Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This just happened and I’m trying to gauge if I’m over reacting or not.

This evening my SO’s parents planned to take us out to dinner for a belated birthday celebration for me. Last night, my friends let me know that they were going out to celebrate my close friend’s birthday the next night (tonight). I said that I’d love to go when I got out of the dinner and would join them then. When arriving at my SO’s place, I briefly mentioned to their mom how it was my good friend’s birthday and that I was going out to celebrate his birthday later that night (SO was invited but not interested). SO’s mom then promptly canceled the dinner reservation and announced that we would do it on another night with her reason being she doesn’t want to feel rushed through dinner, even though I never told her when my friends were going out in the first place and I let her know that I had no intention of rushing through our meal.

So I’m asking you all today, am I the asshole for arranging two plans in one night and not cancelling the dinner plans myself?

double booking my evening