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Input: Throwaway. I am a 32F, he is a 34M.  We do not live together, but have been dating three years. I am aware that this is likely “not about the pizza”.
On Black Friday last year, my boyfriend bought all new appliances for his kitchen.
The first time we made a frozen pizza, back in December, I followed the box directions and put the pizza directly on the rack. This resulted in cheese melting off the pizza and falling onto the bottom of the oven. When he went to get the pizza once the timer went off, and found the melted cheese, he flipped out on me and we got into a huge fight. From then on, i put the pizza on a cookie sheet/pizza stone as he directed.
Last week, we tried a new kind of pizza whose directions on the box say to place directly on the rack.  I used the pizza stone but the result was soggy pizza.  He complained all through eating it that it was soggy and did not like it because it was soggy and next time we should put it on the rack. I apologized.
This weekend, I bought same pizza and when I put it in the oven I remembered that it was soggy last time so I put it on the rack.  When BF went to get the pizza after the timer was up, you guessed it, he found cheese had melted and fallen onto the bottom of the oven - it was burnt and black.  He flipped out on me, going on about how I’ve ruined his new oven.  I try to explain that I’ll clean it up, he asked for that pizza to not be soggy again and I was just following directions on the box too.  His retort is that a) I should know that he didn’t mean that and to follow the ‘higher’ rule of NOTHING GOES DIRECTLY ON THE RACK, and b) I was disrespecting his property by “permanently staining his oven” with burnt, melted cheese.  I felt like a stupid child.  I told him he was overreacting over burnt cheese and that I would clean it out with soap/water once oven cooled off.. (but can we please eat dinner while it’s hot).  We go back and forth while I am scrubbing away the burnt cheese.  Once clean, he says he thought it was permanent and didn’t think the cheese would ever come off.. his anger is justified because it’s his property. I told him he’s being a jerk over melted cheese and that I had scrubbed it clean. His anger is justified, sure, he can be angry.  But I did not like the way he was treating me. I told him this. His reply was that “if you think that was yelling.. you have no idea.  I can show you what yelling is”.  Which to me is concerning.  If he reacts that way over melted cheese, I am concerned how he will react to what I consider a “real problem” (which I realize downplays something that is a real problem to him, but I still don’t think melted cheese deserved the attention it got.  He could have said “hey- I thought we talked about putting things on the rack.  Can you clean it up when it’s cooled off?  And I’d prefer if we didn’t put food directly on the rack going forward). I eventually just left and went home over the pizza fight. AITA for putting the pizza directly on the rack?

putting the pizza on the oven rack