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Input: My best friend (Sarah) got a boyfriend (Tyler) about 10 months ago. For the first 6 months, we barely talked and we didn't see each other for a while as she lives with him (they were roommates) and was distracted. They are fun to be with individually.

We've started to hang out again recently, but I'm finding myself uncomfortable more than anything else. This is because Tyler is almost always present. It is worse when just us 3. I appreciate her efforts for me and her boyfriend to be friends, but it just feels awkward. I feel like if they broke up, I'd never talk to him again lol. Sarah said this to me:

* "Man, I don't understand why you have to think of it as third wheeling. Whenever Tyler hangs out with his best friend he always has his gf there but he just considers it hanging out. And he's been dating her since college so he's been 'third wheel' without being in a relationship many times but it never bothers him, I don't understand why it can't just be us hanging out" *

I gave Sarah examples of times I felt uncomfortable - when I ask her to hang out or get dinner, she invites Tyler along then spends (what I feel) most of the time talking to Tyler instead of me. It's usually your average day-to-day couple talk like "lets plan to go on a date this weekend" (plans not including me) or "remember that episode we watched the other night?"

We hung out with 7 people. I was the only single one there. We played Jackbox and everyone was paired up working together except for me. Then we watched a movie and everyone was cuddling up while I sat to the side. Sarah says she understands why I felt uncomfortable *that* time, but not when it's me+her+bf.

We had plans to go to a one-night-only showing of a movie for a couple months, but she flaked on me the night-of to stay at home with her boyfriend, because she wanted to bring Tyler and I told her I didn't want to go with Tyler.

Anything personal I've told her in the past, Tyler now knows about me.. That also makes me uncomfortable.

Sarah says it is hard to want to hang out with me when she feels like she has to exclude her boyfriend, so I get left out instead. Sarah and Tyler agree that it feels hard to be a normal couple when I am around. I understand that things are never going to go back to how they used to be, but currently we've grabbed dinner 1-on-1 once a month to catch up and then we go home. I want to do other things like go to the beach or movies, to create more lasting memories with her than just "catching up" over dinner. Am I the asshole for not pushing my feelings aside to cause less tension between us?

**tl;dr** Best friend got a boyfriend. I don't like hanging out with her + boyfriend and we do not see eye-to-eye. They feel like they can't be a couple around me, so they leave me out of a lot of activities instead. This hurts my feelings because I want to be doing those activities, too.

feeling uncomfortable being the third wheel