Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So, it’s been a while since it happened but it’s something that occasionally weighs on my mind and as I’m not very good at dealing with people/relationships/feelings, I thought it would be good to get some feedback.

I was in a relationship with a guy for about 8-9 months during my second year at uni. The university had a pretty high-pressure, competitive environment so a lot of people there struggle with mental health problems. 
Although I personally wasn’t stressed out academically as I’m not particularly competitive and definitely not a type A unlike a lot of people who were there, I’ve had on/off up/down mental health issues for other reasons since I was young and was stressed out with managing finances (as the university was very expensive, didn’t allow you to have a job due to the workload and my parents earn too little to properly support me but too much for me to qualify for a bursary/decent maintenance loan) and just not liking my course or the traditional, stuffy and stereotypical white-upper/middle-class environment. 
I think the guy felt stressed/depressed over a lot but didn’t really like talking to me about things. Some of the things that he gradually opened up about or I just learnt from observation was that he was stressed about his course a lot (as the medicine course at the university is very intense, especially during second year), he felt as though he didn’t have any ‘real’ friends and frankly, he just didn’t have anything he was interested in (but enjoyed criticising and making fun of other’s passions/interests... which is kinda unrelated but just something I’m bitter about since I held a lot of things in during our relationship).

I think towards the later half, our relationship definitely deteriorated and I recall him calling it toxic. I remember being upset at the time and just didn’t say anything but upon reflection, I honestly think it was just as if not more toxic for me than it was for him since he was always the one complaining and expecting me to change whereas I just kept my mouth shut and turned a blind eye to everything that I found frustrating about him. 

I kinda just decided to just cut contact with him after a pretty disastrous short trip to Amsterdam - he kept getting frustrated over everything I did (I have a few borderline ADHD tendencies so can be a bit absent minded and impulsive) whereas I just got frustrated at him getting frustrated by everything and being so controlling. I honestly wanted to leave before even getting on the plane since he was very aggressive in the way he was acting in the airport (his tone when he talked to me, constantly ordering me around, grabbing onto my wrist and yanking me very hard - to the extent that it was painful - into a queue because I looked unhappy and wasn’t paying attention to the queue, etc).

I think after our trip, it was pretty obvious our relationship was over since it was close to being over several times before and it was kinda the final straw. I think our final exchange was him asking me how my working holiday in Korea was and how a concert in London was a couple of months afterwards (to which I ended up replying because I am unfortunately a sucker when it comes to talking about BTS - but I definitely made sure I kept it brief and kinda cold which is how I normally talk/act to people I’m not close with). 

About a week or two afterwards though, he texted me again saying something along the lines of ‘I really can’t cope’ since he had started another year at uni (whereas I took the year out and reapplied elsewhere) and didn’t really have anyone to turn to. I deleted the message and didn’t reply. 

To be honest, I didn’t have any regrets and still don’t really. But when I think about things, I sometimes think I was a bit unfair as he was there for me and all my ups and downs at university during our relationship - including a couple of suicide attempts - but I just decided to ignore him afterwards when he kinda called out for help?

So, AITA for ignoring his message when he was kinda in need? He seems to be doing fine - at least on surface level - since I stalked down an old mutual friend for other reasons but saw him tagged in a fairly recent social media post.

ignoring my ex's text for help