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Input: My (f36) fiancés (m35) mother and father came to visit this week. This is always a stressful time for him because his mother is very her way or the highway. 
At dinner the evening they arrived, his mother told us a ridiculously long and elaborate story that ended with her pulling a muscle in her ass playing tennis. She was clearly in a lot of pain through the evening.
The next morning while I was at work, fiancé texted me that he had taken his mother to the ER because she has shingles- that was the real cause of the pain.
I didn’t know a lot about shingles, but his family does because his brother has had it a couple times. His parents stayed like it was no issue (other than her constant wincing in pain) for the rest of their visit (only 2 days). 

I am extremely upset because his mother knowingly brought a virus into our home when it was at it’s most contagious state. It was also on a part of her body that made transmission more likely (toilet seat). She also blatantly lied to our faces about what she thought it was (his father told us after that she has had a rash where she “pulled a muscle” for several days prior). She didn’t know if I was pregnant, my experience with chicken pox, that I am a clean freak and borderline hypochondriac. Shingles is also not like a cold - the effects from the virus can be very painful and long lasting. I strongly feel they should have canceled their trip and planned for another time. They are both retired so there is no reason they couldn’t have.

I spoke with my fiancé after they left. He was bothered as well and completely understands why I am upset.  He has always had a difficult time getting her to respect his wishes. On top of all that, his mother bitched a lot about her other daughter in law to me, telling me all the things she does behind her back with her grandkids, because her daughter in law would “have a fit is she knew.”

AITA because I want to confront her about lying to us? Or because now I don’t feel comfortable leaving her alone with children we may have in the future?


being pissed at future mother in law for bringing a contagious virus into our home