 [ Symptoms ] im 21 and cannot orgasm or stay wet during sex and its only been this past year whats going on  hi i am 21 years old married with a 2 year old kid i also have a vaginal std herpes and i have also had a bacterial infection twice on that went through my blood after i had my son and another one this past june and i didnt get it treated for 3 months i have pain during sex and i cant stay wet or orgasm and i used to be a squirter but now nothing this past year has been very depressing for me and i dont know what do to [ Disease ] hi ok your vaginal dryness could be the reason for the pain during sex try vitamin b6 for your wetness or you could even take brewers yeast this way you get a complex of b is vitamin a and beta carotene through your doctor in a suppositorie its said to increase dryness when inserted into the vagina do hope this helps good luck