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I met a girl through online dating.  I was very into her.  Unlike most other people, she was willing to have long verbose conversations with me with before we even broached the topic of dating.  We’ve been talking for over two weeks now, usually sending about two long messages each per day(usually about three paragraphs each).  So anyway, earlier today, I asked her out.  She said yes!

So then we started working out logistics for what we were going to do tomorrow, where we would go and whether I’d pick her up or she’d meet me there.  

I gave her four options, and without going into detail let’s say the options were going to a park, rock climbing, ice skating, or going to a very unique, but expensive, museum.  The museum is right up my alley and we’d discussed this kind of thing during our conversations.  She’d expressed interest in seeing it so I was happy to take her.  She chose the museum.  But she also said “Oh, I’m also bringing a friend if that’s okay.”

Tickets are over $50 per person(not including refreshments, as there is a unique bar there that we’d definitely want to go to as well), which is, again, fine.  I offered, and I wouldn’t expect anyone to pay that amount on a first date, so I’d be willing to foot the bill.  But paying for a friend out of nowhere is pretty weird if you ask me.

On top of that, I would have been completely fine if she would have said, when I asked her out that she didn’t feel comfortable meeting me for the first time by herself but that she wanted to meet me and if it was okay to bring a friend along.

The way she said it, I no longer really had a choice in the matter.  I can’t really say “I’m actually not okay with you bringing a friend.”  That would be weird.  I also can’t say “Well, is your friend paying for their own ticket?” which is also weird.


So I took a different option, which was “I’m sorry, I don’t think this will work out.  I wanted to go on a date, and if you want to bring a friend then you don’t want what I’m looking for.  Best of luck finding what you want.”  She just responded “WTF” and neither of us has texted the other beyond that.  

AITA?

rescinding a date offer since she decided to bring a friend on a relatively expensive first date