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Input: I was not present during this. Names have been changed.

So my grandma comes over to my moms every other week and stays for awhile. She brings her dog, B (corgi mix).  My mom has Worm (aussie mix). We have had Worm for 8 years.


I recently got Worm a bone. The dogs fought over the bone and Worm bit B’s neck and held on - but from what my mom told me, there’s no injury at all.  My mom tries to break them up, but B bites her on the wrist, making blood SPURT out of her. My mom went to the ER after locking them in different rooms. My grandma drove her.


My mom didn’t report B. This isn’t the first time my grandmas dog has sent someone to the ER.  In high school, he sent one of my friends to the ER for biting their pinky so badly.  He was also not reported for that incident. B is a very possessive and jealous dog when it comes to food, toys, or humans.  B has also NEVER been professionally trained and has barely been trained by my grandma.  The boy barely knows how to sit. 


My family (my late father and I) trained Worm, but we’re no experts. Since my mom moved to a smaller house with no backyard, Worm has gotten leash aggressive and less friendly with other dogs.  Before B came along, Worm was always playful and social with other dogs. When I’m home I notice that Worm will whale eye and move away when B comes towards him. I don’t think my family notices.


Generally, I’ve been having issues with my mom about Worm.  She doesn’t make the time to walk him for longer times, or put in the financial effort to get him a dog walker or even groom him.  The only time Worm gets brushed is when I am visiting and that’s only once out of a few months.


I told my mom that I’m looking into a dog trainer for both dogs, esp for B. I told her I would help pay since my grandma is poor; I also offered to pay for Worm. My mom seemed sad on the phone.

I regret saying that I would help pay.  My friends tell me that it’s not my responsibility.  I worry that it would be a bad investment if my family doesn’t put in the effort. I also just started out at an ok job in an expensive city and my first student loan payment is soon.


TL;DR: my grandmas dog bit my mom while fighting with my moms dog. Mom went to ER. 2nd time this dog has sent someone to the ER.I am pushing for professional dog training and I offered to pay but now realize it is not feasible.


WIBTA to revoke my offer to pay and, if they don’t put in effort, give them an ultimatum of “train B or I will report him” to whoever you report this shit to?  

revoking my offer to pay for professional dog training and gave my mom and (mostly) my grandma an ultimatum