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Input: My husband is very ambitious. He works hard at his job and always has a side project or 5. He's also an introvert and is most fulfilled when he is plugging away at little projects by himself. Right now, his big undertaking is starting a business with a friend of his. They generally meet 3 times a week before work (he'll leave at like 5:30) and have a code jam like one Saturday a month (they stay up real late).

Here's the thing: we have two children under two years old. I'm a stay at home parent and I'm starting to feel burnt out and alone. In my mind, if he can wake up early to go to those meetings, he can wake up early and do the dishes or just go to work early so he can be home to help with dinner. I tried telling him this before, but he said he needs that time to feel human because he's an introvert and it's only ~4.5 hours a week anyhow. 

I don't want to be insensitive to his needs, but I don't know if he realizes how much I'm drowning. I would *love* 4.5 hours a week to work on fulfilling projects, but even if I got 4.5 hours away from the kids, it would have to be spent catching up on stuff around the house. Either way, I don't get that time. Every weekend, he claims I'll get it or I can take it any time I want, but it just never happens. He has also offered to hire a part time nanny or housecleaning service. I guess that might make things easier, but I don't know, I just want him. I don't want to further remove myself from my family. 

Anyway, would I be the asshole if I asked my husband to put a pause on the morning meetings (or lessen them to once a week) until our younger daughter is sleeping 6 hours straight or 3 months, whichever comes first? 

asking my husband to put his dreams on hold