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Input: So, I never thought of using this sub, but apparently my time has come. I will try to keep myself as short as possible.

My brother „X“ and I were at a concert. we met there the girls which later became my girlfriend and his girlfriend. Our gf‘s are friends and usually spend a lot time together and because we all get along together well the four of us also spent a lot of time doing city trips etc.
Time goes by and we also get to know the family of each of my gf and X gf (mum, dad, relatives, friends)

So everything was going great, but my brother and his gf started to get in trouble with time. After a year they finally broke up.

What happend next is what fucked up the whole thing. the cousin of my gf which was befriended with my brother started to meet up with the ex-gf of my brother (this was after the breakup). they did this without letting anyone know, and then somehow it got to someone and details got up. apparently they were partying together, kissed each other and almost slept together.

So my brother is mad at the cousin and the ex-gf because they were messing with each other after their breakup.

And now the main deal, my gf has her birthday coming up and she wants to organize a little party for her family and friends. She wants to invite everyone (my brother, his ex and the cousin). The problem is my brother won’t come if he sees the cousin or the ex-gf. The ex probably won’t come if the other two come and the cousin is okay with the situation and would accept if one or both of them would be at the party. 
My girfriend is mad at me know, that I‘m not able to solve this situation and that one or two of them won‘t be there for her at the party. according to her I should force my brother to come to the party because its her birthday.
she thinks that in the future she‘ll have to split every activity and event into different „phases“ (with my brother, without him / with the cousin, without him / with the ex-gf, without her ...)

hope you understand my situation.
So reddit, tell me your opinion.




"not seeing/reacting" to a weird situation between my family and gf