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Input: My Boyfriend's grandmother passed away back in December. They cremated her and are having a wake for her. 
In January I got a sweet deal on concert tickets to see Beck/Cage the Elephant and Spoon. Im also inviting my sister as its her 18th birthday. 



The Problem, my Boyfriends family is having the wake the same weekend as the concert. They're having it in Michigan and the concert is in Austin. 

My Boyfriend assumed I would be going with him and has talked me up to his family and they are super excited to see me.


Am I the asshole for not wanting to give up my concert tickets/miss my sisters birthday/go out of town  to celebrate a woman who died three months ago and who I never met?



My boyfriend and I have only been living together a few months




not going to my (live in) boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see Beck/cage the Elephant/ spoon