Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Ok so I've been talking to this girl on and off for a while. But recently in the last couple months we've been talking a lot and started hanging out and I started to really like her. I've asked her out on dates jokingly a bunch of times I just wanted to do the actual asking out in person. But then after almost 2 months of me constantly asking her out and she keeps on dodging saying she's got work and other plans I got a little fed up. Cause I mean she can find time to visit her ex boyfriend who's in jail but cant make an hour or two in the day for me? I mean it's obvious she doesn't like me right? But she is also texting me and sending snaps all the time and I know she talks to me more than anyone. So a couple days ago after she said no again I told her how I felt and how I wanted more from her. She gave the same excuse of oh she likes talking and hanging out with me but shes busy but also said that shes really sad and has no motivation and doesn't have time for personal relationships. When I said it's not fair for her to want me to keep talking to her when I want to date her she says she "understands and respects that". So we kinda left it at that and I haven't talked to her since. 

So am I the asshole for asking her out even though she is going through something? Or was she just stringing me along cause she wanted the attention and gave a generic excuse cause she doesn't wanna go out with me? Should I keep talking to her and help her through the tough times with no expectations? I'm really torn and could use an outside perspective. Thanks

asking her out while she's going through something