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Input:    First time posting and it took me a few minutes to figure out, so bare with me on this.
   My husband and I have been married for over 12 years. In that time each of our siblings have had children&lt;we have 12 nieces and nephews now&gt;. We love our nieces and nephews but we are always glad when they go home or when we leave from visiting with them.
    Recently my MIL surprised us with a visit and preceded to drop hints about children. She brought up the fact that a cousin to my husband is having a baby after no one thought she would have kids. Then my MIL went on to tell my husband how she had bought him something to help him with his s-count&lt;this isn't the first time someone in his family bought him something like this&gt;. This made me and my husband look at each other like...really, you did that MIL?
    The visit progressed some, getting off topic of babies but MIL rounded out coming back to me, asking me about my drinking. I rarely drink, though I did at her house for Christmas, but other than that, its not much&lt;my friend and I are convinced my MIL wants me to get drunk and conceive a baby that way&gt;. She continued on by saying how she keeps waiting for that phone call from us about having a baby, and how she wants to see a little version of my husband running around.
   We pretty much had to tell her if it happens then it happens, which fell on deaf freaking ears. She kept at it till I finally said we would decide by my birthday if we would try seriously for a baby, as we were not in a good place financially at the time.
    She seemed disappointed and left not long after that.
   I love my MIL and she has been very good to me when I needed someone to talk to but lately its every time I see her. In November, she brought it up in front of the family at a funeral dinner, asking if we had thought about kids.
    A few days after her visit, I saw on social media that another of my husband's cousin and his wife are having twins. I know that will be the discussion for the next time we see her. I'm honestly not in the mood to deal with a baby discussion with anyone in my family or my husband's. 
    I love kids but at this time in our lives we just want to be able to do what we want, take trips and enjoy our marriage but really, am I the asshole for being so undecided?
    

being undecided about children while my MIL is pushing for news