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Input: For context; I've been living with a host family for 6 months now, while going to school abroad. Our relationship is pretty good, esp. between me and my host mom.

So, my host mom has started using the coffee machine early in the morning (around 5-5:30 am), multiple times over a period of around 20 minutes. I figured, if she just wanted coffee, she'd just run it once, so I thought she was cleaning it or smth.

The problem is, that the coffee machine is really loud and has been waking me up a good 2 hours before I'd normally get up for the last few weeks.
Today in the car, I asked her politely, if she could use the coffe machine a little later and explained why. Didn't think it'd be biggie, cause we have a good relationship.

She then got pretty annoyed, explaining to me in a quite sassy way (calling me "honey ", and not in a nice way) that she goes to the gym at 5:30 and needs the coffee. Because I didn't know that, I told her it's fine and she doesn't have to do anything about it. (I personally still think, there's ways to work around that, but I'll manage).

Later on, she started acting quite reserved towards me, but I didn't notice it back then. In the evening, I told her she didn't have to prepare dinner for me, cause I was gonna eat the left-over pasta from yesterday. We'd obviously still eat together as we do everyday.
She then looked me straight in the eye, asking "Why?". I told her, I was just feeling like pasta and it was left-over anyway.

What really made me think she was pissed of is the following:
A few hours later, my host mom then took my host sister (also a foreign student, not her daughter) out for dinner, like eating out. She didn't tell me about it and didn't ask me, if I wanted to come. My host sister has been living here for as long as me. That's quite rude, or not?

I might just be really ignorant and am gonna talk to her anyway. But Reddit, 

AITA?

(For more context; this is located in North America, my host mom is of European heritage, so I don't think it's food-culture related)



asking my host mom not to be loud at 5 am