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Input: TLDR at bottom:  I’m 30 years old, married for 10 years with two kids.  A year ago my wife and I bought a home that didn’t pan out and we ended up financially in the hole.  Then we had our newborn and my wife quit working.  I stayed at my job for awhile before she decided to move to be closer to family.   I’d heard this story before.  “We’ll help you out.  Blah blah.”  I knew it wouldn’t happen but we moved and sold our home in order to have a support system.

Fast forward to now where her friend and her had a plan we’d all move in together.  That ended up not happening and now we’re living in squalor.  I took the first job I was offered, but I’m a disabled veteran from the military receiving a monthly check for disability and the physicality of this new job was too much for me.  I decided to resign due to the amount of pain I was in and I’ve scheduled a medical appointment for myself.

I still receive my monthly check of nearly $1500 which is more than I get paid with this other company and helps us out financially.  She took her old job back and gets paid next to nothing despite additional responsibilities.  I’m still searching for something less physical while also trying to find us a place to live.

Am I an asshole?

TLDR: Quit my job due to physical limitations due to medical condition and aren’t bringing in extra income on top of disability check anymore because of it.  Wife is pissed and feels I’m not contributing.  Am I the asshole?

quitting my job