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Input: So, I was with a guy who was physically abusive (think black and blue eyes, kicking, shoving, etc.) and emotionally abusive to me. He also sexually assaulted me multiple times. He made me think it was somehow something that I did or how I acted that warranted him to treat me this way. Whenever I would try to leave, he would promise that he would change. He started going back on medication (he had made me believe I needed to go on medication and never told me that he had gone off of his) and started doing meditations and FINALLY went to therapy after an incident where he yelled at me on the street for no reason. I found out later that he had done something similar to someone else, except when she broke up with him, he ended up stalking her and pinning her down and forcing her to have sex with him. His dating history is littered with young women he emotionally abused in some way or the other. He also got into a fight with his sister and assaulted her, strangulation, and refuses to admit he did anything wrong. He has dragged her in the courts for over a year now because he refuses to plead guilty. I broke up with him. Two days later, he's with someone else and all of a sudden, I'm the one that was holding him back and I'm the one that was too hard on him because I couldn't forgive him for what he did to me and I'm the one that can't see that he's a better person and won't support him through his trial with his sister. He's telling everyone I was so hard on him for no reason and he's telling the new girl all these lies about his past and how I'm crazy, similar to what he told me about his previous exes. I want to be clear so I'm not completely one sided, after 2 years of the physical abuse, I did not trust him. I wanted him to prove that he was becoming a better person but I would catch him in small lies all the time. I was hard on him because I was scared but I just wanted him to be accountable. His sister's trial just killed any hope I had. For the last year I was with him, I was not the kind, supportive, and caring partner I wish I was. He hurt me and I wanted to make sure he was getting better and any small lie or problem would become a red flag in my eyes. I was still scared of him. 

But here's the thing now, I definitely don't forgive him for what he did to me but I also don't want him to change or repent. I just want him to be shitty forever because if he changes that means that his life might get better and I want his life to be ruined by him the way he's ruined it the past 35 years. I want his punishment to be that he is a crappy human being forever. I'm terrified that one day he might actually change and that then allows him to find true happiness because I don't know if I can be okay with that. Whenever I hear about him still lying or doing his same old tricks, I get happy because that means he didn't change, even if that means that he's hurting and lying to other people. I feel like an asshole for feeling this way. I wish I could wish well on everyone, even the people who hurt me the most, but I can't wish well on him. 

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tldr: ex was physically and emotionally abusive to me, was shitty to multiple other women in this world, i broke up with him, now don't want him to find happiness ever even if that means he hurts other people

not wanting my abusive ex to change or be happy