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So, yesterday, I F(17) went on a dinner date with a boy (M17) will call Gary for the sake of anonymity. He was really sweet and just seemed like a genuinely good kid and was very respectful. Thing is, I agreed to go on the date to give him a chance, I think that’s kinda the point of a first date. Regardless, I just don’t find Gary physically attractive. I just seen him more as a friend than someone I’d be interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with. He asked me on a second date afterwards, and I told him I wasn’t sure and I would definitely get back to him with my decision within a couple days.

Here’s the predicament: Prom is this Saturday and I don’t have a date. That, on it’s own, doesn’t matter, because I’m perfectly content with going with friends and without a date. However, Gary does online school, and thus will never have a prom to go to. I would love to invite him to be my date, but I don’t want to look (or feel) like I’m using him. He seemed down when he mentioned he would never have a prom, and part of me feels like it would be fun for both of us. BUT, I’m 90% sure I do not want to pursue a romantic relationship with him. 

Would I be the asshole if I invited Gary to Prom with me, even though I don’t have intention of dating him?

TYIA

inviting a boy to prom that I'm not interested in dating