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Input: I let him know that our 1 month old daughter, me, and my mum (visiting us in the city for a day) were gonna go out to the city today and buy new bras for me (haha boobs grew big during pregnancy)


At first I was texting him during our outing and sending pics and stuff but then I got busy and didnt text him for a few hours.

 
I dont know if the reason *why* I was busy is relevant but just in case: basically I was trying to fit a lottt of shopping activities into a veryy small timeslot all at the same time while feeding the baby, changing her diapers, and keeping her from ever crying so that she does not disturb other customers. And allll this time my mum was rushing me, telling me to *hurry up* telling me she wants to go outside with the baby and im trying to get her to chill the fk out and hand me my baby because we do NOT need to go outside of the store and the baby will be fine if I just hold her for a darn sec and give her a bottle... yadda yadda basically corralling an unruly grandma :) not a big deal for me but deefinitely kept me busy and if I were to start texting my husband instead of keeping 1000 things under control, the baby would start crying and thats bad for both the baby and also for the customers to hear a screaming gremlin, (even if its a cute gremlin)


Basically, my husband called me 3 and a half hours later VERY ANGRY that I wasnt responding to his texts. Personally I think that the reason why I wasnt responding isnt relevant if I was just [tryly busy] and also [only a few hours]. People are often busy and cannot update.

As soon as he called me on the phone I did pick up right away. He angrily went off on me for why wasnt I updating him. I told him that people are sometimes busy for a few hours and cant text and that this should be respected and understood but that did nothing to ease his anger. I would have updated him as soon as my hands were  free maybe 30 more mins into the future. His reasoning included:

- that me and my mother are two adults. we could have definitely set aside a few moments for giving a heads up
- he wasnt aware how long we'd be out in the city for
- he was worried about his child

am I the asshole here?

not updating/texting my husband for 3 and a half hours when I was out