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Input: So for some clarity, the name of my roommate and most people in this will be changed for the sake of annonimity in this, since I live with multiple and it will get confusing at some point.

This event happened a few months ago, but I was invited to an all paid lunch with my roommate, Samantha, her parents, and her boyfriend, Adam. Having never really interrracted with Samantha's parents before I took the lunch as an opportunity to get to know them.  Since the only time I met them was moving in day in which they largely ignored me and my mother.

The day of the luncheon arrives and we get to a posh, slightly more expensive restraunt that I would never step foot in, but it's a free lunch so I'm not complaining. But I notice that the parents don't attempt to even interact with me as we're waiting for a booth to open up. We get seated after half an hour, in which they still haven't attempted to talk to me. In the 2+ hours we're at the restraunt the parents made no attempt to converse with me (I tried but they brought up really specific topics that I couldn't talk about) the only interaction I got was a 3 second clipped conversation to ask about the menu item I ordered and....that was it. Though I'd notice they made more efforts to include and talk to Adam for the duration of the lunch while I felt like an outsider.

So a day passes and Samantha brings up the events of the lunch to another of roommates who had been away at home.  Samantha tells this roommate that her parents adored Adam, yet felt that he fit right in with me because "I didn't make an effort to talk to her parents during lunch." I was so pissed off, this roommate knew all about what happened during the lunch because I texted her about it prior to her coming back and even cried about the situation because I came to the uncomfortable realization that maybe I'd been treated differently at the luncheon because I was black and Samantha had laughingly brought up on several occasions that her parents held....bigoted views. Thinking this was the only time Samanthat would bring this event up, I just let it go.  Until yesterday, in which I was invited to go see a movie with Samantha, but declined because she brought up the luncheon situation again as the butt of a joke. It just made me pissed off to the point that I didn't think I could comfortably sit in a shove with her and needed time to myself, but felt guilty since it was supposed to be a bonding experience.

After the movie one of my other roommate's informed me that during the event Samantha again brought up the luncheon at least 3 times during the event. Yet again I was pissed off, but quickly felt afterwards that I was being a dick for letting this get to me and allowing it to ruin any bonding experience that I could have with Samantha...yet she always finds an opportunity to bring that luncheon up. AITA for feeling the way I do?

getting upset every time a roommate brings up an awkward lunch with her parents