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Input: I [24M] was dating this girl [21F] for about a month. Things were going well, fun dates, cuddles at her place, making out, nothing under the clothes yet.

Last I saw her was Saturday. Sunday, while texting, she reveals to me that she's been having a bad time with something that happened that day (don't hold your breath, I never found out what it was). I cheer her up what I can over text and then go about my business. We have dates planned for Tuesday and Wednesday nights.

Tuesday rolls along and the furnace stops working at my place (I live with my mom) and this is Canada, so it's already fucking kill yourself weather outside. Mom calls the repair guy, but she's working till 9PM so I have to stick around and chaperone the guy after work (I work 9-5). I call my date up and cancel, she sounds disappointed but not overly upset.

Today (Wednesday) rolls around and everything's quiet on the Western Front. Until my oldest friend [24M], who I will always trust without question and who's known this girl a lot longer than I have, calls me up. He says something along the lines of "what she's been dealing with is worse than you think and cancelling last night was a bad idea." Now, I try to remain a level headed person but i suffer from social anxiety and have a tendency to worry spiral, so, this sets me off just a bit. I text her noting she's been quieter over text (and she has) and asking if everything is alright. She admits things have been really hard on her. I ask if she's still down to hang, she says yeah, around 6.

Come 5 I go home to let my dog out (a 30 minute drive from downtown, where she lives). When I get in I find she texted me shortly after I left work asking if I wanted to hang now. I didn't check because lol texting and driving. This is the last text I get from her till much later.

So, I hustle back to her place, sent her probably 3 texts and called with no answer. Arrive, knock on her door, her roommate answers, says she's not home. Send her another text asking where she is. I'm still getting more and more worried about this, but I fuck off to the river for a bit. Decide to give my friend a call and tell him everything that happened. He asks me to go back and let him talk to the roommate. Under normal circumstances I would have questioned this but I'm super far gone by this point (I've had a friend kill themself after talking to me, so I'm super sensitive to trouble of my peers). So, I go back, that chat between the two of them happens. And I decide to go home after that and cool off.

Then I get a text from my lady friend saying she just wants to be left alone right now. I say sure, give me a text if you need (across about 3 messages). I get to a different, nearby friend's house and find she's cussing me out for checking on her roommate twice and says we're through. I tried telling her I was just worried about her but she wasn't having it and told me to get lost. Up until this point I'm still worried sick about her so, this hits me about as hard as the launch of the Titanic.

I'm not going to talk to her again regardless of what happens and I probably already know the answer to this but AITA, Reddit?

going to this girl's house twice