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Input: One of my roommates is also one of my best friends. I love her to pieces, but she sometimes acts in a way that I find to be incredibly disrespectful and upsetting. She has a really bad habit of making plans, and then at the time of the plans she’ll be doing something else, and not responding to my texts, essentially leaving me hanging. Now this doesn’t happen very often, but often enough that it really gets under my skin. 

I know that description is kinda vague, so I’ll give a specific example. Last night when she got home we talked and made plans to go to the library today. I said I was going to get up and come early in the day, and she said that she had a dance practice until 2 and would meet me after her practice. So I went to the library, and at about 1:30 I saved her a spot and sent her a text basically saying “hey, I’m at (X library) if you’re still coming after dance”. 

By 3, she hasn’t texted me back or arrived at the library. We have each other on find my friends, so I checked where she was, thinking maybe her practice went late, and saw that she’s at her friend’s apartment (they’re mutual friends, I’ve been there a bunch and recognized the location). I don’t have any issue with the fact that she went to her friend’s place, but I find it incredibly disrespectful that she didn’t bother to let me know she wasn’t coming when we had plans and I was saving her a seat, especially since this is far from the first time she’s disappeared with these friends when we were supposed to do something. 

So, WIBTA for basically calling her out on how upsetting and disrespectful I find this? She’s one of my best friends plus we live together and I really don’t want to cause drama if it’s unnecessary, but I also think it’s super rude to not let me know. It would take all of 30 seconds to send me a text saying “hey sorry, I’m actually hanging out with (X) after practice”, but it just feels like she doesn’t care enough to let me know. This is not the first time she’s done something like this, where at the time of our plans she’s not there and not texting me back, and I just feel like she thinks it’s not important to let me know, but maybe I’m just overreacting? 

calling out my friend for what I consider to be really disrespectful behaviour