 [ Symptoms ] i have pcos and my acne is getting worse i am trying to get pregnant so birth control is not an option what can i do [ Disease ] i am so sorry to hear about your childhood molestation so i can understand that oral sex with your husband could surface some of those past demons having a consentual caring sexual relationship with your husband is not the same i trust that your husband will be respectful and understanding about your reluctance i can assure you that semen is harmless in your mouth but your husband does not have to ejaculate he can control it you will not get any disease causing germs from this practice in a monogamous relationship with your husband consentual oral sex is safe and can be pleasurable for both of you this would be a new sexual experience for you so if you are emotionally ready take little steps at first