Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: In SK it's considered desirable to have a youthful look (smooth skin, bright eyed, slim, look at kpop) and I have a close friend(22f) who keeps joking about having a crush on a family friend that is 17 this year. Some info is retracted for privacy sake.

I know she is joking. While he is conventionally attractive I know she doesn't mean it because of history. She always picks guys that are out of reach (one way or another) as an object of affection so she has a reason to not take it too seriously and not find real connection with people around her. It was always a topic we joke around with before but this for me crosses the line.

She mentioned it once in a while jokingly and I kept telling her to stop but she keeps bringing it up. Last week I snapped and was a lot harsher about not saying stuff like that when I'm around and she took it really badly. She's really sensitive these days and while I understand I wanted to draw the line for my sake too. I was very blunt.

She has issues with being confronted and has a lot anxiety problems. After confronting her properly she had an episode and just imploded. I'm not sure if confronting her was the right thing to do specially if it was just a joke. We haven't spoken since.


confronting a friend for joking about having a crush on a minor