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Input: So I can’t fucking stand my little sister, L. We’ve never gotten along and our personalities just do not click. We have a seven year age difference (she just turned 16) so we never really got to like “grow-up” with each other. My mother would ask me to baby sit her all the time and I was told I was in charge, which meant that I was also responsible for making sure L did any chores our mom expected her to do while she was out. The problem was that I would tell her to do them, then she’d act out and either throw a tantrum or physically attack me (she was diagnosed with bi-polar disorder/and schizophrenia at 12) and I would do my best to handle the behavior. Most of the time I’d be able to get her to do her chores, but then as soon as my mom would come home L would immediately go to her and complain that I was mean and bossy and hit her. My mom would yell at me for bullying her despite me telling her EVERY time that L would flip her shit when I asked her to do what she told her to. At one point I gave up and would let L do what she wanted but would remind her of the chores and that mom would be home soon. She wouldn’t do them, mom would come home, see that L’s chores weren’t done, and the proceed to yell at me for not “being responsible” and making sure that L did her chores. This caused a lot of resentment between me and L that has only gotten worse. She’s attacked me physically a few times when she’s had manic episodes (this is when I was in my late teens) and while she was younger and shorter than me she could do serious damage and so I would fight back to defend myself only for my mom to scream that I’m the adult and I can’t touch her. Recently she’s done multiple stints in juvenile detention centers and has been sent to mental rehabilitation facilities (and been kicked out) for her behavior. My mom can’t understand why we hate each other so much and blames me for not trying to mend the relationship and “act like siblings are supposed to.” So I have to ask am I the asshole for hating L and not wanting any sort of relationship with her.

hating my little sister