Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Early yesterday morning I got a friend request from an old buddy of mine. We’d been friends for years, and were quite close. He and I had a brief (no sex)  fling (I was having one of my first manic episodes, and, with also being borderline, it’s not like it was that meaningful), which ultimately ended with an event I don’t know how to describe. Technically it was rape. I didn’t want the particular act, and I tried to suggest other acts and tried to wiggle away and “get back to class” but I never said no, due to childhood trauma making it very hard to speak up, especially when it would upset someone else. I don’t think he realizes what happened.

I was trying to process it, bc with it came CSA memories, and yesterday I talked to a social worker for the first time ever about a child I work with, bringing back more issues. I finally mentioned it this morning because I thought I was ready to work through it, but she demanded to know his name.

I refused to tell her, because it didn’t seem like her business and I have doubts and honestly, a week before he added me I had been reminiscing the friendship we’d had from 5th-10th grade. I was also scared of what she would do with the information, because she was so adamant on knowing.

I know this is long and probably doesn’t make sense, but am I the asshole for keeping who he is to myself? (I still haven’t even accepted the request)

not telling my girlfriend the name of an old friend