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Input: Obviously a bit deeper than the title alludes. Basically on New Years a friend made matching sweaters for a lot of people in his friend group. I’m new to it but he made me one when he didn’t make one for some other people who have been there longer than me. He told me not to wear it because it might hurt their feelings so I didn’t. It got really cold later into the night and I finally caved and put it on around 2AM when there only about seven us left hanging around. Evidently, one of them was someone who was not supposed to see me in the sweater. 
He just texted me now (almost two months later) saying that it was very uncool of me to wear it when he told me not to. I guess the person either confronted them about it or something else so I guess it was a bigger deal than I thought. 
I don’t really have an excuse other than that I was cold because he did tell me not to wear it. Although I don’t see it being as THAT big of a deal. But I feel pretty bad. So am I the asshole for not listening and potentially made someone else feel left out? Or is this whole situation not a big deal and I’m really overthinking it? Both?

wearing a sweater my friend told me not to