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Input: Hello people,

I went on a vacation to my other country. I wanted a wooden box to store a silver plated 1911, so I asked my uncle if he knew someone who could do that for me. He said to me "I know a guy he's a friend and he does great work". I said great let's go see him.

We got to his shop and I gave him the dimensions and the specifics like the color of the varnish (I wanted a brown finish) and the lock on the box (I noticed the locks on the box he had where put upside down), I told the guy to put the lock in the correct position for my box. 

I know for a fact that in this country you should never give any money until you have the finished product in hand. Otherwise you might not get what you paid for. So I left the shop without giving any money.

2 weeks later I ask my uncle to ask the guy if it's almost done. He said it just needed a lock and it was difficult to find. I said okay but my plane leaves in 3 weeks. I kept calling every week and same answer until the final week where my uncle took the initiative to go get it for me. I saw the box it was absolutely not what I ordered:

\-Lock put upside down

\-No varnish on the box. The box was yellowish

I was leaving in a few days and told my uncle that I'm not paying for that and I will return it. He got really upset and the following discussion took place.

Him: Take it anyway.

Me: No, the guy didn't follow any of my instructions, he can keep his box.

Him: But the box is already paid for!

Me: What? When?

Him: The day you placed the order.

Me: Then no wonder he kept jerking me around with that stupid lock! Why did you do that?

Him: Because he's my friend!

Me: You should never have paid him, and especially not behind my back when you know how bad they are at doing business in this country. I'm not taking the box looking like that.

Him: Fine I'll keep it for myself but you're an asshole! Don't ever ask me if I know a guy for anything ever!

I was really disappointed to see that box I was waiting for all this time, and even more at my uncle for doing that. It was not the same between him and me for the remaining days. He acted like I was 100% at fault which I think I'm not. This is why I want an outside opinion.

AITA?

refusing a wooden box I ordered