Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So there is an ongoing silly argument between my wife and I, and I need some wonderful interweb input. 

I love having an english muffin for breakfast, smothered in delicious peanut butter. In order to get the perfectly toasted english muffin I set the toaster to “5”.

My wife and kids love toast, which at “5” becomes a charred brick of shame. Usually a “2” is sufficient for toast.

Every time, and I mean EVERY TIME, I check the setting and adjust for whatever I am making prior to pushing down the lever. My wife on the other hand enjoys rolling the dice and never actually bothers to look at the setting before just slapping that lever down and hoping for the best.

When it burns, guess what? I catch shit, because she insists that I need to set it back down to the original level if I turn it up. I firmly believe in LOOKING AT THE DAMN THING BEFORE YOU USE IT! 

Am I the asshole? Or, is checking the one and only setting before using a device a normal thing to do?

not adjusting the toaster setting after I'm done