Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My fiancé and I don’t like the whole show and drama of weddings, nor do we like attention. We want to celebrate with our loved ones and have a good time, but avoid putting ourselves in a position where our wedding becomes what other people want. We’re having a private ceremony with close family and friends, and a reception a few months later with more people. My future mother in law will not stop lamenting over how “selfish” this is and how we’re “taking away the experience of people watching us get married.” AITA? 

wanting to not invite everyone invited to my wedding reception to my wedding ceremony