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Input: Backstory information: my husband is military, we’ve known I’d be moving sometime in the future for a year now, and we’ve known it was overseas for over six months now. 

I was talking with my sister about how excited I am to finally be leaving soon, and she stated that she was under the impression I’d want to have a going away party before I leave. I don’t. 

I could see myself wanting to have a dinner with my parents, siblings, and grandparents. I have a few friends that I’ll hang out with sometime before I go. And I’ll make it over to my in-laws house too. 

The people that seem to be upset that I’m leaving are the people that I see at family parties once or twice a year, and the friends I haven’t seen since leaving school. I don’t see the point in having a party where I’ll see people I don’t see in my everyday life, or even often in my life at all. It feels superficial and weird to me. 

When I told my sister this, she gave me a look that made it seem like I was being irrational and then gave me an, “okay, if that’s how you feel.” 

My husband said something about how I should make my rounds to say goodbye to people too, and there are people that I will do this with, but I don’t see the need to have a going away party to invite a bunch of people who I already live my life without seeing, or honestly of making it a big deal of leaving at all.

Is this one of those things where you’re supposed to just suck it up and do for the people around you? Am I the asshole here for not wanting to?

not wanting to make a big deal about the fact that I'm moving out of the country for a few years