Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I've been working my ass of this entire academic year to get the highest grades I can, tire myself with activities and extracirriculars, and doing endless application work because I wanted to study abroad for my junior year. 

For context, my boyfriend is my only friend. This doesn't mean I completely rely on him, I only even see him once a week. We support each other but we are not each other's life support. I'm extremely lonely and get bullied and harassed a lot on my campus, I'm exhausted every day and I'm sick of the pain.

My boyfriend knows how much going abroad meant to me, and did his best to support me but he and I were both upset that I would be missing his 18th birthday and high school graduation, as well as many other milestones. We planned to stay together long distance.

I learned today that I was not accepted into the program and I'm devastated.

When I told him, his immediate response was joy because I'll be staying here with him. He was saying things like "we can go to the beach together" and other plans... which I know were with good intent but honestly upset me, not because I don't want to do those things but because he was thinking about his contentness with me being here rather than me being miserable.

I texted him explaining my perspective and how I was upset with him for not empathizing with my disappointment and honest fear for this upcoming year, and he became upset as well. Not because of me, but because he thinks I'm mad at him.

I love this man to death and he is the sweetest and kindest person I know, not to mention the only person who tolerates me. I would never want to hurt him and he has never in our relationship made me mad or uncomfortable.

AITA for being upset that he's not acknowledging how miserable I'll be and instead is focusing on his feelings of my situation? Of course I feel a little selfish for saying this but it's the circumstance, not me.

being upset with my boyfriend when he was excited that I'm not going abroad