Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: When she followed it in the past she went through my followers (don’t know why) and found a girl I admittedly used to flirt with. I did unfollow her but didn’t appreciate the drama of my girlfriend.

Fast forward to the last week, she (my girlfriend) asked my if she could follow my instagram again and I refused, telling her I don’t want the drama because she’ll go through my followers or something like that again and nitpick. 

We fell out over this and spoke again tonight and she said she feels as if I’m hiding something, but I’m not, I really just don’t want her looking at who I follow. She can’t understand this and says it’s a deal breaker for her. 

I feel as if she prioritises her friends online over me and she brought this up saying I don’t prioritise her or her feelings if she isn’t allowed to follow any of my social media and call her a drama queen for being upset that she isn’t allowed to. I said that’s untrue. It’s not a big deal at all. She said she understands that it’s ‘just social media’ but the fact that I outright refuse to let her follow me is strange. I disagree. Am I the asshole?

not letting my girlfriend follow my instagram