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Input: So my "best" friend (lets call her Em) and I are both in the same veterinary program (were both 21 F). The instructors sometimes assign us to do some extra duties for our facility like laundry, office duties, and cleaning. I've had a really rough week. I learned over the weekend that one of my family friends was in the hospital with 4th stage cancer that had spread to her brain. To make my situation worse, my sick friend was in the palliative care unit at the hospital where my mother works (who frequently visits her as well). I haven't spoken to my mother in 2 years since I ran away from her abuse and manipulation. So I was in a really stressful spot as I planned my visit to the hospital. I had two very embarrassing breakdowns at school this week, and "Em" saw them both. My instructors recommended I take some time off to gather myself, and I took that recommendation and took the week off. "Em" on the other hand lives at home with her father who loves her unconditionally. I really wish she would understand how great that is. I don't have that kind of luxury. Because of my living situation I obviously qualify for financial aid...but she complains when she doesn't receive financial aid even though its for people who really desperately need it. She seems to complain at petty things- the fact that she cant get A+ in all her courses (she only gets A's), how stressed she is that the program is unorganized, how she thinks the instructors/classmates hate her. In my eyes, its petty. But as a friend I never tell her that. I just sympathize. Even when its not genuine. I understand its not fair to compare our problems, so that's why I don't say anything. But its hard for me not feel annoyed. SO anyways. Both Em and I were assigned cleaning duties this week. I wasn't in school this week, and I figured that since my best friend Em knows what I'm going through, she would be happy to cover for me and do my part (which isn't much work, just some light cleaning and restocking of items). Right? Wrong. I know my friend is bad in helping me emotionally through my problems, cause she just doesn't understand the pain of most of my situations, but she was actually pissed at me for not helping her clean. like actually so pissed. She even said shes not going to help me in a video assignment we agreed to help eachother in.. She flat out said "TBH, I dont want to help you". She also said "We're all going through stuff." Correct. Everyone is going through stuff, but I figured as my best friend she wouldn't mind cleaning knowing I was having a really rough week at home. I don't feel like the asshole. But shes making me think I should be. Am I the asshole? Any advice on a situation like this? 

not helping my friend this week for assigned school duties