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Tldr: friend Alex asked me to watch a kitten for two weeks that quickly turned into a month and a half so I cut off contact now a month later Alex is in my inbox yelling at me. 

In November I got back from a two week trip over seas and a friend we'll call Alex messaged and asked if I would watch her kitten Remy for two weeks so she could get the mom to stop producing milk. Since I was already taking my girl Moony from Alex I said sure bring them both (note I do not drive).

The day after Thanksgiving Alex and her three boys show up and drop off the kitten, three hours after they said they would but not a huge deal because I was off work and I know its about an hour drive from my place to hers. I confirm again that it's only for two weeks and she'll pick her up in early December. Alex agrees and reminds me to spend lots of time with them both to make sure I'm keeping the right one (at the time I just knew I was keeping one, not which of the two girls it would be).

About a week later I tell Alex that Moony will be stay with me and she says that's great, she'll come get Moony the following weekend.

The weekend she's supposed to pick Remy up she texts that something came up and it'll have to be postponed but this time she doesn't give me a date. Whatever the girls are happy and I'm falling in love with both.

Fast forward to the last weekend in December and Alex messages me asking what I'm doing for my bday on the ninth and I tell her probably just staying in and snuggling Moony. At this point she tells me I'll still have Remy then too, a little more than a month after Remy was supposed to go home. I think about it and then text her back that in that case I think I'd just like to keep both cats because they've bonded to me and each other and I don't want to separate them.

Cue the sob story about how her oldest misses his cat and wants her back and she's promised she will get Remy back soon. Mind you up until this point I've initiated all contact about the cats and sent updates, Alex has never been the first to message me about them.

So from here on I stop messaging first, I stop sharing pics of the girls where Alex can see them, and I rename Remy to Siri. Life goes on and about a month (early February) after that last convo I unfriend Alex on fb because I see no reason to keep up the charade of us being friends if she won't message me first.

Now three weeks later Alex messages me that I'm an a-hole for kidnapping her cat and breaking her boys heart. She also called me a fake friend and said this was my plan all along, even though I was doing her a favor by even taking one cat in the first place (I didn't want a three month old kitten, I was planning on adopting one from a shelter that was at least a year old).

So am I the a-hole here?

removing a "friend" and keeping the kitten she asked me to cat sit