Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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SO and I have been dating for 6 years (plan to get married, for a ring, proposing soon). I am currently employed, living fairly. Her mother is currently employed, living prolly the same level. Her stepfather owns a construction company, so work is contract and not always around (he’s kind of lazy about finding new work).

My SO is in Law School, and there’s the catch. She has already racked up a whopping $90k+ in student loan debt, and she still has a year to go, plus the BAR, so more debt to come. Her mother has borrowed money from her before for reasons such as risk of eviction, and repo of car, which my SO states is due to her own mother’s mismanagement of funds, and the fact her stepfather isn’t the best at helping (and that couple fights quite often). Both the residence and the car are in my SO’s Mother’s name, as they were purchased before she married the step father. Her mother has always paid her back, though the timing of how long that took is a bit hazy. This time around she borrowed around $1200, which was all my SO had saved for eventual paying off loans, rainy day fund, etc. and her mother enticed her saying she would pay her back MORE than what was owed (amount unspecified, maybe $100-$200). I was told this last night and she already knows how I feel about her mother borrowing money from her.

So AITA?

Tl;dr
SO’s mother is borrowing money from my SO, but my SO is currently in school with a $90k+ student loan with a year left in school to go. AITA for telling her she shouldn’t do that?

telling my so not to let her mother borrow money from her