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Input: Lowkey scared of posting in here cuz posts like these usually tend to lean to YTA (if you guys decide it, totally understand; Kinda feel like an asshole for it but I’m not 100% of that mindset). I hope the title isn’t misleading since I’d rather get more into it in the post itself. Also TLDR-ish summary at the bottom

Anyways, back in 10th grade, I dated this girl I became friends with in my freshmen year when she was in 8th grade (we met through band since our school’s band programs were performed tg). We didn’t rly start off liking each other, but we eventually became friends. After a bit, we flirted and then started dating. Things escalated quicker than I expected and she was more into me than i was into her. She isn’t exactly the prettiest or the most in shape girl (I’m not fatshaming bc i was also kinda fat; not to say i only date skinny girls cuz i like who i like, but as I’ve seen someone comment under a post that’s similar, we are attracted to ppl that are in shape) but she is a wonderful person and that’s what i cared about. But then i did an asshole and started talking to another girl (big oof Ik, but don’t write me out just yet) 

We had a falling-out, feelings were hurt, and we blocked each other for a while. I’ve come to terms with what I did and once I matured (cuz I was young and new to relationships) I talked to her, apologized for what i did and we tried to be friends again. She said it helped her realize that ppl aren’t who they seem to be (i was a nice guy [in before r/niceguy comments] except for the asshole thing i did) and to not be as invested into ppl bc she got rly invested when we dated. 

Once we made up, we become friends and talked every now and then. We’ve hung out, but sometimes it led to flirting/kissing and although I enjoyed it, I couldn’t go through that again with her so I always stopped it before it got any further, leading to arguments (kinda like a FWB type thing but more her than me cuz I was rebound most of the time and I just wanted attention from a girl; this isn’t meant to paint her out badly bc it takes two to tango so i shouldn’t have entertained it, but yk i got needs too) Since then, I’ve just refrained from doing that type of stuff with her and so far so good. Sometimes she’ll text me and say “we should cuddle, we should hang out, we should make plans for tonight” etc and although my life is boring, I don’t wanna end up hurting her (not to say I’d cheat again bc I’ve learned my lesson and I’ve been cheated on; pretty shit feeling so I’d rather not do that again) so I always give dry responses or send lol/lmao and she gets upset but only for a little 

Long story short, am I the asshole for not wanting to date/ do FWB with someone I’ve dated who isn’t my type and who i also cheated on (and reconciled with in case someone scrolls to the bottom without reading) 

not wanting to date a girl who isn't exactly my type who I dated before and had a falling out with