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Input: This is my first time posting in this sub so sorry if thing's aren't properly formatted. As someone who suffers from depression and anxiety, I've been trying to get control of my life for the past few months and I find myself being pushed back because of my mother. I love her, I really do, but sometimes she's too much. I can tell she deeply misses her youth and as a result, sometimes takes that out on me and my siblings. She barely does anything because of back pains, which is understandable, but it's just bare necessities like washing clothes, cooking etc etc. Keep in mind I also help her when I'm not at work  so it's not like I'm treating her shitty either.  I haven't been able to help her these past few days because of a foot pain I have and because I'm sick (which is difficult to get treated because not only do I have no insurance but I work mon-fri so clinics around my area are closed.) and she keeps getting on my case. I'm only one person and I'm not forcing her to do anything and she keeps attacking me and making me self conscious. One of her fave tactics to do is compare herself to abusive mothers, that she can be like them but chooses not to. She also sometimes hints that she'll throw me under the bus when we get into disagreements (she has threatened to out me to my father, despite knowing how homophobic he is and only apologized when I broke down in hysteria before she dropped me off at work.) But looking back now she really hasn't done much for me and I've gotten to where I am with help of friends or other parties. Hell, when I got baker acted in high school, she didn't even visit me at the ward. I can't vent to her about anything because whenever I vent to her, she flips it on how much worse she had it or that my generation is too soft.  


Today in particular she was being extra insensitive and I snapped at her because I'm just so tired. I told her that if she didn't want us, she should have aborted us (because she loves saying she regrets giving birth to us and wish she can get back her youth which obv hurts) and that we shouldn't have to grovel at her feet for caring for us. She *chose to have me and my siblings*. I appreciate it but that's what a parent is suppose to do. We got into a huge screaming fest and she charged at me with a knife. My dad got in between us and I quickly locked myself in my room. I know it's a whiplash there but I really don't know what else to add here. Am I really being selfish? 

calling my mom out on her behavior