 [ Symptoms ] tapering off taper candesartan horrible neurological symptoms appear [ Disease ] it is probably your current boyfriend just a guess but your previous boyfriend could have spread it to you as well and the virus has not reared its ugly head until now needless to say one of them gave it to you and you are partially responsible too since you permitted unprotected sex if your current boyfriend refuses to be tested this is just a like a suspected drunk driver refusing a blood alcohol test according to the law refusal to be tested is equivalent to guilt since herpes often accompanies other stds you would be wise to be tested for more than just herpes