Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Okay so im 29 years old and i had been going out with this girl for about a year. Lets call her Jill. Jill had just started working in an office and at one point an attractive guy (Lets call him Mike) got recruited into her part of the company (they werent higher or lower than eachother). Since she had just started the job (an assistant) she had no time to spend with me. Due to this she missed our big anniversary dinner that i had planned. Mike and Jill weren getting very friendly at work (not cheating , thank god). Also we had both told eachother our " I love you"s so i felt thretened by Mike. One day i brought her food while she was at work (apparently she had a lot of work). Along with her knowing i was threatened by Mike ultimately led to a big fight and she suggested we break up for a while. In my devastation i left the apartment and with some of our mutual friends i went to a bar were i got slightly drunk and brought a girl home. The next day Jill came over to apologise and i managed to keep her from seeing the girl. Finally one of my friends (that i went to the bar with) accidentally let out that i had sex with a girl to Jill. Jill was devastated and in our huge fight (the fight which broke us up) she was yelling at me, asking why i did it. My counter-argument was that we were on a break and that we were not together. This went back and forth a little and after a long moment of silence the fight ended. We broke up.

 A few weeks later she did go on a date with Mike

Who is the asshole?

boinking a girl after me and my breaking up