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Input: Basically just as the title says. I recently switched jobs and I opted to cash out my old 401k rather than roll it into a new one. It’s not a ton of money, but I would be getting enough back to put a substantial amount towards debt. My wife is calling me selfish for doing that. 

My credit isn’t great right now so I’m trying to get a few debts paid down, but she can only wants to use it to buy materialistic things (her credit is decent). I told her we would be happier in the long run without having to go into our checking account to keep making payments on student loans, credit cards, etc....

AITA?

switching jobs, cashing out my old 401k and using it to pay off some debts