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Input: I’ve been friends with this guy (let’s call him Q) for a couple years. There has always been times where we have gotten in arguments and it seems like the friendship is over but we end up pretending it never happened. Which I’m not sure if that’s healthy.

I’ll be fair, it feels like I might be overreacting but that’s why I’m asking. But It feels like he is trying to one up me in everything. For example, we both were looking for jobs. I got an interview and never got a call back. So he decides to go for the same job,  then gets it. Then he would just never shut up about said job and how great it is. 

Then he tells me his plans to graduate and I told him I was planning on joining collegiate. I take my tests and pass and submit it in the lottery(it’s random if you make it or not). He saw that I passed it then he goes to take the test the next day and also passes. 

Well everyone  who submitted their scores have been emailed about if they made it or not. I didn’t make it, but he did. He has since made a joke about how he has taken my spot,  And my job.

He also saw that I bought this jacket from Dicks, then he invites me to church the next week and I get into his car and he has the exact same jacket on. He said “I thought I’ve seen it before. I liked it so I got it”.  And now one of our friends in our friend group bought a new pair of shoes, and Q is trying to buy them. He doesn’t realize how it is rude to buy the same shoes his friend just bought.

Finally, at times Q would be hanging with me and some other friends in the group, and he would get texts or calls from our other friends, and I’ve noticed Q always has something bad to say about one of our friends. It’s almost like he tries to belittle one friend, in front of everyone else except said friend he is talking about, to make himself look better.

It only makes me wonder what he says behind my back? WIBTA if I approached him about it or am I overreacting? 

I don’t doubt that I could be a bad friend at times, but this seems worse than a couple mistakes.

being upset with my friend because of how he treats people, including me