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Input: Hello, this is a throwaway account and I'm gonna do my best to keep my story vague because I don't want the person I'm talking about to find this.

I have a best friend, let's call them J. J and I have been very close for about 3 years now, and for 1.5 of those years, I have been living in a different state. I have come back to our hometown several times since I've moved, including a whole summer, and we would still hang out when I was here. When I'm back in my new state, we don't really talk much aside from snapchatting and posting about our lives on Instagram. 

J and I had a group of mutual friends, but nearly everyone in the group is or was immature at some point and there have been several falling outs between different individuals, but J and I have stayed close. I am the only member of the group that has moved. 

I mention our group because J has had a great deal of drama within this group, especially with the members of the other sex, because she has been involved in romantic relationships with most of them. After each one ended, things within the group were awkward for a while and J and her former boyfriend would almost never be close again. In addition to these \~4 guys in our group, she has had a series of small, short relationships with other guys that she met outside of the group. Each breakup was a bigger deal than the last one, and the way these guys broke her heart got worse and worse over time. 

So along with relationship troubles, J has always had mental health issues - anxiety, depression, etc. In all of her social circles (this friend group and people at her school), people have decided to gang up against her this year, and she has lost a great amount of friends. She tells me I am one of the only friends she has left, which makes me feel guilty for wanting to cut her off, at least for a while.

J makes me feel bad for still hanging out with our old mutual friends; in fact, she has always been extremely jealous and makes me feel guilty whenever I hang out with anyone that's not her when I'm in town. She asks me "how I could still want to be friends with" these people, but I've known some of them longer than I've known her! I used to cut out every friend that she had a talking out with, but after reflecting, I really regret it - I don't think I should have to cut someone out of my life just because J doesn't get along with them. Sometimes, she re-friends these people and then I have to decide if I should become their friend again too or not.

My main issue with all of her social issues that have been going on is that I don't live here anymore! I have an entirely different, new life in a different state and I really enjoy it. It doesn't make sense for me to still be this close and involved with someone who lives over 1000 miles away. I don't wanna get involved in her drama because it honestly doesn't concern me.

J has also rubbed me the wrong way occasionally throughout our friendship - constantly bringing up issues that are very sensitive or things she knows I am very insecure about. I have always had to pay for her - meals, groceries her mom needs, clothes that she either "borrows" from me or insists on making me buy for her because "her mom is broke" or something. I understand that money is tight in her family and its not my place to judge how other people manage their finances, but if she needs new clothes so bad, i'm sure her mom could find the money or they could get her secondhand stuff. 

I've always had a car and driven her everywhere we go together and I constantly picked her up from appointments, school, friends houses, etc. I was happy to do it but always having to give her a ride on top of always having to pay for her because she "had no money" or "forgot" her wallet puts the car thing over the top for me. 

I think the icing on the cake was when she compared her most recent serious relationship, which lasted a month or two (I was out of the state so I barely knew what was going on) to my relationship that lasted 1.5 years and involved long distance dating and my ex boyfriend moving from our home to this new state to be with me. My relationship ended 8 months ago, but I'm still transitioning out of it and she knows how upset the breakup made me. The way she implied these two relationships were the same was like a slap in the face - not to mention that hers was between two 15 year olds and mine involved me from ages 17-19 and him from 16-18. 

WIBTA for cutting her out of my life? I feel like she's asking an awful lot from me to be her friend and keep supporting her when I live so far away and have my own life to attend to.

cutting off my best friend who has become toxic