Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Going to say right off the bat, my title for this situation isn’t very good, and doesn’t do much justice. I’m just going to type out the scenario, and some of you can put your thoughts below, just ignore the terrible title. 
As for the person I’ll be bringing up here, I’ll just refer to them as Kendall, since I don’t want to risk any small chances of witch hunting to occur.

So Kendall and I have known each other for years. We met up on a social media site, and our only way of contacting each other, is through text messages. For the most part, things tended to be pretty laid back. We’d greet each other, say some nice things, and occasionally roleplayed. Nothing much happens in our conversations to be honest. 

But anyways, things started going downhill when I became a bit inactive. I would occasionally disappear for a bit, sometimes for a week or two, sometimes a month. Whenever this happened, she would get upset with me, and understandably so. I genuinely felt bad for not being able to juggle my life outside and inside the phone properly. Soon after though, there were times where she would randomly disappear, or wouldn’t say anything until I messaged her. So now both of us were guilty of doing this, but whenever it was her that disappeared, I never got upset about it. 

After some time, it started getting to me. I grew irritated whenever she got mad at me over this, as I’ve stated before, we were both guilty about it now. Eventually, I told her that it felt unfair for her to get mad at me like this, especially since I had always forgiven her whenever she was gone for a while. Just to give a little bit context, she got mad when I disappeared for a few days, when some time before, she vanished for a whole month. 

She didn’t take what I said too nicely. Kendall got mad at me for being open about how I felt, and began to spout out how she had been working her butt of in school so that she wouldn’t get beaten. To give some more context, not once had she ever brought any of this up to me. It came out suddenly, and randomly. 

Ever since then, we have been getting along off and on. One moment we’ll be cheerfully greeting each other, and the other, she’ll get angry over the following things: 

1. Me not responding too often. 
2. Me trying to break off our now toxic relationship. 
3. Me not asking about any of her hobbies, or checking up on her personal life. 

Mind you, she does all of this too, and kinda fails to catch this. 

I could go on about the details, but I don’t want this to go on for much longer. If you guys want anymore clarification on the things that have happened between me and this person, you’re more than welcome to ask. 
 
So, AITA? Honestly though, my post is a jumbled mess. I didn’t necessarily focus on the question I brought up, and I probably didn’t get into a lot of detail over some of the things here. Regardless though, I’d like to know anyone’s thoughts, and I’d be more than happy asking questions.





not saying anything months at a time