 [ Symptoms ] what is the average hospital bill for someone treated in an emergency room for flu but not admitted overnight [ Disease ] as a couple you both have a problem but it may take a few visits to a counselor to work it out if you can convince him to do it may be difficult if he is excessively masturbating and watching porn then he may have a warped view of sex that needs addressing while there is nothing wrong with self pleasure he seems to be preferring masturbation of intimacy with his wife for women sex is the most intimate form of communication and you and your husband are not communicating very well you may be having sex in ordered to be loved and touched and this is not happening i do not think you are too emotional you both can have a mutually pleasurable sex life again but you will need to work out some barriers first if he cares about you he will participate in some problem solving