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Input: Around the middle of last year, my brother proposed to his girlfriend of 3 years. She said yes and they’re getting married this summer (yay I’m excited for them :D). Over the holidays I went to visit them (they live in a different state than I do) and we went bridesmaid dress shopping. Naturally, we were talking about the wedding and the topic of hair and makeup for me and his fiancée’s two sisters came up. 

Here’s the background for why I want to dye my hair. I have dyed my hair before when I was in middle school but once I got to high school, I joined an activity in which dying our hair is prohibited. You can think of it as a sort of dance group but we are all meant to look natural so that one person does not distract from the effect of the group. Anyways, it is my last year of high school, so after my last performance I can finally dye my hair again. I made plans with a few friends of mine to get our hair dyed the day we graduate. We have literally been talking about this and anticipating it for years. I planned to have my hair dyed a bluish silver but keeping my black roots. 

When I brought up that I was going to have my hair dyed to my brother and his fiancée they immediately shut it down. They told me absolutely not and if I wanted to do it I had to wait until after. They didn’t even allow me to explain my reasoning and each time I bring it up they ignore me. I am especially annoyed because one of his fiancée’s sisters has continually dyed her hair since before I met her and they have not told her that she needed to stop dying her hair for their wedding. Even if they did I doubt she would stop. My choice of hair color also does not conflict with my dress as it is a pastel blue. 

Currently, I have decided that I will just keep my natural hair color as per their wishes because it is a once in a lifetime event that I don’t want to ruin. I just wonder if I’m in the wrong here for wanting to get my hair dyed with my friends :(

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