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Backstory; bf [31] and I [28] have known each other our whole lives, and have dated a few times. This go round, we have been together for 1.25 years.

Last night we were spending time together for new year's eve. Everything was going well until I hit an insecure spot and asked him if he loves me.

He starts with "of course i love you, i always have and always will, but..." and starts talking about logistics of our relationship and how we can set up a living space in another part of the house and basically he wastrying to discuss moving in with me so we could spend time together and still allow for us to pursue our respective arts (he is a musican, i do visual art) because he is not going to go through another year without releasing new tracks.

He ended up saying something along the lines of "but I know thats just not gonna happen with you" and I said 'well then why do this then?'

Some more i love you's were exchanged and  we went inside to get ready for bed, but he was still talking about how stressful it was for him to come over because he cant work on music or anything so i said "okay, i can call you an uber if you want"

He got so upset saying he felt like i was kicking him out he went outside and called his family to pick him up from my place. I immediately start asking him not to leave like this - i was just offering etc etc. 

I repeatedly asked him to call them back and cancel the ride, but he basically said he was tired of feeling  like I could just kick him out at any second and to stop talking to him.

I called him a million times after he left, and tried to tell him over and over again that i wasnt intending to offend him, i was suggesting the thing that i thought might make him happy and obviously i do not WANT him to leave - but he kept hanging up on me and basically told me to never call his phone again because he is tired of my shit.

This morning, when i woke up, i saw he is still listed as in a relationship with me on fb, and has not changed his profile picture from the picture of us, but he has not replied to any of my messages or called or texted... so i am fairly uncertain as to what is going on.

TL;DR - bf hasn't released a new track in over a year, and attributes it to spending too much time with me so i offered to uber him home and he was so upset by me offering to uber him home that he left and told me to not talk to him again (but i dont think he broke up with me)

AITA?


offering to uber my bf home on NYE