 [ Symptoms ] what is the safes way to clean your kids ears out with out them getting scared or freaking out [ Disease ] hi stress will do it every time so if your stressed now how you going to be when she does move in might be a very good idea if you sit down and talk with her telling her just how stressing your finding the whole thing and try postponing it for now if the whole thing is going to make you unwell then its not good for you just hope your mother can see that hope this helps you good luck