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Input: TLDR: So, it's tax refund season... Yippee! ...or if you're like me, you're only a cosigner on your Parent Plus Loan and you won't be seeing any of that money come back to you.

Background: My parents have always had issues with money and not being able to afford to live. My mother's father recently passed and they came into a large inheritance (which has already been spent within two years and my part of the inheritance was never received and never will be.) 

Now, my father has been having serious medical issues requiring a lot of their time and money. Which they absolutely cannot afford. (I love my father so much and it hurts me that I should feel this way.)

Relative to situation: My sister lives with my parents, her car just broke down and my parents bought her a new car. (Sister is paying for college out of pocket.)

My situation goes like this: I was recently laid off and have been living off of unemployment for a couple weeks now. I will receive my own tax return, but I cannot claim my money from the parent plus loan. It would have to be divided up under the correct percentages for both my brothers loans and mine as they are inseparable (company only allows one account holder for the multiple loans.) 

I have been paying double the amount on this loan and expect a rather large return, but my mother called to inform me that I will not be given that money as they are to use it for medical bills and the like. Due to my father being the main account holder, they are the only ones who can claim these loans on their taxes. They are also taking my brother's money as well, but I'm sure he doesn't feel this way.

AITA for not wanting them to use my money, when in the past they have taken my money and not used it for things they said they would? My mother was crying to me on the phone trying to guilt trip me, but when I found out they bought my sister a $4k car, I think some of that has disapated. I am frustrated and feel like an asshole for not caring about my parents well being. 



not wanting my mother to take my tax return money