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Input: I run a weekly group for people with, or have experienced, anxiety.

Two months ago a guy joined.  He seemed friendly enough but suspected he had a learning disability.

One of my regulars told me that he had been messaging her and that it was strange.  I saw the texts he sent her; kinda weird, not dirty or explicit, more like a very socially awkward attempt at flirting.  She didn’t seem very upset about it but was slightly uncomfortable.

Then I remembered he would always ask about where female members were if they didn’t attend but never the men. 

During next meeting I clearly reiterate the rules like keep it platonic, not dating group etc and thought he would get the message.  

So,  a new woman joined the group and was also present for this.   I don’t know much about her but I did hear her ask the guy to meet up some time near the end of the meeting.  

A couple of days later I get many messages from her saying the guy has been texting her a lot saying how attracted he is to her.  Also, when they did meet up she went into some shop, told him to wait outside, he walked off.  She seems pretty angry at him but that’s all I know and haven’t seen any messages he sent to her.

By now I had to make a decision, 2 women were complaining about his messages and feeling uncomfortable despite me reiterating the rules. I decided to ban him and message him why.

Next thing I know hi and family are texting me saying how horrible I am and should accept his behaviour as he is a good person and had Asperger’s.  Tell them I get it but I have others to consider others and he is aggravating their own issues.  Also, it’s a group for anxiety not specific learning difficulties.

His family kept trying to join the group so up a secret new location and told members privately.  

Secret meeting goes ahead but somehow the guy shows up.  Don’t know how this happened but my guess is the second woman, who didn’t show up, told him.

  
 I ask him to leave, he is really apologetic and says he walked off from the meeting with the second woman because she was being weird with him.  

I feel bad but he knew the rules and broke them.  Unsure if it’s all his fault or not but I decided it’s best not to take the chance.  AITA?

TLDR:  guy with Asperger’s joins 
 group, sends flirty texts, I ban him, his family get angry, he shows up to a secret meeting, I tell him he’s still banned.  AITA

banning someone with Asperger's from my group