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Input: Long post and ill try to be as concise as possible while providing as much info.

so Jasmine [F21], Jack[M21], Jenny[F20] are part of my friend group there are others but Jack has been my best mate for 20 years.

jasmine called me in tears asking me if she can come over and talk about some stuff, naturally i said sure no worries. she gets here and shes crying and i help her calm down before asking her whats wrong. 

jack asked out jasmines best friend jenny but jasmine is in love with jack but he doesnt know and now she wants to tell him but shes worried that that would ruin her friendship with her friend and jack and honestly im just a bit like " what is this a soap opera".

i ask some questions and find out her friend knows and jack kinda knows as well so i tried to be impartial as possible and just listen to her and let her talk it out, not really saying anything just trying to be there as a friend. 

back story on stuff. Jack falls in love hard and fast. as a best mate i never judge or criticize unless expressly asked i.e " what do you think of her buddy?" and even then i always say " shes great mate" or " lovely girl" with the added " take it slow" but being a friend is hard cause when the inevitable end comes and your there helping a crushed dude who you love as a brother, it also crushes you you want to help but short of getting drunk and letting them grieve you cant do much else.
 
back to the AITA. i explain to jasmine that maybe instead of rushing over to jacks house and professing her love for him that she waits until shes sure of her feelings and sits down and talks to him and explains how she feels and that jack can get into his feelings sometimes and maybe wait a bit she agrees and leaves and i go to bed and get up for work. midday i get a message from my best mate

 " it would be best if we took a break from talking for a bit, jasmine told me what you said " 

im really confused cause were pretty honest with each other and nothing i said was bad in my head or was something i didnt tell him before.

i ask what did she say i said ( god this sounds childish just writing it) and he says " you know what" i txt jasmine going  " wtf happened" she says she went to jacks house told him everything and im still confused, jenny txts me saying " jasmine and jack and other friends are really sad with what you said you need to apologise" 


im get fed up, obviously jasmine must have lied about something and im working and im just really done with all this childish he said she said and i txt jack and say 

"until you want to explain exactly what you think i have done the whole lot of you can F**k right off "

this was weeks ago and i havent heard a peep from any of them and honestly its so refreshing not having to deal with all their shit, ive got other friends but now im kinda wondering if i was an asshole in not finding out what happened. i kinda flushed a 20 year friendship down the drain in one text.

TL:DR AITA reddit?

telling my whole soap opera of a friend group to f**k off