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Input: I am 24F and an only child. I just got a new apartment with my sweetheart about a month ago and moved out of my parent's house where we stayed much longer than we would have liked. I had lived away from home when I was 19-21 and my mom used to talk to me everyday, it drove me nuts because if i'd try to go one day without talking to her she would say things like "we haven't talked in so long" I figured this was normal with moms at my age until my peers told me that their mothers give them way more space, even going so far as to saying things like "Geez, I wish my mom cared about me that much!" Which made me feel really bad.

Flash forward to now, I figured by now she would give me more space. Nope. For the record my mom is pushing 60 and hasn't much of a clue when it comes to the internet. So she "texts" me now via facebook on her prehistoric laptop. I haven't used messenger in 6+ months, but I recently had to download it for some other purpose but now I feel obligated to keep it. I try to ignore all the notifications I get from her for at least a few hours but for the best of my knowledge it still always says im online even when i'm not. She will constantly send me pointless things like "hey i found this on the facebook sight free furniture *sends link to random persons facebook*" and then send a broken link, followed by more stupid crap. All the time everyday, and i've gotten so annoyed I just want to block her. She doesn't call as often as she used to but I wish she did instead of constant messenger spam. Few weeks ago she called and I answered letter her know I have guests over and she starting crying and said "i just wanna talk to my daughter once in a while, is that so bad?!" Now seriously i hate seeing my mother cry but she cries all the time because of me, I hate it. I feel like such an asshole. 

I went to go visit my parents for the holiday
literally five days ago and she sent me "Call home sometime, will ya?"-esque facebook message yesterday. I didnt open it up, pretended not to see it, and called home out of guilt. No answer meaning my folks are at the bar. I assumed she would call me back when she gets home but nope just an abundance of messenger notifications i chose to ignore until she asked if I was okay and that she was worried I called for an emergency so I responded with "Just wanted to say Happy New Years, no big deal." But really I just want to avoid her like the plague right now. I would love to go just one week without having to talk to her. 

Am I getting way too annoyed with my mom who's just trying to care about me? I feel like an asshole for sure.

not calling my mother more often