 [ Symptoms ] i have been diagnost with genital herpes and i was wondering if i give my partner oral sex if it would infect him too  i was just recently told i have genital herpes and my partner may have it too but he has not been tested yet i was the first to show signs because females show signs more then males do it seems [ Disease ] many things but a femoral or direct inguinal hernia or an enlarged inguinal lymph node would be high on the list of possibilities you would need a medical examination to know for sure