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Input: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5+ years, and have recently decided to move in together.  I was so excited to spend some alone time with him.  Roughly after a year of living alone, his brother hits a rough patch and needs a place to crash while getting on their feet.

As family should do, we told him that he could stay at our place while he does.  I asked my boyfriend beforehand how long his brother was planning on staying, and I was reassured no more than a month. 

It’s been 6 months now.

Not only has this caused fighting between my boyfriend and I, but I feel like an asshole for wanting the brother gone.  From my perspective there aren’t any attempts from the brother to get back on his feet, as all he does in get drunk and play video games all day.

On top of that, the brother will break things, has a cat that loves to lash out, and refuses to help around the house.

I’ve spoken to my boyfriend about this, and they can do little wrong in his eyes. After pushing it anymore, I become the villain, and a fight breaks loose.

I understand that they’re family, and that should be enough to keep them in, but I miss when it was just us. 

I feel like a shellfish asshole for feeling like this, any advice?

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