 [ Symptoms ] i have a first time sex experience 23 aged boy using a condom but i just ejaculated even bofore inserting into her why  i real felt bad her vagina seem to be small because i tried inserting into her but couldnt untill i ejaculated and that was the end of the story i waited for sometime for my penis to get strong again but the same thing happened can a condom be the problem what should i do to make me enjoy sex and let her enjoy as well [ Disease ] most helpful answer i am sorry to hear you are going through this it sounds like a difficult situation i would recommend you go back to your gynecologist to discuss this situation i can not think of any reason why you would have gas constipation and diarrhea while on your period now when you did not before also the hot flashes sound like a hormone issue your gynecologist will want to know about these symptoms in case your pills need to be changed because you have been on the pills only two months it may be too early to tell if these symptoms will resolve on their own or not but that is not really the issue the issue is that you are experiencing new symptoms and you are concerned about them that alone warrants a visit with your doctor i wish you all the best at getting this resolved