Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I hope this is the right sub for this question, forgive me if it's not. So I have a coworker who recently lost a son and discovered her husband was cheating on her. I feel really bad for her and am trying my best to offer her support since I work with her fairly often (at my job it's two people per shift so we are generally alone together, giving us a lot of time to talk.) I mentioned her situation to one of my roommates because I'm fairly bad at social situations and wanted some advice on how to handle it. For reference, he has never really met her and only seen her a few times when visiting me at work. He proceeded to say that it was her fault for choosing to marry a man that cheats and for having a son with health problems. When I tried to defend her, he kept going with it, saying that she brought the whole situation upon herself. He was obviously joking, considering he makes jokes like this fairly often, but I felt that it was really awful and uncalled for, considering a woman just lost her son and found out the man she had been married to for decades was unfaithful. I called him out on it but he kind of shrugged and went to his room. Lately, I've been kind of cold to him and avoiding mentioning anything remotely serious around him. I want to confront him about it but I am afraid I am in the wrong and just being rude and overdramatic about a joke or just getting too offended on someone else's behalf. He is still a really close friend but I feel like this was a horrible thing to say. AITA for being upset with him even though he was joking?

continuing to be mad at my roommate for an obvious joke