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Input: This evening, I (20F) was speaking to my Dad (54M) about needing a new laptop quite desperately. My old one is on the blinker. I mention how I’m thinking about using some of the money grandma left me (5,000 – I used 1,000 to pay for a car a few years ago with his permission) to invest in a good one.

He gets pretty pissed at me and says why do that when I have a perfectly good one already? I get his point, it’s still working, but I’m literally in my final semester of university and it’s on its last legs. It overheats, makes weird noises, the fan goes from time to time and it has to be thumped in the right place to make work, it can’t be tilted when it’s having a funny moment or it dies, etc. He doesn’t want me to replace it as it is still under warrantee (we extended it when I went to uni) until October, but I’m not disagreeing with that, I’m saying it can be used as a spare for the whole household while I take advantage of my student discount before it runs out.  
He then says that he won't give the money to me as its his choice when he releases it to me. I argue that it’s my money, I’m good with money, and I think it’s a good investment. I write novels, do Photoshop work, etc. So, while I may not make a profit with it, I still would use it to earn some money somewhat. I mention this and he says I can’t have the money right now because it’s currently going into the house renovations (Grandma’s old house which he bought which I said was a bad idea). I say it’s my money which she gave to me, he shouldn’t be doing that with it and he gets real pissed at me.

I walk away and not get into an argument. He then comes into my bedroom and mentions how I have £1,000 from a few years ago in an old account from a relative who died. It rings a bell but I don’t remember any of this, really. I was 10 when I was informed about it. It’s been 10 years.

He goes into the safe and gives me a book that proves I have £1,000. He says, “You can use that as it’s your money, but you have a perfectly good laptop already.”

I’m really shocked and pissed off because I haven’t been told about this at all. He argues that it’s my responsibility to remember where I have money but this was literally given to me when I was 10, its been in the safe (which he won’t tell anyone the code too), I have never seen it before now. He’s claiming I gave it to him when I moved in but I honestly don’t remember any of this.

Now I feel really angry at my dad because he’s practically keeping my (and has kept previous) inheritance away from me and being a weird about me getting a new laptop. I told my aunt and she thinks he’s being really unfair but I dunno. 

Am I being a giant selfish asshole here? 

getting pissed with my dad for withholding my inheritance