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Input: I was in a relationship with this girl for a year and a half, everything went fine mostly, we had our ups and downs like any other couple but nothing major really happened. Around June, I started to feel as though I didn't have feelings for her anymore.

I had decided to be honest about my feelings, I tried to tell her that even though I don't have romantic feelings for her anymore, I wanted to be friends and continue to be there for her. She blocked me after that so I thought giving her some space would be best because I didn't want to make things worse.

That same day, she unblocked me and started messaging me about how she hates me, she said I had abandoned her, I tried my best to apologise and explain, but she continued to tell me she hated me and that I was making her suicidal.

Both of us had been struggling with depression, she was going through a rough patch at the time and she accused me of not caring about her enough, I ended up trying to tell her that I didn't want to lead her on by pretending to love her.

This carried on, these messages saying she hates me, and that I fucked everything up. So at some point I decided to step away from her because all of these messages she kept sending to me weren't doing well on my own mental health. And I didn't like the daily reminders that she hated me and thought I was the worst. Even saying she wanted to kill herself because of me.

Am I selfish for that? Am I an asshole for stepping away from her at that point even though I said I wanted to be there for her when I broke up with her?

breaking up with my girlfriend and having to take time away from her