 [ Symptoms ] what do i do when my anxiety causes me mental and physical pain  ive had anxiety since i was a kid i dont take medications for it i cant afford them ive been trying to live with it and until recently ive done nothing about it im tired of feeling like this its causing me emotional and physical pain my relationships with friends and family members have been suffering it often causes me to wig out when this occurs i have trouble breathing and chest pain my whole mood just sours i need help and i dont know whats wrong what can i do [ Disease ] i do not know i do not know your case but you do have to allow your body time to heal after an extensive surgery i would strongly suggest that you follow your doctor is instruction and avoid vaginal intercourse for the six week recommendation and not test to see what could happen there are other ways to be sexually intimate so i bet your parter can make some suggestions