Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: We're all 19/20 years old.

My 'friend' is/was my best friend, but I don't call her that because my girlfriend has easily surpassed that now and it feels wrong. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 7 months. She's had 2 ex boyfriends. This is my first serious relationship.

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I've know my friend for 4 years. After a few months I developed a crush that was on and off for \~1 year. She lives interstate and my crush was only apparent when I saw her which was rare, otherwise I felt nothing. The feelings were mutual but we didn't know until she admitted it \~2 years into the friendship. At this point I was over my feelings so we talked about it and both agreed nothing would happen. This was well before I met my girlfriend. Nothing has changed and if anything it has made us better friends - it's isn't awkward at all. Our relationship has always been based on friendship, my intention was never to get in her pants or be with her, it was a harmless crush. We've never even so much as kissed or flirted with each other. Our conversations essentially just consist of general conversation or asking for advice/ranting about things, and we only talk a few times a week. She's a big part of my life, but not my day to day life.

Early into the relationship with my girlfriend I told her briefly about the situation because it was relevant to something and I thought nothing of it. In hindsight that was pretty stupid but what's done is done.

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It's an awkward situation and I'd feel uncomfortable if it was reversed and I'm not saying her feelings are invalid, but I literally find it unfair the way she compares it. She views my friend as an ex. She said it's the same as if she was still friends with her ex, or *even a guy she hooked up with.*

I just think it's bullshit because we've never had a romantic, or sexual connection and we have no romantic feelings attached to any shared memories. I can' fathom how this is the same as being friends with an ex and I'm upset she even compared it to that because I feel like she can use this as justification for getting back in contact with someone like that.

I've NEVER prioritised my friend over my girlfriend and never will. 

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AITA for not understanding, and disagreeing heavily with, her point of view?

disagreeing heavily with my girlfriends point of view