Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Theres a Facebook group for the city I live in, just for events going around, job offers, etc...
after the recent shooting in New Zealand, a woman posted in the group if anyone would like to join her and donate some money for flowers to give to local mosques in the city.
I commented that I'd rather have that money given to the food bank or homeless shelter.
Then the next person that replied just insulted me, and wrote "instead you should invest that money in fixing that hair", which I thought was rude. I replied to that comment saying he was being rude and now theres a bunch of comments calling me butthurt, and that I was being an asshole first.
I don't see what I did wrong, if you're going to post on a public forum then I'm allowed to input my views. I didnt attack anyone but I was insulted by others. I recognize not everyone may agree with what I had to say but I dont think I was being an asshole.
So am I the asshole?

disagreeing with a Facebook post