 [ Symptoms ] my husband wants me to have oral sex will i get sick if he comes in my mouth i was physically and sexually abused as a child my husband knows about this he has asked if i would preform oral sex for him will i get sick if he comes in my mouth are there germs that can also make me sick when i was forced to do this as a child and my dad crammed his dick in my mouth and came i threw up and began to chock i was also afraid that i would get pg [ Disease ] i am so sorry to hear about your childhood molestation so i can understand that oral sex with your husband could surface some of those past demons having a consentual caring sexual relationship with your husband is not the same i trust that your husband will be respectful and understanding about your reluctance i can assure you that semen is harmless in your mouth but your husband does not have to ejaculate he can control it you will not get any disease causing germs from this practice in a monogamous relationship with your husband consentual oral sex is safe and can be pleasurable for both of you this would be a new sexual experience for you so if you are emotionally ready take little steps at first hi if your husband knows your past history with oral sex then he should not be asking you to perform oral sex on him if he persists then it could end up breaking you marriage and i am sure he would like to do that sit down with and ask him to be sensible over this and as he know the reasons behind what he is asking just tell him to back off oral sex is not the only way you can please him but male semen is quite safe no germs wont make you fat or give you a big bust just has some nutrients in it and not a lot else ok if you do go that way to please him just tell not to ejeculate in your mouth there is a certain fill to his erection just before he ejeculates you should find it gets just a little stiffer in his erection just in case he is in his own world and you should fill the first pulse as he starts to ejaculate this is down to the filling through your mouth or ask him to tell you when he is getting close then finish him by hand do hope this helps good luck p { margin bottom 0 08in }alink { } p { margin bottom 0 08in }alink { } semen is not be a problem if he is disease free however that being said swallowing semen is probably not as widespread as some would like you to think i know that my wife does not like it and i do not force her to do it   that is nothing for her to be ashamed of during oral sex she swallows all the pre ejaculate clear fluid with no problem occasionally when i kegel a heavy burst of pre ejaculate will flow out and sometimes she will have to back off a little to swallow it but the few times she has attempted to swallow semen has resulted in gagging – there is just too much thick fluid being introduced into the back of the throat to handle at one time when the penis is inserted 2 3 inches or more   unless you are