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Input: Over a year ago, my friends and I were planning a trip to Vegas. One friend, Adam, really wanted to go to Vegas, and was the one who initiated the idea and the trip planning in the first place. Adam also lived out of state, so he couldn't see the rest of us on a frequent basis. Our lives were all really busy, but we finally agreed on an autumn weekend we could all go out. At first, the trip started with bringing our SOs as well. We all pitched the idea and the date to our SOs to see if they were interested.

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When I pitched the idea to my girlfriend, she was really excited to go, but was pretty apprehensive about going with a group. Because of my work, we didn't get to see each other often, and she made side remarks about how we had to go with other people. She was also still in school, so she had a limited window where she could go. The weekend we chose happened to be a weekend she had a couple extra days off school.

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I discussed with the rest of my friends, and most of their significant others couldn't go. Only one said that she could, and she was on the fence about going. Shortly after this, we received news that Adam, the one who had planned this trip, had a scheduling conflict of meeting his girlfriend's parents for the first time, which he'd forgotten about when we'd first discussed. He could do any other weekend around that one, but the only one we could all agree on was one weekend past. 

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I asked my girlfriend if she could move the trip back one weekend. She refused, saying that this was the only weekend that would work for her, and she'd be too busy with school and test prep the following weekend. She also stated she fully expected to spend her extra days off with me, and would be pissed if she wasn't able to.

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So, I was stuck in between a rock and a hard place, but I had a few options. I could try to tell Adam he couldn't go (despite him planning the trip), and force it to be on a weekend my girlfriend could attend. I could tell my girlfriend she couldn't go, subsequently turning it into a guys trip, since the other girlfriend who could attend wasn't that interested. Or I could just stand in solidarity with my girlfriend and refuse to go to Vegas all together.

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I chose to turn it into a guys trip. But, to compromise, I promised to take my girlfriend on a romantic, 2-person getaway to Chicago instead. We had both wanted to visit Chicago for a while, and it seemed like the perfect weekend to do it. She agreed to go on the Chicago trip, but she wasn't pleased at all about being excluded from the Vegas trip without having a say in the matter.

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My girlfriend and I had a wonderful trip to Chicago, and the guys had a great weekend in Vegas (no strippers or promiscuous activities, I promise).

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Ever since then and over a year later, we still have arguments about this trip. My side of things, as I said above, was that hardly any other girls could go, the whole trip was Adam's idea, and I substituted in a romantic getaway instead of hanging out with a bunch of guys in Vegas. She didn't know many of the guys at the time. I also don't feel bad about the decision I made, because I feel I found a solution to make both parties happy, and I didn't create the scheduling problem in the first place.

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Her side is that I uninvited her without asking her opinion or including her in the decision to make it a guys trip, that taking her to Chicago does not excuse removing her from the Vegas trip, and that I chose my friends over her. It would have been both our first times to Vegas, so she also feels I took a beautiful first experience away from us, and shared it with other people. She's also unhappy that I still don't feel bad about the decisions I made.

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I've since taken her to Vegas with a group, if that matters at all. Also, to be clear, I was the one who suggested making it a guys trip.

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Am I The Asshole?

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TL;DR - Invited GF to Vegas, then uninvited her when the trip planner changed the weekend. Took her to Chicago as an apology but still went on the Vegas trip.

uninviting my girlfriend to Vegas