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Input: I'm going to try to explain this as best as I can. I really want a third opinion on this so hopefully you guys can help me out. 

I'm the Patrol Leader of one of my Scout Troop's 5 Patrols. I'm not really respected in my patrol, and one of my assistant patrol leaders (APLs) has apparently been talking with another patrol's Patrol Leader to host a joint camp and exclude me. 

Considering that our patrol is not very friendly already and that I have already got nearly no respect from my members, I'm worried that such a camp will further reduce their respect for me and reduce our ability to work. My APLs are telling me they want me there "unofficially" but I feel like that's just going to reduce my members' trust in him and cause more major problems in my patrol.

Also, they say that they'd consulted me, which I don't recall ever happening, and also they'd told the patrol about it without confirming with me and so I'm pretty mad at them, but would I be the asshole if I didn't let this camp go through?

Also, what SHOULD I do instead?

P. S. I'll be asleep while you guys judge me, but please try to give me as much helpful advice as you can. I have no idea how to proceed and seriously need some help.

not letting my assistant patrol leader arrange a camp and not let me join