Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: ok, a little background before i get into the meat of this tale. i've been dating a girl i wanted to spend my life with for a year and 2 months. she comes from a very abusive background and suffers from lots of mental health issues, severe depression, bipolar disorder, rage outbursts. and i myself have a checkered past, single parent home, poverty, mental health issues, depression, abandonment issues, and to top it off i'm incredibly selfish and childish. ok, so about six months into our relationship she learns that i am separated from a previous marriage, i told her when we met that i was divorced. big mistake. and since that moment our relationship changed drastically, as well it should, i lied and you can't have a relationship without trust. so, i thought then it would've ended, but no. she said she loved me more than she's ever loved anyone and wanted us to "get better". well of course i feel the same! but here's where things become super dicey... after that event and the fallout that followed things just started going downhill very quickly. all she could focus on was my past, my ex's, and me being a liar. and our fights became more frequent, most of them ending in violence or extreme verbal abuse. i received a lot of beatings, and i never fought back, because a part of me felt like it was deserved and also i abhor violence towards women. and as the days continued our relationship became more for show then actually trying to get better and work through our problems. this killed me emotionally and physically, i couldn't sleep (mainly because we stopped sleeping with each other and i don't mean that in a sexual way, but that ceased as well), i couldn't eat, it was affecting my everyday life severely. now, me loving this person with my whole being i believed her everytime she told me that she just didn't know how to deal with her own emotions when it comes to me but she wanted us to "get better". i desperately believed this, shit i still do as i am writing this. but the months drug on and our relationship just kept getting worse, either by me continually making mistakes that in her mind are "unforgivable" or that she would just dwell on her negative thoughts of me and my past. if the person who coined the phrase "between a rock and a hard place" only knew that they were describing me in this relationship to a t. but i was hanging on to any thread to save my relationship with her, my heart was torn in two, but i can't live without her. i still can't, and don't truly know what my future holds in that respect. maybe i'll have another tifu for that, but i digress. so as things are progressively getting worse for us, she has a lot of people very close to her pass away in a short period of time. so now with those burdens looming over her she ups the amount of aggression towards me and my mistakes tenfold. this strains the relationship even more. everything seems to be coming to a head, but for whatever reason we are still trying to work things out. this continues with us deciding to separate, which didn't help, and now it brings us to the main course of what i decided to do tonight.

so, since we've been separated we still would talk and see one another occasionally. this is where my emotions get the best of me, and where i see that even though i'm of a respectable adult age, i'm still a fucking child. i get mad that she won't text me back with full words and sentences, ie "hey what are you doing?" "nm just chilling wby". i fucking hate short hand like that, if i have courtesy to type a whole word or string of words then i'd like that same courtesy returned. a caveat to this is that she used to never do that and always responded with full sentences. and she had been giving me very ambiguous statements on how she feels, what's been going on in her life, and what she's been doing to work on our relationship. this happens over the course of some weeks. tonight i couldn't deal with it anymore. i got in my car and drove to her place mad as fuck. i get there and confront her angrily. we have a heated argument about the status of our relationship. i say "what's the deal? do you even want to get better or do you just want to end it?" she tells me she does love me but she doesn't want to anymore. this for whatever reason sets me off to a blackout point. i start talking mad shit and threatening suicide, but i really fucked up when i made a move for an actual firearm. she jumps up to stop me and we get into a physical altercation, and then she calls her cousins to come forcibly remove me from a house we lived in together, granted it's her house but i will always consider that place a true "home". so i say fine let them come. and we still argue and she gets mad when i won't leave and decides to pepper spray me, needless to say i didn't let that go lightly and we get into an all out brawl. my skin is still burning as i type this. but my heart hurts so much more, because we are finished from these juvenile actions on my part. and i hate myself for everything i've done and become. words of advice: if you love someone, don't fucking lie to them. not even once.

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TIFU by letting my emotions ruin my already in shambles relationship