Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: We live in a country where we drive with shift stick mostly. My boyfriend drives like a maniac, he keeps the car in low gears while the Rpm goes to 4000 and 5000. You can practically hear the engine about to explode. I mentioned it while we were out driving and he kind of bit my head off and told me ro stay away from commenting on his driving skills. Now we are planing to go on a roadtrip and are planning to take my car. I have an older car with a sensetive transmission and engine, and im afraid my boyfriend will drive it to pieces. I told him that i dont want him to drive it because i think he is a violent driver, and he got angry and said he does not want to go on the trip anymore. 

So am I the asshole here? Neither of the cars are diesel. 

I apologize for bad grammar or language, English isnt my native language. 

refusing my boyfriend to drive my car after seeing how he drives his