Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Tomorrow next week is my birthday, and every year there is this big discussion about me and my relation to my relatives. I only talk to my older brother because he is the only out of my family who I can trust and who I respect. I can't trust or respect the rest of my family for certain reasons, but my brother tells me that "it isn't like that anymore" and that my family "misses" me. I know that isn't true, I don't even have to consider a possibility. My brother wants me back in the family, and about two hours ago he called me and told me that he and the entire family will come to my house, and that they'll "break down the door if they have too", so they can celebrate my birthday. I told him that he can come, like every year with his wife and children, but not them. He told me that I was an asshole, I wouldn't appreciate the work he is doing to keep me in the family tree and hung up. Am I really an asshole? Am I wrong, should I give my family a chance? 

not wanting to celebrate my birthday with my family