 [ Symptoms ] why do i still have blood and pus in urine after two rounds of antibiotics  i have no other symptoms  no frequentpainful urination no fever no pain meds taken aug 30 7 days twice a day nitrofurnatoin mono mcr 100 mg sep 25 10 days twice a day ciprofloxacin hcl 500 mg tab follow up urine test oct 23 still have blood and pus in urine [ Disease ] p { margin bottom 0 08in }alink { } p { margin bottom 0 08in }alink { } semen is not be a problem if he is disease free however that being said swallowing semen is probably not as widespread as some would like you to think i know that my wife does not like it and i do not force her to do it   that is nothing for her to be ashamed of during oral sex she swallows all the pre ejaculate clear fluid with no problem occasionally when i kegel a heavy burst of pre ejaculate will flow out and sometimes she will have to back off a little to swallow it but the few times she has attempted to swallow semen has resulted in gagging – there is just too much thick fluid being introduced into the back of the throat to handle at one time when the penis is inserted 2 3 inches or more   unless you are really prepared for it i know when i am about to come and   unless your husband has premature ejaculation issues he does too in 40 years of receiving oral sex i have only slipped up and started to ejaculate in her mouth probably less than 5 times i tell her when i am ready to go she pulls off and finishes me up with her hand practice makes perfect if you have a problem with the pre ejaculate simply use a snug fitting steel cock ring at the base of the penis to block the flow until such time as you think you are ready for it i start with a cock ring occasionally for the extra engorgement sensation but i do not use it for the entire process because i am rather slow to come 40+ minutes and the lack of blood flow through the penis for that period of time would be an issue for me if your husband comes fast he could probably wear it all the way through to orgasm and it will prevent semen from exiting the penis ejaculation while wearing the ring could possibly cause some pain for him though   i ejaculated while wearing one a couple times and it caused some pain in my testicles he could try it in order to know for sure the pain in not unbearable and it will go away additionally remember that there is nothing dirty about oral sex between a man and his wife there are various techniques and tricks that my wife performs on me that make the experience absolutely incredible the term variety is the spice of life can be applied to oral sex as well biting and sucking the penis open mouth breathing with penis inserted licking the frenulum while sucking going deep then pulling off slowly allowing the penis to slip through your teeth gripping the penis with your hand while sucking rubbing his nipples while sucking and holding ice cubes or