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Input: Basically my wife is trying to go back to her home country for three months alone. She’s told me she needs it and wants to extend her trip to attend a wedding and a family member’s birthday. 

I completely understand her needing to visit home since she left her country to be with me and is isolated. She visits for several weeks at a time every year. 

My side is I have a very unpredictable job in the military and two pets and we live overseas in a foreign country. They will have to be alone for 13 hours a day while I am at work and I can be called to stay overnight without notice for potentially weeks at a time. I also have to stay overnight occasionally for duty. 

I’ve tried to counter with her going and attending the wedding and returning a month and a half later to attend the birthday. She doesn’t want to budge. 

AITA for thinking her wanting to go on such a long trip is unreasonable at this time?

being upset that my wife wants to go on a 3 month vacation alone