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Input: Maybe a couple of times a year my wife will say something really hurtful and it will upset me. Then she'll realize that what she said was mean and apologize but I can't just be like "Oh, you apologize, cool. All better now!" Then she blames me for making her feel bad by being upset.

The latest example just happened. Tomorrow is our anniversary and we were talking about the present she gave me over a month ago because that's just how she does things. She asked me what I was going to get her and, after a long day at work, a busy evening and trying to get in bed we both forgot that I gave her a very thoughtful, very expensive (not that this should matter) present two weeks ago. I panicked and said I didn't know and that I had been really busy at work. She said "Do you just not care anymore?" And that broke by heart because I felt like such a disappointment to her. I said that I was sorry and excused myself so I could go have a quiet moment. Once she remembered that I did get her a present she apologized for making me sad but then expected me to just snap out of it. But I couldn't. I was hurt and angry because she just jumped to the fact that I don't care about her because of a present. I was withdrawn because I tend to shut down in these sorts of situations and she got mad at me for making her feel bad about what she said.

not instantly stopping being upset after my wife says terrible things