Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: about three weeks ago i was out at a bar in minnesota with a friend, when a group of four sat at a table near ours. as i was drunk, i wasn't my normal self and struck up a conversation with them. lets call them j, s, l, and m. j was this amazingly gorgeous red head, who i thought was way out of my league, but didn't care and just had a good time talking to them. i decided near the end of the night that i wanted to go dance, and convinced j to come with. she was a great dancer, but was kinda stiff like she didn't trust me, which i decided to tell her. she laughed and grabbed s and had me dance with her for a song, then came back and took over. it was a lot of fun. now here is where i messed up. at the end of the night, she said that we should dance together again... and i said no... told her she just needs to find someone she can trust to dance with, smiled, said goodbye and left. took me three weeks to realize how badly i messed up, and i now can't get it out of my head.

TIFU by missing an obvious clue...