 [ Symptoms ] my husband wants me to have oral sex will i get sick if he comes in my mouth i was physically and sexually abused as a child my husband knows about this he has asked if i would preform oral sex for him will i get sick if he comes in my mouth are there germs that can also make me sick when i was forced to do this as a child and my dad crammed his dick in my mouth and came i threw up and began to chock i was also afraid that i would get pg [ Disease ] i am so sorry to hear about your childhood molestation so i can understand that oral sex with your husband could surface some of those past demons having a consentual caring sexual relationship with your husband is not the same i trust that your husband will be respectful and understanding about your reluctance i can assure you that semen is harmless in your mouth but your husband does not have to ejaculate he can control it you will not get any disease causing germs from this practice in a monogamous relationship with your husband consentual oral sex is safe and can be pleasurable for both of you this would be a new sexual experience for you so if you are emotionally ready take little steps at first