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Input: My roommate is 30 ish with 4 kids. 3 of them live with us week on and week off. On black friday I went out with my roommate, my other roommate plus her boyfriend, and my boyfriend.

The topic was breached about the two roommates (sisters) pooling together to buy the 13 year old a playstation since she likes playing the communal one so much. I said something to the effect of “cool that’s a good idea!” 

Now last night we all congregated on the porch for a beer. The kids were inside. The mother roommate approaches the topic of the playstation again with her sister and then turns to me and says “Did you have any ideas on what to get them?” 

I THOUGHT she was asking for suggestions so I listed off some stuff like bras for the girl and legos for the younger boys and she was like “oh yeah you totally should do that!” 

I was like “oh I was giving you ideas!” and she looked puzzled and said “Then what are you gonna get them?”

These girls are privy to the fact that I’m having serious money troubles this holiday season and am having trouble scraping together money for my OWN siblings and parents. I have 4/10 people bought for and my money is already gone.

I gently said “I didn’t know I was expected to get them presents” and she said, well you’re part of the family. 

I’m not even gonna BE here on Christmas morning, I’ll be at my mother’s house with my boyfriend and my siblings. I think she thinks I’m being an asshole for not thinking about her kids. 

Disclaimer: The kids WONT be hurting this year. There was so much stuff in the cart on black friday and they have grandparents who spoil them. There will be no lack of presents under the tree if i don’t contribute. 

I just think she thinks I’m an asshole. Am I an asshole for not buying them gifts?

not buying my roommate's kids Christmas presents this year