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Input: Background: I live about two hours from my friend. She used to come visit me pretty regularly and stay at my house before summer started and I started my summer job as a lifeguard. A couple times she visited me she got overly drunk and I ended up taking care of her. Which is fine, it happens to the best of us but it started to be constant. One time she came home and ate my parents leftovers from the fridge which she did not remember doing. Another time I had went to sleep at 2 am and she had stayed up (still drunk) until 7 am when my parents woke up and were convinced she had to be on drugs with how she was acting. She also left me at the bar one time for two hours to take home a boy. She paid for an uber to take him to my own house, while I was still at the bar waiting for her. 

I had forgiven her for that and understood there was a miscommunication. She explained she thought I had left the bar first and was only trying to get home(long story but kinda made sense). So I wasn't potentially trying to avoid her. However I stared work and I was working 60 hours a week, ten hour shifts a day in the sun. On top of that I had an online class. She started to come down and visit to meet up with a boy she met while visiting me once. She would get a hotel room since she thought my parents were mad at her for previous visits. She would not tell me she was coming until she was about to leave or already here. Now I could have seen her after work even if just briefly. But I had always made plans before that, I have an active social life, or I'd be so drained from work I would just want to sleep, or I had school work I need to do before the end of the night. (I tend to procrastinate). This happened three times, each time I explained I needed more notice so I could plan to hang out or rearrange my schedule. 

She said I could have hung out with her for at least 20 minutes because we do not live close to each other. I think the worst thing i did was I asked to facetime her and she said I could come visit cause she drove down. I said no I was going to nap instead. I think this was the last straw for my friend since I offered to facetime which meant I did have the time to hang out but didn't. I had the time but not the energy, I had just gotten home and didn't feel like going back out. Had I known she was in the area I certainly would have driven to her straight from work. 

She has never worked a day in her life so I feel like she doesn't understand the strain. My job is very easy but I get very sleepy from it. She no longer wants to be my friend because she feels like I am selfish for not putting in the time to see her and I did not defend her to my parents when she would be overly drunk at my house. I should have made more of an effort to facetime her and text her, I do note that. So am I the asshole for not putting in more time for her? It was multiple times she visited and I said no to seeing her but I feel like her intentions weren't even to see me and I am confused to why we are no longer friends. She was one of my best friends for ten years.

not hanging out with my friend even though she drove two hours