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Input: Some backstory, about a year ago our roommate moves in with my fiancé and myself. Met him from Craig’s list seemed cool shared a lot of the same interests as us. We had a generous price for the room and utilities, about 40% of the total rent and utilities, and since he was struggling getting hours at work he really wanted the room. Problem was he had a cat and the complex has a strict no pets rule. Found he could claim the cat as an Emotional Support Animal then we would be fine to move in. Helped him get that sorted, I payed for his pet deposit which was 50$. Great all set to move in, he said he’s moving in on the 14 of the month. We didn’t care about the day but then he said he’s only paying half the months rent. Kinda annoyed but my fiancé and I do ok enough financially and we know what it’s like to struggle so we said ok half of the rent. We also smoke weed and he did as well, we smoked him out constantly and he never offered any back. Everything goes fine-ish for about 6 months complaints here and there about the dishes piling up which is 99% our fault since he doesn’t cook and was totally. He started looking for new jobs for better pay, found one and got fired, found another job and one that paid way more. He knocked on the door to my fiancé and I’s room crying with laughter excited for his new job. We were close at the time and he said “I was so excited I just wanted to tell someone”. After that he goes full ghost on us never says more than hi or sup. Won’t answer texts, discord, nothing. See him occasionally in the kitchen when he uses the microwave and that’s hit. Recently my fiancé left the stove on, and my roommate noticed and turned it off. Came to talked to me about he saying it was irresponsible and that the safety of his stuff and his cat could have burned away. I kinda shrugged it off this kind of thing happened occasionally I won’t lie. I had kinda a shit week (not saying this justifies it just giving details). I guess he didn’t like the way I reacted so he talked to my fiancé about it and I guess they got kinda heated. About a couple months ago he says that we need to be quiet by 11pm, we say we’ll try our best but we’re both night owls and play games late at night and shit get heated some times ya know? Tonight I was playing games with friends and my fiancé and I got too loud again and he sent my fiancé a text saying “I guess this isn’t going to end. I’m moving out”. We tried to be good roommates but you be the judge reddit AITA?

TLDR: Tried to accommodate our roommate as much as possible financially and as a friend. Starts ghosting us when he gets a new job only talks to us when he has a complaint and is trying to set our bed time because his work schedule. 


Typing late at night on my phone apologize for the all the bad. Will fix tomorrow. 

my roommate wanting to move out