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Input: My Grandad’s health has been up and down for a while and he’s been in hospital for a few weeks now. We’ve recently been told he has pneumonia and that some of the food he has been eating and drinking (this is very little as he hasn’t been eating well since my Nan passed in 2016) has been going into his lungs. We’ve been asked about a DNR and the doctors have said that he’s deteriorating fast. I’m going to visit him tonight and I’m hoping that things will improve but they aren’t very sure.  
  
My boyfriend lives about 2 hours train ride from me and we see each other nearly every 4 days off he has (he works 4 on and 4 off). Originally he wasn’t supposed to be coming on this 4 off as he had plans to watch the Super Bowl with friends at a pub (were in UK) and was seeing his Dad this Friday to celebrate his Dad’s birthday early since he would be at my house for his actual birthday. We’ve been together for over two years and it breaks my heart that he never got to meet my Nan, he gets on well with my family and I know my Nan would have loved him. I’ve asked him if he could come down this weekend on his 4 days off because of the situation and because we aren’t sure how long my Grandad has left. I’d like him to see my Grandad again before the worst happens (if it does), and if he does pass soon as the doctors are predicting, I would want him here for the support. We’ve just had an argument on the phone about it because I feel he’s being selfish and I’d drop everything in an instant if the shoe was on the other foot. He said he’s paid for tickets for the pub showing and wants to see his Dad as he hasn’t seen him since Christmas. I’ve told him I’m not completely sure if I want to continue because of how he has acted in this situation.  
  
I’m not sure if I’m overreacting because of how upset I am currently with my Grandad. AITA? 

being mad at my LD boyfriend for not dropping his plans to come visit when my grandad is dying