 [ Symptoms ] where can i find support for living with genital herpes [ Disease ] no you are born a certain way based on your genetics if you do not like your genitals then choose different parents if you are fat down there then you can lose weight and improve the length of your penis but there is nothing you can do taking herbs will not improve your penile length weights on the end of your bed while you sleep will not improve it the vacuum devices that they sell will not do it you are born with what you are born with and rather than stress and fret about problems or perceived inadequacies you really should be focusing on ways of finessing what you have got to make yourself and your partners happy what you can do is be healthy take care of yourself learn other techniques to enhance the relationship it is not just all about penile length there is other things that you can do during lovemaking that will enhance pleasure for the female partner if that is what it is all about if it is just simply wanting to feel proud in the shower in front of other guys then you just have to understand that that is who you are that is how you were born and rather than spending your energy and time focusing on what you do not have focus on what you do have