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Input: So me \[25M\] and my gf \[25F\] have been together for almost 8 years and lived together for almost 2, we're engaged and are very happy together. As in any relationship we are not perfect and we both have flaws, we can talk about most of them and try to improve for each other. However lately i have been growing more annoyed due to the fact it seems i do most of what needs to be done in the apartment, such as cleaning, laundry, cooking, shopping for groceries and doing dishes. We dont have a set system for who does what or anything like that, when we talk about it we are both on the page we are both supposed to contribute equally.

I work 70% and she works 60% and goes to school one day a week. We both are home and have about the same free time, we both play a lot of pc games in our spare time. Neither of us are very picky when it comes to cleanliness, our apt isnt filthy by any means but like we dont instantly do our dishes after we've used them. We dont like when it gets too much and both like it a lot if we've done something like spring cleaning. But if i dont do the dishes they will sit in the sink and pile up, if i dont do the laundry the laundry basket overflows and if i dont shop groceries and plan for dinners we wont have food at home or ready to cook. She still claims she does as much as me. Its also a pretty small apt so its very easy to see it any of the chores have been done. 

Since i started feeling i do more, about 6 months ago, i thought i might be overreacting and my observations and thoughts might be pushed by confirmation bias. So i went along with it for about 3 months until i felt i needed to say something to her. I told her i felt i might be pulling more of a weight and she very strongly disagreed, claiming she indeed does a lot. Conversation didnt really lead to anything and i still feel the same. So i thought that i could start counting and writing down every time i do a chore and every time she does one, my first thought was to do this without her knowledge, otherwise it might show false data. But i feel like it might be an asshole thing to do, so reddit WIBTA?

writing down every time me or my SO does chores