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Input: So bit of a backstory, I’m a 23 years old male and my gf is 23 as well. We’re both on our last year of college and we’ve been together for 4 years, we were even about to get married but called it off for now because of money/college issues. Her college is out of the city she normally lives in (which is where I live as well) so it takes me 5 hours to get to her and 5 hours to get back each time I want to see her and unless it’s the midterm/finals week I usually go to her place every weekend to stay for the weekend and return home. This semester of college, my schedule is a bit fucked up so my school starta at 8 in the morning on my mondays and ends at 7 in the afternoon at my fridays. This makes it so that I can only go to her on saturdays and return 1 day later on sundays. Which means I spend around 10 hours on the road in 48 hours to be with her for 24 hours every weekend. I’m telling you this because these numbers are important.

I never whine about this or resent her for this since she did the same things for me on our first year but we decided that it’s better for me to go to her being because of me being male and all.

Anyways back to the situation. This week our female cat got in hear for the first time, she lives with my gf as she was a present from me for her. Anyways she’s in heat but also it turns out her fur is somehow full of lice as well even though she never leaves the house and we had her get a lice bath (or whatever it’s called) from our veterenarian. I tell my gf to go back to them and get our cat shaved there and etc.

She gets the lice situation done with no problems on last saturday. But since Bubbles (our cat) is in heat she tells me that the cat is screaming and meowing like a maniac and she couldn’t sleep the whole night. Cue the same thing happening on sunday as well. So it’s monday now and she was able to sleep like a total of 8-9 hours when Bubbles was asleep as well.

Now to the problem:

I told her that I can come over on Monday and stay and look after Bubbles till Wednesday so she can get her sleep and relax a bit she says that it’s not necessary and she can handle it.  I ask her again to make sure and she says you don’t need to come over again. (Note that she’s not doing this for me to not miss out on my lectures because my lessons and at 12 in the morning on mondays, my tuesdays are empty and my lectures start at 5 in the afternoon on wednesdays so I could go to her and back without missing anything) Ok, so I’ll see her at saturday right? WRONG.

Today at 2 PM she messages me asking if I could come over. Now, this is really fucky because I don’t have a car and I use a ferry to go over the sea and then get on a bus to get to her, Next ferry is leaving at 4 PM and it takes me an hour and half (if I’m lucky) to get to the ferry. I have 2 hours to take a shower, get ready to go to her, pack some clothes and make it to the ferry which is impossible. Next ferry is at 7 PM so I can make it to that one but what’s the point then? I get on that ferry and I’ll be at her place at 10 in the evening. I’ll need to be back before 5 PM tomorrow so I’ll be going over there to be there and look after Bubbles for 11 hours.

I ask her why didn’t she tell me to come over when I asked her and she says that she thought she could handle it and couldn’t and says that she thought I could just come over to her and drop by (the fuck?). I’m getting pissed now but not saying anything about it I ask her why she doesn’t ask some of her female besties (that she always goes on and on about) to come over and look after Bubbles while she sleeps. Them coming from 10 mins away to help her out when she needs makes more sense than a guy coming over from 5 hours away right? NOPE!

She laughs at my ‘stupid’ suggestion saying ‘why should they do that?’. I’m beyond pissed at this point and finish her sentence saying ‘when you have a dumbass like me who can come over from 5 hours away whenever you like right? It’s not like I have a life or fucking plans or anything nope! I just have to come over anytime you ask even if I offered my help before and you refused it. You’re right why would you trouble your precious friends when you have a stupid fuck like me on a leash who can do whatever the hell you want whenever you want right?’ And in between my sentences she’s saying no and it’s not like that and shit but of course I’m not believing her because why would I? So I say I’m hanging up and end the phone call right then and there.

This happened like 4 hours ago, I KNOW I’m not the asshole here but for some reason it’s eating away at me so I wanted to ask what everyone thought.

Sorry for the long ass post, I probably could’ve cut off some of these but I’m kinda agitated right now so... yeah. Also, I’m writing this over the phone so sorry for the shitty formatting and thanks in advance at anyone who takes the time to read this and reply, even if they decide that I’m the asshole.

getting angry at my gf and hanging up on her