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I go to school a few hours away from home and am graduating with my master’s this May. So, a lot of my family who're coming up for the commencement need a place to stay for a night or two. So far everyone who's coming up is just getting a hotel, but then the other day my mom decided to inform me she was staying at my place instead of a hotel. Now, I in general was not crazy about her staying over. Sometimes if a friend needs a place to crash after we've been drinking or something it's not a big deal but having my mom (and probably my sister) stay over in my one bedroom apartment and then having the potentially three of us getting ready on top of each other in my one small bathroom does not sound like a good time. I didn't completely rule it out yet though because I don't want to be unreasonable. But then she told me, as in did not ask, that because her back isn't great she'd also need to take my bed and I'd have to take the couch. This is when I told her I wasn’t doing that. 

I am not crazy about the idea at all, but even more than that I really think it's rude how she just straight up told me that this was the plan instead of asking me if it was alright. I would have strongly considered it if she'd just asked me too. Money is tight, so I get she doesn't want to spend it on a hotel for the weekend (they don't let you buy just one night during commencement) but I don't think that entitles her to my bed or even my apartment necessarily. I also really don't care much about the actual commencement ceremony. I'm just doing it because my family wants me to. So, it's not like it's some big thing she's bending over backward to do just for me either. If I'm doing it, it'd be nice for her to be there, but I'd be just as happy not going to the ceremony and seeing everyone a few days later when I came home anyway. She feels it's normal for a son to make sacrifices for his mother and thinks she shouldn't even have to ask me to do this, but I think that's absurd for her to just assume. I don't mind making sacrifices and helping when I can, but I think she's being unfair this time. No one else's parents are even asking to stay in their apartment, and even when my dad (who actually helps pay for my rent since I'm still in school) came up, he at least stayed on my couch (which was also after I offered once he said he was thinking of coming, he didn't have to ask).

My mom and I normally have a good relationship, and realistically it's probably settled since my grandpa was there and told me (after she'd gone to the bathroom, so she doesn't know yet) that he'd just get her a hotel room. But she seemed almost surprised this was an issue, and I'm really shocked she didn't understand how I had a problem with what she was demanding and the way she did it. So, I wanted to check. Am I being an asshole here, or is she really being a bit unreasonable.

not being ok with my mom inviting herself to my apartment and saying she's taking my bed for a couple of days