Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: I went on one date with a girl and I had good daily chats with her for a full month. 2-3 weeks later she asked to go on a date for the next day and I told her I'd like to know at least two days in advance before going on a date. She didn't like that but said whatever and that she had no opportunity for the next 5 or so days. Two days later she asks me again if I want to go on a date, for the next day, and I tell her I still want to know ahead of time, not the day before. She never replied to that, abruptly ending a consistent and enjoyable month long chat.


A second date still gives me a bit of anxiety, so I'd like to know ahead of time. Not to mention I'm driving 40min both ways and paying for the date, so it's costing me like $50, the least I could get is a two day notice. Note my schedule is open(self employed, but I do work a fair bit every day) so she knows I could go on a date any day of the week. 


I know rejecting a girl's second date request twice is never smooth, and I *am* basically available 24/7

Am I the asshole? 

wanting to schedule a date at least two days in advance