Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Asshole is too strong a word for the situation, but you catch my point (probably). Here's the situation, my boss wants to treat my coworker and I to lunch. All 3 of us are straight men BTW. I (happily) don't have a car so I welcome every invitation to eat with my coworkers, but my boss always wants to pick up the check. Now he's a nice guy trying to do a nice thing so I offer to pay for myself only twice before I uncomfortably force myself to give up.

If I tried hard enough, I could probably explain why I feel that I have to pay for myself, but that rabbit hole probably ventures into the financial problems my family had growing up and how independent I had to be. So I don't exactly like sharing it.

Anyway, AITA for even arguing against a free meal?

insisting to pay for my meals when others are trying to treat me