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Input: When we got our new place we told each other that we would have Thanksgiving together and finally be free of the over-the-top 6 hour family dinners. I have no family here, I moved up here from all across the US to be with my girlfriend. Yesterday, she told me that shes going to have dinner at her parents house, which means that I am going to be totally home alone. 

She was supposed to do the groceries  because my schedule has consisted of pulling crazy long shifts from 8 am-11 pm. We wanted to have a bonding activity where we just whip up something together and I looked in the fridge to realize she didn't do any shopping even though shes been home almost every day. 

Eating with her family is not an option. Her mother physically attacked me a couple months ago and I refuse to step foot in the house in fear for my own safety. I was also surprised to hear this news because she doesn't have a good relationship with her family and wants nothing to do with them. I got really upset and told her that what she's doing isn't exactly cool, especially if we had planned out our Thanksgiving. She told me its not fair that I'm making her choose between me and her family. I told her I don't get it because she doesn't even like her family in the first place.  

I just feel like shit. I've been crying alone. I am embarrassed. Am I the asshole?

getting upset that my girlfriend decided to ditch me for Thanksgiving