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Input: I've lived with my roommate (who is also family) for 2 years. I've asked him over and over again, stop using my pans if you are going to leave them in the sink for days. I have specific sized pans for the things I want to cook, and he continuously leaves them in the sink for me to wash when I need to use them. He won't even soak them, so I've always got to scrub a ton of shit off of them. (He's also not once cleaned the apartment, but that's a different story. We have multiple issues)

I asked him one more time last week, please, wash my pans when you are done using them. Every time I go to use them they are filthy.  He just says "hmmm" and changes the subject. After that conversation he uses them again immediately and leaves them in the sink, and then he goes on a week long trip out of town.

The day before he got back I washed all of them and put them in my room so he can not use them anymore.

He came home yesterday and didn't notice, but he called me at work this morning looking for them and got really pissed when I told him I put them away. He told me if I leave them out he's definitely going to keep using them, and I can't keep them from him. Which I thought was weird to say.

The thing is, HE HAS HIS VERY OWN SET. It's a brand new set, barely touched because HE ONLY WANTS TO USE MINE. And mine are like 20 years old, I really don't understand what his issue is. I am just sick of him using my stuff and leaving it filthy in the sink for a week. I haven't left him without any cookware; he just doesn't want to use his own. He has two really nice skillets and three different-sized pots. I do not use his cookware at all, because I fry a lot of steak and his skillets are not big enough. All he cooks is scrambled eggs, and sausages, and for some reason insists on using my pans for that. I'm almost 26 years old, him as well, and I can't believe I'm still dealing with this stupid shit. I'm moving out soon, but until then,

AITA?


hiding the pans from my roommate