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Input: AITA for wanting my dead dad’s hunting knife? 

Over a year ago, my father passed away quite suddenly in a car accident. My two sisters(34 and 22) and I (23) were informed of his death and immediately went to the sheriffs department in the city where his body was being held in a freezer until our choice of a funeral home was able to make the drive down to remove his body. The officer who was on the scene of the accident handed us some of the belongings my father had on him in the event of the accident. Items included: his wallet, and his favorite hunting knife which was attached to his belt. 

After arrangements were made for the removal of my father’s body, we made the drive back home, where my sisters and I would decide who got to keep our father’s hunting knife. 

We eventually decided we would all three draw sticks for the knife. The longest stick got to keep his knife. I pulled the longest stick. Therefore the knife was to be mine. My eldest sister (34) requested that I let her borrow it for a month so she could do some hunting of her own with it. A year down the road, she still has it. I trusted she would give it back so I didn’t bother hounding her about it. 

Well, the last 7 months, she (my eldest sister) has gone through such a personality change. So drastic that even other family members have commented on it. To save time describing her new personality, I’ll make it short. 

Eldest sister lost a lot of weight, gained confidence (great for her!), is glued to her social media accounts where her ego is fed, guys talk to her and she becomes enveloped in trying to please them, has multiple sexual partners, has STD scares, pregnancy scares and things alike. I bring these things up because she used to be the exact opposite of what I just described. The old sister I used to know would never do the things I’m about to describe as she had much more self worth for herself. 

Well, Last night I was at a local pub and bumped into my eldest sister there. She has a thing now where she likes to show out for the guys at bars and do as many push ups as she can on the bar floor. No surprise that is what she’s doing as I ran into her there. She eventually got kicked out of the pub for being violent with a bartender. No surprise for that either. I end up walking her to her boyfriends truck to make sure she gets there safely. I buckle her up and then she lets it all come out:

“YOU’RE A MOTHERFUCKER FOR NOT WATCHING MY KIDS THE OTHER NIGHT SO I COULD GO HUNTING”  I am baffled at what she just said to me. I reminded her that I told her why I couldn’t watch her kids. That I was out with my friend having a few drinks. I was not physically in a state to babysit for her as I was intoxicated. She then added on that I am “not a happy helper”, which is a lie. I made sure she got to the vehicle safe and buckled up. I was more than happy to help get her home safely. 

She then brought up our father. So I found the situation fitting to finally ask her about his hunting knife. She snobbishly said, “OH! The knife I use when I hunt all the damn time?”. To which I replied, “Yes, the knife I won fair and square? That’s the one I’m talking about.” 

She then proceeded to yell at me saying, “YOU DON’T EVEN HUNT. YOU DO NOT NEED IT FOR ANYTHING!” I’m infuriated by this point. I replied, “That’s not the point. The point is that I won his knife fair and square. That was the deal we made.” I shut the car door and left in tears. 

Am I the asshole because I have no use for my father’s hunting knife? Am I the asshole for wanting to take the knife away from my sister who puts it to use?

wanting my dead dads hunting knife that's rightfully mine