Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’ve wanted to travel to a popular destination for most of my life. I met my SO about 5 years ago and we’ve been together for 4 of those. We’ve talked about going there, and she wants to join me, but she has a hard time saving money (due to things out of her control like her car needing unexpected repairs and surprise trips to the vet for our dog) and that throws a wrench into our travel plans. 

I have been (very) slowly saving my money for a long time and I finally have enough to go on this trip. I actually have enough to cover expenses and plane tickets for both of us and I offered that to her. She told me she doesn’t want me to pay for her and I countered with “You can pay me back for it” but she didn’t want to do that either. I briefly brought up the idea of going by myself in a separate conversation and she said she was okay with it, but the context, tone of the conversation and the way she said it made me feel otherwise.

I just went through a big career change and now have a lot more flexibility and free time with my schedule. I have the money, I have the time, and it feels like I’m finally in the right place to be able to go on a trip like this. 

Would I be an asshole for seriously suggesting that I go without her? I’ve been wanting to go to this place for a long, long time before we met and I would LOVE if she would let me take her. But if she doesn’t want me to, I also think that it’d be a good//growing experience for me to go alone. 

going on vacation without my so