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Input: We play boardgames at my house, and we've been playing frequently the past month. Today I can't play, and a friend of mine asked me if he could borrow the game to play in his house. I said no, and he didn't take it very well. 

'what's going to happen to it?' he asks, 'whats the problem?'. 

And the problem is 1) that he has borrowed things from me before and not taken care of them (to be fair it happened years ago), and 2) he is inconsistent with his word. This means, when he says he will give it back tomorrow,  I don't really believe it. 

The thing is, I feel bad for saying no. Its probable that nothing will happen to the game and he will give it back no problem. And Im afraid being 'an asshole' about it may have repercussions in our relationship in some way. 

Nonetheless, I don't want to lend him the game. Does this make me the asshole?

not lending a friend a boardgame so he can play tonight