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Input: My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, lived together for over a year. We're both in our 30s.

We laugh at my joke that we should never go to ikea together, but at the same time, it's probably true.

I want to repaint the walls new colors, rearrange rooms, etc. They are the same color as when he bought the house well over 5 years ago. He could probably live his whole life happily never changing anything. There are things he agrees with me about, such as the color of the cupboards. But then there are things he doesn't want to change. I was scrubbing the bathroom today and realized that not only are the cupboards the ugly color of the kitchen (he agrees), but the bathroom, bedroom and kitchen contain different shades of the same blue and brown. I'd like to repaint it all. He's not pleased with my revelation.

Onto the location of the bed. My reasoning to move it is that it's right against the kitchen wall where roommates use the *loud* microwave. Also, all the upstairs plumbing runs through that wall, including *loud* showers, toilet flushes, etc. His reasoning not to move it is that it takes a lot of work. Which was pretty much his reasoning for not painting walls.

Onto the bedroom dresser. I want something aesthetic, a touch more feminine, and an in-between of us both. I don't want to disregard him completely. I always hated when I saw that happen in relationships on television: the male being disregarded completely. But right now there is a hunk of metal on the dresser, almost 1.5 feet by 1.5 feet. It's a coin door for one of his arcade games. He has three arcade games in the living room. (Getting him to agree on simply *rearranging* the living room took over a year; it was like pulling teeth, and it hasn't happened yet. I'll never ask him to put them in the basement or in another room, though. He loves them and I love that about him.) I suggested today that we put it on a shelf by his games because it would go with that aesthetic, and we could soften up the bedroom. He didn't respond, which maybe suggests that it's possible: he usually gives a reason why we shouldn't.

TL;DR: I don't want to change everything about my boyfriend's house. But I've realized that it's my home too, and I'd like it to make it *feel* like home to me without overwhelming my boyfriend and taking away his identity.

insisting that my boyfriend's house is redone in certain ways