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Input: A couple of days ago my 96 year old upstairs neighbor passed away. His heart suddenly stopped and he collapsed. 
His carer called me because she knew I was the only one there who was CPR certified (even though I had never performed it on a human being).
I did CPR, even tho I knew it wouldn't work because he was so old and quite a few minutes had passed between the moment his heart stopped and when I got there and started with the chest compressions, so his chances of surviving were extremely low. However, his relatives did not think about opting for a "do not resuscitate order".
After a few minutes of doing CPR, the ambulance came and the paramedics took over.
As expected, he was soon declared dead.
The funeral is in an hour and my mom just assumed I was going to go. 

This morning I told her that I wasn't planning on going because I don't really like funerals in general, and I also know it's going to be super crowded because everyone knew him (there's going to be a choir and everything). 
I also don't like the idea of seeing the casket. 
It just brings me back to me cracking his ribs, knowing that he was dead but not being able to stop because unless a doctor declares a person dead, you have to keep going (at least in my country) and I don't really feel like it. 
My mom told me that I was a bitch for not going and that it was disrespectful.
Now, I understand why she would say that but if I don't feel like going, why do I have to be forced to go? I'd put aside my hate for funerals if it was about a close relative or a friend, but even tho I have known this neighbor for many years, I wasn't personally that close to him.
Sorry for the long post. 

not wanting to go to my 96 year old neighbor's funeral