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Input: I grew up in a society where it was taught that you should bend over backwards for any family at any cost. As an adult, I learned about abuse and mental and emotional health and I soon realized that everyone was wrong about having to break your back for family at any and all costs. For a few years I have maintained a healthy distance from the family members that do not try to have a relationship with me; my sister being one of these people. I have tried multiple times to mend the relationship with my sister, however, she has predetermined thoughts about me and every time I'm around her she treats me like an enemy. I have addressed this with her but even after I addressed this, things did not change. I know I'm not perfect and there is plenty to dislike about me but she has never given me a chance. I am a completely different person now and she's never cared or put in any effort to try to change that. 

A little history: my sister is a stranger to me. Growing up, she was never around. She was always getting into some trouble--running away, sneaking out, drinking, in and out of juvenile hall, etc. So, naturally, I do not care too much about her and I can say that I do not actively love her. I don't wish ill upon her but I also don't want to spend my limited time on her. 

 I get a call tonight and it's my sisters boyfriend--who I have no relationship with for so many reasons. He starts telling me about whats been going on. Apparently my sister has been in and out of the hospital, she had "heart failure" and is "feeling like she doesn't want to be here anymore"--here being Earth. He then starts going on about how he knows that things have not always been good between the family but that we all really need to pull together to "show her that she's loved". 

I don't know if this seems shitty to admit, but I don't want to use my limited free time to tell a stranger that I love her so much and blah, blah, blah. There is nothing anyone can say or do to pull someone out of this, so why should I tell her these scripted lines that she knows are lies? I'm sure her boyfriend has good intentions but I don't think it's okay to put that kind of pressure on people. I couldn't--simply because I didn't want to--tell her the things he wanted me to. Instead I let her know that I was aware that there was nothing I could do or say to make her feel better but that I was here for her anyways. I also told her that she can't get any better if she doesn't decide to help herself. Maybe that's not helpful, but I think spitting lies is worse. 

I don't know Reddit. Do you think I'm the asshole here?

not telling my "depressed", pregnant sister all the lovely things her boyfriend thinks she needs to hear