 [ Symptoms ] my boyfriend had cum on his hand for about 10 minutes so it was dried he fingered me after can i get pregnant from that [ Disease ] i suggest you see your primary health care provider as soon as possible i can understand why you would associate those symptoms with female hormones but you can experience hot flushes from other conditions too such as hyperthyroidism one of the symptoms of hyperthyroidism is hair loss your health care provider can determine what is causing these symptoms and get you on an appropriate treatment good luck