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I am 19F, ex is 20M. We went to the same university last year after having started dating senior year of HS. I had decided to go to [school A] before my ex did. At the time, yes, we were crazy about each other. By the end of the year we were broken up, he had withdrawn from school A and so had I. He moved away with his parents, and I moved back in with mine but about 5 hours away. Up until then we had been in the same city pretty much nonstop. 

I have been considering going to a baking school near me for about 6 months, after I finish this school year. It’s a great baking school and an equally great culinary school [school B], and my ex’s passion is cooking. He asked me a few months ago if I was still considering going to the baking school and I told him I was just focused on my current classes and getting my associates. You could say my interest in baking is as of pretty recently, but I’ve been working in a bakery and loving it. I’m pretty unsure of what I want to do long term and I think I’d enjoy baking so I want to go to this school, but now I hear that he has enrolled for the semester before me. 

He’s told me that he isn’t following me to this school (but it wouldn’t be the first time) and that he is really excited and interested in the program, but I can’t commit to going if I know he will be there. It’s tough to explain but I don’t think I’ll be able to focus at all. He also said that the baking and culinary classes are totally separate, so we wouldn’t have any classes together, but it’s a really small school in the first place. There are also some times when certain groups are off campus for internships, so we’d only be on campus with one another for about 10 months total over 2 years. He said I can’t call dibs on a school, which I know, but shouldn’t he care more about how his decision would fuck my plans over?

I told him that he’s being very insensitive to my needs, and while I care about him, I told him up front that he would lose me if he enrolled. I’m pretty confident he still has feelings for me even though he says he doesn’t. He said he wanted me not to change my decision to go to this school because of him, but how can I? I blocked him on everything. I just can’t believe he would pull this shit after telling me how many times he wanted me to be happy. 

So Reddit, AITA?



not wanting my ex to go to a school I was considering