Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: A friend of mine is having a St Patty’s day party.  We have been friends for quite a while but she more or less ghosted me for four months.  She recently got a new best friend who is really into makeup but not much else and whose husband is more or less a fascist.  I’m pretty progressive and not super into makeup but I try my best (lol).  I don’t have anything in common with her new best friend, and tbh the husband gives me the creeps.  My friend lives at home with her dad and during the family parties that they have had, I’ve tried my best to be social, but nobody wants to engage with me in conversation.  My friend comes from a fairly close knit family and they all get together frequently.  It usually involves her nieces and the family and I am like a wacky sore thumb.  Add to this the new best friend and her husband.  Meanwhile, my friend completely swung from ghosting me to being, “Can’t wait to see you!”.  I broke up with my long-term boyfriend in the interim and she didn’t call or text.  Long story short, am I the asshole for wanting to bail on a party, or would I this be the asshole for giving up our friendship because of the weirdness?  I tried to contact her over those four months, just to make sure she was alive/doing okay/check in, etc, with no response.  

not going to the St Patty's Day party