 [ Symptoms ] had intercourse with both genders will i transmit herpes to my kids [ Disease ] hi ivf is a process in which your own sperms will be used so even if you go for ivf there are chances that you may transmit the disease to your baby if your wife is not infected then you need to use sperms from a healthy sperm donor and then go for ivf with those sperms with your sperms being used its not impossible to get a herpes free baby but 50 50 chances of transmitiing it to your baby should also be considered thanks