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Input: First off sorry. This is my first post and I'm on mobile. 

Anyways, for as long as I (M20) can remember I have hated my birthday. I dont know what it is exactly but I'm pretty reserved and dont like attention so I'm sure that's most of it. Every year I ask my family if we can do nothing for it, and every year I am told to stop "being difficult" and then they do what they want. 

This year my parents are semi-recently divorced (couple of months) and now it's just my mother getting on me about it. I've been a little nicer about it this year because she has been feeling down but I am still asking that nothing be done. I'd still go home to see everyone but I just dont want anything else to be done.

I live in a different state as the rest of my family so I don't physically see my family a lot so all of the background I had to hear from my brothers. And now I've been getting texts/calls about how im an asshole for continuing my "shtick" about not doing anything for my birthday.

Obviously I feel for both of my parents right now and I can see why my brothers have been angry, But am I really an asshole for this? 

hating my birthday