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Input: Throwaway account cause I don't feel comfortabke posting this on my own account.

I'm 110% sure that I'm gonna marry my boyfriend. We're extremely compatible and we both never felt so in love before. But the one thing we don't exactly click is the sex. I have quite a high sex drive. 6 times per week would be the good life but I understand that's not that realistic so I settle for 3 or 4 times a week. My boyfriend, on the other hand, is just fine having it twice or less a week.

I always tease him and straight up say some dirty as* sh*t but usually I just get a laugh from him as he continues to scroll through his phone or just "I just feel like hugging it right now". I always stop and respect his decision, lately I've been saying some things jokingly about us not having sex often to see if he notices but he just ignores it.

It's now been 5 days since the last time we had sex. I was feeling pretty frustrated as I was getting my period soon – we have sex in my period but I don't like how messy it gets so I usually prefer doing it towards the end (should mention that I have 7-12 days long periods). So for the past five days I was trying to get him to do something multiple times on the day but he would just dismiss me.

Today I got my period, and was feeling really really really frustrated, and told him that now we gotta wait for a week or so. He responded "I don't mind having sex with you on your period, I actually like it", so I took it as kind of a sign that he might want to do something later. Well, we got high, I tried again, he rejected me, I started complaining and all of the sudden he was crying.

I don't exactly know what happened, as I said, I was and still kinda am high but I think I did something like stare at him and just turn my back on him, showing that I was upset. All I know is that he started being really offended by all that and his voice started shaking (I didn't look up at him to check for tears but I know he was crying a little), saying that it's not healthy to have sex so often (I said back that we were having sex for like 2 times a week but he ignored) and that chinese doctors say so. He said he didn't want to make that an excuse, and asked me to respect it and that sometimes he just doesn't feel like it, he just wants to cuddle.

I felt really bad about it but as I am very prideful I just stopped talking and started scrolling through reddit (that's when I had the idea to post this here). I don't want to force him to do anything and I don't want him to feel bad or feel like I think sex is more important than other aspects of our relationship. But at the same time, sex is an important factor for me and I didn't think it was such a big deal for him.

So, AITA?

complaining about me and my boyfriend's lack of sex