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TLDR; my friend tells me that my ex boyfriend so I had broken up with two days before grabbed her ass two years ago, gets mad when I say I’m not ready to talk about that and turns my other friend on me for saying that

So a year ago I was going through a REALLY rough breakup when I found out my boyfriend of a year was sleeping with a married woman (a whole-nother story)

But anyways, a friend who went to school in a different city was in town for spring break and we and another friend decided to go to dinner, and I pretty much asked that we not talk about the breakup because I wanted one night away from it all

When I asked my friend who was visiting, their answer was pretty much “no, because I need do tell you something about your now-ex”

I was upset that they wanted to talk about him but we as a group used to be really close before my ex moved away for the military, and I knew that she had talked to him a bit after the breakup to kind of call him out of being an ass, so I thought it was about that

So we finish dinner and our other friend goes home and the two of us are in the parking lot, and I knew they wanted to talk about it and I was already choking back tears tbh

And they told me that, about a year before we had started dating, my ex had grabbed my friends ass at lunch our senior year one day without consent

He had done the same thing to me when we were friends but we’re on the edge of “more than friends”, which was where they were st the time he groped her

So, my immediate reaction was “that’s just how he tests boundaries”

I realized as soon as I said it that that was kind of an asshole thing to say, and tried to rationalize how he did it to me, and I just started bawling because I was so hurt by his break of trust and all, and kind of ended up in a blubbering rant about how hurt I was by how he treated me, and it didn’t surprise me what he did to her, and how I hope he burns in hell

So the night ends and I go home and almost immediately I get a text from a friend who wasn’t there ranting how he couldn’t be friends with someone who “condones that kind of thing”

Of course I’m super confused and text my friend I had been talking to asking what was up and they just say “give him time”

I literally had a panic attack because I realized he blocked me after sending that, and I couldn’t tell my side

So  I send the friend I had talked to a text saying I was sorry if I gave the impression I didn’t care about them because I did, and I just wasn’t ready to hear that but I was there for them (even though I felt they should have been there for me first)

She in turn sends a text about how she’s “angry, hurt, and couldn’t believe that someone who was my friend could say that”, even though I have no idea if they’re referring to the first statement I said or anything after it

I haven’t talked to her since and don’t ever want to talk again, I know I could have said it better but am I in the wrong here?

AITA?

putting myself before my friend