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Input: So I'll try to make this short but basically in a few months I'm going with a class across country for the first time. The teachers said that the best thing to do is to get good shoes and one hiking pack, both of which my parents got me (I'll explain this in a bit). 

A few weeks ago my brother was the victim of a hit and run and now that I'm on spring break I am going to visit him. I'm using this trip as a sort of test run for the class trip later. 

My parent didn't want me to drive the 10+ hours to my brothers so I got train tickets and they are going to pay me back (this is where them paying for my shoes and backpack come in). 

My mom wanted me to take a package up with me. I told her a few times that I wanted it to fit inside the bookbag since I need to practice taking on the essentials but it seems she kept adding more things.

She kept saying I could just carry it but I wasnt really paying attention because I told her it needed to fit in the bookbag. Today I "put my foot down" and told her I didnt want to carry some big box and have to worry about it for 10+ hours on the train and through my brothers city. 
She got really mad and hung on me. Now she's home and won't talk about it. 

*side note, she tends to buy rather useless things that no one needs/asked for. All I know that was going in the package was a small teapot and some dvds, I dont know what else it could be. I tried to tell her I could take some of the stuff but she said that since I made it clear I wasn't going to help her then she would just mail it. 

not wanting to take my mom's package with me