 [ Symptoms ] hello i cannot find any info concerning frequent erections ie how to stop or slow them down  my girl friend lost all interest during menopause and i wont go elsewhere or masturbate but i feel like im going out of my mind [ Disease ] i am sorry you are going through this it sounds very distressing the only decent advice i can give you is to see a counselor or psychotherapist who has experience treating sexual issues i applaud your commitment to your girlfriend not to cheat on her but i also hasten to reassure you masturbation is normal i also recognize some religions frown on self pleasure so if this is an issue to you i again suggest you see a counselor you also could make an appointment with your primary health care provider to discuss this issue it is possible there is some type of medication that can be given to reduce the male sex drive i am not aware of what this might be again i think you are being very noble by honoring your girlfriend you also deserve to have your needs met however and for that reason i hope you seek out a therapist who can help you sort through this wishing you all the best