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Input: Okay, so, backstory: I volunteer with a youth organization. This weekend, we conducted a physical fitness test to help the youth in the unit I mentor complete a requirement. There were several siblings (non-members) present, along with parents, most of whom either stayed out of the way or just followed along off to the side. They did a 1-mile run, crunches, a sit-and-reach, and pushups. If the siblings participated and weren't in the way, the adult leaders basically ignored them or gave them their results if they asked.

Now, for the "Am I the asshole?" moment. We had 6 mats for 6 youth (the members of the unit). One of those siblings parked themselves in the middle of the group exercise area as we prepared for the pushup exercise, and when asked to move by their sister, who is a member of the unit, so that she could use the exercise mat he was sitting on, made it fairly clear that he wasn't moving and she would have to wait. She's not great at standing up for herself, so after I let the exchange happen, I stepped in and told him to move, because she was part of the group doing the exercise.

He apparently ran off to find his parents and told them that one of the adults told him he couldn't do the exercise (at least, this is how it was explained to me). After the adult in question (me) was identified by the parents by their wandering around and asking the leaders if they had told their son he needed to leave, this prompted a brief "How dare you speak to my child like that?" interrogation, to which I explained that I told him to move because we're here to help the youth who are, in fact, members of the group, and that if he wanted to do the exercise, we could make that happen, when the group was done. There was no yelling, there was no malice, there was no "Go away, kid, you're not welcome here", just a, in my view, polite, "You're in the way of someone who is here to complete the requirement" command to move to a sibling who wasn't part of the activity.

So...am I the asshole? I don't feel like an asshole. I would do the exact same thing to any of the other siblings who were there.

"excluding" a non-member of the group