Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’ll post this on r/relationshipadvice, but want to make sure that I’m not just being an asshole first.

I (34f) have been with my SO (45m) for 8 years, and we’re best friends. We do everything together, have all the same interests, and have so many reasons to stay together. But we’re getting older. Getting older is expensive. Retirement and healthcare costs are going to start coming in. I have a tenured job, healthcare, and retirement, so I’m pretty set for my future. But he’s not. He has a high school education has been working since he was 13, but has no savings, retirement, healthcare, or opportunity to move up in his job. While the romantic side of society says that money doesn’t matter when it comes to love… as we’re getting older I’m having more and more anxiety about our future together. He can be added to my healthcare, but I’ll be paying the deductible, I won’t be able to afford his retirement, and I’m not willing to carry both of us the rest of our lives. We already live right above the poverty line, and it’s damn exhausting to keep our heads above water. I don’t want to live like this for the rest of my life, but I also don’t want to lose my best friend. He has made multiple promises to find something more stable, but in 6 years nothing has happened. 

AITA if I give him the expectation that if he doesn’t get a sustainable job - including healthcare, benefits, and retirement- that I need to go?

giving my so an ultimatum