Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Obvious answer is no... but based on how people are treating me I’m not so sure.

I have a very busy full time job and basically work 10-12 hours a day as well as 24/7 on call. 

Despite this, I have some debt and really really want to take a vacation. I felt that it would take me too long to pay off my debt and save up so I decided to get a part time job.

It pays minimum wage and I work 8pm-12am from Monday to Friday. 

This doesn’t leave me much time to hang out with friends or family and they are all starting to feel it. I have asked everyone for their support and explained that this will only take me about 6 months. I also do my best to fit them all in as much as I can (lunch dates during the day mostly). I try to keep my weekends free so that I can rest and recuperate. It doesn’t mean I can’t hang out on weekends, I’m just selective. This has led to some hard feelings and me being called out on being a bad friend or family member.

I’m honestly a little shocked at how unsupportive people have been. AITA? When I throw this question back at them when they suggest I am... they seem to all back-pedal and say things like “I just don’t understand why you need to do this, you make good money at job1 and are already strapped for time” or “you aren’t making enough of an effort to see me, this feels one-sided”. 

getting a second job