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Input: AITA for not returning to work after maternity leave despite planning to and leaving my husband to be sole provider unexpectedly?

I have fairly severe postpartum depression and anxiety that I can’t afford treatment for (I could if I went to work, but my symptoms would be 10x worse, so I can’t win there...). My husband said he would be cool with me staying home and caring for baby but he would have to get a second job to make up for lost income. Therefore, he couldn’t help with the house or baby as much. I agreed on these terms and said I would do the majority of baby and housework I possibly could due to my appreciation of him not getting pissed at me for unexpectedly quitting my job and offering to let me stay with baby. 

Made perfect sense to me, except now he never got the second job because “he was too stressed and tired”. So the income situation got worse, which made him more stressed out, and now I feel like there’s no reason I should have to do all the work by myself. But he disagrees. He says he is exhausted from work and having to get up early and “works his ass off so we don’t go further into debt.” I know he probably is legitimately stressed out of his mind so I feel terrible but also...seriously? I didn’t agree to the terms of him working a normal full-time job and then NEVER helping with the baby. The agreement in the first place was that I did majority of the work, not all of it. Now I’m just confused and hurt that all he wants to do after work is play video games and avoid caring for this baby I thought he wanted just as bad as me....

TLDR I unexpectedly left my husband to solely provide for me and new baby, agreeing to take on majority of household responsibilities but now he literally does nothing. Am I the asshole for blindsiding him with cutting our income in half and adding the extra stress in the first place? 

unexpectedly quitting job post-baby and being pissed that husband never helps