Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: ok so first of all i'm new to reddit and i'm not familiar with that many subreddits where i can post this so i'm doing it here anyway, feel free to delete it mods if it isn't tifu worthy.

some backstory about myself,  i grew up with a really dark childhood, i'm not gonna go into detail but let's say after everything i've seen throughout my life i've grown up to have little to no sympathy with anyone. i was pretty much depressed for most of my high school life and  extremely anti-social. i can barely hold a conversation with someone for more than 5 minutes because i eventually get bored of what they have to say. i hate people and am scared of them at the same time, at one point in time i even skipped a semester of college because i was too scared of getting rejected by my blockmates, literally on the first day of school i could already see my soon to be classmates and compared to them i look like a nobody so i backed off, went back home, told my mom i couldn't do it because i was too scared. she understood and said to take all the time i need.

so during this time i didn't go out of my house at all, gained a lot of weight, had poor hygiene and spent most my day infront of the computer. my mom told me my high school classmates were looking for me, but i told her to tell them that i moved outside the country to avoid them. 

eventually after a couple of months spending all day on the computer i've become really good at this online game called league of legends and started to get really popular, but nobody i was friends with online knew my real name or anything personal about me and i kept it that way for a long time until i joined a team which required me to give off my personal info, so for the first time in a long time i've actually decided to make myself known to a few people (teammates). i eventually became friends with the rest of my teammates' friends but they still knew nothing about me since i told them to not give off any personal details about me. after playing a couple of pub games i played with this girl, i treated her like i treated everyone with my old anti-social self, few words stuff like that. she wouldn't stop talking to me and i eventually found her annoying so i asked her why she wanted to know more about me. she told me she said i seemed troubled and wanted to help me. i asked her why she wanted to help me and she said that its just the way she is.  so i told her a bit about myself and why i'm like this but not everything of course, til this day i still don't know why i did that. we started to play more  and became really close friends, keep in mind she still has no idea what my name is or anything, just a story about my past. 

one day she invited me to join a chat room with her friends and i was like yeah sure why not, when i got in everybody greeted me and they were all really friendly, they asked me if i had a mic and i said no, nobody has ever  heard my voice before and i didn't want to talk to them anyway because i was still scared of being rejected or being teased about my voice and whatnot. eventually they all left and it was just me and that girl left in the room, she asked me to get a mic and i told her i didn't want to but she was insistent she said she really wanted to hear me speak and for another unknown reason i did it, i went to a store and bought a cheap mic so i could talk to her. i told her about it and she was really happy and asked if we could start chatting and i was still quite hesitant, i had my mic but i was still petrified of the fact that i'm about to talk to a complete stranger online. i just said hi, and that was literally the only thing i said vocally, everything else i typed out instead cuz i was still pretty scared. she was ok with it and teased me saying that i have a cute voice and told me that i should talk to her more often to get used to being social. eventually i did about a couple of months after i started talking to people and i finally gave out my name and that's when i started to get really popular, i didn't like being popular because i still hated being social and interacting with people i dont know. throughout this i've been talking to her pretty much everyday she came back from school or when she goes online and i started to like her a lot. i could tell she liked me too and she asked if we could meet but unfortunately her place was a 2 hr flight from my place, and her semester doesnt end in 3 months, so she said we should meet during summer and i told her i'd try. so during that time before summer i started to work out again, make myself look presentable, cut my hair cuz i really liked her and wanted to make the best impression towards her. 

