Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I (19yo F) hate hugging my mom because it makes me feel violently uncomfortable. I hate kisses even more and always kinda have. I cringe when she gets too close and I love my space. She always insists that I should give her a kiss and it grosses me out. Honestly I had a terrible relationship with her until I moved in with my grandparents and didn't have to see her as much anymore.

I don't hate hugs altogether, just hugging her. I AM kinda awkward though.

Not sure if this is valid information but I am Bisexual or a Bicurious lesbian and am out of the closed. She is homophobic. Unfortunately her being homophobic couldn't be the reason for my discomfort around her, since I always hated hugging her, but came out when I was 14-15 yo. All my friends love their moms, some are even best friends with their moms.

My mom and I can't stand each other, but sometimes when she has not been particularly painful to be around and has even been nice, I would think she deserves a hug. I would hug her then feel terrible.

I need help. Am I a dipshit for not loving my mom unconditionally?

not really liking to hug my mother