 [ Symptoms ] what exercises can i do with fibromyalgia during pregnancy [ Disease ] this is unusual behavior to be sure i would not assume your daughter is doing this on purpose  she may be suffering from bowel incontinence and is embarrassed to discuss it it concerns me also that you believe this behavior started after she attended basketball camp bowel incontinence especially in a 12 year old could be a sign of emotional trauma i suggest you take your daughter to her primary care provider for an examination children her age often will talk to a nurse or doctor about issues they will not discuss with their parents be sure to tell the health care provider about the issue in private and then give your child some time alone with the provider so she feels she can safely discuss anything that might be on her mind whatever you do do not punish or shame your child over this your daughter is not doing this on purpose to make you angry irritate you or anything else there definitely is an underlying issue here that needs to be addressed please approach this problem in a sensitive and tactful manner also if you put your daughter on miralax for constipation and never took her off it she may now have a diarrhea problem the best solution for constipation is to eat a fiber rich diet and drink plenty of water medications or other treatments for constipation should be used only for acute episodes and for a very short period of time wishing you and your daughter well