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Input: In the beginning of August, me (20), my boyfriend, and my mom all moved into an apartment together to be closer to our school/her work. I had been living with just my mom before this and I didn't pay rent and she bought me clothes/groceries/anything else. I did a lot of chores whenever I was told because of course she was providing for me. Now me and my boyfriend both pay 1/3 of the rent each at this new place. My mom pays her 1/3 and the utilities. I buy all of my own clothes and groceries and anything else I want. My mom and I have a rocky relationship due to many reasons.

When I was a kid she met a man who became my stepdad and lived with us for 10 years. He was VERY emotionally abusive. He was constantly yelling at me for everything. He would tell me I was stupid, fat, make fun of my acne and my makeup. He was always telling me my opinion didn't matter since I was not an adult. He punched a hole in my bedroom door, threw my lamp against the wall when he was mad at me, broke my phone when I didn't do my chores, I was grounded every  other week for something cleaning related. I was treated like a maid and punished if I didn't do everything after school or didn't do it good enough. One time he made me do his laundry and I got yelled at and called an idiot when I folded his pants "wrong". He always told me he would "beat my ass" if only my mom would let him. He would smoke in the car and I would get called names when I said something about the smoke blowing back into my face. I had to hear him yell at my mom every night when he got drunk and ripped her favorite purse apart, or tried to rip her wedding ring off her finger. I had to hear him beat our family dog after he ignored him asking to go outside to pee. He made me live in fear of the next time I would be punished. I still immediately shut down when I hear someone yell. Through all of this my mom stood by and watched. For 10 years. She gets annoyed when I bring up any of this. Like I'm supposed to forget about it and never mention it, just so she doesn't feel guilty for not doing anything. She gaslights me when I mention some stuff. I don't think I can ever forgive her for standing by all those years. She divorced him when I was 17. But now she is back with him, going on dates and vacations, staying over at his house. I guess I can't say I didn't expect it but it just makes me feel so bad. He texted me the other day and said him and my mom decided that "we" are having thanksgiving dinner at his house this year. I told him "I can't, I'm going to \[boyfriend's\] parent's", and he called me a "fucking brat" to my mom. She agreed with him. I'm so over being treated poorly by both of them. 

When they were broken up she would go from guy to guy and they would always be put before me. She would go stay at their houses for days when I was still in high school and lived at home. She would go to their/their family's house for every holiday and leave me alone. One time I cried and begged her to stay home and spend time with me, but she refused. This is when our relationship really began to get cold and distant. When I went to college she NEVER asked me how school was going. I would get in the car when she picked me up for weekends/breaks and she would immediately start talking about her boyfriend, what fancy place they were going to this weekend, what food her work provided for her that day. If I brought up something relating to my classes/my life she really just wasn't interested. I would see my friend's/boyfriend's parents being interested in their lives, asking about school and grades and how they were feeling. This hurt me so bad that my mom doesn't care about me like that. I struggled with some very bad depression my first years of college, and I broke down and cried and told her I was depressed and I felt like she didn't love me or care about me and I needed help. Her response was to turn it around and say pretty much "I guess I'm a terrible mother and you hate me". She couldn't even try to pretend like she was interested in my life. She is still this way but I have since given up any hope that she will care (I have told her more times how I felt since then and it always ends the same way) and our relationship has gotten even more cold. I got a new job a few months ago and she has seriously never once talked to me about it.

When we all moved into this apartment I thought it would be fine. I thought we could just be roommates, whatever. Well first she claims the driveway as her own even though we pay our fair share. We are never allowed to park our car there, we have to park in the visitor lot and walk to the apartment. Okay, she pays utilities I guess. She invited my sister over to spend the night when my sister didn't have a car one time, telling her that she would drive her home the next day. So my sister, her boyfriend, and her kid come over. Her and her boyfriend make out in the living all night, they leave their trash around the apartment, they leave their dirty dishes everywhere, they eat my groceries that I pay for when I didn't expect to have guests over and I have a weekly grocery budget to stick to. The next day she doesn't want to drive them. They are here for 3 days before someone can finally drive them. And I get told that I'm selfish and treating my sister poorly for asking them to please not eat my groceries. I'm not the one who invited them over. I told my mom that I pay the rent here and I have a say in things. She pretty much told me that I don't have a say and to get over it. 

That's the final straw. I thought I would finally be treated like an adult with a say in anything since we all moved in together and we are all paying rent. We yelled at each other the other day because she is trying to give me "chores" to do. Now, I am perfectly okay with cleaning. It's my house that I live in too, of course I'm going to clean it. But she is trying to assign me chores that she wants me to have done and I get "in trouble" if I don't do them. I don't want to be treated like I'm a kid who doesn't pay rent. Me and my boyfriend do a fair amount of cleaning. We both work 20-30 hours a week and have school for \~15 hours a week. We are busy and we still do our fair amount of cleaning. 

At this point I have had enough. We are constantly arguing and I'm done being treated like a kid when I pay rent and pay for all of the stuff I need. I am disgusted that she is back with the man who abused me and ruined my teen years. I barely even see her as my mom anymore. She's more like an annoying roommate. I am going to see an apartment on Saturday. I would be moving out at the beginning of December. I can't help but feel guilty though. If we move out then she would have to pay an extra $850 a month. I feel extra bad that it's around Christmas time. I know that she can afford the apartment on her own. She spends a lot of money on random things she wants, like clothes and shoes, so she would just not be living quite as comfortably. She is always shopping. I also have not even told her yet that I'm thinking about moving because I don't know how she will react. She will probably be angry and I do not want to spend the rest of my time here getting treated like shit. I don't even think she wants to live with me either since she told my (ex)stepdad that I'm an ungrateful brat and she can't wait to live alone. The money is the only thing I feel bad about. Am I the asshole for suddenly putting this on her and moving out with no notice? 

suddenly moving out and leaving my mom with an unexpected $850 more rent