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Input: Hi! This is my first post so sorry if it’s not long enough or if it’s too long!

A little background information: My grandparents are my legal guardians since my father is a bipolar drug addict and my mother is just not fit to be a parent. I am openly transgender (ftm) and when I get misgendered it makes me feel horrible.

My Nana likes to play Bridge and Mahjong with a bunch of her friends and their friends and usually I stay out of their way because I’m usually taking a nap because my Narcolepsy makes it almost impossible to stay away for more than 10 hours. But I was hungry so I went downstairs. 
They were set up in two tables and they would rotate turns on who plays with who. My Grandmother was sitting next to her best friend (Let’s call her V). V knows about me mostly because she’s taken care of me a lot and watched me transition. V waves at me and says hello, and she uses my preferred name. Some other ladies look over and I recognize them after seeing them once or twice before and they smile. 
“Who is this pretty girl?” One says and my heart drops. 
My Nana looks up and says “That’s my granddaughter.” But she still uses my preferred name. 
This isn’t the first time it’s happened. 
After her game night I confront her cautiously because she tends to get offended very easily. I ask why she hasn’t told them about me. I am probably visibly upset but she holds no emotions. She tells me it’s my job to tell her friends that I am a boy. 
I was taken aback. I countered back by saying that they were her friends and I don’t know them. I tried to tell her how bad it makes me feel everytime I hear them call me “she” or “girl” etc. but she says that it’s my transition and that I should tell them. 
AITA for wanting my grandmother to tell her friends and be open about me being a boy?

TLDR; My grandmother keeps my transition a secret from her friends and refuses to tell them even when I am openly trans.

wanting my grandmother to tell her friends that I am trans