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Input: Let me start by saying, I feel very strongly that it is my job as a parent to make sure I am helping my children become a positive contribution to society. 

Back story. My son is 16 when he decides he’s ready to start his driving course. Most of you know, this can be a lengthy process.  But, I was sensing some procrastination.  So, to make sure he was serious, I laid out a plan. Once he had found a part time job, I would help him start and pay for the drivers ed course.  

Now, at this time, I had already found him a job as a farm hand working 8 hrs a month. This was great, but my point was for him to start saving.  This job was literally pocket change. 

In my mind, having the responsibly of a vehicle came with many hidden costs. We gladly pay their insurance, but gas is all them and we split repairs. 

This is where I became the AH... he was so mad at me. He has Aspergers and hates having to interact with strangers. He fought me on this daily, always coming up with an excuse as to why he “couldn’t” work. His big sis helped draft a fantastic resume and we started taking him around town to drop them off. We didn’t have much luck until one night when I was picking up dinner at one of our spots and I hit the owner up. She told me to send my son in and hired him on the spot the next day.   

I was true to my word, and we started the drivers ed process immediately. But, he still brings it up regularly!? How ridiculous it was for me to set such expectations for him. The truth is, he’s not my last, and It will be the standard from now on.  

making my 16yr old son get a job before he was allowed to start his drivers ed course