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Input: It was her birthday yesterday. I am an artist so I was planning on making something special for her, and buying something small. I also made her Brownies and cupcakes yesterday.

Today she said "I know the perfect gift! A charger for my laptop, which broke down a couple days ago, it's about 20 to 30€."

I said "cool, you wanna split it?"

She got mad, and said "wow, are you serious? I bought you a 30€ gift 2 years ago and you only gave me a painting which costed 0€. You spend your money on (...) but don't wanna spend it on your best friend? I know enough 🖐🏻" (sassy emoticon included)

I replied, and explained, that she IS worth more than 20€ to me, and that if I saw a gift I thought suited her I wouldn't look at the price. But straight out buying her something she needs, completely taking the idea of a gift away, for 30€, I find that expensive. Cause it's a need, like groceries and rent.

It just felt like "buy this for me cause you have to because you're my best friend". Also the fact that she didn't appreciate the painting I made for her because it didn't cost any money, that hurt. And Im only hearing this now. I spent a lot of time and effort on that painting, I put my love into it.

Besides this all my mother is dying right now and I am not happy at all. She knows this. But she got mad at me for not spending x amount of money on her. I was in class, got her text, I had to leave. I was so sad instantly because I don't want to dissapoint nor lose her as a friend, but I feel like she has her priorities somewhere else.

I told her this, that I understand her view but the way she said it made me hurt, and she has not replied yet. Knowing her she's probably pissed off and I'll get a long paragraph on what I did wrong later today. I don't stop thinking about things like this. 

Am I in the wrong? I do think she deserves the money, I would give it to her if I knew it meant so so much to her, but I personally don't think I Have to in order to be a good friend. I would not care at all if she told me 20€ is her max for a gift for me. I mean, she didn't even give me a gift for my birthday this year.

Sorry for the rant, I really hope to get some opinions so I can clarify to her what I meant exactly without using the wrong words, and understanding this from someone else's perspective. Because she is special to me and I want to solve this problem. 

saying 20€ is the max I want to spend on my best friends gift