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Input: Apologies in advance for both making a long post and my first post ever on Reddit.

Anyway, I want to first say that me and my gf have been dating for some years in a LDR (Moving in together was a WIP), and I have complete trust in her, which wasn't easy to get as I'm quite a paranoid and jealous person in general.

Something else that's important to know beforehand is that while I enjoy talking in vc, she claims not to, and we agreed on typing for the most part, with very occasional calls during the week.

Story: Recently, my gf joined a discord group, she asked if I wanted to join as well, so I accepted. People were nice in general, but I noticed that one of the people was always talking with her in a call when she went to sleep.

When I asked her about this, she said it was because she has trouble sleeping due to hypersomnia (Which I knew), and does it because it works better for her than watching youtube videos, so she'd join his call of him playing vidya, fall asleep, and he'd cancel out of the call.

I was a bit skeptical, but because I had no reason to distrust her, since A) We'd been dating for a very long time, and she's very anti-cheating, and B) The person she's talking with isn't attractive whatsoever, I accepted it and moved on.

Now forward a few days from that point and both of them are constantly in 4-6h long calls with eachother each night, talking, which at this point annoyed me because I had to agree to only talking for a few minutes each week, while this random guy could hear her voice whenever he pleased.

Couldn't take it anymore and I just asked if I could do the same, with her watching me play games and falling asleep, to which she replied no, I got a bit annoyed at this response and kept pushing, which made her annoyed at me in response and she ignored me, but the calls between them kept going on of course.

I talked to someone else in the server about this and apparently she thinks I'm controlling her because I'm picking out who she can hang out with and what she does.

I apologised afterwards (Maybe a bit too much to be fair), saying I didn't mean to come over as controlling, but I still wanted to talk about it, because it was a legitimate issue to me, and she just kept ignoring my messages, I asked the next day if she was "Interested in him" and she went mad. Haven't sent her a message since, and our chat has been dry for about three days.

Completely seperate from all this: I see sleeping in calls as something couples do, not friends, which frustrates me even further.

**TL;DR:** Me and gf barely talk in vc because she prefers typing, but met someone that she talks with non-stop, which I got annoyed at and she's mad at me for being annoyed.

AITA for being frustrated at my gf for this?

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being frustrated at my gf for sleeping in calls with someone else every night