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Input: My girlfriend are long distance(Kind of, ~1hour drive). We basically only see each other on weekends as we have school and work on weekdays. We try to switch houses weekends to keep things fair. 

This upcoming weekend is her weekend but a school club I recently joined is having a party on Friday night. I knew this a week ago and I checked in with her to make sure it was okay for us to go and asked her if she would want to take the bus down to my house, go to the party that night, and then take the bus back up to her house for the rest of the weekend. She agreed to travel down on her weekend. Other small notes: We are also going to a friends going away party Saturday night in her hometown and I have also agreed to DJ this party and judge the competition going on that night.

Then on Tuesday, her new job told her if she could work on Friday night and she agreed. Since she now works on Friday night she can't get on any buses to take her down to see me since there are no buses running that route that late at night. We are both trying to save money since we don't have that much so she doesn't want to drive her car down. I did tell her that she shouldn't go back on her word since it's a new job and she should do everything to look good towards her new bosses. 

Now she wants me to cancel my DJ gig and my judging that I had already committed to, to come up and spend that night with her. I agreed that I can just come up the next morning after the party but that isn't good enough for her and she wants me to come up as soon as I get out of class on Friday. She says that since it is her weekend and she wants to see me, that she gets priority and that I should cancel going to the party.

I understand we don't get to see each other as much as we want to but I feel like I took every right step towards making sure it was okay to go to this party and it was her mistake to agree to working late that fucked things up. I also understand that it's her weekend but I already made my commitment to my friends to go to the party when she told me it was okay to do so. This club is also a great group of friends that I want to hang out with more. She thinks that since I want to go to the party, this means that I value the new friends more than her. So that's where things are now. Am I the asshole for wanting to go to this party when my girlfriend can't go?

wanting to go to a party instead of driving up to see my girlfriend