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Input: I love my boyfriend. Like a lot. Hes my world. I live in America and he in England. We've been dating for ever a year and I plan to visit him eventually but it makes him sad I'll have to go back home after. We do wanna live together eventually, especially because the free healthcare will help legit save my life.

But i don't want to just leave my life in the US full stop and head to the UK. I need to visit first and hes okay with it but it makes him sad when I joke about "lol hate this place. Omw to the UK" yknow. Stuff like that.

He just wants me to move in soon and I get it and if he lived in the US i honestly would. But its a completely different country and I need to visit so I know we'll be good irl and I can get a taste of how England is. Cause lets face it the US isnt great at telling us what other countries are like and I'll miss a ton of things I do like about the US. Mostly food items... Cause a lot of English candies and food taste gross to me. Don't @ me on that sorry I'm use to sugar filled garbage but its my garbage.

I'm trying to be understanding but he keeps getting so sad its gonna take years and even though hes fine and gets WHY i need to visit first he still gets huffy.. I love him and want to spend my life with the goof but Idk how to make him chill.

For some background he also has aspergers and bipolar disorder so I'm sure a lot of this is his brain thinking i dont like him or the wait being 10x longer than it'll actually be. 

TLDR; English BF wants me to move in with him right away vs visiting and I just need to visit before I do that.

not wanting to move in with my bf yet