Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I had a major fight with a friend, because he was being dishonest and lying a lot to me. 
Despite the fact that I still believe I was right to confront him about the lying and deceiving, I realized I could’ve handled the situation better and that I fucked up. So I apologized multiple times but he said he is done with the friendship and that he doesn’t want to ever talk to me again (this was in October/November). 

He was actually really important to me so I decided I’ll give him some time and try again. We met up a couple of weeks later and he totally shut me off and told me he is moving away in April so there’s no reason for him to talk to me again anyway. I was sad about his choice and tried to accept it.  The reason I tried so many times was because the things I said were really hurtful (despite being true), plus I know him very well, he usually needs time to calm down.  

Around Christmas I saw that his favorite artist is going on tour and I managed to get two really great seats, the concert was sold out shortly after. So I wrote him a card of how much our friendship meant to me and told him maybe we can still work things out and that I wanted to take him to said concert.

He instantly forgave me and told me maybe we should have another talk after Christmas to work things out. Even tho it was kind of a surprise I was really happy that he forgave me and I looked forward to talking to him. 

Well, he never contacted me again, so I asked him in February if he still wanted to talk about things, but he made excuses and said he was super busy.

Anyway, we met three days ago (after three months) and I realized that he doesn’t want to be friends again, he just wants to go to the concert and I’m pretty certain go NC after. He couldn’t care less about me or our friendship. 

So I am thinking about not taking him and not telling him. Will I be the asshole if I do and if so, is it ok to be an asshole in my situation or what should I do?

not taking a "friend" to a concert anymore