Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Using throwaway. Before I start, I want to say that I am NOT the kind of person who expects a man to pay for everything. I have always liked things to be equal in a relationship so I would never make a man do everything in a relationship. If it matters, we’re both 20 and I’m a female.

Anyways, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and in the entire 2 years that we’ve been together, I have been paying for almost everything including food and even sometimes stuff for him. I never had an issue with paying for food or even buying him stuff because I like to treat him. However, I noticed that he would never do the same for me. He never really offers to pay or buy me anything (not that I expect him to). When I try to compromise and say we can take turns paying for food, he always complains about being broke even though he makes way more money than I do and doesn’t spend money at all?? And when he does spend money, he always spends $100 or more which irritates me a bit because if he’s so broke then why is he spending so much money? And yes I have called him out on that many times before. 

So AITA? I feel so greedy when I think about this so I try to let it go but it keeps bothering me. Even when he suggests to eat out while I prefer to stay in, I still end up paying and it doesn’t make sense to me. And when he does pay, he always nags me about “owing” him when I have never once asked him to pay me back.

being upset that my bf never pays for anything