 [ Symptoms ] i have pain in my throat but only when i swallow it feels like a lump above my adam is apple what could it be  i also have difficulty getting food down because of the pain i tried cold medicine and rub on my chest but nothing has helped i could not get in to my doctor and he is out of town for a month please help [ Disease ] hi this can happen just sit back and relax the more you worry then it wont happen the thing to do is stop trying relax enjoy your love life and just carry on with life that way when it does happen it will be a complete surprise to both of you give it a year then get some tests could be your vaginal mucus being to thick could be a low sperm count could be a reaction with your mucus and his sperm there is lots of things but timing could be at the root of it you could be making love to frequently like trying to hard so just sit back spot trying and see what happens do hope this helps good luck