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Input: I'm sorry this is long, please bare with me.  


So we've been together for three years, I'm 26 and he's 31. We're both pretty fucked and underdeveloped due to our childhoods and history, but we've been trying to grow together quite a bit. I really see a difference with us being together.... But since we've been together he's been inspired to go from hobby to hobby (woodworking, machining) to try to find a way to work himself out of his rut that he'd been in ten years prior to me. He'll investigate the hobby and invest in the tools to the umpth degree and then really never do much with them and eventually move onto the next hobby. In the end this has put him in good small lump of debt that causes him constant anxiety. That mixed with a soul sucking job of being a tow truck driver, mixed even more with his multi year rut has caused him to be very desperate to make money so we can eventually buy a home. He had gotten into Ebay, but is having a hard time figuring the taxes and fees and again, feels stuck.  


SO, we live in a state that you can't buy cannabis (bud, seeds, nothing), BUT you can have it and grow it. So you just have to some how magically make it appear. The police here don't really care that much about cannabis sellers either when there's a heroine epidemic. So the boyfriend now has it in his head that now that we're going we can sell enough that we can both quit our jobs (even though I need the benefits and insurance) and just grow and sell. He even has a master plan of how to funnel the money in an online sale sort of way to get it taxed and make it more legit! Which I was not too pleased to hear about. I don't mind selling a little bit, but I don't want to go to jail, and the moment anything goes online it makes any illegal thing you do ten times worse so far as I know!   


After expressing my displeasure and even saying no to the money funneling he started acting as if I was just being stupidly paranoid. As if there's no way we'll ever get caught or go to jail, and even if we did we'd just figure it out! Maybe he could! But I want a legitimate life, I want to actually be able to buy a house, have a good job. HE could find a job after jail but I certainly couldn't in what I usually end up doing. I'm so distraught that I'm contemplating breaking up with him even though I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I just don't want to fuck it up by jumping the gun. I would love to turn growing cannabis into an actual job, but we have to wait until it become legal to do so.... Am I the asshole, is there something I'm not seeing?

being upset my boyfriend wants to quit his job to sell weed