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For some background, about 3 weeks ago my wife was supposed to go on a work trip for about a month.  After she was set to go, i made some plans to have a small weekend roadtrip to see some friends in my hometown. Her trip was canceled the day before she was supposed to leave, and we were both very happy about that. 

Fast forward to now. This is the weekend i was supposed to go visit, and my wife has found out that she's leaving for a few weeks for a different unexpected work trip this monday. She really wanted to go out (which we have not been able to do for a while) and spend the weekend together before she leaves, but several of my old friends are already excited that I'm making a trip in, and one had planned a party, which he has already spent a decent amount of money on. 

I'd love to spend the weekend with my wife, but my closest friend has already gotten the weekend off, which as a cook/bartender  is hard for him to do, and spent well over $100 on a small party for me. 

I can tell my wife is dissapointed, though she understands, and i want to be here for her before she leaves, but i don't want to leave the people expecting me hanging out to dry either. I offered to take her out on a nice date tomorrow, as I'm leaving on Friday, to make up for it, but i still feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place. 

AITA for not cancelling my trip?




not canceling plans