Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My immediate family, who all things considered are quite lovely, live 2 hours away and have coordinated a day (not Christmas) for folks to get together and celebrate when everyone is free. I was excited because this basically freed up my holiday week to have a sort of mini vacation without any schedule obligations.  Now however I'm getting pressured to still come over on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day in addition to our scheduled day. I know I could just tell them I have other plans, but I'm feeling a lot of guilt because of general expectations to spend the holidays with family. Am I a grinch if I'd rather just stay at home and decorative cookies with my girlfriend?

not wanting to go to multiple holiday celebrations with the same family members