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Input: Hi reddit, this one kinda needs context and is getting me mad, because I love this girl but I just cant handle fighting over this anymore.

We met in my parents town and now we both live in 2 other cities for college, this will be our last year apart on a now 4 year relationship.
Everytime she comes to see me, she makes me come back to my parents town, to see her friends - and I hate coming back, its a very small town with nothing to do and 50kb/s download speed. We are both people of staying home and not going out so much, and I basically havent had a weekend at my city in at least 8 months, because she always wants to come here to see her friends.
Her best friends are 2 girls that studied with me in highschool, but not with my girlfriend, and used to bully everyone - so I didnt really like them, but we have grown, etc, but still I dont want them to be my only friends.
In that proccess, I have grown further and further from my older friends, because I always end up hanging around with these people I just mentioned.
So for a while now, everytime she comes to see me I have to argue to not come to my parents town, and to not see her friends, and to not go the places they want to go, but I always lose, end up going, then I get frustrated we argue and she says she will pay more attention to it - then we fight again over the same thing the other time.

Thats the context. I know its pretty standard, but we are now in the middle of a huge fight because yesterday, instead of going as always, I refused and stayed alone with some other common friends, while she went to a party in a remote location, very far away, with dirt road on the way, music I know she hates, all because one of the two bully friends wanted to go to hook up with a crush of hers. 
This girl was the only one determined to go, and since we just got back from a 15 day trip, my GF says "she really wanted to see them", but kinda took their side on deciding where to go, while I tried to put other options on the table - it's a small town, so it was pretty much the old "go to trash party" or "drink on the street", I was arguing for the second. 

Now, I'm very frustrated because I feel like everytime these friends get involved, they become priority, and I always say that and my GF just says stuff like "thats not true, im with you everyday, etc", and I do understand that, but at the same time I feel like she is forcing me into some toxic friendships and siding with them at every opportunity, even though she knows how I feel about it.

Im really worried about becoming a control freak on our relationship ou sexist even, so I wanted outside opinions.
Am I the asshole here? Anyone have any clue what I should do?

Sorry for the possibly bad english, not a native speaker.

being mad at my gf over her friends