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Input: So I recently became close friends (best friends, even) with a girl. I had seen her around my school for some time then we ended up sitting next to one another in a class. I was straightforward and told her I thought she was very pretty and if we could go out on a date. She had a boyfriend at the time and declined, but they broke up a couple weeks after I met her ( due to his infidelity) and we began to talk more. In the month and a half since we have become very close, I’ve been over to her house and met her family on multiple occasions, and she is going to meet my family for the first time this weekend. She’s even asked to go on vacation with us and wants me to take her with me on a trip to New York (without the family, just us).

We are always together and I’m getting (what I interpret to be) mixed signals (I was told by a friend of hers that she’s just “friendly”, she’s like this with a lot of guys, and I shouldn’t read into it). I let her know that I’ve started to develop feelings for her, and she told me 1) that I’m just horny and essentially my feelings aren’t real, and 2) she just got out of a relationship, she needs time.  I fully understand and respect her decision, and I said I’m fine with being friends with her.

However,  I’m beginning to have second thoughts. The amount of time I spend with her daily, in school, out of school, and at work ( she got me a job at the same establishment she works at), will only increase my feelings for her. I already told her I wouldn’t feel comfortable being around her if she started talking to (as in Romantically) another guy or hooks up with someone, but I’m just wondering if I would be the asshole in a situation where she gets involved with another guy and I cut her off or distance myself to a point where our friendship sputters out.

I’m just trying to keep myself from suffering unnecessarily by having to watch someone that I have feelings for be with someone else, especially considering how close she and I are. 

TL;DR I like a girl a lot and we have become close friends but I am thinking of cutting her off if she becomes romantically involved with someone else.

cutting off my close friend/crush for dealing with someone else