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Input: Mental illness is a real problem, and I am in no way trying to imply that people suffering from depression aren't doing their darn best. I just want to help my friend. 

I am in highschool. My friend texts me everyday telling me "I had X amount of breakdowns today" and "I can't go to school today, because I'll just have a breakdown" 

He skips for days and he'll come back and we have a test an he'll say "I'm gonna do the test but I'm high so" I told him that weed and alcohol are going to make his depression and anxiety worse. 

I've told him some strategies I use for when I experience depression, I've recommended he see a therapist or at LEAST the school counselor. He always says "I can't, I'll just end up crying" His parents are telling him to suck it up.

It's been this way for months and seems to be getting worse each day, from what he is telling me. He shuts down every suggestion I give him. 

I feel at this point it's like he doesn't even want help. I want to support my friend, but I'm running out of things to say and honestly starting to become a little annoyed. I tell myself that it isn't my job to fix people. Learning that is something I struggle with. I can't fix him, I just wish he would take responsibility and do something about his situation

wishing my friend would stop throwing a pity party and get some help