Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Alright, the title looks like I’m innocent, and no.
The day when XXXTentacion died, there was a period of time when I thought it was fake news. It was very early in the day and some places were saying it was false and I just figured he got shot but he was okay. 
He wasn’t, no disrespect. 
He had been a meme within me and my friend after we listened to one of his songs a while back. From what she said about him to me, it looked like she didn’t care about him as well. Now, we also make jokes about dead/recently deceased people. Not classy, I know, but we don’t do it to be mean. 
My uncle passed away from cancer early 2018. His death was a shock to the family as he’d only been in the hospital for about two weeks before he died and no one told us exactly what it was. My dad was extremely distraught, as that was his only brother. He takes out his emotions on me and my mom (nothing physical, just anger over small things and extreme judgment). So, for me and my mom, grieving for my uncle was only made worse by my dad’s mood swings, which I tried to take for my mom. 
My depression had taken a toll again and overall life was very hard. 
My friend knew this, as she was closest to me. 
So, back to the day XXXTentacion died. During that period of time when I was pretty sure he was okay, my friend posted a Snapchat story that had a screenshot of this news article about him getting shot. I saw this while getting on my phone to avoid crying as my family and I were talking about my uncle. I slid up on my friend’s story saying: “yikes XXXTentadead.” It wasn’t even funny, but I thought she thought it was a meme. 
She responded with: “That’s fucked up man, it’s like me making fun of your fucking dead uncle. Not funny.” 
I was a bit taken aback, and just responded saying that it was my bad. But I didn’t see how an artist she didn’t know getting shot was like my uncle dying. It was much more personal for me and all that. She mocked my joke saying my uncle’s name with ‘dead’ mixed in somewhere. I just said okay and haven’t talked to her. 
I realize I shouldn’t have said the joke, but I also thought she would be okay with it, as we’d made jokes about dead people and rappers before. I know it’s not good to do so, and so fully admit that I really shouldn’t have said anything. 
I also don’t think she should have brought up my uncle knowing that my family still wasn’t okay. 
Am I the asshole?

ignoring my friend after her comment about my dead uncle