 [ Symptoms ] my husband does not want sex but does not want me to masturbate we have been married 10 months what do i do  he does not pursue me often maybe once every week and a half i will not cheat on him physically but have i mentally by thinking about sex with someone else yes i have and thats just as bad i do not know what to do with this burning desire for sex this natural god given desire that should not be unfulfilled in marriage he does not want me to masturbate so i do not because i know it hurts him but he also does not want me so here i am stuck with this unquenched desire for sex what do i do [ Disease ] hi seems your a sexual mismatch and if is never going to change and you want sex then sorry it would be best to walk away i know your married and perhaps love him deeply but i do not think from what you saying its that deep if your having thought of sex with another sit down with him and put your cards on the table like you wont a better sex life our your out of there i cant see any other way for you good luck