Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: AITA for getting banned here for not posting AITA in the heading? And AITA for this stuff:

So, in the age of social media, I do not have social media. Long story (kinda) short, husband had an affair with a coworker and so switching jobs, cutting off social media, etc... it was an AWFUL thing that required therapy and all sorts. We had been together for 5 yrs and the affair happened a year after my only (big) brother died, and a year after our only child together was born. Emotions and hormones and all of it ran rampant. But eventually, it was GOOD. Took a few years but it is so good now. 

 We disabled all social media immediately after the affair. His idea. 

I always had text convos with S and K (and others obviously). S loved my dogs and my dogs had puppies, she wanted one. She was younger than me, not as established, so i was iffy on her having such a high maintenance pup. She came and saw our child after he was born.. he has tumors and has had a few surgeries since. She kept up the most contact out of all my friends from college. Puppies and babies, she was there. One day, idk, we just all kind of stopped texting. 

So I download instagram 2 yrs later. Made an account. Thought since it's been 2 years, i could reconnect. I find S and K. I message them both, and other friends. I tell K specifically "hey I've been thinking about you and S!!" She goes into a whole "I miss you" schpiel, as do I. Then she says the whole "did you hear about S?" 

What? No? 

S had died nearly 2 yrs prior (roughly 2 months after S and I had last hung out). We go into a convo over this. K says that she and others tried to contact me to let me know, but I was nowhere to be found. 

I missed all of it. I ask for a phonecall and she says shes busy moving furniture but will give me burial info later. I get that K is moving on at this point, but I am in my livingroom so upset over this. Crying my eyes out. It's new for me. And I quickly find myself wanting to text my husband "if you wouldnt have had us delete social media, then I would've known sooner". 

I was mad at K at first for dismissing my need to visit the cemetery, she seems as if giving me the cemetary info isnt important.
Then I got mad at my husband. "If you wouldnt have had an affair, I wouldnt have had to deactivate all this from YOUR suggestion and I wouldnt have missed this!"
Then I got mad at myself. Dont blame anyone, it's a circumstance. No ones fault.

I'm a product of circumstance from my brothers death. I am biased and always looking to blame. I guess I may be a little bewildered. But I am hurting now. AITA for blaming friend/husband? Or is anyone to blame? In regards to my own selfish pain .... Ks death was health related. 

my heading and AITA for the post