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Input: I married my current husband seven years ago. He has three children from a previous marriage and I have my daughter from a previous one as well. Two of his children are in college right now and one graduated in May, and my daughter is starting high school in August.

I really want my daughter to go to a top tier school as my daughter has stated many times she wants to either go to John Hopkins, Stanford, NYU or Columbia. My stepchildren go to state colleges.

Yesterday, all of us were together for a birthday when I mentioned my daughter, M would start SAT classes. My eldest step son J remarked that he and his sisters B and R never took SAT prep and did just fine. This led me to discuss how M wants to go to a prestigious school that would demand a higher testing scores.

This led B, who for context purposes is always trying to start a fight even on a family occasion, to ask how M would get scholarships to go live somewhere and go to school at private colleges. Their father/my husband refused to allow his children (with agreement with their mother) to send off to private or out of state schools due to the high tuition.

So, it would not be that far fetched that now, with his children locked in their current schools that both of their parents wanted, that my husband and I would send my daughter to a nicer college. My ex-husband have not discussed yet what we would like for M, but my ex husband does have two kids with his new wife. I think my ex-husband would be fine if my husband and I paid for M's college tuition and expenses.

B hitched a fit that it wouldn't be fair for her siblings and herself if M got to go out of state. I told her that paying for three children to go out of state would be a lot of money, but that just paying for one is not as expensive. Also, I reminded them that their own mother agreed that they should stay in state for the lower tuition. B argued that her mother is still unmarried and could not afford the costs, so I had to repeat AGAIN that three children out of state is a heavy burden compared to one.  I also said that her father and I share finances so sending M to SAT prep and other things is my right to do. If my husband had wanted his children to go out of state with our money, I would not have been mad, which I told my stepchildren. It's really a matter to discuss with their own parents; not me. B then called me an ass, to which I told her to not use language like that. 

B told me I was being inconsiderate, so I had my husband ask her to back off and calm down to which she refused. 

B, even though she's an adult, acts very immaturely with her stepsister and always has, ever since we got married. B is eight years older than M but acts younger. I am taking her comments with a grain of salt, but I would like to gain outside opinions on this.

B and her siblings were quiet the rest of the evening, and B was probably trying to stir up more drama as it is. I'm getting tired, frankly, of how she is constantly undermining me in front of everyone when I'm really just trying to better my daughter's life. It's not my fault my husband and his ex-wife would not send their children out of state. His children act very entitled to our money but the way they conduct themselves causes me to doubt they really want a relationship with their father and instead just want our money. It's all about money to them. I know they are happy with their current education, but the second M gets something remotely nice they all freak out on me. 

So, do I really deserve to be called an ass when it's not my fault they're jealous and acting entitled? 

Please feel free to give any insight about this so maybe I can try to communicate with B better.

wanting my husband to pay for my daughter's college tuition