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Input: My ex and I had a amicable but long drawn breakup. The context of that is not that important obviously but I knew he didn't love me anymore and things were going to change. We shared two cats we essentially rescued from his friend as kittens. They has severe eye infections and a terrible case of fleas . We both nursed them back to health together. We we're very attached to these cats and treated them as our children (crazy cat people lol) I was the one that moved out and he kept the cats (something that at the time of our breakup he demanded) I was always the one to give in and honestly I didn't want to make the situation harder than it already was.  I didn't want to rip my cats out of the home they've   become so adjusted to. Anyway to the point of where the assholerie might have happened..after the breakup I was still allowed visits and was responsible for food and litter, a situation happened and I had to jump ship to protect myself at the time knowing I would probably never see those cats again. It's been difficult to even think about them without tears forming in my eyes and this wave of guilt flooding over me. So I don't. I don't think of them. I don't look at pictures I don't try to remember no, nada, nothing. Complete detachment. Recently we got into an argument and he brought up the fact that I don't "give a fuck about the cats". All of our interactions have been though text or calls and we only do speak because I still have some items left in his home and again we're for the most part pretty amicable. I don't hate the guy but I do resent him for keeping them. He knows and has heard me completely break down over the phone if he even just brings them up. I try not to talk about them and give him vague answers when he does bring them up through text for his credit. Reddit I need to know am I the asshole for not caring about these cats ? 

not caring about the cats I shared with my ex