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Input: I've been with my gf a couple of years. And we've been long-distance most of it because she entered med school about a year into the relationship. One of the things I vividly remember her telling me early in the relationship is she is very "low-maintenance" and that was one of the reasons I continued the relationship. Not to sound like I don't care or anything, but I want a partner who can take care of themselves. She has proven to be anything but low-maintenance in my opinion. 

She seems so different from when I met her. I feel like she flat out does not know how to cope with adversity. She has been continually stressed since she started med school, and she just can't handle it on her own. Early in the relationship I would immediately call her when she told me was sad/crying, but now she cries about 4 times a week and expects me to have hour-long face times whenever she needs emotional support. Initially she got mad at me when I would tell her I don't have time (I'm in school too), but I eventually put my foot down and said that even though I cared about her I would not skip schoolwork for her and jeopardize both our futures. I told her if she could not handle that then I could not help her. She softened a lot when I told her that; maybe she was just surprised as I'm generally pretty passive. Since then, though, she gets went from aggressive to passive aggressive. She said it's fine to tell her that I'm busy or whatever and she will respect that, but from her tone and the way she texts I can tell she's really annoyed and implies I don't care about her.

I just feel like the relationship is not reciprocal by my own nature. I had a tough childhood and learned how to cope when things aren't going my way. I don't need other people to get me through my day. I feel like she just saps me of all my energy. After a long day at work or school she expects me to sit there for an hour while she cries and vents about how her preceptor is mean or her roommate plays loud music and she can't study or she is worried about exams or she misses me or she misses her friends from here. These are all things she cries about regularly. I have only been with one other girl, so I don't have a good feel for how normal this is but I have never cried to her about anything.

I know I've only complained, but I do really care about her and genuinely want her to succeed in life. I convinced her to start seeing a counselor and I guess it helps a little, but she has a weird thing with not wanting to take medication that I strongly think she needs. So basically she just vents to a counselor once a month or so, not much help IMO. She is a genuinely nice human being, we have a lot in common in terms of beliefs, politics, and so on, and she is very intelligent. Maybe there are other guys who like to feel like that bulwark for their gf and shield her and protect her, but I just find this draining. I don't want to be called at 11pm to hear her cry because she is feeling lonely for the 9th time that month. I want to just chill and talk about how our days went when we get home over text and then eat dinner and go to bed.

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Now that school is out for me and I have some breathing room, I am seriously considering breaking up with her. At the same time, I feel guilty thinking about just leaving her stranded in med school with how much a struggle it is for her even with my emotional support. WIBTA?

breaking up with my gf because she cries too much