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Input: Longtime browser first time poster. TL;DR at bottom. 
Backstory: my grandfather has a bit of a gambling problem. He has highs, where he buys us all expensive Christmas/birthday gifts (I got a new flatscreen from him one Christmas) and then he has lows where he's COMPLETELY wiped out, can't even make his minimum credit card payment of $50. I've helped him out before last year with making minimum payments on time, seeing as he was newly retired and I got my first ever office job (30k, nothing too fancy). 

However. Tonight he calls me asking for a much larger lump sum, cash, he needs ASAP (tomorrow morning). I understand he probably called other people for help and I'm the last resort, which is why the call is so last minute. I also understand it must be serious if he's calling me, his grandchild who he doesn't really otherwise call. But I've been sick with bronchitis the last two weeks (literally have taken 3 days off work just this week) and have spent quite a bit on doctors visits and medications, not to mention keeping my own bills and payments on time. I told him I'd loan him no more than how much I've loaned him in the past, but I feel guilty because I know if I really wanted to give him the full amount I could. (I would just be seriously broke after).  Side note- he does repay me. It usually takes him anywhere from 2-4 weeks to repay me. But he usually adds on a little extra "interest" as he puts it. 

TL;DR -&gt; gambling addicted grandfather who usually buys me expensive gifts now needs a large lump sum of cash asap (within 24 hours) that I technically have but don't want to give to him for fear of not being able to take care of myself. 

AITA?

not loaning my grandfather