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Input: So this is a situation that has been going on for years and I really don't know what to do about it anymore or if I have been handling it well or not, some people have told me I'm a bad friend and some people have told me I should just walk away but that's why I want to ask you guys what you think.

So I met this guy online around five years ago, at the time I was really depressed, living on a bad home and experiencing PTSD from a previous abusive relationship. I liked this guy and after talking regurlaly for a while we started dating, which only lasted a couple moths. I honestly liked him more as a friend and broke up, but durying this time I dropped my last year of highschool since I was experiencing a lot of anxiety attacks in class due to my PTSD. He wasn't happy with highschool either so he dropped off as well. I finished highschool after taking a break for a year and got help from a therapyst, he didn't.

Ever since he has stayed at his mom's home, playing videogames all day, not even going outside his house and just constantly complaining about his life being terrible and being horribly depressed. For five years of friendship I've listened to his problems and to his depressive thoughts and tried to give him advice, cheer him up and telling him that if he tries hard enough to maybe finish highschool or get a job he can solve his problems. He just keeps using being depressed as an excuse to even go out of his house. 

After some point these went from talks to just arguments, and since then he argues with everyone about anything, if someone doesn't agree with him about something he will argue about it.

A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend and I tried to play something with him but almost as soon as the call started, he started to argue with my boyfriend about the new Steam chat update??? since then we agreed to not invite him to play with us anymore.

Tonight I decided to play with him because he said he needed someone to distract him from his depressive thoughts, even though I had just woken from a nap after having a wonderful day I said yes. After a while of just playing and talking about things it happened again, he brought up being sad and we had yet another argument about him hating his life and me encourage him to do something to make it better, at some point my game crashed and I said that I wanted to go to bed. He got upset because I wouldn't stay up with him and I just said ''You know, you being like this doesn't help me want to stay up with you at all'', he said that he knows and we just said goodnight.

I feel bad for pushing him away for being depressed but at the same time I've been trying to help him out with this for years now and he has still done nothing to get better.

Am I the asshole?

pushing my depressed friend away