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Input: **This is a repost because I needed to add more info**

My grandad was in the hospital and a ton of family/friends had been in and out. My dad’s girlfriend was constantly there, even when my dad was at work or off doing something. I was there too. I’ll call her Betty. Betty had helped my grandad out a lot with grocery shopping and stuff. I think she really cared about him. 

Since she was always there and other people were in and out, I never got a chance to have alone time with my grandad while he was in the hospital. At this point, he couldn’t talk or move but he could still hear what we would say to him.  I wanted some time to tell him how much I love him and how much I’ll miss him, etc. I didn’t feel comfortable doing all of that with my dad’s girlfriend there. We have never been close even though she has been around for 4 or so years.

I didn’t want to ask her to leave so I texted my dad and asked him to. He told her that I wanted some alone time with my grandad. He told her that she could stay (that’s all I know about their conversation over text). She confronted me about it and I told her I wanted some time to talk to my grandad and she said “Your dad said I could stay and I have the right to be here. I’m
Not leaving.” I was annoyed and raised my voice a tad and said, “I would really like some space right now since my grandad is dying. I want to talk to him without anyone in here.” She refused to leave and just sat in the room with me not talking. So I waited it out until my dad got there (4-5 hours later). It felt like my dad or Betty didn’t trust me to take care of my grandad. I’m 20 and I could’ve taken care of him by myself. I had been there for a few days straight (sleeping there) and had watched the nurses and my dad take care of him. 

I spoke to him privately and told him I wanted some time with my grandad. I was crying because I didn’t think I was going to have any alone time with my grandad. I also wanted some time with my dad alone too with my sister (some family time). I didn’t want her to leave all together, just for an hour or 2 so we could have some time. I think he understood so he ended up asking her to leave. She left and she broke up with him the day of the funeral. She was mad that he asked her to leave. 

AITA? I think she was being inconsiderate. 



asking my dad's girlfriend to leave while my grandad was dying