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Input: I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now and we're both non-religious/atheist. The thing is, my girlfriend was raised in an uber-religious household with very Catholic parents that constantly shoved religious elements into her life throughout her childhood/teenage years. She constantly tells me how much she hated- and still hates- it.

However, she hides the fact that she is atheist from her parents as to not upset them and "fakes it" by going to church and other religious events with them on a regular basis. I don't necessarily agree with it, but I \*get\* it. As a result, we avoid talking about religion around them as much as possible and for the most part, it hasn't even come up when I'm around.

Her parents seem to like me a lot (or liked) and I do find them to be nice people. The other day during a dinner with them however, they began asking me if I would like to accompany them to church. I politely declined and was prepared to leave it at that- it's not the first time they've asked and I know to keep my own beliefs to myself to avoid stirring controversy. But they kept probing.

They asked how often I went to church, and I said never. They asked what religion I was, and I said I didn't practice any. They then asked if I believed in God and my girlfriend interrupted and told them to stop asking me personal questions. They went back and forth for a bit and ultimately said they were "just curious" and said they wanted to see "what my morals were".  Feeling very uncomfortable at this point, I just said I preferred not to talk about it.

The rest of dinner was very awkward and went by pretty silently. They didn't seem angry or upset really, but there was clearly some tension in the air.

After we left her parents place, my girlfriend was stressed and mildly frustrated with me. We talked about it on the car ride home, and apparently they didn't know about my non-religion prior to this. She had apparently told them I was Catholic like them. I suppose I should have suspected they didn't know about my non-religion, but we actually never talked about it.

The next day happens, and I find out from my girlfriend that her parents are upset with her. They're upset she lied about my religion, upset she's dating not dating someone of faith, and upset because they suspect she's now lying about her own religious stance (which, she is). My girlfriend is now upset with me for causing all this, and now I feel guilty for souring the relationship between all of us.

I knew they were super religious, I knew my girlfriend was keeping her lack of religion a secret, and I suspected that they did not know about my atheism. But, I did not want to lie to their faces or hide that aspect of myself.

Am I the asshole?

blatantly telling my girlfriend's super religious parents that I'm atheist