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Input: I really like wasabi, I put it on things people probably shouldn't put it on (like hot dogs.)  So, we were having a family meal with my grandma and a couple of cousins and I put some wasabi on my plate to have with dinner.  My one cousin, let's call her Amy, is a very adventurous kid.  She likes to be included in everything, but in a healthy and not obnoxious way.  She's pretty chill.  So, Amy is looking at me and wondering why I'm eating this stuff that the rest of my family is giving me funny looks for eating.  I told her that it was wasabi, but it slipped my mind to mention how it was spicy.  She asks if she can have some, so I put a bit on her plate.

Que disaster.

Without me watching, Amy got the same amount that I normally use with her fork and put it in a bite of rice. Big mistake, I have a large tolerance because of how much I eat.  Then she starts yelling at me about tricking her into eating something spicy.  She called me plenty of names while trying to find the closest drink.  Of course, wasabi doesn't burn for long, and she laughed it off afterwards, but the rest of my family looked at me like I was a dick.  I even got told off for it by my wife, her saying I shouldn't assume everyone knows what wasabi is.

Things to consider:

Amy is into plenty of pop culture, loves cartoons and comedies.  She also really likes video games and learning in general.  She's also pretty popular at school, so, definitely not a sheltered kid.

Amy is very smart for her age.  Out of all of her siblings, she probably has the most potential.

I always joke around about sharing the wasabi, since nobody else likes it, and everyone else vehemently refuses, I thought she would catch on that there's more reasons than one as to why nobody else wanted any.

Amy has seen me eat extremely spicy things.  I like spicy challenges.

This is probably the most I've hurt my cousin in terms of physical pain. Well, maybe the couple of times I accidentally pulled a knot in her hair when brushing it, but still...

Am I the asshole?

giving my 14 year old cousin wasabi without telling her what it was first