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Input: So today one of my friends (25m) was doing a triathalon and it was his first one. My boyfriend and I went to the race to support him at the finish line. 

Upon us walking in, I said in half-jest to my boyfriend that our friend would be pissed he was coming in behind women participants. I said this cause our friend can be a bit of an ego maniac, and because he labels himself as a feminist but his behavior often contradicts that.

So simple joke, race ends, we head to brunch. And my friend literally said “some primal part of me started running the race and was like ‘fuck I can’t let a bunch of girls beat me’ but then by the end I couldn’t catch them”. 

I didn’t know what to say at the time, but it bothers me that 1) my suspicions of him being latently prejudiced were confirmed, 2) he didn’t address the fact that what he said was sexist, just that he ultimately wasn’t able to keep their pace.

I dunno, I don’t want to nag him cause clearly he knows it’s a fucked up thing to think, but I also see it as an opportunity to point out to him some of the other stuff he does that is sexist to me. He’s really shit with boundaries and I do get a little upset when he goes around calling himself a feminist to get himself some v. It reminded me a little bit of the recent Liam Neeson controversy where he said something fucked up and apologized but missed the bigger picture. 

So, WIBTA if I tried to broach on this topic to demonstrate some of the other offensive behaviors he exhibits?

**TL;DR**: friend made iffy comment, see it as window to a larger much needed discussion, but also want to avoid shaming him since he did admit it wasn’t right

bringing up something a friend said that bothered me even after they admitted it was wrong