 [ Symptoms ] can a man get a uti if his wife has a kidney infection [ Disease ] as much as i would like to help you it would be impossible for me or any medical professional to be able to determine the reasons for your unwellness blindly over the internet you will need to keep working with your doctors    those who know you and your medical history and those that have the ability to examine you first hand and order any additional diagnostic tests    until these issues are solved i know this is frustrating for you but some medical conditions defy an easy and quick explanation