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My eldest brother is almost 30. He graduated from a rather good university a few years back but it's been difficult to find a well-paying starting job even for his level of education. As such, he's been settling for temporary jobs such as administration work, etc. However, recently he found a job, that although has a below-average pay, offers him a wider variety of better job opportunities in the near future. 

It's important to note that he has NO student loan debt because our parents borrowed money from our aunt, so that he does not need to pay interest fees, and instead can pay the original debt amount to my aunt directly. Our aunt is generally well-off, but only because of the compensation she got when her daughter (our cousin) passed away. She still lives a rather good life even after lending our family the $30k+, but that has barely anything to do with this. My brother has barely paid any money back in the past 3 years. Even if he did, I assume it's less than $5k from the way my mother nags. 

Now, my brother is someone whom you might describe as having a high IQ but low EQ. He's a good and kind person but sometimes his lack of common sense and initiative pisses the heck out of me, and he doesn't seem to understand why. He's not really sociable in real life settings, but he has made some good friends online from games, and I can see that it's something that have really added on to his happiness, although I've never actually made any comments about it. 

Now, last night after his work, he was carrying a bigass carrier, and the conversation went like this:

*B = Brother, M = Me*

M: What's that?

B: A laptop?

M: You bought it?

B: Yeah it's below $1000

M: Uhhh. Your new job needs you to have a laptop? (I knew it doesn't, and also, he already had a functioning laptop that's pretty okay)

B: It's to play games

M: You do remember you owe (aunt's name) money?

B: Yah I'll get to that next time (visibly annoyed now)

M: And your leisure is more important than repaying a debt of $30k? When are you going to pay even a little back?

B: June. 

M: How much?

B: A few thousands?? Why? Is that any of your business? Why are you interfering in this?

M; (hecking pissed now) To remind you of your responsibilities because you seem to greatly lack in that aspect and also you seem to put your leisure above the need of paying someone back ASAP? You're not someone that can be counted on apparently. 

B: Well then don't count on me. (I could hear that he's hurt at this time but hiding it, but I was too pissed to care)

M: You better bet on that, and I can't remember having count on you for a few years now. 


The thing is, after I calmed down, I could understand that buying a laptop for gaming could serve as helping his mental health, knowing that he was treated rather badly at his previous job, but I still got upset and said those things. In this case, it would have been me saying those things while he was just prioritising his mental health over the payment of the debt, but he had also previously bought an expensive decorative monument not long after he started working his first official job, without even paying my aunt ANY money at all at that time (this I am sure of, as my mother came crying to me after being stressed that her daughter would never pay back the money). 

So, AITA?

Tldr: Brother who might be unhappy, bought new laptop to (presumably) make himself happier, while still owing an aunt a debt of $30k+, having paid little to none to her yet in a span of 3 years. 


being upset at my brother for buying a laptop while owing others money