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Input: I'm a "middle child" and have 2 siblings - an older sibling who is turning 32 in a week from now and a younger sibling who is turning 22 at the beginning of March.

 I have always bought presents for both of my siblings on their birthdays (as they do for me). 

Now that my older sibling is turning 32 I don't really feel like doing the whole birthday present thing anymore but I still want to buy a present for my 22 year old sibling....I feel like I am going to look like an asshole if I don't get my older sib anything but then a week later turn around and do something for the younger one. I dont want to make my older sibling feel uncomfortable or unloved ..its nothing personal...but...like when is the cut off??

I thought about possibly just doing something small for my older sib but once again dont want it to seem like I put a bunch more thought into the younger sibs gift...

Would this make me an asshole? 

TLDR - would I be an asshole if I bought my younger 22 year old sibling a birthday present when I didnt buy my older 32 year old sibling a present when their birthdays are only a week apart 


getting one a gift but not the other