 [ Symptoms ] can i use ky jelly and emla cream together for vaginal sex is it safe to use both at same time i find it very hard no matter how wet i am naturally my husband tried ky jelly but it was not helpful we are married for many year but did not have sex because of pain i have no bad experience and psychological problem just cannot bear the pain [ Disease ] see your gynecologist there could be a discoverable reason why you are having painful sex so you will not have to use emla an anesthetic cream