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Input: AITA   My daughter and I have had a rocky relationship for the past 10 years.  Prior to that we had always been very close.  She is married but separated they have three children.  I divorced her biological father when she was six months old. Her paternal grandmother and I were extremely close (important) closer that my bio mother and I.

Last weekend my daughter asked if the oldest grandson could spend the weekend with us (my husband and I) while the two other kids (boy and girl) went to visit their dad. Naturally we said yes.  Our rule of thumb is that we never ask questions we just go with the flow.  My daughter does not like questions and has a quick temper.  We surmised from a few comments dropped by the kids that the oldest son does not enjoy being around his father nor does he like his father's one bedroom apartment.  We reside two houses away from my daughter and the children.  (kids ages 16,14,11).

Yesterday afternoon my SIL called me to thank me for mailing him his birthday card and Christmas card (both had $$). My daughter's grandmother always remembered me on every holiday with a card, sweet note and a check.  She was very good to me and was a wonderful example of the perfect MIL. My goal has always been to emulate her in every aspect that I can. Due to the volatility of my daughter's pending divorce I have been kind to my SIL but have kept my distance. After thanking me for the cards and money he explained that the oldest son was sick with a cold. He further advised that he felt it would be best if said child did not have to be cramped into the 1 bedroom with the two siblings and father for the weekend.  He asked if the boy could spend the weekend with us again.  I assured him we would be fine with it.  He asked if it should be kept a "secret" from daughter I advised she should absolutely be advised of the situation. Phone call ended with plans for him to drop off boy and pick up dinner I had made for all of them.

5:00 rolled around the front door slammed open and I heard screaming "where the Hell is she?"  I ran from the back of the house. My daughter was there; as I came to a halt she was yelling about me inserting myself into the middle of her family. My husband tried to stop her and explain what had happened but she kept yelling and swearing. Finally my husband said "that's it, you get the eff out of my house!". I stood there with my jaw hanging. Not usually a guppy this time I was completely dumbfounded, flat footed gob smacked. She whirled and slammed out the house.

Within ten minutes SIL called. Come to find out that moron had only told daughter that son was "going to a clean safe place" and then proceeded to drive from daughter's house two driveways down to our house.  Daughter became enraged and they had a verbal altercation in the street.  Oldest son who is a great kid was livid and cussing his father out (completely out of character I swear) standing on the porch of his father's apartment in the rain and refusing to come inside.  I spoke to him on the phone and calmed him down.  SIL wanted to move forward with previous plans I said I could not get in the middle of it.  Son would have to stay with dad.  SIL brought all three kids over to pick up the food I had made for them. Oldest son sat in car. I went out and hugged him, kissed his cheek told him everything would be okay sorry this was happening. This sweet straight A Honor Roll boy had tears in his eyes. My heart is breaking for him. 

My husband and daughter are normally close. He walked over to talk with her. She was home doors locked music blaring (I am sure wine was flowing poor child) she looked out the window and refused to open the door. It is a $ht show.

AITA  for saying that grandson could stay with us again this weekend?  AITA for trusting SIL to call daughter to make visitation arrangements? AITA?

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helping my daughter's future ex-husband? **long