Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: The title is pretty self-explanatory. I'm currently pregnant at a really bad point in my life. Adoption isn't an option for a number of reasons. While my husband has been 100% supportive, I'm definitely seeking out a female perspective. Husband is fine with whatever I decide (in terms of telling friends/family for support reasons), but I'm reluctant because friend has a newly-acquired stepdaughter who she cares very deeply for. On top of that, friend probably can't have kids of her own due to medical stuff. I want support, but I don't want to overstep the need for support that my friend has... Would I be the asshole if I told my friend about my situation? Or should I just keep to myself and seek alternative outlets? 

I really don't want this to turn into a pro-life/pro-choice argument, so please stay away from those points. I've already made the decision, I just want to know if it would be selfish to tell somebody I'm close to (who probably can't have little ones).

All judgements welcome!

telling my close friend that I'm getting an abortion