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Input: I am always told by family that I am just being "fussy" when I ask my roommate to pay his share of the rent on time and in full. He always pays it late, and often late by several days, if not several weeks. The lease and the bills are in MY name, so this looks bad on ME when it is late. I am also poor, so I cannot just cover his side of the rent. 

The roommate is my cousin, and my previous roommate was another cousin, both from the same family. They both had issues paying their bills, even when they HAD the money! Both of them have issues with spending, and will often spend hundreds of dollars a month on junkfood and crap instead of paying their actual bills. I feel as if they think that because the bill is in my name, that they don't have to care about paying it on time, and that makes me feel highly disrespected in my own home.

We are helping out the current roommate due to financial issues, which is the only reason we let him stay. Despite this, he never lets us know when he will be able to pay the rent and his one utility. He simply does not pay. When I ask about it, I am always hit with "I'll have it tonight" or "I'll have it tomorrow" or on the weekend, and it never comes. Sometimes I am able to pay his side of the rent 1-5 days after it is due, other times it can be up to 21 days after the grace period. 

I feel bad, as the landlords like me, but I feel like the landlord's good will is going to run low. I am always on the hook when these bills are late, and over the past few years, I have had to shill out over 2000 USD of my own money, which would have otherwise gone towards taxes and food, to pay for bills that that they simply do not pay. I make less than 8000 USD a YEAR, and most of it goes towards rent, food, and medical expenses. I often have to live on a tight budget, and can never buy anything for myself. 

I feel like I am being taken advantage of, but I am unable to say anything. When I try to bring it up, I get shut down. I am told that they "work hard" or that "they're family" and I am just expected to deal with all this nonsense. 

I am on the verge of breaking down and my lack of funds makes me so stressed that I cry about how I am going to make ends meet. But they do not seem to care. 

My cousins are over 20 years old, with full-time jobs, and I constantly have to nag at them to even get the money. If I did not nag them for the money, they probably would not pay at all. And they don't even clean any part of the house either, so it is often a mess. 

So am I the asshole for wanting my roommates to pay their share?

wanting the bills paid on time and in full