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Input: Sorry if the nature of this post might go off-topic and if it isn't appropriate for this sub. I'm also on mobile so apologies for poor formatting.

Basically, my mum broke up with her long-term partner a couple of days ago. It is a nasty, hurtful break up and I feel it is my fault as I told her about some abuse I had experienced at his hands as a child and I tried to convince her of his true nature. (i.e. emotionally abusive - very manipulative and gaslighting/grooming her and the family).

Long story short, finding this out obviously has devastated her completely but it has also been extremely hard for me emotionally and mentally to finally come forward about this abuse over 12 years later. I have also been dealing with issues with my bio father recently which has taken a considerable toll on me mentally and probably caused me to have a breakdown and tell her everything I guess.

Now I really really want to go home. (Currently sitting up in the early hours torturing myself mentally enough to write this post). I feel terrible and guilty for wanting to leave my mum on the day (valentines) she needs me most. I want to stress that I absolutely do not want to go home to spend valentines with my boyfriend, but because I want time to recover mentally and emotionally before I have to go to work again Monday. I feel restless and anxious being here and I can tell it is making my mental health deteriorate.

AITA for wanting to look after my mental health before I travel home and go back to work whilst leaving my mum alone to cope with a breakup on Valentine's Day? 

Side note: she likely isn't going to be completely alone as my brother lives with her but I don't think he has the capacity to be as supportive as I could. 

Lastly, I obviously feel that my mum isn't the asshole in this unfortunate situation but I would just like an opinion on if I would be an asshole if I  return back home on valentine's. (I have been here since Saturday and they broke up on Monday bc of me). 

wanting to go back home (where I live w/ my boyfriend) on valentines day just a few days after my mum has broken up with partner of 16 years