 [ Symptoms ] could i have your opinion on my erectile dysfunction and low libido [ Disease ] there are natural ways of contraception like the rhythm method or coitus interruptus pulling out before ejaculation but most people who practice these less than perfect methods end up being parents non vaginal sex like oral sex mutual masturbation etc is effective but perhaps not enjoyable as good ol fashioned intercourse you can use a diaphragm or a cervical cap basically you both need to see a good gynecologist or visit planned parenthood for a consultation birth control pills when properly prescribed are safe the do not have high risks of side effects like you believe there are few natural ways of preventing pregnancy since getting pregnant is really the natural way humans are designed to conceive not to prevent pregnancy