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Input: Title doesn't quite describe the full story. So a bit of background. I'm 25 and gf is 30. Been together seven months. We've had our arguments but we've grown because of some of them and to me she is like no other.


A week ago she left her wallet on a train, subsequently got it back later that night but cancelled all her cards in the interim. Today rolls round and the new ones haven't turned up, which is extremely frustrating for her obviously and most of us know what this is like I'm sure. Sunday night I hired a car for a few hours for valentines so I could take her to a quiet beach that evening and chill with a bit of food and wine. Something where she doesn't have to do anything except turn up - I had it all organised. I'm not sure whether she was clear that's what I wanted to do for her, just take care of her for the night but we talked about what I had in mind.


She mentions her cards haven't turned up and she'll see me next week, in what to me was a fairly conclusive tone. I said it sucks because I was really looking forward to it with her but maybe we can redo it when her cards turn up since that's stressing her. She asked me whether I'd really booked then felt a little bad when I said yeah (the car doesn't matter, it was only hired for a few hours and I didn't have to trade an organ for it exactly). I wanted to call her in the next day or two (we don't talk on the phone overly often, but on occasion) and she says I've bummed her out and we'll see. I say if this is about the car it's no biggie. She flies off the handle here, and calls me beyond clueless then tells me a normal partner would have said "no babe, I want to see you. I'll look after you".


Now to me I felt it was pretty clear that I wanted to see her. Who doesn't want to see the person they love and adore? I could be wrong here though of course. So, am I the asshole? 

not understanding my girlfriends reaction during a conversation about our valentines plans