 [ Symptoms ] i am a 13 year old girl who has not begun her period would it be safe to begin sexual interaction with my boyfriend  i am a thirteen year old girl who has not begun her period would it be safe to begin sexual interaction with my boyfriend we both have permission from our parents are prepared to prevent pregnancy by the use of condoms and have been together for two years at times we have become wet for each other if that helps any i want to know if it is safe to have him finger my clit and hit my g spot what are the dangers [ Disease ] maybe if the herpes virus was active at the time that virus may not always transmit to another person based on what you have shared that peck on the lips is not very likely to transmit the virus to you unfortunately only time will provide the definitive answer if you end up getting a similar herpetic lesion on your lip then the answer will be obvious there is really no need to stress out over this and there is nothing that you can do exposure does not insure that you will get herpes simplex the name for the lip lesion