 [ Symptoms ] i am struggling for 2 years now with pain in neck doctors keep giving me something for infection and spasm but it does not stop [ Disease ] hi i understand that you are very uncomfortable sharing this with anyone in family but in such cases self diagnosis is risky atleast you should consult a gynecologist once and get it diagnosed first if at all u have seperate hymen then you may get these symptoms these go away with age take antispasmodics tearing the hymen should occur naturally and do not try home methods thanks