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Input: **Context**: my dad remarried last year. His new wife never had any children of her own;  when she came into the picture, my siblings and I were living independent/semi-independent lives. She's lovely, but very spoiled and sheltered for a woman in her mid-fifties. I have seen the woman cry because she doesn't get her way, it's not pretty.

I'm a solo mum to a very well-behaved seven year old and finishing my BA. Usually, he goes to class with me and he actually likes it, but I have a three hour class once a week that ends around 10 PM. My dad and his wife live close by, they love playing the part of the indulgent grandparents, and my dad's wife is okay with watching him once a week.

**Problem**: last week when I picked my kid up, he was bawling over trivial shit. My dad's wife asked him to not take home a book - this specific book had been my brother's, but he gave it to my dad, who in turn passed it on to my kid - thinking my brother still wanted to keep it. We go home and he insisted he was upset over the book, but I had the feeling it was something else.

I mentioned this to his counselor and after his weekly play therapy session, she tells me that my kid expressed why he's upset. My dad's wife has been having her older brother over for dinner nearly daily and she's pushing my kid to interact with him. The main issues my son has with this are:

* all my kid wants to do after being done with his homework and reading is to be left alone to play Minecraft or with his toys;
* my dad's wife will turn off the tv/take away the tablet/shoo him out of her bedroom so they can all have dinner and "family time" together, calling her brother my kid's uncle;
* my son just doesn't like her brother (he calls him "the sad adult", which is ... accurate), so pushing interaction between them makes my son feel deeply fucking annoyed and uncomfortable.

My kid's counsellor tells me he's having trouble expressing the big feelings of frustration and stress that pushing these interactions on him is causing him, and it translates into outbursts like crying jags over "nothing".

My dad insists that something is wrong with my kid, anything from blood sugar to "sociopathy" (which, what the fuck, dad?). I am hesitant to mention to him what the actual problem is, because I pretty much know that telling them what the real problem is will mean dealing with a middle-aged woman throwing a tantrum.

I've decided to take my kid to that class with me from now on, since I'm three weeks away from finishing the term anyway and also because I'm not okay with this situation.

So, WIBTA if I point out to my dad and his wife that her pushing her family (and, more specifically, her brother) on my son and me and calling them our family is the problem, and that this shit needs to end ASAP?

telling my dad's wife her family's not my family