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Input: Okay so first of all I'm in my first year of University and second year of college. I commute like 50 minutes to my school everyday, so for this reason alone I do not have much time to hang with my friends for hours during the school week.

Flashback to my last 2 years of high school, one of those years which I spent at community college. During this time I had a friend group who like to get together and play this game called Exalted every week, which is another RPG game like DnD.  My friend group consisted of my current best friend Rose, an ex friend named Mark, Marks little sister, another guy named Tom, an old friend named Katy and her step brother Robert who is 40 years old. Everyone else was 17-19 when we first started playing. Robert was always the DM or GM of our games, and because we had no where else to play for over a year, I offered up my house for us to have game night on Fridays. After a while, I felt like my friends were overstaying their welcome. Each Friday game took a minimum of 6 hours to play, they would always order take out with often with a mess they would sometimes leave for me to clean up. I began to feel stressed out about playing this game. 

I didn't begin separating from my friends until we all tried to go to the Renaissance festival together. I was going with my family and the Exalted group. When my friends show up (which was like 6 or 7 people) in their minivan to go to Renaissance festival, the van engine craps out immediately on us in front of our yard. So we offer up our other family minivan for them to borrow. 

I remember this weekend in particular. This was the same week that I had broken the tip of my right index finger, and the same week my backpack was stolen at school. I remember trying to open up about it with my friends at the time, but they weren't respondsive to what I was saying. So to top it all off I decided to go to Ren Fest to feel better. However after like 2 hours or 2 1/2 hours I was feeling pretty done with the Renaissance festival. I had fun, but I had seen all the fake Renaissance/medieval attractions years prior, and I was tired and ready to eat. But my friends were hardcore Renaissance people, they were following the day's schedule and ready to commit the rest of the day there. But I split off with my parents and my sisters to get lunch and go home. My friends were tense and disappointed that I left early. I told them that my finger still hurt and I wanted to take more pain meds (which was kinda true lol).

Later that night, after my friends returned the family van and left, I got a series of cryptic texts from Mark, which basically revealed to me that I had offended him at Ren Fest. I remember eventually calling him and asking him "what the fuck? Why exactly?" And trying to drill him to get him to say exactly what he was thinking. And then, Mark starts crying (which he did a lot when manipulating me and others in the past 🙃). And then I hear Rose's voice on the phone and I realize she was there the whole time listening and talking to Mark. Then she begins to tell me that I don't hang out them as friends enough anymore. This shocked me because we already spent once a week playing our RPG game and never missed our game night. At this point I had told them how busy I was at school (community college), and about the bad week I had before hanging out with them. I felt like their request to spend more time with me, after they had been so tense around me that I didn't want to hang with them, was inconsiderate of my feelings. I remembered crying that night because being attacked by 2 friends over the phone is so fucking fun. 

It's been like a year since this event, and I'm actually still friends with Rose. I feel like Rose just got fed Mark's bullshit at the time and took his side, but she's been a much better friend since then. I have also stopped playing Exalted with these people because I've lost my interest in 6+ hour long RPG games. I guess I just grew out of that. As a result I don't see the group much anymore. Also because of many other factors involving Mark, I have been ghosting him for over the past couple months. (He was dependedent on me and our conversation had become passive-agressive whenever we talked to each other).

So was I the asshole? Also if you answer "Not enough info" I understand. This was just a whole shit show of a friend group and I didn't want to live every single detail of it again



not hanging out with most of my high school friends anymore