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Input: My Fiance and I are both "closet atheists " meaning  we haven't  told either of our parents  because  it's not a huge deal.... until now. We've  been together almost 5 years have been  living together  for 4 and engaged for one. Our wedding is  next year. My future  husband  chose the  date(I hate making  all the decisions) well he chose Halloween.  I loved the idea and immediately  began trying to structure  some loose ideas around it.


Then my future  mother  in law is disappointed about  the date something  about tradition and Halloween  being evil. Then she disapproves of cake topper ideas, flower ideas, and that I don't  want to  do the whole princess  for a  day/ country theme

Then future sister in law once me to find a dress like hers after seeing pictures  of it, I decided I would  rather wear a 70 dollar dress that isn't a wedding  dress  from dress barn or something  like that. (Her dress what too shiny  making her tan skin look like leather, it was I'll fitted and looked  cheap.

Now sister in law has problems with music ideas because  "you cant dance to Newtown or funk" " and "well you should  play  country music" now generally  I'm fairly eclectic in  my music taste but care almost  nothing  for country  aside from two songs from waaaaay  back when. 

Am I the asshole for not wanting  to change because I will not don a frilly white shiny monstrosity  and go full tradition? At this point  I'm almost  ready to elope or say forget it and continue  living as we are now. I love this man. Help!

not wanting to do a traditional wedding to please my religious inlaws