Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: TL;DR, my 11 year old niece posted a video of my 3 year old son on Tik Tok, I made her delete it. 

Long version: at Thanksgiving this year, my niece took my son into his room and was playing with him. My husband overheard her say, “K, say hi to the camera!” 

My husband asked her if she was posting videos of our son on Tik Tok. She said no. My husband pulled me aside, explained the situation and I asked her. She said, “Yes, but I’ll delete it.” I told her she needed to be sure to delete it. 

We don’t like posting stuff about our son online. Mostly because he can’t really consent, we feel like children are exploited online, and not everyone needs to know every detail about your kid’s life. I will, occasionally post pictures of him to my private Facebook account. We have aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins that live across the country. Sometimes a picture on Facebook is easier than a group message with 20+ people. 

Anyway, my niece’s dad sent me an incredibly long message saying we hurt my niece’s feelings and we are being a bit anal and overreacting. 

But am I the asshole? 

asking my niece to delete a video