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Input: My husband and I got married in August at the JOP. My MIL, GMIL and parents were there. 10 minutes after the ceremony my stepdad asked when we were going to have a baby. Since then, he has brought it up every time we are around him, more so when other people are around. I think he’s looking for their validation or trying to get a conversation going about it. The first few times he asked, I would reply with something like, “Not any time soon,” or “It’s going to be a while.” I figured this was clear enough to satisfy him or would at least make him aware that this wasn’t something we were ready to discuss. My mom is usually quiet and doesn’t say anything when he does this.



Over the last few months he has gone so far as to share things on FB about a new grandchild. Every time he does, I ask him to remove the post because 1. It’s not his business to put out there and 2. Why does anyone else on FB care? I have fielded pregnancy questions from several family members after he does this. He removed one of the posts. 



My parents, my sister and her husband were at our house for dinner last week. My stepdad was talking to my husband, and I overheard just the end of the conversation. My husband pretended not to hear him to avoid even talking about it. My stepdad repeated himself, but loud enough that everyone heard him. He told my husband he was losing faith in us that we would ever give them a baby.



The way he said it made me feel like he thinks we are obligated to provide him a grandchild. It made me angry so I told him that if and when we have a child is none of his business. He told me to shut up, that he was joking. I said that he was not joking because of the frequency of him bringing it up every time we see him. I mentioned the FB posts he has made that he wouldn’t take down after I asked him to. I told him it made me uncomfortable being asked about it and that maybe we would not be able to have children and every time he brings it up, it hurts my feelings. I said he doesn’t take into consideration a number of factors that go into having a child, and I would appreciate it if he would stop talking about it until we decide we want to talk about it.



Eventually he told me I wasn’t allowed to speak to him that way, and he and my mom left. I apologized to my mom the next day for how I reacted because I know I didn’t need to yell, but not for why I was upset. I told her I wasn’t trying to put her in an awkward position. She responded by telling me how disappointed she is in me and that I crossed a line by speaking to him that way. I told her I am not a child any longer and if I don’t want to talk to them about something personal my husband and I are going through, I don’t think I should have to.




TL;DR my stepdad continually asks when we’re going to have a baby to the point it’s making us uncomfortable. I yelled at him and now my mom is mad at me.



AITA?


not wanting to repeatedly be asked when I'm going to have a baby