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I’m a 17 year old girl, and I have been really close friends with this guy (17M) for about a year now. About a half year before we became friends, he started dating this girl who has a lot of issues, and she really isn’t particularly nice to him or me. Basically, she was controlling him, and would throw a fit if he spent any time with friends and only wanted to spend one on one time with him. she got really mad every time he talked to anyone but her.

Essentially, last week, he dumped her, but during the breakup, he kept mentioning my name, so now she blames me for the breakup (even though i has nothing to do with it, because i told him not to break up with her). He was just mentioning me in stupid contexts, but still, damage was done.

Anyways, I’ve been wanting to lose my virginity for a while, particularly to this guy because i trust him a lot and know he’s a good person. Plus, he’s very experienced, so I had a feeling it would be a good time, and I knew he also wanted to have sex with me. However, he told a couple people he wanted to fuck me, and she found out and got really mad and said he didn’t have a right to move on.

Regardless, this guy came to a party with me yesterday night, and we had sex (and goddamn it was good). 

I kind of feel guilty because this girl is still not over this guy that I have now decided to engage in a sexual relationship with (purely sexual, no strings attached). However, she treated him really badly, and also was really mean to me. Besides, I feel like he has the right to move on!

Anyways, am i the asshole?


TLDR: this guy who is one of my best friends just dumped his bitchy girlfriend who was super controlling. we both expressed interest in having sex, and i lost my virginity to him last night. the ex gf is really mad that he is moving on. We want to continue engaging in sex, but i feel kind of guilty, but at the same time, i think this is a little fair and it’s ok to move on. Am I the asshole?


fucking my best friend who just broke up with his girlfriend who I have a complicated relationship with