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Input: A while back I was part of a writing forum that became pretty toxic with some cliques going after random people and harrassing them, using slurs, and degrading people not just because of their writing but inane things like their slang. 

I got sick of it and left and decided to make my own forum and discord that had stricter anti-bullying rules.

A couple friends joined me and helped me create the idea of it. I created the forum, the discord, did 90% of the work for it, domain name, and even paid someone for a custom theme(which if you know web design, you know cost me a good couple hundred $'s) and made them admins and mods with me. We then began inviting other people to the discord first (particularly people who were upset with the other forum) expressing it was a much healthier place to write, and any bullying would be strictly enacted upon.

Everything was great, until I noticed people were  only joining the discord server, not the forum, and were only doing so to vent about the old forum. 

I let it go at first because it made sense for people to vent out their frustrations and get rid of their baggage before starting fresh at the new forum. But nobody was doing that. There were even a few people who joined the discord that hadn't even been part of the old forum, and after hearing of all the drama, decided to join that one instead of the one I'd created.

At this point I was getting pretty upset with the matter of things, especially since I was expected to listen to people's problems (not just forum related) without complaint, but when it came to me wanting to vent people would express their discomfort or just make jokes at my expense.

My depression and anxiety was already getting pretty bad in its own, but adding to the fact that I went through the, time, effort and financial expense of making a new forum, only for people to just brush it off like "oh cool new.forum but I like this place that makes me miserable better"  made me feel really unappreciated. My roommate had already noticed I was doing badly, and suggested I take a break from discord and forums in general and, so I announced my hiatus, and logged out for about a couple of weeks. In those weeks I realized I wasn't getting anything out of the new discord and that it had just become an extension of the old toxic forum. 

I announced I was leaving for good and giving up the discord, and gave the discord not to one of the people who had "helped" me make it, but to the admin that I had known the longest and knew would be the most unbiased and fair, then left.. 

Immediately, one of my friends who had "started the discord with me" started dm-ing me and yelling that I was a bitch and a disgusting person and that I should have given the forum to then or the other person that I typically wrote with. I was shocked but I told them I didn't think I had anything to apologize for, and that I'd chosen the most temporate person in the discord to take over.

Another friend came at me, implied I didn't care about the friendship and insisted I apologize to everyone even after I explained myself and why I'd left. Later they admitted they'd been emotional at the time, but didn't apologize. I admitted that I still wanted to be friends but it would be hard for me to trust them after they had turned on me so easily at my lowest moment. They then implied I was similar to a toxic friend of theirs and said they weren't going to beg for friendship.

TLDR= left a toxic forum with a couple friends. Made a new forum and discord, spent time and money on it. People started using it as a complaint area instead of what the discord was for, so I gave discord ownership to someone who wasn't those friends but I believe was a better fit for owner. Said friends then yelled and accused me of being a bad friend. 

So the question is: Am I the asshole for starting a forum and discord with some friends, doing most of the work, and when I stopped enjoying it, giving ownership of the discord to someone else?

giving a discord server away once I realized it wasn't fun for me anymore