Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: tifu...

i freely admit that this actually happened a couple of days ago but it's taken me this long to really process what a complete idiot i've been.

background:
i'm a guy, who was dating a guy. a really nice, genuine, kind guy. we hadn't been dating long when a whole lot of stuff went down in his life and we broke up. heartbreaking but i empathise with his situation so we move onto friends.
my feelings about him cause me to fuck up our friendship. not once, not twice, but three big fights later and we're okay.

my royal fuck up:
my new friend/ex-boyfriend gets on grindr (gay dating app). i'm already on grindr. he blocks me so i don't find out so as to protect my feelings. i notice that i'm blocked and kind of have a complete meltdown on him (*full disclosure* i was high as a kite and had just been having a cry over some personal stuff i wasn't dealing with - probably shouldn't have messaged him considering my state). told him that i didn't want him to ever speak to me again, told him that he's always hurting me, blah, blah, blah. you know, all that crap.
queue him actually doing what i want. fantastic i think! i'm now hurting like a bitch but at least he can't hurt me anymore right?
well no... it turns out i'm the problem because i'm messed up with my emotions and couldn't deal with him on top of everything.
now i want him back as a friend and there's nothing i can do to make it better!!! he won't talk to me and i've apologised like nothing else. :(

TIFU by being a really bad friend