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Input: So last night I made a joke that clearly did not go over well. One of my friends (more of a friend of my closest friends who i therefore see on occasion) broke up with his gf. And i know this because he liked 3 of my old photos. I laughed and told her "Bob is single again, man his gf must have really hated me".

This joke seemed to just start a fight. She asked why I was still following a guy I had slept with once (mutual friends, he is my friend, no feelings there). And then went on to "why do you follow all the girls you slept with too. We've been together for 13 months. They should be unfollowed. Keeping your options open eh?" Side note here, i am not keeping options open, i'm just too lazy and can't be bothered to unfollow people. I still follow people i went to high school with and friends of my ex. Also, my current gf has told me over and over again that there is no future with us, no marriage, nothing - because she's Muslim and you know, being a lesbo gets you a one way ticket to hell. 

I didn't want to bother fighting over this, I explained that I was just lazy and then when she kept going on, i got my phone out and just started unfollowing because not worth it. I really don't care about them. Well this was apparently the wrong thing to do. She wanted me to unfollow them because i wanted to, not because she asked me to. And to not do it in front of her. More whining about it, teary eyes, and asking why i want to keep them around. I said clearly i don't, i'm getting rid of them right now. 

Que her saying "i don't want you to do it right now. Just tell me when you do". I've had it at this point because i'm trying to cook us dinner and stop a fight about nothing. I said "why is it not ok for me to follow these people, who i slept with once and mean nothing to me, when you still follow your ex (muslim man - potential for future i guess) who you were in love with." 

The tears started. Just crying and saying that i was so mean for saying that, that i'm gaslighting her, and she was just joking before but then i had to be mean. I am just done with the conversation at this point and walk away for 20 so minutes to cool off. Come back and she is pissed, says i just ignored her when she was sad, that what i said was uncalled for. That's there's a difference between people i slept with once and someone she was in love with at one point. I'm done with the fight and just don't give enough of a shit about it so I say sorry. 

Was i an asshole for bringing that up?

bringing up that my girlfriend still follows her ex on Instagram