Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My wife and I are in an open relationship, and for the most part it's great. She feels safer and able to be more open with me, and that's not something she's had in the past.  


The thing is, while she's an open and adventurous person she isn't really willing to be open and adventurous with me. We talked for a while about "christening" our car, but when we actually had an opportunity to she was always afraid of getting caught. The closest we ever got was off to the side of a lonely road at 4am, but even then she didn't want to go all the way. Flash forward a couple months, I find out that she fucked a friend of hers on the way back from the airport in the middle of the day along side a MUCH busier road. We'll go to parties, everyone will get drunk or high and she'll get really grabby with whomever she wants that night but just kinda leaves me to my own devices. She'll try to hide some of her wild nature from me, and I'll find out later that while she won't even have regular sex in the same room as the window of our 3rd floor apartment, she got completely naked and fucked a FWB next to the open window of his 1st floor apartment. She's had sex just out in the open living room at a party, but barely wants anything to do with me there because of PTA. Whenever I try to talk to her about it, she just gets really sad, says that she wishes I was okay with being her safe space because she's never had one before and then she'll start saying things like "It's okay, I can be a sex object for you. What would you like to do?" or "I thought I was more to you than that."  


AITA for wanting her to be as wild with me as she is with others?

wanting my wife to be wild with me, and to not just see me as a safe space