summer came and i asked my really close friend if i could stay at his place for a while and he was cool with it, although i could only stay for 2 weeks and that was more than enough. so i flew over to his place and right after i got on his computer i told her that i was here and she was ecstatic, she told me she couldn't wait to see me and she'd come over here tomorrow. i started to get really nervous cuz this was the first time i'd be talking to a girl irl that i really liked and i was scared she wouldn't like me. so the next morning while i was playing some games with my friend, his parents told us that there was a girl at the door and i was like "holy shit this is it" i was literally trembling. she came in and instantly recognized me and gave me a hug. my friend then said that we should watch a movie together and so we did, after the movie we went back to his place and i immediately crashed into his bed cause i was dead tired, she hopped into bed with me for whatever reason and my friend just went back on his pc right behind us. i didn't know what to do, so i just laid there quiet and she knew that was pretty nervous so she decided to break the ice and started a conversation with me, we talked and played in bed a bit like she started hitting me and playfully biting me. so after 5 minutes of that i decided to tell her that i really liked her she said she liked me too and yeah that was the start of our relationship, i eventually had to go back to my place since my friend only let me stay for 2 weeks. she was pretty sad, i was sad too but i told her that i was gonna move here for college so i could be close to her and a month later i eventually did, i'm staying in a condominium right now and we did see each other more often and we were a relatively happy couple for 6 months. eventually she started getting busy with school and she was pretty sad from what i could tell but she never told me why.
i talked to her asking her what was  wrong and she said she was scared i wouldn't care if she told me because of my non sympathetic personality. she told me that i was never there to comfort her because i didn't know how and she had to talk to other people instead about it cuz she knew i wouldn't react that much.
 
    i felt like shit but she was right, even after 6 months i still had the same personality, anti-social, non sympathetic, low self esteem, no self confidence or anything. i didn't know what to say, i apologized and i told her that i do care about her and i wish i could help and i'd try to be more interactive with her since i still have some trouble holding a conversation with her too. so a week after we were relatively ok and i asked her to go on a date with me. it's been so long since i've gone on a date with her since she's been busy the entire month with school and her parents are really strict, it got postponed a few times but we eventually did go out yesterday. 

i was really excited that i'd get to see her again. i slept early, got dressed and left. i texted her that i was already at the mall and she told me she wouldn't be able to go out of her house til noon so i sat infront of the arcade for 3 hrs waiting for her to arrive, eventually she did. i gave her a kiss and a long warm hug and told her how much i missed her. we then bought tickets to watch penguins of madagascar  which aired in about an our and a half so she told me that we should sit outside by the garden while waiting. so there we were and i was pretty happy i was finally with her again, she then gave me this sad face and told me we had to talk, i asked her what about and she said about us. she told me that her friends and mom told her that we weren't fit to be in a relationship together since i don't seem to be ready with all the personal issues i have and my personality, i had to let that sink in for a minute and i felt my heart get torn in half and i asked her what does that mean for us then. she told me she was breaking up with me. she started crying and she said she still wanted to be with me, but i had to fix myself first with all my issues but until then we wouldn't be able to be together, we could still hang out but just as friends. i didn't know what to say, i felt so terrible i just sat there speechless and she told me she was willing to wait for me if i would change, but she didn't know how long she'd wait because she said she might fall for somebody new. i started tearing up, i didn't want to see her with another man, i invested so much into being with her and now she's breaking up with me and probably going to find another man. 

she asked me if i still wanted to talk to her cause she said it would be fine if i didn't, she'd understand. i told her i'd still want to be with her and that i really did love her and she gave me a hug. i wiped my face and we just sat there quiet, i didn't want to leave i still wanted to spend the rest of our last day together so i asked her if we could at least watch the movie together before she leaves, she said ok, but i was too busy crying in the cinema to even pay attention to it. after the movie she said her driver was gonna pick her up and i said i'd wait outside with her before she left, we waited outside for 30 minutes before her driver picked her up, she gave me one last kiss and one warm hug before she left, i went home afterwards, cried myself to sleep and here i am now brokenhearted, dead inside and hating myself for being such a terrible fucking person to not be able to change for anybody. 

i don't know what to do anymore, i just feel lost, the only person who made me think i was worth something left and i just feel empty like there's gonna be that permanent hole in my heart that'll never be sealed. so yeah i fucked up, i'm stupid, i'm worthless. i fucked up. i'm gonna spend the rest of my day crying myself to sleep again.

TIFU by being myself