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Input: (I grew up speaking french so I apologize for grammatical errors).

When I was in high school, my sibling and I accidentally hit a car while we were backing out of our driveway. We went to our neighbors house to tell them what happened, but a woman we had never met before answered. We explain that we accidentally hit her car while backing out, and she immediately starts crying and explains that her son just died. We immediately felt worse and tried to comfort her while we brought her out to the car.

Sparing the details, she got really angry at us. She began yelling at us and insulting us, while constantly bringing up that her son had died. She then called the police and made us call our parents because she didn't trust us "stupid, incompetent teenagers". The police showed up, and she again reiterated to him that her son had just died before even explaining the situation. The police officer looked at the cars and pointed out the damage along with additional damage which I claimed we couldn't have caused due to its location and the amount of damaged compared to the other dent (it was quite worse). She got even angrier that we weren't taking blame for it, and once again reiterated that her son died and we were only making it harder.

Things got infinitely worse when my dad showed up. She yelled that his "stupid" children ruined her car and weren't taking the full blame for it, and as usual brought up at her son just died. Here's one thing to know about my dad: if you insult and/or hurt his children, you are fucking doomed. He immediately spat back at her and started a screaming match, which eventually culminated into this:

Woman: "HOW DARE YOU SPEAK TO ME LIKE THAT!"

Dad: "I have every right to speak to you like this. My children did the smart and responsible thing by telling you about the accident and giving you their information, and you have to audacity to stand here yelling at and insulting them? Grow the fuck up, you pathetic miserable old cunt!"

Woman: "MY SON JUST DIED!"

Dad: "You know? Good for him. Now that he's dead, he doesn't have to be around you."

Now I know my dad's comment was completely uncalled for and totally rude, and, honestly, I was getting fed up too. I strongly dislike it when people constantly play the pity/grief card. I have never lost a child, and everyone express their grief differently. At the beginning I really did feel for her, but the fact that she kept bringing it up just made it feel like she was trying to manipulate us. By the end of it, I didn't even care that her son had died. That feeling still haunts me to this day.

Am I the asshole for thinking she played the grief card too much, and eventually not caring that her son had died? Is she the asshole? Are we both assholes?

not caring that her son died