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Input: I’ve been with my girlfriend Lisa for 2 years. Overall she’s a good girlfriend but she’s a little controlling and really insecure. 

I have this friend Anna who I’ve known since high school who is a total smokeshow. We used to hookup but we stopped about 3 years ago. Lisa HATES Anna. She thinks that Anna acts inappropriately toward me and she’s not totally wrong but I think it’s unfair of Lisa to try to control my friendships. Anyway Lisa doesn’t know that Anna and I used to hookup so she shouldn’t have any reason to feel insecure. 

A few months ago Anna started sending me nudes over Snapchat. The first time she did it she said that she was drunk and meant to send it to someone else but I told her that I liked the picture so she started sending them to me more often. 

When she sends the nudes, I tell her that she looks sexy and sometimes I tell her what I wish I could do to her but I’ve ALWAYS made it clear that we can’t hook up because I have a girlfriend. I’ve also never sent her nudes back. 

I know Lisa wouldn’t be happy about this but it’s basically the same as porn so i didn’t think it was that bad. I haven’t hooked up with Anna since Lisa and I got together so I’m still being faithful. 

Anyway somehow Lisa found out that I’ve been sexting Anna and wants to break up with me. Idk how she found out because she won’t tell me. She says I cheated even though I explained to her that I haven’t actually done anything with Anna. 

Lisa never told me that she thought sexting was cheating or that I wasn’t allowed to do it so I think she’s being unfair by not giving me a second chance.

I know I’m not totally in the right here but I think Lisa is more wrong because she’s mad at me for something that we never decided was against the rules.  

TLDR:  Girlfriend wants to break up because I sexted a friend but I didn’t think sexting was cheating. AITA?

sexting my friend