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Input: My ex and I of almost 2 years got together and talked about our relationship and what went wrong. At many times during the relationship I put a lot of blame on her and it wasn't until this discussion she threw it all back and made me rethink everything. Want to know your opinions. 

I met this girl at her senior year of HS at our work (I was a junior). Ever since I started talking to her on a more regular basis, I realized her and her close friends hang out a lot. Not that its a bad thing but it's usually about 5x a week. I never made her choose her friends over me because I thought that would be the a**hole thing to do. So 6 months goes by and all is well. She leaves for college 6 hours away and we agreed to make it work. I'd visit about once a month for a weekend and it worked out. On any breaks she was home, I was hoping to see her as often as I can because obvi missed her and etc but she usually got me with the "my friends and I have something planned, what about ____ day?" I swallowed being pushed aside and accepted it since she hasn't seen her friends and I drive up once a month. 

A year and a half in and its Summer time, I'm working and trying to balance my social life while prepping for school as well as spend time with her, but eventually got frustrated when it felt like my life revolved around hers. I was constantly being told which days I was able to see her and put pressure on me to hang out with her those days. After expressing my frustration of not being able to see her as much as I'd like, I got hit with the, "I don't see my friends while I'm at school and you drive up. It balances out". I knew this was unfair but as I tried to make her happy I accepted it and moved on with my day. Summer ended and she went back to school, other problems arose but got dealt with. 

Winter break came and I saw her the first few days she was back. I thought how she came to my POV of spending time until it slapped me in the face and didn't see her at all when the rest of her friends came back. I saw her about 2 days a week and almost every time, she would tell me she'd have to leave at __o'clock because her friends have a thing she wants to go to. After again bringing this up, it was brushed aside and I didn't want to fight it since I just wanted to have a blissful time while I can. 

The last straw was when it was my grandmothers birthday. It was only 30 minutes away and dinner was to start at 6pm. We agreed to drive together with my mother because it would be easy transportation. She showed up at my house at 6:15 apologizing for running late because she lost track of time with her friends. I just let it go because I didn't want drama at my grandmothers dinner party. I knew we would be home before 9 I accepted plans with my friends to hang out with that night (Honestly thinking she would leave me at that time anyways). After getting home and telling her this, she breaks down at me for leaving her on a night we could spend together. We fought and I eventually caved and told my friends I won't be going over. Upset at the whole situation and the past month, called a break a few days later and eventually broke it off.

TL;DR- GF would constantly brush me aside to hang out with her friends. I did my best to accommodate until I had enough and eventually broke things off

So AITA for wanting more time with me if it meant sacrificing it for her friends? Or was I expecting too much?

Sorry I left out tiny details. I felt this story was long enough 



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