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Input: Ok so here's the situation. My wife and I both work full-time, with day jobs and a very time-consuming side hustle that is not yet profitable. We live by ourselves in a city, and the rest of our family lives somewhere else. My wife has a brother who is much younger than her (he's 14 years old).

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Over time, my wife and I have dedicated significant financial resources to her parents and brother. We don't pay their bills or anything like that, but:

* We've provided free food, housing, and transportation plenty of times when they've visited us (like 6 times total). ***I*** have spent money on this, far more than I've received from them. This includes feeding and housing her brother.
* I used ***my*** personal frequent flyer miles to fly them over the last time they came.
* My money has gone towards giving them relatively expensive gifts (usually like $80) over they years - usually more expensive than those they've given me.

They have done "assholish" things to us several times, such as not giving us a housewarming gift when we bought our house. Also, her brother frequently fails to help out when they visit us, sleeping in and having his face buried in his phone. I'm somewhat resentful over this, and mainly results in my wife and MIL cleaning up after him.

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So two nights ago I had some wine and left my dirty wine glass in the sink. Last night my wife asked me to clean it, and I said "well your mom's coming over tomorrow, let her do it (since she's done our dishes before)". My wife got really mad and said that her mom was not my servant and that I should clean up after myself. I usually do not clean my wine glasses, though I do other things like handling our finances and investments.

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So my viewpoint is that her mom would merely be helping out in a way that she has before, and that it's not unreasonable of me to leave this for her to do, especially since I've dedicated much more resources to her parents and brother over the years than they have to me. Does this make me an entitled asshole?

wanting my mil to do my dishes