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Input: Backstory: we are in debt. Paying 25 percent of our income to minimum payments. We have about 10 percent of our income after all bills are paid.  
My wife wants to "enjoy life while she's young" I want to pay off the debt so we can have more money to spend and enjoy. We have no savings and a daughter.  
Last night she asked if she could take money from our date budget (25 a week) to buy pants. I said yes so we go to buy some and she grabs other things so I reminded her that we only have 25 dollars budgeted for it and she got mad and we argued for 2 hours. She pretends like she wants to save but then when time comes she spends whatever she can.  
We made twice as much money as we needed last year and it all disappeared. Through tiny purchases.  
I work 56 hours a week and get paid more than she does. She works 40 hours a week.  
AITA for wanting to not be in debt for the next 6 years?

being "controlling" with our income