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Input: My dad has, on occasion, expressed excitement about me getting married in the distant future. He wants to “give his little girl away” and it’s a big deal for him, as I’m the only daughter he has. However, I am sure that I do not want him to walk me down the aisle for a number of reasons, and I’ve felt this way for about a decade now. 

1. I find the whole process of “giving away the bride” old fashioned and sexist. I’m a grown woman making decisions for myself, financially independent and my dad (or anyone else in my life) has no say in whether or not I get married.

2. My dad is an okay father, but a shit husband. 

He’s not winning any awards for father of the year, but not abusive or an alcoholic or particularly negligent. However, he’s a terrible husband who spent most of his marriage to my mother being a cheating, narcissist piece of shit and only in the past 5-6 years has turned it around. For 13 years, he had no respect for his wedding vows and has cheated on every woman he’s ever been with. When I found out about his cheating in high school and told him to fess up to my mother, he chickened out and I had to do it myself. It was devastating for me to be dragged into his bullshit like that, and fundamentally changed the way that I see him. I was really close to my dad growing up, so realizing that he was capable of being so awful cut me pretty deep. 

Part of this is about punishing him for what he did to my mother, and to me. Who forces a 16 year old to tell her mother that her father is having an affair? But a bigger, more important part is that I don’t want a guy who is incapable of staying faithful having any part of me committing to being faithful for the rest of my life. He obviously doesn’t respect marriage, so who do I have to act like he did? 

Anyway, am I the asshole? 

not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle