Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My father was "knocking" on my window, he has done this in the past when he's been locked out and needs me to let him in. He had just stepped out of the door. He did it to intentionally startle me, which it did. He then walks around to the other window, which he could see me from, and bangs on that one too. I give him the finger. When he gets back he comes into my room, didn't knock, and is mad at me for giving him the finger. I respond with "don't bang on my window I won't give you the finger" he says "I just wanted to say hi" (gaslight much?). He makes some comments about my room being messy, I ask him to leave, he waits silently to bother me and then leaves. Am I the asshole?

giving my father the finger