Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My son recently turned 3 years old and has been fighting diaper changes to the point that my husband and I have to chase him down and catch him and then it take one person to hold him in place while the other one changes the diaper. On my last day off (Tuesday) I got fed up with it so I decided that it was time to start potty training. I made a post on Facebook, basically saying what I just stated here.  


My husband's aunt lives with us and we give her room and board in exchange for her watching our son while I work part time. This is typically two days a week from 8 am until 1 pm, and he goes down for a nap at noon...so we're talking 8 hours a week that he's awake. Well, she was out all day Tuesday and came home just before our kids' bedtime, came into the living room and says "What's this I see on Facebook about Leland potty training?" I told her that as recommended by a lot of experts and worked well when our 6 year old potty trained, we'll be keeping him home for a few days while he goes naked from the waist down to make it easier for him to get on the toilet quickly. She asked if he'd be wearing a diaper when she watches him and I told her "No, that delays progress because he's spent the last 3 years pooping and peeing in a diaper so it will confuse him by sending mixed signals." She stormed off down to her bedroom and slammed the door, clearly incredibly upset about the news.  


I completely acknowledge that with her being our childcare provider, some advanced notice would have been ideal. I made the decision unilaterally in a moment of extreme frustration. But, she refused to talk to us all that night and has spent the last 2 days locked in her room, giving me the silent treatment. I've had to miss my last two shifts at work because she won't talk to me and ultimately I made the decision to resign because my son has been making great progress and I no longer feel like I can count on her for childcare since she can't even talk this out like an adult.  


So, acknowledging that I could have handled the situation better, was I so much of an asshole that her level of reaction is justified?

potty training my child