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Input: First time poster and on mobile so honestly just sorry in advance... for anything.

Anyways, this story took place a couple of months ago but just popped back into my brain after I saw my cousins Snapchat post advertising his next concert.

My cousin is a sound cloud rapper who is in a group of rappers in the same area as him. Keep in mind I love the guy and I fully support him and his career choice. He’s not super big or anything but definitely has a fan base. He has had multiple concerts before which me and my brother have attended. My aunt (cousins mom) usually sends us a link to where we can buy tickets and gives us all the info, she’s great and supports him as well.

So I heard he was having another concert and my and my brother immediately went to the site we were sent and bought tickets. It was at a new venue which was about a 25-30 minute drive, no  biggie. We then made the mistake of not checking the date and going with what my aunt sent us which was the wrong date. 

We obviously didn’t find out it was the wrong date until we had drove 30 minutes and no one showed up. My brother is very social and skipped out on friends to come and he was pissed. We went home and decided we wouldn’t go to the concert which was actually a week later.

My aunt found out we weren’t going and got angry as we had “rsvp’d” in a way. We then explained the situation again as we had already briefly explained a week prior and she said that was no excuse and it is only a 30 minute drive. She then called us unsupportive even though she didn’t attend any concerts herself, she just advertised it.

So you nice, maybe not so nice, people of reddit. Am I the Asshole for not wanting to drive 30 minutes to attend a concert I had pretty much already attended?

not wanting to go to my cousins concert