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Input: I have always been so kind to my housekeeper - who helps clean the house and prepare dinner for my parents. I come home almost every weekend to see my parents or even just to have one dinner with them.

So as my housekeeper was preparing tonight’s dinner, I was combing my dog’s hair, squatting on the floor near the dinner table. My housekeeper said “don’t comb here, it’s too close to the food” and grabbed me off the floor as she was saying this, and pushed me to the other side. I was astonished that she would push me like that. I asked my sister if I should say anything but my sister just said she’s always been rude and that’s just how she is. 

So I go on to eat dinner, and my parents come home around this time with 2 guests: my moms friend who we haven’t seen in 5 years and my grandma who just flew in yesterday.

My dog ate half a cup of dog food - she hadn’t eaten all day until we were finally home since she only likes eating when people are around. I realized a bit later she had finished the half so I go to put another half cup of dog food in her bowl.

Housekeeper: Don’t give her anymore food. She already ate. 

Me: I only gave her 1/2 a bowl more because she hasn’t eaten all day.

Housekeeper: Your dog is so fat. Stop feeding her so much.

(** my dog is not fat at all, she is healthy and on a regular normal diet)

At this point, I just exploded and yelled “DON’T TELL ME HOW TO RAISE MY DOG. SHE’S MY DOG NOT YOURS”

And everyone went silent and was shocked as I never really raise my voice at anyone. My mom said “Calm down, why are you so mad?”

I responded, “She (housekeeper) pushed me” and left the room.

I heard my mom ask her “did you push her?” And my housekeeper said no. 

My sister said I could have handled things differently and not in front of everyone. Think I just exploded in the moment but I feel bad now.

AITA?

yelling at my housekeeper