Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Hi,

Less am I “the” asshole because the other person is clearly not an asshole, more am I “an” asshole.

I cancelled a date today for this weekend. 1st date, off of a dating app. What happened was I matched with someone even though the physical attraction for me seemed so-so. We had an okay conversation and we eventually agreed to meet this weekend.

I am new to dating apps and since agreeing to this date, I have arranged dates with several other people who I am both more physically attracted to and have more common interests with. I did not realize there were this many people who might be interested in/interesting to me.

My conversation with this person has also flickered out. We are talking about very boring subjects, and it wasn’t that interesting to start with. I agreed to the date because I hadn’t had a date in a long time and I thought I could grow to like them if I gave them a chance.

My thoughts go like this: I do not really want to go on three dates this weekend, and talking to these people is exhausting. Furthermore, I think it is a waste of person #1’s time- who wants to be someone’s third choice that weekend? I think this person is objectively physically fine looking and a good person, just not my cup of tea. I feel for them because I would be sad if I was excited for a date and they cancelled, but at the same time, I would not want to waste my time on me if I were them either.

So I sent them a message saying I am too busy and not sure I will be less busy any time soon. I sent them this text on Tuesday, and our date was on Saturday at a coffee shop. I hope I gave them enough time to make other plans.

Am I an asshole?

cancelling a date three days beforehand