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Input: A bit long, TLDR at the bottom.

A little bit of context, I am a very straight forward person who says what I mean without second thoughts (so essentially filterless - I know this is a problem and I actively work on biting my tongue). Regardless, my gf is a self-prescribed “people pleaser” except is seems to me that she just constantly tries to go the path of least resistance.

So lately my gf will do things that if reciprocated I feel would highly offend her. The latest example happened recently. 

I had a friend and his gf coming into town and we talked about all of us hanging out. The day before my friend comes into town she tells me her friend from out of town is coming in and that she wants to spend time with her and their hs friends, nbd. But my gf says that they are planning on going to a bar near where I live and I say that I’ll see if I can convince my friend and his gf to go. At first they don’t want to but after a few drinks they’re down for a night out so I tell my gf we’re going to the bar they’ll be at.

I told her we got to the bar and were hanging out waiting for her and her friends. After a while, she tells me that she can’t come because her friends don’t want to go to the bar (she told me in the first place it was her friends idea to go to the bar I was at) and that she couldn’t possibly convince a whole group to go to the bar they were originally planning on going to.

She showed up for a few minutes later but promptly left because of her friends.

I was happy she came, but also upset that this is a continuing pattern.

AITA for wanting my gf to keep her word/spend time with me when she says she will?

TLDR; GF seems to have trouble keeping her word with me and it feels like she doesn’t prioritize our relationship based on her actions of having no backbone to tell her friends she wants to be with her bf.

getting upset with my gf when I try to accommodate her