 [ Symptoms ] is decaf black tea safe with blood pressure meds i am currently taking atenolol and lisinopril to lower blood pressure i am looking for a safe decaf tea to drink that would not pose any side effects  thank you [ Disease ] i think you can push him with empathy to do things and that is ok do it without anger or nagging i would pick easy things i e this week honey can you do the dishes every morning it takes 10 minutes and would be helpful this should be an easy task in some ways but could be monumental for a depressive make sure you say thanks after a few days add something else routine that will help you i e make kids lunch or read them all a story at bed keep adding things slowly make sure after he does these things that you and kids say thanks i am glad dad that you helped we like it when you and that you are spending time i think you can explain to the kids that the crohns has daddy under the weather and he needs to hear nice things from us