Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Throwaway of course.

So the Title already makes everyone say run away but there are some weird circumstances.

We have a long-distance relationship, about a 4 hour drive. Hard or impossible to be  spontaneous with our Jobs. She has mental health problems, she can't even leave her apartment alone to get groceries. If she's feeling lonely she gets depressed.

She absolutely loves me, she doesn't touch him. He's just in her life to help her getting groceries, driving her around and so she doesn't feel lonely as long as I'm not there. 

She knows he still has feelings for her and she always has to deny him if he wants to make a move. But she still invites him to watch movies together but he never sleeps over. I absolutely trust her but it feels horrible. If I'm around she absolutely ignores him and is out of her life. But as soon as I'm gone she starts getting depressed and calls him. And when he's there she turns off her phone so she "doesn't hurt him when another guy is calling."

Now she has zero friends, Family isn't there for her. He's the only contact she has besides me and she says it's just to not feel lonely. She literally wouldn't leave her apartment for days without him. And I cannot be there for her everyday because of the distance. 

They were together for 8 years. And we're together for one year with him almost always present somehow but there's nothing happening between them. She treats him like a friend, nothing more. It still feels all wrong for me and everyone told me to let go. What makes me stay is she straight up tells him she has no feelings for him and she tells him we're together and are sleeping together, which he doesn't seem to care about. So the situation is very clear here. I also talked with him about it and he confirmed this, which he had no reason to if he wants to get rid of me. But he still thinks they're getting back together and is badmouthing me whenever possible. 

Am I the asshole for not wanting her to meet him? Which ultimately means she is "alone", I'm talking to her on the phone for hours every day, working overtime to meet her as much as possible, I see her 3-4 days a week. but that doesn't seem to be enough. I planned to move in together and leave my family behind but it stings and I'm not convinced she stops seeing him. I can't help her getting groceries or getting to leave her apartment. But I also told her she doesn't need an ex, she needs a caregiver.

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TL;DR Depressed long-distance GF meets her Ex because it's her only contact in life and otherwise wouldn't leave her apartment for days. I'm there whenever possible, minimum 3 days/week. I want her to cut contact. 

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not accepting that she's meeting her Ex