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Input: I got into a heated argument with  my gf over her birthday party , she planned her party at her friend's house out of town with all her bestfriends and she wanted me to go.

I told her that I was too uncomfortable around her friends because they are not part of my social circle and that I would basically be alone. ( I already tried before to socialize with them but it didn't really worked ). I am the social ankward type of person and I'm really afraid to be left alone at a place where I would be  stuck".

I do realize that it means a lot for her to be around the one she loves but I know I will be uncomfortable and I will not enjoy her party , but I said to her that she should go and have fun with her friends even if I'm not here. 

I told her we could do something only both of us but she told me that " She didn't want to choose between her friends and me ". I still don't understand what she meant by that.

Now she's upset at me and told me that she will cancel her party and all our other plans ( We were going to a three day festival and to a concert in a few month ). She wants to sell her tickets. 

Sorry for the long post but it's really making me feel bad about myself. And I'm wondering if it is legitimate for me to not go. 

not wanting to go to my gf's birthday party