Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Im gonna have to be vauge about my job in this post so im sorry if its confusing.

So at work I run a department and im new to the whole "your in charge" thing, its been open for a week and shes been in there to help a couple of times. Today she was requested to go help out her department so I sent her, I then get a message saying if they can switch her for another person and I say sure. I then go to lunch, while im go e she apperantly comes back with a notepad and a pen saying she needs to help run the department, not a problem in my job but they never told me and it kinda ruins plans if I dont have a certain amount of people so I send a message to that department asking "what gives?" I explain what she told us and they said they said no such thing. I get more info on whats going on and look her up in our system, shes doing another job that shes not supposed to be doing. I send her manager a message explaining whats going on and tell him of my evidence and he agrees what she did is wrong and confronts her. She came up to me later very mad asking is she not valued and how shes helped the department, I explain you are valued but what you did was lie to us to get out of the our department after you were told to come back. In my job we need to be tracked otherwise we can get into trouble or miss a deadline if not accounted for. Im told what I did was the right thing to do but I feel like such an ass, shes filing an HR report on me and another associate involved who can testify for me that all these events are true because she witnessed them. 

So am I the asshole reddit?

telling a woman shes a liar