 [ Symptoms ] my boy friend had blusters on his penis and now it is painning could this be herpes after two different sets of blusters he now has pain on the head of his penis and inside has well he even has a high fever he did not have the blusters when we had sex but after coming home from work he did i think he cheated plz i need to no could this be herpes of some other hpv or std [ Disease ] it sure sounds like you are becoming menopausal one test that would probably help would be to do a blood test to measure your estrogen level estradiol and a hormone called fsh follicle stimulating hormone    made by the pituitary and as the ovaries stop working the pituitary gets working harder to try to stimulate them    and the fsh goes up if you are having bothersome symptoms estrogen would most likely help    and presuming you are basically in good medical health otherwise your health care provider could prescribe it to you another possibility as you mentioned that you were dealing with significant depression would be an ssri type antidepressant    it might well help with your mood and should also help some with hot flashes