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Input: Didn't know how to world the title so please bare with me. This is a serious post so please don't say that this is shp.

Bit of backstory: I live with my mum, and about a year ago our toilet broke. It would not flush properly anymore and the pipes would make this horrible churning sound when it actually did flush. I told her for months and months to get it fixed but she would just say that it was fine, she couldn't be bothered and it was too much hassle to try and get it fixed. It's not as if she did not have the money either, I even offered to pay for a plumber numerous times but she refused.

So then today, stepdad goes to the toilet and it gives up the goose completely. Mum said it's fine, and that we can just pour a jug of water down it when we go for a wee and that we'll have to put on a pair of gloves and scoop out the poo and put it in the bin when we go number 2. At this point I am completely floored. I ask her why we can't just call a plumber out, and offered to pay for one for her again, she wouldn't have to pay a single penny, but she says again that she doesn't want to because it's too much hassle and that she doesn't want to let a "strange man" into her house. We argue about it for a while, mainly because I just cannot see her reasoning behind not wanting to get a plumber, and that what she wanted us to do was very unhygienic and gross. I end up snapping at her after she shuts me down for what felt like the 100th time and said to her that I wasn't putting my hand down the toilet to scoop up my own shit, and that it will be her fault when the pipes burst and we'll have to rip up the whole floor to get it sorted, just because she wouldn't get a plumber out. She calls me a selfish bitch and storms off. Stepdad says I'm being unreasonable and then I immediately felt guilty for snapping at her.

I honestly feel like my head is screwed on backwards in this situation. I have no idea what is going on anymore.

So am I the asshole in this situation? Surely it's not a normal thing to do to have to pick your own feces out of the toilet and dispose of it yourself?

saying I won't scoop my own poo out of the toilet