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Input: So this happened awhile ago but it often plays on my mind once in awhile. On the day of coming out as gay I didn't plan to come out, but my brother caught me watching porn and he saw what I was watching (he already knew I was gay though and totally supportive of it). So I decided to rip the band aid off and officially come out to him, then my mom and then my dad. Everyone took it amazingly and were extremely supportive, I was relieved for two reasons, although I was almost certain they'd be great with it, I had the what if they aren't thought, and secondly I'm quite introverted and anxious and so opening up felt difficult anyway.

After they knew and my then best friend knew (she had known for a while), I decided to make a Facebook post to address the rest of my family and friends, with my family consisting of aunties, uncles and cousins. Again everyone was extremely supportive. I later found out from my mom, that one of my cousins (who I do get on with but not closely) was upset that I didn't come out to her personally. I can understand her position, but to be honest I just wanted to get it over with and rip the band aid off. I asked another family member about this and she said that my cousin needs to grow up.

So AITA?

not personally coming out to my cousin