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Input: Throwaway account, I apologize if my english is all over the place, ESL.

I have a very nice family and they own a clinic, I was studying estetic medicine overseas and a week or so before I finished my studies my mom contacted me, asking if I had been working in mesotherapy while I was here, I said her that we were working with needle pen technique, she asked me if I could talk with the seller and order the equipment, I denied her request as there wasn’t enough time for the equipment to be delivered before my flight, she insisted that I should try, I explained again, she nagged me about how I had to do, and this time my dad also nagged me too, I obliged and said I will get on it.

I contacted the seller and asked for the catalogue and average time of delivery, I also pointed out that I had a flight already booked and that I needed the equipment before that date, she answered that there wouldn’t be problem with the delivery

I resent the catalogue to my parents, but because of the time differences between our countries they didn’t replied until the next day, this time they told me what I needed to order, I contacted the seller again with the order and she gave me the lab’s account, which was on a bank that dont exists in my country, my mom asked if she could pay with the credit card but the seller told me they didn’t had that option, so I had to use debt card, but because of the amount of money my mom could only transfer at an specific hour, which coincide with the hour the other bank closed (two different continents) so I called the seller and told her the issue, she said it wouldn’t be a problem as long as I did the payment first hour in the morning, which I did.

Two days pssed and the parcel didn’t arrived, the night before my flight I called my parents and told them about it, they said that I should try to wait in the morning before my flight but that if time wasn’t enough I prioritized my flight.

I called the seller, who told me the package arrived and was just pending to be delivered, I had little time so I asked for directions to the delivery office.

The office was half hour driving distance from the airport, so I prioritized the flight, I called the seller and she told me she would keep the package while I planned the delivery it to my country.

So I returned home and started to check the deliver. And here’s where things took an ugly turn, I called the seller and she told me she can’t file the delivery and that I should check for someone who could do that for me, also the prices are high, my parents started to nag me and say how I was irresponsible and that I should’ve cancelled the order, I replied that I was just doing what they told me and that I informed at every step the status of the transaction and that I didn’t feel comfortable taking choices about their money without consulting them first, they keep telling me how I was the one to blame about all this.

Was I the asshole for not doing a major choice on money that wasn’t mine?

not taking major decisions on my parent's money