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Input: Hello again read it I’m bad with a slightly less sexual topic this time. I imagine this will might be split along gender lines for some reason but here we go. 


Am I the asshole for not caring that my wife doesn’t know what she wants to eat. Let me explain whenever my wife wants me to cook for dinner or take her out to a restaurant she never knows what she wants or where she wants to go. I get answers like oh whatever you want or oh make anything. Until I actually decide on something then she doesn’t want that.

This is been something that is been happening daily for the last seven years. Until recently I decided to stop caring. Now when she asked me to cook for her but she doesn’t know what I just walk away and say “let me know when you do” then go play video games. Now when she doesn’t know what restaurant she wants to go to, no problem luckily I know exactly what restaurant I want to go to and I walk right inside.

No I personally feel great she however is becoming more and more irritated at the fact that I don’t play the well what about this, well what about that, well what about here, well what about their, game with her anymore. Also I’m getting to eat a lot more of the food I like :). 

I wouldn’t mind so much if when she said whatever you want it actually meant whatever I want instead of let me shoot down your ideas for the next 30 minutes. 

not caring that my wife doesn't know what she wants to eat