Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My grandfather served in WWII and will be 100 this year. For the last few years as a family we have been looking forward to celebrating his 100th birthday. Although he didn't single-handedly slay every Nazi he was still my childhood hero. 

Unfortunately he has had a few health issues over the last few years so he is physically declining (which can be expected, of course) and at the same time his mental state is also suffering. Some days he is much better than others, but I'm not sure what his overall quality of life is.

Because she is the closest living relative, my mom has primary responsibility for checking on him and ensuring that he is receiving necessary care, everything is attended to, and that he has anything else he needs. Which is great!

But over the last year I have noticed that the burden of taking care of my grandfather is taking its toll on my mom. So AITA for thinking about my mom over my grandfather?

wanting death for wwii veteran