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Input: To put this in context, my boyfriend- let's call him A identifies as a boy, my mom isn't quite homophobic or transphobic but she is very strict. At first A and I were good friends, we didn't hang out as much though as I was dating someone at the time and wanted to be respectful of my boyfriend by not hanging out with other guys alone. Long story short my boyfriend cheated on me and we broke up. A was the second closest person I was closest to and we talked more and more as I was completely heartbroken. About a month goes by and we're talking (we've gotten closer now) and A said he had a crush on me while my boyfriend and I were still dating and after thinking it through for a few days I tell him that I like him too. I ask him out a bit later and it's been going good for about a week now.

I'm scared of telling my mom he's trans- especially since I haven't told her we're dating yet. A says it's ok that my mom doesn't know so that we can sleep over and go on dates and my mom will see it as a girl thing and not us dating but I feel like I'm exploiting his gender. 

not telling my mom about my trans boyfriend