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Input: TLDR: I’m graduating with my MA next month and I do not want my 4 family members staying in my one bedroom, one bathroom apartment for the weekend. 

I’ve been telling my mom since last summer to get a hotel and now there aren’t any rooms left in the small town my school is located. It’s a 6 hr drive from my home, but my fam will be taking a 45min flight. They rented a car.

I suggested they stay in a moderately sized city about 25 mins away. The hotel location is downtown and fairly priced. I spoke to several of my friends about this and they said I was being pretty reasonable. I suggested my mom do the same; she said her friends also say I am ungrateful and selfish.

This is why I think it’s torture. I told my mom that if she insists on staying in my apartment, I will rent a place while they’re here. Maybe I’m a bad person, but my family stresses me out. She said that if I’m not here then what is even the point of their trip?

My mom keeps saying that I just don’t want her to visit and she calls me selfish bc I don’t want her in my apartment. This is frustrating and straight up a lie bc she has stayed in my apartment many times. It is not a money issue; I know for a fact my family can afford a hotel without it hurting our pockets.

Also, I think it is torture bc me and my mother do not have the best relationship. I am bisexual, she is v homophobic. She’s calmed down since outing me about 3 years ago, but she has a long way to go.

I don’t think I’m being selfish and a part of me feels like she didn’t even run this by another grown person to hear how wild she sounds. As of now she has plans of staying here with everyone and I’m stressed!  I can’t imagine 5 ppl calmly staying here.

I grew up with a big family (3 siblings in a 4bdrm/1bth house) so I’m used to cramped quarters, but I feel like this is too much. I just want to be relaxed before my graduation. 

I feel like my family (specifically my mom) is not very considerate when they come here and I know I won’t be well rested. For example, she likes to have the TV on and lights when she goes to bed. Plus, she goes to bed late and will talk on the phone as long as she’s up. The little one wakes up early and due to the nature of children, she’s not very quiet. Usually I don’t have a problem with this, but it does give me horrible sleep. 

On top of that, I know getting ready before my graduation will be a nightmare because I only have one bathroom and two mirrors in my home. I’m really good at doing makeup but it takes me about 1-1.5hrs. I know they’re going to rush me and I will feel ugly on my graduation day. And, they have a habit of running late for everything, so I anticipate being tired, ugly, and late for a very big day in my life. I am also scared that she will want to argue with me bc it feels like she argues with me over literally everything. 

AITA for not wanting my family to stay in my apartment? (This is my 1st post, please be gentle!)

not wanting my family to stay with me? I feel like my mom is doing this to torture me