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Input: Me and two other women founded a club three years ago where we meet once a month to play games. (Board, card, dice ect) We have a private group on Facebook where we plan gatherings and once you've been invited to play, you can invite others as well. We have less than a dozen regular members. 

Two of our members broke up. They are very on again, off again but the husband said it was final this time. He had rsvp to attend the next two gatherings and the wife said she wasn't going. We were relieved because we felt it would be awkward. 

She messaged later and asked to come to our Dec gathering and asked if she could bring a boyfriend. We said no, maybe you shouldn't come to Dec gathering and just give it until the new year because your ex husband rsvp first. We we very diplomatic about it and chose our words carefully

(They both stated they didn't care if the other one was there, but we all felt very awkward. Gatherings are pretty intimate and the wife is pretty sensitive. She gets passive aggressive.)

The wife was very angry, she told us never to contact her again, have a nice life, and deleted all of us off Facebook. We were glad to cut ties because we never liked her and the husband did say he was not getting back together with her. 

Well now the husband wants to get back together. He asked us to invite her to the group again. We deliberated for a long time. Finally we said no. We couldn't. Things did not end well between us and inviting her back wouldn't be genuine. He removed himself from the group and said they were a package deal. He didn't seem angry about it, just really focused on getting his wife back. 

Are we assholes for not letting the wife join our group again? I feel bad because we are always saying how all are welcome ect. Now an exception has been made and this one person is no longer welcome. We have three years of reasons to explain how we came to that decision, and it feels like it would have been a lose/lose scenario no matter what. Should we have let her back in though?

banning friend from social group