 [ Symptoms ] why am i unable to have an orgasam after enjoying complete orgasams previously  up until i injured my back 3 yrs ago i had no problems enjoying sex i still enjoy it and my husband and i still use different stimulations for pleasure i get right to the edge and just can not go farther no matter what we do this is very frustrating for my husband as well i am 60 and my doctor says i do not need hrt [ Disease ] i am sorry to hear you are experiencing this how frustrating being able to enjoy a normal sex life is a very important part of our overall health so your situation definitely merits further investigation you did not say whether you injured your upper or lower back but since your sexual problems seem to correlate with the back injury i would suggest you ask your doctor to investigate whether you may have damaged any nerves in the lower back that relate to sexual arousal this could be a possible cause for your symptoms i do believe it is true that orgasms for both sexes become less strong as we get older and may take longer to achieve but since you are getting right to the brink but can not get over the edge i do not think aging is the issue here i think you should see your doctor again wishing you all the best