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Input: I (20/M) am studying abroad in Lodz, Poland, through europe's Erasmus program. My girlfriend (20/F) of 7 months is coming to visit me from our home country for one week in April. 

She wants me to take her to Auschwitz because it is one of her dreams to visit the camp. We both agreed that it is dangerous for her to go alone, both for security reasons and because she doesn't know how to use public transports to get where she needs to be (I am already used to it so I know how to do it). I do not want to go to the concentration camp with her because I have already visited it last weekend in a group trip prepared for some erasmus students and I paid around 100€ for that weekend. It seems unwise for me to go again 1 month later considering that: I will be busy with work assignments; all the costs to get there; the money that I will spend that could be used for me to visit other places like I have already semi planned.



Important things to consider: 

- Right now I have very little money to live off of for the remainder of the semester (around 600€ for 3 and a half months, not considering rent which is 150€/month). I got most of the scholarship's money at the beginning of the semester and I will receive the other part after the semester ends, but that money is already destined for other stuff (I have some physical problems and I will use the money to pay for doctors appointments and whatever is needed to fix me. Also, I need to buy a new laptop because mine is getting pretty old, although still functional).

- I always knew it was her dream to visit the camp and I would like her to fulfil her dream. However, because of money problems from her side, we were never sure if she could actually come visit me, so I never really kept in mind that I needed to save some money to go with her or that I should not have gone on that weekend trip just so that I could go with her later.

- She has the possibility to go with some family members that are also coming for a visit but she doesn't want to go with them. She wants to go with me for 2 reasons: -She doesn't want to spend 1 day of that week far from me because we have already been apart for 3 months. In my opinion this isn't a good reason because 1. I will be going home for one week after she is here and 2. because we will have time in the future to be together but she probably won't have the opportunity to visit Auschwitz in the future. -She wants it to be an experience shared by both of us so that it will be remembered in the future.

So, Reddit, WIBTA here?

not taking my girlfriend to Auschwitz and not helping her fulfil her dream