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Input: A little backstory here: my father has been unemployed for the last four years in pursuit of an independent directing career. In those four years, he has made things here and there but hasn’t generated any income for our family. He does other things like cook, clean, and laundry, which are much appreciated by my mother and I. Currently, my mom pays the rent for the family and I help with things like groceries, gas, etc. We both have 40 hour/week jobs. 

Over the summer, both my parents weren’t working and I had to pay the lion share of our rent (which is a decent amount of money). This upset me because I am trying to move out of my parents house and find an apartment for myself. The area I live is very expensive and I have to save a lot of money in order to afford something. Once my mom started working again, things were going ok. I was able to start saving up. However, my account never got that big. 

My dad is notorious for borrowing money from people and manipulating them into giving him said money. He’s been doing it all my life. When he borrowed money from my grandfather, he would justify it by saying he deserves it after all the shit his father put him through. I hate borrowing money and prefer to work and make a living that way. We have a family friend whom my dad sometimes goes to for money, but he didn’t like how the friend would constantly hassle him for a check when it was due. So he started going to me because he knows I have a hard time refusing to help my parents financially. I have been trying to set a boundary and limit the amount of money I give to my parents. When I do this, my dad accuses me of not wanting to help the family. His mentality is that any money that comes into the family belongs to everyone. 

Recently, I found out that I am going to have to pay the majority of next month’s rent and I am pretty upset about it. I feel like my father is now just borrowing money from me like he did his father. I am the asshole for being upset at my father about this? He claims he is going to start driving Lyft but I don’t know how long that could last for. I just don’t want to be used as a well of constant resource for my father when he doesn’t even work himself. I value my independence and every time my father borrows a large sum of money from me it takes away from my ability to move out. Please advise me what to do about this situation. 

being upset at my Father