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Input: So this Christmas the plan is for my fiancé and I to fly out and visit my parents. We’ve done this before and we stayed at their house, which I thought was fine. This year she wants to get a hotel for two nights instead of staying with them. I asked why and she complained that there’s no privacy at my parents’ (Which is true - we won’t be the only guests there. But it’s literally two nights!). 

Aside from that I’m already going to have to deal with my mother’s hurt feelings over this since I don’t see my parents all that often anymore. Mostly everyone in my family has a strong personality so I get why my fiancé feels somewhat smothered. But again, it’s two freaking nights. 

Anyway I told her that I’m not spending money on a hotel room and that I’m staying with my parents. She got mad and accused me of abandoning her on Christmas and acting like a child. Finally I said if she wants me to go to the hotel with her then she’s footing the whole bill. She gets mad and starts going off about how much money she’s spending on the wedding and I should be willing to pay something. (To be clear - *she* isn’t paying for anything. Her parents want this huge elaborate wedding that no one can afford and they’re paying for most of it, which they never complained about. Meanwhile, I’m trying to save so we can finally buy a house). 

Anyway it turned into this huge fight and she thinks I’m being selfish. I really am tempted to just tell her to go spend the holiday with her own family and I’ll see her afterward. But I feel like she’d actually kill me so I haven’t said that. 

AITA here??


making my fiancé pay for a hotel herself because she refuses to stay with my parents on Christmas