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Input: Listen, I enjoy the simple things in life. One of those things being ambiance. I love me the soft glow and flicker of a candle and its gentle wafting scent. But I digress. 

About a week or two ago, my German shepherd chewed through a few hundred dollars worth of blinds in my mom's brand new home. I completely understood her frustration, and offered to pay for the blinds, but she declined. Since then, however, she's been unrealistically paranoid about mishaps occurring in her home. One of those things being a candle. I asked her if I could get a candle for my room (as I still live with her while going to school), and she said no, because she didn't want me to burn the house down. You know, maybe if I were 10-years-old, I'd agree. At the tender age of nineteen, though, I think I can handle a small Glade candle. She claimed I am easily distracted, which offended me firstly because of the lack of trust, and secondly because she couldn't offer an instance where I've demonstrated an irresponsibility equivalent to forgetting to burn out a candle. Her concerns stem from the three animals we have, namely the cat. My cat is constantly knocking things over, as many cats do. I am aware that this is, of course, not great for having a candle, but I also have a rather tall dresser that she's not yet jumped on or knocked anything off of. I stated that I could either keep the door closed while I had the candle burning or just keep a watchful eye that my cat doesn't jump on the dresser, where I'd keep the candle. Any solution I offered was shut down with, "accidents happen. That's why they're called accidents." Either way, it's not like I'd have a candle going in my room without me in it. But okay!

Anyway, I get that it's her house, so it's her rules. She does a lot for me, and I'm super appreciative. At the same time, I think it's a little excessive to not let me use one small candle in my room. I realize a candle is actually a risk, but lots of things can be slightly risky. And yes, you should try to minimize risk, but to what degree is it too much?  I also get that it's not worth being mad about; most people would just say, "dude, it's just a candle. You can live without burning a candle." But sometimes it's nice to come home after a stressful day and light up that delightful smelling ball of wax. I was really looking forward to getting one for my room. Lastly, I want to stress that I'm not, like, super upset at her or anything. More slightly annoyed. I love her so much, and she's an amazing mom, so this isn't something that'd affect the relationship or anything.

TLDR; my mom is paranoid that I'll burn the house down by accidentally forgetting to blow out a candle, so she won't let me have a candle in my room. AITA for being sort of upset that she doesn't trust me and is being a bit paranoid?

being upset that my mom won't let me have a candle in my room