Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Long story short. A coworker got a DUI leaving happy hour around a month ago. (Her third one) Everything after that has been a pity story. Or we should all feel bad for her. She can't get her kids gifts anymore because of the fees associated with the DUI, yet she comes in with a new hair weave. New nails. Weed cartridges. She always clarifies everything is on "a tab."  

Now all of my coworkers are looking at me as a "heartless person" for not wanting to contribute money/gifts to someone who I feel isn't even helping herself, better yet her children. 

On top of all that I'm going through hard financial times myself too, but it's not something I go around work talking about. 

She's a single mom too by the way. AITA?

not contributing to a co-worker whos fallen on hard times