 [ Symptoms ] what is the safes way to clean your kids ears out with out them getting scared or freaking out [ Disease ] if you are talking about cleaning out your children is ear canals then my advice is do not  many people get overzealous about cleaning inside the ear in truth it is not necessary ear wax is produced naturally by the body to help protect the ear canal it normally will work its way from the inner part of the canal to the outer part of the ear where you can wipe it away with a damp towel using a cotton swab or any other implement to clean inside the ear can push the wax back into the ear or even rupture the eardrum all you need to do to clean a child is ears is take a soft damp cloth a gently wipe the part of the ear that you can see it is as simple as that i hope this helps