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Input: Sorry for any problems with formatting, this is my first time posting on this reddit and I'm on mobile.

This has all happened within the last 24 hours, and I need to get it off my chest.

I'm a 19 year old girl who still lives with her parents and has no curfew. Yesterday I spent the evening out with my friends. At around 9:30, we sat down at a McDonald's and got to talking and lost track of time. At around 10:30, I realized it was too late for my mom to be up (she wakes up around 5:45-7:00, and goes to bed around 10.) I asked my friend if it was ok if I stayed at her place, and before I could let my mom know, she texted me. She was asking if we were done shopping yet, which I told her we weren't, and then I told her that my friend said it was ok to stay at hers. My mom argues with me, telling me I should just come home, that it's too late to be doing this. My friend is exhausted, and is worried about how she can get us home safely in her condition (I live on the other side of town from my friends.) Mind you, its closing in on 11 now. It ends with my mother telling me to make a desicion, and getting pissed at me for making the choice that would probably have been the safest for me.

There has been another incident like this, (however, I was still at home), I had stayed up past midnight working on something and was too afraid to go to my room to sleep. We have 4 dogs, one of which will bark at just about anything that moves, so if I went past my moms door, the dog would wake her up. My mom is someone who seems to get mad at me for anything, and has gotten mad at me for waking her up like that before. (Including one time where the dog she shares a bed with jumped down and scared her awake while I was working on homework in my bedroom, and she yelled at me for not putting it away, even though the dog doesnt have a pin or anything. She didnt apologize either.)

That night at my friends house, I cried in my friends arms because this is actually a normal occurrence (not staying out so late, but her saying I'm inconsiderate and prioritizing friends over family) and I nearly had a panic attack two times that night. My therapist and I have discovered that a majority of my mental health issues come from her.

My mom is basically ignoring me (kinda) after telling me I didn't consider my family, and how I dont prioritize my family anymore, that my friends come first, she left the house with my sister, who at the time isn't saying alot to me aside from short sentences. But I had considered my family and figured out an alternative. My friends are on my side, saying that what I did was considerate, and that my mom is just a helicopter parent.

Am I the asshole in this situation??

spending the night at a friends house because it was so late