Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: While there are a couple recent situations that are prompting me to come to this sub, they definitely come from a pattern of behaviors that my BF and I may be engaged in. 

Also, be warned , these situations probably sound trivial af.

Situation/example 1: I have a couple projects that I am working on around the house. My bf made a passing observation to the effect of, “you’re working on your little project huh?” I told him that calling them my “little” projects felt a bit demeaning and tried to explain asking how if i asked him the same thing about his “little research paper” he may not appreciate it. He said that this was unfair because it is in fact a “small” project. 

Situation/example 2: My boyfriend likes to throw his dirty boxers at me. He knows this grosses me out and i think thats why he continues to do it. Today i couldn’t find our car key and he was joking about how he hid them at the bottom of the dirty clothes bin. He got a big kick out of picturing me rooting around in the dirty clothes looking for them. I asked him why he gets such a big kick out of doing this to me and imagining such a scenario and let him know if felt degrading. He immediately turned quiet and then went on to say we each do things to each other that we dont like for fun and saying its degrading is harsh.

AITA for bringing these feelings up?

telling my bf that some things he says and/or does feels demeaning/degrading to me