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Input: I'm going to try to keep this concise as its not too big of a situation, but I like writing so no promises. Also, sorry about mobile formatting.

I'm a 19 year old guy, that might be relevant to some of you when making your judgement. So my family is pretty traditionalist, especially my dad. I value tradition and am conservative myself, but being raised in Canada has made me see things a bit differently than they do. So the scene is Christmas Eve, and as per usual my parents Skype their families (almost all of my extended family lives in Poland, so thats our only form of communication) to wish them a Merry Chrsitmas and talk for a bit. Usually I'd join in, but this year I really wasn't feeling it, so as soon as my dad motioned for me to come to the computer, I instead went upstairs.

Reason for this is twofold: First, I haven't seen any of that family in 4 years (that was the last time we flew to Poland), so I feel we grew apart naturally. Second, when I was in Poland, I tried my best to engage with my cousins and talk about stuff, but because of the language barrier (I understand Polish perfectly, but speak it very poorly) and different interests, they didn't seem especially interested in talking to me. My uncles, aunts, and grandparents talked to me more, but that was just the standard "so how's life, how's school" type of thing, just felt artificial. I spent most of that trip just with my brother.

So essentially, I feel like these people are my family in name only. I don't care about them, don't want to waste my time talking to them. I have 2 cousins that live in Chicago with whom I talk to fairly often (no language barrier, I can relate to them fairly well, and I visit them once a year, even by myself if my parents can't make the trip), I'm super close to my parents, and my brother is my best friend. I feel like that's family enough for me, and I have close friends that I'd sooner call family than the Poland people.

Now the asshole part. After the Skype call was over, my dad stormed into my room and yelled, saying he was deeply offended that I wouldn't talk to his family, and that he didn't raise me to be such a bum(?) My parents and I speak Ukrainian, so the insults he hurled at me were in Ukrainian and I'm not sure if that's an appropriate translation, it means something like that but a bit more derogatory. His reaction came as a total surprise to me. I expected he'd be unhappy, but I don't see it as such a big deal. I promised I'd join the call next time to get him to calm down. We've since reconciled, but it's been on my mind, I feel guilty but don't really want to adjust my belief on this.

Should I try to put on a show for my dad and be nice to these people? Should I genuinely try to build a relationship with them? Should I put my foot down? Am I the asshole?

not wanting to speak to extended family