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Input: I have a large family with divorced grandparents and this means that every year for the entire week of Christmas I have 3-4 family gatherings to attend depending on the year.

My stepdad has been in my life for 12 years now...him and I have a lot of differences and have hit heads a lot in the past - we can get along okay and be cordial with one another but we really don’t have any kind of relationship outside of family gatherings..

My  stepdads parents live far away from us and we only see them once a year usually around the holidays ..In the 12 years I have known them I have probably only seen them 12 times but they have always been kind to me when we get together and they even send me birthday cards every year (which is pretty thoughtful and more than my biological family does)....I generally enjoy being around them...

this year from the 21st to the 26th I have 3 different Christmas get togethers to attend with my biological family and then my step dads parents get together is on the 29th. 

In all honesty I just don’t want to go...it is nothing personal towards them but after a full week of family get together I wouldn’t mind a day or 2 for myself while I have the time off of work and really don’t feel like taking the 4 hour drive ....part of me thinks “well my stepdad and I don’t even really talk anyways” but then another part of me feels that it is disrespectful to not go... 

WIBTA for skipping out on their family get together? 

not attending their Christmas party