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Input: We have five month old twins who still aren’t sleeping through the night. I’m staying at home until they start going to school, and my husband has a job where he is very busy February-April. The situation with both of our moms isn’t ideal. My mom: not sure if she’s one of those narcissistic moms, but definitely super defensive, can be very selfish. She is the only reason I have felt upset and alone since having the twins because of this behavior. His mom: my husband and I had a mild falling out with his parents for about a year before we had the twins. Things have been better since, but before they just weren’t very supportive when we needed their help, and they are extremely overbearing, impulsive people. 
Needless to say, I would rather just have my husband and I handle our babies in a caregiver role. I give his mom credit for trying to make an effort to do better with respecting our boundaries, but I guess I’m just not over the years of craziness prior to this. My husband thinks that since he’s busy at work, that asking our moms for help should be my first option. I’ve agreed that I need to suck it up during this time, so I went to my moms for a week a handful of times, and it just doesn’t fully work out. There’s tension, she questions everything I do with the babies, it’s just miserable overall. His mom works, so she would only be able to help in the evenings for a few hours anyway. 
I try my best to do it all on my own, but every once in a while I don’t get enough sleep and need a break. This is when my husband rolls his eyes that he has to rearrange things at work and help me more when I really don’t want to have our moms help. So, am I the asshole for being stubborn on this?

preferring my husband's help with our twin babies instead of our moms' help