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Input: A little background first. All people involved are late 20s to early 30s. Roommate D is the only male.

Roommate A (for asshole) and B lived together for 1 year before we all moved into a townhouse together. Six months in, Roommate B elopes, moves out and leaves behind a couch that her family gave her. Roommate C replaces her. Just before the year lease is up Roommate A (for asshole) gets accepted to a college and needs to move. I let Roomate A (for asshole) and RM C talk me into letting her male friend move in, RM D. 

When RM A (for asshole) moves out, she flip flops about taking the couch and not. Neither of us paid for it, so she has about as much right to it as I do. She finally settled on not taking the couch, by responding to me following up with her weeks after she moved out by texting "no need for the couch, thanks for asking". 

Fast forward 8 months later, I need to move out and find a replacement. I planned on asking the RM C and D if they minded if I took the couch bc neither of them ever used the living room and RM D said he had a couch in storage.

Then I get a text from RM A (for asshole) saying that now that I'll be moving she wants her couch back. The one an old roommate left behind? The one you never paid for, nobody did? The one you left behind saying you didnt need it? 

I said no. The other 2 current rm's didnt care about the couch, they said as much. But I did. 

Btw this is the same chick who claimed the best room, claimed the monthly reduction for her portion of the rent (when we could've used mine, the $ off would've been larger and would've benefited all of us) *tried* to claim all of the space in the kitchen except 1 tiny cabinet for RM B and I to share, *tried* to claim all the space in the large hall closet except 1 shelf, *tried* to steal my pans (her response when I told her they were mine was "well you have some red ones down there). 

She and I had a lot of back and forth about the couch that got kinda ugly. ( she took it there first) She claimed that she left it behind for RM D bc she felt sorry for him. (Uh, he had one it storage, BS excuse). Lots of background story and bullshit there that would be too long for this post.

She got RM D to move it for her, who ended up actually being her EX, so the couch is gone. Which is whatever, I'll get my own couch. Just didnt want to if I didnt need to.

But am I the asshole for not just giving her the couch?

telling ex roommate no she cannot have the couch