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Input: I live with one other person that I’ve lived with for the past two years. She and I lived in the same dorm for a year, not roommates, and then in the same apartment for two years in separate rooms.

Before this year, we discussed getting our own dishes but decided to go in communally on things like pots, pans and large utensils such as spatulas and ladles. However, I ended up bringing everything. But I don’t mind her using my pots, pans, etc., because those are agreed upon as shared.

However, although she brought her own plates, bowls and utensils, I frequently come home to see her using mine, which are nicer, even though we agreed to bring and use our own. I didn’t say anything, because they’re just dishes and she always washes them.

But the other day, I came home and saw her eating using my condiments. Now, if she used, say, a little bit of ketchup, I wouldn’t mind, but these are soy sauce and sesame oil I went specifically to the Asian market to get. She never asked if I could use them, and then didn’t put the soy sauce back into the refrigerator after she used it. Also, some of my snacks went missing from the pantry a week ago, and I was puzzled, and then I saw it reappear earlier tonight on her shelf.

I feel like these are such tiny things that aren’t worth mentioning, and I would gladly let her use it if she asked, but since I’ve let her go months without saying anything I feel like it’s rude to bring it up now.

So, WIBTA if I asked her not to use my stuff? 

TLDR; roommate has been using utensils that we didn’t agree to share &amp; has been using my condiments without asking.

telling my roommate to stop using my stuff