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Input: Okay so this happened a few months back but I have been wondering about it a lot recently. 

I was living with two other girls when I had an unexpected job offer I couldn't refuse in another state, requiring me to move even though I still had a good two months on my current lease. My relocation money covered the remaining rent amounts which I paid on time every month. I for all other intents and purposes had moved out though. I gave my keys to my family because they offered to make sure my room and the apartment in general were not trashed and then return the keys once the lease was up. 

Fast forward to the end of the lease and I asked my family if they had returned the keys yet. They said no because they were still planning on stopping by to check on the place. Cool. I thanked them for being such a big help since I travel a ton for work and wouldn't be able to make it in time.

A few days later I get woken up by a text from my ex roommate chewing me out for not warning them that my family was going to show up. And how they were really frightened by the whole situation. It was 2 people, my brother (who they had met on several occasions) and my grandma. I immediately reached out to my brother to get his side of the situation. He told me that no one was there when they first got there but when someone did show up, he immediately explained why they were there (clean, get pictures in case the apartment complex tried to hold my security deposit, and make sure nothing was left behind). And that they seemed fine.

Some background: both of them frequently had people over without any warning while I was living there. At one point one of the boyfriends was basically living with us. I said nothing at the time.

I can see how a heads up would have been nice but I don't think it was necessary or that I "owed" it to them. I think she was being a little over the top with her message about being terrified someone was in the apartment. It was not at all in a rough neighborhood and it is near impossible to break into that building. 

I told her I was sorry she felt that way but that there was nothing I could do to fix it at that point and that it wasn't done with malicious intent. I honestly didn't even think about them until that text, I just wanted to secure my deposit. So AITA for not giving a heads up?

not warning my roommates my family was coming over