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Input: Obligatory I’m sorry I’m on mobile so formatting might be off. Also I’m doing voice to text so just all kinds of fucked up.

So I’m known by my group for having a...bad temper. Often times when my friends piss me off which is quite often. There’s a core group of five of us and at least one person in the whole group pisses me off every time we hang out. I usually turn to one of my other friends in the group the next day and tell him everything that pissed me off that the night of so that way they can either talk me out of being annoyed or tell me how to handle it with the person themselves.I will then turn to the person I was talking about and tell them “hey I was talking to Kathy about this earlier and I thought that you should know that I have a problem with whatever you did that bothered me last night.”

I try to keep everything candid just so I can keep a level of honesty with all of my friends. Well it turns out that one of my friends had a problem with this and she said that I put her on blast but I told her she’s always known that I do this because I’ve done it with her being my vent person/filter. Anyway now everybody in the group is mad because I keep A level of candidness that none of them do and they all talk behind each others back’s without telling anybody that they had a conversation with somebody. I don’t know if doing this will make me lose all my friends or make me closer with them and I also don’t know if I’m being an asshole. Help!

TLDR: My friends are mad at me because I tell them the truth about the conversations I have behind their back am I wrong?

telling you "I am talking behind your back"