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Input: Hey guys; been dating my (25F) bf (27M) for almost 4 years now and we’ve lived together for 2.5.  This has been happening for a while now and I’ve read books and tried to be understanding that my boyfriend should be able to do what makes him happy and if it’s not a huge deal then I should just let things be... and that I can’t expect my SO to do the same things that I’m willing to do for him.

It just really hurts my feelings that after a week or two of us being apart, he will constantly say how much he misses me, and I will say the same back but when I am finally home the first night and want nothing more than to see him, he stays out absurdly long at his work party (like 3-4 am). I totally get that if there is a work party he should be there to network and have fun, but I can’t help feeling that in the reverse situation, I’d go to the work event but leave slightly earlier (like maybe 9-10pm) to be able to spend some quality time with him after not seeing him for so long. I especially wouldn’t have the mood to go clubbing when my SO is at home waiting to see me. I don’t have any suspicions on cheating or anything.. it just hurts my feelings somehow.

I got really upset at this in the past... I’m not sure where this low feeling comes from but each time it happens I get to the point question whether I want to be with him long term. Maybe it’s the imbalance I feel? Am I just being a baby? I’m debating whether I should calmly talk to him that him going out late the night when I’m back from a long trip hurts my feelings... but I’m worried it’ll turn into an argument. Im thinking I should probably say it anyway and see how he reacts since it bugs me so much.

I feel how I’ve been dealing with it is I just try to ignore it- we don’t get into fights about it but to be honest I don’t feel as crazy about him as I did in the past.. maybe this belongs in relationship advice lol

being upset boyfriend goes drinking and clubbing after I'm back from a long trip instead of coming to see me