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a bit of background. trying to be vague while presenting as much information as possible here. i’m a teen. my great grandmother moved in with my family (mother, father, and i) when i was three. There was initial agreements set in place between my parents &amp; her. despite being family, she would still have to pay rent. They gave her a specific number and agreed, and on those terms she moved in. After a while, rent goes completely unpaid (like, six months.) despite both of my parents taking care of the payments she had on her old home.

Now, it’s about a half a year in. Of course older people are extremely set in their ways and want everything their way. Though, this is/was our home and she took complete advantage even early on. She openly ridiculed my father &amp; mother for ‘not raising me right’ and caused arguments between them that were really hard for me to understand as a young child. She basically does everything her way. If it’s not her way, there’s a complaint.

I wish i could format a total timeline, but i don’t know where i would actually begin. in short, she’s incredibly manipulative and have my parents wrapped around her finger. She acts like i’m a total brat and disrespect my parents despite standing up for them when she completely ridicules them. She takes control of everything when we have stated over ten plus years we want the household decisions to go through the ‘actual’ family first. She does not listen. Each time you ask her politely to hold back from a certain thing, she cries, and claims we are the reason she hates being old, how she’s such a burden, and how we wish she would just drop dead. 

Here’s the issue. My parents believe it’s absolutely insensitive for me to think that she should be put into a home, despite being the reason my mom quit her job and is unemployed, and being the reason why i want to leave the house as soon as possible. She claims she doesn’t have money, though she spends her social security on gambling. (she is very active for a 93 year old, i commend her for that at least.) My less immediate family have not done anything at all. They don’t contribute at all, and call us (mom, dad, i) all lazy and inconsiderate for asking for help from time to time. It seems like a huge guilt trip to me that each of my parents have fallen for.

Therefore this post. My parents have argued with me to large extents despite me being driven to multiple inconsolable panic attacks due to this woman in my own home, stating it is still morally incorrect to want her out. she was the reason my first dog passed. (overfeed him. his legs gave out. my parents say it somehow was not her fault, though evidence proves otherwise.) I was wondering if i truly am the asshole for wanting her to be gone, and frankly not caring exactly where she goes? they think she needs to be put in a top of the line home, but she didn’t budget properly and i don’t see that as our problem, or one that should cause me so much emotional strain. 

Am I the Asshole here? 

TLDR: 93 year old grandma causes me severe anxiety. has for 10+ years. i suggest i want her out of our home, and my parents get defensive. She is the main contributor to my dogs death, which holds really close to my reason for wanting her out. AITA for not caring where she is and if it’s a nice place if she moves out sometime?

resenting my great grandmother and wanting her to move out