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Input: My close friends consists of four of us. There’s my best friend and I (both 23F) who have known each other since 8th grade then there’s Jessi(26F) and Daniel(25F). We met Jessi and Daniel when Jessi moved in with my best friend. 

We all got close. I was very close to Jessi. She knows everything about. However, she’s slut shamed me, and made me feel disgusting for a lot of my views. She told me I had no responsibilities (a rant, actually) said hurtful things about my best friend and Daniel. 

I admit I shouldn’t have bottled everything up she was doing/saying but every time I tried to talk to her in a calm manner about something that bothered me.. she would get upset and blame it on something else/someone else. For example: I tried talking to her about BV and how her comments made me feel. Instead of apologizing, she directed it towards my best friend and stated, “she’s disgusting and dirty. She sleeps with men all the time with no condoms.” My best friend was only hooking up with one guy during that time and I had NOT mentioned her at all. 

I’m fully aware that I should’ve never let her say nasty things in the first place and I never agreed with her or said anything when she said those things but... it’s a hard position.

Now my best friend lives with her and had distanced herself from her because Jessi had said some very rude things to her in her face. Daniel already knows how she is.

I finally let everything out last night. I told them everything. I wrote a letter to Jessi explaining how I felt about things and left it in her room. Everything in the letter was said in a kind way.

After the big blowout last night, I didn’t say anything to her because I already stated how I felt. I told her she can talk to me when she realizes that it’s not us whose the problem.

She had asked all of us to speak with her but she only ended up talking to my best friend and Daniel. I was not asked to talk. She texted me saying she was over it and that if I wanted to talk to her that she would be open to it because she didn’t want to talk to me.

I told her I needed a few days to cool down &amp; to respect that. She texted me saying that I created the wedge between her, my best friend and Daniel. Reading that just made me cut the friendship off because the rude words that she said about them never came out of my mouth. I only made them aware of it.

My best friend supports me. Daniel, on the other hand. Is telling me that “She’s family and you shouldn’t cut her off. Give her a chance. Don’t be a bitch about it.”

And I get that... I would have been fine, partly, but that comment of how I wedged in between them was it for me. So am I the asshole here for cutting her off like that?

ending my friendship