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Input:  Alright, I just wanna preface this with something: I love both of my parents beyond what words can express. They have worked themselves to the bone to give me a future I can look forward to and to keep my comfortable and happy, and for that, they have my eternal respect.  
But that doesn't mean they're always right, or that they're perfect people.  
It's dad's behavior with my mother that scares me.  My mother has more health issues than you could put in an olympic pool. Anemia, cardiac arrhythmia, vertigo, to name a couple off the top of my head.  
The vertigo, I suspect, and my mother claims, was caused by my father. I don't know the science behind it, but apparently it's caused by some kind of crystals being knocked loose in the inner ear due to force. Force that my mother claims was my dad hitting her hard enough to knock her head into a closet. Honestly? I buy it. My father is, god bless his soul, not the most gentle of people, as much as I love him, and that's just something I can't deny. I'm certain that, at the very least, he has been physically abusive towards her, and often says horrible things about her in my presence.  
My mother is just beyond stressed out, and I do my best, but I am an unfortunately somewhat messy person. To my shame, I tend to add onto her load a lot, since she does all the house work due to culture mandating that the woman takes care of the house. I know my father does all of this, but, as much as I love him, I'm just too god damn terrified of him to stand up to him. I've tried intervening in fights before, but I just get yelled over. I should mention at this point that I'm a high school student, and still a minor, if it weren't obvious. My mom often brings up my dad's ire, since she needs exorbitant amounts of money. It's obviously not her fault, as they're for medication, groceries, and essentials like gasoline. She does her best, and God knows I love her to death for it. But that said, sometimes I just snap. Being the way she is, she's very demanding to take care of, and I do my best, but with the stress of school (I'm in the International Baccalaureate which involves a lot of work both inside of school and out), sometimes I just get so stressed out I snap. Nothing major, but I do occasionally say some rather mean or passive aggressive things to her, or storm off. I hardly say a word to my father, because, frankly, I am terrified of him. Again, he's never been truly abusive towards me in general, he just frankly terrifies me because of his temper, and, really, his size. I'm not at all a weak or small person, I rival him in size, and you could argue I'm quite a bit bigger, but there's this psychological switch in me that just turns on feelings of intense fear whenever I'm faced with confronting him. Much as I love my parents, sometimes I just want to get up and go, go far away, and leave them to their troubles.  
Am I the asshole for feeling this way and not doing something? 

acting the way I do with my parents