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Input: I won't say what show I was at but we had floor seats in the very back row. They were $80 dollar tickets.

I'm a pretty tall girl, so I can usually step on my toes or move over a little to get a line of sight to the stage. I still have to look through the heads of the very tall men ahead of me but it's floor seats...I pretty much expect that to be the experience.

A rather short girl and her boyfriend took their seats ahead of us and when the music started, I saw her craning her neck to get a view. I'm thinking "damn that sucks, being short is the worst."

She proceeds to get up in the seat and lean over her boyfriend's shoulders. She asks the guy next to me if it's ok, he says yes, but she doesn't ask me.

Now half the stage is blocked from my line of vision by her ass. Normally, not a problem, but in this case I'm here to see the band, not her ass, and I'm stunned that she didn't ask me if I minded since I would've told her "yes, I do actually." She seemed like a perfectly normal, likeable girl wanting to have fun. But in that moment I just looked at my husband and said "seriously?"

A security guard happened to be walking by at that point while I was wrestling with wether to poke her and say something. So I got his attention, pointed at her. He nodded, had her get down, then walked by and I said "thanks."

She saw me tell him thank you and I'm assuming put two and two together. 

I proceeded to enjoy the show, full of heads in my vision but no butts. She proceeded to feel up on her boyfriend while glaring at me. 

So while I don't think I'm the asshole for not wanting her to stand up in the chair right in front of me, I'm wondering if I'm the asshole for not asking her personally to get down. Maybe she would've said sorry and been fine with it. Maybe she would've gotten down and still think I'm a tall bitch with no empathy.

I'm thinking it's not my obligation to spend all that money and open up a conflict and the security guard was doing his job. 

Maybe it's like the countless home owner association things where the person is a dick for not handling it themselves. 

I just wanted to watch the show and not delve into drama.

Am I the Asshole?

asking security to get a girl off the seats at a concert