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Input: Edit: Sorry tripped the auto mod. Only mentioned past struggles, feeling good these days!
There's a girl (Sara) in my circle of friends that a couple months back spontaneously told me she had a crush on me.

I was taken aback and didn't really sleep that night stressing out about what I was going to do. I like this girl but I barely knew anything about her and I hadn't thought about her romantically up until this point. I was stressed because I just moved across the country to live with my other friends in this same circle and they think this girl and I would be great together. I spend most of the morning and early afternoon agonizing about it. I can't help it. I was thinking about how it would change my life to jump into a new relationship and the dynamic I have with my house mates. It really blindsided me, I was really enjoying myself in this new town and working out again, eating better, trying to change careers. I'm an asshole for making her wait overnight+ a few hours for a text.

My ex fucked me up badly and I let myself fall into a deep slump of self-loathing etc. In retrospect the wrong call but I told Sara I wasn't trying to date anyone right now. And of course I know rejection hurts and I felt like an asshole just for rejecting her it sucks to be rejected, and maybe I'm just letting my anxiety/fear drive my decisions but I didn't feel ready.

My friend(Cathy) didn't understand my reaction at all. "If a hot person came up to me like that and expressed interest I'd be all over them." Which I get and I am being too cautious/afraid of another relationship because of my last one(was almost 2 years ago now).

Am I the asshole to expect that group of friends to still include me? I just found out I wasn't invited to a concert/weekend thing that the group is going to. My memory isn't the best but I thought we had all talked about going like I was included. But apparently only they bought tickets. I know rejection sucks and it's embarrassing to be around the person who rejected you for a while but it's been months now and I'm wondering if I'm an asshole for thinking we could still interact in a friend group? Not to mention (it's a small group) we are all going to Japan in May in a few months. I'm definitely invited to that, I was there when we bought tickets. But my other friends failed to mention to the girl that I was going to be coming on that trip the day before we met up to plan/buy tickets. I definitely tried too hard to play it off like nothing had happened the next few times we were all together. In her shoes I wouldn't have wanted me to be weird/ignore her. Should I have apologized again in person? I wouldn't have wanted me to bring it up again from her perspective. My friend that was/is upset with me keeps telling me it can't go back to how it was before and I get that I guess. But then why are we all going to Japan together?


not wanting to/being ready to date a friend in a group and expecting the group to stay friends