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Input: Obligatory backstory and other information: I love my girlfriend, she loves me and our families love each other, etc. She has sent me photos of engagement rings in the past, taken me to jewelry stores, called me hubby, etc, essentially hinting that she wants me to propose. With that said, I had been planning to propose to her for the past several months. I put in effort into making reservations, earning enough money for where I wanted to do it and decided it would be best to do it in a foreign country while we are on vacation. She has a tendency to snoop through my phone while we are resting in bed, not for any trust issues or anything like that (honestly) but because she gets bored and enjoys reading conversations I have with a couple of my best friends.

  
With that said, fast forward to last month, I was talking to an unrelated friend that I hadn't spoken to in over a year via text. He asked me if I am getting engaged and I said yes, I plan on proposing while I am on vacation. I gave him no other information, not the where, the how or the time,  only that it will be while we are on vacation. She snoops through my phone a couple of weeks later and comes across this text, she apologizes but is now insisting I propose elsewhere because the surprise is ruined. This made me very upset because the whole reason why I booked tickets for this vacation and booked the best hotel rooms/suites is because I planned on proposing to her there. AITA for getting mad at her and insisting that the engagement/proposal still occurs during our vacation despite her wishes?

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Tldr; Made plans to propose to my girlfriend, she goes through my phone and finds a text where I discuss proposing to her while on vacation. She says she no longer wants me to propose there because it ruined the surprise, AITA?

proposing to my girlfriend