 [ Symptoms ] does coconut shampoo deter head lice i really need to know if coconut shampoo and conditioner keep head lice away [ Disease ] i am sorry to hear you are going through this it sounds very uncomfortable and i am glad to hear you are seeing a specialist because you need to get to the bottom of what is going on a couple of points it is entirely possible the symptoms are unrelated to the unprotected sexual encounter whenever we humans experience new symptoms we tend to want to attribute their cause to any recent unusual experience however it is entirely possible for physical symptoms to arise independent of any coincidental event when the lining of the bladder becomes irritated it can stay irritated for some time when a person empties his bladder frequently it can allow the lining of the flaccid bladder to rub against itself which can cause further irritation i suggest you try ignoring the urge to urinate frequently and instead allow your bladder to collect a fair amount of fluid before you let it out although it may feel uncomfortable at the time you may discover it eventually gives you some relief it is good news that you tested negative for various types of infections and that you have no fever that pretty much rules out any infectious processes going on i hope you get some answers from the urologist i have worked with patients who had bladder symptoms like you describe and they eventually just cleared up on their own maybe this will be the case for you too wishing you well