 [ Symptoms ] my sister has 102 fever along with headache bodyache and vomitting feeling what immediate first aid can be given [ Disease ] hi well so sorry for your loss but glad you want to get back in the game of being a mum so you do feel ready and you feel healthy in body and mind those last two are the most important now as for time scale two thought on this one says about 20 to 26 weeks and the other says not till you have had 3 cycles it is to get your body back into its the rhythms of life not forgetting you need to get your body strength back up get yourself on some prenatal vitamins get things going then once your 3rd or 4th cycle has gone go for it try being a mum i do hope this helps your and hubby good luck