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Input: Back story, meet my husband whom ive known for 7 years (married last year) who's quite a bit older than me. Hes in his mid 60s and im about to turn 40. I work part time and do ecommerce on the side (ebay etsy etc) so I am always working. 

My husband is retired and he drinks more often than not. On an average month, he is only sober for a handful of days. This is an obvious issue but theres no chance hes going to change for me or anyone else. Frustratuon aside, I mostly feel alone on thr days where hes obliterated.

Last year, I bought two tickets in April for a Halloween concert. Cost me 188$ for special seating too. It was a Marylin Manson concert. He offered to get the hotel and i offered to get the tickets. 

Fast forward to October, the week before the concert, and he proceeds to drink every day for two weeks streight. I cant even have a conversation with him in this state because his paranoia kicks in and he does the "poor me" routine. Not wanting to drag an angry rude drunk around on our two day journey, I canceled the plans and got my money back for the tickets. I had planned this trip since April.

I work hard every week and I deserve to have a good time, especially when I paid for it! Instead I get a sad depressed drunk to babysit at home in between the multitude of things that I have to take care of regarding work and business. I was so let down.

 Imagine planning something for months only to be let down by someone elese's drinking habit. When i showed up for work on the night of the concert, I had to lie to my co-workers and tell them that we canceled because he had "health problems". I even had requested special days off, so whatever "vacation time" i had was wasted.

I planned almost that whole year for that one week off work. I never got it.

Theres another concert coming in August, a band that ive been telling him for three years that I would love to see, and they are finally on tour. 

So am I the ahole for telling my husband that I want to go to the concert alone? I feel so let down from what happened last time. I just want to enjoy one event without having to deal with his drunken behavior and bad mood. He doesn't even like my music. 

wanting to go to a Concert Wthout my husband