 [ Symptoms ] slept with a girl in feb 2009 never again after that and she got pregnant and she got pregnant in 052009  with her new boyfriend sometime in march 2011 and her boy in 032012 with someone else i all of a sudden got paranoid last week if the boy could possibly be mine in any possible wayresembled me a bit but i have had no relations whatsoever since feb 2009 onwards i have not spoken to her or touched her etc i was just wondering if there can be any possibilityi hope not please be honest thanks [ Disease ] anyone can get lupus but 9 out of 10 people who have it are women african american women are three times more likely to get lupus than white women it is also more common in hispaniclatino asian and american indian women both african americans and hispanicslatinos tend to develop lupus at a younger age and have more symptoms at diagnosis including kidney problems they also tend to have more severe disease than whites for example african american patients have more seizures and strokes while hispaniclatino patients have more heart problems