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Input: My roommate and I have lived together for over two years at this point. During this time, we've both been fairly messy as we've gone through various stuff in life, and are mid-twenties dudes. We've lived with other awful roommates, and have always gotten along great. At this point, it's just us and one other guy who we like. All three of us have been very close friends for over 10 years.

Since we moved into this apartment last year, which is nicer than anywhere we've lived before, we've both expressed the desire to keep this place clean. It's been okay, but is still messy. The thing is, I am a lot cleaner than him. I am take the trash out literally 90% of the time. I have been the ONLY person to clean our bathroom the entire time we've lived here (the third roommate has his own). He's gone on week-long-vacation a couple of times and has left a bunch of dishes out.

The thing is, I feel partially responsible because I haven't ever really complained about it to him before.

Recently, he's been really depressed. His girlfriend moved across the country a month ago, and he got laid off from his job a week ago. He's gained a lot of weight, and while I've tried to do what I can to be there for him, I can't exactly take responsibility for his mental health.

Over the last few weeks, it's gotten to the point where I come home from working 10 hour days every day and spend 20 minutes cleaning the kitchen, sweeping, etc, before I even feel like I can sit down and relax. I tried to really gently bring it up, and he was amicable -- but nothing has changed. If I try to bring it up more forcefully, given what he's going through, would I be an asshole?

asking my recently laid off roommate to help keep our apartment clean