 [ Symptoms ] why is my 19 year old fainting when he runs  he gets heaviness in his ears and can not hear anything right before fainting [ Disease ] i wish that i had better news for you it is a certainty that you did everything you could to help your son before he passed away and now you are facing the same scary situation again unfortunately sometimes despite our most valiant efforts to help a sick family member they seem to be on a self destruct mission and will implode at 21 years old your grandson is all grown up and considered a man you cannot force him to change his reckless lifestyle or to seek professional help to be honest he seems to heading for either death or prison here are my recommendations to help with the challenges that he presents to you do not enable his behavior by giving him money or by helping him to circumvent his personal responsibilities keep yourself physically and emotionally safe if you feel that danger is in the air by way of your grandson then detach yourself from his life that may mean having him legally removed from your home having locks changed on your residence calling the police for help or by obtaining a restraining order sometimes mentally sick individuals along with their friends are capable of causing their well meaning family members physical emotional and legal harm do not blame yourself for his negative life style it is not your fault your grandson will exploit any guilt that you may display he is most likely morally bankrupt and will rob you of your physical property and health as well as your love for him i wish you well during this time of uncertainty