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Input: I've been friends with X since I was in highschool, and now we're both well into our twenties. We've always had some common ground with video games, computers and smoking weed together. X always did have an appetite for weed, smoking whatever you put in front of them and always yearning for more. 

In the past few years I've taken up growing weed, both as a career and a hobby. Now, X really likes this because that means he has access to what I'd consider top shelf cannabis, and at an extremely reasonable rate to what he's used to. 

In the past year or two we've become better friends and I trusted him enough to housesit for our pets and my several plants while my SO and I went on a 5 day vacation. I paid X in weed and they were happy. We came home and all seemed well.

We went away again recently for a long weekend and X was happy to housesit in exchange for more weed, to which I accepted because then I don't have to pay out of pocket (we don't have a lot of money and are trying to save). X asks if I can pay him in advance so he has something to smoke while I'm gone, and I have no issue with it. I tell him "there's beer in the fridge and a grinder with weed in it for the weekend, enjoy!"

We come back from our trip and notice that our pets litter boxes aren't cleaned as well as we had agreed upon, and that some of them don't have water and very little food. Now, we don't know how long that went on. The sink is stained with black residue from cleaning out a filthy smoking piece, which irks me, but whatever. My SO is upset because the one litter box is very dirty and that just isn't what we agreed on or what we 'paid' for. My SO wants to indulge in some weed and go to bed, and we can't find some of our pieces. Turns out they were in the freezer because X is notorious for trying to scrape them clean for whatever kief/crumbs they can. I go to get weed from a jar and it's empty. I'm 99.9% sure I left a sizable amount in there before we left, and X would have known it was there. I assume they smoked it all and I'm peeved at this point. I look at my personal stash and find that X has dove into that as well, without permission or a heads up. 

I confront X about this and they admit to taking some of personal stash, but won't admit to clearing out the other jar. I tell X I'm not comfortable with having them around anymore and that I wish them all the best and he thinks it's a harsh treatment but respects it if that's what I choose.


It feels like the relationship is one sided, with me giving X unfiltered access to inexpensive, quality cannabis and always having a place they can come eat a warm meal and smoke to their delight. Maybe I enabled them? I'm torn. 

AITA for ending the relationship because they possibly got too comfortable and took some of my things without permission? 




ending a long friendship over possibly taking advantage of me