Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Background: a young mother was murdered last year in my town (Ohio). The husband was arrested shortly after. Their 3 year old son was given to his closest relatives, the family of the husband.
The woman's sister lived in Turkey, and was originally from Isreal. She filed for a Visa to come to the funeral, but was denied. After 7 months, she was allowed a Visa to try and get custody of the nephew, as she feels he should not live with that side of the family. She said she would immigrate to the US, as she wouldn't want to force the child to relocate. The husband's family refuses to let her see the kid, and a legal battle is brewing.

Potential A-holism: A guy on my Facebook, someone whom I've known casually for about 7 years, often posts anti-immigrant, "the media is the enemy" things. He posts how the sister from Turkey has changed her FB status to "living in (our town)" and that this "is how illegal immigrants sneak in, and how terrorists get their start."

This post got to me, as someone who works at a newspaper covering the story, so I explained how she was here legally, and how she's seeking residency because she wants to take care of her nephew.
He called me a liar, accused me of falling for the media conspiracy (and told someone else to "do what they can"to remain vigilant against liars), and said I was being racist for thinking he called her a terrorist "just because she's Arabic." At that point, he revealed he's the brother of the accused murderer, and the child is his nephew.

I apologized for not knowing, but still maintained that he can cry "illegal immigrant" all he wants, but "terrorist" went too far.

AITA?

arguing with a family member of an accused murderer