 [ Symptoms ] why i have to wate for an hour or 2 hrs after having sex  i was wondering why i can ownley have sex once then i have to wate for an hour or 2 to buld back up after having sex i leak for about 5 to 10 min why is this [ Disease ] you may have ruptured your eardrum so it would be wise to see your medical provider it is not a true emergency but it would be good to be seen today or in the next two days this is really the only way to determine the extent of the damage with that said most traumatic ruptures of the eardrum will heal over time but you need to give up this unnecessary habit of using q tips