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Input: So for background, I'm a 21F and my friend (we'll call her Kat) is a 20F. We're both in college, and she has a job, I have an internship. 

I loaned Kat money in the amount of close to $1,400 so that she could buy her "necessities" for college: a new laptop and a new phone. Now, I only loaned it because she promised she would pay me back monthly and I knew she had a long-time job, so she was capable of paying it back. So in the store (Best Buy) when she decided she wanted a new laptop and phone, we made an oral agreement that Kat would pay me back $170 on the first of every month (it was easy to remember) because it divided pretty nicely into an 8-month installment plan. This was also because Kat said she needed to learn responsibility anyway, so this was good practice for her. 

So the first month, we decide that since the month ended in 2 weeks, she could begin the payment plan the first full month. On the first of that month, she tells me that she can't pay me and that she needs a few days. I agree because we said that as long as she communicated with me, it's fine. So I let it slide, because that's what we agreed to. 

The second month, she tells me she can't pay me on the first. So again, I say okay, I understand. On the 5th of Month 2, she pays me only $130. So, as a concerned friend, I text her and tell her that you know, bills need to be paid in full. I only wanted to educate her, but I get a response along the lines of "Well, I only have $20 left this week", and "I didn't sign a contract binding me to the first". At this point, I was kind of fed up because she had a whole month to figure out how to pay me back, I've seen from her snapchat stories that she's been buying a lot of makeup, and even if we didn't have a written contract (I have taken business law, I know how they work), I expected her to be respectful of our arrangement and friendship. 

Instead, I've been dragged through the past few months with her not wanting to pay me, making excuses (her bank was hacked into, some company took $100 from her, she doesn't want to pay), or just plain threatening me with harassment even though I only ever texted her that she's forgotten to pay me that month. 

At Month 7, she says "And our payments are done :)" quote. Yeah, she decides later on after doing terrible math that she only owes me around $113. At this point, I'm fed up, I tell her to keep the money for her next abortion since she clearly has no intention of wanting to pay me back in full and I just move on. 

Except now, her family members keep harassing me when I go into restaurants to eat with my family. If I go on an interview with a potential employer (for internships) and any of her family members are there, they actually do harass me and the potential employer, and I'm left trying to explain the situation and remedy it. The really angering fact is that they are spewing lies about the whole past situation, and are affecting me when I only ever had good intentions when I loaned the money. 

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AITA for loaning money and then throwing a hissy fit? Or am I justified? I can't tell who's wrong or who's right, but I'm getting harassed when I go out, and it's no longer just an inside situation.

making things more complicated when loaning money