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Input: So my little brother calls me 6 days before his wedding just to "tell" me about him having a wedding. He doesn't ask if I want to go, no invitation, nothing of the sort.

He says, "Hey I'm getting married next Sunday and I just want to give you the heads up"! I promptly congratulate him and because it was a last minute notice, I assume that it's a simple courthouse marriage. However, I was startled when he says he's having a wedding... WTF right?

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To add to that, he tells me it's on a whim because he's shipping out for the Air Force in 8 days and wants to get married right before going. He is doing it for the benefits as you get more going in married so I can understand all that.

He also adds that the bride's family wants something big for their daughter so that is why they are having a wedding. Again, I can understand the thing with the bride and her family, but why tell me just 6 days prior to? Is it actually possible to prepare a wedding that fast?

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I would also like to add that I live overseas but very flexible so I can go to my brother's wedding even with the late notice, but as I continue to talk to my brother, the conversation is just chit-chat. Not once does he ask if I want to come. We chat for about an hour and the invite never came. So I got the message that I'm not invited.

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The next morning, my mother calls and she tells me to just go. I'm reluctant but the benefits of going totally outweigh not going. So I go online and reserve a ticket. unfortunately, as I was reserving a ticket, I realized that my passport expired. How unlucky is that with just 5 days to go before the wedding!!! I'm pissed! 

Now I'm working on trying to renew my passport but it has to be a life or death emergency to get it renewed in a day. I even contacted an old colleague who works for the State Dept. but it doesn't look promising. 

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As family, this whole thing with my brother telling me about the wedding last minute and not inviting me really upsets me? He and his fiance had to plan this ahead of time right? 

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So, for the benefit of the doubt I bit the bullet and called him back and asked him directly if he actually wants me to go and he says yes.

I tell him, "thank you for the invite, I wish you said that last night! Btw, my passport expired but I'm working on it". He tells me that it's fine if I can't make it because it was so last minute. I reply, " Yes it is last minute but it would have been so much better if you let me know about your wedding much earlier."    

I didn't expect anything after saying that but I think that was the trigger that blew him up. He was yelling so much that I could not understand most of what he was saying. From this point on, it's a one way conversation of him bringing up past drama I don't even care about.

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TLDR; so with just 6 days notice (5 days now) AITA for saying it would have been better if you let me know earlier?

saying it would have been better if you let me know earlier for my bro's wedding