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Input: So my [24F] boyfriend [26M] lives with one of our mutual friends [25M] (we’ll call him Collin) and one other guy. My boyfriend has the more private bedroom in the basement with an en suite bathroom and another sitting room. He’s been living there and paying rent for almost 3 months now. Since I live about 1.5 hour away from him, most weekends I stay at his house from Friday night to Monday (sometimes Tuesday) morning. Just recently Collin has made a point of telling him that I’m no longer welcome to stay overnight anymore. 

Before my boyfriend moved in, he made a point to make sure there was nothing in the lease that would prevent me from staying there. The only part of the lease addressing it is a part that states guests cannot stay more than 7 consecutive days at anytime. I hardly spend any time upstairs in this house and if I do, I’m with my boyfriend. 

I’ve tried to let this be an issue between them, but I feel like I need to speak with Collin. The house that they live in is owned by Collin’s parents, which I believe Collin thinks gives him the title of primary roommate? He stays in the master bedroom and make big decisions like knocking trees down in the backyard, etc. 

So AITA for thinking that a ban on overnight visits is ridiculous?

EDIT: Also a little background, Collin used to date my former roommate and best friend, and therefore would stay at our place 4-5 nights a week. They’ve recently broken up, after she spent 3 or so weeks living 24 hours a day at their house. 


thinking my boyfriend's roommate telling me I can't stay over is ridiculous