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Input: we met in high school when I was a freshman and she was a senior. we were both in theater and we kinda just clicked, she saw herself in me and was very supportive and a kind gal. we didn’t really hang out outside of school other than a small party she had last year (or maybe the year before, not sure).

about 6 months later, i started dating my boyfriend, and we’ve been together for about 2.5 years now. He’s about 2 years older than me, so i went to his prom my freshman year, and she offered to take pictures for free because she was a friend of mine and took a liking to him. that was fine.

nothing really went sour, or at least i didn’t notice how uncomfortable i was until i finally hung out with her again over the fall. before then, we kept tabs on each other and had conversations about 1-3 times a week. 

she always commented on how attractive he is, how cute we are, and how she’s our number 1 supporter etc. it was a bit much, but it really didn’t bother me too much. 

when he came back from boot camp, she kept telling me how extremely attractive he is, especially now. he has such pretty eyes etc. and insisted that we visit her. we did visit her for a short amount of time before we had to go visit other friends, and she wanted to take pictures of us, the three of us together, and then just him and her. i was a bit more uncomfortable. 

after he left for the second time is when it got really weird, and this is the specific comment that really stuck with me. he used to have a good amount of facial hair before he enlisted, but obviously had to shave (this is relevant). she was going on again of how lucky of a girl i am when i hung out with her for a night in the fall while she was home from college for thanksgiving. there were other people there, also listening. she told me that, when he comes back, i’ll “hop on that real quick.” yea, because he’s my boyfriend. i didn’t appreciate the unsolicited super personal comment, but i was gonna let it slide. then she said “and if he grows out his facial hair again, you’ll hop on that even quicker.” 

i had never mentioned that i preferred him with facial hair, he looks great either way. that’s what made that comment *especially* weird to me. she was genuinely taking her own desires for him and projecting them onto me. directly to my face.

i really couldn’t deal with it anymore. it was too much and i know how boy crazy and flirtatious she can be, and i wanted the comments to stop and i didn’t want it to get to the point where the thought it was ok to say things like that to him. over the next week, i left her on read until she stopped texting me entirely. she’ll text me on rare occasions, like tonight. she sent me one of the prom pictures she took *over two years ago.* she sent it along with a text that read “i found some treasures” i gave her a dry response of “:)” and left it there. 

i’ve been thinking about it a lot lately. we weren’t best friends but we were still pretty close friends for 3 years and i just kinda cut it off without saying anything. AITA? 

ghosting a friend of 3 years for being obsessive over my relationship with my boyfriend