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Input: My girlfriend and I were recently home from university for Christmas break. We do not go to the same university and do not see each other very often. A few days into the break her friend opened a door and it smashed her head giving her a very serious concussion. 

Due to this she can do pretty much nothing except lie in the dark. She can't read, she can't watch movies, even talking can be painful for her. I have every single sympathy for her and I can completely understand how bored and upset she must feel.

Because of this, I spent the first two days at her house just lying in the dark holding her for 8-12 hours. No talking no nothing. I love being with my girlfriend, I love seeing her, but this got boring pretty fast.

She asked me to come back and do the same on the third day. I told her that I wanted to see my friends and do other things too. She was upset. I understood this, she's frustrated about being lonely, bored and in pain.

I did not see her that day. The third day I came to see her for 2-3 hours, and left to do other things. She was extremely upset, and told me that it was obvious I didn't care. This was not the case, I care a lot and want her to be entertained, but I did not want to spend my whole Christmas break lying in the dark.

I continued this trend of seeing her a couple hours of the day for the rest of the break. It's been a few weeks and she's feeling much better.

She is still extremely mad at me because I didn't stay with her during her, "time of need".  I don't see it this way, I spent a few hours with her every day. She told me that if I was in her position she would've spent the whole day everyday with me, and is quite upset that I wouldn't do the same.

Am I an asshole here? Or am I justified in wanting to do more than just lie in the dark with her all day everyday?

not wanting to spend every second with my concussed girlfriend