Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Guess the title is pretty straightforward. Anyway, I'm 18, and up till about last year I was short, kind of round and rather awkward. Puberty hit late I suppose, and now I get a fair bit of attention, but the problem is that I never have an urge to act on it. I've never once pursued a girl, even when it's crystal clear that she likes me, I've never talked to the girls on my Tinder and I feel kind of like a douche ignoring girls like this. I'm 100% fine with being friends with girls, but I never have an interest in asking them out. I find girls attractive I guess, but I can't seem to be bothered. Some of the girls that later ended up being just normal friends seem a bit resentful about that. and I have a certain reputation. 

Am I the asshole for just not giving a fuck about this stuff? I feel like a dick when I turn people down or leave them hanging but I never know what to say, and I don't really care to think of things to say. Why am I even like this? Is there something wrong with me, or am I still stuck as that round short kid with no confidence?

not caring when people are into me