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Input: Keep in mind that this is indeed a high school relationship! I want to make sure all judgement is based off of accurate info! 

about 4 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend after 2 years of dating. After about a year and a half I felt that there was no reason to have her in my life and for her to have me in her life, but due to her steady struggle with depression and bipolar disorder, I felt obligated to stick around and help her in the sense of “mental health security” if you will. I showed signs of disinterest so that I wouldn’t be leading her on, but because she was so focused on the bad parts of life, she didn’t see that I was losing that romantic connection with her. Because of the 2 years of her depression, the negativity got to me to the point where I felt trapped in one spot as my moral compass demanded that I sacrifice my own well-being to assist her, not necessarily as a responsibility but as an act of human decency. The main reason why I wanted to stick around was because I knew that she was a dependent person and she always told me that a relationship only works with effort, and I tried everything I could to just be there for her, but the continuous cycle was putting me into my own state of a negative disposition. I knew that if I was unable to help myself, there was no way I would be able to help her anymore. 

As horrible as it felt, one day when she questioned my behavior, i decided to tell her the truth. Initially I wanted a break, meaning that I wanted to pause from the romantic stuff, as well as taking a break from taking care of her every single time she felt upset. I thought that it was unhealthy for her to end up depending on me all her adolescent life to the point where she won’t know how to help herself growing into adulthood. The more I thought about it, the more i realized how she only brought negative energy from my life that at the same time highlights our incompatibility: disapproving parents due to a thick religion barrier, an almost polarizing foundation of opinion, and even a big difference of self-interests. So upon days and days of thinking, I told her that I didn’t want to go on a “break”, but a full on breakup.

I don’t regret my decisions as now things are going great in my life, and I hear that she has gotten over it now, I think that i’ve made the right decision, assholian or not. 

I am however only a kid getting out of school soon to pursue greater things in my life, so I know this may seem like one of those “you don’t know what love is” scenarios, but I still would very much like to know if I ATA, for I improve off of criticism and all opinion (in my opinion) is a valid option to learn from. AITA?

breaking up with my girlfriend because of her unintentional toxicity and incompatibility