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Input: I don't really know if this belongs here but I want to know if I'm crazy. Here's some backstory:

I started dating my bf this past December. He works as a landscaper and there's a guy, who we'll call Joe, that he has worked with for years and is friends with. Bf doesn't drive so when we spend time together I pick him up. Landscapers obviously can't work when it's raining a lot or has rained too much. When that happens bf sometimes stays over at my house. Sometimes Joe will call bf a lot. I thought it was a little weird but no big deal. Joe is also bf's ride to and from work. Okay, with that out of the way, here's the story. 

Bf was sick and took days off work. He wanted to stay at my house so he came. Joe messaged me to see if bf was with me. Bf went back to work and found out that Joe had told their co-workers that bf was staying out of work just to be with me. We were very upset by this because that's not what happened. Bf told me that he got that straightened out and that is how he is.

So then bf ended up with the flu not long after so he was out of work a few more days. Joe messaged me again looking for bf. Bf was at home and had been sleeping because HE HAD THE FLU and wasn't even answering my calls, but I told him I would tell bf to call. Bf told me that Joe had called him many times which pissed bf off because Joe didn't have any real reason for calling other than to bug him because Joe was at work and bf was at home asleep. Joe told bf that if he wasn't at work the next day then he didn't need to come back at all. He really thought bf was with me and not sick. Bf was pissed. He called his boss and everything was fine.

Bf and I planned a date night one Wednesday night. Bf mentioned it and Joe had made a comment about me buying bf a truck would stay with me. That hit me the wrong way and I told bf that  Joe acted like I wanted bf to lose his job.

Yesterday was my birthday. I've been on a weight loss program since October and I've lost 73 pounds. I am so proud of myself and told myself if I stuck with it and done well I would take my birthday off work, with no kids, and do something for myself.  I asked bf in late January if he could come and his boss oked it. We had a great time! I was looking at my Facebook notifications this morning and saw that there was something from Joe. I find it and it said, "happy birthday when can I have my helper back lol" On my freaking birthday! I don't know why this upset me so much but it did. Bf sees it and tells him that he needs to stop saying things like that because it bothers me and makes me feel like he hates me.

I just feel like Joe is acting like an overprotective mother that's afraid someone is trying to take her baby away or even like a jealous person with a crush. I just don't understand why he acts that way or why it bothers me so much. That's about all I can think of right now. So, now I ask you all.......Am I the asshole???

thinking my Bf's Friend Hates ME