 [ Symptoms ] i am having terrible ear and neck pain chest pains and i have a lump in my left breast what could this mean  i have a mammogram appointment in a few days i have also been having pain in my groin area i have a huge family history of cancer and i am scared to death [ Disease ] it used to be said that when it dried it died but that is not always true for some micro organisms which can remain dormant for hours or even days after being contaminated sexual toys would need to be appropriately disinfected before using them again just in case in your posted scenario you are probably fine it is wise to be cautious and every wiser to have any future partner use a condom