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Input: TL;DR - One friend likes to tell a 6 year story about another friend of mine that ends up making the latter sound unreasonable/entitled, and I'm wondering if I can ask her to stop.

Backstory: I got married 6 years ago, had five bridesmaids, and there were a few things the MOH did that two of the other bridesmaids took particular exception to (never heard what the remaining two thought). At one point one of the bothered bridesmaids (this is going to be our Story Telling Friend later on, so I'll call her STF) called me up and asked me to straighten the MOH out about a particular request she had made for the bachelorette party. Unfortunately for her I essentially responded with "Her request doesn't bother me, y'all are adults, figure it out" (I used more diplomatic words at the time). I'm friends with them from different places, so they haven't interacted since.

The problem now is that STF has been telling the story of the bachelorette party all over the place for the last 6 years, the central point being "Guess what this one crazy MOH did...". And by "all over the place" I'm including 3 separate podcasts-- one was writing in "for advice" (4 years after the wedding), one was as a guest on another podcast last summer, and one was on her own podcast talking about how she had talked about it on the other 2 podcasts. People typically agree with STF that my MOH was being ridiculous, and the validation STF gets is like catnip to her. And who knows, maybe my MOH really WAS wrong at the time, and I was wrong for not backing STF. I'm willing to be wrong, and I'm certainly willing to let her continue believing she was right. I have zero expectation that she'll change her mind.

I'm just sick of hearing about it, especially if the people responding are super harsh on MOH. On one of the podcasts someone called her a "fucking bitch", and STF just laughed. I got reallll pissed about that (and to be clear, if the tables were reversed and MOH kept dragging STF in public, I'd feel the same way).

That said, and this is the dilemma... those feelings don't necessarily mean I have the right to stop STF from talking about something that happened to her. It's not "my story" to control. It is hers. And I mean I get it, she has a interesting story, she comes out looking like a martyr, who wouldn't cash in on that? Plus she doesn't use names, and she doesn't technically lie when she tells it. Slants it, sure, but it's not like she's slandering or trying to ruin MOH's life. Just thinks it's funny and likes the reaction she gets from it.

Nevertheless, it's at the expense of a very dear friend.

So, what do you think? Do I get to tell STF to STFU, or do I have to just plug my ears and keep my head down?

asking my friend to stop sharing one of her favorite stories