Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I wanted to go a dance with a guy from my school and he wasn't really giving me a yes or no answer so I figured I would go anyway to show up if he was there or not. My grandpa was in the ER that evening refusing treatment so I left 15 minutes in. I get calls and texts from my friends saying "[his name] is looking for you." And "why did you stand him up?". I've had a lot if personal things going on too that have caused more social anxiety than normal. Am I the ass for running out of the dance last minute to go to the hospital?

leaving the dance