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Input: This happened a while ago.

Me 20(f) and my ex 21(m) were going through some issues. We had been together 3 years but had recently started having some bigger fights. One fight was because I felt that we had stopped doing anything special for one another and that I wasnt getting enough attention. He said it was just the way he is and he doesn't think he needs to change that. 
Our last fight was because I had some time off work due to my anxiety and depression. I am usually fairly good at handling this and new that I needed the time off as I was not functioning well. I planned to have one day off to try and heal a little but his sister who I was living with found out about this. She called a house meeting and told me that this was unacceptable and that I was being selfish for risking my job and mine and my boyfriends future. She said that if I didn't get medical help, I could not complain about my depression and anxiety symptoms. This conversation lasted about an hour and I was left alone to stick up for myself. I told my boyfriend that this hurt me and he said that he agreed with her. I felt really alone at this point and told him that I wasnt sure I was happy in the relationship anymore. 

Anyway, I started doing a lot of overtime to get away from the house. One night after work a colleague invited me for a drink. I said yes as we had always got on. He was attractive but I'd never looked at him as anything more than a colleague before this night. I was having a really good time and got quite drunk.We flirted a little bit but it was mostly just chit-chat. Before I knew it, it was midnight and I said I should probably go home. He walked me to the door and kissed me good bye. I kissed him back for maybe a second before I realised what happened. I left without saying much. 

I told my boyfriend the second I woke up in the morning. He said we could work through it but I just felt numb. Mainly because I knew I didn't do do all I could to stop the kiss. Also, it made me realise I truly did not want to be in the relationship anymore. A few days later I left him but i was extremely apologetic (not that that means much I guess)

My friends dont think that what I did was cheating. His friends and family have all labelled me a cheater and dont think it was the first time either. I dont know what I think. Am I an asshole?

leaving my partner for someone else