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Input: Sorry for clickbait-y title, this is just bugging the hell out of me. I'll try to make this brief but there's some back story.

I have this co-worker/"friend" who is very selfish and irresponsible. Long story short, she doesn't have a car at the moment. This wasn't sudden. She sold her vehicle a couple months ago because it broke down. Ever since then she's been relying mostly on rides from various people, and occasionally a cab to get to work. She frequently asks me because we work the same shift and I live across the street. I take her when I can, but I'm not always home because my fiance and i share a car, and sometimes I have to go to my dads house (close to my job) in order to get myself to work.

Two things have me kind of done with this situation though. 1. She doesn't make a plan for how to get to work. She starts looking for a ride like an hour and a half before she's supposed to be there. Every day. 2. She knows she will have days she may need to take a cab, it happens at least once a week. Yet she sets no money aside for this. If she just couldn't afford it I would understand, but she straight up admitted to me she's spent almost $1k on weed in the last couple of weeks. I'll spare you the rest of the details here, but she overshares daily so I have a good idea of her financial situation. She could have saved some cab money, she just didn't want to.

Anyway, yesterday I was at my dads before work. She texts me like usual and i say i can't, I'm at my dads (she knows my situation there). She says she's screwed because no one can take her and she has no cab money. Here's where I feel like an asshole. I could have woken up my dad and asked to use the car to go get her. I just didn't want to because he would be annoyed about it, and i would have to rush to get ready and drive all the way across town to get us both to work on time. I'm done putting myself out just to bail her out of shit she could have prevented. Unfortunately, this meant that our boss had to work a double shift, about 14 hours. 

I feel bad, and sort of responsible for our boss having to work such a long day. I could have at least tried to help. But at the same time this is a frequent situation, and i have helped many times. If it were truly not preventable I wouldn't hesitate to help any time I could. So, AITA? 

Tl;dr Irresponsible co-worker didn't plan for a ride. I didn't help because it would have put me out. As a result our boss had to work 14 hours. 

not giving a single mom a ride