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Input: Here is a little back story. I dated this person for a little under 3 years around 8-10 years ago. We were both in our early 20's and she has a then 1 year old son from a previous relationship. She told me the kids father was a dead beat dad and beating her and what not (found out later all of that was a lie). I played acting father figure to the kid when we were together so he met my folks and entire family. We never had any of our own and I am still not a father to any children. So anyways, her whereabouts and other things start to not ad up and I get a bit suspicious over the time we are together but just cant quite make sense of it all... and then her boss calls me concerned about her safety. This of course is a few days after she has explained to me that she has been fired and hasn't been going to work. Apparently I'm the emergency contact she wrote down on the application that's on file and the boss and I have a nice chat about her current employment. I promptly call her and tell her what has transpired and she comes up with yet another bullshit story. Needless to say I drove my happy ass over to her place after work and I told her it's over. I met with her son and sat him down face to face and I cried right then and there when I told him I wasn't going to be around anymore. That was honestly the hardest part of the entire break up by far.

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Fast forward a year after we split and the kids dad is fighting for custody and she gave him up entirely. The state is after her for medical neglect.  The kid has Diamond-Blackfan anemia and the entire time we were together she neglected his condition and he was hospitalized at least twice while we were dating. I didn't know the severity because she downplayed the condition and she seemed to have it under control to my knowledge with the lies and all. Little did I know that when she was supposed to be going to doctors appointments she was pawning him off on her sister and doing other things. Turns out the dad is a stand up guy and was only trying to be there for his son this whole time!

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My parents have continued to play the grandparent role to the child and have been in contact with the kids dad and his new stepmom this entire time. The biological father and his wife give him to my folks when they need babysitting duties. I have absolutely no problem with all of that. Like not even a little. That kid has had a rough life thus far! Especially with his mom being the dumpster fire that she is and I'm glad he finally has a support network.

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I made a choice a long time ago that I needed to leave the painful memories of that toxic relationship behind me and move on with my life. I thought that the young age of the child would help him forget about me especially since he can now make new meaningful memories with his biological father. My parents have not let that happen. They constantly try to get him back in my life. I've told them how I feel about it and they ignore my wishes. I don't care if they have him over for the holidays and what not. I have just exclaimed that i'd like them to keep me out of it entirely.  It's a bit embarrassing explaining this to every person I've dated since her and also my now wife when they mention their "grandson". 

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AITA for refusing to have him in my life? 

refusing to see an ex's kid who is not of any relation to me 8 years after we split up