Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I have really fond memories of my grandparents. They care for me and have always treated me with love. However, the last time I've seen them in person or talked to them on the phone was about 12 years ago, and even as they hit 90 last year and begged me to come visit, I don't think I want to see them again because of their son; my dad.  

To put our father/son relationship as a tl;dr, I've always been emotionally neglected, and he was never there for me during hard times. There were also heinous acts he had done to me in the past that I would never confess to my mom because I don't want to break her heart.  
He also has a strained relationship with mom and sister, but they keep in touch with grandparents.  
I've come to despise the parents of the man I call dad now because they created him. I'm currently out of college and have trouble finding work, so the family and grandparents think I'm just embarrassed to meet them because of that. They're reaching an old age and my grandpa is sick and trying to make me feel guilty, saying this could be my last chance.

AITA for cutting contact with grandparents that love me?

not visiting my aging grandparents