Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Iv been with this girl for over 3 years now, we generally get along pretty well. She is a bit anti social/finds it hard to make female friends so when she told me she was going to go out clubbing with a work friend I thought great she's socializing and is making a new friend but the problem is tonight she mentioned she wants to go out on Valentines day. I initially questioned why would she go out clubbing on valentines day out of all the days she could have chosen and I was frustrated at her for thinking that it was a good idea. We have plans for dinner but outside of that nothing else, I was hoping I could spend the night with her as a couple and just hang out but when i tried to explain that to her she got upset and said we spend every day seeing each other. I don't want her to feel like Im controlling her by telling her how I feel but that's how she is seeing it I think. Am I the asshole for telling her not to go clubbing on valentines day?

telling my girlfriend not to go out clubbing on valentines day