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So a bit of backstory. I (20M) developed a "friendly" relationship with my gay manager (57M), let's call him GM. We met 2 years ago when I was struggling to find a part-time job during HS. I applied at his store (sportswear retail) and got in. I feel like GM always wanted me either as a love interest or just as a fuck-buddy...

GM's parents died long ago, he only has 1 brother who neglected him up to recently because of his sexuality, never married or had any long-term relationships and is currently fighting a legal battle with his dead father's ex-wife who mind you is just a gold digging whore trying to take away half of his inheritance because she married him. However this this bitch is only 58 and married GM's father when he was 82 pretty much laying on his deathbed.

Anyway, so I know GM has a somewhat tough life. He got into my personal space when his car had broken down and he had nobody willing to drop him off. He lived underway my route home, so I didn't mind dropping him off. I had been dropping him off for about 2 weeks until his mechanical problems got solved. In the meantime GM tried everything to steer conversations to personal things and break down barriers to get me into his personal life. I feel like he got attached to me and now that he knew me a bit more personally and wanted more than me being his acquaintance.

Eventually he was inviting me over for fancy dinners, giving me gifts, offering help to get me a better job (which he did, I got into a bank due to his contacts). I took them but didn't know how to feel, but took them anyway. I never gave it much thought, now I know whatever people do for you they most likely have ulterior motives.

Fast forward to today, I moved away for college and GM got an even better job at the government, this job however is very demanding and stressful. I'm back in town for a few weeks and GM found out so he tried reaching out to me. This time he invited me to dinner at his house and told me how everything was going for him in his life. His brother finally accepted him, however he just took his retirement, sold his house and is moving to Ecuador. 4 of his family members died during the holidays one after the other and he's still disputing the gold digging whore in court to keep his mother's house. I feel bad for GM because he's literally a lonely guy who's got a lot on his plate, but he's an adult, he should figure it out. GM Later mentions that he'd like to go to the beach on Saturday and would like me to accompany him. I'm currently on vacation and have nothing better to do and oblige to being of his company.

Today GM calls and tells me, he's had a very rough week and wants to release himself, whatever that means. GM told me he wanted a man to take care of him and wants to go out for drinks, go to one of those uppity night clubs and just go all out for a night. " Just look after me and if I act stupid or try taking anybody home, stop me, and be on the lookout for if I have too many drinks." I politely declined because I don't want to babysit this 57 year old gay man who will potentially get drunk out of his mind and wants me to take care of him for the night. Besides, I was already going to be spending most of my Saturday with this guy at the beach. GM didn't care, GM wanted, let me rephrase, expected me to be there and babysit him for a night out. He then tells me I'd never have gotten any of the opportunities I got in life if it wasn't because of him. Mentioning how he got me my one of my first jobs and lobbying hard enough to get me working in a bank. I told him I'm not interested, would rather stay home and just don't want to be fucking babysitting him. GM tried to coerce me, saying that turning him down would mean I'll be off his book and not going to see him anymore and that he will no longer be doing "nice things" for me. I don't even care if he wants me to see him, I don't care if I see him or don't, I was only there out of pity and now I couldn't care less about whatever happens to him.

\*Note:\* I'm straight. I never went up to him asking for help. He offered himself all of the time. Now I know he's always been expecting something in return.

TL/DR a 55 year old gay man gave me my first job when I was 18 and he did all he could to get me involved in his personal life. I sometimes hangout with him because he has a lot on his plate and I pity him. He wants me to go out with him for drinks and babysit him if he goes overboard with the booze. I told him I didn't want to and now he's claiming I never do anything for him and that he's done everything in his power to help me. If I don't oblige to babysitting him he will never again try to help me with anything in life and will push me out of his life.

Am I The Asshole?

not wanting to babysit a 57 year old gay man