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Input: My little brother is in his mid 20’s and still lives at home. He is in non traditional school, which requires about $300/month in dues. If my calculations are correct, he is making a little under $2,000/mo after paying his dues. My mother doesn’t charge him any rent or bills, and she sometimes brings him home food. He has fully paid his vehicle off because of his lack of bills and income ratio. He is honestly a great person, I just believe he has zero idea about the real world because he chooses to live under my mothers thumb. He discussed once with me that his friend offered him and room and he said “he wanted to change me $300 a month! Ha! Can you believe that!!!!” He was complaining that the price of the 4 bedroom house split 2 ways was insane. I told him I was paying $900 for my studio in the city and he was shocked. He has almost no concept of paying bills aside from his car payment. I will give him credit that he has an almost perfect credit score, and is one of the most intelligent people I have ever met. 

Moving on...

As I said, he is fantastic, wonderful, sweet, and caring. He is also very handsome when he puts effort into his appearance. But usually he just wears the same clothes from high school and only cuts his hair twice a year. Sometimes he will shave his own head. It makes me sad because he has low self confidence when in reality he is an amazing person. :(

I asked him to make me a Christmas wishlist, and it’s a bunch of “Manga” ? and Japanese video games. I feel as if I buy him these things this will encourage his “nerdy” behavior. I know this type of stuff makes him happy, but I think if he stays at home and just plays video games he will continue to be depressed. I want to buy him something that will encourage him to get out of the house. I want to buy him new clothes and maybe some tickets to an event so he can invite some friends out. My mom calls me upset all the time about how sad he is and how he never does anything. Why should I purchase these items and encourage his behavior which might be adding to his depression? Not to mention I think what he is asking for is for kids, and he is in his mid 20’s. I get men will never outgrow video games, but that’s literally the only thing on his list aside from “manga.” Maybe I just don’t understand? 

AITA for not buying my brother what he wants for Christmas because I think he should grow up and shift his interests into more adult things, and focus on moving out from my mothers house? 

not buying my younger brother anime related gifts for Christmas because I think he needs to grow up