Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My [23/M] live-in girlfriend [22/F] is going through a serious depressive episode. It's been so nasty that we've agreed she needs to start therapy again, and that we should talk to her doctor about upping her meds.

While she's in a depressed state, she gets very negative about everything and often makes her negativity quite noticeable. It's a real turn-off, it's very stressful and concerning, and it all makes it tough for me to get aroused by her. 

When I posted on relationship advice, almost every reply was someone thinking I was breaking up with her over her depression and leaving her when she needs support the most. That's not what I'm doing.

The other replies thought I was a terrible person and that my love was unconditional for not being turned on by her when her depression turns her into a debbie-downer who's got me concerned for her well-being.

Am I really the asshole for not wanting to have sex with my girlfriend while she's in such a dark, negative place?

not feeling sexually attracted to my partner during a depressive episode