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Input: My girlfriend and i were getting ready to go to the grocery store and our 16 month old daughter is playing with her baby alive. We kept trying to get shoes on her feet but she'd wiggle away to go back to her toy. Eventually i get tired of the back and forth so i take the toy and tell her she can have it back when we get back home. My daughter doesnt know very many words but she loves to back talk and give attitude, so shes fussing at ne for taking her toy and i say "i dont care, you can have it back when we get home". I thought i was being perfectly normal until my girlfriend starts getting mad at ne telling me not to say "i dont care" to our daughter. This completely blew my mind as ive been saying it and ive never gotten this kind of reaction. I ask why I cant say "i dont care" and her response is "look it up". I personally am not a fan of "going with the flow" especially when it comes to parenting, it just feels to me like one of those things where you just gotta do it how you do it because thats the beauty of it. 
I honestly feel like i didnt do anything wrong and shes just overreacting, but im here to ask. 

Am i the asshole here?

saying "I dont care" to my one year old