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Input: Text: for a while now i've been having contact with my old crush (let's call him james). i liked him for a short while 3 years ago. but due to circumstances we could not be together then or let the feelings then just be. we did kiss, but never went further.
now when we talk, we talk about dailystuff and about our past. we're both single and talk about the lonelyness of it (sleeping alone and stuff). he is a very decent guy and never talks about sex or "what he wants to do with my body" etc. 
we did talk about him coming over to watch a movie and to cuddle. kissing was also allowed. 
saturday james came over and after almost three years we kissed again. it felt weird at first, because i was reserved. then we went on watching a movie in my bedroom.. tv on and lying in bed. well.. you can realise that that wasn't really smart. one thing led to another and we found ourselves pretty naked and laughing about that we would not go that far. 
finally we decided (mostly i) to let go and just go with the flow. it felt so right and perfect. i haven't felt this safe, wanted and open (haha no pun intended) since my first boyfriend (teenagelove). the sex itself was unbelievable.. i did not have any reservations and it was just plainly awesome.
we cuddled afterwards and we didn't want to part. 

after saturday, i've been a total woman about this situation and my feelings are back and stronger. i've lost 3 pounds (since friday, when i knew he would come over), because of the fact that i'm just not that hungry and excited for.. (??)
we talked about the situation and that we should trust each other and be honest. we're kind of exclusive now.
here comes the catch... 
two years ago i was in a stupid fase. and i had a one night stand with a guy (lets call him cole). i was drunk and didn't think. 
cole is a friend of james.. and james doesn't know. cole was interested in me after the deed, but i felt like the one night stand was a mistake and i didn't want to have any contact. he now has a girlfriend and whenever i see him the situation is cool and normal. 
if james knew about cole i don't think he could accept it and then this thing between us is over. james has really high standards and morals. that is one of the things that i like about him. 
anyway i wanted to tell him before we took things further.. but now i don't know what to do.

TIFU by sleeping with my old crush