 [ Symptoms ] what are the odds that i gave my ex the virus when he had an outbreak two weeks before me  my ex got a large swollen red area on the outside of his shaft and a week later he got a pustule like bump two weeks total time of his symptoms i got an open headed blister on my labia i am also suffering from extremely enlarged lymph nodes and incredible muscle stiffness and soreness what are the chances i gave him this virus if he got break outs two whole weeks before me [ Disease ] hi that is putting a big load on your shoulders to say this then you must have something if you both have something that is an std then get to an stdgum clinic asap good luck