Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: So at the gym, I walk by the bench press and a pretty big dude asks if I can be his spot. I pause for a second and ask how much he’s lifting. He says 270ish! As someone who barely lifts 1 plate, I politely said I don’t think I could as I would be able to lift the weight if he needed help. 

Well, he kinda looks confused and everyone around me kinda gives me the stink eye....anyway, someone bigger volunteered and every thing went on as normal. So was I the asshole in that situation? 

not wanting to spot someone on the bench press because I wouldn't be able to lift his weight