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Input: so my mom has been dating this guy, let's call him R, for about a year and a half now. i really don't understand what she sees in him.

they met while she was trying to leave my ex-stepdad. R and my mom didn't become romantically involved until after the deal with ex-stepdad was over and done with, but R did give us a place to stay while my ex-stepdad was packing up his stuff to leave. don't get me wrong, i'm grateful to him for that, but that's not what this is about.

see, R and i tend to clash. a lot. it's been happening more and more recently. he has almost no social skills and has to make insensitive smartass comments all the time to me and my mom. that, and he's really judgmental about people who drink. my mom is by no means an alcoholic. she only has one or two drinks a night before she goes to bed to wind down and relax. she never gets violent or confrontational, and doesn't prioritize having a drink over her own family. she never drinks and drives and is very responsible about the whole thing.

R, however, feels the need to make snide comments to her every time she has even one. god forbid she has two. he actually said "you're having ANOTHER ONE?" to her just because she decided to have two. this has caused many fights between them, and despite both of us asking him to stop, he never does.

R also makes these types of comments to me, so most of the time i just stay in my room. when i do talk to him, it's almost like he tries to pick a fight with me, and mom has to intervene. one time the internet was out when i needed it for homework. he made fun of me and said "what are you going to do if the internet suddenly goes out forever?" and no matter how many times i tried to explain that i needed it for homework, he wouldn't shut up about how addicted to technology i was.

despite all of this, my mom loves R very much and always tells me that he's really a nice guy, despite all the arguments. it always makes me feel super guilty because i can't stand him, but she seems happier with him than she ever did with my ex-stepdad. am i the asshole for feeling the way i do?

hating my mom's boyfriend