Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’m a New Yorker. I’ve had many friends who have lost loved ones to the terrorist attacks on 9/11.  I was engaged in a conversation with an ex-NYPD officer about retaliation on Muslim nations and I said that at the time when I was11 years old I would support a retaliatory bombing but now I realize that the civilian loss of those who weren’t involved wouldn’t make it just.  I was berated by a guy at the bar, and I asked if he had lost someone on 9/11 because my perspective was hypothetical since I did not.   He continued to tell me to go home and called me an asshole and I thought that maybe I wasn’t being empathetic... since us NYers take 9/11 very seriously... idk I just walked away and went home...  

having a hypothetical conversation about 9/11