 [ Symptoms ] my boyfriend will not have sex i am stuck should i forget him and move on or can you tell me what i can do  my boyfriend will not have sex with me however i have caught he and another friend  male watching porn and jacking off he tells me he is not gay and he wants to have sex with me but he is not ready yet i have asked him how can he watch porn with another guy and jack off but not have sex with me we have talked about this but after 2 years still nothing has happened i am in my late 50 is and i like sex very much [ Disease ] hi in my opinion avoid risking a surgery ask your doctor if an enema can be used to relief the constipation sorry good luck