 [ Symptoms ] i am having left sided chest pain on the inner side of the shoulder what could cause this  when i have this pain off and on i also get a rapid heart beat and the sweats if i cough the pain and rapid heart beat stops [ Disease ] hi this is from webmd but dose seem you have both been let down but if you had both been thinking hygiene you would not be here now from webmd you can have a fulfilling sex life if you have genital herpes even though it may always use a latex condom for vaginal sex anal sex and receiving fellatio  make sure you wash the toy before and after and do not share it sorry for you both you have been ley down good luck