Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we’ve been happily in love and prospering for the majority of our relationship. We barely fight, as we don’t have many issues.

Recently my boyfriend has been muttering stuff in his sleep, at first I ignored it but as of now it’s impossible. He talks so frequently in his sleep I commonly will sleep downstairs as I can’t stand it. He speaks about another woman named Laurel and says phrases such as..

“Laurel we can finally plan our honeymoon.”

“I love the smell of your hair today Laurel.”

“Come here baby girl.”

It’s been pretty gut wrenching to hear him talk about her so often, sometimes up to 2-3 times a week. He doesn’t even call me baby girl, that’s why I added the last one. On some occasions he’ll become more vulgar about what he says such as dirty talk, while still saying Laurel.

I’m very bothered mentally and don’t look forward to going to bed anymore. I want to bring it up to him but also don’t want to seem unreasonable. Because of what’s been happening I’ve grown bitter at times to him, which he sometimes notices and asks about which I tell him it’s nothing.

Am I the asshole?

getting upset at my boyfriend for talking about other women in his sleep