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Input: Both my wife and I work full time, but I can’t help but feel like She doesn’t help around the house. We divided the chores but it seems like I must still be asking to much of her. She unloads the dishwasher and I load it, Mostly because she is grossed out by the dirty dishes. It takes days of me asking her to unload it for her to finally get around to doing it and in the mean time the dishes have stacked up and our kitchen is a constant mess. 
I haul the laundry up and down stairs and do the washing and drying, I ask that she folds and hangs out clothes. She always wants to watch TV while folding/hanging and insists that I be present to keep her company.  After about 2 or 3 hours she might get through half a load of laundry. Our clothes are always in hampers and I feel like it just adds to the mess.

I could certainly just do everything myself, but that’s not the point. Am I the asshole for expecting her to do chores?

expecting my wife to do chores around the house