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Input: Long story short: I (23F) live in South Austin and go to UT, while my mom and step dad (42M) have bought a vacation house in Lakeway. We have a large family, he had 3 children from previous relationships, the youngest two are still living with their mom and going to school. They don’t live with him, so they only see him on vacations. I figured it’s good to let them have some alone time, and they have a pool to keep them happy! 

Well, everyone has been telling me that today was the big day, a bunch of extended family are coming over to stay the night at the house for the first time. My mom isn’t in town yet, but I had been going back and forth to their house and mine for the past few days to see the younger kids. 

Well, one of his nephews ended up canceling, and his oldest daughter, her boyfriend, and their baby girl got in last night. He calls my mom, tells her I stood him up three times this week. Which isn’t the case, I came every day I was supposed to and stayed a couple hours, and then went back to my place. 

My mom calls me and is upset that I “stood him up” and this to them means I didn’t spend every moment there. Sure I could’ve stayed the night and had my roommate watch my dog for a few days, but it felt right to head back to my home to go to sleep since the other rooms were going to be occupied with guest tonight. 

AITA for not spending the entire time with my family when they come for vacation? 

TL;DR Step dad is at his house with his kids for spring break an hour away from my home, I don’t spend the entire spring break there, and am being told I am standing them up. 

not wanting to so spend all day with my family during spring break