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Input: Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year at this point. I am a senior in high school and she is a freshman in college. 

She was diagnosed with lupus when she was 12 and recently had another flare up In November (kidney malfunction, severe swelling of her entire body, blood pressure issues, the whole 9 yards). She was in the hospital for 2 weeks and I stayed overnight with  her at the hospital every other day because she enjoys my company (According to her, her family never shuts up and is always hovering over her when they visit her). After being specifically told by the doctor that she was not allowed to leave her house for a week following her release she decided to go back to school the day after she was released anyway in order to take her finals (she is a nursing major at a private college and they would not allow her to take the finals online). Because she went back to school while her immune system was still recovering she ended up with endocarditis (a heart infection) and would’ve died in 24 hours if she didn’t go to the ER when she did. She was in the hospital for another week and has been home since around New Years. 

She isn’t allowed to leave the house and she has to give herself an IV every morning at 5. 

She is understandably going through a hard time in the past few weeks with everything from the emotional stress of having to medically withdraw for the spring semester at her college to the physical stress of moving around with an extra 60 pounds of weight in water from swelling. I’ve been staying overnight at her house with her every Friday.

All of this time that I spent in the hospital with her has added up and now my average for all my classes is a 91. I need a 93 to get the presidential scholarship at the University I want to go to, I’ve already been accepted there and I’ve already given their lacrosse coach a verbal commitment. I had no idea that something this drastic would happen. Tomorrow starts the first day of my midterm tests at school and I need to score extremely well to get my average where it needs to because the end of this quarter is the last time I can reapply for scholarships at the university I want to go to. I’ve been studying like crazy the past week because I also had to miss 4 days of review from a nasty respiratory infection the week before THAT. My girlfriend hasn’t seen me in 2 weeks due to me being sick and not wanting to compromise her immune system plus me studying all week last week. 

It is starting to bother me because she will text me things like, “Do you think you can come over tomorrow?” or “Did I do something? You haven’t FaceTimed me or seen me as often as you usually do.” but when I tell her why I haven’t seen her or FaceTimed her as much she gets all defensive and tells me that she obviously knows that I’m busy with school and that she wants me to do well and that she just misses me, even though she asks me to see her and gets upset with me when I say when I told her for the past week that I couldn’t. 

I love this girl so much and I know that her life has been hell for the past few months but at some point I feel like I need to take a week and focus on myself (especially when a large scholarship could help us financially later in life). Should I have tried to make more time for her this past week? Is making her smile at a rough point in her life worth passing up a scholarship that would cover 75% of my college tuition? I’m really struggling on this one.

TLDR: My girlfriend who has been fighting an autoimmune disease and a heart infection for 2 months is upset I didn’t see her for a week because I was studying for a chance at a scholarship worth 75% of my college tuition

not visiting my girlfriend who's recovering from Lupus and Endocarditis because I had to study for midterms