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Input: So I've been best of friends with a girl I met a few years ago, before I started dating my now fiance, we'll call her Marta.  She's been stanning our relationship since day one. Has basically been saying she's going to be my bridesmaid if we ever get married. 

Over the years she's become one of my closest friends and I'd do anything for her and she seemed to feel the same way.  She's also kind of a flake due to some severe social anxiety, but mostly, has been there for me and has really cared for me.

December, my boyfriend proposed to me and she couldn't be more happy about it. Her dreams come true, she totally knows she's gonna be my bridesmaid. We set the date for May 16, 2020 and she's known for weeks.

I officially ask her to be my bridesmaid last week, card and gift and all.. she's thrilled! Next day I get the text that she didn't put 2 and 2 together.. she's booked for May 16, 2020. Her friend from growing up owns a dance studio and she does the photography/lighting for this three day dance recital. No one else can do this job.  She's not getting paid for this, it's totally volunteer, and it's 15 months from now. She's not even trying to find a replacement. She's flaked. 

I feel like she's choosing a volunteer position over my wedding.  She has said that dance is a big part of her life and it's really important to her.  She says I should be more understanding.  I can't see myself staying friends with her after this. AITA for cutting her out?

tl;dr my best friend has a volunteer commitment 1.5 years in advance and is choosing that over being a bridesmaid in my wedding.



wanting to cut my friend out of my life for not coming to my wedding