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Input: Our relationship had been bad for a long time: no sex for two years, he is gone for work for months at a time and doesn’t write/call, we don’t talk about anything substantial because he thinks talking about day to day stuff is a waste of time and everything else gives him anxiety. He also used me like a credit card, borrowing thousands of dollars and letting me buy all the groceries, but eventually paying me back when he worked. 

This last time he was gone longer than usual because his dad has Alzheimer’s and in that time I met someone else. I didn’t cheat but i spent a lot of time with this guy, telling myself we would just be friends but connecting with him really well. When my boyfriend got home I had an emotional meltdown and dumped him. I just couldn’t stand to continue things and breaking up was way overdue. 

For additional context, I was also having issue with my dad at the same time (he was depressed and was threatening self harm) and my boyfriend did not check in on me when I told him about it. Like I told my boyfriend about my dad and I didn’t hear from him in a week, and only because I reached out.

None of my friends think I’m an asshole for the timing, but my ex sure does. I don’t feel guilty for ending it, but I do for the timing. 

dumping my bf for while his dad is sick