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Input: My friend’s wedding is coming up in July, and I’m a bridesmaid. The bride has decided along with matching dresses, shoes, bags, jewellery, flower crowns, and make up we all need to have the same hairstyle. 

Problem is, I’m the only member of the bridal party with short, naturally straight hair - they all have naturally curly or black hair. She’s strongly suggesting I grow my hair, whereas I said I’m happy to wear clip in hair to achieve the look she wants. My straight hair is the kind that never curls, I spent much of my adolescence in the 90’s desperately trying to curl, wave, or crimp my hair. But no matter how much product or heat I used, the style would fall out in a few minutes. So I’ve learnt to love my very straight hair for what it is, and enjoy that I can have a short haircut. 

I feel like I’m the Debbie downer of the bridal group, as with my skin allergies I can’t wear the costume jewellery she originally picked (I suggested I wear small gold studs or no earrings, but that doesn’t fit in with her ‘vision’), and I’m worried I’ll have an allergic reaction to the brands the makeup artist uses. I’ve offered to talk to the makeup artist to discuss my allergies, but I’m made to feel like I’m being super awkward and unhelpful. 

My friend was rational person before she got engaged, but the level of control over every aspect of this wedding is making my anxiety and body shame issues overwhelm me. Which it shouldn’t, because this day is supposed to be all about her and her partner and the next stage of their life together. 

We’ve been through a lot of shit together, and helped each other through some very stressful and awful times. But I don’t recognise this budding bridezilla and the bridal party of doom. Am I an asshole for not wanting to grow my hair? 

TL:DR - my friend wants me to grow my hair for her wedding. But I find my short hair liberating. 

not wanting to grow my hair for a friend's wedding