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Input: So backstory first, my aunt has hated me since the day I was born. I don’t know why but it’s always been this way, she’s always hated my mom too. Again idk why she’s this way but she is. She always has some drama with a different family member and has kept my cousins away from all of us, growing up. 


Every holiday or special day in our lives, have been basically celebrated separately because she causes huge fights between us all and she’s just a negative vibe in general. My cousins, sister and myself have left it to ourselves to become close now that we’re all adults and they don’t let their mother dictate their lives anymore (well as much). So we are very close and love each other very much and see each other as much as we can. 


4 years ago I got into a serious relationship with the love of my life, my aunt hated him instantaneously just because she’s always hated me. He’s been the most amazing person and all my family loves him except for her. He proposed to me yesterday in Aruba (I know I know he’s just so romantical, I’m very lucky). Now of course naturally I tell my family, including my cousins and they all cry with me of joy. But the thing is that now that I’m going to get married, I refuse to let her come to my wedding and try to ruin it with her hatred and negativity but I really want my cousins to be my bridesmaids. AITA if I don’t invite her but have my cousins as my bridesmaids ? She might just even try to ruin it by stopping my cousins from being my bridesmaids and try to be evil even if I don’t invite her.

wanting my cousins as my bridesmaids but not wanting their mother at my wedding