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Input: BF (m/33) and I (f/about to be 34) have been together 3 years. Last year, he totally dropped the ball and planned nothing (not even a card). This year, I heavily suggested (aka, planned) what I wanted to do... Starting with, we stay up Thursday night and watch the meteor shower and then stay home together from work on Friday. I figured we could sleep in, just enjoy each other, maybe get breakfast.  
  
Well, to start with, he first bailed on taking Friday off together, after he agreed to it with me, because he had to work. I was bummed but said of course, and I will see you when you get off work and we can set up for the meteors.  
  
Then, he tells me the night before that the meteor showers don’t peak til late, so he’s going to do his usual Thursday night xbox night and then he’ll hop off closer to midnight and we can go outside. I voiced that I was not okay with that, and I asked him to please give up xbox for one night, since it’s my weekend.  
  
Lastly, I got a txt from him while I was still at work yesterday, stating that he was going to go out and grab a couple of beers with friends and he’d see me back at the house later. I again expressed my feelings were hurt and I wanted us to save our drinking for outside, because when he drinks too much, he either falls asleep or gets really angry... so I wanted to wait and drink together while watching the stars. He shut down supremely and said I needed to respect him and his life, and he wasn’t changing his plans.  
  
Needless to say, when he got home, I wasn’t happy and so I was cold to him... and that pissed him off and we had a huge fight over the whole thing, because he says I am the asshole for trying to “control” him and that I live in a fairytale world, if I think any man is going to set up special blankets and drinks outside for us to watch meteor showers. The way I see it, he is the asshole for standing me up for my birthday plans. And just for clarification, my bday is Saturday. It wasn’t last night/the night of the meteor shower, I just thought it would be a nice kick off and romantic for us, especially since he’s been dropping the ball so much lately.  
  
So, Reddit... AITA? 

getting upset that my boyfriend went out drinking before my birthday date with him