 [ Symptoms ] what is my risk of exposure from protected insertive anal in which the condom broke and receptive unprotected fellatio  when i noticed the condom was broken i stopped immediately though i am unsure of how long it had been broken  minutes seconds how worried should i be about hiv should i get tested and how long should i wait 3 months  my partner showed his negative results to me and he mentioned the test occurred this past month but i know that any sexual encounters within 3 months of the test date might not show up on the results and i do not know his exact level of sexual activity since testing [ Disease ] most helpful answer no unfortunately herpes can be transmitted to the cervix or vagina of a women a place where shower water or soap would not be protective in any way for a man exposed to a woman with active herpes sex in a shower may reduced the viral load on the skin surface for the penis but herpes can still develop if the person is susceptible if one sexual partner has herpes using a condom is an effective preventive measure even in the shower