 [ Symptoms ] get bored having sex sex has is not very fun to me it feels more like work than play my boyfriend has been trying different things to help me but i just do not have fun the first 5 10 minutes are fine but after that i will hurry to fake an orgasm so he will ejaculate he gets upset because he is always the one seducing me but the reason i do not seduce him is because i just do not like it i do not know how to enhance my sex drive its really annoying [ Disease ] disinterest in sex is not uncommon but can be very complex there can be many many different reasons    impossible to sort out in the forum if having a pleasurable sex life is important to you and i know that it is your first step would be to see your gynecologist to see if there is some organic reason for your lack of libido the next step assuming a medical reason is not found would be to see a counselor    a therapist that can help you uncover any psychological reasons for this issue this problem can be fixed i am sure but you have to take the first step