Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Alright alright hear me out becuase the title makes it sound worse than it is.

So I was on a dating app and matched up with a guy with some sort of arm deformity (is that the polite way to say it?). No big deal. I'm all about personality and how someone treats others.

So we start chatting and ge asks if i ever kissed someone. I said no (Im 22 btw). He asks if i would kiss on the first date and i responded no since I'm not comfortable with that. He then asks if I'd be willing to hold hands. I said probably not becuase i just met you and this is a first date.

He gets upset and pressed me after i told him I wasn't comfortable and says "why? Its just holding hands?" And i say "Becuase I'm just not comfortable with it."

Now its got **NOTHING** to do with his condition. If he had normal hands I still wouldnt hold them on the first date. I've never really dated anyone before and don't want to rush things.

So am I the asshole?

not wanting to hold hands with a guy who has deformed arms