Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So there's this girl I dated, for 2-3 months. By the end she admitted she felt uncomfortable and caged in. Throughout the dating phase, she never felt comfortable with any physical contact and it didn't improve. I asked her if she wanted to break things off and she said "yes, please."

I was really bummed out, liked her a lot. Tried to always make her feel safe &amp; comfortable, showed a lot of affection by non-physical means. I went no contact on her to get over it ASAP, and during this time I moved on to a point where she doesn't interest me anymore, at all.

Couple months later she wrote me and told me "she was waiting," I was confused and asked her "for what?" She said I became really important and she feels lonely and I was the first person she could open up to and be vulnerable to. Said she needs me, cries a lot thinking about me.  She asked me to go back to old ways and at least be her friend again, be vulnerable/open with her again.

The thing is... I just... don't care about her anymore at all. I think it's part of my coping mechanism. Also, she lives in another city now and I've never been the type to chat a lot. It's not like I actively ignore her texts, I answer politely but firm. I don't feel like investing anything back into it.

Am I the asshole?

not caring anymore about a girl I dated