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Input: We’ve got two babies, only about a year apart, so the last 2 years have been non-stop diaper changes.  Since day-1, my wife has had a bad tendency to do diaper changes anywhere other than the changing tables (even the additional one I went out and bought to make it more convenient for her), and just leaves the diaper wherever she happens to be - lots end up on the floors, some on the night stands, desks, tables, countertops... you name it, I’ve found a dirty diaper on it. We have multiple diaper pails, all easily accessible, and she still barely ends up putting them in there (often even find she’s set a diaper on top of the lid of the diaper pail, instead of taking 2 additional seconds to open it and drop it in).  

After asking her about it several times, and making “mommy’s hiding dirty Easter eggs all over the house” a daily passive-aggressive inside joke, I decided to test her and refused to clean up the diapers she leaves myself. Literally dozens of dirty diapers all over the house, until she finally decided it was too much and threw most of them out (not even all of them). Did this several times, all same results.  

So I recently kind of flipped my shit on her about it. Our bedroom was smelling nasty, and took me a while to find an old dirty diaper under our bed that was in disgusting condition.  It felt like the last straw breaking my back, and I criticized her for being messy and lazy in general... Now she’s mad and I feel terrible for potentially being the asshole, but... am I really the asshole, though?

getting mad at my wife for leaving our babies' dirty diapers all over the house