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Input: I get it, Christmas Eve is for family, New Year Eve for friends. But, that’s quite different in our case. 

My brothers (26M and 29M, let’s say, respectively Jack and John) and I (24F) are living in a different country from our parents. We are 12000 km away from our hometown. We’re located in Europe now and our parents are living on a tiny island, lost somewhere in the Indian Ocean. 
We don’t go home often because the plane ticket is quite expensive and the fly is very long (11-12h or so). 

You gotta know that, at home, we would have very big family gathering (30-40 people) for Christmas Eve and NYE. They’re so much fun because everyone’s here feeling and sharing the Christmas Spirit. 

This year, John moved out from home after a few years of struggling with health issues, forcing him to quit his studies and stay home for a while. He finally got back on his feet and found a job where Jack and I live. I’m very happy for him because he made some friends, starting to take care of himself, got into a nice and healthy routine.

John and I have been abroad from a while now, 4 or 5 years. We first moved out because of our studies and after we graduate, we naturally found a job here. We are now used to the distance. We may have got back home twice and we see our parents once once a year. 

Now, our parents are very worried for all of us. Parents will be parents. They just wish the best for us and wish we could spend more time together. So our dad booked a plane ticket for the holidays. Our mom couldn’t come along for financial reasons. The plan was then to spend Christmas Eve and NYE together and our dad would go back home right after the first of January. 
But... a few days ago, long after the booking, Jack and John informed us they will spend NYE with their respective friends. John wants to spend his very first NYE with friends instead of family like we used to do back home. Jack planned to spend the evening with his girlfriend.

I mean, I get it. I also had plans, but our dad being here, it’s only natural to be with him. He didn’t come all this way to spend the 31st if December alone, did he? 
They literally could have told my parents about their plans before they book the ticket, so at least my dad would have spent the holiday with everyone else at home and actually have fun. 

Now, I decided to cancel my plans and stick with my dad for the NYE. We will be two. I don’t know what we’re gonna do but I’m not feeling the holidays spirit that much now I’m mad at my brothers. They told me I should quit my bullshit and that I’m making them feel guilty for wanting to enjoy themselves. 

AITM for demanding my brothers to spend NYE with our dad and I? 

demanding my brothers to spend NYE with our dad and I