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Input: So I (29M) have this really good and considerate friend, J (28F).  She set up a trip this year to Bonaroo with me, a close friend, and one of her random friends, A (26F).  Now J has been trying to hook me up with A, and I was receptive to the idea because she's cute and she was cool the few times when we hung out.  She's not interested in a relationship right now, and I told her that was cool, lets be friends.

feel like we need to get to know each other since we'll have to spend a week together, and she's expressed that she feels the same way, but in no way do her actions reflect that.  I've tried four times to get her to hang out and she's always busy.  Cool, I'm understanding, but she has never invited me to hang.  I text her and try to get to know her, she gives short answers and usually just stops responding.  Yesterday I thought, I'll send a joke to break the ice, she did not respond at all.  Keep in mind, she had  asked J why I wasn't trying to be friends with her, why I wasn't texting her, and that she really wanted to get to know me.

I'm normally a long fuse kind of guy, but I find the whole thing to be widely inconsiderate and it's pretty frustrating.  This morning, I decided to be straight with her about how I feel so I texted her, "Jesus fuck do you ever make it hard for people trying to be your friend.  Like holy shit, buddy, you're about as hard to talk to as a bear fucking a goose."

I feel mostly validated in my feelings, and I've been nothing but nice up to this point. I would say the same thing to any of my friends, who all know that I'm blunt.  I'd rather air the issue than skirt it passive aggressively.  J says this is totally out of character, for A, so I feel like maybe I was too harsh.

being blunt with a mutual acquaintance