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Input: My gf and I have been dating for half a year. In that time, I've paid for most of our meals and drinks. I've paid for all our tickets to events, random snacks and ride shares which really add up. I know this because I use an app to budget what I spend so I don't go over.

I usually don't mind paying but once in a while I'd ask if we'd be able to split the bill when we eat out. And we eat out a lot because it's something she enjoys. I try to steer her towards eating leftovers at times but she'd rather go to brunch or whatever she's craving atm. Anyway, there always seems to be tension when I ask so I try to not do it too often.

That being said, I did begin minding when I overheard her tell her friend that I'm stingy because I asked if we could split the bill. I didn't mention anything because, hey, maybe I was being stingy. But that comment really rooted itself in me and it came to a head recently.

Now let me tell you something about my gf. She's forgetful. Really forgetful. You know how I say I pay for drinks and meals most of the time? It's because she forgets her wallet or it's cash only and she doesn't carry cash. She's the type of person to forget a conversation from an hour ago. 

Back to what happened. One day I mentioned to her if we could maybe not eat out so much because my statements have become double what they used to be. And I mean this literally. My expenses had literally doubled or more during the time we've dated.

This is when she said it's not due to her because she always pays half and doesn't think I always foot the bill. Which is when I got a little pissed. Here she is telling her friends I'm stingy while at the same time telling me she doesn't think I pay for much. I'm thinking she's probably telling her friends I don't pay for shit either. In anger, I list off a bunch of restaurants we've eaten at recently where I paid and explain to her Ubers and Lyfts and tickets aren't cheap.

And that's when she blew up. I mean she lost it. If this was a cartoon, you'd literally see steam blow out her ears like a tea kettle. She went off on me about what kind of person remembers what meals they've paid for and stopped talking to me.

So, AITA? I feel like I could have phrased things better but the moment got to me.

reminding my gf about the meals I paid for