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Input: Pretty simple, I'm not a massive fan of cards, I think they area waste of money and only to be used if you aren't there when they open it. Not really a fan of valentines day either as it is solely a money pit and there to make businesses profit.

This doesn't mean I do nothing, I say happy valentines, take her out for lunch and just have a nice day.

She's a bit more into it, buys me a card and a small trinket every year but then is always dissapointed and upset when I don't buy her a card.

Been together 10 years and I feel like at the start I went against my own beliefs to make her happy by buying cards and presents for her. And now that I don't she believes I don't care/dont love her any more. 

She knows my thoughts on the matter. 

AITA? 

not buying my gf a valentines day card