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Input: My ex (we'll call him T) and I have a complicated relationship. We dated for about a year and broke up last May. After our break-up, we both acted like assholes. I kept being really indecisive about getting back together, and he threatened to kill himself several times if I didn't. There was a lot of fighting between us for a while. Ultimately we didn't get back together, but have remained friends. However, he's stated that he still has feelings for me. 

T's father suffered from cancer, and he didn't really talk to many people about it. Even after our break-up, I remained the confidant about his father's condition because T didn't feel comfortable talking to others about it.  A couple days ago, T's father passed away. We FaceTimed after it happened and I comforted him about it. 

Yesterday, T asked me if I would fly out for the funeral. He even offered to pay for my plane ticket. But I've never actually met his father, and I only met his mother once. I would have stayed at his house if I visited for the funeral. He said he needed my support during this time, which is why he wanted me there. I declined, and said I felt uncomfortable intruding on his family's space during this time. While I didn't say this to him, I also felt as if he was taking advantage of this situation to try and get back together with me. Additionally, I would have to fly across the country, and the logistics were messy. 

T was very angry that I declined, and told me that I wasn't being a good friend for not being with him in his time of need. He said if I actually cared and wanted to be his friend, I would've accepted the offer.  AITA for not wanting to go?  

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not attending my ex-boyfriend's dad's funeral