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Input: So when I was a teenager (from the age of about 16 til I was 19 or 20) I had extremely poor mental health. Way beyond teenage angst, I was suicidally depressed and so anxious that I couldn't order coffee in a coffee shop or even go into a resturant without a full anxiety attack. I still suffer from moderate anxiety and occasional bouts of depression (now 24) but not anything on the scale I used to.
During this entire period, my dad made things significantly worse. He would tell me constantly to 'get over it', that I was doing it for attention, get mad at me for becoming mute and panicky in social situations etc etc.
Obviously I got better, but I have the scars to show for it.

In the last year my younger brother (20) has developed mental health issues. He's not very forthcoming with what's up, but he's had a falling out with his friends and is probably quote depressed.

Critically, however, my dad is being really supportive and is really concerned for his well-being. Obviously I am glad that he has changed his attitude. Probably the recent campaigns about mental health have gone a long way towards changing his attitude, and I'm not denying that that is great.

However there is a large, festering chunk of me that is really resentful and quite hurt that my dad cares and is providing my brother the support that I needed when I was a teenager and really didn't get, and this is materialising in me lashing out and being honestly quite nasty to my brother.

I /know/ that this is not a good way to feel about the situation, I know that I need to reign in my outward display of resentment, but am I an asshole for resenting in the first place?

TL;DR I suffered really bad mental health as a teenager and got zero parental support, now that my brother is going through Some Shit, I am resentful that my dad is supportive.


being resentful of my dad supporting my brother's mental health crisis