 [ Symptoms ] do i have costochondritis [ Disease ] unfortunately you can genital herpes can end up on your mouth through oral sex for instance and it is possible for this to happen even when you do not have active lesions this is the chance that you will both need to take if this was your underlying concern you have most likely seen many people with cold soresor fever blisters these are typically type 1 herpes lesions but you can get type 2 lesions genital types on your mouth with that said you are both actively producing antibodies to suppress the genital outbreaks theoretically this should limit the spread to other areas but not totally eliminate the possibility the fact that you both have herpes not at least solves part of the problem if one of you has active lesions i am sure that sexual activity would not be high on your to do list at least until you are better are you both taking suppression drugs these are daily anti herpes medicines you can take to limit recurrent outbreaks