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Input: Sorry it's a little long, TLDR at the end.

My girlfriend and I have had a few rocky fights from time to time, usually nothing too big and over menial things that we both agree we shouldn't be fighting about. I still love her after the fights and I usually want them to be over and resolved as quickly as possible because I don't want to damage what we have over something stupid and meaningless to us. 

Recently we had a brief argument about the Gillette 'We Believe: the best men can be' commercial. She told me that she agreed with the commercial on a whole because to her it only told men that they should be better and there's nothing wrong with that. She supported this by saying that her own personal experience with horrible guys in her life is why she believes some men need to do better and that we should welcome this message. I told her I disagree but that I am sorry with the experiences she's had. I don't want to open the whole can of worms over the Gillette ad on Reddit either because I know we all have our own stances on the topic, but mine branches more over my belief that businesses should try to remain as apolitical as possible (although an argument could be made that the ad was no political based, and I partially agree) and that the ad does more than just imply men should be better, it also puts the onus of many detestable actions (typically singular to men) at the feet of all men while said actions are largely not as prevalent as the ad implies they are. Sorry for the tangent, but I believe at least some of our stances were required to understand where we stood.

 At first our argument was not heated at all, we just disagreed. My girlfriend tried to push things further to say that I was not seeing things from her perspective and that I can't, to which I countered that I try to see it from her perspective as much as I can but I know I could never truly see things through the eyes of a woman and that same caveat applied to her with my perspective. She kicked me out of our room and told me that if I didn't shut up she would 'literally break up with you right now.' Of course I left and kept my mouth shut because I didn't want to end us on something so petty. 

Flash forward maybe an hour and I returned to our room and apologised to her. I told her I shouldn't have come to her with something I disagreed with, expecting her to support me and that it was a horrible mindset to have for someone you love. I know she usually avoids political conversation while I myself try to stay up to date. I told her that I felt it was unhealthy for me to feel the way I felt about the ad and that it was a very petty thing to be worked up over, and regardless I believe it got under my skin. I told her I was sorry and that I'll try my best to avoid coming to her over political things again, as it's not right for me to use her as a filter for my views. I told her I knew we wouldn't always agree on these things and I accept that, I won't push it further. She accepted my apology and we moved on as normal. That was three days ago now and I have been actively avoiding making comments on anything relating to that Gillette ad. At one point she was laughing and I asked her what's up, she said she was just reading a Facebook post that had a meme about the Gillette ad. I just smiled and left her on her phone, which felt freeing to just ignore something like that. 

Anyway, today she shared a post with me on Facebook regarding a girl's reaction to a recent horrific murder in a city in my country of a woman making her way home at night. I truly deplore what happened to this young woman and believe it was a great tragedy, but the post drew parallels between men's reaction to the Gillette ad at the same time as the occurrence of this girl's murder. After reading I did what I always do upon receiving a meme or post from her, I asked my girlfriend why she sent this to me. She said she thought it would show a different light to the Gillette ad that I hadn't thought of. I told her that I had already seen posts relating to this but the situation was vastly different between the ad and this girl's murder. She got exasperated and told me I don't understand, I told her I do or at least try to. She said that she knows men get murdered too but probably mostly by men too (this seemed like an odd comment and I hadn't said anything to spark it), to which I said yes they are. Then she said see! I said they're still different points but I don't want to argue about the ad. She then said "You got angry at me because you expect me to agree with you all the time", to which I said that I didn't believe that, and I had even apologised specifically for that line of thinking just the other day. I told her again I was trying to avoid talking about the ad because it's meaningless, to which she also shouted the same thing back at me. She then started yelling at me and calling me far-right, which I disagreed with because I'm mainly centre-left. I told her about the alt-right and how I disagree with them. She proceeded to say I've become blinded and don't want to hear other opinions. I told her all I try to do is hear other opinions and debate to understand which views to hold, that only through discussion can we prove each other right or wrong and that I always look for opinions to prove me wrong so I can correct myself if needed. That was the climax, she started making her lunch in the kitchen and slamming around dishes, I left the room because I don't feel comfortable near her when she gets like this (in brings up past memories of family before shouting matches). This is where I am now, in a separate room and trying to cool my thoughts. 

So I guess to summarise this; AITA for not backing down to her and instead trying to shut down the conversation? I believe I tried to see things from her perspective and let her know I'm okay with disagreeing on certain things and that I didn't expect to always agree, but I won't denounce my opinion just because it angers her. I don't think I should be expected to give in just to appease her, when she hasn't won me over with her reasoning to begin with. AITA?

TLDR; My GF and I argued over the Gillette commercial a few days ago, we apologised and made up. I avoided anything relating to that ad but it was brought back up again regardless, and now we've had a fight over it all over again. I didn't back down but instead tried to end the conversation. AITA?

not backing down on a gendered perspective