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Input: So this requires a bit of backstory but I'll make this as abridged as I can. It's an all-out family brawl now because my siblings are all calling me a HUGE FUCKING asshole and I don't see it. I think I'm the only one willing to stand for my grandma and the shitty cards she was dealt. 

Anyways, back in the 1970s (this is in Taiwan btw), my grandpa (now deceased) brought home a baby that turned out to be his. He was cheating on my grandma with this music teacher and she got pregnant and secretly had the baby because back then it was a big deal to be single and pregnant. Well, this isn't really the most scandalous bit in our family. 

What happened later is that my grandma raised this baby for a while then when she turned four my grandma let her be adopted away by a family she won't say. This was during the day when my grandpa was at work and her other kids all at school. My mom and uncles all remember her but none of them know where she went. They've asked my grandma for years but she won't tell anyone. My grandpa supposedly died of a broken heart. 

My mom and uncles are convinced something happened to the little girl (like my grandma killed her or trafficked her) and they've always had a rocky relationship with her. HOWEVER, the older I am the more disgusted I am at hearing about how my grandma was treated by my grandpa. He was terrible. He was supposedly verbally abusive and cheated on her their entire marriage. In modern day, he would be considered the classic abusive husband and she would've divorced him. I think she did the right thing giving away the bastard kid. It wasn't hers and demanding her to raise it was insult to injury. 

I voiced this the other day to my siblings and they all went off on me, saying that my grandma was a monster and that's why they wont go see her in Taiwan. I argued that they've been brainwashed by my mom and her brothers because domestic abuse wasn't a big deal back then. I said that my grandmother had no choice and she did the best she could. However, I was being called a massive asshole, c\*nt, etc. 

siding with my grandma on how she treated my grandfather's bastard kid