 [ Symptoms ] i am unable to achieve and substain an erection during sex what are the main causes and solutions less masterbation  i am in my later 20 is and have yet to have sex in my life with a condom on and am forced to have sex without one which usually is not a problem for me does masterbation really effect your erections and sex drive during sex [ Disease ] no he is not likely getting sexually aroused little boys can have random erections all of the time ask the big boy in your life  children get pleasure from being snuggled so just snuggle him if it creeps you out if he is interested in the feet just say no one of my kids liked to play with other people is earlobes when he was little just re direct him or distract him away from those feet and i am he may give up this habit soon you are wise not to embarrass him so be tactful if he turns out to be an adult with a foot fetish someday not that uncommon he will most likely do it private and not bother anyone you will still love him anyway