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Input: First time posting on Reddit. I'd have never imagined this being my first post but I'm really conflicted about this one.

I'm on holiday somewhere in South America. The first day here, I met a girl working in a coffee shop. I didn't notice her at first but then she asked me where I was from. This ended up in a really long conversation and me going to a party with her. Nothing to crazy until I tried some local "moonshine" and got fucked up. I remember she told me she was taking me back to her place, but ended up in my hotel (she says I refused to go).

During that conversation, she told me she will soon start working as a flight attendant and she's really interested in visiting my city. I told her she was more than welcomed. I travel a lot because of work so in a way, we would have seen each other pretty often.

I decided to spend my last two days here with her, since I've already seen most of the things i wanna see. We decided to do dinner on Thursday and then, the next day, I'd stay at her place and cook her something from my country.

Thursday comes around and we decided to meet in an Italian restaurant at 8. She showed up an hour late, completely drunk. We had dinner and went for a drink. During drinks she told me we couldn't go back to her place and that she just wanted to dance and then go home.

I was a little disappointed, but it was ok. She then proceeded to take like a hundred pictures of me, flirt, kiss me and dance around me like it was a lap dance. I was a little confused but decided to go with it.

I'm not gonna lie, I kinda developed a crush on her. I told her that and she told me she didn't believe, that she was ugly (her words, not mine), that I probably was controlling and an abuser (this one hurt the most, cause I would never do something like that) and, as the cherry on top, she started making fun of my culture.

Now, while I was really sad this happened, I understand that alcohol can make you do stupid things (boy do i know that), so I let it slide. She went back to her place and I went to my hotel. However, before that happened, she told there was other dude (fml, amirite?). She described him as everything she hated and thought I was, but she still liked him.

This last part made it for me. I was still sad, but decided I wasn't even gonna try anymore.

However, this morning, she sent me a bunch of videos and pics of us dancing and kissing. I don't even wanna see them. I told her maybe it was best we didn't meet today, and to not look for me while on my city (if there's something i hate more that dating, is being used)

I'll spare you the details, but she called all kinds of things and where can I stick my invitation. 

Truth is, I really suck at dating, and I can sense when something is bound to fail, but sometimes I just go with it and hate myself later. Here I'm just trying to at least avoid a couple of sleepless nights. But I did promised her to show her around my city and a part me feels like I'm acting out of pettines.

Now, I know what you're thinking: how tf do you catch feelings for someone you just met a week ago? 

Well, attraction for me (at least) is a tricky thing. I can spend months by myself, not attracted to anyone. Then, out of nowhere, someone shows up and turns my whole world around, so this is not the first time it happens. Results have been mixed and I know I should do something about that, but one problem at a time.

So, Reddit, AITA? 
(Thanks for reading)


letting this girl down