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Input: Her roommate, let’s call her X, is very opinionated, so I don’t particularly like her. She’s said things to my girlfriend that make me wanna reach through the phone and strangle her. She’ll say shit like “honestly you’ve eaten so shitty this week, you shouldn’t be thinking about yogurt” and my girlfriend just takes it because she’s too nice.

So this past weekend I drove up to see my girlfriend because she’d just finished midterms and I wanted to treat her (she’s a nursing major and *always* working her ass off). I’ve never met X in person because she usually leaves before Friday. I got there around 9ish and my girlfriend had just showered (she tries to get in a morning run every other day to de-stress). So while we’re packing up some of her stuff to leave, X starts saying some shit about cardio being stupid. Keep in mind, both my girlfriend and I were/are runners. But then she starts specifically targeting my girlfriend’s BODY, saying that running will make her scrawnier and less attractive than she already is. My girlfriend, of course, just laughed it off. And not that it would matter, but my girlfriend’s body fucking *rocks*. She’s got nice toned legs and a cute little butt, not to mention that beautiful smile.

At that point hearing her do this shit in person sent me off the edge. I told her to fuck off and to focus on herself because my girlfriend wasn’t the one who needed fitness advice. They both just looked at me and then X walked into the bathroom, slamming the door. After we leave my girlfriend gives the typical “she’s really sensitive and it wasn’t a big deal” spiel in the car.

Fast forward to last night and I call my girlfriend as usual. Awhile later X comes back in and they start talking, so I just sit back and let them finish. After 40 minutes or so, I say that I’m gonna go shower. But before hanging up, I hear X say something alone the lines of “it’s weird how he calls you ‘baby’ when he’s a baby,” and laugh, so I ask what she meant by that. She responds with “you’re literally still in high school, you’re basically a baby”. Then I just started cussing her out and telling her to grow the fuck up, etc. This time I hear her cry and my girlfriend hangs up.

My girlfriend is 2 years older and it was a big insecurity of mine when we first started dating because I didn’t feel like I measured up. I know it’s stupid but it’s something people tease me about, so I took it too personally. I still think X is a shitty person, but I feel bad after hearing her cry. I’m usually not that hot headed, but I hate the way she talks to my girlfriend.

I’m probably gonna end up apologizing either way because I feel like absolute shit, but I wanna know if her being a shitty person justifies me being shitty back?

TLDR; cussed out my girlfriend’s roommate for insulting her body and making fun of our age gap, made her cry twice


making my girlfriend's roommate cry