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Input: TL:DR Fiance of 7 years has been seriously depressed for over half a year straight now, every time I try to help, talk or be close to him he says I am wrong in some way and things are my fault, and it is starting to really suck the life out of me so much that I am even thinking about breaking up.

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My fiance and I have been together for over 7,5 years now. He has always been moody and hard to approach as well as really blunt. I on the other hand am not. We are really different and we communicate in really different ways. We have both grown and learned a lot during our relationship, but in the past 5 months I have started to wonder if he is the person I want to be with.

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We moved in together into my apartment about 8 months ago and that is when his depression started. He stopped smoking weed (after 10 years of use) and tobacco (after 17 years of use) when he moved in with me. I was fine with him smoking for example on the balcony, just not indoors. He insisted in stopping though, and he stopped kinda in one go when he moved in (with occasional use).

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The first few months were hellish and he was going through some other deep shit too, but it felt like he was connecting that shit to me. He was telling me how wrong i was doing things, helping him in all the wrong ways and how I should be doing things better. I understand that he was, and still is, going through deep shit and I need to improve my communication. So I tried to give it to him and grow even more than i had in the entire relationship to be able to be there for him. He started to become angry about me seeing my friends and he started to pick fights about the smallest little things.

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About 2,5 months after he moved in with me, I was in a concert with old friends and met a really amazing person. He seemed like all of the things that I wished to get at that moment. In a way I wanted to leave my fiance for him but the thing is that I am not willing to throw away a relationship and hard work of 7 years just because I clicked with someone. But the idea of who I want to spend the rest of my life with really stuck and that I am not happy.

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I have promised to myself in October that if this relationship is the same in about a year I will brake up with him. I know everything wont ever be perfect and I don't want a picture perfect result in a year.

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ATM if he is away for a few days I feel better, more energized and happier. Things are not sustainable. Not as bad as in the summer but not good either. I don't like living with a person to whom EVERY day is a bad day and what I am doing is not helping at all. I and him feel taken granted for, my needs are not met either and the only feedback I seem to get is that I am not enough and that I do not understand him.

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I tried to keep this as short as possible but there is a lot of things going on. Thank you for the help. At the moment I don't know what to do and who is supposed to change.

not wanting to help my fiance anymore