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Input: Okay, so I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she has always been wonderful to me. However, she is incredibly introverted and the best way to describe the situation is with the words my therapist used: "/u/DamaruisManeti, you are someone that generally likes people until they give you a reason not to, and even then, redemption is possible. Your girlfriend is someone who generally dislikes people untill they give her a reason to like them."

She likes to complain fairly frequently about people she doesn't like/things that aren't going well with the people she does like and overall has a fairly negative outlook on people that began to wear on me. Even though her complaints are valid (and most of the time, professional/academic issues), they still seem like she has unrealistic expectations of proven lazy/incompetent people.

One day, she complained about how she doesn't really have good friends (except for me) and that she doesn't understand why her "friends" don't prioritize or realize what's going wrong when she talks to them about it. I then broke and told her that her being so negative wears on me and that her having a "holier than thou" attitude just because she didn't tell anyone off today is part of the reason that she doesn't have many friends and not really any close ones. She then called me "naive" for "seeing sunshine and fucking rainbows in everyone."

Things have improved but I think about it a lot and am wondering if I am in fact, the asshole.

telling my girlfriend that she's negative and that many of her problems are possibly her own undoing