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I have this friend, Sam, who I have known since high school (we are 24 now). Sam is a fun person to be around and we share a lot of interests, but he also takes advantage of people and tries to be the center of attention all the time.

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Sam is always broke because he is addicted to video games, smokes weed and is unemployed. Sam guilts people into driving him places, buying him food + covering his entrance fees. If anyone refuses, he whines and says that it's not his fault that he doesn't have a job because of school. This is true, but everyone in my friend group has gone to school, and we all worked or accepted that we didn't have disposable income to spend.

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The way that he guilts people into paying for him is also really shitty. For example, we will all be making plans for dinner and then hanging out at somebody's house. The message will make it clear that the dinner is optional but people have to pay for themselves, but the event afterwards is free and people can drop in. 

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He lives with his parents so we all know he could get a free dinner if he wanted. However, Sam will just show up and then say that he can't pay. At that point, our order has already been taken and it's awkward to force him to leave, so me and my gf end up covering his portion. He has yet to pay me back, and I think at this point I've spent at least 5 hundred bucks on him.

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Sam also makes events about him. I have seen him do this at birthday parties, people's graduation parties, etc. He steals the spotlight by not letting anyone else talk for hours. He also constantly smokes my weed, even though I use it for medical purposes (ovarian), then gets moody and goes on these angry rants or just puts in headphones. He has never offered me any money for the weed he uses, he just smokes as much of it as he can get his hands on. He will get the munchies, and then refuse to share the food with other people, even though it was food I bought for everyone.

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I am getting really fed up with this, but he has recently been reaching out to me to hang out. I have tried bringing up issues I have with him and he flies off the handle. He can not handle criticism, he gets really angry. I want to stay civil with him because he is part of a larger friend group and it would be really uncomfortable if we hated each other, but I also don't want to hang out with him one on one or let him into my house because I feel really used. WIBTA if I just kind of faded him out of my life by deferring hangouts and saying I'm busy? I'm moving to another state for work soon, so we will only be seeing each other when I come home on vacation.

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tl;dr: one of my long-time friends constantly uses me for money, weed and transportation and ruins people's special events. I'm tired of it but don't want to start shit with him. WIBTA if I just kind of phased him out of my life?

stopping hanging out with my friend without explaining why