Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I guess it should be "Are We The Assholes" cuz it involves the whole family but whatever

Ok, so for a little backstory I've lived in the house I'm in for basically my whole life. It's a little house in a small town with a nice backyard. Growing up, I was friends with my neighbor's kids (We'll call him Bert.) We grew apart, but the families have always been amicable. My dad and Bert even used to do the bit from "Tool Time" where they talked over the fence, haha. So, suffice to say we had a good relationship with them. 

A few years ago a minor tornado hit my town. No big deal, but our fence on both sides was knocked down in places, we covered the holes with cyclone fence. The fence was really old and decrepit anyway- about 20 years old in a state with lots of rain, so the wood was all chipped and mossy. Now, my dad does fences for a living, so he already hated that fence, and had been planning for a while to replace it. We just hadn't had the money to do so. We talked to our other neighbor (Igor), and he agreed to cop in for the cost of materials (my dad could easily put it up himself, so labor wasn't an issue.) Now, despite my dad being a professional, not only did Igor help pay he offered to help. 

However, when we asked Bert to chip in, he refused. The fence was technically on **our** property, so he didn't think he was responsible for it. I've been in his house, I know his kids, so I know they have the money to at least contribute a little, but he wouldn't budge. I also know that they're definitely better off then we are, and they know that we're definitely borderline poor. 

We shouldered the cost ourselves, but our relationship with Bert and his family has since soured. We feel he was being selfish. 

Tl;dr:
Our more well-off neighbor refused to help my broke family pay for half of our shared fence, because technically it was built on our property. We stopped being friendly with him because of this. AITA? 

expecting the neighbor to pay for half the fence