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Input: First time poster. When my (26F) boyfriend (24M) and I first met (before we started dating) I knew he was a smoker. My biggest line in the sand with dating was always "I will never date a smoker". Well, wouldn't I be damned that I fell in love with that guy. When we started dating I made it really well known that this is a big deal for me and that I wouldn't be able to continue with it. 

I am a singer (professional opera singer) and an asthmatic. I also find smoking to be just the grossest thing ever, it is just a complete turn off. To add insult to injury, not only is he smoking cigarettes, he also mixes cigarettes and pot together (smoking batch). And if anyone knows about that is smells even worse. He smokes a lot of pot. I don't even have huge issues with it, but he's outside multiple times a day smoking and is spending a lot of money on it. 

He comes inside and even when he brushes his teeth I can still smell it coming from his lungs and I can't help myself, I start coughing.

I understand it's a habitual addiction mixed with a physical addiction. He tried going on stop smoking aids but it doesn't stop the pot smoking. My therapist (who I was seeing for another issue) says that making peoples with addictions feel shame only makes their addictions worse. Every time I try to bring it up nicely he just gets all upset and calls himself a failure and does nothing about it. People say that quitting smoking is a ridiculously hard thing to do and that I am asking him too much, but in reality I think my health and my needs matter too, and I'm not blowing away my money and health.

AITA for being a stickler and making him quit smoking? 

making my Boyfriend quit smoking