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Input: Sorry if i come off as a choosing beggar, but there is a bit of a story behind it. Also sorry for any grammatical or spelling mistakes, english is not my first language.

This is kind of an extra long one so buckle up. (I'm sorry for wasting your time in advance).

At the beginning of the year I (m20)  didn't have a drivers license or a car. My Gf (19) wanted me to get both, as she didn't want to come over (20 Minute drive) everytime we met. (Public transport wasn't really an option for short visits as I come home late after work and it wouldn't be worth the hustle for just an hour or two). So i bought a car and made my drivers license. So far so good.

I've spent pretty much all my savings on my license and a car (family couldn't help because my parents aren't really financially stable). Later that year, my car had a serious malfunction and i had to pay 3.000€ to fix it (I didn't have the money for another used car either and at least i knew what was wrong with that one was my approach to the situation.aybe it was stupid, but that's not the point of this whole story).

 I didn't have the money, so my GF generously lent it to me. Since then I've been doing everything i could to pay her back as much as i could. E.g. I'm eating only the cheapest stuff i can find for dinner if I can't avoid eating dinner all together so I can buy groceries on the weekends we spend together. Btw. I am totally fine with this and still seriously grateful, that she helped me out. Problem is, that she hates spending money, even on small things. So whenever she wanted something but didn't want to spend money i would buy it for her. (Usually small things like ice cream, but 3€ for ice cream is pretty expensive if you have only 20€ left for the last two weeks of the month).
But again i was fine with it as i seriously love her and spending my last money on seeing her happy made me happy.

Today she came to me with great news. She has won a 100.000€ raffle and i was so happy for her. When i asked her if she could relieve me of my debt or at least a part of it she instantly snapped into something i have never seen before from her.
She first started laughing at me and said that i must be joking. Then said, that she loves me and all but money is where she draws the line and that 3.000€ is a lot of money. She also added that she is sure that i would do this for her anytime, but she just isn't somebody like me.

This kind of broke my heart, i mean sure 3.000€ is a lot of money and i would've understood it if she politely said no, but her response just felt so disrespectful. Especially the "I'm just not somebody like you" part.
I didn't reply anything at first as I was kind of shocked of the way she replied.

I didn't know why but i started to do some math and realised what she just really said to me. Maybe my approach to this situation is too logical, idk. Even if she would let me off the hook entirely, that would be about 3% of what she just won, but on a monthly basis i would commit more percent of my entire savings just to make her happy without even thinking about it. 

I didn't really want to put a number on love but i thought that she maybe just wasn't seeing my struggle, so i tried to defend myself for asking her what seemed to her as a ridiculous request. I never talked to her about the things I do to be able to afford paying her back and living a normal life when she's around. I didn't mean to offend her or make her feel guilty I just tried to rationalize why I asked.

As i told her what i was doing for her and that i felt deeply disrespected by the way she answered she just started calling me an a***ole and told me to f*** off
haven't heard from her since.

Was me even asking too much?
Was trying to rationalize my request too much?
I seriously don't know, 
I see why somebody could feel like I was trying to make it seem that I do everything for our relationship and she did nothing, i never said that and I didn't want to imply it in any way. But the way she responded to me both times just felt like i suddenly became worthless to her.

How do you think I should handle the situation? 
She seems to be upset with me and i really didn't want to upset her. I don't really want to do a big apology as I still feel that she treated me terribly, but I can't live with her being angry, I still love her after all.

ASKING (not expecting) my so to relieve me of my debt (3,000€) after she won 100,000