Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My mum and Dad divorced when I was 2 and I've grown up with my mum and not alot of contact with my dad - his choice as he moved to a different country. Theres always been a bit of tension over the financial aspect of things, when they split he didn't have alot of money and so child maintenance was pretty low, my mum struggled financially to support us, she'd had a career in the army but as a single mother of two small children had to give that up and so most of my childhood she was working low paid jobs whilst studying to get a better one. Meanwhile my dad became incredibly wealthy when i was around 7 and this year became a millionaire. His child maintenance never increased and as he was in a different country there's not much my mum could do about that. When i started college he started to support me a bit more as well as inviting us out to see him etc and so I decided to just let it all go and focus on myself rather than being jealous of things I didn't have which I have mostly been successful with and I have a good relationship with him now. 

However, my dad loves to brag about how much money he has and how successful he is. Which is fair enough he works hard. But in the past six months I've had a baby, had a massive decrease in pay due to maternity and my husband has just managed to find work after being out for six months. We're in massive debt and finding life very difficult. My dad's aware of this and the last time we saw him( a few weeks ago) still sat across the table from us knowing about our trouble bragging about how wealthy he is. I absolutely don't want any money from him, (he's unbearable to owe money to anyway) but I also don't want to sit across a table from him whilst he goes on about all the money he's making, his new car that is equivalent to five years of my entire salary and the two houses he's just bought. Last time I barely managed to contain myself. 

I feel like with a new baby and lots of stress I just don't have the patience to sit there and listen to it without starting an argument and I don't want to ruin my relationship with him when in a few months we're likely to be better off and I'll feel so much better so I'd rather avoid the whole meal. However, my sister (from his second marriage) thinks I should go because he doesn't get to see my daughter alot because he lives abroad and I'll be an asshole if i dont give him this opportunity. Will i be the asshole if i avoid this meal? 

avoiding a family meal with my dad