Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I’ve been talking to this girl in a long distance relationship — before anyone says it’s a bad idea and it’s hard, I know the risks so it’s alright — both me and this girl are Muslims but we ended up liking each other through a group chat we’ve known each other on for about 2 years. 

We’ve been dating for 5ish months; done all types of communication, calling, video calling, our parents have even talked to each other so there isn’t a big taboo type of strain on the relationship. 

The other night we were watching “me before you” and ofc when you’re watching sad movies emotions run high and questions are asked at the end of movies, but my girlfriend dropped the question “do you love me?”

Normally when I talk about feelings I prefer to call and talk about them through like that instead of typing in a rabbit (movie streaming site) chat. So I responded that I would prefer to call and talk about the topic instead of just typing “I love you”.

So immediately she didn’t take this the best way and threw a fit that I didn’t just directly say I loved her and was acting difficult that I had even responded any other way instead of a direct yes or no question, which then I said okay I do love you but like I said it’s something I’d value more saying vocally instead of merely typing it on a screen. 

So the whole day she decided to be angry with me about not being direct and ignored me for most of it until I attempted to fix it. I explained that I had no bad intention and she’s known me long enough to know that I wouldn’t do anything to hurt her. It was just that I preferred to express my feelings in a different way. She understood and took in all of it but still said she didn’t care about my side and that she’s hurt. I told her I understand and that I’d understand her point of view too but I would also prefer my method as well since it seems more intimate? idk if that’s the right word. 

So Reddit AITA? 




not telling my gf I love her