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Input: Background:
I have a work friend, “Jesse”. We don’t hang out other than work functions and work. I like her as a person and focus on her good side. Her office mate, “Mindy” is an insincere bitch, happy to your face talk behind your back type. We get along OK but I don’t like her that much. Then there’s “Ken”, young and nice, I joke that I want to fix him up with my nephew, but he has “flavors of the week” so no go. Joking around together all of the time with all of us until the last couple of months. 

We used to all laugh together. Lately, our family-like work group has split in two; the clicky “Bermuda Triangle” and the rest of us (5). We all blame Mindy because she has been the same all over no matter what department. She brings down the impressionable Jesse and Ken to her level. 

Oh, and they are trying to get another coworker fired. He is their supervisor, space cadet, but works hard. They are in their smart phones half the day and complain about how busy they are. They leave 7 minutes early (the cutoff time) every single day. They set the space cadet up for mistakes. They ask him to do their work because they are “too busy” and then complain and blame him when they do things they told him to do. 

HERE IS WHERE I FUCKED UP. 
Jesse made a huge mistake. I don’t write people up because it’s not my style. I cannot even remember the last time I did because it has been YEARS. Since Jesse and Mindy are trying to get space cadet fired and setting him up I wanted to even the score. 

Well, Jesse found out it was me and confronted me. I apologized to her and said I was pissed, it was impulsive, I’ve been under a lot of stress lately and have been losing sleep. (All true). This incident happened and it was a major scheduling fuck up, and the family was very angry. Jesse said I should have given her the chance to explain (well HA- the Bermuda Triangle all 3 called out sick that day during the busiest clinic of the week.) I said I know your angry, I know it will be a while before you can forgive me. She said “I’m not angry, I’m disappointed, you don’t have to ask for forgiveness let’s move on and yada yada blah blah blah. 

What pisses me off is that I know she is angry, the Bermuda Triangle practically UNfriended me on FB (but did the next level down (took a break which is almost like blocking). ALL of them. It’s none of the other two’s business this is between Jesse and I. And I’m thinking, don’t ducking tell me you are not mad and then completely ignore me at work (like saying “goodbye Space Cadet have a good weekend” but saying nothing to me when I was next to him. 

I don’t know why I’m hurt. I know I was wrong in some ways. My husband told me “if she is the type that will throw Space Cadet under the bus maybe she is not the type of person you want to be friends with. 

But I always see the good in people and downplay the bad. I don’t care about Mindy, she is a bitch. I’m a little sad about Ken, but really hurt about Jessy. 
I’m not sure what to do. I’ll maybe post in AITA too. 
TL;DR: I wrote up a friend with shady work ethic. She found out and is being a bitch to me even though she said she accepts my apology. 
AITA?

writing up a friend at work