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Input: I live at home with my parents and my oldest brother (I'm 19, my brother is 28). Oldest brother has a girlfriend of 3 years and about 2 months ago, she was threatening to break up with my brother. She isn't abusive but she treats my brother like an option, and is semi-high maintenance (very self absorbed). I tried to make him feel better but she takes it back. She has been sleeping over every weekend (Friday to Monday) since that.

My brother would come into my room every Friday and ask to take one of my pillows. Once she left on Monday he wouldn't return the pillow. He would keep it until I eventually would go into his room and take it back. Repeat.

3 weeks ago is when this all came to a head, this was the 2nd week in a row that my brother came in my room while I was showering and took my pillow without asking.

I have a hard time vocalizing my emotions or my intentions, my brother knows this. Confrontation doesn't really bother me (as my family knows) but because of my anxiety, I didn't develop all of my social skills (like sometimes I'm too blunt and/or don't pick up on social cues). I knew that he would be busy with his gf so I sent him a text. I didn't hear anything from my brother after that.

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Fast forward 2 weeks. I ask my brother for some help with my new bed frame (I was recovering from a dislocated shoulder) and he doesn't say anything. I shrug it off, not really thinking much of it. This is where that struggling social skills come in as I obviously didn't pick up on his social cue that he was giving me the silent treatment. My Mom and I are talking a day or 2 later and she brings up that my brother is mad at me. I brush it off and say "What? No he's not. He would tell me if he was mad." The reason I brushed it off was because my mother has a bad habit of taking my brother's side and defending him over the smallest thing. She's very quick to paint my brother in a holy light.

Few days ago, my Dad asks my brother for help regarding the bed frame and my brother starts shit talking me. I was sick and my Dad is recovering from a week in the hospital: "She hasn't apologized. She can figure it out her fucking self." I get upset and I end up getting worked up and collapsing in the bathroom. My Dad gets me to my room, my brother comes to see what's happening, sees that it's me who fell and just leaves.

Through ALL of this, my brother hasn't confronted me himself to tell me he's upset. He has not once spoken to me, he hasn't even directly told me that I said something offensive or hurtful.

It's been about 3 weeks since, my brother and I still haven't spoken. My mother is telling me every other day to apologize to him. If my brother and I absolutely have to be in the same room, we walk past each other (or avoid the room all together) and pretend the other isn't there.

not apologizing