 [ Symptoms ] i am 24 and married but feel as if my sex drive is dwindling any reasons as to why  my sex life with my wife is just getting worse my drive performance and stamina has been going steadily downhill and its emotionally straining on both of us i never had any issue until i was married and now i do not have the drive and my performancestamina is pitiful not what it used to be short lasting sometimes loss of erection or lack of one completely i work out at least 3x a week and eat fairly healthy i am 73 and weigh 180 190 fluctuates and i do smoke hope to quit soon help [ Disease ] one thing to examine is the chemical attraction is this still at pretty much the same levels as when this relationship started or has it deteriorated too new post marriage annoying personality physical andor behavioral discoveries could impact chemical attraction and lead to difficiencies in otherwise perfectly normal individuals you may want to in addition to testing your t levels re assess that side of the relationship