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Input: Background: my parents are divorced because my father was an abusive, cheating AH. Mom's sister hated him for putting my mom through all of that, but tolerated him for the sake of us kids. Post divorce, I think she spoke with him 3 times, only at family functions.

Said aunt passed away this morning. It's been interesting getting word to family around the state. Father doesn't know yet, because it's not his business at this point. Her immediate family need time to process.

I know that my uncle, aunt's husband, was somewhat friends with my father for a while, although their friendship has faded over the years. Uncle was there to support all of us, especially my father, when my half brothers died.

I feel that if my father knows about my aunt's passing, he'll want to go to the funeral. This would be wildly inappropriate, given her feelings towards him but if he finds out on his own, or if my siblings and I wait to tell him until after the funeral, he'll throw a fit that no one tells him anything. He's also likely to throw a fit if we tell him not to go to the funeral.

I don't know if it has any bearing, but he did not tell my mom about his brother passing a year ago, and my siblings and I informed her later, after any family events. She is okay with all of this, and even said the most she would have done is send her condolences to my other uncles.

not telling my Father that my Maternal Aunt died