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Input: For reference, we are both RN’s working on different units as Charge Nurses. I’ll call her Mattie. For the past few weeks, we have had an issue with our 3-11 aides disappearing, leaving the unit and just overall not doing their jobs on her unit. On Super Bowl weekend, my aide brought Mattie’s patient from the TV room where Mattie’s aides were sitting and watching the game instead of being on their unit. The aide for the patient knew he was vomiting everywhere and still sat on her ass while my aide took him back to his room and asked me to page his aide to the room since she was obviously unconcerned about the situation. And I did page the following “CNA assistance needed to room so and so and as a friendly reminder if you are not on your designated break or lunch, you are to be on your assigned unit.” Well, Mattie gets pissed off at this and tells another nurse that she is going to report me to the DON. So I call Mattie on the work phone from my office to hers and ask what the problem is with me paving the cna. She denies that she has said anything and says explicitly that she has no problem with what I did. Immediately after this, she states to the same nurse that I must be afraid of her calling the DON on me since I called her about it. She left shortly after this so I called her on her cell. She didn’t answer so I texted this “I don’t understand what your problem seems to be with me, but I have no reason to be afraid of you or anyone else for doing my job. Your patient was actively vomiting, your aide was sitting on her ass watching the game when you allegedly couldn’t find her so if anyone should be “scared,” it should be you. Honestly we are both too old for this. You are old enough to be my mother and I’m not the one for this petty, childish drama. So just stop.” 

She didn’t reply but later reported me for “making her cry” 

Am I the asshole? 

confronting a coworker over her shit talking behind my back