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Input: I'm 23, my little brother is 17 and a senior in high school so he's been going through the applications process to go to college. I've tried to be supportive throughout because our parents are immigrants and really have no idea how this works. I handled all my applications and financial aid forms myself, asking guidance counselors when I didn't know how to do something. I expected my brother to be similar, and to come to me when he reached a point of "I know I have to submit these things but I don't know where to find them or I don't know how to fill them out."

Throughout the applications process my mom has been hounding him to apply until he finally submits his applications the night they're due. I've been offering to help with financial aid stuff when he gets to it. I know you have to fill out FAFSA and the College Board CSS profile as an incoming freshman, I'm unaware of what the specific colleges he's applying to want. So I ask him "when do you want to fill out the FAFSA?" for a couple months until we finally sit down and do it together. I ask him about the CSS profile and he says he doesn't need to do it, so I assume things have changed and don't bring it up again.

This came to a head recently, as he's been denied from his top choice school, wait listed from other schools we thought he'd get into, and only has a couple acceptances. Then he says that he's missing some financial aid forms, including the CSS profile and some forms that one of the accepting schools wants that were apparently due back in January. We fill out the forms and submit them. My mom is now incredibly worried about how much aid he's gonna get because these forms were submitted so late, and we're a very poor family (I graduated with less than $10k debt because I was fortunate enough to receive a lot of financial aid).

tl;dr little brother was irresponsible while applying to colleges, submitting applications late and being completely unaware of forms to submit for financial aid, am I the asshole for not being proactive in making sure he submitted everything on time?

not being more proactive in my brother's college financial aid process