 [ Symptoms ] i am post menopausal and my partner has had a vasectomy can we use coconut oil safely as a personal lubricant  we obviously do not need condoms so that is not an issue no condoms needed [ Disease ] hi coconut oil is a good choice but try the extra virgin or almond oil this is recommended by dr betty dodson if these do not affect you there is good old baby oil and olive oil if your in the kitchen for kitchen sex just enjoy your sex life good luck