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Input: Im on mobile and english is not mh native language so sorry if something seems odd with my text.

I live with my wife and we share a flat with her daughter (22F).Lets call her D. The girl claims she has depression ,and bipolar disorder. My wife is always trying to help D but she is very rude all the time , shit talking abouy my wife behind her back then comes to her for asking money and to format her essay (????).

D is a college student and learning psychology.My wife has an older son (24M) lets calk him F.We were sitting around a table and played a card game.D was acting like usual ,being rude to ebmverybody ,shit talking .Out of nowhere she stated that she hates to live here because everything transformed and tried to convince F about it.F said nothing changed , except the living room has a new bed. My wife bought it for us.

My wife is always asking me to NOT confront D because she is mentally ill.Party is over and D goes to the living room to write her essay right before the deadline.Me and my wife was talking about someone and D was listening to our conversation.My wife went to the living room and D started yelling about we are talking about her and teaming up against her.

I walked in and heard D is saying things like "This is why i have to move out because everybody hates me.You hate me too and whispering behind my back and you did that several times" . Actually, no. We wasnt talking about D and never whispered about her especially not when shes close to hear it. 

I got mad because shes manipulating my wife and tries to force her in a situation what is completely made up. D does this because she doesnt like me because before i came she could host house parties and end could use my wife for any purpose amshe wabted to.

I stepped into D's rambling saying :
"Why do think we was talking about you? And why do you act like we are the cause of you have to move out? If youu want to move out because you dont like us , do not try manipulating us and convience us and other people we hated you out the flat because that is not true"

Thats all i sad and my wife looked at me with a "why did u do that" face. D stormed out of the flat and went to F's college dorm and said him she has to move out what is not true because i havent said that.

Am i the asshole?

saaying this to my wife's daughter