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Input: My grandmother is getting to the point where she can no longer live on her own. My family is clearing out a room for her to have in our house. We thought we had more time, but after a turn of events, she will be here tonight. We have to haul ass to get the room cleaned. 

Yesterday my boyfriend was very stressed about his homework that he has to get done. But we needed all the help we could get. So I texted him and asked, saying I *knew* he had homework but if *after* his homework he would be willing to come help. 

We had already had loose plans for him to come over after his homework anyway. But I did not rush him. I didn’t say he needed to come over immediately. 

He told me “I would love to come, but I’m not gonna be in the room working while your brother is playing games or in his room. I have lots of homework.”

My brother does have a tendency to help for a little while and then go to his room, and needs to be called back to work often. I did not defend this behavior. However, my brother was not home at the time and wouldn’t be for a few hours.

My boyfriend kept saying it wasn’t fair for him to come work if my brother wasn’t going to help as well, and he kept saying I was being insensitive to his homework. 

AITA for getting pissed at him for making it about himself? I agree that my boyfriend helping and my brother slacking isn’t fair, but this really isn’t about what’s fair. This is about my grandma needing a place to live/sleep and my mom and I needing help. 


getting upset at my boyfriend for not being willing to help me unless my brother also helped me