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Input: Forgive my mobile usage:

Now don’t get me wrong I’m white(half Mexican but very white passing) as well but I’d  say I’m more educated than my mom on race my sister is black and she tells me her struggle as a black individual and how she goes about her life.

My mom joined a group called “the witches layer” (or something like that) on Facebook and was going about until she saw a post(posted by an Asian lady) saying that she’s “quite simply tired of getting asked what race she is” 

This resulted in many white people saying that 
“They are sorry” and many other PoC people saying how they know the experience.

My mom commented that “all white people are not racist and doesn’t see why all the white people are apologizing for something they didn’t do” 
This resulted in the leader saying that “even though they don’t need to apologize it shows the community that most white people know and you as a white woman should be educated which you are!”
 
Then my mom for no reason stated “I’m not white, I’m half Native American/Irish and my ex boyfriend is Mexican as well as my now husband and one daughter is black” 

This sent the leader into a angry state commenting “I feel your using PoC people as a token to get your way in these discussions, I know that you can talk about whatever you want but this conversation is more for people with this type of struggle”

Then she was blocked. 

She told me expecting me to be on her side that 
“She has a right to go into this discussion because she was hit on for her race all the time”

I told her flat out “that you kind of are using me, my sister, and step dad as a token to get your way as a white individual into these conversations so you can trash PoC people and ‘school’ them”

She went ballistic and said she wasn’t white and that she has as much of a struggle as a ‘native American/Irish’ person in the community I told her again “mom you’re white passing so am I” 

She then texted us this: [text message](https://imgur.com/gallery/nlYe3xY)

So reddit! AITA? 

TL;DR my mom got angry because leader of group said she was using ‘black people as tokens’ and I ultimately agreed on that.


calling out my mom for using black people as a token tl;dr at the bottom