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Input: My alcoholic dad and I have been trying to have a relationship again after years of estrangement. This is hard because we live in different states (I'm in Indiana and he's in Pennsylvania). Things have been better for the past 6 months though. He called me first and said he was sober and wanted to work on things and get to know my daughter. He had missed out on my basic courthouse wedding, and felt bad about that. I was receptive and we started having calls on the weekends too.

My mom also lives in PA in my childhood home with my brother (29) and grandparents. My parents are divorced, but my family has been really great about letting my dad visit me and the baby when I stay with them. I had also checked with my brother and made sure he was comfortable with my dad being around, and he has been. Things were really good between me and my dad. I could tell my dad honestly about how stuff made me feel and he did the same. He was calm and didn't freak out when stuff was bothering him.

Anyway, 2 days ago we had a blow up fight. He had gotten into a fight with my mom Saturday about some tools he left at their house after the divorce. Legally they were hers now (he had 1.5 YEARS to move them and did nothing).

He was mad at ME because a few days prior he mentioned that he was drinking "two beers" at night and I said I didn't know how that made me feel. I think he's lying but I didnt say anything specific. He had been saying that he wasn't really an alcoholic, but that he was a "drunk" and had chosen to be drunk, which was a mistake.

Anyway, he told me he wasn't beholden to anyone and was an adult. He said he had the beer because he doesn't like soda and he coffee was keeping him up it was awful living alone with no money and I couldn't judge him for doing what he needed to feel better. He also said we all have our own "dependencies" and that clearly mine was I had "eaten too many huge hamburgers and it was starting to show a lot." (I've gained weight since the baby, have PPD and haven't lost the baby weight yet.)

And then he said he had no idea why the drinking bothered me so much because it wasn't that bad when I was living with him and I was out of the house all the time. I was also apparently really mouthy and its not like he hit me or anything. It could've been so much worse!

I calmly asked him if he thought it was unreasonable for me to feel nervous about him drinking and he said no at first, but then said again it wasn't any of my business and he was doing what he needed to.

I angrily started to list things that he did and made me feel shitty (he tried to rebut them), and then he brought up that he wasn't at my wedding because I didn't invite him. I told him we needed to stop talking then and we hung up. 

I feel like he was just trying to hurt me as much as he could, and possibly because he is hurting too -- but I'm just so tired of trying with him and then getting shit on.

cutting out my alcoholic dad