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Input: On mobile so not sure how format will come out.
Today My(M28) gf(f25) and I were up all day driving around to different places. We were doing some diligences for a fund raiser for a humanitarian cause. So I was the one driving from place to place, picking up things to then dropping off, and then helping out at the warehouse where everything was being dropped off.

At the end, she asked to go to here sister’s house and I said sure(I had nothing to do there, but whatever, I don’t mind). At that point I had driven approximately 3 hours, and just wanted to be home, but we stayed there for around for a couple hours. Her two cousins showed up, and one of them left to go eat and took their car. When we were about to head out, my gf tells me we’re going to take her cousin and gives me an address that’s 20 minutes from her sister’s house, and around 25 more minutes from/back to our apartment. I say no, that i’m Tired, and If anything, I rather just pay an Uber for her.

My gf flipped, said I was an asshole, telling me that was unbelievable, that if a cousin of mine ever needed a ride she wouldn’t hesitate to take them(I don’t even have family in the state, so it was purely hypothetical statement), that I was being egotistical, etc. (let me make it clear, i’ve Given her cousin rides before, and have offered in different occasions where she needed but didn’t ask. Today I just didn’t want to drive somewhere that wasn’t along the way to the house, plus I offered to pay an Uber, which she found unacceptable. 

I honestly don’t see what’s wrong offering to pay someone’s Uber if I personally don’t feel like driving. So, Reddit, am I the asshole?

Tl;dr : was driving a lot today, before going home, gf tells me to give her cousin a ride home, but I say no due to it being in the opposite direction and i offer to pay an Uber. I get called an asshole. Am I?

offering an Uber rise