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Input: I landed a job working in a warehouse where I make decent money some time ago. Not really having to stretch but still mind my financial status. In comes my gf who I've been dating for some years. Everytime I get paid it's like I'm giving her close to $200 in all or more for what it seems like no reason. She has an ok job making a bit over minimum wage but constantly complains about not having any money after paying bills(phone and car insurance) but doesn't put forth the effort to find a new job that'll pay more. I had the same job as her previously and I still managed to keep up with my bills and help her on the occasion but it seems like her money just disappears after a week and being followed up with "idk..." after I ask her where it all went. She's even started getting defensive when I ask her what she's gonna use the money for before I consider giving it to her. I have no problem contributing my part and a little more but it's become excessive to the point where I wanna just tell her no so I have to ask AITA? 

not wanting to give my gf money