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Input: Now I have always felt like the least liked child when it comes to my mom. My parents went through a bad divorce a few months after I got born, and my mom ended up getting full custody of me, with no timeplan or anything. 

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Now although I don't know if I'm the cause of the divorce, I feel like I am and my mom probably agrees with me on that point. I feel like I have always had to "pay" for that.

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This is everything like weird small things like her always making jokes at my expensive when at family gatherings (everything from embarrassing stories to ridiculing medical conditions) to what I would call borderline abuse, saying that she would beat me black and blue and throw me where no-one would ever find me and saying that she would send me to an orphanage before killing herself. 

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Now when I was in my late 15's I got sent to a boarding school, which was actually very refreshing and helped me gain self-confidence and friends etc. This also meant that I had a chance to get in contact with my dad, which I had not been allowed to do before, and quite frankly I like my dad and my dads side of the family a lot more than my mom/moms side. This meant that I automatically got closer to my dad and distanced myself from my mom.

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There are also smaller things that make me feel like I'm less than my older brother. My mom paid for my brothers drivers license, first car, school equipment like books and laptops, multiple international trips and gave him allowance. In comparison my mom paid for the boarding school I go to, and that's it. She didn't pay a penny for any of that, and even when it comes to birthday presents, I remember when my brother turned 18 he got around $3000 in various stocks and bonds, I got a wire transfer of $200 and a happy birthday call. 

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The obvious explanation for this is that she has less money now compared to then, but I know that's not true since she worked as an accountant when my brother was my age, and now she is executive director for a somewhat big danish company.

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This is where the rambling ends: I turned 18 mid October this year, and I arranged my plans for Christmas myself this year. The plan I had made was that the days leading up to Christmas I would be with my dad and his family, celebrate Christmas with my mom the 24th (in Denmark you celebrate Christmas the 24th), leave at around 10pm and catch a late flight to London and celebrate Christmas with my girlfriend and her family the 25th (girlfriends family is from London) and stay with her for a few days. 

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To me that sounds like a pretty fair distribution of time, but when my mom asked about my Christmas plans she freaked out and asked why I even wanted to celebrate with my girlfriend since we have only been together for 2 years, and why I wanted to be with my dad since he is mean and that he tried to send me to an orphanage when I got born. I told her that I'm an adult and I will do with my time as I please, to which she tried to guilt-trip me about how she spend so much time and ruined her life trying to make me successful, and if I really just wanted to betray her like that.

 

I told her that I was done with that guilt-tripping and that was the straw that broke the camels back, and I was gonna celebrate Christmas with my dad instead before hanging up the phone. Then I blocked her on all social medias and blocked her number from my phone, ultimately trying to cut my mom out of my life.

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This was the 4th December, and my brother called me earlier today telling me that he just got off the phone with my mom crying that I hated her and my brother told me that I should give my mom another chance, I started feeling bad but I feel like I did the right thing. 

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From an outsider perspective, am I the asshole?

cutting my mom out of my life