Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My brother has been seeing a girl for close to a year now. He really loves her and is planning to propose but I’m still getting used to her as a person. For me, she’s very overwhelming and somewhat difficult to tolerate (she’s loud, interrupts a lot, always needs to add her opinion instead of just listening.)

Every year we have a family Christmas dinner. Just my parents, brother and me. Even if we are in our own relationships, it’s always only the 4 of us. My parents said we “have to” invite her this year. Despite the fact that she’s already spending Thanksgiving with us and inviting her brother and his girlfriend (who we’ve never met).

On top of this, my brother and I were planning on going to Disney World next year. We were supposed to go this year but couldn’t because of work. Last week he said to me, “Hey I know you wanted to come but I’m taking the girlfriend instead.” My brother is my best friend. We’re immigrants and only really had each other as kids, so to be pushed aside hurts.

Am I the asshole for getting frustrated? I don’t consider her family so I don’t understand now why she has to go to ALL our family holiday celebrations and how it’s ok for my brother to now take her on vacation and I have to stay behind. It sucks.

not wanting my brother's girlfriend included in everything and getting upset he's now taking her on our trip and telling me I can't go