Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Hey, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this.

About a month ago a lost a good friend because of what I told her.

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It's a long story, but shes taking an extra year of high school to finish up her courses since her move from the states to Canada put her behind. She was the Stage Manager (kind of like an assistant to the director, who was the teacher) for the Performing arts program she loved. All her friends were in it, she'd been doing it the whole time she was at this school but started causing problems this fall.

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She kept telling actors they were "acting wrong", getting mad and insulting people, and getting angry with the director. She was warned that not changing her actions would result in her getting booted from the program. She didn't change, and like she was told she was no longer welcome there.

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She texted me saying that she got kicked out after I heard (and verified through both people who like her and people who don't) what had happened, but she said that she got kicked out because everyone hated her.

I told her that's not true.

She has a history of always being the victim, and sometimes she is but as one of her only friends I tend to stick up to her and at least when I'm talking to her support her side of the story.

This time, I knew what had happened and I decided I needed to say something before she went too far down her current path and ended up with no career or life.

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So I said, in roughly these words "I think that maybe you need to hold yourself accountable for your actions. Sometimes, you aren't the victim and this time I think that you are the sole person responsible for what happened". 

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She didn't take too kindly to that, and while I kept trying to say similar things nicely she kept saying "oh you're gossiping with \[person that doesn't like her\] behind my back, you are a terrible friend, maybe you should listen to me before believing other people like everyone else" and other such things.

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Am I the asshole? Should I have let her believe she was wronged? Or was it right of me to try and help show her that sometimes people, including her, make mistakes and should hold themselves accountable for their actions?

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Thanks

telling a friend to take responsibility for her actions