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Input: I’m on mobile, so I’m sorry if the formatting is terrible.

When I moved in with my friend, I said they can have their partner around for multiple days at a time if they pitched in with fuel money, bought us dinner, just did something to contribute to the house while he used our resources and (limited) kitchen cupboard space. That sort of stuff. Housemate agreed that was reasonable, so did their partner. Fast forward a few months and that doesn’t really happen. I don’t appreciate having their food here all the time even when they’re not around either.

I also asked if they could not have sex while I’m around. Just tell me and I’ll fuck off to somewhere for a while. It makes me super uncomfortable, especially considering we’re in a small place and our bedrooms share a wall. They always say I never know when they have sex, but I do. I’ve walked in on them about to have sex more than once, and I’ve heard them going at it multiple times too. All I’m asking for is a quick text or something from my housemate so I know to leave so they can have as much fun as they want.

I’m pretty tired of the things my housemate and I discussed being ignored, and I feel like asking that their partner doesn’t stay for extended periods anymore. They live 15 minutes away. It’s not as if it’s a long distance relationship and they never get to see each other. Neither of them drive, but public transport is abundant. There’s no reason they have to hole up here for days at a time.

Also housemate, if you see this, feel free to tell me if I am in fact the asshole as well.

not wanting my housemates partner around