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Input: I have always kind of suspected my parents weren't the best parents. I gave them the benefit of the doubt because they had 4 kids before age 26 so things were hard financially (then again it's entirely there own decision to have 4 kids they couldn't provide for).  I just recently had a child born in November and I have been ruminating a lot over my own upbringing. 

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The Good:

We weren't homeless, starving or unclothed. I was able to hang out with friends and maintain relationships.

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The Bad:

Physical abuse both my parents beat me pretty much weekly until I was 15 and moved out. My beatings were for small things like I didn't do the dishes or I was out late with friends. They would even drive around the city and find me at the park and drag me home for no reason other than it was too late; embarrassing me in front of my friends multiple times and making things awkward. I didn't do drugs, didn't skip school, didn't do anything illegal. They would put me down whenever I would try things my mom was born in Italy and I tried learning italian and showed her my progress but she told me my italian sucked. Whenever I tried learning anything frankly they shot me down and said it wasn't good. (tried learning piano for another example). They had no money for travelling, gifts, sports. I couldn't go on any school trips because they cost money, I couldn't play sports because it cost money, I wasn't given any tech toys like video games. Me and my sister decided to get a paper route because we wanted to have money to do things my sister wanted to do figure skating and was saving up for skates. I was 10 she was 11 and neither of us were old enough to understand finances, bank accounts, any of that so we asked our parents to open an account for us to deposit our money in. We worked for 1 year and my sister was doing calculations of how much we made and when she had enough for her skates she went to the bank at 12 and asked to withdraw the money but it turns out our parents never made an account for us and it was all a charade. the money was going to my parents to pay for their smokes or whatever else. My sister never got her figure skates and it wasn't until she was in University did she get to learn. We quit the paper route when we found out about this and talking to my sister recently now 20 years later she still feels sad about it. When I moved out at 15 I was on welfare, renting a room and finishing high school. I received no financial assistance from my parents ever. I had braces when I moved out and when I went to get them off I found out my parents never made a single payment and I was stuck with a $4,000 bill at aged 16 a hole that took me until 21 to climb out of. I luckily got into the #1 university in my country and did well and have a well paying job and will raise my child better than my parents ever did. 

  
Would it be awful of me to cut them out of my life for the way I was raised? I see my own child now and it really makes me so angry thinking of the things my parents did to me and I could never do that to my own child. I felt this way for a long time but it wasn't until my child was born did it really sink in how bad my parents were. 

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cutting contact with my parents