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Input: My parents absolutely adore and support everything I do, and I cant thank them enough, except for me getting a nose ring. 

I am a 20 year old Male college student studying to become a music teacher. The place I work at finally allows piercings so I said fuck it and went out and got a nose ring. Everyone in my school loves it and I think it looks great. 

When I told my parents they flipped out. So much that they took 80 dollars out of my savings without talking to me because last week they gave me 80 bucks for groceries and I used it on the piercing. I absoutly did not use their money, I actually had 60 dollars in cash that I've saved up to pay for the piercing. 

They told me as long as I have the ring on my face they do not want to see me, and at the start of next month the top music group is having our concert and it took me 6 semesters to be in it so I am very proud of my accomplishments and would like my parents to be here for me. They will most likely not.

I should add that the first time we talked about it and they said that they didnt want to see me, I cursed them out. Hard. Which is a part of why they are mad and I can understand that part but I am more upset about them not wanting to see me

I talked to my dad today and he said a lot of things but it boils down to me looking unprofessional, recklessly spending money( but they dont bat an eye when I buy 60 dollar video games which is a few dollars more than this piercing) and I tried to convince him that after a while I can take it out as a please and honestly in the next few years I'll just let the hole close since I'm becoming a teacher but for the time being I want to keep it.

AITA for getting a nose ring? 


getting a nose ring