Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: A little bit of background. I've been married for 3 years now, I love my wife and like to consider myself as relaxed/zen kind of guy. I rarely get angry at her and try to please her to the full extent of my abilities.

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The thing is lately she's been making plans like going to her father's, her mother's, friend's house, going to see houses (we live in a department and are looking to rent a house), etc. That's not a problem by itself (of course) but what bothers me is that she makes the plans and the just let me know about them and expect to arrange my time around it.

It didn't use to bother me as much as it does now. I think since I always say yes adn try to work everything around to help her, she's gotten used to this and started taking my time and my opinion for granted.

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WIBTA if I tell her to stop doing this and start asking me first? It scares me a bit that if I do it it'll sound like I put myself before us as a couple which is something I'd never do. 

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EXTRA: English is not my mother language so if anyone wants to correct what I wrote they're more than welcome to teach me.

telling my wife to stop commiting my spare time