Definition: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Input: my aunt cut contact with my mom (her sister) after their brother died in an accident in 2008. it deeply affected everyone, including my mom, but her sister immediately started creating complications due to not being happy with his will. more or less, she didn't feel like she was getting much from it- and blamed my mom and my grandmother for not being willing to give her some of their shares. so the day of my uncle's funeral, after the services ended, my aunt had reached her breaking point.

she didn't wanted to speak to or see my mom or my grandmother- her only two living relatives- again.

since then i didn't hear a word from my aunt, and the holidays at her home stopped abruptly, though i was 8 years old and too young to understand why. it really hurt whenever i'd ask if this year was the year we'd go back to my aunt's house for Christmas or Thanksgiving and i'd get the same 'no' from my mom every time. within one year the two adults i looked up to the most besides my parents were gone, and it affected me as i got older. i think my mom was just as angry as my aunt was, and may have been partly responsible for the lack of response from her. overall, it was a shitty situation since we were stuck in the middle no matter what.

today my mom basically came into my room and said we were going to my grandma's house for her birthday, and her sister + kids would be there.

i know i don't have all the specific details of what was said at the end of that funeral, but with how my mom is, i don't think i ever will. my aunt's actions so far have spoken louder than words to me, yet i'm the only one who's showing any kind of resistance to seeing her.

AITA?

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**TL;DR: Aunt cuts contact with my mom and grandmother after brother dies, haven't heard a word from her since. Mom might have left out details but with how my aunt has acted I don't think that matters to me. AITA for having second thoughts over seeing her again?**  


not wanting to see my only aunt after 11 years