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My little sister committed suicide a year ago. It's been hard and has caused a lot of emotional tension within my family, but we are slowly working through it with therapy and family/grief counseling. My mother and I went to visit my sister's grave yesterday, but we had a last minute guest: her boyfriend.

Though I hesitate to call him her boyfriend for reasons that will soon become apparent, it is true that he was the last person to see her alive. They did mutually care for one another and spent time together, so it wasn't completely out of the ordinary for him to want to come with us on the eve of her passing. 

However, there are a few things that have further soured my already not-great view of him:

* Despite saying how deeply he cared about her, he says that this is the first time that he has visited her grave since her passing. My family has visited several times over the past year, either as a group or individually/in pairs. He had plenty of chances to join us, or even come on his own.
* They "dated" for only 4 months, yet says that he "knew her better than anyone". He says this in front of a mourning mother and a brother that not only spent a good portion, if not their entire, life with her. Taking her to and from counseling, hospitals, police stations, and so on.
* I say "dated" because he convinced her to leave her boyfriend to be with him. He also impregnated her, which she later miscarried. I cannot know for sure if this had any impact on her final decision. 

There are other things that have led me to my negative view of him that I won't get into for the sake of brevity. However, my mother wishes to continue inviting this man into our life and home. I can only assume that this is because he is the last person to see my sister alive. From what I understand, it wasn't anything of note, nothing extraordinary, he was just as shocked as we were. However, given his attitude and his role in my sister's life, I want nothing to do with him and would rather him not bother my family again. I have encouraged my mother to talk to her therapist about this, as I don't want her to become codependent on him. And maybe I'm being paranoid or cynical, but I don't want this guy to try and take advantage of my family.

I'm dreading the next time she invites him into our home because she will see how not-thrilled I am, will ask why, and will invariably becomes upset if I tell the truth because I'm denying her the opportunity to indulge in what I think is something potentially unhealthy. 

I know she misses her daughter. I miss my sister. 

Am I The Asshole?

not wanting to hang out with the last person that saw my sister alive