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Input: So this happened a few years ago in tenth grade, I'm a sophomore in college now, but it's always been in my head because it really ruined my longest friendship, and I keep switching sides on whether or not I'm the asshole. So this kid, Jon let's call him, was the same age as me, same male gender, and we had been friends since I moved schools in the 3rd grade. He's over one night on a weekend and we were having a good time as usual, and I show him a video I saw earlier that I thought was HILARIOUS. It was that grapefruit-job tutorial video that was pretty viral on you-tube, which I'll link at the bottom of this post. Now I still think this video is amazing and yea maybe it's a little nsfw but it's no big deal I think. Anyways, with him and I in my room (we were not alone in the house my parents and siblings were downstairs), I show him the video on my laptop. I am dying from laughter and, from what I could tell, so was Jon! As soon as the video gets past the "GWORSCH GWORSCH GWORSCH" part, he leaves the room, comes back, and we start talking about other stuff, except now he is totally expressionless. He's hardly talking and definitely not laughing. I asked him what's wrong and he just said that he was leaving. A few minutes of awkward silence after his mom comes and picks him up just like that. I thought it was weird but I pretty much forgot about it. About a week later (we went to different high schools so I hadn't had a chance to see him again), my mom calls me to her room and when I see her face she is completely livid. She starts shouting and yelling at how I'm a terrible friend and that I've changed and all this crazy stuff that I was completely clueless to. She then tells me that Jon told his mom that I showed him porn. I was MORTIFIED at this because my fairly strict parents were, to say the least, not very approving of anything remotely sex related. Tears and arguments later, I show her the video, and her exact reaction was "Oh, that's what it was? Oh okay."  And boom that was that. For whatever reason, probably because it was raunchily comedic rather than actually sexual, the video didn't set off the whole "THIS IS SEX" trigger that would have led to her berating me for living a bad lifestyle, but that's besides the point.  I felt betrayed by my friend, and we didn't contact each other for a few weeks. Finally, I text him and his responses are all at most two-words until he plain stops responding. Aaaand that was that. In the past few years we've seen each other every now and then since we're in similar communities and we don't greet each other.

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So I never apologized for showing him that video because I didn't feel I needed to. After it was too late to apologize though, I did begin to feel bad. I mean, a kid in tenth grade is totally in his right to feel uncomfortable and leave! It was probably an asshole thing to show him an explicit video when, looking back at it, I had never shown him anything like that before. But still, to tell his mom and, as a result, my mom that I showed him porn? First off, it just was not porn. Second, isn't there a code in high school that clearly states you should keep those talks secret from parents anyways? And third, it made feel like I was some pervert or sex offender for showing someone "porn," which is a real crappy and demeaning feeling. 

So, am I the asshole? Should I have at least apologized to save the really long term and close friendship?

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Youtube link to video:

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKnLz9OhnLw](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKnLz9OhnLw) 

showing my friend porn