 [ Symptoms ] my 4 year old grandson is wetting his bed my daughter wants to buy him pull ups but i think they are embarrassing help [ Disease ] new accidents in a child who had been previously dry consistently at night can be from a medical problem like an infection that needs to be looked for still most of the time in a four year old there is nomedical problem they are just accidents that is nothing to be mad about i do not really understand why someone thinks putting a 4 year old in pull ups is embarrassing   unless the adult says something likehere is diapers for the baby  that would be a very cruel thing to say many 4 year olds wear pull ups at night and they are not embarrassed about it unless adults are making them embarrassed