 [ Symptoms ] can you get an std like hivaids or genital herpes from anal sex toys  both me and my partner were virgins and now we have genital herpes my partner used a sex toy that they received from a friend that may have used it [ Disease ] sex toys can spread stds so it would be wise to use new ones or ones that are carefully and thoroughly sanitized herpes can remain viable on objects for many hours the fact that you and your partner both have genital herpes would make me question if you are both virgins someone may not be telling the whole truth hi this is from webmd but dose seem you have both been let down but if you had both been thinking hygiene you would not be here now from webmd you can have a fulfilling sex life if you have genital herpes even though it may always use a latex condom for vaginal sex anal sex and receiving fellatio  make sure you wash the toy before and after and do not share it sorry for you both you have been ley down good luck