Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My girlfriend of 3.5 years has been depressed for about the last 2 years. I have been trying to help her and offer her all of my support, but she does not try to help herself. Her depression is affecting her friendships, her academics, her job, and her relationship with her family. I have provided her all of my support and a number of resources to get help, but she just says that she will call eventually. It has been 2 years and no change. I am frustrated that I cannot do anything else to help her and I am beginning to be physically and emotionally tired.

Am I the asshole for putting an ultimatum in our relationship where she either gets help or we break up?

wanting to break up with my depressed girlfriend