Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This is probably ridiculous to most, so prepare for overreaction drama! :)

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Relevant backstory:

I'm not a fan of being in pictures and absolutely do not want any to appear online.

It's easy stopping myself, but less so other people - hence, I almost never agree to being in a picture and will usually either request I be left out or make sure it isn't going to be put online.

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Reason is a background in computer tech and day-to-day job knowing full well the difficulty of removing data from the web, as well as how companies such as Facebook will use anything they have on you for marketing and less-than-moral purposes.

Call me paranoid, I just don't want it. I have absolutely no problem with other people doing this for themselves.

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On to the actual story:

A while back someone uploaded a picture of me after promising me they wouldn't (the reason I agreed, as stated above), and I confronted them. Argument ensued, and in the end it ended up being deleted (but is it ever really?) after a lot of bullshit thrown at me that "it isn't a big deal" and "everyone does it" and a non-apology.

I ended up explaining my reasoning: It's not so much that people see it but that I do not wish to support businesses that thrive by selling user data.

Person below was a witness to these events.

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A little while later (few weeks, tops) I agreed to being in a photo because the person asking is someone I care about and I knew it would make them happy. Same condition: No uploading, no Facebook.

This was agreed to, but I just found out that while they have refrained from posting it to a status, they have been sending it around using Messenger, saying it is not the same as 'putting it on Facebook'.

I get that this might not be the same thing from their POV, but to me it essentially is.

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Both people in above stories were aware of my views on social media and photos.

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I understand that this is seen as normal stuff, and I do understand that most people do this freely and make no problem of it.

And yet, I can't shake feeling betrayed, even if it's something as stupidly meaningless as a photo, and even if they (thought they) were following our agreement.

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AITA for getting upset about this?

getting upset about shared photos