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Input: I want to start off by saying that I know this might be a little selfish but I don't think my mental state could take it.

I should also mention that we had a bit of a flirtationship last year so our relationship is a bit complicated as is. 

My friend has been job hunting for a year and a half now with very little luck. He graduated college 2 years ago. I graduated a very recently but was lucky enough to get a job. We are in completely different fields, completely different countries. But I know if I tell him that I got a job while he is still unemployed he'll just go on about how he's still unemployed. I already don't think I deserve this job but hearing him talk about how he doesn't have one will make me feel so much worse.

My anxiety and depression are bad enough as it is. I feel like I need to settle into my new role properly and not feel guilty. Whenever I talk to him my anxiety gets so much worse. My mental state in general is fragile as is and I just know he will make things worse. I don't want to upset him. That would kill me. Am I an arsehole? 

Tl;Dr my friend is still unemployed 2 years after graduating college. I got a job recently right after I graduated. Telling him a got a job will just upset him and he will go on about how he's unemployed. My anxiety and depression are bad enough. So I haven't talked to him beside a quick how are you every so often. AITA

avoiding my friend in an attempt to not upset him