 [ Symptoms ] i really want to start having children but do not want to rely on birth control to regulate my cycle [ Disease ] you should consult a gynaecologist and get a proper hormonal profile and transvaginal ultrasound done to rule out the exact cause of the irregular menstruation treatment of the underlying cause will help in planning for getting pregnant taking oral contraceptives can simply regulate your periods but will not helps in getting pregnant therefore proper investigations and fertility treatment is a must hope this information helps regards