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Input: This is something thats been bugging me for a while but i feel too involved to think rationally about it. 

Since probably early 2018, ive only spoken to/seen my sister twice. once for our dad's birthday, and once for christmas. Both times were brief and we behaved like normal. It's the product of a lot of things, and it feels difficult to explain because of how complicated family dynamics can get. Of course we had our petty sibling fights and we've always been completely different people, but theres one big incident I just cant seem to get past. 

In 2016 I overheard a conversation she had with my mom on speakerphone in the same room. saying now that she's found religion, she can't find it in her heart to be okay with gay or trans people. I'm a gay trans man, and my family knows this, has known this as I'd been out for almost 5 years at that point. I know she wasnt talking to me, and maybe I wasn't meant to hear, but I spoke up to ask what she meant, and then she repeated the sentiment, now actually to me. 

I definitely overreacted to this, but understand that my sister was one of the first people to ask my new chosen name. She used to be the only family member who I thought supported me. The change was shocking and saddening and my reaction to it, which included deciding i won't tolerate my identity being disrespected, led to being kicked out of my mom's place two weeks before I was supposed to move into a place with my boyfriend. Afterwards, no one really talked about it. I distanced myself, and focused on my transition and work. I never received an apology for her words which I guess I don't deserve because she was just saying how she truly feels. But I truly feel like I don't want to be around her more than necessary since I know i'll be deadnamed, misgendered, that my nieces will be told to call me Aunt, and that my boyfriend will just be my 'friend'. I'm well over a year into my transition, and I don't sound or look like a woman anymore. It's painful to experience. 

Recently, though, she's going through a lot. Divorce, with two young kids, which can't be easy. She's also isolated herself from my mom and her side of the family for an incident that, objectively, she is in the wrong for. Ive been urged to reach out to her, but I don't even know what I would do. Even one of my managers at work who knows her (his wife did my sisters laundry) approached me at work to tell me I should be there for her. Which I think is a little inappropriate but what do I know. Yesterday even my mom told me I should be the one to break the silence between us, because she is family. so, if I don't, am I the asshole??  

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not reaching out to my sister