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Input: For context, I know how it feels to be overweight. I used to be 65 pounds above what I should have been, and I lost that through maintaining my diet and exercising. I know how unhealthy being obese is, and how hard it is to stop.

 My friend has complete access to a good diet (his parents buy plenty of healthy food for themselves) and he literally lives 200 feet from a gym he has access to, but still doesn't do anything. I'm concerned because he is over 240 pounds and is only 5 feet 10 inches, which is an obese BMI. His diet mostly consists of fast food that his parents buy specifically for him, and he doesn't want to start working out or eating right. Keep in mind, last year he only weighed 180 pounds and was still 5 foot 10.

I recently moved away, so I can't motivate him or try to help him physically, which is why I bring up his weight so much. I got him to go to the gym with me once, but he just stopped after 1 session (he did half a mile of walking, which I was proud of because he tried). The worst part is that he is completely ignorant of all of the health problems, and justifies his health by saying that he "doesn't look overweight".

I want to be able to get through to him, so I keep bringing up his weight problem and how he can help it. I'm not suggesting drastic change; i tell him to drink diet soda instead of regular, or to eat fast food 1 less day a week. Now all of our conversations are a minefield in which he takes offense to any mention of weight, food, or exercise.

Am I the asshole for trying to help him avoid this lifestyle, or am I being too pushy? 

keeping pushing for my overweight friend to lose weight