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Input: My grandfather was taken to hospital 3-4 months ago to the hospital because he was having a hard time breathing. He was moved to ICU same night and stayed there for 2&amp;1/2 months and after New Years was sent home.

He came home with a breathing machine attached to his neck and a feeding tube in his stomach and has one more for bladder, we were thought how to clean all that and got bunch of stuff related to his care, we had to hire a nurse for 2 weeks because even the doctors suggested they reckoned that’s how long it would take us to learn. This is all normal it can happen to any of us.( I hope no one has to go thourgh this tho.)

Now the part I’m maybe being an arsehole about, I’ve been working for 2 years since I graduated not the best but it was something rather then nothing. Couple of weeks after  my grandfather got sick I was let go from the place I was working in, bad wage, no extra pay for overtime since they found this method to cover it all legal no issues, they aren’t a bad company and all have been nice but I had to leave at 5-6 am for work and came at 8-9 pm (traffic is a nightmare). I had saved up money it was all good.

My grandfathers sickness required a lot and we had to pay for quite a few things and the most expensive 2 were nurse(3 of them coming whenever and whichever got time from their regular work.) and some medications which wasn’t covered we had to buy. Nurses cost nearly a third of my monthly wage in the company I used to work at.

A good chunk of my savings went to that while my father used what he earned for getting the bed and other items we require like the bed and the special thing it should be placed on so we can hone him upside down or straighten him and stuff.

I got a loan from bank for this as well and I’m paying it by myself and I have very little remain from my savings which I don’t want to give it to him just because he wants to get the best stuff rather then getting the mediocre ones. 

I may sound heartless and maybe at this point I am, this isn’t our first time taking care of a bedridden relative my grandmother was paralyzed when I was 6 and lived for 18 years I helped with that too and now helping with my grandfather.

Forgot to say my grandfather is 92. He isn’t conscious and more like in a blank state he doesn’t respond but occasionally stares ahead.
 

not wanting to give my father last of my savings so he can spend it on my grandfather's care