 [ Symptoms ] we have free health insurance based on our income i am confused about what i will do for insurance now i make minimum wage what will i do to get coverage for me and my family of three now do i need to apply under the exchange i can hardly afford the basic needs of my family and have to depend on government welfare like food stamps and free lunch for my child what can i do to keep health insurance like what we have we have united healthcare community plan tenncare medicaid benefit from tennessee i am very worried and confused about the new law where can i get clear information and help [ Disease ] i do not know that i see many parents making mistakes but i like to let parents know it is completely normal to feel helpless and frustrated and at your wits end when a baby keeps crying when you feel like that it may be time to call for help and hand the baby over to grandparents or friends and it is ok after awhile to allow your baby to learn to soothe themselves i have had parents come in with an 8 month old baby and they say “i can not put her down or she will cry ” but by about 6 or 8 months you need to let babies learn how to be alone and soothe themselves do not be afraid to put crying babies down    as long as you know they are safe the crying is not going to hurt them finally never shake a baby this is a form of child abuse and it is very dangerous to the baby when you are frustrated and do not know what to do    when you get to that point give yourself a break