Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I'm a 23 year old university student and I've been working a relatively well paid part time programming job for the past two years. I try to be financially responsible, so as a result I've managed to save up about 8000 €, which is a decent amount of money where I'm located (eastern Europe).  


I'm an only child and I have pretty good relations with my parents, I visit them often during the weekends (the city where I study is several hours of travel away).  My parents have been doing so-so for the past few years - they don't have any debts, but they don't ever manage to save up much money either, mostly because they choose to live a fairly comfortable lifestyle. Recently my mom got a raise so things are looking somewhat better for them. They live in a smaller village and my mom uses her car to commute to a nearby town (the distance is about 15 km), as well as for shopping and the occasional trip to a more distant place(a few times a year at most). Since her old car is on the verge of failing, she wants to buy a new one, which I agree with. However, I think she wants to buy an unnecessarily expensive car for the small amount of driving that she actually does, and she wants me to loan her the money instead of getting a legitimate loan.  


I don't think that she wouldn't actually pay the money back to me, but knowing that my parents don't manage to save much, I feel like I might be giving away a large amount of the money I've saved (pretty much all of it, actually) and realistically I'd probably not get it back anytime soon. I'd be willing to give her a smaller amount of money if she settled for a less expensive car, but she doesn't seem much in favour of that idea. My dad seems somewhat in agreement with me on the issue, but he doesn't want to say it to my mom.  


I've recently been thinking about renting a flat in the city where I study and work. I still live at the university dormitory, where the rent is fairly cheap - about 120 € a month, which my parents still pay for. I told them that they don't have to do it anymore since I make enough money to pay for that easily, but they are pretty stubborn about it. This is also part of the reason why I feel guilty about not wanting to give the money to my mom. Renting an actual flat in the city would be an insane increase to my monthly costs - the rent for a small place would be close to about 500€ a month, so I would rather have enough money at my disposal in case something unexpected happens.  


So, am I being a greedy asshole here? 

not wanting to lend money to my mother