 [ Symptoms ] i lose my erection after i wear condom on my penis m a 21 year old boy whenever i wear condom on my penis i lose my erection resulting i cannot have sex me and my partner tried to have sex 3 to 4 times but we dint had sex as i lose my erection without condom there is no erection problem but we cant have sex without condom is there any possibility that this erection problem is because of masturbation i m masturbating from last 4 or 5 years almost daily once in a day please suggest me what should i do to have a good and long erection with condom [ Disease ] i tend to go with what the expert tells me whether it is an md or a quantum physicist because they have far greater training and expertise in their fields than i do if your ob doc says it is ok for your wife to have caffeine sushi and a drink then i would tend to rely on that advice however the larger issue here is when is it appropriate to question a physician the answer anytime it is not unusual to leave the doctor is office and later feel conflicted or unsettled by what you have been told and it is perfectly fine to call your doctor is office back to express your conflicted feelings and ask for clarification doctors do not mind this at least good caring doctors do not if you want to be perfectly safe your wife can err on the side of caution and avoid caffeine sushi and alcohol just because the doctor said she could consume them does not mean she must consume them make sense best wishes with the pregnancy hi the best thing is to live your life as normal relax and enjoy yourselves this way you will get pregnant the only time you need to watch things are if your having problem with either of your health is and told to leave certain foods alone but just enjoy and take things in moderation hope this helps you good luck hi i am very sorry got the bit about being so pregnant wrong this is what comes of answering late at night but as you are pregnant its still the same answer take things in moderation as they say been there and done that brought up 3 kids all very healthy now with there own kids who have kids yes makes us great gran parents gave them the same advice just take life as it comes and when your pregnant look after yourselves do not over do things good luck