 [ Symptoms ] i have mysterious contracted muscle on left side of back somewhere on rhomboid muscle [ Disease ] your brain actually can train you to have specific emotional feelings surrounding a room in the house and the bedroom you have to remember is a very private place but it is also a safety issue so for example in cases where women have been raped or beaten they get almost phobic usually occurring in the bedroom almost phobic to the bedroom alright i have worked with women in rape crisis centers before and they are afraid to go to sleep okay because of the things that happened to them during their sleep so again can it happen absolutely it can can you get a bit milder case where we do not have such extreme horrible circumstances can people argue in bed and get used to arguing in bed you know what i tell people do not have big emotional discussions in your bed if you can help it do not talk about your kids in bed do not talk about your bills in bed reserve the bed for sleep sex if you can and you know maybe evening watching a little tv reading things of that nature