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So last Sunday, I went to the beach with my family. My mom was there with us and everything seemed fine. After texting some friends, I decided to put my phone away and go near the shore. I put my phone in my backpack and leave for an hour or two. When I come back, I notice my mom looking glum, and a slight feeling that something's wrong. When I check my phone, I notice some chats I hadn't opened where now opened, which surprised me (My phone has a password, but if you swipe near the time it's locked down you don't have to put it).


I asked her if she grabbed my phone, and she replies she didn't. But I know something was off and decided to just let it go. Our relationship is pretty shaky, so she might just have been mad at something I did. Last night though, she entered my room and asked me a bunch of random questions, finishing it with "Have you ever had sex? Was it with a girl?" I replied yes to both, and being a guy I found them completely normal mother-teenage son questions.


Then, however, while we were talking about something else, she starts telling me how she browsed my computer and phone since she had heard a rumor about me doing drugs from a friend of hers. Not only was this not true at all, I just wanted to drop the subject and go to bed. That's when she said she had read my texts with a specific girl. Let's call her S. I immediately froze because she's my best friend, and one of the two people who knows I like guys. She kept bringing up how she did it for my own good and how all she wanted to help me. I was trying to keep it all together, but this was sort of like the cherry on top of everything. I told her it had just been one guy and we hadn't done anything together. He had just been friendly with me and there was a connection. And that I still preferred women (I don't).


Anyways, this went on for two hours. She kept telling me she did it for my own good and how she wanted to help me because I "needed" help. To clarify, she doesn't mean correcting me or anything, but she thinks that just because I like a guy, my life is going to be a depressing nightmare of shame. 


Thing is, I've known that I'm gay for almost 4 years. My 2 friends have been really supportive and I feel like I really am fine. In the end, she told me to either get help myself or she'd call the school for programs.
Personally, I feel like she snatched my thing from me. I wasn't planning on coming out to her anytime soon, but I still feel like this really wasn't the way things should have gone. But what really annoys me is that she justifies breaking into my phone and reading my private conversations just because she's my mother. I'm not speaking to her anymore.



TLDR; my mom checks my phone while I'm not looking, sees things she shouldn't have, now believes I need help for something I really don't.


Sorry for the bad formatting. I'm on mobile.

being mad at my mom for checking my phone