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Input: TLDR: AITA for avoiding my problematic relatives, and as a consequence erasing their young kids from my life too? 


Brief rundown: cousin's family have always been difficult, but it's exploded in recent years to the extent that I physically cannot be around them for any length of time. I refuse to visit them (they live very locally) because my cousin lives with her mother, who is objectively a mean spirited person and who makes the situation so much worse. I haven't been to their house in 3 years. 


What makes me feel terrible is that my cousin has 2 young children (&lt;5), and I feel that it's unfair on them for me to blacklist the entire family like that. I obviously can't spend time with them without physically being around the rest of their family. I think I've resigned to the idea that they'll just grow up without knowing me at all. 




distancing myself from certain relatives, and by extension, their innocent kids