Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’m a guy and i love variety. My SO doesn’t. She prefers missionary and no foreplay. I love eating her out but am never allowed to because she hates it. I love doggy but she doesn’t. She doesn’t like foreplay. She doesn’t like me playing with her boobs- the only thing she likes is if i gently suck her nipples. She says fingers in her vagina don’t do anything for her. So it’s been tough for me to get super hard without any extras. She doesn’t seem to really enjoy the lead up though she does orgasm almost every time. We usually have sex 1x every 1-2 weeks. I sense she makes herself available just to keep me maintained. Sadly sex isn’t that fun anymore and we are essentially in maintenance mode. It’s a huge problem for us but she doesn’t want to talk about it. When i try she shuts down or she gets angry. She comes from a super conservative Christian family and i think there is shame and guilt around sex. This is one reason I’ve tried to be understanding. I’ve encouraged her to seek therapy and she started but then stopped. She won’t even change in front of me. So now we are in a fight and although it wasn’t directly about sex, the frustration we both feel is tearing our relationship apart. She just wants me to be ok with what she gives and I’m frustrated because although I’ve tried, I’m just not. It’s affecting other areas of our life. I know there are couples who can’t or don’t have sex at all so sometimes i feel like i should just be happy for what i get. But then i feel super resentful that i have to be denied all the time. Am I the asshole here?

not being satisfied with my sex life