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Input: Basically I just returned from a holiday with my parents when my sister announced that she is pregnant. I wish I could have been in a more congratulatory mood for her but I can't help feeling that she and her husband have yet to be financially stable for them to afford a newborn so soon after their marriage. My sister is, understandably, incredibly upset with my reaction and thinks I'm trying to be controlling. 

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My mother has given my sister and her husband tens of thousands of dollars, despite being newly retired. This is from the time during their wedding, to the items in their current flat. For example, the air-conditioners in their flat all broke down due to it being an older flat and the AC units were a bit old. Now, in all the time that my sister and I lived together, she was not the sort who would ever go through a night without turning on the AC due to the humid climate we live in. But she suffered through it until my mother offered to foot the bill to renew all the ACs in their flat. This came up to some thousands. I offered this as an example to her when explaining that if she has trouble replacing the ACs, how could she afford to have a child? She insisted that she could have afforded to pay for the ACs herself, but since our mother offered, she took it up.

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My mother is the sort of person whose money comes with emotional strings, i.e. when she and my sister have a fight, she would bring up all the times she has bailed my sister out financially. It's not a good thing, but that is who she is. So, we all know that my mother has been consistently giving her money e.g., buying for her stuff for their flat (e.g. a new bed, bathroom fixtures, etc), and also recently giving her a few thousands to settle her credit card debts. To me, these are all red flags that my sister is not in a financially stable place. She earns more than her husband, in fact, her husband can sort of be considered  low-income worker. However, my sister spends a considerable amount of her salary on her daily commute to work. She's been trying to get a transfer to a nearer location where she wouldn't have to spend 2 hours on public transport each direction from her home to her workplace, but it's not been working out so well. She takes a daily hitch ride both ways to save on time, but it all adds up to a major chunk of her salary. 

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With all this in mind, I was not optimistic about her financial position. My mother is just recently retired, and she is still receiving some back-pay owed to her from the time she was working, but not for much longer. My dad is set to retire this year. I am not keen on both of them consistently giving her handouts due to their own financial positions, even though I am sure they will. With both of them retired, I will be the one who will be helping support them financially. I am not married but I am also saving up to buy my own home in a few years. 

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As such, I told my sister that it might be wiser for her and her husband to wait a little while longer to get their footing and save a little bit more before having a kid. She found my response very cruel and is very upset with me. Am I the asshole? 

telling my sister I am worried about her being pregnant because I'm not sure she is financially stable enough