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Input: My husband and I both work full time jobs. We ended up moving into a new town home community when we got married that was more or less equidistant from our work in opposite directions(although my commute is slightly less and his is prone to accidents delaying him).
I gave up a lot of my hobbies to move--something I relate very strongly to my self - identity. Whatever, I adjusted what I could do and found tentative balance. 

We had a son in October who is now about 5 months. I take him to day care and I take him home. I feed him, bathe him, prepare his stuff for the next day etc. My husband spends some time with him changing diapers and playing, but it's largely me with my husband doing some house chores when I'm getting the baby from day care.

Our HOA is just starting to get transitioned to the neighborhood hands and it's a shit show. My husband's vice president and does the majority of the bitch work... Answering emails, setting up meetings, community relations etc. Every. Day. And often on weekends. 

He's not paid; it's a volunteer position. Problem is he spends so much time doing this stuff. When I try to do hobby stuff he wants to carve out time for him but I consider his time HOA ing as the equivalent to my extracurricular time. He considers it "vital to the retention of value of our home" and doesn't count it.

AITA? 

considering my husband's hoa stuff a hobby