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For background, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over four years now. She always had periodic panic attacks, but they really ramped up once we started college. 

The problem is very obvious as to why she’s having these attacks, she absolutely overloads herself and refuses to take care of herself, in my opinion. Let me explain. 

She’s an education major, so it’s not inherently hard since it’s her passion, but it does require her to make extra time to observe at various schools in the area. Obviously the classes can still be quite demanding at times. Her class schedule usually has her busy Monday-Friday 9-1. She’s also in choir, so Tuesday-Friday 2-3:15 is booked along with multiple concerts each semester. She’s also in band, so that means Monday-Thursday she’s busy 3:30-5 along with any marching band or concert band event throughout the semester. She unofficially has a music minor meaning that she takes multiple understudy classes per week learning different instruments. Finally, she’s also a Head Resident meaning she is a Resident Assistance that is in charge of all the other Resident Assistances in a particular area. This means that multiple nights a week, usually 2-3 hours each time, she has to check the dorms to make sure nothing bad is happening. Finally, she is the president of a co-Ed fraternity which requires overseeing and planning many facets of what happens in the fraternity. Hopefully you get the picture of how busy this makes her. 

In short, she has at most a few hours a day in the evening to take care of herself most days if she’s lucky and she often has to stay up past midnight and get up a 8 and the constant overload causes the panic attacks. The worst part is that she put herself into this situation knowing it would make her this busy. 

Don’t get me wrong, I want to help her when she has these panic attacks, but I am simply not capable of doing that and I think it’s really unfair that she gets angry at me for not doing something that should be handled by professionals instead of her 20 year old boyfriend. Even if I did help her, it does nothing to prevent the next panic attack that I know is going to happen a week later and it’s getting very taxing on my mental health because even if I try talking to her about this she will have an attack. I think the worst thing she does, however, is she’ll make passing jokes to her friends about this and act like it’s all just a funny joke.

Again, I want to reiterate that she just wants my immediate comfort that I have no idea how to give instead of seeking long term help by seeing a therapist, being prescribed anxiety medication, or dropping a few activities to give her more breathing room, but then I’m the bad guy for saying that and somehow I have to apologize for suggesting it. 

So, I genuinely want to know if I’m the asshole because this is driving me nuts knowing we’re about to be back in college in two weeks 

not helping my so with her panic attacks