Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I left home to go to college in another state. I ended up marrying someone I met there, and we made our home in that state. We now have children. We visit my family twice a year for holidays. It is hard to go more often because traveling with children is hard and expensive.

My uncle passed away recently. After he passed away, his entire family (wife and kids) are angry at me. They removed me on Facebook, did not answer any of my texts or calls, and told my other Aunt to tell me we were not invited to the funeral. I've been told they are angry because I didn't move my family home to support them when he was sick.

I didn't realize they expected me to move my children and leave our jobs to move back to their state. Even if I had known they wanted me to, realistically I wouldn't have done it.

I did visit him three months ago and regularly texted. I sent gift packages. I have not offered financial support, but now that they are angry I am afraid that they would see an offer as an attempt to buy my way back into the family.

Is their expectation that I should have moved home a normal expectation? If so I guess I'm a jerk. I am doing some soul searching.

moving away from home