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Input: This is way past history for me.  No longer with this person for other reasons but quite curious what you all might think.

I'll try and keep this as objective as possible and try to just keep it to the facts of what happened.

I'd been partnered up with this person a little over a year.  We had shifted into a house together.  She had a kid, I had three.

I had/have a shared care arrangement with my ex wife.  It's bit unorthodox but basically every other weekend and every Wednesday night the kids stay with me.  Ex wife, kids and I were all happy with this.  We'd been doing it for several years.
As well as this, for every day every other week I'd take the kids after work and give them dinner at my place, then return them home at around 7:30pm.  A bit of a strange schedule but it worked for us.  (She had her child on a regular week-about schedule.)

A point to note is the new house was further away from my ex than my previous house.  So the commute to take the kids home each night was a bit longer.

After a while my new partner voiced her frustration with the schedule, saying it was hard to organise things when the kids had to leave early each night.

It then came to a point where she asked me to change the schedule to a classic week-about arrangement.  She directed it solely at me so I guess I was supposed to say "okay" and then convince the kids and the ex that this was a good plan.

I was very much against it saying that the kids, ex and I were all quite happy with how things were and didn't really want to change it.  She wasn't very happy about that.

We were seeing a relationship counselor at the time (things weren't great between us), and I wont' say the counselor took her side but it felt like it.  He agreed that we should change the schedule.  I felt hurt that the counselor would jump to that decision so easily without weighing up that there were more people involved here than just my partner and I.

Anyway, was I the asshole for not wanting to change the schedule?

not wanting to change my kids shared care schedule for my new partner