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Input: **TLDR;** *Friend that lives in my dorm made me lose the* ***chance*** *for a sought-after job. I told our dorm and later confronted him alone about it, causing him to feel unwelcome.*   


Never took a break from studying, meaning I finished high-school then jumped straight to College. Got into a distance-relationship that means a lot to me, has been going on for more than 4 years now. Visits regularly and just want to finish college fast so I can finally get the person to move here after I get a job. Getting a well-paid job has been my goal for the past 4 years and my 7-man dorm knows how much it means to me because I can't stfu about it.

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Bachelor year, suddenly an opportunity; Form a group where one of the members actually has friends on the inside of one of the local most sought-after job. Usually takes in bachelor students from this college if the bachelor project was given by them. Above-average paying plus benefits. Just enough to get my partner over( law reasons)! Struck luck! My friend, who also has a distance-relationship that he recently got into, has been stressing out about not finding a bachelor group, so my group invites him and he is thankful.   
Later we all have to hand in our resume + grades. Everyone is very aware about the deadline and are updating their resumes. Friend has girlfriend over. Best time of his life. Is the only one that forgets to hand in his resume so we lose the chance. 

The group panics, trying to find a new bachelor in the limited time we already don't have. After some time goes by, friend pulls me into a room telling me he has bad news. He wants to leave the group because he found another group willing to take him. Tell him it's shitty, considering we lost the chance of a good bachelor project because of him. He says he knows and is pretty close to tears.

 

A day later, him and his group are getting ready for the an interview? I ask with who; previously mentioned sought-after company. Can't believe what I'm hearing. "Can you repeat that..?" He immediately becomes uncomfortable so I leave to not create a fuss, pretending I don't care.  
I care **immensely.** 

Tells exact story to others to make sure I'm not overreacting. They give me a 50/50 answer, so I keep asking half of my dorm.  
"Well, he technically didn't ruin your job, only your *chance* of getting it."  
"Probably slipped his mind when he was with his girlfriend."

"You can probably still get a good enough job with your bachelor."

After becoming uncomfortable my friend stays in his room all day. I try to get him out because I didn't mean to cage him. Confront him telling him what it meant to me, starts telling me he misses his girlfriend so much and he feels like he isn't cut for his education anymore. Immediately see myself in him and I feel horrible. Tells me he feels unwelcome, but I assure him nobody thinks anything bad of him. I reassure him telling him it's totally fine from my side. He smiles, becoming happy, thanks me wholeheartedly and hugs me. Starts hanging outside his room again. I stop talking shit altogether.

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I'm still holding grudges and I did put him in a bad spotlight. Whenever I see him, I get uncomfortable and want to leave the room or be a dick about it, full Michael Scott style. Reddit, I'm sorry but I need to be sure so I can stop fucking thinking about it and just be chill with my friend again; Am I The Asshole for being so fake?   


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accidentally making my friend think everyone hates him