Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My soon to be sister in law has asked me and my H2B if during our reception party, we can pause everything to sing Happy Birthday to her son who will be 6.

Firstly, she doesn’t really make an effort with her sons birthdays any other time apart from getting the family round for a meal, so it strikes me as the only reason she is wanting this fuss is because she knows there is essentially a free party for him which happens to be our wedding!

However I do see her reasoning in that our wedding happened to be on his birthday (we completely forgot this when booking the wedding) and it does need to be recognised one way or another

I just really don’t feel comfortable with pausing everything for one person, I only plan on getting married once whereas this kid will have lots of other birthdays.

So WIBTA for saying no?

saying no to celebrating my nephews birthday at my wedding