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Input: So yesterday, I get a random message from a number saying "Hey, how's life? :) if you even remember me haha".

I don't recognize the number right away, but on my end there is a conversation to scroll up to from two years ago. Turns out she was someone I matched with on tinder, and chatted and exchanged numbers and made plans with - and she was in contact right up to literally the last minute of the day we had plans, she ghosted me literally as I was getting ready and showering after having come home from work. Not kidding, just a couple hours earlier she was responding and discussing plans.

So not only was I shocked she remembered me, but thought it was bold and ballsy that she messaged me after what she'd done. So I told her that, asked what happened to her. She claimed she didn't remember doing that and apologized at first, then said she "made some bad choices and ended up in a bad relationship and finally realized her worth and got out" and also mentioned that it was "probably when her life was blowing up and her son's dad went to prison and a bunch of stuff".

So I accepted it and forgave her at first, chatted a bit more - but then we realize that apparently when she contacted me, although she somehow still had me in her phone, she mistook and thought I was someone else she knew with the same name - which explained a lot.

So following that I jog her memory a bit as to who I actually am (I didn't mention tinder before) and bring up highlights of our conversation, once again reiterating what she did. This time she sounded a little less remorseful and apologetic though - "yeah, sounds about right, I probably did the same thing to other people, life got crazy".

Eventually I gave a little more detail to help pinpoint who I was until she finally remembered. To which she said "yeah, so I might have come home then and not bothered cause I was gonna be moving soon". That's it, no apology, just shamelessly using that as an excuse as if that's normal.

Sure, she doesn't know me and she's just one person and this incident wasn't something that affected me greatly in any way, but I was shocked with her complete sociopathic lack of compassion in her words, how she sees basically anyone she doesn't know as disposable and therefore okay to do that to kind of like the "#wastehistime201x" meme a while back. She didn't seem to even understand that what she did was shitty, just kept deflecting it with "there are bigger things in life" and "it's weird to be upset about something so insignificant". But no, it's not about not being over it, it's the apathetic attitude she has about it.

So, I told her that I guess if she does stuff like that on a regular basis, the stuff that happened to her that she mentioned is probably karma.

AITA?

telling a girl that unfortunate incidents in her life were "karma"