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Input: Sorry for the click bait-y title, but that pretty much sums it up in a nutshell. Using a throwaway, and sorry in advance for the long ass post.

So a bit of background - I love my Mom (I really do), and she can be a really good Mom sometimes, but she has a whole load of problems. She's been an on/off alcoholic for most of my life and was addicted to prescription painkillers up until about 2 years ago (she got through that though which I'm really proud of her for). She has mental health problems (not her fault) which are exasperated by the fact we lost my sister 12 years ago this year. It’s been really hard, I’m surprised the family got through it at all to be honest.

So, I work in tech, and have been in love with Japan since I first went there about 8 years ago. I studied Japanese at school for 5 years and kept it up afterwards, so I'm not awful. I just got back recently from another trip there, and have decided for sure it's where I want to live and work. My fiance is 100% behind me and is pretty excited for this new chapter in our lives.

The decision to move to Tokyo would be considerably easier if it was just my Mom I was worried about. My Dad is a **fantastic** guy, I know she'll probably be alright. 

It's my younger siblings I'm worried about. I'm the oldest in the "squad", but 2 of my sisters are older now too so they'll be alright - it's the younger 3 I'm concerned about. I'm very close to the younger 3 (2 sisters and a brother), and I don't want to sound arrogant but I know they look up to me. One of the sisters suffers from depression, and I’ve been trying to be there for her as much as possible (I suffer from it too so I can relate). But I just can't shake the feeling that if I moved abroad, I'll be deserting them. I would do literally anything for those kids, I love them more than anything. But I want to start this new life in Japan too. No lie, if my Mom and Dad would even entertain the idea, I'd take them with me.

So reddit, WIBTA if I went to Tokyo?

moving half way across the world and leaving my family and alcoholic mother