Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I have this friend, Kate. She's very introverted(largely due to social anxiety) and I'm pretty sure I'm her closest friend. Unfortunately like two months ago she became depressed, I'm trying to help her but honestly it's too much for me. I've been depressed myself and I'm working with my therapist for two years now, though I'm not sure I can define my situation as "stable". I think maybe that's part of the reason Kate confides in me.

I just don't feel up to helping her all the time, I'm barely getting by myself and this is a lot. At the same time I understand how shitty her situation is and I'm pretty sure I'm the only one she confides in. At my urging she's seeing a therapist but that's new and she still needs my support. Today I felt bad and didn't go to work, I also missed my therapist appointment. When she msged me saying she's feeling down and anxious I didn't reply for hours.

So, reddit, am I the asshole for not supporting Kate (who I think confides only in me) with her depression? 

not helping my depressed friend