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Okay I know the title paints me as the asshole immediately. So context,

me and my friends were all joking about our relatives names and our own names etc, I don't know how to explain it, we were not seeing people as inferior for their names just laughing about how names are and sound.

So, first of all, me and my ex are on great terms. We both are friends today and have no hard feelings, I had a pretty decent relationship with her father (before he passed), her family and all that, it just didn't work out.

So my friends and I are sitting there and making fun of names and then I said that her fathers name sounded a little silly, and my friends went quiet and said that I should just stop.

I defended myself saying it's not a big deal and, eventually I got a little frustrated and said that I'm just humanizing a person who is gone, and that you should be able to joke about anything and everything. Eventually one of my friends said that it maybe wasn't that bad but some of our friends perhaps doesn't like to joke about everything.

I felt terrible, because how my friends reacted and that I may have been a total asshole. So, am I the asshole?

joking about my ex's dead dads name