 [ Symptoms ] my dad is an alcholic and ill we think he has liver kidney and heart problems how long does he have to live  he refuses to see a doctor but is very fatigued and is in bed all day he also has developed a strange bruise on his chest near his heart his appetite had diminished and he has lost a lot of weight he also has yellowingpuffy eyes he continues to drink daily vodka he has high blood pressure and has most of his life i also think he is losing his mental capabilities i just would like to know how much time i have left with him [ Disease ] i am so sorry to hear about the loss of your first child if you and your wife are actively trying to get pregnant again it is not the number of sexual encountersejaculations in 24 hours that is the issue but rather your timing it only takes one sperm and you may be producing hundreds of millions each time and one egg at the time of your wife is ovulation yes men do have refractory periods after an ejaculation that can range in time from a half hour to many hours but again this is not a marathon do not worry about the number of times that you and your wife have sex but the quality of that specially timed encounter