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Input: Sorry for formatting, grammar, etc. I’m on mobile, yada yada yada. 

So last night my sister got into a car wreck, (her fault, no one was hurt seriously besides bruises and being sore.) She was freaking out because the both of us work CNA jobs which don’t make very much, while also in school for medical professions. She would start her program a year ahead of me, but it’s very hard to work during either programs so both of us would have to be PRN or not work at all. Some people work while doing it but it’s insanely hard and stressful, especially since you have to have a certain grade point average throughout otherwise you get dropped from the program. 

Last night, she was talking about having to push back starting the program so she could work and pay her car note, car insurance, etc. She had already pushed it back a year before that, and I didn’t want that. I told her to not worry about it, I’ll pay her note and insurance. I’ll work, and I was going to push back my school and my plans for life. 

She immediately began looking at cars online, cars well over 10k. My grandfather is coming to pay for the down payment for a car Thursday, which he doesn’t have the money to really do. He had said before that he would help me pay for my transmission to be fixed, not the entire thing since I didn’t want him paying that much money, but now I can’t ask him for any money. The guilt is weighing on me even having him pay my sisters down payment. 

I was planning on buying my own car because the transmission on my old car is about to go out, and wanted to move in with my boyfriend later on this year. My mom is controlling, beyond so, and doesn’t help pay for very much. She’s never truly had much money, and what money she gets she blows easily. We now live with my cousins while my sister and I share a tiny bedroom, and she pays less here than when we were in an apartment. I’ve been unemployed and just now starting to work again, the entire time I was unemployed my sister payed for everything I needed. Bills, paying for clothes, groceries etc. 

I had a talk with my boyfriend, and I don’t want to pay her car note. I want to move out, I want to go to school, I want to get a car that doesn’t shake and the engine doesn’t scare me that it’s going to fall apart every time I drive it. I came home and told my mom this, and she told me “It doesn’t work that way. You said you would pay it last night, you don’t have a choice.” 

So I’m sitting in the bathroom, trying to cry as quietly as possible while texting my boyfriend. AITA or would I be if I didn’t pay the car note for her new car?

not paying my sisters car note while she's in school