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Input: Disclaimer: I love my cat very much and I'm struggling to find the right solution so please don't be too hard on me 

My wife and I adopted a cat from a shelter last year and unfortunately it turns out she has a spinal injury  that causes issues when she squats, mainly a loss of sensation back there.  This leads to constant accidents around the house and anal glands needing to be drained, infections leading to vomit and constant visits to the vet. We've done everything we can including buying the most expensive fiber food to keep her stool soft, putting puppy pads around the house, we have tried multiple litters and litter boxes, nothing we do helps our cat. And it's worth mentioning that our cat seems very happy, she doesn't seem to be in any pain or suffering, just discomfort I think. 

The vet says there is nothing they can do to fix this aside from antibiotics and draining the anal glands when they fill up..short of that he said it's all just pain management.

I've brought up the possibility of moving her to the farm to be a farm cat (where they're very nicely taken care of) or finding her a new home or ultimately, putting her down... None of these suggestions go over well at all and leads to very tough arguments. 

AITA? 

Are there any other suggestions you have to give me some perspective

wanting to rehome or euthanize our cat