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Input: So about a month and a half ago, my boyfriend (21M) and I (19F) broke up.  We'll call him EB for Ex-Boyfriend.  It was a pretty good relationship and we decided we wanted to try and stay friends, but first we decided to give each other space in order to heal up and move on. Before this point, I sometimes messaged him to see if he was doing okay, but I would end my messages with "if you need me to keep giving you space, that's fine just let me know" and we would have some short, but non hostile conversations. 

So fast forward to the other day.  We reach out to check in and see how we are doing.  I ask him how his holiday was, he asks me how I am.  I tell him I got called into my sorority's disciplinary program for issues with alcohol, and making offensive jokes. (I know offensive jokes are only tasteful in some situations.  I wasn't making the jokes to any of the girls, but to my friends, and someone overheard them and reported it to the disciplinary program).  

After I told him that, he sent some pretty hurtful messages.  This is how our conversation went (I'm shortening some of the messages, but I'm keeping the context and not trying to make the messages biased):

Me: Yeah I got called into the disciplinary program again.  
EB: Yeah dude, they don't want you around anymore.  They want to kick you out, but they don't have enough so they're waiting until you quit.   
Me: It sucks, I really loved it when I first joined.  
EB: I think they got sick of you tbh.  Your shitty behavior spirals out of control when you aren't being monitored.

So at this point, I was getting pretty upset.  He brought up a few very personal things, that I felt like were inappropriate for him to talk about since we are not dating anymore.  So,then I called him out on something that happened right before we broke up.  Basically, the last time we hung out, he really wanted to have sex.  I really didn't, but he was pretty persistent.  I was stern and said no, so he \*did it himself\* if you get my gist.  I told him that it felt like he knew he was going to break up, so he wanted to get one last round in.  EB's reply was this:

EB: No, my balls were just full.  The fact we had a hot and cold sex life sucked a lot and caused me a ton of frustration in the relationship.  I figured it was considerate to rub one out rather than try to force myself on you, which I'm not sure was an unintentional pattern.  You treat people like things, and this is an example of that.

I didn't reply to this.   I honestly felt pretty hurt by that.

A few minutes later he says:  
EB: All I have been is nice to you since the breakup, and you've only treated me like shit.  Never talk to me again.  

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So AITA for calling him out on something that really hurt me when we broke up?   

calling out my ex boyfriend for something that I thought was pretty scummy