Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: i just need to get this off of my chest, because the utter despair i feel, its crushing and don't know how to deal with it. 

i'll give you some context to lead into the fuck up. i'm a chef. i went to school for cooking and moved across the country to work in a city with michelin status. i am extremely passionate and want to open my own place some day. i even cook popup dinners once in awhile on my days off just to try and create new dishes. i work about 14 hours a day 5 days a week and am usually doing something cooking related on days off.
 recently there was nominations for an award on up and coming chefs. i asked every established chef i knew to nominate me, and most of them eagarly obliged. i feel like i was the perfect candidate. the nominations came out and i didn't make the list. two friends of mine are on there. 

i feel liked it came to a head today, but i've fucked up by defining myself and my success on validation by my peers. i just feel so depressed about it. how hard do you have to work to get recognition in this industry? i don't know how to handle it. it feels like the start to the rest of my career that i've been so optimistic about. maybe i was just being ignorant to think its as easy as just working hard. fuck.

TIFU by setting myself up for imminent disappointment