Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My bf isn't a redditor but we sometimes scroll through this sub together, so if he happens to be reading this... Hi M...

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We got into a big fight over some chick who he told me was a former casual sex partner. He told me they weren't even friends, they would do things then she would leave right after. He told me she was actually married (she's not anymore) but in the process of leaving her husband so he made sure she completely understood what they were doing wasn't anything serious.  

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The reason I know all this is because she had posted on his FB wall a song, and said "this will forever remind me of you". So I asked him who she was and he told me what I wrote above. I told him I really don't appreciate her posting stuff like that on his wall if she was just a former casual lay. We talked about her and I told him if she does it again we're going to have problems. I made it pretty obvious I was insecure and uncomfortable about her. He basically laughed at me, told me "she's all the way in \[state 1000s of miles away\], you don't have anything to worry about" and then even got in a VC in discord and laughed and told our mutual friends "haha my gf is so jealous". I decided to just forget about it and turn the other cheek, which I did. I wasn't bothered and we had a good rest of the day. 

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That is until literally the next day. Everything was fine but then I remembered something from a few months before. She had actually posted a bunch of monkey emojis (🙊🙉🙈) to him on their friendiversary. I didn't get bothered at all when this happened because he didn't acknowledge her post, and I kind of figured she was just some former casual partner from his past. But realizing it was the same girl who posted the song and comment on his wall, when she KNOWS we're in a relationship (she liked our relationship post and I post things on his wall all the time), and knowing she was just a notch in his belt so she was quite literally remembering and reminiscing on his damn penis, not their "friendship", infuriated me. She was being blatantly disrespectful, so I got really mad (at her, not him which I told him this) and told him she's being disrespectful, and I told him "Unfriend her." The reason I TOLD him instead of asking or just talking to him about it is because of how he reacted the previous day when I brought her up. Also, he always tells me if I want something from him or want him to do something, "TELL me because I can't read your mind". So that's what I did. 

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At first he just said "Whatever, I removed her. Hope you're happy." I told him to stop being an ass after he said this, and he said "I'm the ass?" then we both just kind of blew up on each other. He is claiming he could care less about her, but he doesn't like that I'm "giving him an ultimatum" by telling him to remove her. I'm feeling really hurt and angry now because of his reaction to removing a girl who apparently means nothing to him, and again the only reason I TOLD him was because I had brought it up the other day she was making me uncomfortable yet he did nothing. Honestly Facebook is cancer and this all feels so childish typing it out, but I do use Facebook for memes and to share things with my bf, and I'd rather not see some girl from his past blatantly disrespecting our relationship when I get on. If things were reversed and some dude from my past was posting stuff like this on my wall, I would've removed/blocked or even messaged him and told him to stop in a heartbeat. So yea, I'm hurt because I feel like it's no big deal to him and he doesn't care, and I feel like he didn't want to remove her which is why he's so defensive now. 

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So yea... Who is the asshole? Me? Him? Both of us?

telling my bf to remove a former fuck buddy from his friends list