Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This happened about 7 years ago, but my friends recently bought it up and were having a laugh about it, so I'm wondering what your take on the situation is, since I felt like an asshole back then and I'm unsure about it now. 

Background: this girl, let's call her Sofia, was throwing a quinceanera (is it "quinceanera party"? I'm not sure what to call it exactly), and she had a crush on me. I wasn't interested in her for whatever reason, but we were friends. 

To the party: my friends and I attended, and we were just hanging out when some of Sofia's friends approached me and told me that I needed to go dance with Sofia. I didn't want to do this for a few reasons: 1) I don't really like to dance, 2) I wasn't interested in Sofia and didn't want to lead her to thinking I was, and 3) it just seemed like an all-around awkward situation. I only told Sofia's friends the first reason, however. They called me an asshole and walked away.

Later, her friends approached me again and told me that Sofia was really upset that I refused to dance with her on such a special day, and that I should just dance with her to make her feel better. I said no again, this time because it seemed like it would've really magnified the awkwardness of the situation if I danced with her when she already knew I didn't want to.    
At that point, her friends asked me to leave, which I did. I was later told that Sofia cried in the bathroom for some time because of this, which made me feel absolutely terrible. Sofia also didn't talk to me much after that night, although we were never really close to begin with. 

Was I the asshole?

not dancing with a girl at her quinceanera