 [ Symptoms ] normal to feel like im being topped anal sex for several days after the sexual event blood in stool 3 days later i bottom for anal sex a week ago  sex was normal until he hit a point deep inside me it was a pleasurable acute pain hard to describe  next day i felt fine yet i had this odd sensation i was being topped when i was walking driving whatever no blood felt fine odd feeling continued and 4 days after initial sex 3 blood chunks came out next day more blood again i feel fine no nausea no headaches no chills no fever no sores no cuts no loss of appetite no enlarged lympfh nodes [ Disease ] i am sorry this has been bothering you because there is really nothing you need to do regarding your diastolic blood pressure let me explain when we measure blood pressure we write it as one number over another 14080 the top number 140 is called the systolic pressure the bottom number 80 is called the  diastolic  pressure we often describe systolic pressure as the pressure inside your blood vessels at the moment the heart squeezes and pushes blood into the arteries this is the type of pressure that can cause damage to organs and tiny vessels when we talk about high blood pressure or  hypertension  we are mainly referring to the systolic pressure we often describe diastolic blood pressure as the pressure of the blood at rest in the vessels in between heart beats even when diastolic pressure is elevated above normal it generally is not considered a threat to health in fact with hypertension diastolic pressure almost always rises and falls along with systolic pressure what is important with your blood pressure numbers is this they are both trending downward that is what we always like to see in a person with high blood pressure so you are doing well give yourself a pat on the back and stop worrying about getting your diastolic numbers any lower you are doing a great job wishing you well