Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Throwaway because I can be ID on my main account

I’ve known this guy since high school. He was pretty cool but after high school we haven’t really spoken with each other since he moved away for college and I stayed around the area. We’re all still in college 18-20 range so while we get fucked up access to alcohol and nicotine is inconvenient. After 2 years of college, he’s misteriously came back to the area and started attending community college around us. At first it was pretty cool because I got to get back with an old friend, but it soon became apparent that he just wasn’t the same person as he was in high school. There were couple red flags that set off for me:

He would often lie about his drug experiences and the girls he is getting. Upon verifying these with mutual friends, 90% of these were false. However these don’t really interfere with me, and it’s all harmless so i never called him out on it. But at one point he went as far as to tell me that he’d fuck my ex just to spite me out of nowhere. He then says “issa joke bb” and acts like it’s ok to say that.

He would call me an asshole for doing something, and then proceeds to do the same. Our friend group goes to a lot of concerts. We all have difference in opinions and who we want to see so I respect that. Now there were two specific concerts happening for nye. They were both 400+ miles away so it was something we have to plan in advance. Concert A was slightly more expensive, had a smaller line up, but all of them were known names. Concert B was slightly cheaper but with slightly lesser names, but had a lot more artists attending. While Concert B would be the obvious choice, at this point half of us already bought a ticket to Concert A and I really wanted to see a specific artist that plays at Concert A. Enter the guy, he didn’t buy a ticket because he didn’t think the show would sell out, so he wanted to go to Concert A instead. A lot of the group were ok with the idea so I tell them I’ll go alone to Concert B if I have to because I really want to see this specific artist. The guy then proceeds to call me an asshole for an hour for not wanting to go with the group. All good, I get it, whatever. What sets me off is that eventually due to logistical reasons, the majority of the group settles on Concert B. He then tells us that he wants to go to Concert A alone. He says he would do the very thing he called me out on a month ago. 

Like I said, we like to go to concerts and we very obviously get fucked up. So after an event I once shared my personal experience under the influence. It was very different from my other experiences. However the guy tells me I’m wrong because he knows more than me on the topic as he is a biochem major (note that he no longer attends to that school he was a biochem major at) he invalidates my personal experience because of a book from the 70s said so. So you’d expect him to uphold the same standard for you. However whenever we talk about my major related topics, he tells me that I’m wrong, and knows more than me because he has a lot of friends taking that major. 

Now why did I include property on the title? As we were heading to Concert B, no one had alc and I was the only one with alcohol. Since were all under 21, we can’t exactly walk out the door and buy more. As we were pregaming at a different friends house and make plans to leave, the guy comes late with two of his friends he knew from his previous college. He grabs my alcohol without asking and hands it to them and they kill a bottle. Couple things set me off here: I don’t know these people and he took what’s mine and acted like he owned it. Hes previously burnt multiple coils for my vape, he slams my car doors, he hands around my vape to others without asking, etc...

Now in most of these occasions I have not called him out on his shit. I’ve only actively argued with him for the third reason (fourth paragraph). My friends tell me to stop fighting him, but I don’t see how it’s fighting when I’m just feeling actively harassed by the guy. The other day we were arguing about something that does not pertain to him so I get fed up and tell him “shut the fuck up it’s not your business” just so I can change the topic and get it over with. He then resorts to telling me he’d literally beat me up, in person not over the internet.


being upset at someone who gives no regards to my personal opinions or property