Definition: In this task, you are given a Reddit post as a text. Your task is to generate a title for this text. The title should start with "TIFU by", followed by a situation that caused humor. The title should contain 7-12 words, ideally.
Input: Text: this is my first proper post so i am sorry for everything i do wrong.

i think some people could take something from this or atleast not make the mistake i did. this was like most posts here, a few years ago, however i was around 17 at the time and i started talking to this girl as a friend, with no intentions whatsoever. she was going through troubles, bad thoughts and self harmed. now i like to think i'm a nice so i was there for her, as we got closer and closer she told me that she liked me. now i didn't feel the same, iso i told her this straight but in the nicest terms i could. she took this appallingly, however it got out of hand when she started acting worse than usual with bad thoughts and stuff. now here comes the first of many fu's, obviously i didn't want anything bad to happen and was scared for her life. so i told a lie that it was because we haven't been talking for very long, thinking i could start slowly talking to her less. wrong. 

so i managed to make it a few more weeks before she said anything else about this, i kept finding ways out of meeting her when she asked until the day that she broke down big time so i had no choice because once again i was scared for her life, she was a lovely girl however that wasn’t enough to change how i felt either. after we got home (separately not together)  she asked me once again if i liked her and i thought this can’t go on so i said no. she threatened to kill herself to the point where i had to run round the streets trying to find her in the middle of the night. fu number 2 was when she asked once again, and me just wanting that night to be over said that i was confused and didn't know how to feel, which she took as ‘im starting to like you’.

i thought i could go along with it, act like a bit of a dick and she will go off me and once again i was wrong! now she got very full on, very fast from this point to the extent where she was telling people we were in a relationship and so on. so i tried to break up with her and get out of this forced upon relationship, she once again threatened to kill herself so i told her she could have another chance (fu 3 or 4, idek anymore). she then went on to cheat on me, so i thought perfect, but once again she threatened to kill herself and me being honestly utterly terrified once again brushed it off. it had been months of this by now and tbh it was emotionally draining. 

following this i tried to leave her several times with the same results each time. i know most of you are probably thinking leave, she wouldn't actually go through with it, but its honestly terrifying to be in that situation.

however you guys would be right because i ended up coming across some messages saying how she no longer gets these thoughts and so on to her friend when all this she's been blackmailing me and lying to me. from this point i started to care less and less. until i found the balls to leave her after possibly, wait definitely the worst year of my life. she didn't go through with it. however it turns out i wasn't the only guy she did this too. yesterday whilst finishing my coffee after a meet with a friend a guy came over to me and asked if i was grpkta. he then began to ask me questions about her, and tell his story which was strangely similar to mine, just 2 years further down the line.

surely she can't be the only crazy lady out there who's willing to go to any length for attention. and meeting this guy inspired me to warn you all not to make the same mistake me/we did.

TIFU By caring and wasted over a year of my life [serious]