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Input: This has been bothering me for a few months now

I've been friends with this girl from high school through most of university, we eventually drifted apart a little bit before she graduated.

We run into each other on the street a couple years later while walking dogs and she says its been a while we should catch up, i concur.

A couple days later i send her a text saying we should go out and get ice cream and catch up she says she'll think about it, about a week later she says we should head to a restaurant for lunch.

Next day we are at the restaurant, good times are had all round. the bill shows up and it turns out she purchased a more expensive meal than me, so i tell her how much her bill is.

She laughs, she thinks i'm joking, i laugh along with her but let her know i'm being serious, her laughter eventually dies down and she asks me if i'm serious. then says "whenever i go any where with guys they usually pay".

To be sure she did not mistake this as a date and we are indeed on the same page, i ask and yes she did not think this was a date but still expected me to pay, then she says " if i knew i was paying i would've bought something cheaper".

Apparently she also didn't bring any money with her and couldn't use her card for some reason so she asks me to pay promising to send me the money when she gets home as well as asking me to send my account details. I agree, i never really minded paying.

Little bit of an awkward hiccup but the rest of the meeting is pretty okay, we promise to stay in touch and continue the conversation when we go home.

Skip to a couple weeks later, shes routinely ignoring my messages and given poor responses so i decide to get her attention by sending  my account details along with a joke, i receive one of these " 🙄 " and that was the last message i ever got from her, been about 5 months since.

I've asked multiple people about this and so far the responses are pretty mixed. So am i the asshole?

TLDR; hung out with a friend, asked her to pay, still paid and am now being ignore by said friend

asking my friend to pay for her meal