Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I have two girlfriends I care about very deeply. This is completely in the open and they know about each other - I’m not cheating or hiding it or anything like that. I’ve been dating Kayla for 10 months and Lauren for a year and a half. I’m 24, Kayla is 22, and Lauren is 23.

Although I came from a lower-class family, I have done very well for myself. I still do a 9-5, but I have a lot of spending money. Both Kayla and Lauren are in grad school with a modest stipend, so I virtually pay for everything when we go out.

I’m madly in love with Kayla, and I love treating her to nice things. The sparkle in her eyes makes me giddy. She had a rough life growing up, and I really want to show her the world. I’ve taken her on several international vacations, many Michelin starred restaurants, etc.

I care very deeply about Lauren and have taken her to nice restaurants, concerts, etc, but I haven’t spent nearly as much on her as I have on Kayla. If I had infinite money and time, I would love to take her travelin with me, but I have limited resources. 

Recently I told her that Kayla and I were going to Fiji for two weeks and she blew up on me complaining that I never take her anywhere. I point out that last month I probably spent $1500 on her between play tickets, dinners, and bar tabs.

She is making me feel like an asshole for not spending more money on her. Am I? I think I’m being generous as is.

not spending more money on my girlfriend