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Input: My Dad and I have never really been the closest, but I absolutely do love him and he is my father and I cannot imagine a life with him not in it. That being said, he talks to my ex husband more than he talks to me. 

My ex husband and I had a very tumultuous marriage which resulted in a nasty divorce. We still have to talk to each other, but only because we have three kids together and as of right now we share custody of two of them. The divorce really put a strain on a lot of my family members because my ex husband involved everybody he could in personal matters. It sort of drove a wedge between my father and I and we haven’t been as close since. 

Recently, my ex husband has been throwing jabs at me about how often he talks to my Dad. The issue is I haven’t been able to see or get ahold of my Dad since Christmas. I feel like my Dad has started to pick his ex son in law over his own daughter.  My ex has informed me that my Dad is visiting my brother in the same damn city as me, but my Dad hasn’t reached out to me. I was going to go visit my brother with my kids anyhow, so I can see my Dad as well this weekend. 

Would I be the asshole if when I’m visiting my brother if I were to ask my Dad to stop talking to my ex husband or to cut me out of his life as his daughter? I feel crappy even thinking about basically giving my Dad an ultimatum, but I am not sure what else to do at this point. 

asking my dad to stop talking to my ex husband or cutting him (my Dad) out of my life