Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I loaned what I thought was a friend $1500 because her dream dog became available for sale and clearly she stated, in writing she would pay me back a certain amount per fortnight. This hasn't happened. 

It's now clear she's ignoring me, the "won't even open your message while I'm constantly online on Facebook," no responses on SMS and so really the only option for me is to take it to court. 

Even though it's an unloseable case for me, it's still time and effort, with no guarantee of seeing the money if she's too poor to even pay back the abysmal rate we agreed on.

I found her mom on Facebook, and have drafted what I was planning on sending to her: 

"Hey. You may not know me and I'm still unsure as to whether it's inappropriate for me to send this message, but your daughter [L] borrowed $1500 off me to buy that dog she now has. There was a clear agreement in writing as to what has to be paid back and when and she is not paying it back. I send messages, both on Facebook and SMS and she ignores them - I think that's a clear sign that someone's dodging their obligations. The next step is to sue for it, which in this case for me is unloseable, but I'm just wondering whether or not to avoid the legal fees she'd be forced to pay you could either tell her to finalise it, or you could pay me it directly and then take it up with her. Apologies if this is out of line, but $1500 isn't something you forget about, and really this is for her benefit and not my own. "

Is this entirely appropriate, or is this going too far?

asking the parents of someone who owes me a lot of money to pay their kids debt so they dont get sued with huge court costs