Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Once Upon a time, this co-worker and I were friends; then she got a boyfriend and decided I was somehow jealous of her and convinced our group to "forget" to invite me to group events, change details or flat out lie to me about prior plans we'd made before "the shunning" took place.

I had a little breakdown, dealt with some shit, etc. Plenty of crap was said about me behind my back and for the most part it all died down in months. We all ended up going our separate ways.

Five years later...

She comes back to talking to me because she needs a favor. I ignore her, I somehow end up still getting moved to her old position so she can change shifts.

We still don't talk. We work in the same place, do the same job, don't talk to each other.

A year later (present time)....she's pregnant (not telling anyone, but everyone knows kinda deal) and she's using it to get out of doing a good chunk of her work.

Our work schedule was altered to give her more time off.

Then she gets a doctor's note for restrictions; can't go over X-hours per week. So more of her work becomes my work because it has to be inspected/shipped same day.

She calls in and I'm expected to drop what I'm doing and get my ass to work to cover for her, despite having my own life and a second job, or it's going against my attendance.

Recently she had a death in the family and is taking her bereavement; everyone is acting really sad for her and like we should all get together and do something for her. Even new temps that don't know her are getting roped into it.

I bowed out without comment. I didn't say anything to anybody, I'm not signing the card, I'm not contributing. She's got more to worry about than whether or not my name is on a card.

H.R. noticed and decided to ask, directly, if I wanted to sign the card or make a donation, in a very low-key threatening tone. I've seen how this works before, signing the card means someone down the line is going to come collecting the cash behind it. And I'm not in a good place budget-wise, which is why I work 2 jobs.

I said no and that was it. Begin the gossip and the rumors. Which takes some doing because we're off a couple days for the new year, but Facebook is working OT.

Like, I get it that she's the office pet and has it in good with the higher-ups because she married into their collective, but I can't seem to force myself to be concerned for her. And I don't feel like I should be bullied into faking it.

not caring about a co-worker