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Input: So I (22F) am in a relationship with (21M). We've been together for around 2 years now.

We lived together for over a year, but i moved away for my studies in september (2hours drive). So new school, new friends. 
Now my bf has always been the jealous kind, while i am not at all, i just trust him and if he cheats on me. well i'll leave him, not going to ruin my mood thinking of things what "might" happen. 

Anyway, 2 months ago my bf  found some fb messages some friends from my new school sent me, particularly three. First two from a good friend, let's call him M, one being "you can come to the party but you have to sleep in my bed" and the second one "you're gonna blow the candle lmao" 
Third message was from another friend from my new school , and was a drawing of a boy smelling a girl a-hole (charming i know) 
So he got really hungry, told me I am a whore for letting people talk to me like that, that they just wanted to get me, and that i was hungry for c*cks. (Charming again, i know)
I tried to explain to bf that those were just jokes, M said to sleep in his bed precisely because at parties i always sleep on the couch and not in his bed because i have a bf.  The drawing was because second friend drunkenly told he liked to smell ass. Why not.

So i have no feelings but friendship for these guys, nothing sketchy ever happened with them! And IF they wanted me they wouldn't say such things would they? You don't get the girl by telling her to "blow the candle"

I said sorry anyway, because those messages are chocking and i understand that he would feel mad. So I let go of how bf insulted me and sincerely apologize. He told me that i couldn't continue seeing them or talking to them, and letting them talk to me like that.


Fastforward 1 months, i go to a party with M, thinking that i will talk to him, tell him to stop making sex jokes and such. I go to the party, it goes well, and at around 11pm i get my bf on the phone and tell him where i am. Big mistake. "You're a whore" " you choose them over me" "i told you not to party with them"

I apologize again, things are tense but we don't want to break things of. 

So that was a month ago. My bf is at my place for an entire week rn, and in two days he talked about "my friends" and how i should just "go back to them" at least 5 times already. He is not over it at all even thought i stopped going to parties and talking to them as much as i could.

AITA for letting my friends joke like that to me? AITA for feeling really wrong having my bf tell me who to talk to? 

I hope this has enough info and not to much mistake english is not my first language. Thank u



making sex jokes with my friends while on a relashionship