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Input: So little context my gf and I are on spring break rn. A month ago a group of my friends and I rented a small cabin about 5 hours away from where we go to college. My gf made mention that she didn’t feel well at the end of the week, and her sickness got progressively worse over the past 4ish days. Two days ago (the day before we were supposed to leave) my gf kept texting me the entire morning saying how she felt horrible like she’d been hit by a truck. She ended up going to the doctor where they told her she had the flu. 

So I made the decision that she wasn’t going to go with me since she had the flu and going on vacay for a few days wouldn’t help her get better at all. She claimed she didn’t care if I went without her and we got into a little argument, resulting in her saying she didn’t care and that I should “just fucking go.” So I drove all the way there. 

She then texted me very pissed saying that I only left to get drunk with my friends and didn’t care at all about her. It escalated into her bringing up other things and instances in our past that she felt like I had shown that I hadn’t cared about her. 

Obviously what I did was not intended to make her think I didn’t care about her, I knew that she would have a terrible time if she went with the flu, and quite frankly others didn’t want her there since she was sick. All the people there are my good friends and I wanted to spend time with them. Instead, because she didn’t believe I actually cared about her, I drove 5 hours back to school to show how much I really do care about her. She still thinks that I’m in the wrong and claims I treat her “lower than anything else” So, aita? 

Tl;dr gf got diagnosed with the flu, told her not to come on vacay with me and my friends for obvious reasons. She now believes I don’t give a shit about her and only wanted to get drunk with friends. So I left and drove back home 5 hours to show how much I care, she still thinks I’m an asshole. 

deciding that my gf shouldn't go on vacation with me