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Input: To begin, he doesn't actually ask my permission to have guests over or even warn me or the other tenant. I signed the lease with him and my best friend of 6 years (31M) 1/1/2019. Since then we have lived 5 full weeks with his girlfriend and his male friend who do not pay rent (aren't on the lease) or help around the house. Me and the other tenant want to talk to him but don't know how to approach it since his guests are still around.

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A little context, we are not perfect roommates either. He has complained to me about dishes not being done. Totally understandable! No problem! and we have immediately cleaned them if he is cooking and often times its just a dish or two my friend or I have overlooked but still should not be an on going thing. During this cleaning session he passive aggressively told us that if he complains to management about us 3 times we will be kicked out even though we pay $2,600 a month and he pays $1,200. My fear is bringing up this issue to him and having our living space become uncomfortable. So far we have not used the kitchen in 6 weeks out of fear of his complaints.

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Along with this he throws parties. Loud weekday parties. I work at 7 am and have to wake up at 5 am every day on the weekdays. I get the sense that he is lonely. I want him to feel free to do as he pleases but I am quiet and have to go to bed at 7-8 pm (i have a hard time sleeping a full 8 hours). I told him this before signing the lease with him and he told us this wasn't an issue because he worked "nights". This turned out to be untrue. Since then he has taken vacation from work for some reason, gotten hair plugs and stays home all day complaining to us about how loud we shut our doors because his ears are sensitive to sound due to the hair plug procedure.

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I do NOT want to get a lawyer or do something crazy or hostile until I can figure out how to approach this. I just want to have a discussion about it with him. In fact, if I haven't already expressed it the other tenant isn't okay with it either and has had multiple discussions with me about his girlfriend blocking the driveway, basically living with us with out paying any rent and finding random strangers just walking about. I'd like to note that he makes close to 100k which is much more than what I or my friend/other tenant make separately. We pay rent each month on time and have no issue paying but the reason I mention this is because we know he doesn't need financial support from his friends/gf to split his portion of the rent. He just likes having guests over. My theory is its a cultural thing, he is Indian and moved to America about 8 years ago. idk? 

What should I do? AITA

Should I be okay with this? 

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not wanting roommateto have his girlfriend/friends stay over frequently