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Input: I'll try to keep this short. M22 and F19 if it matters.

We've been dating for nearly a year. When things started it went from zero to one hundred practically overnight, and things didn't slow down until about four months in. Our relationship hit a snag that lasted for about a month, but we worked through it and came out stronger for it imho. Throughout the entire relationship--until about two months ago--I've been unemployed. As you can imagine it has been a fairly big issue between us: her thinking I have no motivation in life, or that I'm going to be a bum forever.

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Fast-forward to two weeks ago. I got two different interviews for two jobs that I really wanted. Both have the opportunity for a long-term career on-top of having excellent retirement options. One of the jobs is in the realm of LEO, and has the ability to go LEO very easily in the future. For the first time in a long time I felt happy, I felt hopeful, and I didn't feel the always-present depression that I had grown to expect every day. So I wanted to share these feelings with the GF. She was very excited for job A, and was immediately kind of a downer for job B. She stated right then and there that she didn't want me to do job B, and that job A would be great. I played it off and said something to the effect of, "you're going to be disappointed."

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Skip to the day of the interview for job B. The day was perfect. I passed all the tests, had all the documents I needed, and everything looked good. I was extremely optimistic. While I was on my way home my GF called so I wanted to share the good news with her. She was immediately upset. Started jumping to worst-case scenario type situations, etc. Again I played it off. I attempted to reassure her, and told her that "there was no reason to worry about anything yet." I still had to pass a polygraph and a psych test--both of which are easy to fail. We didn't talk too much after that. Later that night we got into it a bit, but ended up just falling asleep.

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Here we are today. I've wanted to be a LEO for a really long time; I've had the dream since I was 12, and I just always felt like it was unattainable. I understand why she is upset, and I can sympathize with it. I told her last night that I'd be an idiot not to be afraid of what could happen. I refuse to allow fear to dictate what I do in life. That being said, I am still a fairly long way to getting this job, let alone becoming a LEO.

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I love my GF to death. I honestly don't want to imagine life without her. As corny as it sounds I do believe she is my soulmate. We click on every level, and get along so perfectly. I can count on one hand the number of things we disagree on. I plan on spending the rest of our lives together. That being said: if I get a job offer, and she makes me choose her or this job, and I choose the job, AITA?

wanting to take a job that my girlfriend really doesn't want me to