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Input: A little backstory: my SD(sugar daddy) and I have been on and off for about three years. He knows I’m not interested in a emotional relationship.

We had just started an arrangement again, but this time he wanted to do weekly payments. I was ok with that as I have my own business and had been doing fine. Then the shit show started. 

I had a major client of my mine pull out of a deal, two flat tires, and a abnormally large electric bill. When we met, I told him and asked if we could just do the whole amount now as I really needed it. He made me pull up my bank account and show him I wasn’t lying. Basically after begging for his help(I’ve never done that before) he agreed to give me a weeks payment early.

The next week I’m at his house when I get a call from my brothers ex-wife’s dad. He told me they found my brother dead this morning. I fell to the floor crying. My SD kinda rubbed my back and told me we had to leave since he was going to work and put me in a Uber. 

I understand people don’t know how to act around death. So I wasn’t mad at his lack of emotion. Five days pass and I still haven’t heard from him. When our date night rolls around he finally texts and asks me to dinner so I go. 

When we show up he acts like nothing happens and asks why I am in a shit mood. I complain about how stressed I am, how I don’t have the money to fly back home, and how my dad wasn’t going to be at the funeral because he couldn’t afford the trip. 

He starts complaining about how when his cousin died a couple years ago he didn’t get to do anything for his funeral because he felt like his family was using him for money and he has no interest in helping me. 

Now that left a sour taste in my mouth. We had gotten into fights in the past about stupid shit like shoes, but this was the first time in three years that I actually needed him. I ended up just going home, but per our agreement I did owe him another sleepover. 

I ended up pulling together what I needed to go to his funeral(my dad did not) and when I got back home I decided to do the final sleepover so he couldn’t say I scammed him. 

Obviously I was not excited to see him. We got into a fight because I didn’t want to sleep in his bed (I was planning on sleeping on the couch) he said he had talked to his dad(his dad hates me) and his dad told him not to help me so he didn’t. He also said he wouldn’t have bought my dad a ticket because no grown man would accept help from his daughter. The fight ends with him telling me to sleep in the bed or leave, so I left. 

Now he’s blowing up my phone, calling me a sociopath and saying that I scammed him and I owe him. I told him that I tried to do what we agreed( yeah, world play “sleepover” but still) and if he couldn’t see where he was wrong I want nothing to do with him. 

AITA for expecting help even though I didn’t want a full relationship? 

emotionally manipulating my sugar daddy