 [ Symptoms ] how to tell if you have arthritis my hands and fingers hurt all the time i can no longer fully close my right fist i can not snap my fingers or open jars or bottles when working with small items my fingers and hands cramp up on me [ Disease ] i have no way of making a comment on your husband is fidelity but i can tell you that molluscum lesions can be contracted in other ways by direct skin to skin contact it does not have to be sexual contact i see these quite often in school age children most likely acquired by one of their playmates you could have contracted them from one of your patients