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Input: Let me preface this with I'm on mobile and I have fat thumbs. Please keep that in mind. 

Okay so I'm 19 (F) and I have a ten month old and live in a two bedroom apartment with my baby's father 22(M). We moved in about a month ago and it's a fairly nice apartment. Ever since my daughter has been born I've been expected to clean and take care of her. I haven't been working, not because I can't or don't want to I just think it's more important to be with her than to work. I even worked while pregnant for months, it's not laziness just trying to be the best mom I can and I think these moments are precious. Well, we lived with his grandmother before living here and she keeps the house spotless by slaving every day. Keep in mind she has no babies to watch out for but cares for my Bfs two teenage siblings because his mom passed away. So he expects that out of me. I take care of my daughter all day and all night. She takes two naps a day and I try to at least get one of them to sleep as well. The house isn't disgusting, just sometimes it's a little dirty. From living in it. You clean the kitchen and in a few hours it's dirty again. And I've got a ten month old who isn't walking yet that I can't just set in the floor. We have a playpen but she will only sit in it for so long and by the time I get the mess cleaned up in an hour or so there's a new mess. He works nights so when he gets home it's usually dirty from the night before. Not always but some nights I'm struggling to get her to bed, etc. Well he rides my ass about cleaning the house all the time. Says he works and I should clean up to compensate. He's not very understanding of having to care for a child and do it, he says just throw her in the playpen and turn videos on for her. I don't like doing that but he says it's something that just has to be done. Am I the asshole here? Should it just be my responsibility? I really need some outside input here. Thank you. 

not being the perfect housewife