 [ Symptoms ] i had anal sex and now i cant seem to go to the bathroom please help 22 year old male 1 wk ago i had anal sex with my partnersubmissive i would like to note we used a new lubricant and also it was not rough within the end of the day i begun having pretty bad stomach aches i went to dr for irritability within my abdomen tests were ran and everything came out normal have not had a bowel movement in nearly a week   despite the feeling of having to go  i may have a small hemroid on outside and it appears the hole is being obstructed i can pass gas thanks [ Disease ] i would suggest that you see your medical provider so that you can have your rectum examined or have a flat plate x ray of your abdomen no bowel movement for a week would seem to indicate a possible stool impaction but your comment about the anal area being obstructed concerns me that you could have a foreign body do you think this is possible  or even a rectal prolapse even if you are carefully examined a week ago it would be good to be re examined something is amiss