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Input: Long post, so bear with me. This is a throw-away because my ex uses reddit frequently.

I started dating my ex a little over a year ago. About 9 months into our relationship, I asked him to move in with me, and he agreed. We started fighting pretty often, and I felt like he was being emotionally manipulative, and after discussing it over the course of a few months, I decided to break it off with him.

The paragraphs that follow happen over the course of a week and a half:

Obviously it was a bit messy, because he still lived with me. I agreed to let him stay while he found a place, since we live in an area of the country with a terrible rental market.

A few days after I broke up with him, I downloaded Tinder and started talking to a few people. The next day, he asked if I'd downloaded Tinder, and I told him, honestly, that I had. He was visibly upset, and he asked me if I could wait until he was out of the apartment to start dating. I told him that, yes, I would wait, but that he needed to give me a hard deadline by which he'd be out of the apartment if he was going to ask me to put my life on hold for him. He said he'd be out in 2 months at the most, and so I agreed.

The next day we had another argument about the breakup, but ultimately he apologized and said that I could date, but I could tell he was pretty uncomfortable with it. But he said I could date, so I set up a date later that night (it was a Wednesday, and the date was for Friday when I knew my ex would be at a friend's birthday party).

On Friday, when I got home, my boyfriend had called in sick. He was acting kinda weird, so I went to go take a shower. After I got out of the shower, he asked if we could talk. He started telling me that he felt I was reneging on our agreement not to date until I'd left the apartment. (Apparently he thought that agreement was still in effect even after he told me it was ok if I date.) I told him that, no, I wasn't going on a date, but, even if I wanted to, he said it was ok for me to see other people. He said that that wasn't how he remembered it, and he'd prefer that I wait until he was out of the house. I said ok.

I wasn't sure what to do about my date that night. It got later and later, and my ex still hadn't gone to his friend's party. I asked him if he was going to go to his friend's party, and he said he might go later, but that he wasn't feeling it. Eventually it was getting too close to the time I was supposed to go on my date, so I texted the guy an excuse.

I later learned why my boyfriend had been acting so weird that day. He eventually confessed to me that he'd "seen my messages" to a friend that I had told I was going on a date with. I leave my computer open pretty frequently, but I felt violated when he told me that since he's never really checked up on what I'm doing like that before.

So. Am I an asshole for planning that date? He's since moved out, and I never did end up going on a date while he was still there.

trying to date while I still live with my ex