 [ Symptoms ] painful intercourse the pain i am experiencing w intercourse is not a matter of lubricant i do not feel pain with oral or hand use it is only when the actual act is being done it is as if there is a wall preventing entry 14 of the way in it is painful feels like a muscle block my partner feels it is emotional or in my head i e a feeling of concern of if this relationship is real or will last and he feels when i feel more trusting i will be able to open up  [ Disease ] see your gynecologist to make sure there is not an underlying structrual or anatomical issue like a retroverted tilted uterus etc unless your sexual partner is a trained psychotherapist he should not be diagnosing you with an emotional problem or implicate a trust issue most of these issues can be solved but more information is needed