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Input: I recently went in for jaw surgery to correct an overbite and problems with my jaw. I had to stay overnight in the hospital then stay elevated in bed for awhile. It takes 3 weeks before you feel normal and 3 months before you can eat solid foods. 

I have to be fed everything through a syringe. Since I can't feel my mouth and both my lips are swollen, I can't feel where the syringe goes most of the time. I've gotten better at it self administrating but I still need my partner to help, especially with my pills.

He knew ahead of time the amount of work it would be and how long it would be. I told him I didn't want to feel like a burden (he has a habit of complaining any time I need help and going on about "how much I owe him" and I just didn't want to deal with that while I was healing). I made it really clear to him several times. He said he was offended I'd think that way about him.

It's been 6 days since I came out of surgery (5 since the hospital) and he's begun to complain about having to prepare my food for me. It's all canned soups and ensures - he just has to blend, heat and put in the syringe. I could do it by myself but it's hard to tell if it's too hot (I don't have much feeling) and I'm physically weak from losing weak and not getting enough nutrients. I do everything else by myself except my pills and food. I lose track of time on the medication in between sleeping so I asked him to track it.

He doesn't feel he should have to do anything that I could do myself. It would make it a lot harder for me, especially getting up from bed. It's not a lot of work for him. I usually eat 3 or 4 times a day and I try to get my water intake at the same time so he's not constantly having to do it.

For context, he's not working right now and I pay the bills in full. He hasn't worked for nearly a year. He doesn't do a lot of chores in the house and I make most of the food/meal prep. I've been working overtime for 3 months to afford everything (I bought a condo and he moved in).

I feel like because he's not working and I'm not strong, he should be taking care of me. He doesn't feel like he should do anything now that I'm "a little better" and that I'm taking advantage of him. Am I??? 

expecting my partner to take care of me for more than 3 days