Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I became good friends with this girl while me and my boyfriend were long distance, it took me a while, but after a couple of months I realized I found her attractive. My boyfriend was back in Canada, and I had no intentions of pursuing anything with her, but she was the first girl I'd ever been attracted to and it made me question some things about myself. 

I wanted to talk to someone about it, but my boyfriend doesn't have the best self esteem, and he's always saying he's worried I'll find someone "better", so I wasn't sure if I should tell him about it. Instead I talked to a close friend of mine who is bisexual. 

About a week after I talked to my friend, I decided to tell my boyfriend about it, and I mentioned I had talked to someone else about it, and that I wasn't sure if I should tell him. When we were talking on the phone he acted fine, but about an hour after we hung up he messaged and said that it made him uncomfortable that I found someone else attractive because he never even thought of anyone else, and said that he thought I should have told him before anyone else, and not thought about hiding it from him. When I told him I was worried it would upset him, he said that that wasn't a good reason to keep things from him, and I shouldn't assume how he's going to react. 

AITA for being attracted to someone else and thinking about keeping it from him because I assumed he'd react badly? Should I have told him right away? Or at least before I talked about it with someone else? 


not telling my boyfriend I was attracted to another girl first