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Input: So I've been close friends with a girl I met at university.
This semester was interesting because she started acting weird  (disappeared from a party  without notice and leaving me and my friends frantically worried about her not replying to our texts). She later confided in us that she was diagnosed with low grade depression. Me and my two other close friends ( J &amp; E)  were at ease that she was getting help.

Later,one day she texted me asking me if I could take her to the hospital. I asked her what happened and told her I could when I got out of work. She didn't respond. I was frantically trying to figure out if sometime major had happened if I needed to leave work immediately. No reply (although she was "online"). She finally picked up J's call in the evening and told us she had a tummy ache and was taking rest. Alright we thought it was cool and went on with our lives. 

But after that day she stopped texting us and even did not make eye contact when she saw E on the street. Yikes. A month later she reached out to us to talk. 

She said she was angry that no one checked up on her when she was sick ( we clearly did try). She also said that her recent diagnosis was affecting the way she was feeling and her actions. I  explained to her that her lack of communication made it seem like she wanted space and that's what me J &amp; E were doing. 

She starts texting back a little so I'm all yay no drama. All of a sudden she texts me thats she's mad I don't reply to her texts and snaps and told me I'm rude and mean. Yikes I check my texts and I have replied to every text, maybe not every snap but that's me with everyone.

I call bullshit and I told her I don't have time to deal with drama. My semester was already stressful. In my opinion I don't HAVE to be friends with everyone.

All fair and good we don't talk now. She still communicates with J&amp;E somtimes but even they are tired of her shit and aren't that close.

But here's where I'm conflicted. If my friend's depression is what is causing her to act the way she is, am I being too harsh on her? Everyday on social media she posts sad quotes and pictures with dark captions and I'm concerned about her but I also think it's a cry for attention.

She doesn't have many other friends and I'm a little scared her feelings would lead her to do something bad. 

So AITA for not taking my friend's depression seriously and not being there for her?




distancing myself from my friend going through depression