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Input: We've been together now for close to a year. I live with my mum, I did move in with him for a while last year but it was difficult and I was constantly in debt and unable to see my friends (it's pretty long-distance), so I moved back to my mums. I've found a job that will lead me to a career I would really love, and I'm excited to start next week. Meanwhile, my boyfriend takes more and more days off work, shrugs off any advice and won't attempt to help himself, leaving him broke and unable to afford to visit me. We were planning on him visiting soon - and the whole year we have been seeing each other he has never visited my house or town a single time - but he asked if I would pay for it as he can't afford it with this month's paycheck.

I told him I could afford half, which is TECHNICALLY true - but I have neglected to mention for the past few months that I do have £100 in my savings from my mum as a 21st birthday present to get my tattoo, and I just booked it for the end of next month. The past few months I lived with him, I was fronting pretty much every date, every meal, I even ended up paying £120 in one night because I bought tickets to a West End show we had agreed to go halves on, but then I was the one left to cover it as he had no money. I came back home a few hundred into my overdraft, while he had spent the past few months buying things like a new Xbox and a tattoo and a £50 video game every month despite that he couldn't afford those things, and I couldn't use my money on anything nice for myself as I had to foot all the bills, which has left me pretty salty. I could just take the money out of my paycheck next month, but I'm worried I'll fuck up and get fired and not earn enough to cover it, and he'll be pissed if he finds out I still have that money when I told him I didn't to avoid having to spend the last chunk of my birthday money on him. Meanwhile he's still paying a ton of subscription services for things he doesn't use and I've had to cancel every direct debit except for my cheap af phone bill and prescription card.

Tl;dr AITA for wanting to spend my money on myself for once instead of for my relationship?

lying to my bf about how much money I have