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Input: My BF's father died really unexpectedly last Friday. I left work early to come home and I told my manager I probably wouldn't be on for my 4.5hr shift the Saturday after and that I would probably require additional days off for travel to the funeral (it's a twelve hr drive both ways) and obviously mourning because a person is dead. 

My manager and coworkers are regularly unreliable and slow to answer anyways. My manager asked me to tell them they would have to cover it if I couldn't. I was a bit pissed because of the circumstances and him being the managers I figured he would let them know. So I'm telling them to contact me asap about whether or not they can take my shift because I need to know so I can take care of things for my bf and help him with everything. My one coworker doesn't even reply and instead I have my other one telling me she's not sure, I should tell the other one and my manager and can I ask them if they have figured it out and she's busy with her other job. I finally got fed up and told her they could figure it out and tell the manager themselves and that I don't have the patience or energy to handle trivial shit like who is picking up my shifts.

I feel rude for being so terse but honestly I am just baffled that I tell all of these people I'm dealing with a dead parent-in-law and I have to take care of my spouse and they expect me to figure out everything for them. Manager is perfectly capable of delegating shifts, it's his job, I would expect people to be more understanding that I don't have time and energy to focus on who's working while I help my spouse deal with the death of his fucking father.

getting terse with coworkers/manager expecting me to figure out shifts for them after my bf's dad died