 [ Symptoms ] why is my gf so sensitive that when i touch her anywhere she gets uncomfortable & loses any desire to get intimate  when we get intimate my girlfriend sometimes loses all arousal because when i touch her it feels uncomfortable on her skin  she has also never had an orgasm if we move too fast at first it hurts her even with lubricant but if i increase foreplay she loses arousal because touching her body anywhere makes it uncomfortable for her [ Disease ] probably but i do not know any of your medical history i can tell you that benadryl has been known to effect your rem dream state sleep so people who routinely use this antihistamine as a sleep aid do not sleep as deeply as they should talk to your medical provider there may be some better alternative for you to get a more restful sleep