Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Some background:
Me and my husband have been married for 12 years but we both have kids from our previous marriages. My daughter was 6 and his daughter was 3 when we got married. I've practically raised her and I love her like my own daughter. Her mother passed away.

The issue:
Now, my stepdaughter was diagnosed with cancer and is due to start chemo. My husband and daughter buzzed their heads to support her and my daughter donated her hair. They are asking me to do the same but I didn't want to do it so I told them that I didn't want to. At this point my husband told me that if her mother were alive she would've done it and I felt like shit. 

Could I have done better? AITA??

refusing to donate my hair to support my stepdaughter