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Input:  Repost because I didn't spell WIBTA properly in the original title.

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Since before my boyfriend and I met 3 years ago, he' been using the "no 'poo" technique of hair care. For those unfamiliar, this is when you only utilized shampoo/conditioner every few months. You still wet and hand scrub in the shower every few days. The idea is that you're allowing the scalp to self-regulate and find a balance with the amount of natural oils present on the head. His hair isn't gross, per-say. It just looks, feels, and smells a little greasy. It's not the sleazy-looking type of greasy; it just looks like he uses a lot of gel. He got the idea from a mutual friend who doesn't wash her hair often because she is constantly traveling. Her hair is INCREDIBLE and she can easily style it because the natural oil allows her hair to hold shape.

So my question is WIBTA if I requested he wash his hair for a little while to see how it looks. As I seriously value body autonomy and person choice, I would feel selfish asking him to do so. I'm conflicted. In the years we've been dating, hes washed it maybe a 12-20 times. I know that sounds disgusting but it's average for those who use no 'poo methods and it really isn't bad. I don't mind and I promise it's not as disgusting as it sounds. His person hygiene is great in general. These shampoo-ings, however, are not the deep conditioning that would be needed to remove the oils, however. So it feels softer but it's still not 100% clean.

I'm not sure if I am considering this purely out of curiosity or if there is a part of me that secretly thinks his hair is disgusting. Occasionally during sexy times he'll want me to grab his hair but I'm hesitant to because it's greasy. I don't think that's the reasoning but the unconscious mind is a complex thing.

Also, I always welcome personal experiences and information about no 'poo! And if INFO is needed, let me know. I know this is a bit of a ramble.

In judging this, please try to judge based on whether this would be an acceptable request given his right to bodily autonomy, not whether you think not washing your hair is a gross thing. As his girlfriend, am I allowed to make sure a request? Like I said, his hygiene otherwise is perfect.

TL;DR I'm considering asking my no 'poo boyfriend to wash his hair regularly for a short period of time to see what his natural hair is like. WIBTA?

asking my boyfriend to stop his "no 'poo" hair care temporarily