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Input: Backstory: She and I have been together for just over 3 years. We both graduated college 1.5 years ago. We both wanted to get out of this town immediately after graduating, but she had an opportunity to further her education just after graduation. We decided to stay for the extra year and a half, with the agreement that we would leave as soon as she finished school. 


It’s finally just about time for her to graduate. I’ve been working a low-paying, dead-end “college” job for the past 3 years. I finally got a job offer in our dream city, and am incredibly excited to start. Perfect, right? Well, she’s just finishing up clinicals, and has been assisting a neurologist for the past 2 weeks. She and the neurologist apparently work well together, and he offered her a position at his surgery. 

This is the field she wants to work in, and is now very conflicted. On one hand, she wants to move with me. On the other, while I have a job set up there, she doesn’t. She keeps suggesting that I should move first while she works here and gains experience. However, in the medical field, you generally don’t get hired for less than a year. I really don’t want us to have to live 8 hours apart for the next 1+ years, especially since we are supposed to be starting our lives together. Additionally, I have really bad experiences from a past long-distance relationship, and absolutely do not want to go through that again. 


Her mother also keeps encouraging her to take the job and do long-distance. She’s a military wife, and has spent years apart from her husband at a time. She keeps telling my fiancée that “it’s no big deal,” even though, for me, it is. 


My question is, AITA for being adamant that we don’t make our relationship long-distance?

not wanting to do long-distance with my fiancée, and for wishing her mom would stop encouraging her to