Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This ex and I had a rough breakup. I work a job that requires me to be away for very long stretches of time, and as is common for people with this type of job, was cheated on. About six months into a year contract, she told me she was checking herself into a hospital. Worried, I tried to get more info on her condition, however she asked me not to pry, and not to leave my work site to see her. Obviously, i was worried, but I accepted her wish and texted or attempted  to call her daily, though she stopped responding soon after being admitted. 

As it turns out, what actually happened was she moved in with another man, and didn't have the courage to break it off with me over the phone. So for three weeks, she pretended to be in a hospital unable to answer the phone. When she finally called me back, she admitted that despite still loving me, she couldn't help herself, told me she had moved in with another man, and would be leaving me.

This really fucked me up. My job is already incredibly stressful, and my thinking she was in the hospital made it more so, so when she left me I found myself virtually alone in another country, stuck dealing with a terrible sense of betrayal. To make matters worse, she would often text me trying to make me feel better about it, though in reality they often made me feel worse. After a few months of this, I had to shut her out of my life, so I told her to stop contacting me, and went on with my life.

Fastforward about a year. This bit happened roughly a week ago. I had just gotten out of a short lived relationship with another woman, and again, was not feeling great. Out of the blue, ex sends me a massive wall of text telling me she regrets ever leaving me, that her current boyfriend (the man she cheated on me with) isn't allowing her to see her family, and that she wants me to take her back and help her move out of her situation. I'm a bit ashamed to admit, I seriously considered taking her up on her offer, but eventually declined as I don't really feel like I would ever be able to trust her again, especially with my line of work.

 However, we have been in contact for the past week, and she is getting increasingly desperate. From what she has told me, she is in an unhappy, controlling relationship, and is convinced I'm in a position to get her out of it.

The thing is, I'm not sure I believe her. She already lied to me about her situation once before reguarding the hospital lie, and to be honest, I still feel hurt over the fact that she betrayed me earlier. She had a habit of lying about small things in the past, plus the big one, so its possible that she is just emotionally manipulating again hoping that I'll get together with her again, and the thought of that really makes me angry. I'm considering just ghosting her the same way she ghosted me previously.

On the other hand, if she is actually in an abusive situation, I would likely feel somewhat guilty for not trying to get her out of it, as I think it is the right thing to do, even if it would hurt to see her again. Despite this, I'm leaning pretty hard on ghosting her. I don't really feel up to staying in contact with her. Would that make me in the wrong?

ghosting an ex who is potentially in a manipulative or abusive relationship