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Input: AITA for sleeping with my brother’s boyfriend?

To make things clear, I’m a 17 year old girl (almost 18, senior in high school), and my brother is 18 and openly gay. His boyfriend is also 18, and I always assumed he was gay until now. They’re both freshmen in college.

I’ve always been fairly close to my brother, and he invited me to stay with him and his boyfriend for the weekend. I got there on Friday night and the three of us hung out and smoked and stuff. My brother went to work in the morning, so it was just me and his boyfriend in their apartment.

He started telling me about his and my brother’s sex life, which I thought was weird but didn’t really say anything. He asked about mine, and I told him so was a virgin. Things escalated from there and he ended up asking me to sleep with him so he “could be sure he really didn’t like girls.”

I feel like I should have said no at this point, but I didn’t because I don’t really get a lot of attention from guys. I think I just got really red and changed the subject. He dropped it for a bit, but then he started saying that it would be humiliating to go to college a virgin and that I should just get it over with. I’ve thought the same thing before, so I ended up caving and sleeping with him.

It was pretty awkward during and after, and we both agreed to just forget it ever happened. I left on Sunday and started getting bombarded with texts from my brother ten minutes after I left. I guess his boyfriend felt guilty and told him. My brother was being really mean, so I just told him I didn’t care and blocked his number.

My mom made me talk to my brother on the phone last night. He said me and his boyfriend were equally to blame for this situation, but I disagree. I I don’t think any of this is my fault and this is all on his boyfriend. I’m not even sure I really did anything wrong. It’s the person doing the cheating whose job it is not to cheat. That’s on his boyfriend. I also confronted him about how he and his boyfriend have an open relationship, but he said that’s different because they usually talk about who they’re sleeping with. I didn’t apologize because I don’t think I have anything to be sorry for.

I also want to make it clear that I don’t feel like I was raped or assaulted in any way, as the age of consent in my state is 17. His boyfriend is only like a year older than me.

sleeping with my brother's boyfriend