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Input: A little bit of context: this girl and I have now been broken up for about a week and some of it may have had to do with her mom not liking me. I'm 19 and in college and she's 18 and in her senior year of high school. We dated for about a year and we both interacted with each other's families often. 

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Now onto the stories. There have been multiple times where her mom has offered to pay me/pay for me.

The first of these instances was I helped my girlfriend's sister and her husband move homes over the summer. It was  a really hot day, like scorching. I did a lot of the heavy lifting myself, considering I was almost double the size of everyone there. It was a long day, we started at 10 am and didn't stop until 4 pm, and for me that was a lot because   
I have a bad shoulder from high school wrestling. Her mom decided to pay me, with her own money. Not an amalgamation of her sister, her brother in law, her mom, and her brother in law's parents. Just her. She wanted to give me $140 of her own money. I have a very strict moral code, and I refused to take it because I offered to help, they didn't ask me. I wanted to use it to get closer with her family and show them that I was serious and hard working. We went back and forth for a few minutes. Her mom ended up handing my girlfriend the money and she left it on my desk while I was in the shower because we were gonna go out for dinner. 

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Another instance is when her sister graduated from grad school and we went to a local restaurant to  celebrate. I was invited personally by her sister and mom, so we went and it was our time to order. This was kind of a fast food place with the food quality of a sit down place, so it was a little on the pricier side. She asked me what I wanted and I told her I didn't know yet, under the impression that I was paying for myself. It was her turn in line and she told me to order and I told her that I was fine and could pay for myself. We were holding up the line and her mom finally let go and let me order on my own. She seemed very upset with me for the rest of the night and my girlfriend told me that her mom didn't like what I did. I wanted to show that I was fiscally responsible and didn't need her to pay for me. 

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A few other times we went out and I let her pay which killed me, but my girlfriend told me to let her pay or else there would be a problem. I always paid for my girlfriend whenever we went out or got food. We ordered a pizza while we were at her house and her mom saw and said "Why didn't you guys tell me? I would have paid. You're in college you need every dollar." I had money saved from working full time over the summer and I have a campus job that pays decently. A $20 pizza wasn't going to leave a dent in my pocket.

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TL;DR my girlfriend's mom always insists on paying for me and I don't let her because I want to show that I'm responsible, which makes her upset with me.

never letting my girlfriend's mom pay