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Input: Back story: my aunt and I had a falling out a few years ago because her teenage daughter would come to me about boy issues (I was 26 at the time and what teenage wants to talk to their mom about sex?). She completely cut me off, my uncle was forced to stop talking to me, and her 4 kids were told to stop talking to me and no longer allowed to communicate with me in any way. She has since apologized but the relationship has not been the same, it's very fake, and her husband wont even acknowledge I exist.

Fast forward: my husband and I are a blended family. We have 3 kids total, I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and he has 1 from a previous relationship. We bought a house right after getting engaged and have done a lot to upgrade the house and he has spent a lot of money in lawyer fees to get more custody of his daughter. I was in nursing school, just recently graduated in May, and didnt have a job until this September. Such a good man to take on a woman in school with 2 children while having one of his own. But needless to say, the money wasn't coming in. 

When we had announced our engagement, my mother wasn't the ecstatic mother asking to go dress shopping and venue shopping. In fact, the entire year we were engaged there was zero interest or talk of the wedding... from anyone in the family. So my husband and I decided to plan something small that only incorporated us and our 3 kids, with our close family and our 2 best friends in attendance. We had no bridal party, no big venue, and no DJ and dancing. We were paying for the entire thing ourselves, without any help from our families. It was a Sunday afternoon in a nice restaurant near our house. Including the 5 of us, there were a total of 20 people at our wedding. It was beautiful and turned out to be the perfect day and the perfect way for us to complete our family unity. 

But back to the reason I am writing, I deliberately made the decision to make my wedding day about what my husband and I wanted. It was small, and as said before coming out of our pockets, and I chose not to invite my mom's one sister (I invited the other 3 siblings) that causes a lot of tension and hostility. Her husband can't even look my way when I come into a family party let alone say hi, and has never once acknowledged my husband. I made the conscious decision to forego my Grandmother's, mother's, and all of my aunt's feelings and make our day about me and my husband. Does this make me an asshole?

I wouldn't be writing this if it weren't for the upheaval that decision I made caused. My mother told me I was dividing the family. She begged me to invite my aunt saying she would pay for her meal. My other aunt's who already replied yes backed out. My Grandmother &amp; aunt told me my Grandfather was looking down from Heaven with tears in his eyes. (SIDE Story: My Grandfather and I were very close and out all of his daughters, Grandchildren, wife, and great-grandchikdren; I was the only person to stand up and speak at his funeral. They used him against me because they knew it would cut deeply.)  It has been months since our wedding and I am still treated like Satan himself due to that one decision. My husband and I have been fully enjoying our married life and have a great time with our kids. If given a chance to make this decision again, I wouldn't change a thing. My husband stands beside me and has throughout this entire thing. Neither of us truly care what my family thinks of our decision, we just want to know from an outsider's perspective if we truly are the assholes.


purposely not inviting my one aunt and her husband to my wedding