Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I posted this in tales from the customer and AirBnB and I got some pretty toxic responses and PM's. I thought I was at least neutral, but a couple people called me crazy and more called me an asshole. So I'll post it here, this isn't for affirmation, I legitimately am worried I need to apologize. TLDR at the end.


FTP, On mobile, I've never had a story worth posting before this.


Set up of the story:

This was my first vacation without my parents.

I reserved my spot at a 3 bed 2 bath home all to myself and my girlfriend 2 months in advance.

My mandatory must have filters for finding a suitable BnB: 

Free parking on premises, not on the street.

Kitchen fully stocked with cookware.

A house to myself, no apartments no duplexes, no shared walls or other people's noises.

WiFi

After reserving my spot for 4 days; I ask the host to send more pictures of the place as the pictures posted are badly taken and do not show much. I get an excuse that he is redoing the landscaping so my request is impossible to accommodate.


Onto the real story:


I arrive at 1:45. Check in is at 2pm. I tell the host we are in town at a restaurant and we will arrive soon.

I arrive and immediately realised why the pictures were the way they were. He would stand on top of the things he knew would be unacceptable and picture everything else.

The 3 bedroom house I rented is now a 3 apartment duplex that used to be a 3 bedroom house before the host renovated it himself. 

There were 5 active spider webs.

The "driveway" is sand and rocks raked into a rectangle, smaller than my car was.

The WiFi never worked and the router was locked in a closet or another apartment I didn't have the key to, the host knew within minutes of my arrival, never fixed.

The kitchen had 1 plate, a microwave, 3 forks, 1 tea spoon, and a stove top made in the 1940s with 14 step instructions lamanated to the front of it. No cups, no bowls, no pots, no pans, no cooking utensils, not even a butter knife to be found. So as far as I'm concerned there was no kitchen.

So I search the house for cameras: Removing everything from bookcases and putting it back, Opening everything that was not locked and closing it again, moving all furniture, and analysing every light switch and outlet.

The bedroom door had a lock ON THE OUTSIDE OF IT that could not be manipulated from inside the room. I had a major problem with this my entire stay. It was a single sided deadbolt like you put on your front door.

The host then parked in my BnBs "driveway" for about 30% of my stay.

After my search me and my girlfriend strip in the living room and make sure the bed frame was properly constructed. I then walk back out to the living room to find that a spider bigger than a quarter had given birth onto my shirt. There are hundreds, I sprayed with raid and left the shirt at my check out.

I then find a mosquito I did not kill on the refrigerator, and a 4 month old cockroach husk near the complementary food.

So I give a 2 Star overall review (which I thought was generous) stating the truth. It was nicely renovated, but falsely advertised (1 bed, 1 bath, no kitchen) and not clean in the least.

The host then starts personally attacking me in his response to my review, and claims the place was dirty because of my early arrival. He then also said that I must be lieing as I posted no pictures in my review (I didn't know this was a thing) but neither of those are the catcher:

He then says," this man ransacked my home every day of his stay looking for cameras and microphones."

Now let's pause for a second and think about that. I took pictures to make sure I placed all the books in the same order and orientation as when I found them. How did he know I did things like this every day I was there, without a camera.

So I reported it to BnB and sent all the pictures and screenshots i took. BnB then offered to and later refunded me 40% of my stay and the cleaning fee, I just hope I really am paranoid and there was no camera.

He lost his Super Host status, at least temporarily, but I've been told I shouldn't claim this as my doing.

Tldr: host buys a 3 bed 2 bath house and loads it on BnB then after 10 reviews he cut the house into 3 different Bnb's, making 2 new listings (all saying full house with kitchen and bedrooms) Never changed the listing. After I gave a accurate review the man insulted my honor and made a statement that pointed to a camera being in the apartment. I then got offered a hefty refund and he lost super host status. 

Just to say: I have proof in pictures. I will no longer send it to a random user, as it contains personal information. I'll send all proof to a mod of asked to, and only if asked to by a mod.


going after my bnb host