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Input: I was in my car and got to texting a friend who said she had just went gym which is around a 15 minutes drive from where I was. She said she hadn’t eaten properly (eating disorder), didn’t have money (not sure how true this is) and was too tired to even move. I called and she was already angry but I remained calm and it was obvious she wanted a lift so I said ok, drop your location and I’ll be there soon. 

So I go to her location and it’s a no drive zone. I call her asking her if she can walk a little bit to me as I didn’t know where she was exactly but she just got really extraction at me saying you’ve tried to make the situation better but you’ve just made it worse and you always do this and just going on about why I drove there and not to her exactly. She was really close, like 5 minutes maximum walk. 

After she said that I just told her I’m going back and she can get her own ride. Still not sure how she got back but whatever. After that she texted me saying it was really unfair for me to leave her so quickly and not talk it out at least and put up with it. I’m still not sure if I should have. Another thing that annoyed me about the situation is she kept mentioning she really wants food and I’m assuming she wanted me to buy her food. 

So AITA? 

Also some random background info, she’s been a friend for a few months and she helped me out of a really tough spot a while ago. Since then I’ve been doing really good but she still seems to have the same bad habits, same mentality and every time we meet I feel like the conversation is always about her problems and me trying to support her. I genuinely feel like I’ve helped her when she’s been in a tough spot as well but atm, I kinda feel guilt tripped to stick through her anger/depressive moods because she helped me? I DO want to help her but she makes it really hard to and I feel like I’m sort of the emotional sponge here and my job is literally to cheer her up every time we meet. She said that she only does that because I never talk about myself but she doesn’t really give me a chance to and she never asks questions about me. I’m positive it’s not just me being a plank either because I’ve been talking to a lot of people lately and I’ve never felt conversations were this one sided with anyone else. 

So I guess a double AITA? Am I being a bad friend for not wanting to help her with problems even though she helped me with mine? 

leaving my friend who was extremely tired and hungry, stranded in the city and (maybe) with no money to get back