Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: We’re a group of six girls who’ve known each other about 2 years. I also have a group of guy friends who I’m closer with who I’ve known for about 5 years. Recently two of the girls in my girl group started going out with two of the guy group. Predictably, we started hanging out as couples, and I kept doing girls only activities for the other girls.

One of the girls, Gabi, has been getting angry and upset because we haven’t been including her in any of the boyfriend/girlfriend activities (or including ourselves in boyfriend/girlfriend situations with her and her bf), but... her boyfriend is an enormous asshole and a bully. He’s told me to kill myself, that I’m a trash human being, that I’m an ungrateful pig, etc. All because I tried defending a friend he was bullying ONCE. Ever since then, he’s been verbally abusive to me in a couple other situations.

So I don’t really want to make an effort to include him, and even if he’d make an effort to apologize or try to get along (which he hasn’t and likely won’t) I still wouldn’t include him. She excuses his behavior and blames ME for not being mature enough, saying that I’m stuck up and want everyone to do what I say. 

Am I an asshole for not wanting to get NEAR a guy who acts this way? He is the same way with her and she’s constantly coming to us crying and frustrated because he is emotionally abusive to her, and I simply cannot relax and have fun with someone who is like that.

not wanting to hang out with my friend's bf