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Input: She (24F) became a special needs teacher and loved it, initially, and over the course of the year her optimism is all but gone. I (23m) get 2 paragraph texts everyday, no exaggeration, about how terrible and disrespectful her kids are how sad she is with her job. Shes been getting the behavioral kids and not kids with special needs, ie autism, MMD, slight learning difference, she thought she would be getting. Everytime we hangout all we talk about is how sad her kids are making her, how disrespectful they are to her, and how she hates her job. She's honestly doing a fantastic job with them despite their circumstances, but it's still weighing her down constantly. We've been dating for just under a year, but have known each other since high school. Am I the asshole cause I've asked her to chill out on the complaining? I just feel it's starting to weigh me down as well and distract me from my studies, I'm still in school about to graduate, but I feel selfish for telling her she can't talk to me about how terrible her day is everyday. 

wanting my girlfriend to complain less about work