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Input: Hes divorced with kids. He loves them very very much. The divorce was only 6 months ago. I also ended a long term relationship at the same time. I do not have kids. We both discuss how we live in this small town with no opportunity for income growth. But our financial needs grow especially while his ex states she needs more for child support while she is already working two jobs. 

I would like to know if I'm an asshole when we discuss the possibility of moving to areas out of state??? Because I understand how much he loves his babies and I would hope to one day be a part of their life if they are ready for that. BUT the decision comes down to. Sticking around to stay involved in the kids life as much as possible on a weekly basis... Vs. moving to a new area for jobs that pay a hefty amount more than what we make now, and being able to financially support his kids. 

We are both more than qualified and capable of finding and fulfilling new jobs with higher pay grades. 

Advice please. Because I can see the benefits and cons to both decisions. However, I don't think he will ever know what the "right decision" is. 

getting excited when discussing plans to move away from his ex wifes, home state. hes divorced with kids