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English is my third language, so apologies for any forthcoming mistakes, and feel free to correct me.

So a little back story, this summer my gramps had a knot in his digestive system and he had to be in the ICU (and still is) but his situation is going better, they're both old (over 75) and because of their health it isn't looking like they will return to Denmark. Along with that, two months ago or something, their house was overflown with water because of a waterpipe exploding in their apartment. (Edit: My grandparents are sadly both in Turkey, while i am in Denmark.)

Yesterday, i returned from a trip to Hamburg, and i had been sitting in a car for 6h, and at home my girlfriend was waiting me. Every time we go into my room, my mother gets pissy for not spending time with my family and she calls us *"Rabbits"* (Implying that we snuggle and have sex all the time) and i've voiced my disliking to that word, and she just said she thinks it's funny and found a way to justify her using the term.

I get embarrassed and uncomfortable when sitting in my room with my girlfriend when she acts like this, therefore i said that we were going for a walk, and we *did,* but we also went to my grandmothers' house to sit and chill in peace.

So we stay there for some time, kissing and snuggling, just like *rabbits.* she writes to me about 10 minutes after and says "*If you're planning on going to my mothers' house, you better forget it now, AND I MEAN NOW"*

My phone was on silent, so i see the message an hour later, when i saw the message, i wrote "*Sorry mum, my phone was on silent, we're coming home.*"

When we come home, i see anger on her face, fair nuff, i send my girlfriend home, sit in the living room and ask her;

"*Anything you wanna get off your chest?"*

And she goes on a rant where summed up she says;

"*You will never enter my mothers' house again, you hear me? I am* ***THIS*** *(puts two fingers close to each other) close to losing ALL of my respect to you, you hear me? This can go all the way where i* ***DISOWN*** *you."*

She said more hurtful, but less important things. Little note, she doesn't even know what went on at grannies. My girlfriend and i aren't the type to mess a whole place up and make it dirty and all, everything was tidy and clean as it were.

Something else that might be of importance is to state, that *I* have always been a loving and caring son, my mother has several forms of chronic diseases which render her unable to do physical work (be it Arthritis in her joints or Osteoporosis in her back, she has it all.) I have always helped her with everything without sighing once, and just a week prior she was always boasting about how lovely a son i am, she would kiss and hug me saying that i am the pride of her live and that she loves me to hell and back. I have never done something in the past that has released such a magnitude of anger in my mother.

Now you be the verdict.

# Am i the Asshole for spending time with my girlfriend at my grandmothers', and also for being hurt at what my mother said?

This has been eating me up since yesterday, and i'd love some advice.

(I deleted the earlier post because i couldn't change the title, thought i was unfitting)

being hurt at my mother's threats, and doing what I did