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Input: Context, my ex-bf and I go to the same university. We dated for about 3-4 months, he accelerated the relationship so much and I was mostly ready for it. He was the one who verified that we were official, said the L word first (after I told him it was too early). Everything else was pretty good. We just returned from winter break and that time period of distance (8 hours apart for a month) really screwed things up. He barely reached out to me or showed interest, it felt like he was completing a task to talk to me. We argued a bit about it and he stood his ground, and I ended up compromising. This left me a bit resentful and sad and for the last week of break I figured a breakup was on the horizon. I was losing sleep, some nights I couldn't even fall asleep for an hour. I knew AT LEAST a conversation would have to take place.

There's some context as to the state of the relationship when we return to school.

So when I get back, he stops by for 2 hours which were not spent alone. We hung out with my suitemates, no 1 on 1 time. He was leaving to go watch a show (he watches weekly), and I asked what he was doing after. He tells me he "got 3 hours of sleep and is probably just going to go to bed after." I was disappointed, but there wasn't much I could do. 

Shortly after he leaves, I decided to text him to tell him that he "should sleep over, my roommate wouldn't be here." When he replies, he informs me that he's actually drinking with his suite tonight and he will "come after if he wants." At this point, I am sure the relationship is over. I didn't want to have to end it but I can not be treated that way. This was consuming my mind, my sleep, my eating, everything. I text him that I need to talk to him tonight, he says he's busy and already took 3 shots. I say it's important and he says "if I was doing nothing I would." He protests, and I eventually give up, trying to work on school work.

After 30 minutes of trying to get work done, my mind can not focus on anything else. I needed the result. I apologize and tell him that it is an absolute need for him to come over. I literally said "If you have any respect for me not even as your boyfriend, but as a friend, you will show up tonight because it is that important to me." Mind you, we live in adjacent buildings (30 second walk, no joke). He protests still, at this point I am infuriated and I have to end it, I can not put it off another day. I even told him that I got zero hours of sleep the previous night because I needed to talk to him about this and he essentially shrugs it off. 

I decided that there was no other choice and I just ended it there over text. I simply said I am breaking up with you, and that was basically it. He asked if we can be friends, but after that conversation I told him that he showed his lack of respect and therefore I have no interest in being friends. 

TLDR; bf gave me crumbs of attention, wanted to talk about it and potentially break up with him. He refused to walk 30 seconds to meet up with me when I told him I needed to talk and that it was important (stated that I was losing sleep over this). His excuse was that he had started drinking (3 shots) and was busy.

AITA for 
a.) breaking up with him over text?
b.) telling him I have no interest in being friends due to **this conversation** alone?

breaking up over text