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Input: Hi! I want to know if I'm just being crazy about this or what (throwaway account tho). On mobile so I apologise for any formatting mistake. (Kinda TL;dr at the end)

Background: Me (M24) and my wife (F25) have been married for almost a year, and in the last year we had to move out of our home country (not by choice, more of a necessity) and start a living in a country where you HAVE to work for someone (not freelance) in order to be able to stay legally. 

When we first arrive, I started working (she kinda the same) and most of our shared income was being saved for moving out from where we were staying. We manage to move out, both got better paying jobs but we were still using our shared income  to buy basic things (a bed, cooking utensils, etc). Fast forward a few months and we are settled.

The income: (in USD but with are not in the US) hers: about 660$, mine: about 810$

The discussion: about 3 months ago we finally started having savings (woohoo) and I told her that we should start saving some money, she agreed BUT she started to spend more money on trivial things (more clothes, street food, etc). I asked her to stop spending in those things and she went berserker about how she works ALL week, more than me (it is true, my job is calm, hers not), and that is HER money, and I can't do anything about it.
I got upset and asked her why did she think it as her money, and not ours, and that if she wanted to have "her" money and me not complaining, she should have to pay for half of our living expenses (I was paying pretty much everything related to living at that point). She went bananas, telling me awful things (which she admitted, but did not apologise) and finally agreeing on... Do nothing. (I'm weak, I know)

But SOMETHING did change, and this month she started paying some things (not half but it does help), but her buying obsession is the same (every month she HAS to buy clothes, and eat outside at least 3 times a month).

THE PROBLEM: (TL;DR) I found a better job which I'll be starting next week,  and in that job my salary will be around 1325$, and now she is saying that I have to pay everything because I make a lot more (paying everything I still have more than her), and I casually mentioned again about splitting expenses and she got all defensive (I just want to have some savings ;_;)

AITA for wanting to EQUALLY split our expenses?

P.d: if I have any grammar errors please correct me, English is not my first language


wanting to split living expenses with my wife, just because I make more money