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Input: Me (F32) and my BF(M32) have been together 4 years. Every year, his parents book a week long holiday in June, for my BF, his son, and the parents. I've never been invited and I'm okay with it of course because I always want to encourage him to go and spend time with his family. I should also note that his parents have never accepted me, whenever I see them his parents ignore me, they've never asked me anything about myself or tried to include me in anything. 

Last week, his mum told us that she's booked the holiday and gave us the dates theyd booked and they're over my birthday. My birthday is in June but it's never clashed with their holiday before. Originally my boyfriend assumed that because she told us while I was there, it meant I was invited but we've since discovered I'm not invited. 

He said he won't go if he doesn't want me to, because it's my birthday, but I can tell he really wants to go. He also really wants them to invite me, but honestly even if I was I wouldn't want to go because I don't like the idea of spending my birthday with people who don't like me much. But I don't want to tell him not to go, because it's a week away with his parents and his son, and they always have a really lovely time. I've told my boyfriend a bit of how I feel but I feel really guilty like I'd be stopping him having a good time. I don't want to be a bitch, but I'm also frustrated because this could have been resolved if they just asked my boyfriend what dates would work instead of just booking them, and a bit hurt that after 4 years they still don't know when my birthday is (I don't expect them to know the exact date, but they could have at least learnt which month it was in)

asking my bf not to go on holiday