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Input: First Reddit post! Let me start out by saying my mom is my rock. She is everything to me. 

She has been living pay check to pay check for her whole life. I am about to close on my first home and I dont feel very comfortable making this decision knowing my mother is one emergency away from not being able to survive. She has no health insurance, no home insurance, and no 401k. 

I budget my money religiously and I was determined to draw her out a budget so she no longer has to survive pay check to pay check. So I developed a nice budget and presented it to her (after she agreed to let me do this) and she started to become upset because she thinks that I dont think she knows how to manage her money. She doesn't make a ton of money, but this budget would allow her to end the year with roughly 4k in savings.
 
I told my mom she was a burden on me because she isn't financially stable. The house I am purchasing is nice and I dont deserve nicer things than my mom. She deserves much more. 

One last thing to note: She helps EVERYONE out when she feels her sons need something, but I feel you can still budget for that.

AITA for trying to help my mom?


being mad at my mom for living Pay Check to pay check