 [ Symptoms ] can i transmit hpv to my boyfriend through oral sex  i just found out i have the cancerous strain of hpv i am so scared and confused especially since i havent shared it with my boyfriend i am trying to gather as much information as i can before i tell him also what are his and my chances of developing genital warts knowing that the strain of hpv that i have is the one that could cause cancer or does that not make a difference thanks [ Disease ] you should get medical attention for your brother as soon as possible these symptoms could relate to a variety of ailments and only a health care professional doing a physical examination can give you a diagnosis any time a person is symptoms get worse or change suddenly it is worth a trip to the doctor is office in your brother is case this is especially true because his symptoms are causing him to be unable to walk i do not want to alarm you but i urge you to seek medical attention for your brother as soon as possible best wishes to you both