 [ Symptoms ] anus bleeding i have had some anus bleeding the past couple of months it is just a small amount and every so often i can feel a tear at the very end of my anus and can tell that is were the blood is coming form it seems as if this tear keeps reopening every so often could the be major medical issue or is it just a cut that is not healing fully and is get torn again i really am do not not want to tell anyone and i am an 18 year old male but under parents medical plan so i would have to tell them first [ Disease ] no your saliva is not always carrying the herpes viruses most of the time you are capable of speading the virus when you have an active lesion although there is some evidence that this virus can spread even when there is not an active lesion to make your life simple do not kiss anyone when you have a herpes lesion on your lip but otherwise kiss them without guilt