 [ Symptoms ] can i give oral sex while in the recovery stage of a cold sore  i have had a cold sore for about 9 days now and i am still in the recovery stage  my girlfriend and i are both in different colleges and we are coming home for this labor day weekend we will not see eachother for a long time after this weekend so i just wanted to know if we should be limited in what we do i obviously do not want to give her genital herpes [ Disease ] i would advise you strongly to see a dermatologist quickly as it seems moles turning malignant and needs immediate treatment