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Input: Sorry for the long post, I just have a lot to unpack and I'm trying to explain both sides to the best of my ability. TLDR at bottom. 

Since kindergarten I've been in Speech Therapy, for about 2/3's of the Alphabet, and a slew of problems such as talking too fast, volume control, etc. It isn't anything mentally wrong, just never really learned correctly so they had to reteach me. Finally, at the end of 8th grade I "graduated" from Speech, after (mostly) learning my R's and working with speed control. 

My odd way of talking has given me a British accent, and I constantly get asked about it. But, I also never fully learned my R's and honestly I kinda backslided a little when I stopped being taught. So, from the time my kid brain could process it to now, I've always dealt with the fear of not being understood, and it never goes way. It's always the back of my mind. That, coupled with my mom constantly making me say words/pointing it out, makes me absolutely hate people pointing anything out near it.

But, I've also grown up with it so I'm pretty used to it. With my friend group we roast each other a lot so it comes up decently often. And while it bugs me, I usually just joke back a little and then change the subject quickly. They are my friends and they are just making lighthearted jokes, I'm not gonna blow up from it. 

But this time, I don't know. My bf(of almost one year) knows how insecure I am about it, and we were just hanging out when he kept (jokingly) making fun of me; using a British accent, telling me to say certain R-heavy words, etc. I tried to keep it lighthearted and keep it to telling him to stop, but when that wasn't working I did turn to guilt tripping him, telling him about how awful and embarrassed it was making me feel.

Normally, he'd apologized or stop. But this time he said something along the lines of "Calm down, I'm just messing around" and I fucking lost it.

Long story short, I shoved him away(we were lounging around together on his bed) and told him he was being a dick and super inconsiderate of my feelings, and that I felt like he didn't even care that I was telling him to stop. I was pretty angry, so this was all yelled. This led to him being pretty shocked and said that I never really minded it before, and he didn't realize that I was getting generally upset over it. 

I told him I didn't want to hear it and that it isn't an excuse since I told him to stop. He apologized, but the night was ruined so I just went home after telling him I'd text him in the morning when I've had time to cool down.

Well now I have and now I can't tell who was really in the wrong. He was the one mocking me and I had told him to stop, but at the same time he didn't know I was actually upset since normally I never really appear to be so my reaction seemed out of line. 

So who was the asshole in the this situation? 

TLDR: I grew up with a speech impediment that made me insecure. Bf was jokingly roasting me about it, and I lost it when he didn't stop upon being asked. Bf didn't realize I was being serious since normally I don't appear to be bothered by it. Who was the asshole?

getting annoying when my friends/bf joke about my speech impediment