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Input: so, i (f19) have been dating ‘marcus’ (m21) for some time now.
things have been going pretty well, we get along extremely well, but there’s this huge stressor: his mom.

marcus and i make plans, right? usually after i finish class or after he’s done at work. but his mother always ruins these plans.
for example: valentines day.
we had planned to get dinner after i finished my lecture at 7:30pm. i get a text at 6:30 and my boyfriends in fumes about his mother spam calling him, asking him to pick up his younger brothers from their practice AND to go grocery shopping with her. she guilt trips him and calls him ungrateful because he’s living in an apartment that she owns (typically, rents out) for free. she usually says things like “i let you live here and you cant even do this for your own mother?”. i, being agitated that this is about the 20th+ time she has asked him to run errands with her or help her, got upset and told him to put his foot down.
she gets offended when he says no because he has plans (she knows we are dating... planned to meet me, but flaked on us, so i havent met her yet). THEN SHE gets his dad to call him and beg him. 
they guilt trip him into doing things.
they show up to his apartment unannounced and sit down and make themselves at home.
she even took marcus’ car because she got hers totaled, and refuses to give it back. even tho marcus bought it with his own money. she promised to buy him a car, its been 8+ months now.

so, am i the asshole for being upset that my boyfriend can’t come to terms with his mom? theres been times we dont see each other for weeks (we live an hour drive away from each other, in a big city) because hes busy with work and gets called in often, goes to college, and his mom begs him to do chores that his two younger high schooler brothers are capable of doing. i know for a fact he can find at least some time to meet me half way somewhere and grab food. i also know i deserve time with him but his mom prevents that from happening. what am i supposed to do?

being upset at my boyfriend for letting his mother be a control freak