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Input: Me and my gf were talking on the phone, she was venting about her cousin being very condescending towards herself (eye rolling, talking rudely) I highlighted the fact that her cousin did the same thing the last time I dropped her off at her cousins house. 

I left my car running (push button start, took fob with me), and kinda parked badly as there was a bunch of snow on the curb and I didn't want my GF to walk thru snow to get out, so I was like my cars running when they asked if I was coming inside (11:15 pm). The cousin said something with a very bitchy tone to the likes of "its only a couple steps away." I dismissed it and was whatever. That wasn't the first time she's been somewhat rude to me. First time was when we all went out for dinner, and both of her cousins were extremely bitchy towards me and talking down when I was surprised that the restaurant had off menu items. 

When my gf was venting to me, she said something about thinking that her cousin was on her period or something. I was like yeah she's very condescending towards you and me. My gf gets pissed at me and says you can't say anything about them. 

I bring up how she talks shit about my SIL and brother. She was like no I don't, when in reality she called my SIL a bitch and stuff. Then I brought up how she called my brother scary and that it pissed me off too. Then i said how would you like it if I called your brother weird? ( He calls his mom and sister babe, thus ruining the word for me completely, as in I cannot use it whatsoever to refer to my GF. Tries to be vegan to the point of not eating a bun but eats ice cream). 

She got really pissed off and was like I didn't say anything bad about your brother, why would you say that about my brother. I was like well you're being a bit hypocritical. 

And we ended the conversation with her texting our safeword to stop arguments and when we need time alone. I replied with ditto. 


Am I the asshole?

calling my gf's brother weird when she called my brother scary