Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Let me explain. I am in college and recently decided that I am tired of the freshmen 15, sophomore 30 and so on. I have a gym membership that my mom got me for my birthday and decided to make good use of it. When I told my boyfriend, he wanted to go with me to also get rid of his weight gain. At first it didn’t sit right with me, but I let him come with me anyways. 

We jogged together, much to my embarrassment, because I was sweating like a pig and couldn’t keep a pace after 3 minutes of half of the speed I did in high school. He seemed better off then I was but when I stopped to take a breath he stopped too and said that would be enough for now. I was so embarrassed that I had to stop so soon when I used to be able to jog a half mile in 5 minutes. I didn’t look at him while I wiped the sweat off of me. 

We then went to do stretches and I still couldn’t look him in the eye. It happened again when we went to lift weights. I just couldn’t look at him after he saw me so out of sorts and gross and sweaty. I don’t know if this makes sense to anyone but I didn’t feel sexy anymore. I let this go on for a few days, but I couldn’t stand it anymore so I brought the issue up to him. 

I explained my feelings and asked him not to come with me anymore. He seemed genuinely confused about why I was asking this and got really sad. I told him I was sorry, and he said “It’s ok. I just thought this could be something we could do together.” He was so upset for the rest of the day that I almost took it back, but I knew I couldn’t. I would just feel even more ashamed afterwards, and I know he wouldn’t feel comfortable going to the gym with me anymore. So why do you think reddit? Am I the asshole?

refusing to exercise with my boyfriend