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Input: So, I [23f] have a boyfriend [25m] who constantly ignores to do his basic hygiene routine such as brushing his teeth, using deodorant, changing socks / dirty clothes, ignoring the fact that he needs a haircut or it's time to trim his beard, or that the hair between his eyebrows grows as well, and maybe he should take care of it too, etc... 

We've been dating for almost 2 years and we live together so I pretty much notice all the things that he doesn't do, so I decided to tell him that it would be nice if he took a bit more care of those small things. His reaction was fine, he said that he was sorry and he would do that now. It's been two months since we talked about it, and he seems to ignore it again. Now I feel like and AH for 1) asking him that again, because I don't want him to think that I'm less attracted to him or whatever, 2) making him do things he doesn't care about because this is *HOW I* want it, and that I'm indeed don't enjoy a smelly partner. 

He's not in depression whatsoever, he's perfectly capable of handling all the other things in life, that's just the way he was raised I guess. 

So, is it okay to ask for some basic things like that, or AITA? 

reminding my bf to use deodorant or brush his teeth