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Input: tl;dr at bottom, also on mobile so sorry for spelling/format.

so, me, my sister (“Anne”)  and my boyfriend “Rob”) are planning on moving into Anne’s boyfriend’s (“Steven”) house.

They have two dogs - pitbulls - who are absolute sweethearts. However, as Steven is never really home, the animals are not getting the life they deserve. They’re just spending it in cages. So, he has decided to surrender them. Both dogs, together, cost $400 to surrender because we want to take them to a good, no-kill rescue. One dog is deaf, the other has such horrible separation anxiety that he must be heavily medicated. He was going to be put down if we brought him back to the shelter we got him from.

Steven is unable to afford medicating the one pittie, and made the sad decision to give them up. 

he has not given them up yet, because he does not have the $400 to surrender them. He can’t afford it.

However, today, I got a text from Anne and Steven about how they bought a hookah for ~$120. Steven gets sick on nicotine. And yeah, Anne, Rob and I do love hookah, and we did discuss buying one eventually, but it wasn’t brought up again.

This to me seems like an impulse buy on Anne/Steven’s part, and I feel like it raises a red flag. If they couldnt afford the rehome fee for the dogs, shouldn’t they be saving money? Why did they choose to buy a hookah NOW even though Steven gets sick on it? What happens if I move in with them and they don’t stop the reckless spending?

I brought up in the group chat that they should have saved that money for the rehoming fee, and now i have Anne mad at me for making such a big deal out of it, I’m sure Steven is pissed, and now Rob is starting to side with them.

I’m looking at this from a money management/priority standpoint. We did not need a hookah. We NEED to rehome the two dogs, and maybe get some actual CHINA for the house (we only have like paper plates and plastic cups).

They keep saying “Its their money” and they can do what they want, but both Steven AND Anne are pretty deep in debt, and I see it as this: if we move in, and they splurge on something stupid, it’s going to affect everyone in the house.

Rob and I are supposed to move in to Steven’s house in the summer, but now I’m having second thoughts and everyone’s getting mad at me for it. AITA?

TL;DR i feel as though my sister and her boyfriend are not prioritizing their money correctly, it makes me not want to move in with them, and theyre getting mad at me for it. 

getting mad at my potential future roommates because they don't know how to prioritize money