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Input: First post ever and I’m wondering if I’m the asshole here. Nephew is 2 years shy of 13 and has been staying with my wife, of 15 years, and I for the past couple of months due to family medical issues.  Staying with us for an extended period of time is ok - sharing our bed on the daily with him is a bit much at his age in my opinion.

My wife wants him to sleep with her every night in our bed and it turns into an argument every night that it’s brought up.  I give a gentle no and she turns eventually very angry and hateful. He’s still slept in our bed 6-7 nights because of finally breaking me down after hours of arguing, him coming in after we’re asleep saying he’s scared or just can’t sleep, or I finally go sleep on the couch after my wife gets so angry she’s ready to end our relationship over me sticking to a hard “no” on him sleeping with us.  When I say angry, I mean level 10 having never seen her get this angry, angry. 

She will eventually go sleep in the other room with him because he wants her to and will cry when she doesn’t and blames me for her not getting good sleep as a result. It’s not out of the ordinary for him to cry when he doesn’t get his way. Claims are that I have no compassion and I’m heartless for “making” the two of them sleep in the other room. Side note - she is welcome to sleep in our bed at any time without issue, but I’m “hurting his feelings” by telling him that he can’t sleep in our bed.

Am I The Asshole here or what? It seems pretty reasonable to me to want a good night sleep without a third person crowding the bed. 

not wanting my preteen nephew to sleep in the bed with wife and I