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Input: I (25F) am unemployed. I quit my last job and I'm working tirelessly to get a job. I live with my BF (32M) who works FT in retail. When not at work, he's on his computer. Because I'm home all day, I agreed to take on more chores. But we both agreed that cleaning shouldn't be my full responsibility.

A few years ago, the roles were reversed and he was the unemployed one, at home playing video games. I was working two jobs to make ends meet for us. He didn't help too much with chores then either (because we had a third roommate who loved cleaning).

Here's how it goes: I'll mention about wanting us to get some cleaning done tomorrow and he agrees. The next day comes and we wake up, chill out for a couple hours, and then I slowly start making my way to cleaning. He'll still be sitting at his comp. I'll mention something in passing like, "do you mind doing the dishes" or "could you take care of your pile of clean clothes in the bedroom" or "do you mind changing the water in your fish tank" (because I'm so small so I really struggle picking up the buckets of water that high and stuff AND ITS HIS TANK -- fish keep dying because he won't take care of it) and he just goes BANANAS! 

"*Sigh* okay yeah fine but *I work all day* I really just wish you did this stuff while I'm at work"

What I do for chores:
- our laundry 
- clean the bathroom
- vacuum
- clean 2 other fish tanks
- take care of our bird
- dust
- de-clutter

What he does for chores:
- water changes on the large tank
- he mopped the kitchen last week

We agree to swap dishes duty every-other time. But when it's his turn, he'll let the sink pile with dishes on both sides for days until it smells and we have no dishes. And even then, he's asked me in the past, "what do I need to do to make you take my turn haha" or sometimes he'll do only half of them at a time, let it pile up again, and the cycle continues for a couple weeks. And sometimes he leaves the ickiest ones on the bottom and say he "can't deal with the smell" and asks me to finish them. 

After he's done moaning and groaning through a chore or two, he sits back in front of his comp and vapes while I'm still running around trying to clean the place. If I ask him to do another thing it's a big *sigh* as he gets up to go do it and says again "I work all week and my back/shoulder hurts." 

While cleaning last week, my boyfriend told me at least twice "you don't need to make it that clean in here jeez" My blood boils just thinking about it. What the fuck is wrong with a house that's clean? Our apartment itself is already a dumpy place. I also have MDD and the clutter makes me feel 10x worse. I just wish he would help more and not make me feel like a grade A piece of shit when I ask him to scrub the toilet.

AITA for being upset with my BF because he won't pitch in without being mean about it? I don't want him to start falling into a groove of me picking up after him for the rest of our life together. I'd love to know everyones POV.

wanting my bf to do more chores