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Input: So I rent out a house with Roomie A and Roomie B. Roomie A has the master bedroom, and her own massive bathroom. Roomie B and I share the hall bathroom, which is directly in front of the door to my room.

Roomie A had Friend over yesterday and they decided to dye her hair purple. Neither had ever done this before or let the other housemates know this was happening until it was already in progress. I am allergic to strong scents (more like hypersensitive, but they give me migraines and put me in so much pain I can pass out and lose memory if prolonged). Both Roomies know this, Friend did not.

Roomie A and Friend did the whole dying process in the hall bathroom, not her own massive bathroom, because her tub is broken. Roomie B was out for the night and I came home from work to Roomie A mixing the dye for Friend. I asked them to put trash bags or something down to prevent a mess, and they told me they have towels and will clean everything up.

I went to nap in my room (long day)and woke up to the beginnings of a migraine. The chemical smell had seeped through the vents or under my door and I had been breathing it in for at least thirty minutes. Roomie A did have the bathroom fan going the whole time and apologized for the smell. I stuffed a towel under the door and went back to sleep.
This morning, I woke up and can still smell it. I am more sensitive to these sorts of things, however, so I think they just couldn’t tell. What is bothering me the most, though, is all of the dye.

I can tell Roomie did a basic wipe down of some things that got splashed, but it’s EVERYWHERE. Not at first glance, but when you look:

- a bunch of dye under the lip of the sink,

- the marble (or whatever the counter is made of) has a pink tone to it,

- the door has a purple handprint on it,

- the bathtub has purple streaks running down the outside,

- the toilet lid, base and backing have splashes,

- the bottom of the hanging cabinet has dots and streaks,

- one of Roomie B’s towels was used to dry Friend’s hair and is splotched all over now (Roomie B said it was okay after they had started using it, but doesn’t mind because it’s old),

- the wall behind the door has an actual blob of dye,

- and there’s even splatter dots above the door frame, nearly to the ceiling!

I didn’t want to ruin their fun, and I’m all for hair dying, but this is the exact same thing that happened at the last house I was renting. What I hate most is that it was all left there to be cleaned up later (At least, I hope she meant “later” rather than “not at all”). The longer it’s on, though, the more it seeps in. That’s exactly what dye does! 

So I sent a long message to our house chat that I’m very upset with the state of the hall bathroom and refuse to allow any hair dying not done by a professional to happen in this house again. 

Now I’m wondering if I’m overreacting. I tend to get really worked up over things that mean little to other people. I just don’t understand why they couldn’t have used Roomie A’s bathroom. Ya, the tub’s broken, but there are two sinks and a shower. I’ve also only had my hair dyed at a salon, so I don’t know if this is a normal mess or what.

Am I the Asshole, guys?

banning hair dying in our house