 [ Symptoms ] ten year old will not potty train i have a friend who has a child and has tried everything to potty train this child and cannot get her to stop using the bathroom in her clothes recently put her in diapers but she is 10 something has been to be done asap it has gotten to the point where it is causing her medical problems such as uti is and she has also began her cycle too on top of all this she has no clue what so ever to do anymore suggestions [ Disease ] hi well she either is pregnant or she is not it would really depend on just how much the was to saliva as saliva kills sperm all you can do is ask her if she miss is her next period to get tested good luck