Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I used to have this friend named Anna that I had known for years. We were very close, to the point that I considered her my best friend, and platonic soulmate. We supported each other through some very tough times. She suffered from severe depression and family issues; there were times when I stayed on the phone with her all night for fear that she would do something drastic otherwise. She in turn supported me through an intense battle with an eating disorder. But I don't want to make it seem like our friendship revolved around our issues. Most of the time we had normal conversations, we'd go out drinking, karaoke, etc. She was my best friend and I loved her to pieces.

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One day, she stopped responding to my texts, and blocked me on all social media. I was afraid something had happened to her but I saw she was still commenting on mutual friends' posts. I had no idea what I'd done - I reached out to her to ask if I had done something wrong, and to let me know so I can apologize for whatever it was, but no reply. It really hurt me to not know what had happened. I went over it again and again in my mind, trying to figure out what I had done. I felt wretched, like I was going through a breakup. I had a recurring dream that she would reach out and explain what had happened. It was not a fun time.

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Time passed.... almost a year later she reached out and asked if we could meet up. I agreed and we had lunch. I've always been scared of confrontation, so I was too afraid to ask her what had happened, and she didn't offer an explanation. But things went back to normal, and I had my best friend back, so that was all that mattered. 

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Then, maybe a year or so later, she ghosted me again. I went through the same process, but began to realize, you know what, fuck that. I tried my best to be a good friend and I don't deserve any of this. I didn't hear from her for two years after that. I never really got over it, but in time I think I realized that it wasn't my fault.

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This year on my birthday, she sent me a message on Instagram to wish me happy birthday, and said she wanted to meet up for coffee. I sent a response which said, *"Thanks for reaching out. I hope you're doing well. I've really missed you but honestly being ignored for two years without knowing why was really not good for my mental well-being. I'm not here to be your friend only when you want me to be your friend. So I don't think it's a good idea. Wishing you the best."*

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I felt pretty proud for standing up for myself. A lot of my friends agreed with me and said it was the right thing to do. But recently one of my friends said I had been cruel, and that given her history with mental illness, she was probably working through some intense stuff, and that I should've been more understanding. It made me second-guess myself a little. So Reddit, AITA?

rejecting a reconciliation attempt from an old friend