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Input: So I (22f) slept with someone about a year ago. They gave me genital herpes. I later learnt that they knew they had herpes but didn't think it was important to tell their partners. 

So fast forward to a few weeks ago. I met a guy (25m) and we start talking, we flirt over text a bit and we decide to meet up. Before anything happens I tell him I have herpes and give him something information on it, I also give him a couple of websites so he can do his own research if he wants to. I'm on anti-virals, always use protection and never have sex curing/immediately after an outbreak. 

As you can guess, he catches herpes. This was always a risk, I told him this more than once, I even gave him a few days between telling him and us hooking up so he could research/let it sink in. I also told him explicitly that it was cool if he didn't want to have sex anymore.

Anyway, he calls me up and tells me, well he shouts it at me. I understand he's upset but he's saying really awful things about me, blaming me for what happened. I try and calm him down 'cause I know they actual worst thing about herpes is when you first have it and you suddenly feel very dirty.

He calls me up multiple times to shout at me and call me names. At one point he asks me how is he going to tell his family (why???). After he calls me a diseased whore I tell him that I'm going to block his number if he doesn't stop and he says I should take responsibility for what I've done. I hang up, send him some forums for people with herpes so he can have people to talk to and block him.

I spoke to a friend (she doesn't know him, didn't give her any details about him) and she says I should be more sympathetic 'cause it was kind of my fault?

I feel like I did everything in my power to keep him informed and that ultimately it was his choice, the only other thing I can really do is not have sex with anyone unless they know their status which like 90% of people don't.

AITA?

not feeling guilty for giving someone herpes