Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’ve known this girl, let’s call her Sally, for about 3 years now. She used to live close to me but moved to another state for a job, but we text everyday. Throughout this time she’s graduated with a doctoral degree, went through a residency, got a job, etc. Also through all of this she has complained, incessantly, about anything and everything. She hated her residency, she hates her job, etc. I complain about my own job, too, so I can understand, but it was honestly all day, everyday.

Recently, she had a baby with a guy she knew for about 2-3 months? Since she got pregnant and had the baby, the complaining has gotten 10x worse, and it’s harder to hold my tongue. She doesn’t like something the baby daddy did, she doesn’t like his family, etc. She’s sent me video of her family fighting with the baby screaming in the background. It’s just exhausting because I’m expected to give emotional support and advice what seems like 24 hours a day. If I have any sort of issue that I complain about, she brushes it off.

Anyway, onto the wedding thing. We’re going to a mutual friend’s wedding in May and I feel like I have to continue to be civil until then, because I don’t want to ruin said friend’s wedding with any awkwardness. I just really want to end the friendship, but have no idea what to do since I have to see her in person soon. Would I be the asshole if I just kept things civil then cut off contact? 

being friends with someone until we go to a mutual friend's wedding then ghosting