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Input:  (18f and 18m) I posted about this previously before it happened. Yesterday, I had a plan to go hang out with some buddies at my friend’s gender reveal party for his kid. At the same time, my girlfriend was telling me that she was going to want me to hang out with her, even though I had already planned on going to the party.  No random girls were there and that she was more than welcome to come. She has been taking care of her newborn nephew the last week, and yesterday was her only chance to hang out despite me going to the party. I went to the party, didn’t hang out with her (I stopped by for an hour during the middle of the party) and then returned and smoked weed against her wishes. 

I have heard many people say that in situations like this that the girl is just being controlling, but on the other hand she is really emotionally needy, has mental health issues, and is super busy so I know that dating her means that if she needs something that I’m right there beside her. We typically hang out a lot, and I rarely go out with friends.  Today, we got in an argument and she came back at me with her take on the situation as if it were happening from my perspective. 

Here is her take on this situation. I am “A” in this scenario. 

“Imagine this: 
You’re having a super long and tiring week. You’ve been taking care of your 6 year old niece and trying to help your sister with her newborn baby. You finally get a coworker to take your shift, yay! You can hangout with A. You mention it to A that you want to hangout. He says, “I can in the morning but I have a party to go to later”. you’re busy in the morning and you remember that this is a gender reveal party for one of his so called “friends”. So you ask him to do the right thing for your relationship and come hangout with you instead because you’re emotionally and mentally tired and you need a break from everything with the one person you can get a break with. He says no, that this party is too important to him because he promised his friend. But he’s broken so many promises to you (quitting juuling,  texting people you don’t like), why does it matter? You two fight a lot and now you’re even more sad and upset than before. You ask him to come over for a few hours, but he shows up 45 minutes later. You’ve made plans with your other friends since your boyfriend couldn’t take the time out of his day to make sure you’re okay. He then invites you to hang out in a nearby town at 10:00, only 25 minutes after your movie starts, but he only invited you because he felt bad (she was invited to the party in the first place but declined). Then he said he was going to go home for the night, and you asked him not to smoke and he agreed. You wake up and figure out that he did indeed smoke, despite what he had promised you. So why is his promise to his “friend” so much more important to his promise to you?”

So, AITA? 

going to a party instead of hanging out with my girlfriend