 [ Symptoms ] what is a cramp in my abdomin more in the middle than to one side when i urinate it lasts only a few minutes after i go utis frequently in last 1yr 12 at times much as once a month i used to get them a lot as kid doctors said i was not relieving myself all the way i actually did therapy to get myself to do this properlythey ultrasound my bladder and i recall they let me be when i could get the most out not all i wonder if its not me and that its something wrong because i know i get it out intercourse with my bf of 2years is painful since this+ i start to feel swollen we are std free tested please help [ Disease ] you could have a pelvic infection its not really a std but can be transferred through sex try looking up pelvic inflammatory disease and go see a doctor they can become very serious i dealt with one a couple months ago and waited to long to go in to see a doctor