 [ Symptoms ] why do i get pain in the elbow area after lifting weights  i am 41 year old female i take care of my two year old grandson two days a week while he is here i pick him up constantly and play with him but for two or three days after that i hurt in the elbow area it hurts where the muscle meets the joint is this normal for my age and what can i do to stop it [ Disease ] men traditionally have slept on the side closest to the door to protect a loved one from harm should a thug enter the bedroom it really does not matter what side of the bed that you sleep you can even sleep in the middle or diagonally if you sleep alone i sleep on the side of the bed closest to the bathroom an age related problem and the side that has the best reading light so if your question was a serious one you should sleep on the side you want assuming any bed mate does not have any objections