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Input: So one of my GF’s good friends from work is going to get engaged to on New Year’s Eve.  Her boyfriend sent an invite to my GF and some of the girl’s other friends asking them to try to be there when they get back from the hike where he’s going to pop the question.  Thing is, the park is about an 8 hour drive, and we’d only be there for a night. This would also be right after traveling back from xmas and right before going back to work from the break.  

She sent me the screen shot of the invite and asked if I wanted to go.  I pretty much said that’s really far for one night and I don’t really know these people (I’ve met them 3-4 times...).  What I didn’t mention to her is that the people we’d be driving with make me very uncomfortable (very religious... pretty much most of what they talk about... I’m not into it at all) and being in a car for 16 hours over 2 days sounds like hell.

Ever since I said that I don’t want to go she’s been starting small fights about how I don’t want to do things she wants to and how I’m not good at committing to things.  Am I an asshole for not wanting to go this engagement party in the desert 8 hours away on New Years?

not wanting to go to a surprise engagement party 8 hours away