 [ Symptoms ] my partner is unable to put his penis in me because i find it very painful and almost unbearable i have been sexually inactive for twelve years and am active now but when my partner tries to put his penis in me i find it painful and almost unbearable have had bleeding a few times is it possible that my vagina shrunk after so many years of inactivity and it does not help that my partner is well endowed can you advise me as to what i should or could do  [ Disease ] a man with functioning testicles is always producting sperm an ejaculation depletes some but not all of the sperm sperm and semen is replenished quite rapidly an amount that varies from man to man