 [ Symptoms ] shap abdominal pain in upper left side of a male  during intercourse sometimes not all the time i have sharp pain in my upper left hand side of my abdomen its sometimes excruciating and i dont tell my fiancee while we are making love is this a problem are there any treatments also when i have these pains im not able to ejaculate as often and i hate not being able to especially when she is ovulating what may be the cause of that [ Disease ] hi just wait it could be a hic cup with your period it is possible to miss one here and there just missing one does not mean your pregnant it could also be from having anal sex it just upset your system if it was you first time but next time use some ky jelly your find the slip a lot better go to www dodsonandross com on the if you look down the left hand side you will see anal sex give this a good read you may find some help do hope this helps you good luck