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Input: I’d like to start this off with a bit of background info. 

I am a 15 year old boy. When I was 10 my mom lost custody of me after a long battle (around 2 years). Since then, I’ve been living with my dad, which has improved my life for the better and have had no contact with my mom other than the time I texted her wishing her a happy mother’s day back in 2017. She asked for an apology after I texted her that, saying that what I texted her meant nothing.

My mom was mentally and sometimes physically abusive, which made me want to live with my dad. My parents divorced back in 2012 when I was 8.

Fast forward to last week when I was visiting my hometown (St. John's, Newfoundland). Up until then, it had been around 2 years since I was last there, and I visit every so often because a very large majority of my family lives there. My grandma on my dads side lives in St. John's, so we spent most of our time there. 

However, we decided one day to visit Bell Island, which is another island in Newfoundland where I spent a lot of time. My grandma on my moms side lives there (which is why I spent a lot of time there). I have not heard anything from my moms mom for about 7 years, so I decided to visit her out of the blue, just to see how she was.

Also for a bit of context for this next part, I have an 18 year old sister. 

Everything was going great until I asked how my mom was (not in a shit disturbing way but I was genuinely curious). Once I asked this, my grandmas tone completely changed, she said “I think you should ask for yourself, I hate what you did to her and I find it unbelievable”. 

She continued on her rant and my sister even joined in, making me feel like an asshole. I was incredibly angry until I realized that she only knows my moms side of the story, which is probably some victim bullshit sob story. 

As my sister and I were about to leave, she made me promise that I’d see her again before I left to go back to Ontario, I quickly said yes and got the hell out because I was feeling very uncomfortable. 

I haven’t spoken to her since and I didn’t see her, I’m back in Ontario now and I’m feeling very conflicted because she made me super uncomfortable but I feel bad for some reason. 

Sorry for the super long post and shitty writing, this is my first time making a post like this. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.



not visiting my grandma