 [ Symptoms ] i am about to get intimate with a guy for the first time really nervous about hiv and other nasties what shd i do  i am a male 25 years old never had sex with a man before i met this amazing guy online and we immediately connected i am not aware of his sexual history i am meeting him soon and i do not want to offend him in any way but we have a mutual urge to have sex kindly help [ Disease ] it is not uncommon for the urethra to become irritated to the point of causing burning soaps masturbationsexual activity lubricants condoms etc all can cause burning i am pleased that you were properly tested a urinary tract infection is uncommon in males but if you are having unprotected sex you are always at risk for an std chlamydia being the most common