 [ Symptoms ] hi i am not sure if i have genital herpes or not basically around may i developed sores around the buttocks i had blood tests may 7th culture testmay 14th and even a biopsy june 12th but all were negative for herpes i was prescribed mupirocin and the sores went away after 2 weeks last week sept 21 i had sores that looked and felt similar to the ones before but less severe this time i used the mupirocin and they went away after a few days i am worried do i have herpes even after all of those tests were negative [ Disease ] allow your partner to take an active role on putting on that condom for you and continue active foreplay with the condom on until you achieve an adequate erection again there is even a way for a partner to put on your condom with the mouth during oral sex there is no physical reason why you would be losing your erection but there may be psychological reasons take your time do not hurry sexual activity a supportive and understanding partner can go a long way in helping you correct this issue