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Input: One of our dogs is a small elderly dog that my wife has had for a very long time. Recently, our dog started to cry and some times bark in the middle of the night when she wants to come on our bed and my wife picks her up every time, reinforcing this behavior.

Our dog also to jump down 3 - 4 times a night to go potty on her training pads, and she wants to go back up after each time. This has been happening every single night for over 4 weeks now. At least twice a week, she'll also urinate on our bed, forcing us to wake up and change the sheets, waterproof mattress cover, and sometimes blanket. 

Tonight was bad because she urinated once on our bed, then cried to come up after we changed everything. I asked her to not pick our dog up and to wait 15 until she's done crying so she stops waking us up. Without any response, my wife just picks her up and goes to sleep. Well a few hours later, our dog urinates on our bed again. 

This time I'm furious, and we get into an argument. She says our dog is old and should get whatever she wants. I tell her we need to treat her like we do our other dog: negative habits like this need to be trained away. She eventually loses the argument, and says I can train away that habit. But she says I have no empathy and I won't understand her point. 

I already know I'm an asshole. I'm trying to see things from her point, and I do. However, I think it's unreasonable for both of us to be waken up like this several times a night, every night. I know this means a lot to her. Should I just let her continue?

not wanting our dog to wake us up multiple times in the middle of the night every night