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Input: My father really wants to celebrate my birthday tomorrow. I get he cares about me and all that stuff, but I personally hate holidays. I think they're shameless corporate cash grabs that have been robbed of any real meaning or history they may have once had and produce unnecessary stress. Like how Christmas is an extremely likely time for people to kill themselves.

I personally think birthdays are similar, it's just a time where people give each other things, not because they feel the other person really wants/needs that thing, or would really want to do something. Usually people just do those because others are doing it, so they feel obligated to do so, kinda like Valentines day.

Anyways, a couple days ago, my fathers wife texted me and asked about what I want to do for my birthday, I said nothing because I don't like birthdays. Today my father himself texted me asking if it was okay to pick me up and go for dinner. I told him I didn't want to and I would rather treat it like any other day. He then said they already picked out a present, and made reservations. I said I am sorry, but I just don't want to do anything, and I also don't need or want anything at the moment.

I feel kinda bad, like I am some ungrateful piece of shit. Am I in the wrong? Am I just too cynical of an asshole that I can't even enjoy my own birthday? Should I just go along and tolerate them to make them happy? I personally have not celebrated a holiday in years, but they still get me cards and shit even thought I tell them not to. I probably should have just expected this.

not wanting to celebrate my birthday