Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So my friend and I have been “friend” for the past 10 years. We have been through a lot together, both personal trials and friendship tribulations. For the past 2 years things haven’t been as good between us, and I’ve felt like I’ve been putting in effort for nothing.

I’ve made my feelings clear when I felt we were drifting apart, and let her know I didn’t feel she was being a good friend. I thought it would change but it hasn’t. 

She’s been the friend who is a friend when it benefits her, when she needs me, but I don’t feel it’s reciprocated.

She is now going through a very rough patch and has reached out to me for help. I want to be there for her but I also don’t feel she’s been there for me (she once stopped talking to me for a couple of months when I was depressed) and hasn’t made much of an effort to keep our friendship afloat.

So, Reddit, WIBTA if I tell her we aren’t friends anymore and I don’t feel like I can help her?

not helping my "friend" in her time of need