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Input: so for context: my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now and we have a very good relationship (despite being ldr), open communication, very clear boundaries and just supporting each other well - i am very happy in this relationship. my girlfriend is quite religious and not really an overtly sexual person, we have a comfortable sexual contact but havent been physical so far (which means we sext) because she wants to wait til marriage, which i respect completly

but this morning i wake up to texts from her sending me a screenshot of a convo she had with some dude that asked her to sell pictures of herself in a bathing suit, talking abt his porn addiction and what not inbetween and she seemed like? relatively receptive to it until he asked for straight up nudes where she got creeped out and blocked him...

her comment on those screenshots was like "haha lol i almost sold pics to this guy until he got creepy" where i am just at a loss of words bc  


1) i think he was creepy before asking for nudes i mean that guy asked on advise on his porn/hentai addiction before going on before how beautiful and hot and what not she is

2) where is the difference between selling bathing suit pics and nudes in terms of creepiness, i mean its obvious what the guy wouldve done with those images...

3) the fact that she even entertained the thought of selling suggestive pictures of herself is very ??? to me, i feel upset and hurt  


now i do not condemn sex work or selling nudes of urself or whatever at all, i think its a persons free decision and they may do as they like

however i think the persons partner should absolutely be ok with and aware of everything happening in this department - my girlfriend and i NEVER talked about this before, and we talk a lot about sexual boundaries, so i was really not at all considering something like this to even ever coming up since my gf is very conservative when it comes to sex

i messaged her and told her that i am upset and hurt, especially because she once told me she doesnt agree/gets upset when i call someone else than her "hot" in passing (and in more of a "oh this person looks attractive objectively" and not "i am attracted to them" way) which i stopped doing after that despite thinking it wasnt really an issue - but since it made my gf feel bad/upset i respected it, so i assumed the same would go for her  


i am definetly going to talk to her about this issue further, i doubt that we wont be able to resolve it but i really need some input from a neutral source on this topic: do i have the right to be upset over my gf considering to sell suggestive pictures without my "consent"? shes her own person and if we werent together i would have no issue with this, or even if she wouldve discussed doing this with me before i would probably react differently. AITA for being upset at her for this?

getting upset that girlfriend talked about selling "suggestive" pics to some dude online