Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: soooooo this was ages ago but I still don't get it. My boyfriend (now ex boyfriend...) and I had a HUGE argument that led to him dumping me and literally never speaking to me again. This was because he found out I had posted to r/ relationships and asked if the first time we had sex was rape or not. He somehow found my account and found the post and confronted me about it, I admitted it was me. 

My intention for doing this wasn't to "falsely accused him of rape" as he says I was doing. I was genuinely confused because when the situation I asked for advice about happened, I was 16 and had never done anything sexual. Basically I was crying and trying to break up with him and he started doing sexual stuff. I did say yes at first but after I felt so bad because I didn't know my first time would involve a bunch of rough sex and face slapping choking, degrading names etc etc. (more things, won't go too in depth) I did say that it hurt but didn't say no. 

He says that I'm trying to get him to be the bad guy and that I have a victim mentality. He said I was an asshole psychopath out to get him and that he was gonna stay the fuck away from me. 

I had tried to bring it up to him but he didn't wanna discuss it, that's why I posted about it online instead.

Was I being asshole-ish...?

asking reddit if my bf r*ped me? kinda tw