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So to give you some context:

I  (M) had more free time lately, so I scrolled through my contacts and  discovered the number of an old classmate. So I wrote to her(F) after  two years without contact:

*(original wording used, translated and without emojis tho)*

I wrote: "What is studying medicine doing? (The last time I talked to her, she wanted to study medicine.)

She: "It has become international management after all. Master then goes to Enviromantal Sustainability and Resource Scarcity.

What are you doing?"

Me:" How did you get from the plan to become a country doctor to international management?"

She: "Is somehow more creative than working in a practice/hospital :)"

Me: "Do you already know where you would like to go at some point or do you have a concrete job description in mind?

She: "Why do you want to know all that suddenly?

me:"  Because I'm interested in what happened to the people I've known since  the fifth grade. It's exciting what happened to everyone after such a  long time.

But if it bothers you, I can also stop".

After that, I got blocked. Completely perplexed I wrote a sms.

Me:" I don't have to understand that now, do I?"

She:"  Say, who do you think you are? If you just arrive and want to know  SAchen, without even writing a sentence about your own current  situation, after years without contact. You have no idea how people  might have changed and if they might want to forget the past rather than  keep it alive.

What you also can't know  is what "people from the fifth grade" (from over a decade ago) have  experienced with people/men, and you obviously don't know what even this  sms messaging can mean for a woman. So you don't have to understand  "that" if you wanted to, but it would take you a step further.

I don't want any contact with you. "

Me:" I am sorry if I did something that offended you.

Certainly  you have had many experiences with other men, but I for my part have  always had very positive memories of you. Please correct me if I am  wrong!

If you are still interested I study \[...\].

I sent the sms to understand why you acted like this.

I  actually thought it would be nice to get back in touch after years and  find out what happened to the other person. I just wanted to be kind."

That  she blocked me and didn't want any contact is clear. I acted against my  own word. However am I wrong when I say, that she overreacted?

Please... What am I missing here?

PS: I'm sorry for my poor English. Me no native, me stupid German.

trying to get in touch after two years without contact