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Input: I just started at a new job about a month ago and it's been going really great. Everyone is helpful and friendly and they all treat me as though I've been there forever. 

During lunch, we all sit in the cafeteria together, about 5 of us. It's fine and I mostly listen to their stories about things that have happened in the past. 

I wouldn't say I'm shy, more like I prefer to just not talk. I've had this problem for my entire life. In big group settings I'm much more of a listener than the group talker but I'm fine if someone either asks me something directly, if it's a small group (3 or less) or if im super comfortable. 

Sometimes during lunch, I make excuses of not being able to go down to the cafeteria and stay at my desk and eat alone. It feels the most natural to me but I also feel guilty doing it everytime. 

AITA for not showing up to lunch sometimes? Should I just suck up the social anxiety and sit with them? Genuinely dont want to outcast myself or hurt their feelings. 

not wanting to sit with my coworkers at lunch