 [ Symptoms ] so i just started dating one of my close guy friends 3 days ago and i know i am only 14 and about to start high school on wednesday so i should not be worrying about boys right now but two days before we started dating he kissed me and i felt bad for not wanting to date him but i kissed him so i did not want to make it seem like i am using him i am not that type of person but the thing is i want to keep it from my parents since i can not date until i am 16 so due to that i am very stressed out and i am getting nauseous over it since i want to tell them but the outcome will not be good so i am not going to tell them at all it is safe to say i really love this boy because we both skype every night and we have since the end of june maybe early july i am starting high school with him too but since we are both so bus we do not see each other so we skype so basically what i need advice on is how to overcome my nauseous feeling and constant stress that i am getting from the whole thing i have not really been able to eat or sleep much either from it and i am going to be more active in school so i obviously need a lot of sleep and food in my system at all times to avoid future health problems i have tried so many ways to keep my mind occupied i have watched youtube videos from famous youtuber a because they are so positive and it makes me happy i talk to my close friend and i talk to my bf as well but after i talk to him the stress comes back i have thought that maybe i am really doing this too soon and i should just wait but i do not want to break up with him because i feel like he will not understand where i am coming from and we will not even be friends afterwards i am just scared of losing him because it will be more stress for me and it is my first year in high school i do not want to fail because of it idk i am confused over it all someone please help asap i see him tomorrow morning at orientation and it is making me stress more [ Disease ] i would advise you to explore all the avenues of your life and not let one relationship define you and your health having said that i would suggest meditation and yoga exercise for relaxation take plenty of water and exercise daily please consult a psychologist if you feel you are being over run by your situation wishing you best of health thanks