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Input: I am a 29-year old college student and in an English class that meets 3 times a week. 

A guy who I have spoken to 1 other time pulled me aside after class one day and asked, “hey, would you want to come hang out at the dunes with me and some of my friends?” I agreed and told him I needed as many friends as I could get right now. We switched numbers and that was that. 

A few hours later he texted me to make sure I was still okay with the plans. He then texted and asked me if I could drive him and all his friends since none of them have cars. I felt a little irritated by this and told him I had an old car that probably wouldn’t make it the hours drive out to the dunes. 

He then responded telling me his friends have had stuff come up and that it would just be me and him, and that we could go out to eat somewhere in town instead. 

This took me back, I didn’t agree to hang out with just him, especially not on a date. I responded and told him I wasn’t interested in dating at the moment and was grateful for the offer but would have to cancel meeting up. He said, “no problem!” But texted me the next day asking if I wanted to be his date to a school ball. I didn’t respond. 

The next couple days in class I heard him talking angrily about how the girl he tried to ask out wasn’t straight forward and how he hates that girls just don’t say how they feel up front. 

Am I the asshole for not agreeing to go on a date with this guy after initially thinking it would be a group hanging out? 

changing my mind about hanging out with a Guy