 [ Symptoms ] what is the problem with protecting a loved one with alzheimer is [ Disease ] alzheimer is disease often compromises one is independence even at its early stages initial symptoms such as short term memory loss or disorientation often concern family members and friends enough to precipitate their involvement this begins the transition of independence into interdependence and is the most difficult phase as caregivers are challenged to balance their loved ones autonomy with their need for protection  at this time there may be a tendency to over protect with families assuming responsibilities that the individual may be able to still manage independently this can result in a learned helplessness and lower one is sense of self esteem and control it is recommended that a differential assessment always be made that is evaluate what your loved one can maintain control over and then assist with what heshe cannot manage effectively this phase of interdependence will gradually change as the disease progresses but the individual is strengths will be nurtured and hisher dignity retained