Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: Throw away because my husband knows my account name.

For a little background, about 2 months ago, my husband was put on a series of medication (depression, insomnia) that interacted very poorly with each other. It made him insanely tired, have double vision, and making it very hard for him to concentrate. During that time of trying to figure out medication, he missed about 1.5 weeks worth of work. He is currently on ADA through May, so he’s not in danger of losing his job. The medication issue was corrected, and while he’s doing much better, he still has days where he can’t focus his vision or concentrate if he has had enough sleep.

Info on me, we decided that between the cost of childcare and gas to get to work, I was basically working for free. So now I’m a SAHM. This is until our youngest (who is a little over 1) starts school and childcare costs won’t be as bad. And for additional context, we do live with his parents for the time being.

I’ve been trying my best to be a supportive wife, and it really hurts to see him in such misery and not be able to do anything to help. But I’m also not blind to how much of a rift this causes between him and his parents, as he still misses 1-2 days a week and they’re not shy about being vocal on it. I’m also not blind that this has massively impacted his paychecks and makes it really touch and go to pay for bills and necessities.

Which brings me to today. He fell asleep very late last night and had to be up for work early today. He tells me that he’s not going in and that it’s his own fault he can’t focus his eyes. Guys, something in me snapped and I told him that while I wasn’t mad at him, his parents are going to have some shit to say about it. Note this was said in a calm tone, not angry or accusatory. That was a very low blow on my part, and normally I’m not that reactive. Needless to say he went on to work incredibly angry at me. I can’t blame him and my choice of words was horrendous, but I can’t help but feel I’m not completely in the wrong about this. 

I need your verdict here Reddit, AITA?

not being a supportive wife