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Input: Throwaway. So we're both in the same college and our families live several hours apart from each other. There's a lot of reasons I want to break things off but the main one is *I've* become a toxic person (partly due to mental illness and partly just to being an asshole, I can work that out in therapy, preferably without any future partners until I'm better enough) and have been harmful to her and others.  

The problem with breaking things off when college classes are in session is this: When classes are in session things are so intense and there are so many deadlines coming up, I don't want to jeapordize either of our academics with a big thing like a breakup. This is especially true when a break is on the horizon: work piles and piles up and it's hard to break up with someone when you have 3 papers due in as many days. I know the obvious solution is "just do them in advance" and I want to do that, should do that, and need to do that, but due to aforementioned mental issues that's probably not going to happen. 

We are on spring break right now and I'm driving up to her house in a few days. I figured this might be the best time because she'll have her family around her, won't have work to do, won't have to see me anymore for a few days after I break up with her and leave, and can start the last leg of the semester with a clean break. But of course it's also the most assholish time because she'll be expecting a nice romantic week together. To add to that I had planned to drive her home at the end of break, which of course I'm still willing to do but practically speaking her options would be "take an awkward multi-hour car ride with the person who just dumped you" or "take the Greyhound," and everyone knows greyhound kinda sucks. Even if i pay for her ticket it would still suck. 

She has no interest in a breakup (which I know makes it even worse!) so it will have to be me to do it.  

WIBTA? If I don't break up with her now then when? Right when classes start? In the middle of class? Wait until summer? This cycle has gone on so long 

breaking up with my girlfriend while at her family's house