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Input: Throwaway cause reasons, some info will be neutrally changed to keep redditor wife off the scent.

I’ve been roughly 6 years into a relationship now.
Head in, it has been discussed that i can’t stand tattoos on loved ones. That was no issue cause she didn’t intend to get any

Fastforward to last year, she got a tattoo anyway fully knowing i was against it. It was a meaningful one depicting her deceased pet. 
Obviously, i understand it’s her body and she has all the rights to do whatever she wants.
But despite that, we’re supposed to be a team.

Now moving to the a recent day, she mentioned once she wanted one more depicting her profession and i got pretty upset about that, too. We just ended up not talking about it anymore

Currently visiting family for the holidays, and she scheduled a tattoo artist anyway. I told her now again that i’m against it and she says she doesn’t know how to argue with me cause my view is so strict

I’ve seen many examples of friends getting just 1 meaningful tattoo, that just ends up in them getting many meaningless ones.

Reddit, am i the asshole for wanting her to cancel the tattoo appointment?
Please be honest, cause either way i or another i just want to be able to cope with it.


not wanting my girlfriend to get a second tattoo