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Input: sorry if this story is long and a little confusing. i’ll answer any questions. :) also sorry for long title lmao

first, let’s start with information on my personality. i’m a girl, but i only hang out with guys. it’s not that i like them or i’m a whore or anything, they think of me as an equal. they understand my sense of humor, and none of the other girls do.

but, this doesn’t mean i hate girls. i’m friends with everyone and all the girls in my class are completely comfortable with being around me.
and then there’s my friend, or technically, my ex-friend. she’s the delusional type and falls in love with any dude who makes eye contact with her, even though she’s ugly as fuck (idk if i can say that but it’s sadly the truth). she already told me that she had a crush on this dude A before, but like i said, i was good friends with him BEFORE she started liking him. 

another important thing are these.. “gals”. i go to school to japan, and there are a shit ton of rules at school, and the length of your skirt is one of them. what the japanese call “gals” are just a group of girls who are scary and have their skirts above their knees. yeah, i get that in america, nobody cares, but this is japan where things are different.

i have gotten into shit with these “gals” because i’m good friends with one of their boyfriends. it wasn’t even shit, we never talked. they just hated me and would come to our class and laugh at me. my friend would always talk shit about them to me. 

one day, my friend messages me into our CLASS GROUP CHAT.
her: hey OP, you okay? 
me: yeah? why?
her: dude those girls said that they are so pissed at you.
me: haha maybe i’ll just not come to school from now on.
her: don’t do that~

i was scared. i faked a stomach ache and didn’t go to school that day. i didn’t want to get beat up for doing nothing bad. what can i say, i’m a pussy. 

couple months pass. i’m quite popular in my class, everyone loves me (or at least that’s what i thought). then this other group of girls (i know there are a lot of girls in this story. sorry) in my class tell me that my friend was talking shit about me to these “gals”. at the time, i didn’t know how to react.

here’s some of the shit she was saying:
• i’m a whore.
• i hug guys. 
• i have a crush on dude A
• i talked shit about the “gals”
•i said “i love you” to a guy

some of this is true. but the one thing that pissed me off is that she sent that conversation we had earlier (about girls getting pissed at me) and SENT IT TO THEM as if ANY OF IT had ANYTHING to do with me hating them.

i got my friend dude B (who my friend coincidentally also had a crush on) to trick her into thinking that he hated me too, so that she would tell him information or whatever. SHE WAS JEALOUS. THAT’S IT. 

i got so pissed off. SHE was calling ME a whore only because her crush dude A liked ME WAY BETTER??? she was the slut that kept changing her crush even though she looked like a pile of trash and thinks she has the right to talk about ME like that???? i was pissed.

this is why i don’t like hanging out with girls. because they’ll use you to death and hate you when you do something a little better than them. 

anyways, one of my trusted teachers is on my volleyball team, so during morning practice i went to tell her and it turns out, these girls are telling that same teacher that i was talking shit about them, WHICH I NEVER DID, BTW. i was so mad. this was honestly one of the worst experiences i’ve had. 

and my home room teacher talks to me about it, and this was during class, so everyone of my friends were there. i was like sure, and started talking. i told my teacher that my friend was a lying whore and fucking stupid for thinking that she could get away for lying (my actual friend wasn’t there listening. she was doing something else idk).

and then that day i cried because i didn’t want the world to hate me for some bitch’s lies. everyone comforted me, and i was happy. i made eye contact with the bitch i called a friend and laughed in her ugly ass face. 

she then apologizes to me. i say it’s okay, i forgive her. but then in the end she asks me “is it okay if i still talk shit about you?” WTF. i was like,,,,, “what???” i was so confused, like that doesn’t even make sense. WTF ARE YOU APOLOGIZING FOR??? i wanted to yell at her but i kept quiet and went to tell all my friends. 

then, in the middle of the night, i’m invited to a group chat with like,,, these people from my class who could be considered the popular kids, i guess. and note, this group chat includes the dude A. this was like a ranting group and we were talking for hours. i talked about everything, how my friend likes dude A and was jealous. 

then dude A says “i can love a girl who does things like that.” i was like YES!! WE FUCKING GOTTEM!! i was so happy. karma really is a bitch. 

it’s actually been a couple months since that and now EVERYONE, and literally EVERYONE, eve those “gals” i was talking about hate her. she’s now known as an ugly ass slut gorilla.

and guess what? she’s making it my fault. she’s saying that it’s my fault and she didn’t deserve this. 

so, reddit, please tell me. should i apologize to her? should i tell the school that this girl isn’t really as bad as i said she is? or does my friend deserve to be hated?


hanging out with my friend's crush and ruining her reputation when she got mad