Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Nearly a year ago I had a very short relationship with an ex boyfriend. It lasted maybe 3 or 4 months. We ended up breaking up because I discovered that I am a lesbian. I had a thorough talk with him and assured him that I had no hard feelings and the split was not his fault, it was just my self discovery.

We were able to be friends until the summer, where I found out he had been spreading rumors, making sexual comments, calling me an asshole for breaking up with him, etc. I decided to cut him off and basically ghosted him. I feel bad for ghosting him, but at the time we didn’t talk much anyways and I was very scared of confrontation and arguments.

He still talks to a few of my friends about me to this day. None of it is negative anymore though, just things like he wishes he could be my friend again or that he doesn’t think he’s over me. Because of how long we have been broken up compared to how long we were dating, it makes me uncomfortable that he might not be over me.

He and some of his friends have recently been saying to my friends that I have no reason to not talk to him anymore, and that his rude comments came from “a place of anger” that he is no longer experiencing.

My question is, AITA for not wanting to be friends or for feeling uncomfortable?

not wanting to be friends with my ex