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Input: (The calling part: I have this friend who I’ll call Carl for now. Me and Carl met years ago and became best friends after finding out we were interested in a lot of the same things. Ever since we’ve met we would talk about how we would want to sleep over each others house when we eventually were able to sleep over each others house one day I’d sleep at his the next he’d sleep at mine. After we slept over Carl got my number and we called each other the day after he slept over my house and we talked for a bit. At first I was fine with it until two weeks after. One day I didn’t feel like answering his call so I let it rang and ignored it (which is a douche move I know). What I didn’t realize is that he would keep calling me over and over and over and eventually answered. Day after day he would call me, in the car, at dinner or lunch, at the store, and almost any other time. I told him the fifth day it started that i didn’t wanna call all the time and it was kinda annoying, to which he replied it was ok that he knew he could be annoying at times. I was glad we didn’t get into a fight. The next day, call after call after call after call sometimes he’d call 37 times before he gave up I was getting more and more annoyed especially waking up to see 10 missed calls from Carl an hour before I woke up. After another week went by I told him again and he said the same thing as last time. After two weeks with it continuing I snapped and answered the call and yelled at him “STOP CALLING ME!” And hang up to some it might feel like a shit post but I feel guilty for doing that to someone who I have been friends with for a while.



(The grudge part: I had a friend (who I’ll call mar) since 1st grade. The day I met Carl I went to introduce him to mar and found out the two knew each other and we became a trio. During the year we had a spelling test and mar failed and he was very angry. Me and Carl didn’t think he would be at recess so we sang a part of a song me and Carl liked but mar didn’t (as weird as it sounds we were kids and did weird things like singing at recess) what we didn’t know was mar was coming and he heard us and what I assume got more angry he cane down to me and Carl and gave me the death stare I joked around saying are you gonna kill me he said yes and I thought he was joking and ran next thing I know he darts after me grabs my hood on my coat turns me around and chokes me.  A week later I wasn’t talking to mar and every time I saw him I’d give a death stare. Carl constantly asked for us to be friends again and eventually we did after we did everything was fine until 6th grade which was hell. Mar kissed me on the cheek in two occasions (keep in mind I’m male and he is too and I’m 0% gay) one occasion was us winning dodge ball and he said “sorry I got excited!” After doing so and I told the teacher. The second time was when we were lined up after recess when mar wrapped his arms around my neck and kissed me I told the teacher and we got ready to go and wait for busses. While we walked to where we waited mar told me “people like you are why I have depression” I instantly got mad and me and him hated each other ever since Carl constantly again asked for me to be friends with mar again and I said no. Ever since mar made school a living hell for me. Constantly going near me and one time pretending to stab and shoot me even contacting me online. I have a grudge at Carl because he constantly begged for me to be friends with mar again while it’s partially my fault if Carl didn’t I most likely wouldn’t have been his friend again and I wouldn’t have been tortured by mar.

So aita?
To make it shorter: my friend calls me once the proceeds to constantly call me day after day even after telling him I didn’t want to call every day.

My friend begs me to be friends with a person who use to be my friend and I caved in and went through a year of hell and now have a grudge against him for it.

not answering my friend's calls and eventually yelling at him to stop calling me and having a grudge against him for something that happened years ago