Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: For context, we are both adult women in our 20s. We have had conversations about personal issues and have mutual friends. We are not super close but I have trusted her with some personal information about me and vice versa.


She posted a photo on Instagram of herself in a light colored bathing suit. However some of the material around her crotch was backlit by the sun, making her labia/vuvla fully visible like she wasn't wearing anything. My phone brightness is always on almost full blast because my eyes are really bad, and the contrast on photos sometimes is a little extreme as a result. I didn't know if she was aware this could be visible. Tampering with my light showed unless someone has this extreme setting I do, it was invisible, which made me think perhaps she posted without knowing. 



I sent her a DM privately saying she was a grown adult so she can post what she wants/maybe it was intentional to share that, but let her know it was visible in case she didn't know. I've accidentally overshared and embarassed deleted photos before cause of something in the background etc I missed that shouldnt be visible, nip slips, etc - and would have wanted someone to warn me. I sent a polite message telling her I supported her wether or not she shared that kind of stuff. No shame, no shade, not trying to be creepy.




She responds getting really upset, telling me not to look at her vagina, being all around really sad and sounding scared, telling me only family should have come to her about that and sounding really creeped out. I apologized and said over and over I didnt mean to overstep and that I was not ill intentioned. She just seems so done with me now. I'm giving her space and avoiding her insta for a bit.


She deleted the photo and I feel really bad.


AITA?

dming an acquaintance to warn her about a potential overshare in a photo she posted