 [ Symptoms ] if i have pid is it too late did it affect my fertility it is been 3 12 years and i am scared  last time i had sex was 3 12 yrs ago guy told me next day he had gonorrhea blamed it on me though i never had it i did not go to a doctor and just got antibiotics from a pharmacy i am scared now do not really have colored discharge but sometimes smell is not too pleasant and i am scared that i might have pid and be infertile is it too late how long does the pid have to go untreated for it to affect fertility the thought of never being able to have children scares me [ Disease ] hii think the best thing you can do is get to an stdgum clinic get them to do some tests this will highlight any kind of infections you may now have this guy you last had sex with may have been a carrier and he could have passed it on to you you can be a carrier and not know it it has a thing about hiding in tests gonorrhea that is but p[lease get tested yourself this would be a big release for you to know how you stand if you clear then you can get back to having a sex life there is nothing better for us humans than having a good sex life very good for us do hope this helps good luck