Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: A friend constantly messages me for help regarding Uni work. I try to give him some guidance and all but it's getting really obvious that he just want direct answers for his questions.  What's even worse is he barely comes in to Uni so it's obvious why he's struggling so much. So for once, I responded that he should have attended lectures to satisfy his questions as they explained it really well there. His reply almost implies that I'm an asshole for not helping a friend in need.

Now, I know people might wonder why this is even a question but this post is really more to do with questioning my priorities, and less on the issue I stated above. I forgot the context but I was once asked by another friend if I value doing well in a test over helping a friend out (not in a life or death situation obviously) and they seem to be shocked when I said yes. Is it bad that I value my future over friendship because honestly, I'm getting really frustrated of looking like the villain all the time since I'm surrounded with friends who values their friendship over doing well in their course.

not helping a friend who refuses to help himself