Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: i didnt fuck up today, this is about a years worth of fuckups leading to the ultimate fuckup, losing the one you love.

so to start off with some context, about 2 years ago i met this girl on steam. now it was a completely random meeting she ended up adding me off some guy's friend list. this was some guy i had met before and we weren't really close he was just an ok fellow to play with.
so this girl (ill call her rachel or r from now on) added me and asked me about a game series out of the blue. it was a funny way to start a conversation but we did have a good conversation about it, went on for hours. 

i was hoping because i didnt have many good friends at the time that she would sprout into one of those. now keep in mind, i have no idea the extent of what shes been through or that anything is going wrong for her at this time.

so the next couple days all she does is send me invites for a game which i thought was an odd way to be a friend no conversation. so i ignored them for a while hoping that maybe she would talk to me further at some point, but i wasnt hopeful for much. actually i had planned on removing her like a week or two after we met because it wasnt promising. 

after much of these invites, i decide to finally join up on one. im in the game and of course its her friends in the game and they sorta gang up on me because i suck but whatever i ride it out because maybe joining this will get her to talk to me. 

its now been roughly a month and ive joined a few of her games but still we haven't talked much other than one line responses primarily me joking about her invites. 

a little bit further down the line from that, she brings something semi-serious up (im sorry its been a long time i cant really remember) that strikes my interest. so naturally trying to be good, i talk to her about it and offer my experience in wanting to be different as well. (i was a trolling asshole at this point and i wanted real friends basically) 
this conversation happened and we became a little bit closer, eventually getting to the point of actually talking about school, games, etc. basic things. 

we then progressed further often playing games and whatnot talking on skype having a good time. this is going well and i think ive found myself a good new friend. 

one night im playing a game with my friend and its like 2am my time so im a bit tired and getting ready to sleep soon. all of a sudden i was having a conversation with r about things in her past she had an ex that apparently things did not go well at all with. we're talking in text chat while i play with my friend and she seems very upset about the whole situation rightfully so. 

i try to comfort her, tell her that shes not wrong for thinking this way in a summed up sense, that things did suck and listened to her full story. the guy she was talking about is crucial to this, so ill call him k or kraig. at this point, k seems like the worst person ever to me because he treated her like garbage, refused to respond to her, and ignored her cries for help. getting into that: this is pretty much when she opened up to me a bit about issues shes struggled with, depression, relationship issues, warped definitions of affection, many 
things she should not have had to struggle with.

so now i know all this and it begins to make sense to me why she just sent me invites and didnt talk to me, she has overwhelming anxiety and other things that are horrible to deal with. i ended up talking to her on skype and telling my friend brb in voice while i went to talk to her. she was crying and she seemed the most upset shes ever let me hear her, and i felt horrible. 

the toll that what shes been through had taken on her crushed me it sucked to see someone feel that low. so this night has happened and she seemed a lot better at the end of it and she thanked me for talking to her i got her to cheer up i know that. this event has brought us closer and now we talk a lot more about personal things like what shes dealt with and more serious things. 

we've become really close as friends and she brings up this k guy semi-often and i sorta just told her forget about him he sucks because he did in my mind. 

now this is whats crazy is not to get into details but i had something happen to me that seemed like a slight pain that wasnt a big deal to me so i mostly ignored it. however, she convinced me to do something about it and go to the emergency room and i know it sounds stupid but i really wasnt going to do it before she insisted i do. turns out, that could've killed me if i had let it go so in a way she saved my life. 

roughly a month in the hospital and im out, and shes there still being a great friend to me.

by this point i really like her shes become a very important person to me, and ive got a little crush on her.
things go on we're still having fun enjoying time together when my first major screwup happens. there was a night we were talking and stupidly i bugged her to put k in the skype call. 

why did i do this, well because k really bothered me i hated him for what he did to her and all i wanted to do was cuss him out and insult him, things of that nature. now from her point it looks like i just wanted to start drama between them and watch, which wouldve been a poor move on my part. i fought for my side and she wasnt having it so i ended up making her remove me because i was being pushy about it. 
so a few months go by and i decided to add her back to fix this situation because i really loved being around her she was amazing. a few months after this happened there was this guy she liked and was gonna tell him her feelings. i convinced her go for it do it, i hope things work out for you. 

the guy ended up rejecting her not wanting that relationship with her and she was kinda bummed but i told her to keep her head up. about 10 minutes later i dropped a serious bomb on her and asked her out, she was stunned and told me she'd love to be my girlfriend but she needed time to think things over about k and prior things. 

