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Input: Title is a little harsh. 

I have a close friend and roommate of 7 years (living together for 2). As time has gone on I've realized just how codependent they've become on me. They moved here under my suggestion from the west coast (we're in Atlanta) because they begged me for a change. I happily obliged and let them in my life. He's always been funny and I've loved our time together. However since he's moved here, he doesn't have a single friend outside of my friend group. I invite him to my family gatherings, even some of my dates with my girlfriend because after 2 years he doesn't know anyone besides me and people I've introduced him to. 


This wouildn't be such a problem except it's become apparent he's jealous. I can't talk about my new relationship because he's "lonely" and doesn't "like to hear it." My girlfriend has been so sweet to him and cooks for him and tries to include him on dates I'd rather just be us. 
He also took classes at the same university I did when he moved here in the same major. I've excelled in my field and I'm proud of mysef, but if someone asks us about it I feel like I have to downplay how good I am not to hurt his feelings. 


And that's really how this starts. I have to downplay my relationship because he's single and mentioning someone wonderful my girlfriend did or how I think I'm falling in love makes him feel lonely. Playing my instruments well in front of others makes him upset. I feel like I have to talk about how "hard" our shared major is because he's worse at it than I am. Even the friends we've made here at the same time only text me and I'm closer too. I'm more outgoing and social than he is, so I feel like this is natural. 

Am I the asshole for beginning to resent him? I feel myself making myself smaller to benefit him and now after 2 years I'm beginning to realize how I'm not becoming my best self. He's involved in literally everything I do since he moved here, and through my pushing has yet to seriously date someone, make his own friends, pick up his own hobby, or do anything that doesn't involve me. And since he's come I've become afraid to talk about my accomplishments to others (if he's standing there) or even practice what I'm already good at because he's spiteful. Am I delusional? 

resenting my friend for not being as good as me