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Input: Brace yourselves it’s a long winded one.

So I’ve (20m) been friends with this girl (20f) since I started secondary school, so around 8 years. And in that time we’ve never dated, but I’ve been incredibly close to her, I have basically been her best friend and closest friend for all that time. She’s had several serious relationships in that time and all the while I’ve been in love with her. I didn’t tell her till around 6 months ago, we were both just chilling and for some reason we both started talking about “how come we never got together”.

Well I just came out with it, told her how hard it was for me over these last few years especially being the third wheel. I mean I have been in a couple of relationships, but all the time I was wishing it was her ( unhealthy as fuck I know). But surprisingly she said she felt the same, she told me she has had the same feelings about me for a while too. 

We make out, nothing too major and I go home, the next day I get a message saying we shouldn’t talk for a bit as she needs to clear her head, I think cool no worries, everything’s fine. 4 months pass and I hear nothing, I try messaging her but she leaves it on open. All until a few days before Christmas.

She messages me asking to meet up, me being over the heals in love with her, I just say yes. Invite her over and we talk for a little bit, she kisses me and we then start to have sex (escalated madly I know). Afterwards is nice again, we chill, I think everything is fine. Until she leaves and messages me the next day with the same thing, this time she feels like she can’t talk to me anymore. However a week later she asks me to transfer her some money (as she’s at uni) to help her get some food (around £50). And I still don’t hear anything back for a while.

Now I’m really upset and I don’t know how to feel, just confused and a little bit unsure what to think, have I been used? 

Any advice would be cool 

being upset after my best friend stops talking to me after having sex once