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Input: **Background:** I live in a big city, but in a residential neighborhood on a quiet street. I've been in my apartment for two years as of this month, and I've lived in this city for 10 years, so I have a good idea of what constitutes as normal neighbor noise. For the past year, I've been working from home Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm. My upstairs neighbor has been living above me for about 1.5 years, but she only started being noisy a few months ago. Also, I don't want to involve the police. Neighbor and I are both white, but we live in a neighborhood that mostly isn't, and I don't want to be the one who brings the police to our block. 

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**The problem:** She plays music very loudly with heavy bass for hours at a time. To her credit, she doesn't do this during the city's designated quiet hours. However, the music is so loud that the bass shakes my apartment and I can hear her music over my own music (or TV, etc). I can even tell what song she's listening to (or use Shazam to have my phone tell me). This is especially a problem when I have to take phone calls or video calls for work, as I can't exactly drown out her music with my own while I'm on a call. 

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I want to make it clear that I know it's not reasonable to expect silence from neighbors, or to expect quiet 100% of the time. This lady is playing music at a volume you'd hear coming from a nightclub, not what you'd hear from someone who has their stereo up just a little too loud. 

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I tried knocking on her door while her music was up loud, and when she answered the door she had to turn her music down to hear what I was saying. I explained that I work from home on a Monday-Friday/9am-5pm schedule and asked if she could turn the music down during those hours, and even said I wouldn't mind loud music outside of those days/hours. (Note: That would leave her a good 7 hours of loud music time on weekdays, plus all of weekends). She smiled, apologized, and said she'd keep the music down while I'm working.

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Things were better for about a week. The loud music would start at exactly 5:01pm on weekdays, but at least I had my workdays! Then she went back to her old ways. I tried knocking on her door again, but she didn't answer. I asked the landlord to talk to her, and he assured me he would. Again, things got better for a week, but then she started up again. 

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So then I resorted to knocking on my ceiling/her floor with a broomstick. I only did it when her music was egregiously loud; it wasn't the sort of thing where I'd start knocking at the slightest hint of noise. That worked for a few days, but then one day she came banging on my door, demanding to know why I was knocking on her floor. She was really upset about it!

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I invited her into my apartment and over to my desk/work area, so she could hear how loud her music and bass were in my apartment. Her response was: "I'm sorry, but this disturbs you? If you want peace and quiet, you need to move to the suburbs. That's no excuse for knocking on my floor! How am I supposed to live like this?" I explained that I didn't expect complete silence, just for her music to be turned down (not even off! just down!) during my workday. 

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Her response? "If I wait until after 5pm, then the other neighbors complain." I came back with: "Look, maybe you're the one who needs to adjust your expectations around what it means to live in a city. I'm not the only one complaining, so the problem is you. Your music just can't be as loud as you'd be able to have it in the suburbs!" She called me a bitch and stormed out. 

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The music situation has gotten worse, and I explained to my landlord what happened between us. He keeps saying he'll talk to her and then following up after having the conversation. But he's so nice, I'm guessing she sees him as a pushover and doesn't think she needs to listen to him. I know for a fact she doesn't pay her rent on time most months and that she doesn't dispose of her trash properly, because he's complained about her to me. I have never been late on rent and when the landlord has to stop by to fix something, he always comments on how clean and nicely kept the apartment is. 

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I'm at the end of my rope and I'm tempted to go back to using the broomstick. It's clear that knocking on my ceiling/her floor with my broomstick really upsets her, but AITA for doing it anyway, since she's being so unreasonable about her music? She can just keep her music at a normal-for-a-residential-building volume and not have to hear me knocking.

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Also, when it comes time for leases to be renewed (everyone in the building is on a June-renewal cycle), I plan to tell the landlord it's her or me. I'm saving to move out, so it's not a bluff. 

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