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Input: A bit of background: I struggle with depression and anxiety. Sometimes I'm the happiest person in the world and others I can't make myself get out of bed for days at a time. I've had to medically withdraw from university before due to depression, and while I was gone I did some serious time with my therapist. Eventually I felt like I got my shit together enough and came back to school, but I still get down in a rut sometimes. 

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Lately, I've been in a real tough spot. I have trouble getting up for class and doing my work, and I waste \~100% of my time. Gf obviously knows I'm struggling, but I've been trying to hide the extent of just how tough this last week or so has been from her because I know she would go into a constant state of anxiety fueled worry over my mental health. She has enough on her plate as it is, and if she starts worrying about me then she'll start neglecting herself (even more).

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My parents live hours away, and there's nothing they could really do the help significantly anyways. They're both super busy, so I don't want to add any extra stress to their lives as they (read: mom) would worry significantly about me as well. 

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I know how to get myself out of these ruts, but it just takes some time for me to get my shit together. In the meantime, I lie to my family, gf, and friends about how I'm really doing so they don't stress. It feels wrong to lie and hide things, but it feels even worse to put my burdens on everyone else.

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Am I the asshole for lying about my mental health to my family and gf?

lying about my mental health