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My sister has been diagnosed with DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) and it is speckled with other fun things like psychosis, anxiety, depression, etc. It's a real hoot. Her condition appeared about 10 years ago. It was never fully diagnosed until recently but we had a whole comorbidity diagnosis for a very long time. She is considered untreatable but has a cocktail of meds to treat some of the other issues like anxiety, sleep, depression, etc. At one point she underwent ECT treatments but it caused more pain and memory issues than it did at treating the illness. She now lives independently (which is a BIG step) and she has a very patient and caring boyfriend who doesn't seem to mind her issues and actually serves as the person she feels most comfortable with and will take the most direction from during her episodes. He lives with her and she has been for the most part very happy with her new independent life with him. This came to great relief for most of us because, to be honest, we have all taken a beating emotionally and mentally for years. After a while it becomes exhausting and we all find ourselves dealing with our own mental health issues as a result of our interactions with her. Nonetheless, we love her and try very hard to be supportive.

Out of everyone in the family, myself and my husband and children, we have gone through some major bullshit with her episodes in the past. To the point of where we had to go through trauma therapy with our kids for a specific experience. In the last 10 years we have all been verbally assaulted by her. She has major hallucinations and disillusions that make her think horrible things about people and she believes it is real and there is no convincing her otherwise. She has also been a very loving and sweet person who cares dearly about us and those around her. You just never know what person you are dealing with and when.

We have made great attempts to being understanding and supportive, even in light of past transgression. My husband began to see some correlation recently that indicated she had some control over her actions but was selective of when she wanted to control herself. I did not see this but my husband saw her illness before I did and so I think I am just blind to a lot of it and how she works.

Over the weekend I chose to have her, her boyfriend, my father and his wife all over for a Christmas dinner. It is not our entire family because my sister does not take to that very well and she is recently very close to our father (which she wasn't about a year ago) so I thought that would be the most comfortable for her. I anticipated some stress and issues but was not prepared for what was coming at me. Most of the night was okay. She had some minor disruptions and asked me why I had an attitude. I didn't but it is common for her to imagine things like this and convince herself of such. So our night continued and then came the sudden halt to the evening's festivities.

My sister, who as far as I know has no interest, care or political leaning, has been apparently immersing herself in TV, specifically FOX news. My father, pro-Trump and proud Republican, immediately begins steering us into the topic of politics for the after dinner chat. I personally don't mind discussing politics because my family is pretty open and non-hating in regards to everyone's politics. My sister however took off in a direction that she made sure I was aware she directed her outrage regarding the topic towards me. My father, Mr. Instigator, knew he fucked up and I don't blame him but I certainly feel like he knew more than me in regards to her politics. 

My sister starts her tear by declaring she was raised "in little Mexico with THOSE people". First off, she was raised in a nice suburban to a middle to high income family and went to school with a few Hispanic individuals whom she was friends with growing up. Her entire life is basically the epitome of white privilege. She has never experienced anything, not homelessness, hunger, thirst, cold, or a lack of health insurance. She has had everything her heart desires. She is WELL taken care of and her family supports her even when they sometimes should really walk away. 

My sister, in her moment of declaring herself a victim of Hispanics (which pissed me off), hissed and sneered at me for my support of rapists and murderers. I was shocked because 1) my sister has never expressed racism before 2) my sister would normally feel very protective of people who are victims of bias because she herself is a victim with her mental health problems. I was so pissed because she had the nerve to come into my home, once again, and be a total asshole to me and call me evil and rude, and claimed I had an attitude even before the conversation that erupted into her shit storm. Ultimately she lashed out and then informed everyone she was going home. My dingbat father had her drive them because she was DD since she can't drink at all on her meds. So him and his wife have to go, at least in order to not upset her more or as I was informed direct her rage at them for not coming with her, so the evening comes to its abrupt end.  

Ultimately I was hurt and angry. I worked my ass off to make sure the night was perfect. I spent a TON of money on food and presents and tried to make my sister feel at home. I was just done. I have officially had enough of it. I love her and as much as I want to support her I don't think I can because her ability to knock me down has been getting better and better. I have even taken her side when it came to health of my family and I think my priorities just need to be me and my own family. She is happy where she is in life and I am happy where she is as well. My husband really feels she is using her illness as a crutch when it best serves her and I really hope not but I did get that feeling at my house the other night. She purposely attempted to ruin the night and I do think her motivations were something outside of her illness and more in line with the fact that she didn't like that my father and I had something we enjoyed conversing about. She seem annoyed when he would get into a topic with me and we would start going back and forth. She would find the opportunity to cut me off and start almost showing off with her ideas on the topic. I didn't take it personally and actually did think to excuse it because "she doesn't know better", but my husband saw it as something else as if she was vying for our father's attention.

In the end, we ended up continuing the shit storm on text where she laid into me about my non-use of text to have relationship with her and my insistence to call her when she hates talking on the phone. She called me evil and untrustworthy and that because I told her she gave me anxiety that I was somehow stealing her thunder and trying to make my mental health more dire than hers. She said she was done with rude people and my f-ing attitude. My response was snide and I told her that I wasn't the one coming into someone else's house and basically shitting all over them while they cooked me dinner, cleaned up after me and made sure I was safe, healthy, happy, and fed. She deleted me from her only social media account told me to never contact her again. A part of me felt relief. Like I exited the hostage scenario I've been locked inside of for 10 years. I felt a sense of freedom and honestly I felt good about being an asshole back to her and not letting her mental health be the reason I should relent and be all apologies. I know she may never speak to me again, honestly. I know she may very well go into a psychosis and this comes back to haunt us as she devises her weird plot of revenge (she has done that to others). I just want to be separated from it and her now. I also want to hold her accountable instead of just letting her use her crutch for everything when it is obvious she knows better. If she can live independent and be self-efficient, she can also own up to her own bullshit like the rest us. 

no longer allowing my sister's mental health be the crutch that allows her to getaway with being an asshole to me