 [ Symptoms ] what is the best time of day to have sex if you are trying to get pregnant  my husband and i have only been trying for 3 months but when i say trying i mean our sex life has remained steady 2 3 times a week and i stopped taking birth control we have not been tracking ovulation or taking body temperatures or anything like that we are ready to get a little more serious about trying though and i have heard that the time of day can make a difference true [ Disease ] if your doctor suspects that you have prostatitis or another prostate problem he or she may refer you to a urologist a doctor who specializes in diseases of the urinary tract and the male reproductive system to confirm the diagnosis patients typically undergo a comprehensive exam including a digital rectal exam the doctor will be able to evaluate whether the prostate gland is enlarged or tender then if the doctor is still not sure what you have more tests may be done such as a prostate fluid analysis for signs of infection transrectal ultrasound biopsy or voiding studies voiding studies involve the collection and analysis of urine to determine which part of the urinary system is infected