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Input: As a kid, I quickly learned that due to my mom's ultra strict Christianity and [infantilization](https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/general/the-causes-and-symptoms-of-infantilization/), I had to hide who I was to be able to have as close to a normal childhood I could. She would get upset with me the more clear it was I was growing up. She just had serious issues, and I understand now that it's because she is extremely dependent on being a mother. She revealed to me as a child that she was a child slave in her home country for a few years with her sister. She comes from a very sexist/racist society and on seperate occasions has told me that I am intellectually inferior for being Hispanic and a woman. Now I'm looking back at it, I mostly see it as a projection of her feelings of herself and the sexism/racism she went through. She is also very racist to black people, but it partly black herself.

She doesn't have any friends, or ever leaves the house. She never allowed me to leave the house besides school or errands with her. I was never allowed to play in a park or hang out with friends after class. I could never go anywhere on weekends or during summer vacation either. When I used to come home late cause of sports practice in high school, I got beat for it and called a whore. It wasnt until I was 17, and told them I would call the cops if they did it again that they loosened up. So at 17, was when I was allowed to have friends and have a life. I basically had no childhood and no relationship with them because I learned that avoidance was key in making my life easier under their rule.

My dad was traditional in that what my mom says goes when it came to raising us. Their marriage was arranged by my grandmother when my mom was 19, my dad 26. They had a very unhappy resentful marriage. My mom also manipulated him into thinking if he let me do normal things kids do, I'd become a whore. (She had a sister who had 9 kids starting at 13 years old.) I didn't have much of a relationship with him cause he sadly worked like 16 hours a day and would come home to a fight with my mom.

For more information, ya'll can see some of my post history on r/raisedbynarcissists cause there is more I can say. I've read books about all of this and tried talking to friends about it. I know I "should" try to talk to them about how I felt growing up and try to salvage our relationship, but I don't feel there is anything to salvage. I am graduating college in May, so I no longer need their tax returns to prove to the government I am so poor I need financial aid. A few months ago, I told them I don't want to continue a relationship with them anymore, just like that. I blocked them on my phone and continue getting messages from my mother making me feel really guilty about it all. AITA or should I put myself through years of more stress and reminders of the pain just because they are my parents and had it bad too?

not wanting to continue a relationship with my parents