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Input: So it’s literally only been 5 days since I was talking to this guy. In my opinion that isn’t even enough days to catch ‘hard feelings’. Keep in mind we have NEVER met either. He wanted our first date to be before he leaves for the navy. He’s in there for 5 years and already served one year.

Today I REALLY thought about it, and I wouldn’t be able to date someone in the navy because of distance. We hardly even know each other and he’s leaving in 2 weeks. And again, only 5 days talking. At first when I started chatting with him I thought I’d be able to do it, but now I realize no, I wouldn’t.

Would I be the asshole to tell him I changed my mind on going on a date with him before he leaves? What I’m worried about to , I’m actually still a virgin at 20 years old and I don’t know if he’d be ‘expecting sex’ on that date because he’s gonna be gone for so long after and I’m not that kind of girl.


I also want to point out he’s a PLAYER, I literally found out he’s been talking to other girls besides me, which I don’t appreciate and at this point I don’t care about his feelings. He can go on a date with one of the others. Am I the asshole?

telling a guy in the Navy that I don't want to go on a date anymore after getting to know him