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Input: Recently I won a $4000 scholarship to take flight lessons. To get the scholarship I had to submit a community service form (80 hours), a five paragraph essay, and an hour long interview. I am one of the three that won. Over three thousand people applied. 

However, the new semester has started in school and I have been so focused on getting this scholarship that school slipped. My grades dropped severely at the beginning of this quarter and the ending of last. I will admit I put the scholarship before school and sometimes did not have time for homework. I still passed my classes last semester with nothing lower than a high D in one class. On top of that I have been extremely stressed out about the scholarship, family health, and some troubles with my friends. 

Last semester my mom and dad both got very angry at me about my grades since they have never been so low. I was upset at myself but, I didn't know how to fix it and the hole just kep't getting deeper until the last two weeks when I was able to pull it all together. I worked my Christmas break away getting most of the remaining service hours and revising the final essay. 

I had my interview last week and found out I got the scholarship Tuesday afternoon. I was extremely excited and couldn't wait to tell my parents when they got home. When my mom and dad got home i knew something was wrong and when I asked them what it was they started about my grades. Both of my parents are reasonable people and very nice however my mom is not good at seeing other points of view and she overreacts some of time. A little ways into them scolding me about my grades my mom said something like "I don't know what else you have been doing!" And that is when I really got upset because she knew that I had been working on this for months now. I responded "I've been working my ass off getting a scholarship! Which I was going to tell you about but, apparently that doesn't mean anything to you!" Both my mom and dad were then temporily off the topic of my grades and we discussed my scholarship.

I don't remember how it started back up again but, my mom started getting really angry and started actually yelling about my grades. She kep't saying that I wasn't doing my part in the family and that she didn't think that I was responsible enough to use my scholarship money and said that there would be no lessons until semester ended because I had to stop acting like i didnt care about anything and told me at this rate I would be stuck working at McDonald's. I couldn't believe it and I was furious because the money is void by the end of the year. If I was not able to fly until summer I would miss out on flying until next school year becasue I had planned to work at a Boy scout camp during the summer to fund my flying lessons. If I didn't start now there is a big chance that I would not be able to use all my money as i would only be able to do one or two lessons per week and I couldn't do much flying in November or December as it is very snowy in those months where I live. I would only be able to take half of the projected lessons. 

Without thinking I just yelled "What do you want me to end up in a dead end job like you!" I immediatly regreted saying that and my mom just stopped and went to her room. I coulnt believe that I said that and I basically spent the rest of my night just crying in my room. My mom is very upset still and so am I. 

I really feel like a total douchbag but, i just don't know if it was appropriate of my mom to basically tell me I was a burnout and that I wouldn't amount to anything. Am I The Asshole?

TLDR: I earned a scholarship of $4000 for flying lessons but, somewhat neglected school while working on the scholarship. Now my parents are not letting me use my scholarship because of my grades and both my mom and I really hurt each others feelings during an argument about it.






getting upset at my parents and snapping at my mom when they refused me the flight lessons I earned