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Input: This has been bugging me for awhile and I want to know peoples opinions on it. I’m currently in a long distance relationship. I see my gf about every six weeks give or take. When we see each other it’s usually by way of me flying out to see her and staying in her dorm room. 

After not seeing each other for over a month my gf and I like to have sex like the normal college students we are. Obviously she has a roommate but this roommate (who we’ll call T) goes home every other weekend and it usually lines up perfectly so there was never any conflict because she was gone.

A couple months ago I booked the flight like normal about a month in advance. My gf asked what weekend T was going to be gone so we could line it up and I booked it that date. Come to find out a week before that T mixed up the dates and thought I was coming the week before. So now she’s going to be there the weekend I’m there. No biggie. My gf politely asked if she wouldn’t mind staying with a friend for the couple nights I’m there. T initially agreed but in the week leading up she started being super passive aggressive towards my gf. My gf shrugged it off tho.

The first day I’m there my gf and I are in the middle of our business when T walks into the room without knocking. We barely are able to cover ourselves as she walks in grabs something and walks out without acknowledging our existence. My gf texted her asking if she could knock next time so no one has to see anyone naked ya know?

Her response was along the lines of “it’s my room and I shouldn’t have to knock to enter my own room. I’m doing you a favor by not sleeping there. I’ll come in when I want” 

I honestly don’t understand this mindset. For 1 if she wanted to stay in the room that bad she could have. We obviously could have all shared the room since I’d be in the same bed as my gf. And it’s not like we sprung it on her we gave her a months notice. If we knew she’d be this upset about it we wouldn’t have asked. And I don’t understand how walking in on us having sex is good for anyone? A simple knock and no one is scarred. 

We asked my gf’s sister and she said she would’ve done the same thing and that were messed up for even suggesting it.

So AITA?

kicking my gf's roommate out of her room