so i gave her the time, a few days later she agreed to it. things are going good with r i love her and she says she loves me we're doing it all well. about 4 or 5 months in, second screwup happens where its revealed that i lied about something since we started dating. 
completely wrong on my part, i screwed up bad there and i felt terrible for it but the circumstances made it hard to come clean. we make up from that, things are decent again and its going smooth.

she tells me she wants to really deal with k again which is fine because i feel shes loyal to me and she needs to do what she needs to do.
about a month or two later, im feeling very distant to her and it seems like she doesnt want to do as much with me. maybe im being overly attached but she seems different, shes obviously upset about something i know her. i asked her a few times albeit lightly if she had anything wrong, if she was doing ok to which she replied yes all was well. but i knew this wasnt the same girl i had been with, things had changed. 

i asked her again whats the deal, is something changed whats wrong. this time she told me what the issue was straight up. this is speedbump #3 (keep in mind im sorta thinking that maybe screwup #2 was what did this to us) where she says she never had a crush on me when i asked her out and she didnt feel that way about me. so that kinda sucked... and she said the reason she'd been so distant was because shes been trying to deal with k. 

i tell her i get it and she says she grew feelings for me being in that relationship and she wants to sit somewhere between dating and friendship. i tell her i understand and we do that. she talked to me a lot the next week or so about k and how she messed up with him and she wants to make things right. i supported her with this but i still think that k is terrible on the inside and he wronged r. 

a couple days pass and screwup #4 happens which is where i decide on my own will (she pretty much was saying dont do this) to add k and see if he had gotten some very important messages r sent him. now, r's main problem with k and why shes so hurt is because k never listened to her and she finally thinks that k did listen to her messages.
i dont think he did and as such adding him i ask if he ever got them. i had done this because i was sick of k wasting r's time with this and i felt in my own mind it was best to have r move on. he says no and i tell r, where did i fuck up, well she didnt want to know that and i should have asked her if she wanted to... what an idiot i was to take that away from her.

 keep in mind shes always felt like people didnt care or listen to her for years up until recently so that was crucial for her. again, completely fucked up on my part and i wish i had never done that why do i keep fucking up with this girl? she tell me she doesnt forgive me and a few days later she ends up forgiving me but telling me what i did was wrong. 

i understand, but on the night she told me she forgave me... you guessed it, fuckup #5. i messaged her a thing about how i still care about her and she means a lot to me and im so glad she forgave me glad to have her as a friend. and i meant all that it made me happy to send, now heres where i went wrong. after sending that i didnt really get a response to it which i shouldve known meant "back off man i dont feel this way at the moment" but i didnt because im an idiot.
 so naturally i sent her something a day later asking if the message meant anything to her and would i be able to earn back the trust i had destroyed. this was basically me being selfish and going do you still like me after i had screwed up not but a few days prior. she responds upset to it saying that i need to chill out and shes upset with me for being pushy so i just drop it. 

a day and a half (the half leading up to now) passes where she doesnt talk to me. shes messaged me today a little bit saying that again i need to chill out which is perfectly understandable. so thats what i plan to do, i dont think she really believes that im going to though based on her response. i think at this point, if it wasnt already, our relationship is over that has no chance of returning. but as of now, im kinda worried whether we'll even have that close friendship we used to have.

you might be asking yourself, why is this ironic what you've done? well, a lot of the times when i talked to her about serious things and attempted to cheer her up, it was involving guys that had done similar things to me. the very things i vowed id never do if i got to be with a girl like her. one of them, the pushy thing where i tried to get over something too fast was what a guy (we'll say s) did to her plenty and shes annoyed about it still because it happened a lot. shes also been lied to a lot and she said one thing she never wanted was someone who lied (similar to another ex) which is exactly what i did. but also since before i ever met her, id always wanted a girl that i could treat right because everyone always thinks they can be that good guy and do things right. i really thought i could and it was my philosophy that i would never mistreat a girl if i got one, look what happened. i hurt her probably as much if not more than her ex's have. what kind of a monster does that make me? i dont know whats gonna happen from here, but i do know that its all my fault for how this has gone. 

while im on the topic though, id like to get some frustration out. mainly that inner me wishes k never existed because of all hes done to her and i would have never been this over pushy asshole if this situation hadnt arisen and made my confidence die. its a shitty excuse and it doesnt make it right, but i felt like saying that. i probably dont deserve her anyway at this point for all ive done to her, i can agree with that. but i just wish i could've had this and done right to her instead of treating her like the very scum i warned her never to be with. 

id like to know what people on here think, yes even if its completely negative because i did screw up big time here it was my fault all of this. sorry to her, sorry to everyone whos facepalming at what a jackass ive been and how little i deserve to be happy with her. i agree completely, many bonehead moves on my part i should have never even thought about.

TIFU by doing what I said I would never do to the girl I love