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Input: So my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago. It was a volatile relationship and the last 8 months were long distance. We had some issues between us, there was physical abuse on my part and I feel emotional abuse on her part. I think we were both relieved when it was over. I met someone like a week after and we started dating. My ex was not ok with this and we ended up cutting contact completely instead of remaining friends. I was the one that initiated by saying that we shouldn't talk for a bit. Our last conversation she told me that she would tell me that she would tell me if she never wanted to hear from me again, she wouldn't block me, and she wouldn't just simply ghost. She was going to go to therapy to deal with the trauma from the relationship and figure out what she wanted from me first. However, she immediately blocked me from everything on social media. I didn't think much of it, thinking that she was just purging and trying to move on. She got me banned from some local clubs by telling people about the physical abuse, saying she didn't feel comfortable having me around. When my new girlfriend reached out to her saying how having me banned was distressing and how we could all move forward together, she blocked her as well. 

As the months went by, things got more serious with my current girlfriend and I might be leaving the city soon. I wanted her to know that I might be leaving so she could still have a chance to check in with me if she wanted. I just want to be able to help her move on. I also don't know anything about her, I don't know if she's just hiding from me or not, and I am slightly worried about her. I sent her a message on whatsapp and told her that I didn't want to scare or distress her, that I might be leaving the city soon and I am here if she wants to check in. She blocked me. I found out I was blocked everywhere. I sent another message to an old google voice number saying that I would appreciate a check in and she blocked me from there as well. I started to get so worried about her. I drove all the way to her parents house to ask them about her and see if I can help her in any way. Her dad threw me out. 

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She then sent a message to my friend, telling him that I had the audacity to show up at her parents house and that if I try to contact her or her family again, she would call the cops. She implied that I was stalking her. I'm not! I was just trying to help her and I was just trying to figure out how to move forward. She promised she wasn't going to ghost and she wouldn't block me and she has. She also promised she would tell me if she never wanted to hear from me again and she didn't. She just sent a message to my friend warning me to never get close. Am I the asshole here??

contacting my ex to check in on her after she promised she wouldn't ghost