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Input: My dads mother died when he was really young but I’ve always felt connected to her (I’m her namesake). 

My grandpa has been remarried all of my life to a manipulative and bossy woman who’s just kind of an all round ass. Recently things have escalated in her relationship and my dad and I have worked out that the constant ditching and having to prove my worth to her triggered a lot of my anxiety as a kid and my early teens. So I’ve decided I want to call her Margaret (her name) rather than Grandma cause I don’t think of her in that way anymore and I don’t want to dishonour my proper Gran’s memory in a way. 

I tried calling her Margaret when I was like 9 and told her she didn’t have to buy me a birthday present cause ‘she wasn’t proper family’ this ended up with her not talking to my parents for a year because in my head I was saving her money. 

I just feel like it’d be disrespectful to her but at the same time I don’t want to be calling her grandma out of force or her to talk shit about me to my brothers (7 and 3) which she’s been known to do. I’m just really confused about this but I don’t want to give her a title when I don’t consider her family. 

TLDR: My dads stepmum has been a bitch to me almost my entire life and I don’t want to call her grandma anymore but I’m worried it’ll affect my parents and brothers. 

not wanting to call my dads step-mum Grandma