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Input: I told my friends about this, and I got mixed reactions. Which is why I’m here wondering I’m the asshole.  (Also, using a throwaway because she may know my main account)

These friends said I should forget about it since it happened so long ago and she’s really successful now. That they liked her a lot, thought she was kind and funny, and really enjoyed their time with her. They said that we made a good couple and thought this was something that would last for me. Other friends said they couldn’t date someone who had a misdemeanor on their record and I was justified in breaking up with her. 

I was with this girl for about 4 months now, and she recently confided in me that she has a misdemeanor on her record from over 9 years ago. She apparently got a dwi when she was in her early 20s after her birthday dinner with friends. That she blew a .09 and was pulled over for going about 7-8 over the speed limit. She said she didn't have any jail time, it was just hours of community service, and she couldn't drive on the weekends for a year. She told me that it hasn't really affected her life since, that her car insurance was high but manageable for a few years and hasn't been mysteriously rejected from any job since. After she told me this, I told her I needed to think about relationship and ultimately broke up with her a few days after she told me. 

I was sad I had to end the relationship, it was going really well until she told me about her past. We had a lot in common, we’re both in STEM fields and she makes good money. (Not that money is super important, but we both enjoyed being able to indulge in small luxuries like fine dining, travel, etc. It was nice to find someone willing to be able to afford these kinds of things with me).  We have a lot of the same hobbies (cycling, running, sketching, video games). We even recently signed up for a biathlon happening later in the Spring and we both started training for it over the past 2 weeks.  I also thought she was incredibly beautiful, she was in great shape and we were having an amazing sex life. I probably would have stayed with her for a long time if it wasn’t for her criminal record. 

FWIW, if we ever did go out somewhere where alcohol was involved, she was always very insistent on taking an uber or lyft. Even if I felt like it wasn’t necessary, for example, there is a brewery near where I live that serves really good food; I don’t mind driving there to have a small beer or two with food, hanging out for a bit and then drive home. I’m not intoxicated after that small amount, but she would still insist that we pay the $8 to go there in an uber. 

breaking up with a woman because she told me she has a misdemeanor on her record from 9+ years ago