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Input: My boyfriend of two years clogged his work bathroom (in the process of using it) and unclogged it with his bare hands. Obviously, I (female) find this appalling.  
It would be funny if this was a one-time, emergency scenario, and it once was, because **this has actually happened before**. He’s told me about doing the exact same thing in college. There was a line of people at a public stall, and he clogged the toilet while he was in there. So while the water’s flowing over and onto the floor, he decides the best course of action…is to stick his arm down the hole and…start digging. I always found this story kind of funny in an over-the-top, shock-humor gross way. But, at the time, it felt like a one-off emergency situation. The fact that the exact same thing just  
happened again blows my mind. It’s not funny now. This directly interfered in our relationship when he told me. I became physically repulsed, and the sex we were planning on having obviously didn’t happen. I was so stunned, I couldn’t even  
express myself properly. I incredulously told him this wasn’t okay and then shut down a bit. He became extremely upset, telling me my reaction was disproportionate and unfair, that I was being cold and shaming him, but I can’t help what disgusts me. At present, the idea of him manually unclogging toilets with his bare hands absolutely fucking disgusts me. The fact that it will likely happen a third time, as I’ve since realized he is a consistent toilet-clogger, disgusts me. I don’t want his hands on me. He tries to spin it like he’s (literally) taking care of shit himself, but it’s clear to me that he just doesn’t want to face the embarrassment of anyone knowing he blew up the bathroom. I think his chosen solution is gross and inappropriate. He agrees, but maintains that my reaction was extreme. Am I the asshole for reacting the way I did?  
Sidenote: this is all because he uses way too much toilet paper. He’s stopped the toilet at my place on more than one occasion. I’ve told him to use less, my mother has told him to use less. Clearly it’s not sinking in. Thank god we keep a plunger handy, otherwise I guess he’d take it upon himself to fingerboard the toilet bowl.  
TL;DR: Boyfriend is a serial porcelain gynecologist, AITA for being revolted?  


being grossed out by my boyfriend unclogging toilets with his bare hands