Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So there's a lot of aspects to this, I'll try and cover them all. TL;DR at the end.

The reason I call her my sweetheart is because we haven't yet committed to a full relationship. I don't think either one of us is mature enough to handle a long-distance, but we've been talking over text and phone a lot. Both of us have broken out the L-word, so I have reason to believe it's a good chance this might develop further. I really, really enjoy talking to her.

She and I were in the same classes through middle school to the end of high school, so we know each other very well. In my final year of high school, I think she might have been romantically interested in me, but I had college applications and exams (we have those here, I don't know where else) so I never pursued the possibility. She's also way out of my league, so I always assumed wishful thinking too.

I came to college in August, and she took a year off to prepare better. We got to talking in January, and discovered a lot of the relationship stuff shortly after. However we've decided to halt progress for now because of her imminent applications and exams, which are in May/June.

So my (engineering) college offers a program that's tailored specifically for her field (biology), and I have jokingly mentioned it to her a few times. She dismissed it on account of low future prospects and high college fees, but I have a few doubts about that. I did some research (because I'm insecure like that) and talked to people in my college enrolled in the course, and found a lot of paths that the course opens. She's also financially better off than me, so I found the fees issue strange at first, but I later reasoned that it's dependent on a number of factors I know very little about. However, I still think she hasn't thought this through as a viable career path and is dismissive of it. I won't deny that I have a selfish interest in this.

TL;DR: She and I are engaged in a relationship in all but name, and she will be choosing a college these coming months. I'd like her to apply to a course in my college, but she doesn't want to on account of low prospects and high fees. After legitimate research, I found that she's grossly underestimating the prospects, and I'd like her to rethink this conclusion. I won't deny that I have a selfish interest in this.

Now, I respect this woman in every way and stand by every decision she makes, so I will have no issues if she chooses to reject my suggestion after being aware of the facts. All I want to do is make her aware of them. She probably won't change her mind, but I'd still like to try.

So, Reddit. WIBTA for talking to her about this?

talking to my sweetheart about considering attending my college