I'm just trying to get an a less biased perspective.

TL;DR Told bf to get cheap flights asap. Bf got preoccupied with work and life and ended up missing out on them. I blamed him for missing out on it bc I told him to get them asap but he didn't.

blaming my S.O. for not booking flights in time