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Input: My dad's side of the family is kind of a lot and to be honest, I don't like spending time with them. We don't agree on politics, religion, or basically anything. I see them twice a year, give or take. They get a little drunk and loud and judgmental. I try to change the subject to neutral topics like baking so that we can avoid any drama, like the time I declined a burger with a brief "I'm vegetarian" and my aunt wouldn't hug me goodbye because "animals were put on this earth for our use" and I was going against the will of God.

My sister (30) is dating an older man (45, I think?) and when my aunts found out, they freaked out. There was a lot of drama and now they won't talk to her. 

I am gay. My immediate family is super cool and supportive about it, but I know that my extended family would not be. My dad is encouraging me to come out to my extended family.

Here's where the (potential) asshole part comes in. I think that if I came out to them, I would never be invited to one of their family events again. It seems like it happened to my sister. It would be so great to not have to spend time with them. We have nothing in common and they are kind of crappy people. So I leave it in your hands: WIBTA if I came out to them so that I wouldn't have to spend time with them again?

giving them a reason to uninvite me