Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So my grandpa is a bigot. He's a homophobe, he's got issues with women and can come across as innocently racist. To basically everyone in my family, including my dad and aunt, his own kids, he's a an argumentative asshole. I've never felt that way about him, I've always had this connection with him. We look alike, our brains are wired in the same way, we've had a lot of the same problems in our lives. 

To put it simply, he's basically me if he was raised in the 1940s with the threat of a belt hanging over him for 18 years. He's been through a lot, and it sort of broke him down. I'm not justifying his opinions, he's openly set out to provoke my parents, who are proud LGBT supporters, talking about "the gays" and stuff. He's pretty casually cruel as well, according to my dad he's never once acknowledged his accomplishments in life. 

That's obviously not good, but he's been supportive of me, pretty much only me. I know I can't bring my girl there, since she's bi, and basically hated him on my description alone, my aunt refuses to let my cousins even see him, and my dad thinks I'm nuts for defending him.

AITA for standing with and defending my grandfather, despite the fact that he's pretty blatantly an asshole at times, and fairly bigoted? I

standing with my bigoted grandfather