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Input: So my girlfriend (26F) and I (27M) dated for three years. Let’s call her Jessie. We met on Xbox and I moved from one state to pretty much across the country to be with her. Jessie’s great, she’s sweet and smart but I never really fell in love with her.

I broke up with her about 9 months ago because of her very controlling and insane mother. I decided to date another girl that I fell madly in love with but eventually turned out to be a very toxic and immature person. So we broke up.

Now I’m considering dating Jessie again. We talked and hung out a lot for the past three months and just a few days ago we decided to be in a relationship again.

My main issue with her is her mother. Jessie pretty much lives and breathes for her mother. Any time her mother tells her to do something, she does it. If her mother tells her to be home at 7 PM, she’s home by 7 PM. Jessie’s mother has hated me since we first met, because since day one she’s tried to tell me what to do and how to act and I just politely tell her to fuck off. She’s super controlling and even goes as far as getting up and walking across the house to Jessie’s bedroom to tell her to let the dogs out, when Jessie’s mom is right next to the door, just because Jessie’s mom doesn’t want to stop playing her video game. She’s put 12,000 hours into Destiny, and is well on her way to that with Destiny 2, and if anything gets into her way with her gaming, she gets highly upset.

For the past few days we were talking about her coming over today and spending the night and leaving at 6 PM (her mom usually makes her be home at noon if she spends the night). I made sure every day to ask her if she’s going to spend the night, and she promised that she would.

Today she shows up and tells me that her mom convinced her that she shouldn’t spend the night. I explain to her that she’s 26 and still worships her mom like she’s Jesus Christ, and she says she knows and gives me some random excuse.

This wouldn’t be that big of a deal if this was the very first time this has happened. It happens on a weekly basis, she’s apparently not allowed to spend the night twice at my house, only once a week, because she makes an excuse if it comes to spending the night twice. I believe her problem is that she tries to make everyone happy and is too scared to take a stand one way or another.

So I was thinking about breaking up with her in a few hours and just go our separate ways. I’m so tired of being let down by her and her controlling mother. AITA?

TL;DR: Considering breaking up with my girlfriend because she follows her control freak mother’s every whim.

breaking up with my girlfriend because she won't spend the night