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Input: Preface this with: I live in Canada, weed is legal. I do smoke on rare occasion, for example when on a night out with a bunch of friends or other social events. Max once or twice a month. I'm not anti-weed.

I live with my boyfriend, we have lived together for a year and are in our mid-twenties. I work as a biologist, he works at a family business. Other than this problem we get along well. 

My boyfriend claims he does not smoke often but in actuality seems to smoke every day. He says because he has just half a joint it barely even counts and he's not actually high. 

I disagree because when he smokes (usually after work or before bed, sometimes I don't know when since I've been at the gym most of the evening) I find he behaves as most high people do. I.e. he is a bit spaced out, can't really understand if I say anything complex, giggles at odd times, etc. Has that general glazed look in the eyes. I find it very hard to talk to him as it feels like I am talking to a stoned teenager. I don't have a beer or smoke on weekdays ever since I have to work in the morning and do a lot of sports and generally don't enjoy it as an everyday thing. 

And I just don't find it attractive at all when he's high. On a few occasions he has laughed right before or while we're having sex and it was a horrible turn off. I have mentioned before my problem with the weed and sex. He is very stressed at work and the weed is the only way he can relax so that's why he smokes. I have asked him to smoke a bit less but he does not think he smokes much to begin with. Maybe I'm wrong and just very sensitive to high people or something.  

He does get annoyed sometimes about frequency of sex since I will turn him down a lot of the time during the week since in the evening he has pretty much always smoked. I do explain its because he was smoking. I just really can't get in the mood if I've been trying to talk with a space cadet all evening before we go to bed. He doesn't understand since he claims he's "not even high since he only had half a joint".

I knew he smoked weed when we started dating, just he did not smoke as much then (or maybe since we didn't live together I didn't notice).

So, I am the asshole? 



not wanting to be intimate with my boyfriend when he's smoked pot