 [ Symptoms ] i have red spots on my penis one scab i have been tested for stds it came back negative i need a answer please [ Disease ] gonorrhea is a sexually transmitted disease so if you truly have an accurate diagnosis of gonorrhea involving your penis you did not get it from kissing a girl twice unless this kiss involved your genitals and she had pharyngeal gonorrhea non sexually transmitted gonorrhea is technically possible if you had penile contact with fresh secretions like a toilet seat or wearing someone is contaminated underwear but as you can imagine this rarely if ever happens so if you are being 100 honest and i assume that you are then i would have no idea how you got it if you had a throat culture that grew out neisseria the genus of gonorrhea then it will need more thorough laboratory testing since there can be an innocent gram negative bacterial species of neisseria that grows in the throat that is not gonorrhea