Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Ok so my boyfriend and I are both on parental leave. I took the leave first because I am the mother, breastfeeding, and because I was in college. I also couldn't go back to college when he wanted to take parental leave because he is only off from December to end of February. He on the other hand started parental leave in December for various reasons:

1. He was getting his tonsils removed so he couldn't be around dust or any harmful pollutants at the job site
2. Christmas
3. His other son had to also have surgery
4. He is working on a project for his brother. 

Now with that being said he did have surgery and so did his son, but like 70% of the time he has been off hasn't been recovery or him caring for his son, or doing his project with his brother. He has basically just been doing nothing. Sleeping, watching Netflix and playing Roblox with his kid. 

You would think that it would be the right thing to do to step up and help out, but he has made remarks in the past like "well normally I would be at work right now". So basically he makes me feel like from 9 to 5pm I don't get help because he would normally be at work? 

I'm so confused and don't know if I am the asshole here or if my expectations are accurate. 


expecting his help