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Input: This is kind of my first actual post so forgive me if the formatting is bad or long, thank you

Backstory: My friend and I have been playing since 2.1 and made a Free Company (Guild for those who don't play Ffxiv). I was the resident crafter and I guess the money maker in the FC. The majority of the FC consisted of just about a light party's worth of people (4 or 5) our IRL friends mostly. I was a generous dude giving a few thousand or mil gil to  them when  they needed it since they didn't wanna level crafting, I didn't really care and still don't since it was forever ago. 
Fast forward to Stormblood, the current expansion. We wanna to save our money for a shirogane house when they were released. They saved a bit but I was the majority of the money. We met another group, similar size and play times. Overall awesome dudes. We decided to merge our Free Companies into one so we could A.) Finally make a static, and B.) Merge our saved up money and buy the best mansion for sale. We would enjoy 6 to 9 months worth of playing together before we all mostly went offline for awhile due to content dry spell. During that time I stayed online a bit to craft and garden and such.
During this time, my friend and I who founded the original FC went thru a huge fight. The fight was serious enough to break the entirety of our friendship making our side of the group a little wack. Without going into too much detail he just showed how shitty a person and friend he was. I kicked him from the FC without a second thought. This person has mooched off me for most of my life in game and out and I didn't want another second with to go by with him. Also informed our side of the group since the others went afk and couldn't really reach them. 
My computer would later get fried and I was offline for a bit myself, about 2 months. After I returned I saw they returned and they also had inherited the FC Leader rank since it transfer after 35 days of being offline. It was tossed around a lot, no one seemed to care. After I return I inform them about what happened. Later they would reinvite my friend and put us in special powerless ranks till this was sorted out. I told them that this wasn't negotiable and that he was not allowed back. They didn't care about what I said and believed this was a load of needless drama. I stated my side and he stated his but they got two different stories. I told them simply I can't be with him any longer and also informed them he was even planning to keep the FC in it's entirety since they were offline for a long time. Which is true but from what I gather he had stated other things. I've invested a decent deal of no life time into the house and the money I spent on the house (20 mil). Basically the entire half of my groups payment for the house. I told them there isn't a middle ground, I can't be with him another second and don't plan on talking to him again. The current FC Leader and I fought over several things and was closer to my now ex friend. I told him since I spent a lot and crafted a lot for the house I felt it was fair to be reimbursed 20 mil which is still less than what I put in since I was the only crafter I did a lot for the house. He agreed and gave me 6 mil at the time and asked if I'd give them a couple days to sell things, I agreed. I also asked for several items I had in the house storage, they agreed to this also. 
Fast forward to present, I never received a dime since the first payment and never got my items since I was kicked. I asked again and was told I was being an entitled asshole who is "barking up the wrong tree for fake pixelmoney" this was the last message I received about this matter.

Am I the asshole despite them agreeing to it prior and even giving me, essentially, a down payment?

asking for 20 mil gil in FFXIV