 [ Symptoms ] intercourse i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and i do not enjoy having intercourse every time he tries i scream cry that it hurts and i push him away i have been to gyno 4 times but never gone through a check up because i screamcry and push the doctor away also i do not wear tampons i am not a virgin i am tired of this problem that is preventing me from living a normal life someone mentioned hypnotherapy is that a possible solution please help [ Disease ] you must first permit a proper examination so this may involve bringing a trusted friend with you get a compassionate female medical provider and even ask for an anti anxiety medication before your gynecological visit this is not an uncommon problem and the causes can be very complex both medical and psychological    not something that can be easily solved over the internet the medical name for this condition is dyspareunia if you are to have a satisfying sexual life it is important that you follow through and see a specialist in this area