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Input: For context, my wife is a rock emotionally and handles a lot. Some days though she gets overwhelmed and goes for a drive. I have come to accept this even if at the beginning I was a bit concerned.

Well a couple days ago we were at a Walgreens when police were seen arresting a guy. It was someone my wife knew. They used to work together before the man was let go for drug and alcohol abuse. As he was arrested and handcuffed for shoplifting and physically assaulting an employee. My wife talked to him and I knew she was dissapointed in him. On our way home I ask if she wants to talk about it and she says no.

So yesterday I felt like I should do something for her, so I took a half day as a surprise and decided to cook a beautiful Porchetta roast for her. I had everything ready but she wasn't home. So I figured, no big deal she's probably just going for a drive. So I texted her 'Hey. Know yesterday was a bit rough but I got something at home that I think will help a bit. Any idea of when you'll be home?'

She then calls me and says that I'm an asshole for asking when she'll be home. Usually if this happens (and it is extremely rare btw) I just wait till she gets back. Maybe I should've known better. She came home at 10 PM and ate some of the Porchetta but she's not talking to me. Should I go apologize or wait for her to realize I'm not the asshole here?

asking my wife when she'll be home