 [ Symptoms ] i am beginning to notice that i am losing strength in my hands things fall out of them what is wrong with me  if i am holding on to something and apply medium low pressure it slips out my hands or i just can not maintain grip when i become upset or angry my hands swell up noticeably and the condition worsens i am 31 years old 32 in january hispanic 61 255 lbs heart disease and diabetes run in my family please tell me what could be wrong with me   [ Disease ] hi do go see your doctor for a blood test for your hormones it could be your going through the change yes the menopause may have court up with you but a blood test will tell all hope this helps you good luck