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Input: Me (28M) and my wife (26F) have been together for 3 years. When we first met, we were just hooking up and she told me the second night we hooked up that she sells naked photos of herself. I told her that’s fine. About 3 weeks into us hooking up, she told me she wanted to stop selling naked photos of herself because she wanted me to be the only person to see her naked. That was the starting off point for our relationship, it made me realize we actually really liked each other.

The fact that she sold naked pictures didn’t cross my mind for the first few months of us dating until I realized she’s still friends with some of the guys she sold pictures to. I told her I was uncomfortable with that, but she told me the ones she’s still friends with she was friends with before she sold naked pictures to them and she didn’t feel right ending a friendship with them just because they bought pictures from her and now she has a boyfriend. She also said that she doesn’t mind that I’m friends with girls I’ve hooked up with or wanted to hook up with, so what’s the difference. I think of it as different than someone she hooked up with, it’s like these guys were her customers. She’s not really close with any of them as friends, but they interact on various social media platforms here and there.

This is been an issue on and off in our relationship. I’ll forget about it for months and then I’ll think about it and it makes me uncomfortable. It always starts a fight between us because I’ll get really closed off/not affectionate when I think about it and she feels like I’m making her feel ashamed for the fact that she sold naked pictures of herself. I’ve tried to not think about it, but it still crosses my mind. 

We’ve been having fights about it these last few days because I told her I don’t want her to talk to anyone she’s sold pictures to. I didn’t say she has to, but in an ideal world I would want her to not interact with them. She said she barely even talks to them, they just occasionally respond to an Instagram story she’ll post or like a tweet of hers. She said it would be rude to cut out her friends and, again, that I’m free to talk to girls I’ve hooked up with. All of this came to a head today when I said what it comes down to is that I’m embarrassed that she sold these kind of pictures. This upset and angered her. She said why did I tell her I was fine with it when we started hooking up, and I told her that truthfully I wasn’t really fine with it then either, I just didn’t want to seem uncool or judgmental. She’s hurt now and says she’s going to have a hard time getting over this because she feels like I’m shaming her. 

TLDR: my wife sold naked pictures of herself while we were just hooking up. she stopped before we started dating but it bothers me that she still interacts with guys who were her friends who bought pictures. today I told her I’m embarrassed that that she sold naked pics and she’s upset 

feeling embarrassed that my wife used to sell naked pictures