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Input: I went away to college for three years. I am the youngest of my siblings and none of them went away to school. My school was only 3 hours away, a pretty far drive but doable (I think). My siblings only visited me probably three times in three years. They came only on Family Day every year because there was “things to do” in town (it’s a small town). 

My brother’s girlfriend went to the same school as me. So he visited her quite often. Half the time he wouldn’t come to see me even though he was a five  minute drive from me/have time to see me. The other half the time he wouldn’t even tell me he was in town. I would only find out from my parents asking me if I’d seen him. I frequently got rides with my brothers girlfriend home, and paid her to do so. She didn’t tell me when she was going  home for his 21st and when I asked to ride down with her she told me she was already home. Making me miss my brothers 21st birthday. My fault should have asked he Wednesday, not Thursday for a ride home Friday. 

I told my mom once I wanted my siblings to come up and she told me that it was unfair of me to ask them to put all those miles on their cars and take off work. 

During third year at school, I lost four friends and none of my siblings came to see me. They called me once (or twice) and that’s was pretty much it. Which really hurt since they knew I was struggling with it and had a lot to deal with. 

After another death, I moved back home to heal. However, by this time my brother had moved out state about 7 hours away. My sisters and parents have been giving me a lot of shit for not going to see him yet, since he has bought a house now. 

I don’t feel like I should have to go visit, but my family thinks it’s important and that I’m hurting his feelings by not going. I have a low paying job, student loans to be paying off and a dog. I can’t afford to take off work very often and when I do, it’s for the trillion other family events. I don’t feel obligated to go, especially if he didn’t feel obligated to see me. I just am tired of being made out to be the asshole, when I feel like it’s not me. Am I crazy? 

not wanting to visit my brother