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Input: My dad and his wife have a vacation condo at the beach. They live on the east coast and I live in Chicago, so I don't get to see them very often, maybe once or twice a year (last time was Christmas).

Anyways, my dad invited me and my wife to come out for a long weekend to stay at his condo. I'm looking at this as more of a trip to spend time with my dad, and less about being at the beach. Because of this, I asked my wife if I could go alone. If my wife tags along, it will change the dynamic of the trip and turn more into a vacation where we have to find entertaining things to do. Also, my wife works hourly, so any time she isn't working, she isn't getting paid.

My wife said it's not fair that I would get to go and she doesn't. She said that if she can't go, I can't go.

My wife went out to California to visit her family back in February. I stayed home because I don't know this side of the family well, but also because I wanted to give her some time to spend with them. I brought this up, but she said it's a different situation.

AITA for wanting to visit my dad without my wife?

tl;dr - I want to visit my dad at his beach condo alone, without my wife. My wife wants to go and says that if she can't go, I can't go.

wanting to visit my dad without my wife