 [ Symptoms ] my husband and i split our time between residences in two states sc and nj will there be any health insurance exchanges that will be countrywide [ Disease ] hi so ok your trying but this could be a missed period if your stressing your self it could be from that or just a simple skipped or missed period either of these do happen look just relax do not fret over getting pregnant some women can take up to 10 years to get pregnant so please just relax and enjoy this time because when a baby does come it will all change and very quickly be more relaxed and just let it happen and when it does you will know ok first day of your cycle is first day of your period yes and around day 14 give or take a day is ovulation day yes so you need to have sex around day 8 or 9 it takes male sperm 3 days to get in place and will live for 7 days so there there just waiting for your egg and yes some go to both ovaries so from then on it should be a piece of cake with luck your pregnant hope this helps you and relax good luck