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Input: For as long as I can remember my father has always been literally a terrible person. He’s very toxic, he’s always negative things, talking bad about people being two faced.I have some many examples but I’ll name a few.

When I was 11-14 yrs old I hated wearing shorts and only really liked wearing pants/capris  he called me a lesbian because of that.

Another time his exact words which were very hurtful he said “ If your mother were to suddenly die one day  I’m putting you and your brother up for adoption because you guys are old enough to take care of yourselves” I WAS LIKE TEN when he said that WTF.

My mom is the real MVP here for sticking around all these years trying to work things out with him because she still lets him come over to her HOUSE,after everything he’s done. He cheated,he really mean to her and when I was younger my dad divorced my mother without her knowledge SOMEHOW apparently he got someone to forge her signature (I’m not sure how that’s even possible but I was 4yrs old at the time)  

Some more info...my father has 6 other children, was married to 3 different woman and 1 from the first wife,4 from the second and 2 from his last wife being being my mom. 

I’m unsure of why my father and his second wife divorced but because of that divorce he cut off his 4 children from that marriage (In fact he disowned off all of his children including me) but his exact words “ they sided with their mother” and my whole childhood/teen years he manipulated my brother and I to thinking that my other siblings were bad people but I now know that’s not the case because I got in contact with them a few years ago and I’m good friends with them now and they told me what the relationship was  truly like between their mom and our dad.

I got in a huge argument with him a few months ago because he was upset that I didn’t call him for his birthdays, Christmas, send him cards for the Holidays. I told him that” It’s a two way street with communication because first all you don’t call me either or send me anything and plus why would I do that for you if you don’t deserve any of that?”He got angry with me and said I was being disrespectful and that Parents come before their kids and regardless I was supposed to call him and send him cards. Every time I stand up to him and defend myself he said I’m being disrespectful but I’m not. I do not call him names or don’t curse him out.

To please my mom I actually tried  calling him a few for his birthday this year he did not answer the phone at all.All of these things and more is why I decided I never want to talk to him again. My mother/my moms family does not want me to do this, they urge me to call him for his birthdays,Christmas and I refuse to do that

I just wanted to know AITA here?  

Thanks for reading in advance and I apologize for the novel. 

wanting to go no contact with my father