 [ Symptoms ] i have a light brown spot on my earlobe that is hard to the touch and sorta swollen what is it its painful it appeared a while ago and feels kinda hard what is it when i itch it it sounds flaky it is very small please help [ Disease ] hi unless you need condoms for safe sex ro for bc the go to www pegym com look under exercises for edging its a very simple exercise to help you last longer without anything else you can even get your gf or wife to help do it that brings this into the bedroom either as fore play get it right and your be free of pe also try kegels why your there on site under the same page or pages this will help you pump more blood into your penis and help with ejaculations it dose work hope this helps you good luck