Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Okay, so this is starting to happen quite regularly now.

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I'm a student at university and I also work part time to support myself so needless to say, my schedule is pretty tight. I try my best to keep a social life and hang out with people. The thing that bothers me is that every time I make arrangements with someone, it doesn't work out and it always follows the same pattern.

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We decide on a day to go grab a drink or whatever. That day, we text confirming the plans. Few hours before we're supposed to meet, I get a text that they need to meet someone else before (or do something else, whatever) and they are not sure, when the will be free, so we agree that they'll let me know. Radio silence then. I text them a few time asking to let me know if they'll make it and if, give me some estimate to know when to prepare and stuff. No answer.

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It starts to get kinda late so I get fed up, start watching a movie or do something for school. Then, a response, usually pretty late at night to meet them at \[insert a place that's like a 30 minute subway ride away\]. At that point, I don't feel like going out anymore (and spending money on cabs as public transport sucks after midnight and I live in a pretty big city). I just tell them I won't come. After that, I always get the "we never hang out" and "you can't ALWAYS be busy".

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I am starting to feel like the asshole as this keeps happening quite often (more often than I'd like). Am I a control freak for expecting people to just take the time out of the day if we agreed on it (or at least let me know not at the last minute)? Am I the asshole for feeling quite angry at the people and not wanting to see them after?

not hanging out with my friends