Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: My girlfriend and I have been talking about getting married. I was very excited for this and was going to set aside my tax return to buy her a nice engagement ring. However, the other night while we were out with some friends, I noticed she was texting someone from work the whole time. That's not super surprising, they're good friends and he's a solid guy, but I was put off by it.

We talked about it when we got home. I said it made me feel like she would rather talk to her co-worker than hang with our friends and me. She admitted she fucked up and needs to set up better boundaries. Promised me it would change and all that. I trust her, and I think she will stay true to her word, but I also don't think she's ready to get married if she has a problem with boundaries. So I was thinking I would buy myself something nice instead and save up for the ring throughout the year. Would that be wrong?

spending my tax return on myself instead of a ring to propose to my girlfriend