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Input: We broke up suddenly on the 11th of this month after I just recovered from a virus. I found out he was lying and when he was truthful he point blank told me after 5ish years that he hasn't loved me in a year. That was in response to me asking him why tinder was on his phone (for the 3rd time).  Like 0-100. 

So I took time went to work and then we went to dinner where I calmly told him he needed to leave my house at the end of the month which is coming soon. He hasn't packed he plans to travel and come back after trash day  so I won't be able to throw away anything he leaves for a week. And personally the lack of effort or care is maddening. So I've been texting all my friends to distract me and get food and junk and reaching out to one older lady friend had her ask me to do her hair the day he comes back (2 days from now.) 

So I told him "hey heads up i may not be here doing someone's hair" that can take up to 10 hours depending on the style. I asked him to re work his plans a bit since I don't know what he's doing in terms of when he will be back or when I need to open the door for him. 

So he replied I should just leave the door open. I said no it's not safe. 

He said I should tell my neighbor to open the door for him. I said no she just went through another jaw surgery I know she's not feeling well (we both get body pains due to blood conditions or medical procedures so we talk and share do some salts sometimes) and it's really better to just re plan this. So I said why don't you pick up your stuff on Friday. 

To which he responded with "so I'm just supposed to be here in the cold with out my stuff until Friday." 

I don't know why but this made me snap. In my mind I'm thinking what?? Your coming back from a work trip you have a suitcase with clothes, and you have ample time to ask to crash somewhere. Not only that but you weren't going to stay after packing so you're not just in the cold. 

So I responded with this

"Are you trying to guilt me or something? Am I not giving you notice to my plans? Figure your self out! I'm not leaving my door open it's dangerous.  I'm not bothering Jackie she just got surgery. It's not my fault you fucked up and have no place to live, you've been in that position long enough you would think you would be used to the cold already.  I'm telling you my plans if you can't do the same because you don't want to that's on you. "

And now I'm being told by some friends that I should just let him leave it'll be quick do hair another day it's not a big deal. The basic complaint is just let him in on that day so he s out of your life and we can forget about each other. 

I quoted this woman a base of 150.00 and she always tips well. I don't feel like catering to him. Does that make me an asshole? maybe im taking out my anger by saying yes to those plans?


opting to make money instead of letting my ex move out