Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: This happened just recently so I apologize if I give unimportant details. 

I found a video made by a small content creator I have been watching for the better part of a year that I think is incredibly racist. I left a comment about how disappointed I was, but it was an ancient video and I wanted to see if they stood by the video. I left a comment on a video that was released recently, but didn't hear back.  Sometimes you get a reply, but you don't get notified, so when I saw they were doing a livestream, I decided to check. 

I comb through the comments on the video, didn't find my comment. Checked the three before the one I commented on to see if I just had the wrong one. Not there. I decide that asking on the livestream would be the most direct option. I told them I saw they had a racist video and asked if they still stand by that.

The first time I got ignored. I get it, livestream, might have missed me. I wait a few minutes and tell them I didn't want to make a big shit out of it. I wait a few more minutes, nothing. I try to say that I understood it was a different time when it was made, I just wanted to know if they still felt it was acceptable, but I had been muted. Looking at it now, it was probably the curse word, but I am super insulted. I dealt with racists growing up, so I don't deal well with that. I feel a simple yes or no would have sufficed. I go back to the new video ask the question again, because I wanted to be sure I did in fact leave the message.

I go back to the livestream to see if I am still muted and ask again if they still stood by it. I'm not, so the message goes up and someone tells me to stop trying to start drama. A couple of other people join in. I give the name of the video as proof that I wasn't just making it up, but get told by the creator to stop trying to slander them.

I never said they were racist, but they did make some racist content. I tried to give them the benefit of the doubt, because just because someone does some stupid stuff, doesn't mean it should haunt them forever. I said the title of the video again and said it was racist, I just wanted to know if they stood by it. I was told by other people that it wasn't racist and told I was just  a troll, then the creator again told me to stop the slander. I said so you don't feel (the racist stuff they did in the video) wasn't racist? Goodbye. I unsubbed and am hurt about the whole thing. I really liked their content, but I am just not cool with the undoubtedly racist video or being gaslighted. 

I won't give the name of the video or the creator, because this really isn't about that. What I want to know is if I am the asshole for trying to get the answer during a livestream? Should I have waited and potentially gotten the question dodged again? 

calling someone out