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Input: Completely hypothetical and may not even happen. But I want to be prepared in case of the event. 

My Son, daughter and I are in a wedding in a month. I bought my daughters flower girl dress a size 3 (in January for April wedding) since I wasn't sure if she'd have a growth spurt and I wanted to make sure she looks right for the wedding. It was a $60 and I just spent $40 hemming it so it fits her perfectly just above floor length. Over the last couple months I have talked to another girl who is in the wedding with her children as well - a boy and a girl. Our children are to match and so I've tried to connect with her to make sure the kids are situated correctly. She purchsed the same $60 dress but paid $10 to have the company tailor it exactly to the measurements provided. I believe her daughter is about 4, but I am not entirely sure. She recently sent me a photo of her daughter in the dress and it hits just below her knees. My daughters dress is floor length. The dresses do not match at all because of this. I mentioned how short the dress is and she never said anything back. Honestly it looks about 3 sizes too small. Maybe for a 1 year old. It doesnt fit her at all. I feel if I received this dress for my daughter I would have contacted the company and made sure it got fixed. However I cannot tell someone I dont even know what to do. I don't want to bring it up to the Bride cause I am worried she'll freak out and Im not even sure its my place. It is the brides future sister in law. So now Im feeling like the day of the wedding they will ask my daughter and her daughter to switch dresses so that there isnt a huge difference, since obviously my daughter will be much shorter than the other flower girl. I feel I spent the time, effort and money to make sure my kids (and myself) look right for someone elses wedding. So if I say no I wont switch the dress, does that make me the asshole? The wedding is in 4 weeks and a new dress can still be ordered. 

refusing to switch my daughters flowergirl dress