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Am I the Asshole? 

My wife and had a baby a year ago. We are getting ready to have a one year birthday party. My wife has been working really hard getting ready for the birthday party. Her mom, sister, and a few friends are coming from out of town to attend. My wife is extremely type A and has been killing herself making the house look good (which we recently moved into). However this has been super stressful for me, I’m travelling for work and nothing is where I left it, we have new bathmats, new shower curtains, new coffee tables, new futon, new rugs, so much stuff. A lot of this requires assembly. There's also packages of party decorations, and streamers, and masks, and blah blah blah. This is stressing me the fuck out from a cost stand point and just the fact that there’s five packages at the door everyday. I don’t know why I find it so overwhelming exactly, but I do. There’s overflowing garbage from all of the boxes that we had to have hauled away. We have enough money, it just feels wasteful and excessive to me.

I about lost my shit last night because someone had to come haul away all the boxes and drive through our yard leaving a six inch deep gouge that’s twenty feet long. The freezer’s leaking water all over the tile floor because it’s too full, my wife tried to put up curtains and left a bunch of error holes in the drywall, and my wife and MIL are cooking an involved dinner that we won’t eat until 9:30 when I’ve just had a fourteen hour day of work and out of state travel. She knows I’m stressed about it and she’s mad at me because the home is something she was proud of is now ruined and I’ve “broken her heart”. I’ve told her I like everything and that it looks good (because it does) but she knows I’m irritated. In fairness I was visibly distraught by the lawn, packages, freezer, and drywall immediately when I got home and pointed all these items out. In front of her mom. But I wasn’t being angry or yelling, I just wanted to know what the fuck was going on.

The cherry on top is my mother-in-law. My wife told me was coming in last Sunday on last Friday. My MIL and wife drink heavily and stay up late having heated discussions about their family. She is going to stay for a week. Last night my wife came to bed late at 1 AM and woke me up to cry at me and tell me she didn’t understand why I was so mad at her. Honestly I’m mad at her mom who casually cusses me out all the time. It’s under the guise of a joke but eventually it becomes very disrespectful. She said Fuck You to me like three times yesterday and called me a bastard and a bitch the night before. That COULD be funny but in this instance I’m just not into it and don’t want to be spoken to like that in my own home. My wife says I was acting pissed off all night. Well, in fairness, I was. Am I an asshole? My wife has been working from home, doing all this, doing a great job with our daughter, and doing the lion’s share of the housework. I’m not upset with her, I’m just frustrated that this situation seems so overwhelming and out of control.

being stressed about a 1 year old's Bday party