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Input: My wife and I came home with our new baby 6 weeks ago.  Being a new mom, the curve for her has been a hard one. Being a second time dad I have tried to make sure she has all the support she needs. I keep the feeding schedule (if she’s up I’m up) so she doesn’t feel alone. I call her friends to invite them to stop by so she doesn’t have to feel needy. 

I do all the housework anyway because I’m already a stay home dad. I do the shopping, cleaning cooking and managing of our older boys routine when he’s spending his weeks with us. I fix the cars I repair the house. I go and do odd jobs for extra cash so my hobbies don’t take away from the house finances. This is my usual routine. I have not asked her for help in it. He only thing I don’t really help with is her personal laundry. Ruin one cashmere sweater and you never live it down. 

I don’t usually take naps it’s not a thing I really get to do.  I treat being a stay home dad like a real job and so I make my self busy from 6am to 630 when dinner is over. Monday through Friday  and from when ever breakfast is on the weekends till dinner. Just like every other stay home parent I don’t get a day off sick or not. Sometimes I dose in-front if the news or whatever show is on around 7 but I’m always woken up to a reminder that “I won’t be able to sleep if I take a nap now.” 

Today I was doing some tummy time with the baby and we were laying in a strip of sun. It was warm. We were on the squishy rug. We both passed out. I got woke up to empty the car of the consumables we went to get today.  I said “ok in a bit. I’m really comfortable napping with my boy.”  Mind you it was only about 10 minutes. I got some attitude in her voice as she exclaimed that “well I’m up folding laundry and making the house nice and relaxing. So I’d like it if you would get the stuff out of the car.” Then the baby starts to cry. So I jokingly “said see you made he baby cry. He just wanted a nap too.” Apparently now I’m the asshole because I wasn’t doing shit and then made her feel bad for wanting I have a nap when she was motivated to do some chores.

Am I the asshole? 

wanting to take a nap on a Saturday afternoon