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Input: Ok so just so you know this all happened in middle school and I have felt remorse. I heard from her friends how it impacted her and I feel so bad. 

I’m now in high school but from November in 7th grade to May in eight I knew this girl. Let’s call her “tia”. So tia was very obviously autistic. She was sweet  but very nice but I’m pretty sure she’s trans as well. And no I’m not transfobic and if you are I don’t wanna hear about it. I’ll call her “she” because I have no confirmation if this is true, and she asked to be called she.


At first she talked to me non-stop during my 1st period in 7th grade. I was fine with it, she was nice and I didn’t mind being around her. I moved out of my first period and moved to English 2nd period around January.  They she started to meet me before each period. I never told her my periods or other classes it she figured it out. A bit odd but okay. I talked to her for a minute. Then she found me during lunch. I was actually just getting more popular, after years of being a fat nerd I was really exited to be friends with kids who were actually popular. She followed me there, and embarrassed me. Talked about anime, talked about bad video games. Talked about going to church with her family, then talking about how there were only 3 genders. (She said she was the only person who were the 3rd) it got really stressful. She gave me chocolate on Valentine’s Day takes about undertale for a long time. 



I started to avoid her a bit and kind of resent her. Luckily I only stayed friends with the nice kids who I used to hand out with. I only talked to her at the beginning of the first class. She was still pretty chill when we were alone. Started talking about how the type of guys she finds cute were [literally describing me] I was flattered but she wasn’t my type and it was a bit awkward. 


Begin eight grade. It was about a month before she found me again, I was fine with it. She was more chill actually. Then she began to follow me around everywhere. She found me at lunch even when I hid, she shewed away all but one of my remaining “friends”. I was fed up but she was a possibly trans autistic Chinese girl who was tall as shit living in an oddly racist community. I started to get fed up. Telling her I needed to be left alone, she left and came back 5 minutes later. After 2-3 months of being stressed I would see her around my corner and have to talk again I got fed up. I was eating in a grimy corner right next to the construction site alone. I decided to stop noticing her.



It was so empowering, I felt like I owned the world. I spent time with my remaining friend, I slowly gained more. She started to cry around me however. Thinking I hated her. Now her friends started telling me to talk to her and calling me mean. She had been telling them we were dating. I was confused because I thought they would all understand. After she kept following me around for another month I got the school involved. I got a makeshift restraining order, she still came to talk to me. She even once bathed into the boys bathroom said “hi I’m sorry you hate me” and left. Around May after I was having a really chill time with friends having fun and being happy during lunch. She her friend walked up to me and gave me a note from her. It said “from anonymous admirer. (Not tia)”
Looking back I should have looked at it longer. But I still have the note and I can tell you it was her writing. Comparing it to the old projects we worked together on in 7th grade. (Yes I’m a little bit of a hoarder I know) .But I started pacing and hyperventilating I had to go to fucking therapy for that shit. My friend calmed me down. I had rehearsed this for months. I walked up to her, and she was looking at me. Handed her gift back and said. “I’m flatted tia, but leave me alone. Please leave me the fuck alone”.

She was in a very religious family, so that stunned her. I had never swore around her. she started sobbing and had to take 3 days out of school after that. I felt amazing yet other hated me. I had threats of “making you feel the same” I was told the scum of the earth. And I started to get bullied, which wasn’t fun. Finally I got another note 3 weeks later. From anonymous. But it was obviously tia. I told the office and they said they could do nothing about it, as long as it said anonymous. Skip to now, I have a crush on one of her old friends, no grudge against her, and I am horribly guilty. I will answer any questions you ask btw

being rude and ignoring my autistic possibly trans stalker