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Input: I have not been in a relationship for over 8 years now. I'm 30 and I don't exactly feel desperate to be in a relationship, although I will admit that it would be nice to have a significant other.

I've been talking to my therapist about my loneliness and various other issues and I told her that my reason for still being single after so many years is because I'm looking for that "special one". I wouldn't exactly call her a soulmate or somebody who will take my breath away. But somebody who is more me. Somebody who has the same kind of introverted personality, and who has the same type of hobbies and interests as me (I'm a very nerdy person). Girls like that can be hard to find which I guess is why I've had so much trouble meeting girls that I'm interested in.

I've told my therapist that while I have no problem going out there and meet new girls it also scares me if the girl isn't exactly the type of girl that I'd want, then later if I do meet that one perfect girl, I will constantly be kicking myself for not waiting until that special one came around. Like I'd hate to have to settle for somebody that isn't ideal to me and then later on I meet somebody who fits all my criteria but at that time I'm no longer single.

Then I'd not only feel annoyed for having settled with somebody who isn't exactly to my liking but I'd also feel like a horrible person to leave my girlfriend for somebody else who may share the same hobbies as me for example.

My therapist however told me that this is just how life is and that there isn't anything wrong with realizing that sometimes somebody you meet is just better for you. The fact that I'm holding off for so many years and never committing to a relationship is going to only hurt me in the long run since there's no guarantee that I will meet that "special one" so it's better to just meet someone and even settle.

What do you guys think? On one hand, I'd feel like an asshole leaving a girlfriend just because I met somebody else at a function whom has all the checkmarks in a partner that I want, but at the same time I can also see the logic in my therapist's advice, that constantly waiting isn't going to do me any good since there's no guarantee that I will ever meet that one girl and I've already wasted 8 years of my life holding off.

settling for a girl, only to leave her if I find somebody that is more like my preference