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Input: i'm horrible at english so Bare with me.

sorry this may be long and somewhat all over the place, this just happened last night and i'm still upset. TL:DR at the bottom.

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My Grandparents and Parents are Portuguese. they came from Portugal to Canada to give my brother and i a better life.

we have lived with my Grandparents since i was 4.

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growing up as a kid was usually different from how my friends always told me how their family's did things, but i always knew my household as normal, my mom is a narcissist, i of course as a kid had no idea what that was, i am now 30 and have come to realize how she is.

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when we were younger she used to go mental, if my brother wanted to go out somewhere and she didn't want him to go, he would nag her and push her buttons and she would just lose it, she would kick and scream like a child pull her hair and lock herself in the bathroom screaming, she would scare the fucking shit out of me and my brother, i was a lot younger so i only remember some of the traumatic events.

my dad would end up yelling at us, telling us to leave her alone let her cool down and go to our rooms, they were never physical with us, but this happened many many times, where she would just go insane and make us feel terrible. we had a few times where she took it too far and would down a bottle of pills, and had to go to the hospital to pump her stomach. i was always told growing up from my parents that is just how Portuguese people deal with things and we do things differently from other family's

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this probably happened up until i was around 18. at that point she kind of calmed down, me and my brother had more freedom and we have moved out of her house. since this time we have kept in pretty good contact with her, things were decent. she kept up her narcissist ways and me and my brother would brush it off and go back with our lives like nothing ever happened. that seems to be how most of our fights went. she would have a problem, yell at us, get mad at us if we talked back to her, she would never apologize and would blame us even if it was clearly her fault. my wife started to have enough of her shit and slowly started to drift away from seeing her as often. that also started a shit ton of fights because my mother hated that my wife didn't put up with her shit.

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now me and my brother are in our 30's we both Have Children. My brother has a son who is 3 with his girlfriend, and i have 2 sons with my wife, one of them is 3 and the other is 9 months old. My mom has been going through a few things in her life, My Grandpa (her Dad) passed away about a year and a half ago from cancer, he was diagnosed with a year and when we found out my wife, kids, and i were there all the time. he died 8 months after his diagnosis, it was a sad day and the family mourned. but my mom changed that day, she has gone back to her shitty sour moods and her instant blaming of everything else is everyone else's fault and never her, she was the victim, her dad died and that she was the only one cared. she started to push her family away.

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\-Within the time from my grandpa passing away and up until now i have been keeping track of how shitty she has been to us, i could probably go on for hours but i'll just give some examples.

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\-she will talk shit about my brother and his girlfriend to my wife and i

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\-hates the way me and my brother raise our children, and will go behind our backs to do whatever she wants even if we said no and say it's grandmas right to do what she wants.

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\-will compare our children and act like its a competition on who is learning things faster

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\-pits me and my brother against each other so we start figthing

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\-my mom has tried to go on disability once my grandpa passed away and hasn't got paid since, my dad has an out of town job and he is never home, she has started to say that i dont come over as often because she doesn't have money anymore and that i used to come over more before to use her for her money. i tell her many times to stop spending money on my kids because she constantly complains how expensive things were and how she has no money and she can't keep affording and somehow make it seem like its my fault she's spending money on my kids.....

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\-acts like she knows what goes on in our homes while she's not around and make up insane stories

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\-thinks everyone is against her and is using her.

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so all that comes down to this, My brother went to drop off his kid last night, he has made plans to go to a party, he ended up not feeling well and text her to say that he isn't going to the party anymore and that if she still wants to be with her grandson for the sleepover, as he can stay in with him as well no bother either way, but she turned it around where she was doing him a favor and now he still needs to bring him because she cancelled all her plans to do this for him. now leading up to this point my nephew has been having an issue with sleeping, my brother has had a pretty strict bedtime going on with him for 8pm out in his bed. we had been visiting one day when my nephew was there and my mother was watching him, 9pm rolls around and my dad points at his watch and tells my mother that he thinks its time to put him to bed, she scoffed and ignored him. we ended up leaving around 10 and he was still up. my brother the next day ended up asking me what time he went to bed knowing i was there. i told him the truth and he didn't say a word to my mother for a bit.(i have been slowly opening my brother eyes to my moms narcissist ways and he has been starting to realize). so this night he went there hoping to get an apology from her. he told her he knew that she put him to bed late and explained why it was important for him to sleep on his scheduled time and she just side stepped, and blamed my wife, my dad and i. she told him that we were the ones who told her to keep him up later that he is having fun, full well trying to escape from saying sorry by telling another lie. and my brother was done with it(i was not there for this) he told me he yelled and screamed and he had enough of how she is. she managed to say sorry and reverse it and make it somehow his fault and try and make him apologize. they fought for a big and she ended up going mental again she ran upstairs screaming kicking pulling her hair and sat in her bed, my brother waited a few minutes and went up stairs, she was sitting there with an empty bottle and a handful of pills in her hand and as soon as he walked in she started to try and shove it in her mouth, my brother ran to her and smacked her hand and pills flew everywhere, she screamed and yelled and told him to go away. My brother called me and told me to come over that my mother just attempted suicide.

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I tell my wife everything, so she knows what my mother just did, she offered to drive me over there and take my our nephew back with her to keep him away from the shit storm that was about to go down. i showed up there and it was just an instant fight about how she has been treating us, we tried to show her how she has been, trying to make her realize how terrible she has been to us lately and that we have been patient with her bullshit, we told her at this point forward with how she attempted suicide and went mental that we could not bring our children over there for a while, especially after my wife knowing what happened she will also tell my brothers girlfriend regardless and we wont have a say. we told her what she did wasn't right and that we need to go to family counseling before we could let her see our children again.

she freaked out saying that it was my brother fault for pushing her over the edge and forcing her to fake an attempt at suicide to make him leave, i told her that she was trying to manipulate my brother and she will cause serious emotional abuse doing something like that, she smirked and laughed said it doesn't matter anyway nobody loves her, and that we just came there to attack her, she said she was sorry and that her door is always open when we are ready to come back

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so am i the asshole from keeping my kids away from my mom?

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TL:DR my mom is nuts, attempted suicide, blames her children for her attempt, and refuses to see that what she did is wrong. i told her we are not coming back until she agrees to family counseling.

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keeping my kids away from my mom