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Input: My boyfriend and I have been living together for three years and dating for four. He works a fancy real adult job, and I'm still grinding away (for now) in food service. I'm in management so I'm required to work on Christmas Eve and have had to for the last two years. There's just no exception unfortunately. 


My boyfriend's family lives in another state, about a six hour drive away. He's not that close with them and Christmas has become just about the only time he sees them. The first two years we were together I was able to visit his family with him for Christmas, and it was great. They made me feel like I was a part of the family and I really needed that. But of course work put a damper on that. 


For the past two years my boyfriend has gone to visit his family without me, and besides a little bit of sulking about how I'll miss him, I've been okay with that. I get out of work on Christmas Eve and spend the night with my two cute kitties, and then on Christmas I have dinner with my family. 


I'm just not that close with my family. It didn't used to be that way, but things have changed. I've spent a lot of my adult life so far feeling kind of sad/lonely during the holidays. What I really want is to spend this Christmas waking up in my home with my boyfriend. I want to have presents under the tree for each other and make us a holiday breakfast and all the dorky Christmas stuff. I want him to be here with me. We haven't ever had a Christmas together in our own home!


I told him this and he didn't respond the way I hoped. He says that he sees me every day, and the only time he gets to see his full family together is on Christmas. He says we could have a late Christmas, pretend a different day is Christmas when he gets back. But it's just not really the same. I'm upset because I wish I didn't have to fight him to spend the day with me. I wish that it was important to him too. 


He's spent the last two Christmases with his family while I've woken up alone. Am I the asshole for wanting him to be with me this year? 


wanting to spend Christmas with my boyfriend