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Input: My boyfriend and his siblings have a great relationship. We all have a good time when together and I like spending time with them. He’s newly 18 and I’m 17. We’re saving up for an apartment, which has been difficult because for unrelated reasons we can’t get a job. But, we’ve managed to save quite a bit, enough to move out of my parents house. 

He talks to his siblings everyday. We’re currently in his brother (20M)  and sister’s (25? F) town visiting. They don’t live together and both have partners. His brother recently lost his job and is being supported by his girlfriend. His sister and her boyfriend have three kids and neither of them have a job. He also has another brother (23? M) who has three kids and doesn’t have a job. His girlfriend does. 

So long story short, most of them time he talks to them, they want money. Usually it’s for a good reason so I don’t mind as much, because I spend our money on random things too. 

His sister often says she wants it for diapers, food, etc. Same with his oldest brother. His other brother doesn’t ask as much but one time he asked us for $25 everyday for a week straight. 

Each time we send money, there’s a $6.50 fee because it’s western union. So we’re spending $30-$35 every few days. Sometimes his sister asks for upwards of $60 which I really get mad about, because it’s just too much. 

 Here’s the thing: every single one of them is a habitual weed smoker. They need weed everyday to function. It’s a terrible habit that even my boyfriend has. So when they ask for money for food and diapers or whatever, I usually don’t believe it. I think it’s for weed. Because 3.5 grams of weed is $25 where I live. Why would they need $25 exactly for food or diapers or whatever? 

I deal with it because I love his family and I love him, and I spend probably twice as much by ordering food or shit from amazon. But recently it’s just been really annoying and idk if I’m being an asshole or not. All three of them said they were going to pay us back for the most recent money we gave them. His brother said he’ll pay us when he gets his last paycheck. He just got it and we didn’t see a cent of it. He didn’t even offer giving any back. His other brother said he’ll give us some when he got his tax return. Guess what? Didn’t get it.. but here he is flaunting all of this stuff he bought on FaceTime. His sister swore up and down she’d pay us the $40 back when her boyfriend’s parents come. Guess what we got? $20 and a .7 of weed that we gave them.. 

I’m just fed up but second guessing if I’m overreacting. I don’t have a close relationship with my sibling as much so I’d never do this. Idk if this is normal, because when I express how they never pay us back and I’m tired of giving them money, he gets irritated and doesn’t want to talk about it. 

AITA? Sorry this is all over the place. Kinda ranting I guess 

getting mad that my boyfriend keeps giving our money to his siblings