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Input: About 6 months ago I 22M) met and started dating my girlfriend (21F). Sadly its a long distance relationship, about 6 hour plane ride away from each other, but we make it work and I even visited her once. I work full time and she's unemployed, she also demands a lot of attention, which im usually okay with but sometimes it can get on my nerves a bit. She will throw tantrums and get mad at me for being with my friends or my family for a few hours during a day off.  I love spending time with her, and when given the option that's always what I would rather do, but sometimes i want to do other things and it makes her so mad.

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She has diagnosed depression and social anxiety, a history of being used and betrayed by her friends, and a family who, while not being that terrible, dont really support her in her issues. For all these reasons I always try to be patient and understandable to her, she's just really attached to me it's fine right? But sometimes all this attachment gets to me, because its almost a crime and a proof of "unlove" spending time with people that arent her, even if its just a few hours.

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Last time this happened was today. It's my two days off, so as usual I planned to spend it with her. My family (who I also dont spend a lot of time with) wanted to watch a movie in theaters, (I work at a movie theater so I have free tickets every week) so they asked me if I could arrange something. I thought "sure no problem, couple hours with my family is no big deal", boy was I wrong. As soon as I told her, her first reaction was to go completely silent on me, it was like talking to a wall, which is extremely ironic coming from her, considering she hates being ignored and if i take more than 5 minutes to asnwer a text, or dont answer a question during a voice call (usually because something is loud and i didnt hear it) she will get super mad and assume im ignoring her. After about an hour of me trying to apologize for spending some time with my family, saying that I would rather be with her and all other kinds of excuses, i cracked and said something like "why is it that no matter how much time I spend with you, its never enough?", she just hung up on me. I know it was probably a mean thing to say but this argument happens so often, I just get so mad/sad and this time i just blew up. The argument continued on message but not much different. Me asking why is it that spending all my free time before/after work and my lunch break with her isnt enough, and her saying "Im sorry I want to spend time with my boyfriend" and complaining that some of the time we spend together is sleeping, or "Im sorry for feeling sad, ill just feel nothing.

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So i dont know, maybe im being unreasonable and i should be more understanding of her issues, maybe she's the one being unreasonable. AITA?

not spending time with my girlfriend