Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: A friend of mine recently lost her mother and when they first announced their death I sent them a message apologising for hearing the news and saying I'm always there for them if they need a talk.

She recently was at a family birthday party for the deceased and I didnt send a message checking up on them and its really been getting to me. I noticed but didnt want to send a message at the time as I thought it might of reminded them of the death rather than the happy times of the birthday party..

not checking up on grieving friend