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Input: This situation is over a year old but things have still been not good between us since. 

To set the scene, I'm at uni right now studying in a field that requires typically 2 years work experience (usually unpaid) to gain a shot at a junior position, post graduation. My degree offered a placement work year that meant I could get a student loan to fund my living costs while gaining that all-important experience. 

A few years prior, my mother (who lives \~3 hours away from me) has some heart trouble. I do what I can to look after her, collecting her from the hospital, making the 6 hour round trip when I can to cut her hair or help her when she's had trouble working the mobile phone I got her (she's a technophobe, bless her). 

One of my brother's announces he's getting married. I'm happy for him, his now-wife is a great person and I think they are perfect together! Only snag is, they set the wedding smack in the middle of the summer my placement year starts. I had been offered an internship overseas at a company that could give me very useful experience and great connections for the future. 

They made it very clear when they wanted me to start, which was before the wedding, and the minimum term I should work there. They had a plan in place to help me settle in the non-English speaking environment and for both parties to gain from the arrangement. Miss that and I couldn't go at all, with nothing else lined up for that period. The company was situated far enough that flying back for a day or two was completely unaffordable for me.

I eventually break the news to my now-SIL that I wouldn't be able to make it. She tells me my brother will be devastated and I apologise, saying I wished I could be there but there wasn't anything I could do. I hoped they would understand that this is my career and I take it extremely seriously.

Instead of telling me he is upset that I can't make their wedding, my brother brings up our mother's health and basically says "How can you move away when your mother is seriously ill?" 

While I can completely understand him being unhappy at me for missing his wedding, using our mother's health like this felt like emotional blackmail. When people try to corner me I come out fighting, so I told him it was wrong of him to say this when I knew more and did more about her condition than he ever did. Communication has all but shut down between us.

missing my brother's wedding