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Input: I know, the title makes it seem like I'm an asshole, but hear me out. I'm 21F, he's 25M.

Every single time my boyfriend drinks, he gets wildly and usually blackout drunk. Every. Single. Time. Used to happen every week multiple times a week, now it's like 2-3 a month. The night always starts out with him saying, "I'm just going to have a beer."

Then he doesn't go to work at 4:30AM because he is blackout drunk. He spends the next day hungover as hell, in bed, insulting himself about how lazy he is. We're in a LDR, so I can't really do much. I don't ever drink.

Last night, it happened again. This time, I said, "Please be careful. Remember what happened last time you 'only had one beer.'" He showed his friends or something because then his friend messaged me on snapchat asking, "why don't u ever let him have fun? ur so uptight"

I NEVER tell him he can't drink. I just tell him to be careful and be responsible, but I NEVER say, "Don't drink tonight."

Am i being uptight? AITA?

getting mad when my boyfriend drinks