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Hey guys. This is something that has been bothering me for quite a while, so any opinions would be helpful. Probably still not going to approach my parents about this, but.

I am a 19 y/o, living at home with my dad and stepmom and going to community college as well as working. I go to school two days a week (all day) and work 3 jobs (25+ hours a week). I also workout and try to have a balanced life.

I pay for my own expenses, car payment, insurance, eating out, phone bill, etc. The only thing I do not pay for is rent and groceries for the house.

I love my stepmom and dad, and I am well aware that they do a lot for me, especially my stepmom.

However. 
I am beginning to become frustrated/overwhelmed. My parents work from home and don’t leave the house very often, especially in the winter. This has caused me to turn into their errand girl. They have me get the groceries and run any errands they don’t want to leave the house themselves to do. This would be fine if it was every once in a while. 

Example:
Yesterday I went to school from 10am-7:30pm with very little breaks in between my classes. I’m exhausted at the end of it. Also add i was feeling under the weather. 7:30 rolls around and my dad asks me to go to Costco(close to my school, but 20 minutes from our home) for him to grab a computer monitor he needs, but not sure what one. This makes me have to go to Costco, FaceTime him for 10 minutes while he decides what monitor he wants, and then asks me to bring it home. All the while I’m exhausted, and still not feeling well and just want to go home. 

This is a common, if not daily occurrence. My parents are always asking me to go “here” or “there” for them because I’m out already or heading in that direction. A lot of the time, they don’t care that they make me late or I have previously made plans. I worked a 9 hour shift last Saturday, got off at 10 and had to go grocery shopping because they wanted things before a certain sale ended. If I’m the one who drove, I have to drag my friend or boyfriend to whatever asinine place my parents need me to go. This is something that my precious boyfriends (and current) have picked up on and think it’s very invasive and odd/rude. I’ve defended them saying they do a lot for me, so I can do some stuff for them.

But lately it’s just started to become too much. Add the fact that I have homework, jobs and my own life to juggle AND the fact that they claim I don’t do enough at home, it’s enough to frustrate anyone. I have weekly chores, try to keep my area and bathroom clean and common areas, but I still receive texts and get told that “I’m doing the bare minimum” and “why didn’t I do this”. 

Am I the asshole because I’m living rent free and don’t want to be their errand girl?






not wanting to be my parents "errand girl"