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Input: Well really they are renewing their vows. They have been together for 24 years this January it will be the 25th year together so they are going all in on wedding ideas, which of course is going to cost a lot of money and a lot of support from family. I work 2 jobs as of right now in security and go to school full time. Just getting out of a hole I've dug myself in from not being a responsible adult and managing my money poorly. My wife is going to help her parents out of course and expects me to give $200.00 of my own money, which I have worked long hours for. I am usually not the selfish kind of person, but I really don't want to help out with money. I respect them and willing to support in other ways. AITA?

not wanting to give money to my inlaws for their wedding