Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I was at a party the other night, and a friend of mine suggested inviting a particular person, who we’ll call Mike, to the party. I’ve known Mike for a couple years, and he’s generally an asshole. As I was relaying this to my friend, I said that always calls me a faggot. This prompted a girl sitting nearby to immediately call me out and tell me never to say that word. I just sort of ignored her and continued on with my conversation, thinking that was the end of it. 

However, after the party, she posts on social media about how I’m an asshole, and how she’s “lost all respect for me”. I attempted to explain to her that I wasn’t using the word derogatorily and that it made sense in the context of what I was talking about, but she responded that the context does not matter and that I shouldn’t be saying faggot regardless. Am I the asshole?

using the word faggot