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Input: I have had a very strained relationship with my mother my entire life. (I’m 35)
I was an accident that occurred during the height of her hoe phase in college. 
It’s only by the grace of God that I’m not severely damaged because she partied and did hard drugs for the first six months of her pregnancy ( in her defense she didn’t know and stopped as soon as she found out.)  
She left me to be raised by my great grandparents with the occasional stint at her house, but I was always sent back if it didn’t suit her girlfriend at the time to have a fully formed child around. 
When I was 15 she met a woman who I thought was great at first. She turned out to be a (formally diagnosed) narcissist that made my life a living hell from then until I finally went no contact 2 years ago. She threw my very medically frail mother out with nowhere to go. So I took her in trying to help her. She stayed on the phone fighting with her ex so much that she got kicked out of my neighborhood due to neighbor complaints. I helped her get somewhere else to go and not long after that I lost my job and place to stay. 
I ended up having to move in with my ex husband for a while which was pure hell and then I got sick. Uterine cancer.
She begged me to come move in with her so she could  “take care of me” and I tried everything in my power to not move in with her, but even though in have a good job, it wasn’t enough for me to live on my own at first because i had to be out of work for 3 surgeries back to back to get the cancer out and be cleared. (I have an all clear from the oncologist, I’m just on surveillance to make sure I stay clear)
So I move in with her and shortly afterwards I noticed her and her ex are all friendly on the phone. So I started asking her when they were getting back together. She denied it, but a week before the surgery to remove my lymph nodes she tells me that she’s moving to Texas to be with her ex THE DAY AFTER MY SURGERY. 
I was livid. She said if I needed her after surgery she’s get on a bus and come right back. I told her she made her choice and to stay gone when she left. She left me the day after surgery when I was in so much pain that I felt like I was being ripped apart because they gave me OxyContin and it wasn’t working. I asked for something different and they wouldn’t give me anything else because “OxyContin is the strongest painkiller “ t I also developed pneumonia because I was in too much pain to get up and walk, so I went to the ER and they gave me a cillin drug when it is all over my chart that I’m allergic. 
She still got up and left.
She went to Texas and her own health went to hell, Now she keeps texting me telling me about her having to be on dialysis and tonight she’s in the hospital in terrible shape. Her blood pressure is low in one arm and high in the other her urine is black and smells weird and she can’t walk across the room.
After 35 years of being an afterthought, AITA for maintaining no contact in this situation?

ignoring my mother