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Input: Let's call my friend Jack. 
Jack is avg smart. Jack's been in a bit of depression. Jack didn't look for a job for 2 years. He was smoking up every day. Sometime 40 bong shots in a day. (Yes jacks friends have had some competition) but then Jack moved in with me. Jack reduced consumption, but was always high. Minimum 4-7 a day. Jack started borrowing money. After a month or two I decided that I shouldn't encourage his behaviour and asked for the money back. I knew he didn't have, but I still did push him to give him some pressure to start looking for a job. Jack started peddling to make ends meet. I wasn't happy with his decision. In two years Jack applied to 12 places and complained that he's doing his best and I am entitled and Rich and lucky that's why I got a job. I told Jack 4 months in advance I am moving because I spent a lot of time and money on travelling. 
I stopped being nice to him. Well I would always be hard on him. I found out Jack had some terrible stories from his childhood. Assault cases. I didn't know how to help him that way. I am not a very empathetic person. I know pain, but I cannot resonate and help someone else. I'm not a psychiatric. I told jack to get professional help. Jack doesn't believe in docs or probably just a miser or maybe just low on cash. 
I finally move on but Jack threw a big tantrum. A huge fight. He broke a couple of doors also in the process. And told I'm the A for leaving him,  ditching him. And that he gave up a lot to stay here. And I explained to him, that I didn't ask him to stay here jobless. I even encouraged him to move cities or countries to get the job he should take. But I was the A. 
After sometime Jack resumed talking to me. I was still helping him out, during this time I was starting a business with another friend of mine. It was my friends setup and I stayed as a consultant. I called in Jack as he didn't have a job and told him he can join. He took out whatever came in and I told him once we start making money the salary will be fixed and we can keep the rest for the company. It was running out of my friends proprietorship. I thought he could start a career. I told him he has to be professional and cannot bring in friendship and ego into this. It was my expertise the work he was involved in, and mostly he had to check with me on a lot of the work. He made this into a boss vs employee thing and started mentally harassing me always. He would always put me in a tight spot saying friendship boss etc etc. We have had a couple of fights and it was a tense environment. I was still a consultant. He was primarily working and I gave him leads and told him how to get the job done. Jack said he wants to move abroad so I start thinking of alternatives. After the salary thing kicked in he started asking for equity. Considering all the uncertainties I told him I'll give 5% and that eventually we can bring in more. Moreover I wanted a CTO who can build the tech platform and etc. His skill was helping in building sales,  I agree this is important because I also did that many times. But I couldn't weigh it out and with his uncertainties I wasn't sure of giving out too much equity early on. 
I understand that someone can be upset. It's a low no, but I was ready to listen to and work out something. He flipped it, he threatened me on the phone said he'll demolish the office and became very unstable and I lost it. I also stood my ground and told him to go 🖕. He was still in and out of pot during this whole time. He would be high at work most times. The times he wasn't he would fight with me. 
I eventually decided not to go ahead with the idea and stepped out. Jack came back and worked for another 4 months with 0 productivity. And emptied all the money. I took out only enough to run the company. Anyway I step down and go back into other things. 
He still blames me for everything and has cut me off. I am okay with it, but he plays the victim card so much I don't know If I was the A or not. 
Now he blames his addiction on me, his career on me,  his financial problems on me. Maybe he won't tell this to our common friends but I am sure he believes this. 
He still owes me money for the last two years which he said he won't return. 



pushing hard on my friend who's addicted to pot