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Input:    Thanks for your opinion, this is my first post to any sub in Redit.
I clean house and do other small jobs for a lady I'll call Jill.  Jill is the type person who is very set in her ways and believes her way of doing things is not only the best way but also the most common sense way. I don't have a problem doing a job for someone the way they want it done however Jill can always find very fine, minuscule details to complain about.  The problem with this is Jill has a very sharp tongue and a harsh way of talking. She makes me feel like a slave, an idiot and incapable of doing anything right. 
   The thing is it's not really that I've done anything wrong. Maybe I did what she considered to be step 2 first or maybe I did something the way I've always done it which should be fine as long as it gets done but no, according to her I should have folded to the left instead of the right, etc. 
    I should mention I have a problem with depression and anxiety. Even on a good day for me by the time I leave her house I'm in tears, upset, defeated and just a mess. I'm a 56 year old widow, I have a very hard time dealing with the loss of my husband still. I have an adult autistic son who lives with me. I also have a daughter who is divorced and has 10 year old twin boys that I help with. I have a lot on my plate.
    Now here's my dilemma; Jill is as I have outlined but she is also someone who believes in God and believes in being blessed by blessing others and helping people out. Jill has helped me out with some financial problems over the past two and a half years. In total she has paid off $2,100.00 in debt on my behalf which helped me out greatly. She has also done some other small things for me.  She does not want or expect me to pay her back, it was not a loan. She felt led to help me and knows that she will be blessed for doing so.
    So, AITA for wanting to quit working for her because I feel it would help my mental and emotional health? 
    One last note, Jill has a very hard time finding people to work for her. I know this to be a fact as I've known a couple of people who have worked for her in the past but left because they would not or could not put up with being treated this way by Jill. I've come to believe now that Jill may do things for me to try and keep me there, hoping I won't quit if she does these things. 
    Thank you for reading this and for your opinions.


wanting to quit a job where I'm treated like shit and leave crying most days