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Input: o there is a local dj duo who are in my town. They seem like cool people and their music is alright. Theyre best friends and are well known in my area for djing. I am friends with one of the DJs (B) and he asks me to go to his shows regularly.

The issue is I used to be involved with the other DJ's little brother (M). M kept flirting with me and sending me nudes while he had a girlfriend who he never posted about on social media and never told me about.

There was no way I wouldve known about her. I sell snapchat nudes from time to time and put M on the subscription list. (I keep my face and identifying features out of the shots). I also asked M if he was single he said yes. When I found out he wasnt i. Confronted him over it. He said since I was sending him nudes I was sexually harassing him and he never cheated on his girlfriend. M always responded to the nudes with a sexual response. Never said no and paid. I know im gross and scumy for that. M is the brother of one of the Djs and friends with the other dj.

I asked people who knew him for info on his girlfriend and one of them told her. She said it was a problem with him in the past and they like the Dj group but dislike his brother. He's well known to use the semi-success to brag about it. He blocked me from everything I was immature a sent him a message saying someone told his girlfriend and to be more respectful to women. He responded by saying if I showed my face to any local events he'd beat the shit out of me (im a girl btw), and he'd ruin my name in the scene since his brother is big in the scene.

Now M is known for being trashy. B is a cool guy and really wants to see me at his shows. B knows I sell snapchat stuff. I want to tell B what happened. I suspect B already knows M cheats on his girlfriend and is trashy. But I feel like id be causeing too much drama by bringing this up. This is honestly the 4th time in a month ive had to out a cheater and I'm tired of the drama and shitty people. Im thinking about lying and telling him im busy or maybe just telling him the truth. Which is I dont want to go because your bandmates brother threatened to beat me up and I think their crew is trashy. I feel like if I told him the truth I would just cause more drama for him while he's going through a rough time.


telling a friend/dj why I really didnt want to go to his shows