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Input: Hey, so I was wondering whether I’m TA in this situation. I an a 27 year-old male graduate student, and there’s this one guy in one of my classes that I kinda worry about. He seems to be kinda out of it all the time, often comes in sniffling/coughing, talks *very* quietly (I only ever hear him because I usually sit by him- or more accurately he sits by me as he always arrives after I do), and just now I saw him while walking on campus and he was really awkward and decided to go on his way right after asking if he could walk with me briefly. 

I mean, the guy doesn’t give off “shady” vibes. I don’t feel unsafe around him. He gives off “I’m having difficulties” vibes, and since I was hit really bad with burnout toward the end of my undergrad career, I kinda worry he’s going through the same. I am working as a paid note-taker in the class (our school has a department that helps students with disabilities, through which they can anonymously request a paid note-taker, a classmate who, once hired by the Student Disability Services people, would upload their notes to the SDS site for the requester to see), and I suspect he’s the person who requested notes. We’re not supposed to try and find out, though.

*That said,* I also feel like it’s really fucking patronizing of me to be thinking that way of a total stranger. There isn’t really even a way to ask him if he’s okay without the potential of accidentally insulting him to his face. 

So....yeah. Am I the asshole for potentially thinking of my classmate in a patronizing way without knowing him very well at all?

worrying about a classmate I barely know