 [ Symptoms ] what causes uncontrollable diarrhea vommiting dark bloodclotting in stools swellingbulge in lower rt side back  swelling in the abdomen with contracting pains during and after stool is released loss of appetite and some weight loss i do not know hat to do she can not get into a gastronologist until the end of january [ Disease ] you tell them with honesty and remorse if you are the one that exposed them remember that exposure does not always end up causing disease in another person maybe they will not get it or maybe they already had herpes and did not tell you clearly when you tell someone that you may have inadvertently exposed them to a sexual transmitted disease it will not be easy both of you are a bit responsible however since it appears you may not have practice safe sex no condoms if you just found out where did you get it open and honest communication in a private area not work  is important