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Input: So for some context my partner has a child and we are about to start looking at apartments/cheap houses to rent. He and his child are a package deal and I have no issues with that, they are honestly one of the few children I actually like and genuinely enjoy being around. However, they are not my child and I don't feel like paying as much rent for an extra bedroom, food, utilities, etc should by apart of my financial responsibilities. I don't think it should much more than me honestly, the amount would be something to discuss wth said partner if Reddit thinks I wouldn't be an asshole to even suggest it.  


My partner and I are currently living on the upstairs portion of my parents house, graciously rent free. We have a room for his child but I honestly don't know how much an added expense they are as we are currently dealing with a HCBM. In general though, we typically pay 50/50 and when he needs some extra cash I just give it to him or on loan depending on the amount and vice versa. I don't think either of us feel cheated out of money or feel taken advantage of. Getting an actual place together is a step forward in our relationship and please don't get me wrong I have and do help pay for child expenses but it isn't a financial obligation... idk am in the wrong for thinking about suggesting this? In the future I don't think it'd be really something i'd care about as things change but this is all new 

asking my bf we didn't split expenses 50/50