 [ Symptoms ] my mom has one hip is a little higher up than the other and it hurts [ Disease ] hi i can understand your concern i guess the dementia and other associated neurological issues at this age are causing these complaints he should be taking drugs to calm himself and the brain down for this he will need a proper counsellor who could do the job he needs to be motivated for getting checked and to take proper medicines and i dont think anybody else other than a professional counsellor can do it thanks