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Input: A little bit of a long post I'm sorry! TLDR at bottom

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I was visiting my local tabletop/boardgame store in our town with my ex (we're still good friends - were together for 3 years, known eachother for 6+ and broken up almost 2 - 3 months now) because there was a MTG tournament and thought we'd drop by for a moment to say hello. 

Immediately as we walked in we got greeted by a lot of people we all know, and proceeded to sit next to some friends who were playing. One of our mutual friends was playing against R, my ex already knew R and is sort of friends with him (the kind of friend you see at lot at gatherings with other mutual friends). We started up a conversation during their match because it was nothing too serious and they can play very well while holding a conversation. 

R asked in a little bit of a condescending tone "oh hey so RJ (ex), this is your girlfriend right?". My ex and I looked at eachother and I said "it's a long story" and he filled in with "we're exes now, but still good friends". R immediately responded with "oh that's even better for me, that means I have a chance!" with the creepiest smile ever on his face. I laughed it of and tried to turn the conversation in a whole other direction. 

After only half a minute or so my ex and I switched over to another table to "annoy" other people during their match, we weren't planning on staying for longer than 10 minutes anyway, just having some smalltalk. My ex eventually held a conversation with someone for a little time (talking about the trip to england they're on now for a MTG tournament) and I just looked at the match from another table. R thought it was a good idea to (literally) corner me and start a conversation, I already had some creepy vibes from him but the way he talked to me was so rude. 

A little bit of information: I fucking HATE playing magic the gathering, I've tried it, didn't like it, I'm a sore loser, it's all on me but I really HATE playing this fucking game, but I do like watching in and people can talk about how much they love it to me and I will listen to you for HOURS!

During the "conversation" between R and I, the only thing he said was "oh hey do you wanna play MTG sometime? Can I show you how to play MTG sometime? Can I give you some MTG cards then? \[these are not the cheap cards mind you\] Don't you want to play a quick game right now then, it'll only be 20 minutes!? When are you visiting the store again? do you come here often" I (kindly) declined everything and told him I don't visit that often, only when I need painting supplies for warhammer and started fidgeting a little with my phone. He just kept going on, eventually I wiggled my way closer to my ex because I feel very safe near him and hoped he'd join into this conversation. 

My ex is quite oblivious to signals btw. I tried signalling him that I really wanted someone to join this conversation, and eventually my ex and his conversation partner joined into our conversation. When they did, R just left?!? When my ex and his conversation partner started talking without me again R came back with.....  A WHOLE FUCKING DECK OF MAGIC THE GATHERING CARDS ?!?! Appearantly he went to the counter of the store and got one for me, even though I told him that 1) I didn't like playing magic the gathering. Heck even my ex and his conversation partner told him so (they've tried several times already)! 2) wasn't interested in learning magic the gathering more 3) don't want another hobby/game to play!

When the conversation (finally) ended after I told my ex to his face several times "hey RJ I really want to go, we should get going, we have more stuff to do this afternoon, we're running a bit late" we still ended up 2 or 3 more minutes in the store. I told my ex that I was really uncomfortable talking with R (I almost whispered while saying this to him) and that he should've picked up all the signals I was giving him. He told me he was sorry that he didn't pick up on any signal. I said it was okay, but told him that "R is really sending me some nice guy vibes and it's creeping me out a lot, I really want to go home" , not knowing I said this a little bit louder than intended. R wasn't standing right next to us but could've heard us maybe. 

So, am I the asshole for calling R a niceguy?   


TL;DR : went to a local tabletop/boardgame store, started up a conversation person kept pressuring me into a conversation without other people and got me a MTG deck whilst I told him several times I wasn't interested in playing the game AITA?

calling someone a nice guy right next to him