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Input: On mobile - sorry! Tl;dr at the bottom.

Lately, I’ve been pretty busy with work and life, and I’ve reached out to my friends to let them know that I may not always be down for plans, but if they’d like to include me, please let me know. Most times I go, and sometimes I have other commitments. I’m 34, BFF is 35, other friend (OF) is 30.

I made tentative plans with OF today to have a prolonged hangout with beers and TV today, because my spouse is out of town and neither of us work the next day. The plans were kind of tentative because OF was drunk while making the plans, and because we’re both not feeling in great health. It’s been a hard winter, and I have autoimmune issues.

I have a massive work trip on the 18th that I can’t miss - I’ve been working collaboratively for almost a year on the project we need to complete. OF texted and told me she’s been vomiting today, so I told her that with all respect and love, please keep your germs out of my house, then followed up with asking if she needs any sick supplies (because she’s single and has no car.) She tried to wave it off, like, “It’s just stomach stuff,” but I told her nah, I can’t do it, and apologized for bailing. She texted back, “Booooo,” then nothing else. 

She might be busy, sleeping, yacking her guts out, whatever, but I feel like a bit of a dick. I do not want to be hogging the bathroom of an Airbnb in a strange city while my collaborative team does all the heavy lifting, though, or worse - stuck at home.

Tl;dr: AITA for telling my vomiting-sick friend I don’t want to hang because I can’t get sick before a big work trip?

bailing on plans with a sick friend