Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My husband isn’t always great about going to the doctor regularly and his mom recently said to me, “You need to make sure he goes to the doctor, pineapplesounds. His health is too important!” And I said, “He’s a grown man. He can make his own appointments and he does when he needs to. His health is his responsibility.” 

I do remind him when I make my own annual appointment, but we’ve never been the couple that makes appointments for the other and I especially refuse to be the wife that infantilizes her husband by making appointments for him. His body, his health, his responsibility. But my MIL said that couples “take care of each other” and basically that ITA for not trying harder to make sure he takes care of himself. Husband says I’m only the asshole for making it a “thing” with his mom instead of just saying “yes, of course” and changing the subject. What does Reddit say?

telling my MIL I wouldn't make my husband's doctor appts