 [ Symptoms ] i am trying for a baby and after just a week after sex i seem too be having what seems like symptoms is this possible i have contacted my gp and because of recently having an implant removed he seemed too think it was my body returning too normal but i think it is more than this as i feel sick and keep having cramps in my stomach and i have slight pain in my back i have also had some slight spotting [ Disease ] hi ok with out your extra weight when it comes to our penis is that is the way were born ok nice of you to admit your overweightobese they say for each 10lbs we lose our penis is grow 12 an inch so you have something to aim for but your girth your girth is this something that you have noticed like before you gained weight was your penis thicker you first aim then would be to lose as much of you weight as you can set yourself a goal lets say 100lbs in 6 months ok your thinking wow 100lbs 6 months if you wont it you can do it diet exercise you will make it trust me there is some good plans around for extreme exercise there good and you will lose that weight in that time some guys have done that without diet interested you need to get off fast foods and junk foods get off the sodas remember 3 things 1 self control 2 self discipline 3 breaking bad habits these 3 small things are what you need to remember i do hope this helps and one last thing when you have lost the weight go to www pegym com your find lots of help there good luck