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Input: Background: So many of you guys here are probably familiar with girl/guy code (which I’ll just call GC from now on). In case you aren’t  aware GC is the agreement between friends that if a friend has dated someone that someone is off limits. My group of friends decided one day that not only past relationships are covered by GC but also past major crushes. Me and another friend of mind have started calling it “fake girl code” (or FGC) since we both don’t necessarily agree with it. 

Now, my friend (I’ll call her A) had had an on and off crush on my other friend (I’ll call him B) for around two years and never had a romantic relationship with him. Just a few months ago she finally called it quits and claims to be completely over him. She has even rejected him multiple times since then. Recently B and I have been getting closer and ended up catching feelings for each other. Our only issue... FGC.   I was hoping to have a civil discussion with A about it to see if she would be comfortable with it, but history suggests that if I even mention having feelings for B she would cut me off immediately and take ALL of my friends with her. For the time being B and I have both agreed not to act on any feelings. 

Where I am stuck is if I am in the wrong. On one hand I’ve always been a total believer that no guy is worth losing a friend. But on the other hand A has been a really bad friend lately (purposely not inviting me to things, blowing up on me the second i say something mildly wrong, etc.) and B makes me really happy. 

So here’s where the question lies... am I the Asshole for wanting to have a relationship with B? 

TL;DR: AITA for wanting to date my friends ex-crush (never dated) 

breaking "fake Girl Code"