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Input: Throwaway account for reasons but my gf lives in another state and has to go home for a wedding in a few weeks. Originally I was supposed to go with her but when it came time to buy the tickets to get there, I wasn’t able to get the time off work. She understood and everything was good right? Well, fast forward to two weeks ago, a friend asked if I wanted to join him and a coworker on a boys fishing trip.

Here’s where I think I might have messed up. We transferred someone in from another department so we’re a little over staffed in my area at work now. So...I can get the time off. I never told my gf this because the tickets had already been bought and I was just planning on going to work anyway and she didn’t seem to care whether I went with her or not. I told my buddy I could go on the fishing trip.

Today my friend said something to my gf about the trip during casual conversation and I’m not sure I’ve ever seen her so angry in 4 years. She’s threatening to break up with me because she says she can’t trust me and what I did was disrespectful to both her and her family. 

AITA?

TL;DR was supposed to go to an out of state wedding with my girlfriend but couldn’t get off work. Friend wants to go on a trip for a couple of days while she’s gone and now the time off is available. Girlfriend is livid.

going on a boys trip and not telling my gf about it