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Input: To preface, this friend and I have dated and we are no longer together. Lately we've been considering getting back together but I keep backing out because I don't want to get hurt again. 

So today, I had one of those really bad days where you just go home, shove a pillow in your face, and cry. I talked to my mom briefly about it and decided to just cry the rest out. This friend of mine had been sending me multiple messages to get my attention since I wasn't responding. I said "I'm just not good rn". Obviously, this is ambiguous and my friend was very right for asking what was wrong. But I told him that I already talked about it with someone, I don't feel like talking, and I'll tell him later. He kept pushing and saying to tell him what's wrong and that I don't normally act like this. (obviously, I don't normally have really shitty days). 

I kept politely declining for some time (I just counted 9 times I declined without being insulting but the last few had some attitude). This is when I finally was just do stressed and upset I couldn't take him spamming me over and over asking after I told him no. So I swore at him, asked if he could read, said he's an idiot, told him to fuck off, telling him that we'll talk later but if he keeps being pushy I'll block him (I did on one app because he kept calling and asking on that one too), that he's genuinely annoying me by asking repeatedly, telling him that he's driving me crazy, and saying that the only way I can get it through to him is apparently by being rude. (This is everything I said, I went back and checked each message). 

Now, he's saying that I was being rude because he cares for me and was worried, but I did say I would tell him later just not at that moment.

 So, am I the asshole for blowing up on him while he was worried about me? 

blowing up on a friend while I was in a bad mood