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Input: TLDR: depressed friend flaked out on every meet up I tried to arrange with the whole friend group for a year and then told me that I'm not enough of a priority to hang out with 

I've had a small circle of close friends since high school, only 4 of us in total and we've had a pretty fun 4 years together, but its been 4 years since most of us graduated. Even though we have a group chat, I felt that we were drifting apart for quite a bit. We only used that chat to complain about people (which is fun and all but it was literally just us complaining about everything). And recently I ran into a bit of a rough spot with a friend in the group that I was the least close to (will be called Sara). (the other two in the group will be called Joe and Hannah - Joe is very close with Sara and Hannah generally is best friends with everyone)

Sara is a year younger than the rest of us and was having a hard time adapting to university, failing out of programs and has a difficult family life. I understand that it's difficult for her to dedicate emotional energy to other people right now but I haven't hung out with all of my friends together since early 2018/late 2017 because we were all busy and live far from each other. The last 3-5 plans I tried to make with the whole group ended up falling through as Sara or Joe would call in last minute to say they couldn't make it. Joe would always say that he would go and then last minute back out saying he slept in but Sara would generally just say that she couldn't make it, which was fine with me because I get that she's depressed and lethargic and probably feeling bad already for not being able to make it.

However, I'm planning to leave the country in March for a couple of years so I really wanted to celebrate Christmas of 2018 together as we are all just hitting young adulthood and we probably wouldn't be able to meet for a while. I even told them that I felt like it would be the last time we would be able to hang out together. I asked everybody when they were available and tried real hard to make it work out for everyone and ended up on a plan to meet on December 14th without Sara as she said multiple times that she could not make it as she was planning to leave 3 days after finals for vacation. I was really excited to host for my friends because I hadn't seen them in a long time and even wrapped up gifts and even planned to make pasta for the first time with them.

A couple of days before the 14th we ended up in a bit of an argument, at least that's how I understood it from my POV. It ended up me saying something like "I keep trying to make plans because I worry about you guys and we are friends but it's always me making the effort to go to you guys and set up meetings" which is pretty rare for me because I don't like being vulnerable with my emotions and my friends know that. To which Sara replied something like "Well I make the effort to go to see my \[other friends who live further than me\] because I love them". It really hurt me to be basically told "I don't care about you enough to make the effort to see you" when I've continuously made the effort to try keep her and everyone else in my life despite the distance because I really care about them and I thought they knew that.

I had texted Joe on the 13th to make sure he would remember to come and even texted Sara to extend the invitation to her in case she could make it, to which she replied "maybe" (so I bought her a gift too). The 14th rolled over and only Hannah arrived (it wasn't too bad as I live with a friend and so we just ate a lot of pasta and played video games). 

I haven't spoken in the group chat since, but I have had short convos with Joe and Hannah.

Am I the asshole for not talking to Sara anymore? I've been feeling guilty for a while, wondering if I'm not being understanding enough or if I took things too harshly. I know a year isn't that long of a time to meet up with friends and it's hard to line up schedules as adults but Hannah is graduating soon, probably going to get a job far from us, and I'm moving across the planet so I wanted to see the whole gang together for one last time. 

not wanting to talk to my depressed friend