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Input: I am 20 years old and my SO is the same age as me. We’ve been together for about two and a half years now.

I am disabled because of my severe mental illnesses, and I live with my parents. My major depression is treatment-resistant, meaning that nothing I’ve tried has ever made any improvement to my depression. The only two things that have stopped me from feeling constantly suicidal and self-harming were dropping out of college and quitting my job because both added massive amounts of stress to my life. I’m living with my parents until I either find something that helps or will move on to disability benefits if I exhaust my options for treatment without improving. My parents told me that they are willing to continue supporting me as I continue trying different forms of treatment.

One of the many rules I had to follow growing up was that I could only start dating when I turned 18. I respected their rule and never dated anyone. My current SO and I met in high school. We were friends for a while and then, right before my 18th birthday, I brought him over to my house and we asked my mom if she would be okay with us being romantically involved. She said yes, but I later found that there were exceptions.

My mom forbid me from having any kind of sexual relationship with him, and I have to keep my door open whenever he comes over. I thought this was a fair rule at first considering our age differences, but when my SO tuned 18 as well, it was clear that my parents were keeping their rules.

I have no idea why they don’t want me having sexual relations with my SO. We are both consenting adults. I am on birth control (to stop my debilitating periods) and never want children. My SO had been tested for STD’s. I would be more than willing to get tested for STD’s. My SO and I are both responsible. My parents don’t dislike him. My parents don’t care about abstaining from sex before marriage. This is not a normal rule in my family; I have two cousins who are both my age and are allowed to have sexual relations with their partners. The only thing they have ever mentioned as to why they don’t want me having a sexual relationship is because it’s “their house, their rules.”

Here’s where MY asshole part finally comes in: my SO and I have disrespected these rules many times. My SO and I have had sex both at his house (when his parents weren’t home, which is also a rule-breaker) and my house, and he’s even stayed the night once when my parents were out house hunting out of town.

In my defense for what I’ve done, I’ve never disobeyed my parents’ rules before. I feel like if my parents aren’t willing to give me any leniency, then I have no reason to continue to respect their rules. I think that if they don’t want me to have a sexual relationship then they should simply ban me from all romantic relationships whatsoever (which is still pretty ridiculous to ban an adult from IMO).

disrespecting my parents' rules regarding my relationship