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I had a crush on this girl in 11th grade. I asked her for notes and it all started from there. As I started getting to know her better, I started liking her even more. She was smart, thoughtful, and very pretty. We had plenty of similar interests from films and music to our careers. I believed that she was the one for me &amp; I would never find someone like her.

But, she was dating someone in a different city for 2 years. It seemed to be going well. However, a week before our final exams, she called me, in tears, saying how he had broken up with her. 

When we met after the exams, she confessed to me that she liked me, I told her I liked her too. Confused abt her ex, she said she wasn’t sure what to do, and me, being an idiot, told her that it was probably better to go with her ex. The reason I said that, instead of suggesting we get together, was that I was headed abroad for Uni and was skeptical about a LD relationship. Also, I thought that if she started to like me while she was in a long distance, she might end up liking someone while I was away. 

She decided that she was no longer interested in dating anyone at all until she got her 5 year degree. I accepted that, being  heartbroken. Tbf, I kinda did tell her to move on and focus on her career, and didn't present myself as an option, only hinting at it.

I went abroad for my degree soon. A few months in, I asked her how she was and she said she was much better. I then asked her how she felt about me and if she wanted to try a long distance relationship. She said she wasn’t interested in dating anyone and that if I wanted to date her, I would wait for her to get her degree. I asked if she still had feelings for me, to which she didn’t bother responding. I told her that it wouldn’t make sense for me to wait for her, unless she felt the same way about me, but she said that I should wait regardless. We stopped talking altogether later. 

I contacted her after months and we got back to talking. I once again expressed my feelings to her, and she regurgitated the whole wait for me bit. I said that if she didn’t have any feelings, I would never again bother her about it again. I wanted her to be a part of my life, even if only as a friend.

After some time, she said she wanted to start calling regularly to keep in touch, but she would always come up with an excuse last moment. She would just say that she was too busy. 

When I’d go back home, she would make me wait for an hour minimum and would refuse to admit fault in the slightest. 

What really got to me was when I had to fly back when my grandmother passed away. When I. told her, all she said was ‘heartfelt condolences’. She didn’t bother asking how I was doing, or how I was dealing with it.

It took me over 3 years to finally see how selfish she truly was. She kept me a back-up just in case she didn’t find anyone else. 

I can see how me asking her abt her feelings for me could make me seem like an ass. So, AITA? 

not waiting for this girl