 [ Symptoms ] is it okay to have sex on the pill and him finish without protection  i am on lo loestrin fe i have been on this pill for about 4 5 months now i got on it to help with my menstrual cycle a few months ago i started having sex with my boyfriend of almost 2 years we have used a condom for extra protection but a few times have not used anything and he finished i take my birth control at the same time every night the latest i may take it is maybe an hour or an hour and a half off but not often at all are we not being smart about this [ Disease ] normal 0 false false false en ca x none x none microsoftinternetexplorer4 its from my understanding and i am not a doctor or anything close that there is a lot of bacteria in your mouth some people due to cultural social or bacterial reasons will have different types of bacteria in their mouth as you ones that you have never encountered before so when you kiss you probably french kiss and when you do you exchange those germs in turn effect your throat and give you a bacterial infection cavities plaque on your teeth are all caused by bacteria eating and growing on the food particles left in your mouth after you eat possible solution you can try using mouthwash afterwards and try to kill the bacteria that enter your own mouth or if your close enough to your partner both use mouth wash before making out if you live with them you can try to convince them the increase their oral hygiene in theory you will eventually build up an immunity to his standard regime of germs in his mouth you are probably as sensitive as i am this used to happen to me all the time with a previous partner but since i have become older i do not have the problem but my current partner is better at oral hygiene also you can talk to your doctor about things that you can do to prevent this obviously no longer kissing is going to be a solution but i doubt that will happen if it becomes a serious issue and it doesnt go away within 3 days go to a doctor and tell them the possible origin as some one else pointed out there are also sti is that can cause oral infections ones that are transferred from genitals tofrom your mouththroat if you are getting seriously sick you need to consider that possibility that they need to be checked out he may be a carrier or host but that needs to be discussed with a doctor as well