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Input: Let me start by first and foremost saying, I did NOT out her or out her sexuality to anyone. Secondly, I’m using a throwaway account because my friends know my actual account. Lastly, I’m on mobile so sorry for shitty formatting :/

For the sake of the story let’s call this girl “Liar 1”

So I met Liar 1 in December of last year and we really hit it off. Same interests, differing in some areas. It was almost perfect, shortly after we began dating. Things were weird at first but it slowly became normal. We were going steady and I THOUGHT we were exclusive, of at-least I was expected to be. 

Time passes by and she has to leave to go to a special school. We both knew that we would be breaking up and going separate our ways for quite some time. I was fine breaking up as it was going to happen eventually. Liar 1 handled the situation poorly, breaking up with me over text at 3 am while I was a sleep. She never made any plan to see me in person to talk to me about it or anything, it’s like she died. 

I was immensely hurt by this as we had dated for 7 months and I had grown attached (my own fault) never receiving any contact from Liar 1. About 3 months go by of zero contact and one evening she tries to contact me over Instagram. Again, while I was asleep; while I accept it was foolish of me to begin communicating with her again. I originally had her number blocked at the request of a therapist. 

We began talking as friends, she was talking about her life at her new school and wouldn’t quite let me get a word in on the conversation. Everything I had to offer about my new life was quickly dismissed Liar 1 even went as far as saying “I don’t care about that” whenever I talked about how my school was doing in activities I’m involved with. 

Now her dismissing my personal conversation topics bugged me, NOTHING bothered me more than her shitting on my new friends. She even went as far as to diss her old friends. Calling them a variety of names and being nasty overall. 

The conversation upped in awfulness when she told me she was Lesbian and liked a female the entire time that we dated. She also went as far as to say she wished she posted photos of her kissing women to get a rise out of me.  Then she goes on to explain that everything she did was just to distract people from her “very obviously gay” sexuality

A few days pass and she decides to come to one of my schools public events to see her friends, the same friends she was talking trash about in the days prior. This didn’t quite sit right with me as she was blatantly lying to her friends saying how much she misses them. 

After our conversation she asked me to unblock her number, and I foolishly did so. While at this public event she asked me to speak with her in a public area. I saw this as the last time I’d ever speak to her because I was so hurt about her shitting on my friends and everything we already talked about. The same conversational topics came up and this time she was even more condescending. 

I realize I shouldn’t have spoken with her, but here’s where shit hits the fan and leads to me making this post. After her constant barrage of trash talk at my school I finally decided to have enough. I communicated the negative words she had to say about her friends and my friends to them providing them evidence and everything, my friends already didn’t like her because of what she did to me but her friends who she dissed a lot were mad at ME that I said something about. This lead to Liar 1 calling me and screaming and yelling at me about how much of an awful person I am for communicating what she said about everyone to them. I was tired of hearing things from her so I hung up and blocked her on all social media platforms etc

Am I the asshole for exposing her shittiness? Was what I did immoral or undeserved?

#tldr 
Shitty ex girlfriend comes back from school to shit on all of her friends and proclaims her sexuality to me and explains how I was used as a fake cover for her sexuality. I exposed all of the shitty things she had to say about her/my friends. 





exposing a girl that used me as a cover for her sexuality for seven months