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Input: I started dating a friend of mine about a year and a half ago. Before we even started dating we were talking a lot about pretty much everything, and sexual preference, desires, and fantasies was part of it. I had told him that I cannot get off via penetration alone and that I used toys. I also told him that I'm not really into kissing or romance, but sometimes it's good, all depends on the mood. Anyways he started to develop feelings for me, and we ended up getting together. Our sex life was ok in the beginning because I was under the assumption that he was nervous. After a few months I brought up the idea of getting some toys for the bedroom ( I threw mine away because I had used them with a previous partner and I don't think that's hygienic to keep them). He said no, and that I couldn't have any for myself because "he is there, and always willing to have sex" and that "he can satisfy my needs" this was partially true. He was also complaining about the lack of sex we were having around that time because my sex drive was low. This was due to moving houses, moving colleges, a college strike, and also because I wasn't excited about having sex with him because I was NEVER getting off. At this point I was giving him blowjobs once in a while and he did try to reciprocate, but to be honest he was AWFUL at it. Also to add the sex wasn't even good. Like it's always the same, and I can't really get on top and make it exciting because his dick isn't big enough, it always falls out (I like his size, it feels good for me, but on top is like a constant battle)

So another month goes by and he is losing his shit on me about the lack of sex we are having. I didn't know what to say because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, so I said hey maybe we could get some toys or something and spice it up again, and he basically says that I don't need toys because he is there, and I'm the one not initiating, or not having sex with him. 

So this is where I told him the truth. I told him that I do want sex it's just that I'm not satisfied with the sex we have. I told him I never get off and it's not exciting for me. I told him that the toys help to get me off after he does or before. I told him maybe more foreplay is where we need to focus to make it enjoyable for both of us. I could tell he was hurt by everything, but he said ok and that he was willing to try. This was about 6 or 7 months ago. We have had sex like 3 times since then, and I am extremely frustrated. None of those times I got off either.

So I bring it up last night asking him why he doesn't want to have sex? We were already arguing about something else anyways, and he says angrily "I have been with A LOT of women and none of them had any sexual problems, you make me feel so inadequate" i asked him how and he said that I have this ability to make people feel like shit unconsciously. 

Am I the asshole here? Like should I have just had boring, unsatisfying sex to make him feel better? 

being 100% honest with my boyfriend