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Input:  First, I’d like to apologize for any mistakes, English is not my first language.

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Background information: I’m a transgender man. I met some LGBT-friendly people I got close with during my first year of university and everything was going pretty well between us. I introduced them to a guy in our course I befriended later on. They all liked him and he was a really cool guy, inviting us to his place to study and play D&amp;D, supporting when some of us came out of the closet… 

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In September, we were all chatting on our group chat about random stuff until the guy started posting memes and making transphobic jokes I did not like at all. I called him out, reminding him that was not okay. He apologized and everyone acted like nothing happened. Two days later, same problem. I called him out again, and he apologized again. I was starting to get annoyed with him as he continued to do that every week.

At some point in mid-October I got really mad and told him to shut up when he was making another “joke” (irl this time), then stopped talking to him at all. I left the group chat but kept talking to the others during class and by messages, but they seemed to grow distant, to the point they stopped talking to me.

Now we’re in February and no one from the group had talked to me since. They act like I have the plague or something, not saying hello or responding when I try to interact for homework and avoiding sitting next to me during class. The only interaction we had since happened yesterday, when a girl from the group throw to my face the signing sheet during class. 

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On one hand, my relatives told me it was my fault for not being tolerant and that I only got what I deserved. On the other, two close friends agreed they acted like children and that it’s good riddance.

I’m now wondering, am I the asshole here? Was I really intolerant by telling him to shut up? Did I really get what I deserved?

not talking to a transphobic friend