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Input: Alright so here is some back story,  my husband and I have a mutual friend named Mike. We have known Mike since high school and are both very close to Mike. Mike is normally never the type to ask for help with anything, he is very much a "I can handle it myself" type of person. 

BUT, very shortly after high school he got his gf pregnant. They struggled to pay for the pregnancy alone but now that the baby is born it's even harder. He has been having issues keeping a job and so has she.  A few months ago he called my husband and I and asked to send him gas money because he couldn't even get to work. We sent him gas money and a little extra for food and baby stuff (we live in a different state now so we PayPal). We knew he wouldn't ask unless he really needed it. A little while later we ended up sending a few hundred for some medical expenses. My parents still live near Mike and they heard about the money issues and put together a huge gift basket of baby stuff and $300 in cash. 

Since then Mike only gets in touch with us to ask for money. A few months back he asked for $200 for work boots which we said no to because we didn't have the money. But I'm a little offended that we were so close before and now he only calls to ask for money. I want to help but I also don't want him depending on my husband and I for money everytime he needs it. He even asked about moving in with us to help him save money which...is a no go. Not only will our lease not allow it but 4 adults, a newborn, a dog and 3 cats in a two bedroom apartment would not work. Yet he still insisted we talk to the land lord to work something out.

He asked for money again today and I told my husband no, I wouldn't be okay with giving him any more. I don't want him to change the relationship from friends to using us for money and it feels like that's what's happening. AITA? 

not wanting to give a friend money