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Input: My wife and I have an existing agreement. She hates doing dishes and I hate cleaning bathrooms so when we were newly weds I proposed the following agreement:

I will never make her do the dishes if she never makes me clean the bathroom. 

She agreed, and we've been happy. 

However, I'm currently struggling with more depression and anxiety than I ever have and I'm coming apart at the seams. She knows this and asked if there was anything she could do to help. I told her I am having a hard enough time keeping myself safe at work (I deal with a ton of tiny sharp things) that I don't think I can handle doing the dishes right now. 

I meant, but didnt say: can they wait til another day? However, when I came home from work the dishes were in the dishwasher. 

I feel like I'm the asshole because I broke our agreement by not doing them and so she did them. AITA?

not doing the dishes