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Input: Ok so a little overall context before I start the story: Everyone involved here is in their mid teens so hormones, puberty and all might play into this. I am also going to use made up names because I really dont feel comfortable with sharing our real names. English also isnt my first language so I apologize in advance if the grammar, wording or spelling gets a lil messy. Also, I am terrible at limiting myself so this might get rather lengthy. Lastly, this is a throwaway account as I felt more comfortable that way, Im new to reddit so this might be terribly formatted for all I know. 

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So it all starts out with this friend im going to call Steve (fake names as stated previously). Steve is a good friend, usually very kind and funny. He is a bit immature at times and sometimes a bit insensitive but often there is nothing wrong and hes great fun to be around. 

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The problem arises when we just play a few fun games of Overwatch (feel free to roast my taste in games lmao) and he starts making passive aggressive and toxic comments and "jokes" to another mutual friend im going to call Jenny. It went something along the lines of her being called "boosted" (term meaning that you dont deserve the rank you have) and overall insulting her over her gameplay. Now Jenny gets frustrated and tells Steve to stop, that she doesnt find it funny and reminds him that hes lower ELO than her. 

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He keeps on saying that "its just a joke" and repeats that like 3 times, and it overall grinds to stalemate of them both repeating their arguments with nothing really happening. Now before I continue, Steve has a tendency to get toxic and passive aggressive ingame which is something I usually brush off. This is not just Overwatch and not just with Jenny, although they are the ones who have had the most disagreements. 

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Nonetheless, Jenny ends up quitting the discord call and playing alone. I messsage Steve asking him why he didnt just stop when his joke wasnt well received. He says that "it was just a joke" and that he didnt mean any harm. I then message Jenny and she says that this isnt the first time hes been toxic and that she was getting really tired of it. They still get along irl but dont play together.  

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This might seem really minor, and it probably is, but the last few months he has been acting more and more immature and it is starting to bother me and my other friends. He always says that he doesnt mean any harm and I do believe him. He does this ingame or out of game. 

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He does this annoying thing where he always makes dick size jokes to me (asian) and other slightly racist jokes (hes white). Its all fun and good had he been able to take it as much as he dishes it out. He cant, and gets super defensive and offended when I snap back a little. That, along with him being generally immature has led me to distance myself from him. That includes avoiding playing OW with him and not hanging out with him even close to as often as before. 

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We recently switched schools (School system in my country has 1-9 seperately from 10-12) and he went to a different one than most of us. From what I gather he doesnt have many friends at his current school as he told me, he also told me he considers me his "best friend". I dont consider him my best friend tho. We still hang out every now and then but I genuinely dont find it as fun, and sometimes it is downright frustrating to be with him. He has called others selfish and egoistical for telling him that he is being immature before. 

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He hasnt had it easy before, bullying among other things. I dont know if he is doing well mentally although ive tried to ask him when appropriate but he doesnt want to talk about it, which I respect. No one in our friend group has had it easy, mentally and we try to be as supportive and caring as possible but he doesnt want any help, and acts disrespectful towards others emotions saying they should "get thicker skin". It feels a lot like gaslighting (I hope I used the term correctly), especially since he belittles my complaints about his behaviour every time I bring it up. Maybe Im just oversensitive tho?

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Am I an asshole and blowing minor things out of proportion, or is Steve just a bit of an asshole himself? Am I selfish for not wanting to be with him, although he may need the support? It really does feel like I might be overreacting but at the same time not. Im curious to see what this subreddit thinks. 

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TLDR: Friends makes rude comments and acts somewhat immature overall. I dont want any of that and try to distance myself, but at the same time, friend is likely going through a tough time and I feel like an asshole for not being there with him as much as I could. He says I am oversensitive, I think hes just being rude. 

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distancing myself from a friend of mine over "small" issues