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Input: *I'm sorry if there are any mistakes english is not my first language.

I always had a lot of self-esteem issues, so about two months ago I started dieting. Unfortunately the diet ended up bringing back an eating disorder I had a long time ago and I had to stop for the sake of my own health. 

My mom was not very happy with this, and kept insisting that I should keep doing it, I kept telling her that I was uncomfortable with all the nagging so she gave up trying to convince me after some time. This was until a week before her best friend birthday party, she was invited about a week beforehand and asked me if I wanted to go with her. I'm not a big fan of socializing but I decided to go with her to the party because she told me she would be happy if I tagged. Everything started after I agreed to attend the party. She asked me if I could start the diet again, just so I would look pretty in a dress. I told her that I'd rather not and explained that it made me really uncomfortable and that if I ended up not losing any weight, it would be very bad for my self-esteem. She told me it was ok and that she understood that I didn't want to do it.

About 3 days before the birthday party, my mom arrived home with a bag full of dresses for me to try on. When I opened the bag I noticed that almost all the dresses were about 3 sizes smaller than mine and told her that she must've gotten them wrong. She then, proceeded to tell me that I shouldn't worry about that and that If anything didn't fit I'd still have time to get thinner. I told her that I had already decided what I wanted to wear to the party and that she didn't need to buy anything new.

She became very angry and told me that she didn't wanted her daughter to go around looking like a hobo (the dress that I chose was almost new, and also one of my favourites). I decided to try the dresses on just to make her happy, it couldn't be that bad right? Wrong. I was forced to try on every single dress in the bag, and had to stand in front of a huge mirror staring at myself while I heard my mom making comments about my weight. Things like "You would look so much prettier if you lost weight" and "I don't understand why you have to each like a pig all the time, such a pretty girl". She went on about it for some time but I ended up exploding. It is a very sensitive topic for me and I had asked her to stop a lot of times. When I wasn't able to take it and told her that I wasn't feeling so good about the party and didn't want to go anymore, she started to freak out. She told me that I was ruining her weekend and that I should be ashamed of myself for not taking her feelings in consideration. She also said that all she wanted was a pretty daughter and that I was ruining everything for her.  I ended up deciding to not go to the party after that, but I still fell bad for ruining it for my mom. 

not going to my mom's best friend birthday party