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Input: Hi everyone, so my friends and I are travelling to see another one of our friends who lives in Spain. 
I was the 2nd last one to be invited and it was agreed we (4 of us) would stay with our Spanish friend despite me insisting I would stay in a hotel so as not to cause trouble to our Spanish friend, but he insisted I should stay with him and the others. 
One of the 4 (lets call him Roger) then felt bad that he had not invited one of our other friends (Vincent) so Roger invited Vincent (Roger was also the same friend that invited me on the trip) however when Roger then asked our Spanish friend if Vincent could come Roger said no because he did not know Vincent very well etc etc. 
Roger started panicking because he had now invited Vincent but Spanish friend did not want him there, so I tried to be nice and to not make the situation awkward by saying I would stay with Vincent at a hotel. 
This then settled the whole situation. 
Now 1) I would have thought that my other 3 friends or at the very least Roger would have said well why don’t we all stay together considering Roger was the one that causes this problem. It bugs me that I will be alone with Vincent in our accommodation and the others will be having fun together. 
2) Vincent is now saying he wants to travel the day after we all get there (because it’s 20 euros cheaper) - this has aggravated my feelings about this even more because I am not happy staying in very small town where I don’t speak the language on my own in an AirBnB. I am tempted to say to Vincent “well I am spending 70 euros more than planned to stay with you and not leave you alone but you can’t spend 20 euros. 
FYI - Vincent doesn’t know that there was this whole situation about our Spanish friend not wanting him there and that I was originally going to stay with the Spanish friend. 

So am I the asshole for a) wanting us to stay altogether and b) if I say that to Vincent? 

wanting all of my friends to stay together on our holiday