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Input: SO some backstory:

My girlfriend and I worked together for around 2 and a half years.  In this time we moved in together and had a child.  Beforehand she had 3 children from a previous marriage.  From day one I have accepted her children as my own.  Now that we have 4, we had a carefully balanced schedule where one of us got off, then switched kids, then the other worked.  We still managed to get one day off together.  And let me add this: through promotion I became her manager.  So to the story.

This past weekend, St. Patricks, is our busiest weekend of the year.  We are a restaurant and bar.  She and I have been fighting from Friday night until Sunday.  Towards the end of the night she is getting miffed and tells me she quits.  She has been unhappy there for a couple of months now.  I really needed her to work through St Patricks, we were short staffed as it were.  And then she pops this.  She's done.  

The next day I am going to make the schedule.  I realize I have 2 other servers out, so I will be super short during the coming weekend.  I talk to her about putting her on the schedule.  "I told you, I don't want to go back to working there."

"Well what are you going to do for money?"

"I have another job." And bam, the next day, Tuesday, she starts working at an office job.  I really don't think she planned it in advanced, the girl who got her the job worked the saturday and Sunday she was on.  

But I feel upset because we had a tightly crafted schedule, juggling the kids and still managed a day off together.  She didn't bring this up with me beforehand.  I work 4p-3am Tuesday through Sunday.  Now she is working 9a-5p and we will never see each other, and there is no way we will ever have Monday off together.  I feel like she was completely inconsiderate of my feelings, she screwed me on my work schedule, she didn't give me a real notice and completely shifted how our life is going to  without considering me.  I told her she can deal with getting the kids and deal with watching them, since she just changed my life with no input, made my job more difficult and alienated me.  

She countered that I am "being controlling and treating her like a child."  But I don't think it is wrong for me to feel hurt.  It is very hard for her and I to cooperate on things.  We both come off as critical. I am upset.  Am I the asshole? I don't mind her changing jobs, but don't drop it on me overnight and screw me at the place I am responsible for staffing because in the end, it doesn't hurt the bar it hurts me.  And I feel left out of the loop.  

getting mad at my so for changing jobs