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Input: For some context. He is 30, I am 24. If my mother hadn't told me that he turned 30 recently I doubt I would have been able to write his age down now. That is how little I care about him nowadays. In the past when I was still sharing a household with him until I was 21, he has been constantly annoying me. I have told him countless times that what he does, annoys me tremendously. I occasionally yelled at him when his actions drove me crazy. He was very possessive, tried to control my decisions, constantly criticizing the things I did in a non constructive way and actively went out of his way to interrupt me in whatever I was doing. To be honest, there is not a single positive memory I share with him. None whatsoever. 

Nowadays, I live alone in my own apartment trying to interact with him as little as possible. Some years have passed since I lived with him together. I think if you had asked me whether or not I hate him a few years ago I would have responded with a resounding and immediate yes. Now I just dislike him and ignore him. 

Now to current day. Occasionally I visit my parents over the weekend and whenever he is there as well, he tries to talk to me. I usually ignore it. I have heard from my mother that he has been telling her that he tries to get close to me again and that I have been ignoring all of his attempts and that it breaks his heart a little bit. 

Am I the asshole for having 0 interest in trying to bond with him? Like I said earlier, I have no positive memory of him in the 21 years I shared a household with him. Not when I was living together with my parents. Not when I moved out and moved in with my other brother and him. 



ignoring/disliking my older brother