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Input: [I am a 21M, girlfriend 21F] My side: Her and her best “guy friend” have been in a pretty volatile friendship, on and off fighting and not. So Thursday night, I drop her off at a party at his house. I have to get up early for work so I stay in. She says she wants to be home by 12, I said ok, text me when you’re home. 

At 1 am, she’s at the bar where he works at, posting kind of inappropriate pictures. No big deal, we talked about it whatever. 

We’ve had numerous problems in the past like this where she would go to bars and parties that she swore she didn’t want to be at; she was never there at any of the times (2,3,4 hours past when she said she would be leaving), and generally not who she said she would be with. She claims she was not going to any bars, but I wake up and always find her there. 

Two weeks ago, she’s suppose to be coming over. It’s late, 3-4 AM. She hasn’t shown yet, so I call, say I’m coming to pick her up. 4 am I arrive, she reads my message, never comes out. I wait 20-30 minutes, and she never comes out. She’s at the guys house. 

My roommate and very good friend, early in our relationship heard a rumor; At a bar, someone asked if she was single, she said no. Always kind of in the back of my head. 

Back to Thursday night / Friday afternoon. While in the tanning bed, I looked at her phone. I am obviously suspicious, and I feel have a reason to be. I found some videos of her and the guy friend laying on his bed, which I find extremely inappropriate. 

Her side of the story is she’s fine, and that her father, mother, and sister agree her friend is not threatening or inappropriate because they are such good friends. She believes she is rightfully mad because I was distrusting. 

AITA? I feel like she’s being extremely manipulative, and if I were to talk into the room with them she would absolutely know it was wrong. 

getting mad at my girlfriend