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Input: So for the record I don’t really think I’m an asshole for wanting this but my husband certainly does. Looking for opinions. 

We have a 2 year old daughter whos become quite the handful in the past year. I’ve stayed home since she was born and lately I’ve been asking hubby about hiring a part time nanny so I can get a break in the mornings. He refused saying that looking after the child is my only job and it makes no sense for us to hire someone while I don’t bring in any income. 

I feel like he’s completely disregarding my needs. Ever since our daughter was born, I’ve felt so trapped indoors and have had little time to even go out to see friends or eat lunch in town, which I used to do semi frequently when I worked part time myself. 

My husband works really long hours and won’t come home until 9-10pm so I can’t really ask him for help looking after her either. Financially I think we’re doing ok but my husband is always stressed about finances because we both have a bit of outstanding student debt but we’re chipping it down. So even tho he earns a lot he’s putting most of it towards our debt. While I understand his fears I still feel like this current situation is unsustainable. 

The other day I brought up my sisters family and how they have two nannies (one for childcare and one to cook) even tho my sister doesn’t work as well and my husband blew up at me. I’ve never seen him so mad. He said that I have one job and I do it poorly while he’s busting his ass supporting all of us while paying off my debts. He told me if I want to hire a nanny I could just divorce him and find some other chump to support me. 

I was upset and cried but he just stormed out and left me and our daughter alone. I don’t know what to do but AITA?

wanting to hire a nanny despite the fact that I'm sahm