Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My uncle was diagnosed with cancer a couple years ago, had a few treatments with chemo therapy and was weak all the time but never close to die. Last week though, he was infected with the flu, was sent to the hospital and because of his weak immune system he did not make it.
He was my sister's godfather and she had a good relationship with him, but I have never been close with him, never had a deep or long conversation and we haven't been in touch for about a year now. I am sad that he died and I feel very sorry for my sister and everybody else who was close to him. But I just don't feel like going to his funeral next week. Somehow it feels wrong to say goodbye to a person I haven't been in contact with for the last year. Also I would have to use a day off from work to be able to go there which I could definitely get, but work is very busy right now and I'm not sure, if I want to use a vacation day for a funeral I don't want to go to and I would feel misplaced at. Honestly, I would only go there, so that my other relatives wouldn't think bad of me.

I already feel like a massive asshole just by thinking about it this way, but what do you guys think?
WIBTA?

TL/DR: Didn't talk to my uncle for a year, was never close to him. WIBTA for not going to his funeral? 

not going to a relative's funeral