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Input: I’m 22 and Kate is 22. We’ve been together two years. We have never had a big argument, we live together, and she has helped me through a lot, including a death in my family. 

We always use protection but we ended up getting drunk one night and we had unprotected sex. We thought it would be fine since she is on BC. 

She told me yesterday however that she must’ve missed a birth control pill around that time and that she’s pregnant, about 5 weeks. 

We talked about kids before in the past and we both agreed that neither of us wanted kids and if somehow she got pregnant, she would get an abortion. 

Well now that she is actually pregnant she is telling me that she doesn’t think she can go through with an abortion. 

I got really upset and said that we made a decision together a long time ago that she would get an abortion if this happened and that she has to consider my opinion in this. 

She told me that it really isn’t my decision at all and that she is the one who is pregnant and she is the one who gets to decide. I said she was not being fair and I’m a part of this too but she isn’t listening to me and is planning to have the kid. I’m freaking out. 

She is being delusional if she thinks we are at all ready to have kids. Neither of us have finished university and neither of us have a lot of money. 

I really do think that she needs to listen to me and what I think about her getting an abortion but she just absolutely refuses to listen to anything I have to say about it and is planning on having this kid. I haven’t told anybody about this yet including my parents. 

AITA for telling her I want her to listen to my opinion on her pregnancy? Should I really just shut my mouth? 



telling my newly pregnant girlfriend that she needs to consider my opinion on whether to keep the baby