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Input: Going to try writing my first post as objectively as possible.Please bear with me.

Some back story: My brother is in his last year of University and has vehemently wanted to own a car for reasons that are pretty legit but I may not agree with. Some of the bigger reasons are how public transports are wasting his time(takes about an hour-ish), he can drive grab (a taxi service) to earn and pay for the car as well. Why I don't agree is because I've always felt that having a car is a luxury and where I'm from, public transport is convenient and ALOT cheaper compared to owning a car so it really is a debt to have before you even start a real job. And lots of working adults at my age can't even afford one. So letting him know my stance and advise was against his, i still trusted him enough to loan him money for a second hand car. (he wanted a first hand car initially) 

Also.. a very crucial point in this AITA post. I've always felt like my mum dotes on him more than me. If i hadn't stepped in to loan him the money, she would have "loaned" him the money a 100% and she would not have expected him to pay her back. At the same time she would always be seeking help from me for her financial issue that she never fully shows me full disclosure about. 

I don't have anything to gain by loaning my brother the money except the satisfaction of knowing he has to pay the money which in itself is a lesson worth learning isn't it? And also helping my mum to ease whatever financial issue that she seems to have or not have? or i guess some people just likes to scream poor. 

He has failed to pay me twice and i've told him that 3rd strike he's out cause he clearly can't afford a car. 

And today I happened to see a text from him on my mum's phone asking her to transfer money to him so he could pay me. I felt betrayed and upset that they were doing this behind my back. ( I already found out that she pays gas for him without letting me know).

So i confronted him with that text and told him i was disappointed in him and i could not longer loan him the money.

He replied me that exams were around the corner, he had some taxes to pay and there were big holidays during the month so he couldn't earn enough for the month's payment. And he apologized for not telling me because he was afraid I would be angry. ):

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I was upset about the betrayal by both but hearing his apology made me wonder AITA if i were to stop loaning him the money?

not loaning my brother money for his car anymore