 [ Symptoms ] should i put my son back in pull ups  my four year old son was fully potty trained until my husband and i started our divorce the daycare he attends wants to put him back into pull ups but i feel that would be back tracking what should i do [ Disease ] it is okay to use pull ups in day care for now otherwise you may be looking for another place for him to be during the day many day care facilities require that he be completely potty trained he is going through a very rough time with the divorce so this may take time and understanding if need be you can consult a child psychologist to help him but things should improve absolutely no punishment if he soils or wets a pull ups but positive reinforcement is important when he does use the potty do not talk about the divorce in front of him or allow him to overhear you on the phone when you are talking to your friends reassure him that his parents love him and that this will not change he may be very worried about moving or living in two different houses so you need to help him the divorce was not his fault but he is suffering too