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Input: My SIL is having a hard time getting pregnant. It's been a year since she started trying and she has become angry and bitter that she isn't pregnant. 

She openly admits to hating pregnant women now bc she isnt pregnant. 

SIL never liked my sister very much, but liked her even less when sister got pregnant. Now when my sister comes to visit my parents (SIL and my brother live with my parents) SIL avoids seeing her and goes to the basement in her room and cries. 

Things SIL has done to make baby talk uncomfortable:
* tells my mom to not leave baby stuff where she can see it.
* tells my mom she cant make baby blankets in the living room,  since seeing them upsets her.
* closes the door to the spare bedroom bc she doesnt want to see the baby stuff in it. 
* is mean when she gets a baby shower invite or someone she knows gets pregnant. 

Etc.

I get along with my SIL, even tho she is admittedly kind of a b*tch.  So when I found out I was pregnant, I was hesitant to tell her and my brother. 

A month ago I was visiting my parents and they (sil/bro)  asked me if I was pregnant. I panicked and said no. In truth I was 2 months. 

(Mom tells me later that after I tell them I'm not pregnant, bro and SIL talk about it and feel bad that I'm having a hard time getting pregnant too. They sympathize with me.)

I felt bad lying but I didn't know how to tell them. I was sure if I told her she would cry and make a scene and not want anything to do with me anymore. 

The next day I talked to my brother and told him I was pregnant and I was sorry for lying. I explained that I was worried about SIL and if she would hate me knowing I was pregnant. He said not to worry and he would talk to her. 

After talking to his wife, they decide they are mad at me for lying? 

So today, a month after, I have another doc appt and come visit my parents. SIL walks into the house and I say hello, as usual. She walks right by me as if I were invisible and ignores me completely. She goes to the basement and I never see her again for the rest of the day.

I realize I shouldn't have lied,  and I apologized and explained why I did so. But doesnt this prove my point? 

Or am I the asshole?

lying to SIL about pregnancy