 [ Symptoms ] is there a test or blood test to detect hpv in men [ Disease ] ultimately she is responsible for her own mental health and life bipolar does not go away ever and she will have to learn to monitor and control herself so that her moods do not run her life there are 12 step programs for adult children of alcoholics and other dysfunction such as perfectionism hyper religiosity and any kind of abuse she needs to know that her own out of control tendencies anger indiscriminate sex any addiction including shopping among others are not acceptable behaviors learn to communicate without fighting and start working on herself you can be supportive but you can not do the work for her she is not good mother material so i would avoid even thinking about it until she has proven she can get herself under control a bipolar person is unstable and instability is not what a child needs to thrive in all ways including emotionally