Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: To preface this, I have known this girl for about 4 years up till my confession, and liked her for about 2 of those years. So my best friend and I had been getting really close over the past 2 months or so, and getting far more touchy as a result of this. I had chosen to keep my feelings at bay in the past, but as things escalated my feelings became too strong to hold back. I began to feel like I was betraying her trust by being as touchy as I was with her, although most of the time I was not the one who initiated this. Eventually, I decided enough was enough and decided to confess to her how I feel.

Sadly, she did not feel the same way for me, which I was fine with and began the process of moving on. The next time I saw her though, she began immediately talking about other guys she was either talking with or trying to have sex with, and this felt very cruel to me. I had just poured my heart out to this girl and it felt like she was intentionally trying to hurt me. After this, I asked if she could refrain from talking about guys for the time being, as I needed a lil bit of time to recover before I could only see her as a friend again.

This is where the potential assholery comes in. My statement resulted in a small argument where she essentially stated she didn’t want to talk about the fact that I had confessed to her. She said it made her extremely uncomfortable and honestly angry. For some reason, this really upset me and confused me, considering in the moment she was relatively understanding. I tried to get her to talk about it more, so I could understand where she was coming from and potentially work this out, but she continued wanting to avoid that topic in its entirety.

Later, I texted her essentially saying that until we can talk about what happened as adults, I would like to take a break from speaking. She never responded to this text and I’m kinda feeling like I may be the bad guy here. 

So, Reddit, AITA?

confessing to my best friend/crush