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Input: My SO and I have had many discussions about how I am not comfortable with buying "real" (as is dug up from the ground) diamonds or gemstone rings due to moral and ethical issues I have with them (blood gems, artificial inflation, and general shitty nature of the gem trade).

I'm more than happy to spend money on something made in a lab under better labor conditions, but my SO gets upset anytime I mention it.  

What do I do? Would I be an asshole if I still bought a lab grown gemstone or diamond ring?  Shes dead set on wanting a "real" rock because she wants it to hold value longer and kinda just because.

not buying my significant other the kind of propposal ring they want