 [ Symptoms ] an unusual grown has appeared near my anus it hurts when i sit i felt it and it is soft kind shaped like a clitoris it mysterously appeared one morning and has been here for 3 days now i dont tnow what to do about it please help [ Disease ] hemorrhoids as you know are anal the only type of intercourse that could worsen hemorrhoids would be anal sex vaginal sex would not cause or aggravate hemorrhoids if you are having painful vaginal intercourse then there is another cause one of the most common causes of hemorrhoids is constipation straining to have a bowel movement