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Input: My cousin is a 28 (i believe) year old man. He has never held a real job for longer than a month, he dropped out of highschool, and he has spent time in rehab for addiction to cough drops. He also has a criminal record now because he doesnt know how to drive properly and apparently took a right turn into the wrong lane into oncoming traffic and hit another car.

 No injuries but he got charged for it. He lives with his (not mine) elderly disabled grandpa at the grandpas house.

None of these are reasons for me not wanting him to live with us. My cousin was severly abused growing up by my uncle and my aunt. His father was a drug addict thief who made him live in homeless shelters as a kid. His mom was abusive, though she is now dead from a heart attack. His father beat her in front of him, pushing her out of cars and putting trash bags over her head. Theres no denying that he had it rough. My uncle went to rehab and is now clean with a new wife and kids. He cut my cousin out of his life since my cousin still resents him.

I dont blame him, but my cousin also tends to play the victim alot and hes now an adult.

So thats my cousins side of things. Abused kid grew up to be a dysfunctional adult.

My side of things is hes also creepy, weird, and unpleasant. As a child, he took one of our younger girl cousins (maybe 10? With him as 14) and placed her in his lap. I dont know exactly what happened but my little cousin was freaked out after she hopped away, and when asked she said he was touching her. My cousin admitted this and says he regrets it, but it gets much worse.

As an adult he messaged my other aunt ( i have 6 aunts and like 20 cousins in case youre confused) on facebook. He was normal at first but then started to tell her how hot she was. My aunt asked him why he was talking like that and he said he didnt mean anything and started crying. She blocked him.

Then he messaged my older female cousin and did the EXACT same thing. My older cousin put him on blast and at this point we havent seen him in person for 6 years.

Now last year, my OTHER aunt who he hasnt tried to have sex with is getting pestered by him for both me and my sisters numbers. I am a male and 22, sister is 26. He messages me and I refuse to respond.

"Hey OP this is Jim, been a long time how you been? Wanted to message you. How is your sister?"

20 minutes

"You live in X area?

One hour

"Yes i know im a fuck up but we're still family. Idk if you heard but my mom died. We are blood cousins."

A day later

"Wow" 

He texts my sister as well who is always one for drama. She knows my cousin is creepy but still texted him i believe to get a reaction. Eventually my cousin tells her that he has secretly loved her for years and that he curses god that theyre blood related.

My sister shares all of the texts with everyone. We all know what he is now.

Now its been another year and my cousin is almost 30 with no job, no education, no skills, no car, and facing crazy legal fines and fees. His life goal is to literally be a rapper like eminem.

He also has no support now either since his grandpa is going into assisted living and his other family is selling the house. I think hes also been creepy with them since they hate him too.

On facebook he constantly complains about the abuse he suffered, the fact that he has no friends and no girl, and that he has no family anymore. He posts that when his grandad leaves he will be homeless on the streets.

My sister, ever the drama queen, asks my parents if he can live with us. I dont think she really means it since he was a creep to her, but i said that he should rot in the street. She says that he is still family. 

I do feel bad for my cousin since he has had a hard life and tbh my greatest fear is being like him. Me and my sis still live with my parents but i am a skilled tradesman with 13k in the bank with my own new truck and am trying to start a business. Sister is in college. 

I think maybe if i had terrible parents id be like him, perhaps though id never hurt children or go after my blood like some freak. But i also think about him being homeless and realize what hell that would be. AITA for telling him to rot.

not wanting my soon to be homeless cousin to live with us