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Input: So, my brother has a kid, he's 12 and kind of a spoiled brat. I love him because he's my nephew, but i don't want to babysit him. I'll get into why.


Last weekend, my brother had to do Christmas shopping, so he sent him to stay with me for the night. He had to wrap gifts and his son was always snooping.

 I have never babysat him before, or really spend long preriods of time with him. But He was absolutely unruly. I had housework to do and everything and he kept bugging me, about wanting to go out to eat. I tried to fix him something at my house but he made fun of my cooking, he spit it out and fed it to the cat. He screamed at me for 20 minutes to take him out to eat. My son had enough and just begged me to "Take him to dinner, he's not gonna shut up until he gets what he wants". 


So, i did. I just gave in. But he wouldn't tell me where he wanted to eat at. I drove past all these restaurants, but nothing interested him. So i begged him to tell me where he wanted to eat at, he eventually just blurted out this restaurant that's really expensive, i tried to tell him otherwise and we could go to a McDonald's or something, but he started kicking the floor of my car, screaming that he wanted food from this place. I got him his food, he ordered over 10 dollars worth of crap and when we sit down to eat, he eats about half of it and then complains that he ordered the wrong one. He wanted the spicy flavored food, not the regular. So, he threw another tantrum in the store, and i got it for him. He ate some of that, but threw the rest away.

Before we left, i bought something for my kids and on the way home. He ate 10 bucks worth of food, and when i look in the backseat, he's done chowed down on the food i bought for my kids too. So, we passed a Gamestop on the way home, and he asked me to stop. I said no and he threw another tantrum, i stood my ground but then he started throwing stuff out the window. I just did it, i had enough. I went to gamestop. But, evidently that was wrong too. He wanted a game called Battlefield, but they didn't have it. He started whining about that, even though there were hundreds of video games in that place, nothing there interested him. So, he threw another tantrum, he fell to the floor and started screaming "I want battlefield!"

So, i went up to the counter and asked "Please, for the love of God, do you have Battlefield in the back or something?", they actually did. He got me a copy and i paid for it and we left. On the way out, i bumped into an old friend of mine. I tried talking to them, but he kept pulling my arm, and he even grabbed pebbles off the ground and started throwing them at me.

We got back in the car and he had annother problem. Apparently i got the wrong version of Battlefield, he threw the game on the floor of my car. At this point i had enough, so i took him back to his father. But when i got there, he wasn't even wrapping anything. He was on the couch in his underwear, drinking a glass of wine. He got mad at me because i brought him back early. 

The first thing the kid did when he got was take out the battlefield game and show it to his dad. "Hey dad, look what uncle joe got me! Haha!" and he went in his room. My brother started yelling at me, he said he couldn't have that game because it was too violent.

I tried telling him about the damage his kid had done and he just said "Oh boys will be boys", i tried telling him he was an awful parent since his kids that bad.


Yesterday, he asked me to watch him again. I started shouting "Hell no! I will never babysit your little demon again!" I told him he needs to get him checked. Then we had a big argument, he brought up all the things i've done bad as a parent and how my kids turned out.

Seriously, what the hell is wrong with that kid? That is not normal.


So, am i the asshole here? Was i wrong to criticize by brother's parenting and not wanting to deal with his child? 

not wanting to babysit my brother's kid and critiquing his parenting