 [ Symptoms ] i am on the pill and a condom was used pregnant  i have been on the pill for over 5 years i am pretty good with taking it on time but occasionally i will forget a day but immediately take it when i realize ive missed it last weekend saturday i was about an hour late taking my bc the next day i had sex he was wearing a condom a week later getting cramps and what not like a period i usually take the pills continuously but i am scared so i am going to let myself have a period hopefully i am about to start the sugar pills today [ Disease ] i am so sorry to hear about your childhood molestation so i can understand that oral sex with your husband could surface some of those past demons having a consentual caring sexual relationship with your husband is not the same i trust that your husband will be respectful and understanding about your reluctance i can assure you that semen is harmless in your mouth but your husband does not have to ejaculate he can control it you will not get any disease causing germs from this practice in a monogamous relationship with your husband consentual oral sex is safe and can be pleasurable for both of you this would be a new sexual experience for you so if you are emotionally ready take little steps at first