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Input: Hello, all. I've been wanting to get this out of my chest for a while now and I found this sub in which I think this belongs to. Also, sorry for the broken English. 

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So, three years ago I started experiencing small but noticeable twinges on my male parts, mostly the nuts. I simply decided to ignore them given that my sexual life at that time was really active (Married, sex only with wife) and my drinking habits were also heavy, so I thought that the reason for the twinges were either an infection or something that I decided to threat on my own taking some pills I found on my medication drawer.

Time passed by and 3yrs fwd (Today's day) pain began to grow to other parts: vas deferens, prostate, itchy rectum, night sweats, pains in the lower parts of my vertebrae and other symptoms. The worst of it all is that it's been a month now that I've been ejaculating blood, like, blood, you know? No white just red drops. I think it's called "hematospermia". SO I decided visit doctor.  
Went to visit an Urologist and told him about what was happening and since when it was happening. Needless to say, he was shocked for how long I've been delaying this and told me that all of that might only mean prostate cancer, that I needed to get a diagnosis and discard whatever is happening. That it may not be that late and we might get this thing cured IF cancer is what is affecting me, otherwise I'll just need to take some pills and go through some recovery and whatnot.  I know this is not the way in which you usually approach your patients, but well, such is Mexico. 

I was in shock, like, I relentlessly convinced myself that all of my pain and suffering was due to an infection or my bad habits and the realization and the probability of me having cancer depressed me and put me on a really strange situation with me and with mostly everyone around me.   


So, I went to the clinic and asked about the price for such diagnosis and testing and everything and was surprised by the amount of money needed in order to get this thing discarded. Like, what if I don't have (cancer) and it is just a bad infection? I don't want to pay for them to tell me that I just need to take medicine and will be OK, nor I want to spend money on the baddest news of all my life.   


Instead of spending money on such thing, I decided to visit Japan :) . A place that I've always wanted to go and have the time of my life. Spend all the money that I've been saving on the trip and have a blast, meet Japanese girls, get drunk on a Karaoke, eat Ramen on the street, take some pictures of a Sakura tree, sleep in a capsule, meet Japanese girls x2, visit Aokigahara (it has a really spiritual meaning for me) and probably stay there for as much as I can. Mexico has this really great relationship with Japan and I've been reading that I might even get a job there.   


My family knows about all of this since yesterday and they were not really happy about my decision, they called me "Selfish MF" but I don't care. If I do have cancer I rather visit the place of my dreams and then I'm willing to accept whatever life have for me, if I don't, well, at least I got my pp sucked by an actual wifu. 

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So, am I the asshole?

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tl;dr - There is a big chance I get diagnosed with cancer and instead of following my doctor's suggestions and have it discarded and treated, I decided spend the money visiting Japan. 

choosing visiting Japan for the first time rather than live longer