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Been dating someone for a year(ish). Things are good. I'm going to be moving out of state to pursue a career and I told her that I really want to focus on this and I don't think I can handle the relationship. I just told her this and I don't move for 4 months. 

I feel awful because she's really sweet and I didn't even give the long distance thing a shot or even really consider it. She's broken and I feel like trash but I know myself and I don't think I want that kind of relationship. I just wanted to tell her about my doubts ahead of time to not mislead her. I care about her but I care more about my future right now.

AITA?

my breakup reasoning