Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: AITA? I work at a clinic, I've been there about 8 months. I'm the only dietitian and work exclusively at one of our four sister clinics so I don't know most of the employees including 70% of the doctors. Tonight I attended a work function and there was a pretty decent band playing so a lot of people were dancing. A few of the girls were laughing at a guy across the room who was clearly enjoying the music and awkwardly dancing. I asked them "who is the guy in the red shirt?" Instantly everyone gets real quiet and just stares at me. One girl yells "That's Dr. C! She's a woman!" Now I feel like an asshole and left early because of my embarrassment but seriously, how would I know?!?! She really looked like a guy from where I was sitting, I certainly didn't do it on purpose. Am I an asshole for accidentally misgendering her? 

accidentally misgendering a doctor