 [ Symptoms ] problems keeping an erection i am an 18 year old male i weight 133 pounds and i am 58 i have problems keeping an erection it will get hard but it gets soft rather quickly without stimulation like a few seconds when it is hard it usually stays a sort of mostly hard but still soft penis i smoke cigarettes and marijuana but not to the extent where it would cause major damage i exercise 2 3 times a week and eat healthy although i do indulge in some junk food could i really have erectile disfunction at my age [ Disease ] it is difficult to answer your question without knowing the source of the spots on your lips if they are due to dryness and cracking your best option is to apply some sort of moisturizer in order to keep them soft and supple but to answer your question the way to stop bleeding whether it is on the lip or somewhere else is always the same apply direct pressure hold pressure on the site of the bleed for up to 5 minutes and it should stop in the case of the lip which moves constantly you may need to stop talking chewing or using your mouth temporarily to get the bleeding stopped if this is an ongoing problem i suggest you see a doctor many things can cause bleeding spots on the lips and you may need treatment best wishes to you