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Input: So here’s a bit of background. I just met my dad about 4 years ago. I’m 14, and he’s trying to get custody of me. He is an alcoholic, and I’m pretty sure he is racist and homophobic. Also misogynistic. But anyways, here’s what happened.

So last month, for Thanksgiving break, my dad came to see me. We went to my boyfriend’s house for his birthday. During the day, we all went to the shooting range. Everything was good. Later, we went to my bf’s house to have a small bday party. My dad brought alcohol, but he didn’t ask if he could. He was smoking in the house after bf’s mom said he can’t. He had brought his 2 year old German Shepherd, which was fine. But he started to make his GS and my bf’s pit bulls fight. He thought it was funny. He wouldn’t leave me and bf have one second alone. Dad kept putting his arm around me, like dude fuck off. At this point, I was really pissed and embarrassed. He started to throw around the N word (bf is mixed). 

Around 11:00 pm, my mom showed up. Note her and dad are not in any kind of relationship, and he treats her like shit. She could tell that bf’s mom and stepdad were getting ready to just tell him to leave. Dad comes in bf’s room where me, bf, and his friend were just watching tv. He said “C’mon, it’s time to go.” We walked into the kitchen. My mom, bf, bf’s stepdad, and bf’s friend was in there. I knew my dad was drunk, and had more than just a few beers. He said again “Well, c’mon, let’s go”. I decided I would go home with my mom, since she was sober, so I said no. “What?? What did you just say??” my dad said. I said “I said NO.” He started cussing and yelling “Oh hell no, you did not just say that”. (A few years ago, my mom was in an abusive relationship, and my dad just then reminded me of the douchebag she had dated).

His yelling caused my mom to start yelling, and she was trying to calm him down. My mom and bf’s mom said that I didn’t need to be in the car with him, and told him he should head to our house. My dad tried to grab my arm, I fucking yelled and he stomped out of the house. I was shaking and crying, and my bf and his stepdad came and hugged me. He drove off. This was so fucking embarrassing, especially since it was on my bf’s birthday. 

When we got to our house, my dad was yelling and packing his things. Me and mom live with my grandma, she is the one who has custody of me. He told her that he didn’t give 2 shits if I didn’t come to his house for Christmas. He got in my face and yelled “You listen to your fucking father. Your the child, and I am the adult!” Then he drove off.

The next morning he came by and “apologized”. I told him it was ok, we are human, we all make mistakes. The next day he texted me, and said we still needed to talk(?) I called him, and he said that regardless of if he was drunk, I should have gotten in the car and listened to him. I told him that he made me feel embarrassed, and he said “Well, who provoked it?? You should have listened to your father (keep in mind he hasn’t been in my life for the majority of it; and I never see him). He brought up Christmas break, and I told him I don’t wanna come. He got pissed. I tried to tell him why, but with everything I said, he just kept questioning me and acting like a child. I finally just said I need to get ready for school tomorrow and told him I loved him and hung up. As soon as I did, he called my grandma. He started yelling, telling lies, and just being a jerk. She hung up. A few days later, he texted me. He began to put the blame on me for everything. He wasn’t taking any responsibility. 

So yeah, a few other things happened, but that’s pretty much the situation. He did things like this a few times before. Sorry if I didn’t format this right or anything, thanks for reading.

not getting in the car with my drunk dad