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Input: We're moving house soon, and we'll finally all be able to have our own bedrooms. I am currently the only one with my own room, but it's a tiny, claustrophobic office meant for just a desk that we put a bed in because the only alternative was sleeping in the bath. I can touch both walls easily at the same time. My younger brothers share the largest bedroom of the house, which can fit both of their beds, a large wardrobe, a large 6-drawer chest of draws, a double-desk, chairs and extra floor space left over. Compare that to my room which can just about fit my bed, my cramped desk, a small ikea 3-drawer chest of drawers and a bedside table for a lamp.

In the new house, there's one small room (not much bigger than what I've got now) and two medium rooms. One of the medium rooms is already taken since one of my brothers has severe sensory processing disorder and can't cope with small spaces. This leaves the small room and the medium room. 

In the house we have now, I gave up the larger room for my brothers. I've also spent the majority of my life caring for them and looking after them, since one has severe autism and SPD, and the other has incredibly mild/high-functioning autism, and there have been things going on with my parents (not going to get into it now) that meant that for most of my life they've needed my help to look after my siblings. I've given up so much for them, even dropped out of college so that I could spend more time looking after them. Because of that, I've spent the last 3 and a half years balancing looking after them and teaching myself the qualifications I need to get into university for the course I want. I get a small benefit income from the local council due to my situation preventing me from being able to get a job, but even then I give up most of my income to pay for things they want or need.

My high-functioning brother has said he'd be fine with the smaller room multiple times in the family conversations we've had about the new house, but he's still insisting on the larger room. I know it's petty and selfish and that because I'm older, I should let him have it, but I gave up the larger room in this house for them, and have given up so much over the course of my life for him. I just want a bigger room and some more space. 

It'd also be great because it would offer more privacy than I have now. The room I'm in now is directly opposite the bottom of the stairs and my siblings regularly come running downstairs and charge straight into my room, regardless of what I may be doing; if I'm asleep, if I'm getting dressed, if I'm just out of the shower, if I'm trying to work for my exams. Because I'm the oldest and because I've spent a long time helping to look after them, if my parents are busy they come to me for everything. But the larger room in the new house has a door sturdy enough for a simple lock, something I've been wanting for a long time because the door I have now isn't strong enough for one and the majority of my family doesn't knock.

I will (hopefully) be moving away to university in around 8 months' time, so I'd only be using the larger room for those 8 months, and then he can have it and I'll happily stay in the small room for the few weeks a year that I visit. But the rooms at uni are (obviously) small as well. It'd just be nice to have a larger room for once and some more space/privacy, even if it's just for a few months before I move.

Am I the asshole for wanting that room?

wanting a larger room instead of my brother