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Input: Okay, so my wife and I have moved quite a bit throughout our relationship, and as such, thinfs have gotten packed and unpacked and mixed around numerous times. We've been married going on 4 years, and together almost 8, and in that time, we've moved 6 times (needed more room due to pregnancy, helped family, landlord neglect, etc. Not poor financial decisions). We've been at our current spot about a year and a half, and there's still shit packed away. Mind you, some of this shit has been packed away for nearly *three years* (the second last move, we moved into her mom's to lend her a hand due to declining health, so we rented a storage unit for most of our stuff). I've asked her about taking care of it several times, as it's mostly her stuff, because when I left my parents house, it wasn't on great terms, so I pretty much just brought clothes, my phone, and a few other things (not that I had much else anyway), but she always finds some excuse not to do it. The fact that it's been packed away for so long, and we aren't going "hey, where is (insert item here)? I haven't seen it in ages", kinda shows that nothing essential is packed.

I've been debating whether or not to go through it myself, save anything potentially sentimental and trash the rest. On one hand, it's cluttering our house. It's not hoarder level, and we're not living in squalor, but the unnecessary few boxes and few bags of jackets/blankets/old clothes that are still against the wall in our kitchen/in our front closet is getting irritating. On the other hand, I don't want to go through it, and then have her eventually want to go through it and get mad that I did it. I've asked her like once a month since moving here. Once or twice I've tried starting, and asking her as I go, and she just gets irked and tells me to put it off.

So, WITBA?

throwing out a bunch of packed away stuff without consulting my wife