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Input: So, to preface I'm a (21M). My boyfriend of 7 years (22M, we'll call him "Alex") met this guy (17M, we'll call him "Brad") a couple years ago and everyone has been decent friends with the guy for awhile. More recently some pretty big arguments between this new guy and another one of our friends (21M, we'll call him "Chris") have been going on, but last night a more serious argument occurred which changed my mind about this guy.

Chris brought up some messages where Brad had confessed romantic feelings for my boyfriend Alex, talking about "oh if only OP wasn't in the way", those kinds of messages. I obviously was not aware of this, though I had some suspicions with how he acted towards my boyfriend. But apparently, my boyfriend was aware of this, and thought I had known.

I told my boyfriend I wasn't comfortable with him being friends with Brad because of his romantic feelings towards him, and the fact that he blatantly stated to Chris in messages that he wanted to be with my boyfriend, if only I weren't in the way. Cut to now, my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me because I'm asking him to ditch a friend, and has told me that I'm being insecure for being bothered by this.

Ya'll tell me, because I'm worried that maybe I am being controlling, after all it is my boyfriend's friend, not mine. I'm just looking out for our relationship, I would've expected after Brad being friends with me and my boyfriend for about 2 years now and knowing that me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years, he wouldn't be talking about having feelings for him anymore.

TL;DR: Messages showed a friend Brad saying he loves my boyfriend and wishes I weren't in the way, knowing me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years. I told my boyfriend that it really bothered me and that I think he should drop Brad, and now he's upset at me. AITA?

wanting my boyfriend to break it off with a friend who has romantic feelings for him