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Input: Long story short, it’s my dads birthday today and he unfortunately passed away a few years back. He was someone I was super close with and my closest family member so it really hurt when he passed. I paid for me and my bf to have takeaway and said we should do something together like watch a film, play our Nintendo Switch, anything just to make the evening a bit more positive. 

I got home from work and he was doing some portfolio work - granted, he has just finished his uni dissertation the other day and he spent all day during the evening when he finished that playing games and talking to his friends which was cool, I understand how stressful it can be so I didn’t really mind. I asked him if he had much left to do just as I wanted to chill with him soon but no pressure if he had work to do. He then sort of looked at me in a disgusted way and said ‘I’m playing games after.. I’m not spending the whole night with you.’ and it just really hurt me. I don’t want to be selfish as I know he can get stressed and gaming is a way to unwind for him usually, but this day for me is really important and he has a bit of a record of putting other things before me (that’s not uni work lmao, I mean more-so like gaming. He was with me an hour on the anniversary of my dads death and ended up going to his friends after we ate and left me the evening.). 

I can’t tell if I’m just being selfish and can’t see his side to it? AITA in this situation where I should be letting him chill after his uni stuff? 

expecting my bf to spend the night with me