 [ Symptoms ] my boyfriend is premature ejaculation problem i am starting to get a little bit concerned now because my other half ejaculates before we even do anything    i mean literally anything we will be lying in bed cuddlingspooning like every other couple does but he will just ejaculate out of nowhere    we havent had sex in well over a month now which is quite annoying considering we havent been together that long we used to have sex which would last 10 mins max if i was lucky but we dont even get to that stage now he is only 31 help  [ Disease ] there can be many reasons for premature ejaculation but unfortunately i would not be able to sort them out for your boyfriend over the internet his problem could simply be over excitation there are several techniques that you can find on the internet to help delay ejaculation but i have one simple suggestion who said that a man can only have one ejaculation continue to be intimate after this early ejaculation allowing time for a refractory period soon he will be ready and able to try again this second time will most likely take longer he can also spend more time pleasing you first