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Input: Today I brought something up to my girlfriend that I have wanted to talk about for a while. You see, about six months ago my girlfriend went off her birth control because of the unpleasant side effects for her. She has tried numerous methods over the years and none of them have really “fit” for her. I was totally cool with going back to the standard condom program and thought it was the best move for her/us too, so no worries. We leave it with, “let’s talk about this in a few months and see how it’s working”.

Now a brief note on our sex life - sorry. 

See when we are in the passion of the moment, she always wants me to not actually wear a condom... She’s say, “let’s just do it without for a little bit”  and after a while when I go to grab one she’ll tel me to just pull out. If I insist on getting one she is super bummed and it kinda kills the mood. The whole thing makes me really nervous. 

Anyway, today the subject of birth control came up and I thought it would be a good time to follow up about her feelings towards birth control and if she wanted to keep off of it. She said she enjoyed not having to mess with her hormones and would rather stay off it. Great, I am stoked because I want her to do what’s right for her body and I told her as much. She said if we have an accident we could always use plan B and that she isn’t opposed to other measures either. 

So I then bring up the condom situation and calmly tell her that it makes me really nervous. That I don’t think the pull out method is effective and that I need her support if we are gonna not have germinal birth control as a backup. 

She responded to what I get was a heartfelt statement about my feelings with a simple “Ok”.
I asked her what she thought about it and she was super dismissive, just said a few times how she didn’t think it was necessary and that she didn’t think she could get pregnant anyway. 

I just wanted to have a conversation about why she get this way and see if there was some middle ground solution we could arrive at but she was just shit down and wouldn’t talk about it. We were walking the dogs during all of this and she split off and said she needed some space and she’d see me back at come later. I took the long way back and she wasn’t here when I got back.

I’m I the asshole here??


asking my girlfriend if we could always use protection