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Input: Some background, my little sister is in the Army. I haven’t seen her since August for a funeral. She hasn’t really been able to take leave because she was flagged for her weight. Finally, she tells me in early December that she got approved to go on leave at the end of January, so I immediately went and put in for my vacation time at work. I haven’t stopped talking about it and made everyone aware that I was taking this time to see my sister.

My job has a super strict first come, first served policy about taking vacations. My department only has 8 people and it’s considered a trade so you can’t just pull anyone off the street to cover for one of us, so only one person is allowed to take vacation at a time.

This past week, one of my coworkers asks off for the *exact same* week as me, saying he already spent $2,000 to go out of the country and our bosses “better approve the time off because of how expensive it was.” Our boss sees the request and pulls him aside telling him that he can’t have it because I asked for it. Coworker cries to the big boss and big boss gives it to him, telling my boss to tell me to take my vacation “some other time.” I went to the big boss explaining the situation, he didn’t do anything, so I went over his head. The DM was appalled and basically took away my coworker’s vacation, wrote my store manager for breaking policy and told my coworker if he calls in more than once that week to go on said vacation, he’ll get fired. 

I didn’t mean to get everyone in trouble, but I asked for it over a month ago and I want to see my sister. Am I the asshole here? 

getting my coworker's $2,000 vacation taken away