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Input: About a month ago there was this event where we got to meet people from different parts of the country. After the event I got a message on a messaging app from a girl from the convention. I ignored it because i didn't really want more people to chat to. About a day goes by and i thought of talking to the girl.

So after like, 2 days of talking it seemed like she liked me, but i never really got to notice her back at the convention, but she noticed me a lot and thought I was cute, which is why she messaged me in the first place. 

Some time later she asked if it was okay if she liked me. Since i didnt have an SO i said sure, then we started flirting and sending lovey dovey messages and stuff to each other.

We got to know some things about ourselves. She's an extrovert, going to parties, events, and basically anything where people go to. I'm  mainly an introvert, kinda boring at times but also kind of weird.

After like 2 weeks her attraction towards me seems to be going away, but i didnt mind because usually in relationships there were just ups and downs, and i thought this was just one of the down parts in a relationship.

I asked to meet up, she said sure and we planned to meet in a mall nearby. I waited for hours and realized she couldnt go because she had practice for a dance competition and a shooting for a movie project. I was really bummed out about it but I just accepted it since I didnt want to distrupt her schedule.

Weeks passed and we havent even seen each other yet. She stopped calling me any lovey dovey names and I gradually stopped too. In my mind I thought this could work out despite what happened but what really hit the nail in the coffin is when she said that i was too boring and i should have more friends in my life. 

I felt kinda depressed but i just said "yeah i know" and thats pretty much it. We barely talked anymore and never reacted or replied except for a few "haha"s and "ok"s anymore.

I didnt get to chat her for a whole day because I had a party, and after a party, i didnt really want to chat her anymore.


Should i have told her something before i went away? I feel like i ghosted her and i feel really bad. I do still have some emotions and feelings for her and feel really sad that i dont know how to become better

One thing i like her about though is that she has a really liberal lifestyle where she could go out and party and hang out with friends whenever she wanted. i kinda also wanted to be with her to know how that would feel like since i'm just an introvert.

ghosting a girl that was flirting with me