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Input: My fiancé and I recently got engaged, and we’ve started talking about who we would like as groomsmen and bridesmaids. He was originally thinking about having both of his brothers as groomsmen, however his mother said to us to only have one, because the other has schizophrenia. His behaviour is very unpredictable, he’s unreliable in taking his medication, and has previously threatened my fiancé with a knife a couple of times now when he stopped taking his medication. So it makes sense, we agreed that it probably isn’t a good idea, and have now picked who we wanted in our wedding party.


A few days later, his mother has turned around and said to us that his schizophrenic brother now really wants to be a groomsman in the wedding party, sort of nudging at us including him. We said no straight away, telling her that we’ve now picked who we’d like, and his behaviour honestly scares me sometimes. She just replied with “Oh okay” and went quiet. 


I still feel like I’m an asshole for rejecting him as a groomsman, he really wanted to be in the wedding party. AITA?

not wanting my Fiancé's brother to be one of his groomsmen