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Input: So in June I went on a solo backpacking trip through the balkins for two months . I've been exclusive and seeing my current girlfriend since August. I've been seeing her on and off since Januaty last year. 

From January to June we had a friend's with benefits situation going on and I really saw her as a good friend who I like hooking up with but I didn't really see myself long term with her. To clarify we've spoken about this and have established boundaries and expectations. 

Leading up to the trip I started to develop emotions for her but I wasn't sure if I wanted to commit to her before I left on a solo two month trip. I felt like if I wasn't a 100percent sure I would regret that decision so much. I told her this and how I was starting to feel about her but I wanted my freedom on this trip. 

So when it came time for the trip we've gotten pretty close and she even drove with me and my dad to the airport to drop me off. During the two months we texted almost every day. During the course of my trip I met two girls and we ended up sleeping together. Near the end of my trip she was feeling down and insecure and asked me if I hooked up with anyone and I was honest with her. This led to her crying and a series of arguments saying I led her on, that I essentially cheated on her, and that she can't trust me. We eventually worked it out and I told her I'd commit to her that very moment and wouldn't see anyone else. 

Now it's April, it's been awhile and we've had wonderful times together but she uses this as leverage to every fight we've had. Shes having so much trouble letting go and I've apologized so many times and I've tried to comfort her but this just won't seem to stay in the past. Whenever we have any issues it's used as a dagger against me. She says that its not fair for me to tell her she needs to let it go and move on forward because she's the one dealing with the pain of it and that Im not carrying any emotional burdens from it. I feel that if we don't let go of this we can never heal from it. Am I the asshole?

sleeping with two people when I was single but seriously talking to someone else