Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Hi, I am hosting a family new years party and want people to bring a drink/snack. My cousin is in his early 30's and has 2 kids, who hate my kids and once damaged  my TV by pushing it over. They are also very picky eaters, meaning that I would have to make something for them. Apparently he was trying to see how sturdy it was, his father then wanted to pay me for the TV but didn't want to pay the actual price I paid (it was a quits expensive TV at the time) . My cousin also had no intention of bringing anything or helping in the preparation of drinks/snacks but wanted to take some home for his GF who had other plans. I told him that I would rather he stay with his GF as it would be easier for the both of us. He then told me he wanted to come but couldn't afford a drink as he spent too much on Christmas presents as he bought a fancy ring for his GF and a new gaming pc for himself but couldn't afford a cheap drink. 
I then told him that he could come if he could provide a drink and food for his kids. He told me the same sob story and asked if I could buy drinks for him and he would pay me back. I refused due to his previous record in loans. 


TLDR: asshole cousin wanted to come to New years celebration but couldn't provide food for his picky kids or a drink for the adults, and his kids broke expensive TV last time they were at my house, so I told him to go with his GF to her celebration and that he could only come if he provided food for kids and drinks for adults 
AITA 




not wanting cousin to come to new years celebration