Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My mother in law has always hated me.  She’s very intrusive in our relationship, constantly critical of me, and over all a negative influence on our relationship.  My wife needed a lot of help when our daughter was born so I sucked it up that she was around a lot.   I’ve been nothing, but respectful to this woman even though she basically spits in my face whenever I’m around her.  

Now that my wife is returning to work she wants to hire her mother to watch our daughter.  She’s always just told me to ignore her mother and try not to take it seriously when I’ve complained about the way she treats me and our relationship.  The idea of having even more of her in my life is awful.  If we’re going to be paying money for someone to watch our daughter it might as well be someone else.  My wife thinks it’s better to have family watch her, that the care would be better than with a stranger and that the extra money would really help her mother out.  I would never ask my wife to go along with a sitter that she was uncomfortable with and I feel like I deserve the same consideration.  

wanting another babysitter besides my mother in law