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Input: What's up yall. Throwaway because my other account is obviously linked to me. Also on mobile so sorry for any errors. Yada yada.

So some back story. I am a 25m and I work in a travel intensive industry. I'm gone from home anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks at a time. I usually have anywhere from 1 to 3 weeks off when I am home. 

My gf(26) of 6 years understands mostly and is used to this by now. As I have been working like this for the past 5 years. 

At this time I'm transitioning to another company that will have me working 4 days on 3 off but for those 4 days I will still be out of town. At this point I have everything I want. A car, dog, house all paid off. I still feel as if something is lacking from my life. So I'm going to join the Army reserve.

Now on to the ahole territory. I have discussed this with her on several occasions and have tried to incorporate her into my decision for my job with the army but she's been pretty ambivalent about it. She said she doesn't mind what I do because I always do what I want even when I try and consult her opinion on everything. I love her and see a future with her. I just feel like I need to do this for myself. I would also give her my gi bill so she could go to school.

The current mos I am looking at has a deployment every 2 or 3 years for 9 months. Coupled with my civilian job 

So reddit WIBTA if I worked a job that took me away 4 days a week and have a 9 month deployment every couple of years?

always being gone