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Input: So weird situation. My friend and I are raising a puppy in which we split our time watching her and taking care of her. However, I'm the overall sole parent and spend the most time training and taking care of her. Though the coparenting is really helpful with a busy schedule, I'm worried his time with her may become toxic and she won't be cared for appropriately. 

He's getting back together with his ex and they've had a toxic relationship from the beginning. I often had to help him when they fought. His ex is extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive (even though he may not see it), causing him to excessively drink to coup. I don't think he remembers the continuous emotional toll it took on him and romanticizes this past relationship. She also suffers from sever psychiatric issues and has not gotten help. Previously, she has spoken poorly about me to him, making up scenarios that never occurred and attacking my character. They also both do not know how to coup with their anger issues, often hitting walls, screaming and causing damage to other things. 

I'm worried this type of environment may be problematic for the puppy and I do not want her to normalize aggressive behavior like that. I also do not want the excessive drinking to inhibit proper care. Now I'm not trying to make an ultimatum, I simply want to lessen the dog's exposure to this toxicity. I also know I cannot control whom he dates nor do I want to. They only dated for a few months before she broke up with him and I doubt this time will be any longer. I also haven't spoken to him about this yet because I'm worried I'll sound controlling and manipulative.

Am I the asshole for wanting our dog-child to live in a healthy environment? Is there any way I can bring this up without sounding like an asshole? 


limiting my friends time with our dog because of his ex