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Input: My boyfriend and I have been together roughly nine years, and lived together for about half that time. We're both working adults who live in an area with few public transportation options and where you need to be able to drive to get just about anywhere.

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My boyfriend does not drive or have a license. This has been an entirely different complicated issue. Basically he has a phobia of it, and he also can't afford to pay insurance on a car anyway. As it is, we have one car, which only I can drive. 

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When it comes to driving to different work locations over the years, we've had a lot of arguments. I've asked him to take the train when he can to where I can easily pick him up, but he doesn't like paying for the train.

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He's told me before that he can pay me directly instead for the gas for driving him, but when we've talked about this 1) he only wants to pay an amount that wouldn't even begin to cover extra gas expenses for picking him up directly from work, and 2) even after we agreed to an amount, I can think of maybe one time he's ever paid me.

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And my main issue with this isn't even the gas, it's the time. When I get off work, I want to go home and relax, or have time to go get dinner for the week or basically any other activities that go into running an apartment. Because he doesn't drive, I feel like he doesn't understand how much extra time it takes to get off the freeway during rush hour, then try to get back on the freeway during rush hour. 	

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It blew up into a big argument last week. I will fully admit I was being a bit passive aggressive, we were sitting in traffic trying to get back on the freeway and I was visibly in a bad mood, he kept asking what was wrong and I kept saying nothing because I really didn't want to get into another argument about this. Finally I just told him and the argument started.

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In that argument and in most arguments we've had about this, he basically says he thinks it's better to pay me directly than buy the train ticket (which, again, he's done maybe once, and the amount he wants to give is practically nothing), he doesn't want to be left sitting at the train station when it's dark (in the past when he would use the train station I was sometimes late picking him up, but this was when I worked a job that was completely in the opposite directly of the train station, meaning it would be difficult for me to gauge how long it would take to drive the extra way), and the biggest thing, which is how when his parents were our age they apparently did this commuting stuff and it wasn't a big deal. 

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The last part is was typically gets to me because I do feel guilty that I'm being a poor partner by being upset about this. I feel like I'm supposed to just be ok with doing this as a self sacrificial thing but I'm not, and I feel like I'm just selfish and immature. Due to fun childhood trauma it's hard for me to figure out the right balance of standing up for myself and being selfless to help others. I'm vigilant about not letting people walk over me as an adult, but I worry it just makes me go to the other extreme as a selfish prick.

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This is why it's hard for me to bring this stuff up to him, because I feel like I shouldn't be feeling that way, and when I have brought it up he gets annoyed at me. I don't want to think my boyfriend's taking advantage of me, but then that part of me that's afraid of being taken advantage of fires up with things like this, then the other part of me that doesn't want to be an asshole fires up, and just the usual dumb shit that happens to a trauma brain. 

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For the argument we had last week, I mainly focused on his point of being left at the train station, and I just kept saying over and over again that I was sorry about that, the reason why was because it was out of my way so it was hard to figure out how much time I needed to get over there, but since the route to my current job and home passes right through the train station, I can literally just sit at the train station until his train gets there (since his train usually gets there a little after I would arrive). He still kept harping on it because he somehow expected me to drive past the train station all the way home after work, then leave home late to pick him up, which just spiraled into me arguing how that didn't make any sense...which it really didn't since the whole point of this was to save time and gas.

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Eventually the argument finished with him saying he would start taking the train, almost acting like he would have done this anyway if I'd just asked him. Then the next day he said he would only take the train to the station on Mondays since I have a thing to get to right after work on that day. And at this point, again, didn't want another argument, so I just accepted this even though this was not something I wanted to compromise on in this way. 

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On the one hand, I feel like he's just refusing to be accommodating at all. On the other, I feel like I'm being too demanding. I know he has budgeting issues, but I also think I pay a hell of a lot more for gas than he would for the train. This feels like another part of all this bitterness I think I have over him telling me for years he was going to get his license and never actually doing it. I understand he doesn't want to have to pay for car insurance on top of everything else, but I keep telling him he should at least get a license in case I break my fucking legs. And at this point I'd be fine if he told me he never wanted to drive ever in his life, I just hate him constantly telling me that he's going to do something that he never does. 

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tl;dr: Boyfriend doesn't want to go to the train station from work so I can pick him up easier on the way home after my work, I really can't tell if I'm asking too much. 

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