Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So there is this coworker of mine that I asked out a while ago and she turned me down.  I was fine really and I understand why she turned me down at the time.  Eventually a sort of banter developed  between us and it was kind of fun to be honest.  Then she asked out one of my friends right in front of me which I just kind of smiled and said it seemed like I broke some ice for them.  I hear from my friend that he couldn't believe that I was so chill about it. He also started acting intimidated when I was around.  I began suspecting that it was fake and just to mess with me but I thought I was crazy and probably just a little jealous so I wanted to believe that.  Then I hear from my friend that it was to mess with me but now they  are legit going out.  I was a little upset and confused that she wanted to mess with me that much but I didn't say anything.  Eventually I hear that she is working night shift and can't find time to go out.  Then I find out that this is a lie to avoid him.  She stops talking to her best friend at the the same time over this issue.  It does blow over and they break up eventually.  Recently the entire incident comes up and she is shocked that I learned everything.  I tell her that I don't care about what she tried to do to me, but I do care that she lied and hurt my friend.  I told her I thought she was more mature than that and I expected better.  I also said that I don't like her less or anything, I just don't like what she did.  I specifically had this talk in private as well.  I didn't say anything to anyone else but I find out she tried to turn other people against me.  AITA?

telling someone that using someone else to hurt me is wrong