Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So my friend (F16) has been dating this emotionally abusive guy (M22) since she was 14. The age gap is already weird and creepy but i could look past that if it wasn't for the fact that he's really obsessive, mean, jealous, toxic and treats her like shit most of the time, not to mention he doesn't have a job and dropped out of highschool. 

This relationship has caused me and my friend to drift apart, because any time we would hang out she was on her phone texting hil constantly, because if she didn't reply to him within 5 mins then he would blow up her phone and harass her. i've tried talking her out of it several times but she just won't listen.

Her birthday came around, and we didn't see each other like we usually do, as she was spending the day with, you guessed it, her boyfriend. instead of posting a public "happy birthday" snap on my snapchat story (like i usually do with close friends) i simply texted her "happy birthday ❤️" . She proceeded to act really weird and when i asked her what's wrong, she first ignored me, then she said it felt weird that i congratulated her the way i did. i then explained to her that we aren't as close anymore because of her toxic relationship and that i still think it's dissapointing that she's with him after everything he's done to her and all the countless hours i spent comforting her when she was upset about something he did. She then says that i just don't support her life choices and that she doesn't wanna hear any of this on her birthday. Am i the asshole?

tl;dr : friend who's in toxic relationship didn't think me texting her happy birthday was enough. i proceed to explain that we're not as close anymore because of her toxic relationship and that i don't support it on her birthday.

criticizing my friends relationship on her birthday